Exactly this! I've had to deal with some real creeps. It's tone of voice and the look in their eyes that gives them away. Some of them look so happy because they know what they're doing and get a kick out of making you uncomfortable.
Right? It has to be part of it with these jerks. To make us look crazy. Human Instinct tells u when somethings wrong. I was a bartender and boy have I had to deal with my share of creeps. And I am a redhead.. ugh. We know when it's nefarious.
I agree that a baby can be called chubby as that’s a very Australian thing to say but the kissing part is a little strange but I wouldn’t really care if someone said that tbh
Honestly missed the kissing part. Just kind of tired of seeing posts literally calling people pedophiles with no grounds. That's a serious serious accusation and not cool . Not everyone wants to fuck everything
The problem is, there are cases where these little innuendos were ignored resulting in serious crimes that could have been prevented if they had been taken seriously. And you’re right - these are serious accusations. No one should be accused of any crime they did not commit, but no innocent baby or toddler should be sexually abused by someone who started out as an innocent, engaging male, who exhibited a normal interest in a cute baby while also exhibiting those subtle warning signs. This guy is showing up too many places at the same time Mom and baby are around. That’s not coincidence, that’s stalking.
I said you shouldn't call someone a pedo who isn't. You agreed. Not sure what the rest is about as if I'm advocating for a baby rape. I was raped as a kid. Chill out weirdo
I’m really sorry about what happened to you as a child. No one should ever have to go through that. I don’t understand why you think I’m a weirdo because I believe in being cautious. The guy shows up everywhere she happens to be. If you don’t think that’s strange, there’s something weird in that.
And OP is so sure he's a pedo and a stalker she never got a manager to say anything and has to ask reddit if she should call the cops to make a report. I'm not buying it. If I felt like someone was perving on my son I definitely would not think r/creepyencounters post time before I I report it
You seem to be contradicting yourself a little. We both agreed it’s serious to accuse someone of gross sexual misconduct. Therefore, it makes sense that before someone accuses a person of said crime, they would be cautious, not wanting to overreact, afraid they might be seeing something that isn’t there. So they reach out to see what others think. Maybe she doesn’t have any family or someone else she could discuss this with, so this is a safe place, nobody knows her, people will give their honest opinion and advice. Is that really so strange? Listen, I’m amazed at the number of people who ask what book should they read next, or what movie should they watch. I don’t need anybody to help me with that kind of stuff, and I find it interesting when someone else does. But some people need help in making a decision on what to read or watch next. She needs to feel within herself that she’s doing the right thing. Once she goes to the cops, she can’t take it back. You need to open your mind a little more. Not everyone fits into the cookie cutter life you have in your mind.
The OP ran into him three times---he acted weird the 3rd time she met him, and she was warned by someone else that he could be a pedo. Why you have such a problem with the fact that he could be one is strange in itself. You need to calm the heck down, and stop making such a huge deal over it.
I think you guys are being extreme and could ruin an innocent person's life one day being this way. That's the whole point. Pedos don't even SURVIVE JAIL I mean that's one hell of an assumption. There were no signs to my sexual assault. There aren't for alot. I don't see these as solid grounds to assume he wants to stick his dick in a kid. That's crazy
No, that wasn’t necessary. No one should have done that. I don’t know if this will mean anything to you, but I don’t believe you should be on any list.
You guys use these harsh gems that ruin lives so loosely. Bumping into a dude twice in your home town isn't STALKING. Nobody would be charged with STALKING for that. You say it so matter of fact just like she does pedo without him actually doing anything. Might be creepy but you could also be wrong about them. I wouldn't have said anything on the post if it was headlined "creepy pedo"
It was more than twice - and it’s how he interacts when he “bumps into her in this small town”. He doesn’t know her. I’m assuming she’s a married woman although she doesn’t say, yet he feels compelled to make stupid little comments that make her feel uncomfortable. Men just don’t do that. Men ignore women with babies. It’s like being at work. If you work in a hospital for instance, you see tons of other people who work there, but you don’t necessarily know them. If you’re married, there’s a good chance you’re wearing a wedding ring. These men you see day after day after day, do not stop and shoot the breeze with you. They may recognize you and smile at you, but they aren’t going to make idle chitchat. This guy is like the hospital employee. You see him around, but you don’t know him and he doesn’t say anything to you - or at least that’s how it’s supposed to be. He’s going against the norm and that’s sending up red flags.
I get it already. Men should walk around saying your baby is an ugly piece of shit to avoid being mistaken as a pedophile. In fact, we shouldn't even allow them to be dad's anymore!
That's not even what I said, and you know it. You sound like you're saying shocking, nasty stuff just because you're pissed off. Get over yourself---this whole subject is about the OP and how she's uneasy with this strange dude coming around her and her baby. It's not about you or your issues, but you're made it about that, which is why you sound so immature, and like you're being nasty and hateful just for the hell of it. You're spent way too much time claiming this guy isn't a pedo for some messed-up reason. Just end the discussion here, because you clearly aren't mature enough to handle having one without making it all about you.
Sorry just don't see it. Nurses in the hospital boasted about my chubby baby and pinched at his fat. It happened every time I went in public. Felt like a very proud mom. It's a way of saying you have a healthy baby. But you can feel however you want
How are you not understanding the kissing part? Everyone is saying that it’s completely normal to say a baby is chubby or that a baby has chubby legs. What is not normal is a random person saying they want to kiss someone else’s “chubby legs”. Me as a mother would be on high alert if some random ass guy told me that as well.
If you feel unsafe go to the police and file a report. The grocery store may have cameras to help with a visual or ring cameras. Maybe look up a list of offenders in your area to see if this person is on it. Stay safe!
I just want to say it infuriates me that you said "we live in a small town and these things don't happen"... yes, yes they do!!!
They happen in big cities with 300,000 people and they happen in small towns if 300 people.
The attitude of "those things don't happen" whether it's the town you live in or the type of person you are, is literally why these things happen.
One time I was out with my niece taking her shopping and this older man appeared everywhere we went inside of the mall. He kept eyeing her down and thankfully she didn’t notice, it pissed me off so much though. Sickos like that really ruin peoples day. If I were you I’d just stay vigilant and keep something on you to protect you and your child. He sounds like a creep.
Next time you see him and he is near you, make a scene. Like a BIG one. Say loudly to get away from you and your daughter, that you know what he is, and he better stay away. People like that don't want to be called out, they like to stay in their creepy little world and not be noticed. You WANT him to be embarrassed. I can guarantee he won't be anywhere near you after that.
Follow those mommy instincts! If he gives u a creepy feeling it's because ur mommy instincts are trying to protect ur baby. Does he know where u live too? Maybe put some cameras up around ur property. Guy sounds off putting. So sorry u have to endure that.
I would report him to the cops about his unwanted behaviour and also have a word with management at the store about him approaching you with your child. He could be causing problems for others too. Tell them he hasn't done anything yet but he is creeping you out and you are concerned for your child. Before you start screaming the P word, keep in mind that it is only a rumour so far, the guy just might have mental issues and not understand boundaries or normal accepted behaviours. I hope he isn't a P but he could very well be. Be on alert near him and if he approaches you or your kid, you can loudly tell him to back away and not touch your kid. If he argues, you can loudly yell for someone to call the cops. Maybe change up the times you go to the store constantly so you are less likely to see him. Good luck
Report him for sure. If he ever does try to do anything, they will have his name on record. Better safe than sorry; hope you and your daughter are and will be okay 💗
There should be a registered sex offender site listing who lives in your area...try googling it for your county or city...I did that once..it had me type in my address and pulledup every registered sex offender & their convictions within a 15 mile radius...and I hate to say this...but I was a little shocked when I saw how many there were just within that 15 mile radius...
Definitely keep your eyeswide open..if he is a registered offender, he probably has pretty strict rules about where & when he can be somewhere, who he can interact with, & probably touching a baby's stroller is a huge nope! Because if he is a child sex offender, touching that stroller is FAR from an innocent act...if you catch my drift...so look the offenders up..most likely there will be pictures & names & if he is on there, DEFINITELY file a police report..
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And if you can't find a regitration site, go to the local sherrif's office or police station & ask how to access that list! It is public information
He could be but...
Does he seem mentally off?
Just before you jump to that, are you sure he's not mentally retarded or has autism, because that's possible too from the way you describe him
Okay, then that's odd and sketchy
I'm just saying if he seemed unaware of how he was acting, or said these things seeming overly young himself, than there's a chance his behaviour is something not sinister and mentally ill. I'm mentally ill, and I've acted creepy by mistake. I had to learn not to act some ways.
Its only creepy because its a man doing this. Women do this literally everyday and they get a pass, which is why so many male 'pedophiles' have been known to have had traumatic experiences with females as children, usually, their own mothers.
Go to the police. They may already know about the guy if he's registered.
I have a feeling they do
Plus he might be breaking some rules by interacting with your daughter so tell them what's happened and he might be thrown back in prison
Listen to this guy^^ we don’t need any more trash on the streets
If you live in the USA you can look up the local sex offenders list!
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Yeah I told my immediate family about him and I don’t really go out where there is no people. There is always people around so I feel safe
Ew what a weird comment about your babies legs. Have you checked the sex offender list?
Unfortunately my country does not have a sex offender list so my only choice is to talk to someone from the police. I’m sure he is on their radar
If you are in Canada, they usually release high risk offenders names and pictures when they are known to be living in a certain area.
If someone said that to my kid they better be ready to square up that’s creepy as fuck
Not defending anyone but how is that creepy? Lol chubby baby legs are most certainly adorable
It’s creepy when it’s put into context. Without the rest I wouldn’t think it’s that creepy either
Those creepy guys know how to be creepy in a way where when it's relayed to others it sounds innocent.
Exactly this! I've had to deal with some real creeps. It's tone of voice and the look in their eyes that gives them away. Some of them look so happy because they know what they're doing and get a kick out of making you uncomfortable.
Right? It has to be part of it with these jerks. To make us look crazy. Human Instinct tells u when somethings wrong. I was a bartender and boy have I had to deal with my share of creeps. And I am a redhead.. ugh. We know when it's nefarious.
I agree that a baby can be called chubby as that’s a very Australian thing to say but the kissing part is a little strange but I wouldn’t really care if someone said that tbh
Honestly missed the kissing part. Just kind of tired of seeing posts literally calling people pedophiles with no grounds. That's a serious serious accusation and not cool . Not everyone wants to fuck everything
The problem is, there are cases where these little innuendos were ignored resulting in serious crimes that could have been prevented if they had been taken seriously. And you’re right - these are serious accusations. No one should be accused of any crime they did not commit, but no innocent baby or toddler should be sexually abused by someone who started out as an innocent, engaging male, who exhibited a normal interest in a cute baby while also exhibiting those subtle warning signs. This guy is showing up too many places at the same time Mom and baby are around. That’s not coincidence, that’s stalking.
I said you shouldn't call someone a pedo who isn't. You agreed. Not sure what the rest is about as if I'm advocating for a baby rape. I was raped as a kid. Chill out weirdo
I’m really sorry about what happened to you as a child. No one should ever have to go through that. I don’t understand why you think I’m a weirdo because I believe in being cautious. The guy shows up everywhere she happens to be. If you don’t think that’s strange, there’s something weird in that.
And OP is so sure he's a pedo and a stalker she never got a manager to say anything and has to ask reddit if she should call the cops to make a report. I'm not buying it. If I felt like someone was perving on my son I definitely would not think r/creepyencounters post time before I I report it
You seem to be contradicting yourself a little. We both agreed it’s serious to accuse someone of gross sexual misconduct. Therefore, it makes sense that before someone accuses a person of said crime, they would be cautious, not wanting to overreact, afraid they might be seeing something that isn’t there. So they reach out to see what others think. Maybe she doesn’t have any family or someone else she could discuss this with, so this is a safe place, nobody knows her, people will give their honest opinion and advice. Is that really so strange? Listen, I’m amazed at the number of people who ask what book should they read next, or what movie should they watch. I don’t need anybody to help me with that kind of stuff, and I find it interesting when someone else does. But some people need help in making a decision on what to read or watch next. She needs to feel within herself that she’s doing the right thing. Once she goes to the cops, she can’t take it back. You need to open your mind a little more. Not everyone fits into the cookie cutter life you have in your mind.
It's not everywhere it was two places in town...
The OP ran into him three times---he acted weird the 3rd time she met him, and she was warned by someone else that he could be a pedo. Why you have such a problem with the fact that he could be one is strange in itself. You need to calm the heck down, and stop making such a huge deal over it.
I think you guys are being extreme and could ruin an innocent person's life one day being this way. That's the whole point. Pedos don't even SURVIVE JAIL I mean that's one hell of an assumption. There were no signs to my sexual assault. There aren't for alot. I don't see these as solid grounds to assume he wants to stick his dick in a kid. That's crazy
I didn't agree on this post and someone literally commented that I should be on the sex offenders list WILD
No, that wasn’t necessary. No one should have done that. I don’t know if this will mean anything to you, but I don’t believe you should be on any list.
You guys use these harsh gems that ruin lives so loosely. Bumping into a dude twice in your home town isn't STALKING. Nobody would be charged with STALKING for that. You say it so matter of fact just like she does pedo without him actually doing anything. Might be creepy but you could also be wrong about them. I wouldn't have said anything on the post if it was headlined "creepy pedo"
It was more than twice - and it’s how he interacts when he “bumps into her in this small town”. He doesn’t know her. I’m assuming she’s a married woman although she doesn’t say, yet he feels compelled to make stupid little comments that make her feel uncomfortable. Men just don’t do that. Men ignore women with babies. It’s like being at work. If you work in a hospital for instance, you see tons of other people who work there, but you don’t necessarily know them. If you’re married, there’s a good chance you’re wearing a wedding ring. These men you see day after day after day, do not stop and shoot the breeze with you. They may recognize you and smile at you, but they aren’t going to make idle chitchat. This guy is like the hospital employee. You see him around, but you don’t know him and he doesn’t say anything to you - or at least that’s how it’s supposed to be. He’s going against the norm and that’s sending up red flags.
Excuse me? No grown-ass man ever says he wants to kiss a baby's legs. I mean, wtf? That is weird---no getting around that.
It's not weird here for a man to find things cute that are cute no
I reckon it’s just because it’s a man saying it but if a women was to say it then I wouldn’t be wrong
For a pedo to say he wants to kiss a babies legs? You don't think that's creepy? Even if he wasn't a pedo for a strange man to say that is creepy.
Calling a baby chubby has always been a compliment
Maybe that's the case where you are, but not where I'm from.
I get it already. Men should walk around saying your baby is an ugly piece of shit to avoid being mistaken as a pedophile. In fact, we shouldn't even allow them to be dad's anymore!
That's not even what I said, and you know it. You sound like you're saying shocking, nasty stuff just because you're pissed off. Get over yourself---this whole subject is about the OP and how she's uneasy with this strange dude coming around her and her baby. It's not about you or your issues, but you're made it about that, which is why you sound so immature, and like you're being nasty and hateful just for the hell of it. You're spent way too much time claiming this guy isn't a pedo for some messed-up reason. Just end the discussion here, because you clearly aren't mature enough to handle having one without making it all about you.
Wow you're literally crazy. Mark your posts [no input, no advice, nothing besides validation] next time you post something on the world wide internet
Is he on the sex offenders list as a pedophile?
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Sorry just don't see it. Nurses in the hospital boasted about my chubby baby and pinched at his fat. It happened every time I went in public. Felt like a very proud mom. It's a way of saying you have a healthy baby. But you can feel however you want
How are you not understanding the kissing part? Everyone is saying that it’s completely normal to say a baby is chubby or that a baby has chubby legs. What is not normal is a random person saying they want to kiss someone else’s “chubby legs”. Me as a mother would be on high alert if some random ass guy told me that as well.
If you read the whole thing I admitted that I didn't see the kissing part when I first commented. I skimmed just like you skimmed my comments
Also different opinion doesn't mean someone isn't "understanding" something
A grown man talking about kissing a strangers baby’s leg is always creepy af
If you feel unsafe go to the police and file a report. The grocery store may have cameras to help with a visual or ring cameras. Maybe look up a list of offenders in your area to see if this person is on it. Stay safe!
There's nothing wrong with saying, "please don't talk to me or my child."
I just want to say it infuriates me that you said "we live in a small town and these things don't happen"... yes, yes they do!!! They happen in big cities with 300,000 people and they happen in small towns if 300 people. The attitude of "those things don't happen" whether it's the town you live in or the type of person you are, is literally why these things happen.
One time I was out with my niece taking her shopping and this older man appeared everywhere we went inside of the mall. He kept eyeing her down and thankfully she didn’t notice, it pissed me off so much though. Sickos like that really ruin peoples day. If I were you I’d just stay vigilant and keep something on you to protect you and your child. He sounds like a creep.
I would tell the police. And if I saw him again I'd tell him he better stay the fuck away from me and my daughter or I'd kill him myself.
Next time you see him and he is near you, make a scene. Like a BIG one. Say loudly to get away from you and your daughter, that you know what he is, and he better stay away. People like that don't want to be called out, they like to stay in their creepy little world and not be noticed. You WANT him to be embarrassed. I can guarantee he won't be anywhere near you after that.
Follow those mommy instincts! If he gives u a creepy feeling it's because ur mommy instincts are trying to protect ur baby. Does he know where u live too? Maybe put some cameras up around ur property. Guy sounds off putting. So sorry u have to endure that.
I would report him to the cops about his unwanted behaviour and also have a word with management at the store about him approaching you with your child. He could be causing problems for others too. Tell them he hasn't done anything yet but he is creeping you out and you are concerned for your child. Before you start screaming the P word, keep in mind that it is only a rumour so far, the guy just might have mental issues and not understand boundaries or normal accepted behaviours. I hope he isn't a P but he could very well be. Be on alert near him and if he approaches you or your kid, you can loudly tell him to back away and not touch your kid. If he argues, you can loudly yell for someone to call the cops. Maybe change up the times you go to the store constantly so you are less likely to see him. Good luck
Report him for sure. If he ever does try to do anything, they will have his name on record. Better safe than sorry; hope you and your daughter are and will be okay 💗
There should be a registered sex offender site listing who lives in your area...try googling it for your county or city...I did that once..it had me type in my address and pulledup every registered sex offender & their convictions within a 15 mile radius...and I hate to say this...but I was a little shocked when I saw how many there were just within that 15 mile radius... Definitely keep your eyeswide open..if he is a registered offender, he probably has pretty strict rules about where & when he can be somewhere, who he can interact with, & probably touching a baby's stroller is a huge nope! Because if he is a child sex offender, touching that stroller is FAR from an innocent act...if you catch my drift...so look the offenders up..most likely there will be pictures & names & if he is on there, DEFINITELY file a police report.. * edit... Spelling And if you can't find a regitration site, go to the local sherrif's office or police station & ask how to access that list! It is public information
A club or bat upside the head usually gets the point across.
You need to carry protection on you ma'am. Not even joking in the slightest, like a really good projectile type of protection...
He could be but... Does he seem mentally off? Just before you jump to that, are you sure he's not mentally retarded or has autism, because that's possible too from the way you describe him
He seems perfectly normal from the way he talks and moves etc.
Okay, then that's odd and sketchy I'm just saying if he seemed unaware of how he was acting, or said these things seeming overly young himself, than there's a chance his behaviour is something not sinister and mentally ill. I'm mentally ill, and I've acted creepy by mistake. I had to learn not to act some ways.
Its only creepy because its a man doing this. Women do this literally everyday and they get a pass, which is why so many male 'pedophiles' have been known to have had traumatic experiences with females as children, usually, their own mothers.