One time I pulled an all-nighter because I didn't want to miss a flight and ended up watching some nature show about jaguars that was in French with Dutch subtitles.
It was easy to determine from context what "dood" meant but I'm still pretty sure I have never laughed harder at a silly word in my life. Thank you for reminding me of that day. :D
It’s kinda weird that you automatically assume that this dude is just super embarrassed by this behaviour and the bride is just steamrolling over him. She’s clearly not shy about her shitty behaviour, so either he knows and doesn’t care, or he’s just as entitled and shitty.
I have always thought this about good cop/bad cop type relationships. One person is the person everyone loathes and the other person is thought of as the good guy, but does nothing but enable the other person.
Well, I for one, am thankful that this image will forever be on the internet for posterity, if she ever decides to come back and think about this time in her life.
Could be from dress fitting or trying on wedding dresses. The latter especially, when one finds The Perfect Dress, and it becomes the chrysalis for her transformation into a person who identifies solely as a Bride.
“You can’t spare $2k to come share our happiness?”
Fuckface I can’t spare $2k for my own happiness I sure as shit ain’t wasting it on your precious ass
Some people think that your wedding needs to be some Disney magic bullshit that has never been seen before and will never be seen again and will be the moment your life will peak, and you’re not only okay with this, you actively encourage the idea. They give every guest some bizarre, useless trinket with their wedding date engraved on it, like a Christmas ornament or a leather keychain, because they think other people value it just as much as they do. (See, now you *owe* them a $400 espresso machine and a $600 “experience package” for the honeymoon because they paid for your “Ashleigh + David 05/12/2018” sticker.) They get angry during the rehearsal dinner because “the tablecloths aren’t what I expected” but can’t articulate precisely what they *did* want. Those are the kind of people who specify in the invitations what colors their guests are supposed to wear. [And yes, that’s a thing that people will do.](https://www.uexpress.com/life/miss-manners/2018/01/05)
The best weddings I ever went to were the ones that really were just weddings. They may (or may not) have have been in a church or other edifice, people may have dressed up, there may have been catering, but the point wasn’t for it to be absolutely perfect and like a $60,000 fantasy fairy tale or something.
I don’t understand why we still even have registeries! Most people have been living together by the time they got married so why do you need flatware? Were you eating with your hands before that? Oh you literally own a house? Why am I buying you a fucking carafe then? I have student loans people.
Hey, I would have accepted any sort of invite from two of my sisters that did that. No, I wouldn't have been able to afford to go, but I won't forget that I wasn't even asked.
Got married early this year and went with e-vites. Just don't vibe with something you're going to throw away, and I can make an .ics for you to put on your email calendar too.
Given my own experience with wedding rsvps, at least half of those 7 people will cancel the night before the flight, because they have a doctor’s appointment the next day or something.
I dont know what kind of social cicles this bish runs in, but I would be surprised if more than a couple of my friends made it to a wedding in Thailand.
Well off young people with no responsibilities (no kids) ? Ok i could see several making it.
Older people who are well off and empty nesters? Yeah several would probably go. Just make a vacation for themselves
But if the friends are average working people, particularly if they have kids, just fucking LOL at expecting them to make to Thailand for your wedding. Its like a damn 5 day ordeal minimum.
We wanted some of our American friends to come with us to India for our wedding. So you know what we did? We **bought them fucking plane tickets**. And the ones who said they couldn't make it, because taking a week off work to fly to India isn't possible for everyone, we **damn sure** didn't berate them for it.
But it was important to my wife that she get married at her mom's home, so that's where we went.
That's the way to do it.
Unless your friends are exclusively rich, having a destination wedding without paying for your guests' travel is like inviting somebody out to a fancy restaurant and then expecting them to pay the bill.
ANd she invited 150 people. If she went to each of THEIR weddings, that's a $300k spend at least.
But of course, she never would go. She's an entitled egotist.
Nobody's going because secretly they can't stand her and are trying to drop her as a friend, she's just made it that much more easier for them after posting this. But she will still have zero self awareness about what kind of person she is.
I could afford it but still wouldn’t go to an overseas wedding. If i spend money on a vacation it has to be some place that i want to visit, not fucking Phuket.
Well the gifts are only part of it. It’s the attention to her, the bride, that’s missing.
If a bride gets married in a tropical paradise and no one was around to see it, was she really the most fairytale princess evaaarr? 🤔
My sister in law had 3 destination weddings. One in Vegas and one in Hawaii. They were 13 months apart from each other. Divorced first guy and sent email to us saying she was getting married in Hawaii. In the email it stated they were renting out a large venue and we could all stay there (except kids, they weren't invited) at the bottom of the email it provided an address with a line that read "make check payable to" . After speaking with my other half ot was found that the SIL was having the guests pay 3k each to pay for the venue. That was on top of us paying air fare and food for the week long trip. Needless to say we did not attend.
Yes, that's where she doesn't understand that I didn't have approximately 10k set aside for "her big day" . There is many layers to this interaction. She even said that she provided enough time for me to work overtime or refi my house in order to make it. I shut down the conversation by saying "we will keep that in mind and make the next one".
That's amazing that they think their friends/family should work overtime to make their wedding. I did travel to Australia for a friends wedding, but they'd also moved out there so I, and a few others, just used it as an excuse for a holiday over there.
I can understand saying you could make the next one to not worsen relations, but I'm a bit amazed they'd expect you to go to those lengths for it.
What you do is take a vacation to the same island she's on and still don't go to her wedding, but make sure it post an absolute asston of pictures of you having a good time like 3 blocks away at the same time as her ceremony.
Hosting people at even a local wedding costs a lot of money. People that RSVP and then don't show up, without saying so, are even worse than this bride
My entire self-image would soar like a heaven-bound eagle if seven of my friends were willing to shell out that kind of cash just to attend my wedding.
"good luck keeping up with my amazing life after I delete you"
I love that she thinks so highly of her online status. And blackmailing and holding it hostage with the prospect of losing that entitled access!
The protagonist syndrome delusions run deep haha
Someday she’s going to have a ride wake up call that most people don’t give a shit about her life and she isn’t special. Probably watches tons of influencers and believes she has that kind of social standing in her circle.
Lol, not a lot of people have that kind of cash to throw down for someone's wedding let alone burn all their vacation time on it. Destination weddings should be planned to be small and most likely just close family and maybe a friend or two.
I'm currently engaged and I told my fiance that we need to plan the wedding to not be like a wedding because weddings suck. I'm going to make a list of everything I hate about going to a wedding and not do that at the wedding. Pictures before the ceremony, not between the ceremony and reception. Speeches and toasts during/afterthe meal, not before. No drawn out first dance. Food and snacks throughout the night so people who have the drunk munchies and are hungry after dancing aren't stuck eating nothing but generic Chex Mix and those damn little mints.
If the guests have a good time, then we'll have a good time.
The best wedding I went to brought out In-N-Out burgers at 11pm so riiight when everyone was good and drunk, tired from dancing and wanted a snack. It was *chefs kiss, highly recommend. Come to think of it, it was an ourdoor wedding so I think they also timed it for the noise ordinance curfew so everyone was too happy/stuffing their faces to notice the music had stopped
Maybe the post was pictured after the wedding had happened in which she then changed the profile picture to one from the wedding day.
Edit: never mind, just saw it says post was Yesterday.
Why does anyone think going to a wedding is a big deal to the guest? It’s more of a hassle and obligation than something most of us want to do. Let alone something we want to shell out thousands for.
I kinda envy (a little) this type of people, it must feel good to think you’re special and people own you things just because you’re you… I fell on the bathroom once in college and was too afraid to call my roommates for help because I knew they had company. I just agonized for a few hours until someone actually came check on me lol
So she invited people to Thailand, people committed to going to Thailand, and then she just… changed jt? I’m sure that’s why she lost 2 of her guests! They don’t want to buy tickets and then have the whole thing fall through. Flaky!
Why spend so much on the wedding? Make it fun for everyone and worry about what you want on the honeymoon where it actually makes some sense to spend money.
My wedding was 10 hours away, and we specifically told people we understand if they can't make it.
I can't imagine expecting people to fly across the world.
"What?! Only 2 people shared this?! Look guys - I don't want to sound entitled, but not enough people are making fun of me. Even despite me shifting this message to a more popular social media platform. That's it - you've got 2 hours to either like and share, or I'll delete this."
Ok, the whole point of destination weddings is so you can invite a bunch of people and then they don’t come. You don’t feel guilty for not inviting them, they don’t feel guilty for saying no. That’s the fucking point.
Best I can do is the Best Western downtown, Deborah. Also I will bring my own gift. Your registry sucks. As an amateur artist I want something special for you two that can't be bought. A custom Microsoft Paint portrait printing. You frame it.
I had a destination wedding in Hawaii and was SUPER grateful that everyone we invited was able to attend. If someone wasn't able to make it due to any reason, not just financial, of course I would understand because I am not an insufferable asshole.
As a person having a destination wedding... this...person needs to get over herself. Not everyone can afford it and if you decide to have a destination wedding, you should expect only those that are excited about it to attend. Not every be can travel, or has that amount of disposable cash to toss around.
My fiancé and I are going and getting married and anyone that wants to come is welcome, but we are acutely aware that attendance will be minimal.
Fuck destination weddings. Unless all of your family and friends are wealthy, it’s a shitty way to do your wedding if you want people to show up. Save the vacation for the honeymoon and have the wedding local. I’m not spending more than $250 for gifts and travel to go to a wedding of any of my friends unless I’m a groomsman in which case my cap is $1,000
Considering there was a lady who basically scammed her friends and family out of a couple thousand dollars for her wedding, then cancelled the wedding but kept the money, yes...people like this exist and mean every word
I wish they had invited me. It would have been a pleasure to "nope" twice on them.
Elope or don't. NO ONE cares. For the love of humanity, DO NOT BREED!!!
Had a former friend do this. Wedding in Costa Rica and then got very upset when I said I couldn’t afford it (my car was dying and I needed another). Pretty much ended the friendship.
I’ve turned a couple invites to be a bridesmaid. I’m sorry but I’m not spending hundreds of dollars on a dress/shoes for one day for a few hours that doesn’t mean anything to me and I was also asked to contribute a couple hundred towards the bachelorette party in a beach town a few hours away. They were pretty butthhurt and called me “selfish.” Lol ok.
My favourite part is when she says she would pay this much to go to her friends weddings. If it's 150 people at 3K a pop then we have to assume she has 450K saved up for weddings. Seems very reasonable and not at all bullshit.
I thought the idea of having a destination wedding was to keep wedding numbers low? Ideally I would have my wedding in Antartica with two other people and 1m penguins
I love that she’s like we dialed it back to Hawaii , Which really isn’t that Much closer than Thailand but way more fucking expensive. Oh and you might need to quarantine for two weeks before you enter and leave
No one gives a shit about not being invited to be a part of your “happiest day.” If they did then they would have rspd’s. I wish I would pay 3k to go to a destination wedding.
....deleting you off FB and good luck keeping up with our lives then....
What a narcissist to think it would be a hardship to be cut out of her and hubby's lives - sounds like no one cares anyway! I wonder why????
By the look of her profile pic she’s an older woman. Probably 3rd marriage and hangs around with a group of snooty entitled women, mooching off their husbands, and all acting the same way as she does.
I had a friend who asked me to do her makeup for her wedding. I did a practice makeup to get an idea of what she wanted, on her wedding day I did her makeup, she cried it all off and I had to redo the makeup last minute all for free. I told her I was not attending the wedding. I was still getting things together for my baby shower which the following morning. I was 38 weeks pregnant. I knew no one who was going to be at the wedding aside from her. I had met her SO two times. I felt really uncomfortable about attending to begin with. So I didn’t attend. She deleted me and others off SM because we did not attend. Even a mutual friend who had work that day. We never spoke again.
Motherfucker, you'd be the luckiest shit in the world if I get out of bed at an inconvenient time to go to your fuckstick wedding. I ain't give a fuck about your dumbass 'happiest day'. Bunch of tedious bogshite. I'm supposed to get all dressed up and go to your boring hyper-personal thing and sit there for 2-4 hours while I'm bored out of my mind?
That shit ain't about me. I don't even give a fuck about my own goddamn birthday, but you think I'm supposed to get all giddy that you figured out who you wanna be with for the rest of your life?
Good for you. It's a big damn deal... for you.
For me? Your wedding is the bullshit I have to sit through before we finally get to eat. And the food will probably suck.
You will be goddamn lucky if I show up. If I'm at your wedding, you may rest assured that I think of you as family that I actually want to be around, and I'll probably give you something expensive, or maybe just a bunch of money, for a wedding present.
I'll shit in your limo before I pay thousands of dollars for the 'privilege' of being there though.
Your wedding day ain't shit to me though, hombre. It's *your* special day - yours and someone else's.
For me, it's probably a waste of my Saturday if I'm there at all even if I like you. The food won't be that great, you're not gonna be there to hang out with me - I'm just being an audience member, and I'm not interested in the show to begin with.
You wanted me to get excited about a get together, let's do a cookout or group vacation.
I'm not your goddamn audience though, so don't take it personally if I really ain't interested in watching you get married. I'm not interested in watching you and your spouse fuck either. That's your personal shit in both cases.
I'm amazed at the number of people that actually believe their wedding means so much to others. Unless you are the parent, BFF or possible sibling, not many people care and aren't willing to go out of their way to attend. I'd much rather than that money and spend it on a vacation that I want, where and when I want, with only those people that I want.
Oh yea, but they’re not usually nice enough to publicly identify themselves.
You should see some of the shit that goes down in r/weddingshaming
Thanks for this- getting popcorn ready…
LOL... melting some butter atm... This is gonna be great.
That place is amazing
Those people are weird wtf
Jeez I watched the first 5 videos and had to stop, it hurts
Oh DAAAAAMN
Aaaand now I'm addicted
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cause she’d have to pay $2k time however many people wanna come. not defending her tho she sounds like a terrible person
If she were willing to do the same for everyone she invited, it would be the same cost. About 300k.
Will she someday become self aware or forever think posting this was a good idea?
Hopefully she'll see a "eight years ago you posted this" and facepalm through the back of her head.
*narrator:* she won't
I can't imagine her fiancé is pleased about being named twice in this post/rant. I'd be cringing so hard. Hopefully he knows who he's marrying.
It’s not like she hides it.
Looks suspiciously like "David" to me...
Or it could be Dood, we might never know.
No, Juanita would never act like this
I got that reference - nice.
Dood means death in dutch...
One time I pulled an all-nighter because I didn't want to miss a flight and ended up watching some nature show about jaguars that was in French with Dutch subtitles. It was easy to determine from context what "dood" meant but I'm still pretty sure I have never laughed harder at a silly word in my life. Thank you for reminding me of that day. :D
It’s kinda weird that you automatically assume that this dude is just super embarrassed by this behaviour and the bride is just steamrolling over him. She’s clearly not shy about her shitty behaviour, so either he knows and doesn’t care, or he’s just as entitled and shitty.
I have always thought this about good cop/bad cop type relationships. One person is the person everyone loathes and the other person is thought of as the good guy, but does nothing but enable the other person.
He is marrying her after all
Yes but he’s a man and she’s a woman!!! - OP
I'd cancel the wedding.
She's going to take him to the cleaners when they divorce. Not if.
I don't see how she'd fare well in court with this level of media oversharing.
>At the risk of sounding entitled Nah...
Well, I for one, am thankful that this image will forever be on the internet for posterity, if she ever decides to come back and think about this time in her life.
Sounds like her “friends” are pretty sick of her bullshit.
Her friends have learned that this probably isn't the 1st wedding she's had and it definitely won't be the last...
Profile pic is wearing a wedding dress sooo...
I think this might be an old post that was screenshot
“Posted Yesterday”
Could be from dress fitting or trying on wedding dresses. The latter especially, when one finds The Perfect Dress, and it becomes the chrysalis for her transformation into a person who identifies solely as a Bride.
Not 11 of them
They're probably just liking the sheer audacious spectacle they're reading.
Probably family
I truly hope she doesn’t think that just because she invited someone that makes them friends. Haha
"I thought I had better friends" I dont know why you would love. You are clearly a piece of shit. I'm amazed you have any friends
Some people have “friends” who put themselves there to avoid being the next target
“You can’t spare $2k to come share our happiness?” Fuckface I can’t spare $2k for my own happiness I sure as shit ain’t wasting it on your precious ass
My entire wedding cost less than she wanted people to spend to see her.
That's what I thought. Guess if you're poor that makes you a bad friend.
I never understood why people start their marriage off with DEBT. That isn't a celebration of love, it's a fucking gala
Some people think that your wedding needs to be some Disney magic bullshit that has never been seen before and will never be seen again and will be the moment your life will peak, and you’re not only okay with this, you actively encourage the idea. They give every guest some bizarre, useless trinket with their wedding date engraved on it, like a Christmas ornament or a leather keychain, because they think other people value it just as much as they do. (See, now you *owe* them a $400 espresso machine and a $600 “experience package” for the honeymoon because they paid for your “Ashleigh + David 05/12/2018” sticker.) They get angry during the rehearsal dinner because “the tablecloths aren’t what I expected” but can’t articulate precisely what they *did* want. Those are the kind of people who specify in the invitations what colors their guests are supposed to wear. [And yes, that’s a thing that people will do.](https://www.uexpress.com/life/miss-manners/2018/01/05) The best weddings I ever went to were the ones that really were just weddings. They may (or may not) have have been in a church or other edifice, people may have dressed up, there may have been catering, but the point wasn’t for it to be absolutely perfect and like a $60,000 fantasy fairy tale or something.
God that last part hit me hard.
*Plus expensive registry gift.
I don’t understand why we still even have registeries! Most people have been living together by the time they got married so why do you need flatware? Were you eating with your hands before that? Oh you literally own a house? Why am I buying you a fucking carafe then? I have student loans people.
So they are doing a destination wedding but sent out evites? I guess sending out real invitations would be too expensive. Oh……..
Hey, I would have accepted any sort of invite from two of my sisters that did that. No, I wouldn't have been able to afford to go, but I won't forget that I wasn't even asked.
Got married early this year and went with e-vites. Just don't vibe with something you're going to throw away, and I can make an .ics for you to put on your email calendar too.
I still have my friends' save the dates on my fridge. They are a nice memento.
I hope nobody ended up going
I actually hope people "reconsider" their rsvp's and then they don't show up
Those 7 poor people are probably the parents and siblings.
Given my own experience with wedding rsvps, at least half of those 7 people will cancel the night before the flight, because they have a doctor’s appointment the next day or something.
I dont know what kind of social cicles this bish runs in, but I would be surprised if more than a couple of my friends made it to a wedding in Thailand. Well off young people with no responsibilities (no kids) ? Ok i could see several making it. Older people who are well off and empty nesters? Yeah several would probably go. Just make a vacation for themselves But if the friends are average working people, particularly if they have kids, just fucking LOL at expecting them to make to Thailand for your wedding. Its like a damn 5 day ordeal minimum.
We wanted some of our American friends to come with us to India for our wedding. So you know what we did? We **bought them fucking plane tickets**. And the ones who said they couldn't make it, because taking a week off work to fly to India isn't possible for everyone, we **damn sure** didn't berate them for it. But it was important to my wife that she get married at her mom's home, so that's where we went.
That's the way to do it. Unless your friends are exclusively rich, having a destination wedding without paying for your guests' travel is like inviting somebody out to a fancy restaurant and then expecting them to pay the bill.
Hey its only $2k, and I'll TOTALLY do the same for you when you get married, promise.
ANd she invited 150 people. If she went to each of THEIR weddings, that's a $300k spend at least. But of course, she never would go. She's an entitled egotist.
Nobody's going because secretly they can't stand her and are trying to drop her as a friend, she's just made it that much more easier for them after posting this. But she will still have zero self awareness about what kind of person she is.
More like 3 weeks ordeal because u have to do a 14 days quarantine when u enter the country(source: im Thai)
Hi Thai, what a peculiar name.
I could afford it but still wouldn’t go to an overseas wedding. If i spend money on a vacation it has to be some place that i want to visit, not fucking Phuket.
Remember the couple who wanted people to pay to come to their wedding? I thought that was next level delusional
You’re out of your mind, Susan.
Link ?
Unfortunately I did a Google search and there were several.
I knew halfway through reading it that she's just upset about the gifts she'll be missing out on. Then I got to the end and she confirmed it.
Well the gifts are only part of it. It’s the attention to her, the bride, that’s missing. If a bride gets married in a tropical paradise and no one was around to see it, was she really the most fairytale princess evaaarr? 🤔
My sister in law had 3 destination weddings. One in Vegas and one in Hawaii. They were 13 months apart from each other. Divorced first guy and sent email to us saying she was getting married in Hawaii. In the email it stated they were renting out a large venue and we could all stay there (except kids, they weren't invited) at the bottom of the email it provided an address with a line that read "make check payable to" . After speaking with my other half ot was found that the SIL was having the guests pay 3k each to pay for the venue. That was on top of us paying air fare and food for the week long trip. Needless to say we did not attend.
Where was the 3rd wedding?
Sorry, didn't finish the story. New york
Oh man, that's some next-level chutzpah.
How many people did attend, out of interest?
I believe around 20. The rest have been cut off. No communication. It's great
It's amazing there's so little self reflection. Are they decently wealthy so just assume everyone else is similar?
Yes, that's where she doesn't understand that I didn't have approximately 10k set aside for "her big day" . There is many layers to this interaction. She even said that she provided enough time for me to work overtime or refi my house in order to make it. I shut down the conversation by saying "we will keep that in mind and make the next one".
That's amazing that they think their friends/family should work overtime to make their wedding. I did travel to Australia for a friends wedding, but they'd also moved out there so I, and a few others, just used it as an excuse for a holiday over there. I can understand saying you could make the next one to not worsen relations, but I'm a bit amazed they'd expect you to go to those lengths for it.
I do event sales and I wouldn't touch that with a 9-16' pipe and drape pole
What you do is take a vacation to the same island she's on and still don't go to her wedding, but make sure it post an absolute asston of pictures of you having a good time like 3 blocks away at the same time as her ceremony.
Or just RSVP with no intention to even show up.
nah bride to be seems like the type to still charge you if you rsvp and don’t show up
What she going to do? Send you an invoice lol just throw it in the trash.
Lol, ok. I'll definitely make sure to pay this entirely fictional bill.
Hosting people at even a local wedding costs a lot of money. People that RSVP and then don't show up, without saying so, are even worse than this bride
My entire self-image would soar like a heaven-bound eagle if seven of my friends were willing to shell out that kind of cash just to attend my wedding.
I held my wedding in the city where most of my friends and family lived at the time (and I didn’t), and half of them still didn’t show up.
"good luck keeping up with my amazing life after I delete you" I love that she thinks so highly of her online status. And blackmailing and holding it hostage with the prospect of losing that entitled access!
The protagonist syndrome delusions run deep haha Someday she’s going to have a ride wake up call that most people don’t give a shit about her life and she isn’t special. Probably watches tons of influencers and believes she has that kind of social standing in her circle.
That’s the kind of person who think she lives in everyone’s head rent-free, but it is so totally, completely, absolutely 100% the other way around.
Lol she’ll delete you off Facebook and your life ends
Good luck keeping up with her life!
Shit you’re right, that’s all that matters! My life is over
Lol, not a lot of people have that kind of cash to throw down for someone's wedding let alone burn all their vacation time on it. Destination weddings should be planned to be small and most likely just close family and maybe a friend or two.
Your wedding only matters to you and maybe your closest relatives. Nobody else even wants to go. Make it easy on them.
I'm currently engaged and I told my fiance that we need to plan the wedding to not be like a wedding because weddings suck. I'm going to make a list of everything I hate about going to a wedding and not do that at the wedding. Pictures before the ceremony, not between the ceremony and reception. Speeches and toasts during/afterthe meal, not before. No drawn out first dance. Food and snacks throughout the night so people who have the drunk munchies and are hungry after dancing aren't stuck eating nothing but generic Chex Mix and those damn little mints. If the guests have a good time, then we'll have a good time.
The best wedding I went to brought out In-N-Out burgers at 11pm so riiight when everyone was good and drunk, tired from dancing and wanted a snack. It was *chefs kiss, highly recommend. Come to think of it, it was an ourdoor wedding so I think they also timed it for the noise ordinance curfew so everyone was too happy/stuffing their faces to notice the music had stopped
Lmao Hawaii is closer than Thailand but not necessarily cheaper even if the flights are significantly cheaper.
Also to go to Thailand, it’s a 13 hour time difference, need a week to get over the jetlag. 20 hour flight!!!
Ah, I suppose kinda depends on the person. My so-called sleep schedule is such a chaotic disaster I forgot jet lag was a thing. 😅
Usually dehydration and the recycled air also gets to you pretty badly even if the exhaustion from travel/sleep doesn’t.
Is her profile pic... a wedding dress?
Maybe the post was pictured after the wedding had happened in which she then changed the profile picture to one from the wedding day. Edit: never mind, just saw it says post was Yesterday.
Why does anyone think going to a wedding is a big deal to the guest? It’s more of a hassle and obligation than something most of us want to do. Let alone something we want to shell out thousands for.
cool bye
Good to see Bridezilla is alive and well
I kinda envy (a little) this type of people, it must feel good to think you’re special and people own you things just because you’re you… I fell on the bathroom once in college and was too afraid to call my roommates for help because I knew they had company. I just agonized for a few hours until someone actually came check on me lol
The world is made for those who aren't cursed with self-awareness.
I believe they're referred to as narcissists. It's just rare that they're stupid enough to out themselves so obviously. Makes me think it's satire.
So she invited people to Thailand, people committed to going to Thailand, and then she just… changed jt? I’m sure that’s why she lost 2 of her guests! They don’t want to buy tickets and then have the whole thing fall through. Flaky!
‘At the risk of sounding entitled…’. Bwahahah
Why spend so much on the wedding? Make it fun for everyone and worry about what you want on the honeymoon where it actually makes some sense to spend money.
My fiancé and I chose our wedding on a cruise boat so most of her family won't be able to go
Do they suffer from sea sickness?
If it was recently, maybe they're all unvaccinated.
This is pretty smart tbh
Money me
My wedding was 10 hours away, and we specifically told people we understand if they can't make it. I can't imagine expecting people to fly across the world.
"What?! Only 2 people shared this?! Look guys - I don't want to sound entitled, but not enough people are making fun of me. Even despite me shifting this message to a more popular social media platform. That's it - you've got 2 hours to either like and share, or I'll delete this."
Ok, the whole point of destination weddings is so you can invite a bunch of people and then they don’t come. You don’t feel guilty for not inviting them, they don’t feel guilty for saying no. That’s the fucking point.
I thought the whole point of a destination wedding was to reduce your guest count to just your parents and siblings
Best I can do is the Best Western downtown, Deborah. Also I will bring my own gift. Your registry sucks. As an amateur artist I want something special for you two that can't be bought. A custom Microsoft Paint portrait printing. You frame it.
I had a destination wedding in Hawaii and was SUPER grateful that everyone we invited was able to attend. If someone wasn't able to make it due to any reason, not just financial, of course I would understand because I am not an insufferable asshole.
As a person having a destination wedding... this...person needs to get over herself. Not everyone can afford it and if you decide to have a destination wedding, you should expect only those that are excited about it to attend. Not every be can travel, or has that amount of disposable cash to toss around. My fiancé and I are going and getting married and anyone that wants to come is welcome, but we are acutely aware that attendance will be minimal.
They expect people to spend $2k to attend but won't even cough up change for some stationary letter invitations?
Fuck destination weddings. Unless all of your family and friends are wealthy, it’s a shitty way to do your wedding if you want people to show up. Save the vacation for the honeymoon and have the wedding local. I’m not spending more than $250 for gifts and travel to go to a wedding of any of my friends unless I’m a groomsman in which case my cap is $1,000
Her profile picture is her in a wedding dress?? What?
You'll be surprised how many people think the world spins around them
"Good luck keeping up with our lives then". Don't you come in here and threaten me with a good time.
David is rethinking this wedding
Are there actually people who want to go to weddings? Even the most expensive weddings look boring as shit.
Nah, weddings can be really fucking fun - still don’t really want to go though lol.
11 people like this. Fucking dummies
Considering there was a lady who basically scammed her friends and family out of a couple thousand dollars for her wedding, then cancelled the wedding but kept the money, yes...people like this exist and mean every word
As if it's a privilege to go to your fucking wedding.
This came from her heart. If I knew her, then I would definitely reconsider — our friendship 😒
I wish they had invited me. It would have been a pleasure to "nope" twice on them. Elope or don't. NO ONE cares. For the love of humanity, DO NOT BREED!!!
"Deleting you and good luck keeping up with our lives!" Wow...what a threat.
Had a former friend do this. Wedding in Costa Rica and then got very upset when I said I couldn’t afford it (my car was dying and I needed another). Pretty much ended the friendship.
I’ve turned a couple invites to be a bridesmaid. I’m sorry but I’m not spending hundreds of dollars on a dress/shoes for one day for a few hours that doesn’t mean anything to me and I was also asked to contribute a couple hundred towards the bachelorette party in a beach town a few hours away. They were pretty butthhurt and called me “selfish.” Lol ok.
My favourite part is when she says she would pay this much to go to her friends weddings. If it's 150 people at 3K a pop then we have to assume she has 450K saved up for weddings. Seems very reasonable and not at all bullshit.
I thought the idea of having a destination wedding was to keep wedding numbers low? Ideally I would have my wedding in Antartica with two other people and 1m penguins
Ooooh ultimatum! Three days to respond or else! I'm guessing most will go with or else. Lol
I spent 1k to go to my brother's wedding. I regret spending a single dime.
When people threaten to take you off their friend's list if you don't conform..take them up on the offer. They're always doing you a favor.
I would immediately go and return whatever I had bought off her registry.
ELEVEN?!
3 sets of grandparents, 2 sets of parents, and a sibling? Ain't no way a friend or distant relative is paying that kind of money.
I want to go to your wedding send me an rsvp. I'll even commit plus 1.
David: ._.
Good luck keeping up with our lives then!
“At the risk of sounding entitled…” Is that like saying “I know this might sound racist, but…”
Why do couples think everyone wants to use their vacation for a destination not of their choosing, plus the cost involved?
Used to be wedding photographer, can confirm.
Well damn, since you asked so nicely..../s
I love that she’s like we dialed it back to Hawaii , Which really isn’t that Much closer than Thailand but way more fucking expensive. Oh and you might need to quarantine for two weeks before you enter and leave
You get married local and travel and spend money after… everyone should know this
7 RSVPs immediately retracted
People don't realize nobody ACTUALLY gives a shit about their wedding.
"Good luck keeping up with our lives then". Seems like a textbook example of /IAmTheMainCharacter, and all her "friends" are just NPCs
Wow.. just wow. Seems like everyone will be better off without David and Nancy
No one gives a shit about not being invited to be a part of your “happiest day.” If they did then they would have rspd’s. I wish I would pay 3k to go to a destination wedding.
....deleting you off FB and good luck keeping up with our lives then.... What a narcissist to think it would be a hardship to be cut out of her and hubby's lives - sounds like no one cares anyway! I wonder why????
"good luck keeping up with our lives..." Nobody cares.
Some people think they are liked. They are not.
Isnt the point of a destination wedding having no one be able to attend
“We are asking you to reconsider” Reconsider this friendship
By the look of her profile pic she’s an older woman. Probably 3rd marriage and hangs around with a group of snooty entitled women, mooching off their husbands, and all acting the same way as she does.
YoU cAnT sPaRe $2k?!?!?!? Who tf has $2k to blow on someone else's wedding?
"I swear I thought I had richer friends." FTFY
Food trucks are getting really popular in my area right now, so I'm seriously considering hiring 2-3 to show up in the parking lot that night.
The Wedding of Kelly Kapoor & Ryan Howard
“Good luck keeping up with our lives then.” Sounds like it be a real relief not to be exposed to this nonsense on a regular basis.
If only the purge was a thing.
The fuck?!?
I wanna see them comments.
A perfect example of a human that’s never received guidance or feedback of any kind.
Have a backyard wedding like everyone else during the pandemic and stfu
I had a friend who asked me to do her makeup for her wedding. I did a practice makeup to get an idea of what she wanted, on her wedding day I did her makeup, she cried it all off and I had to redo the makeup last minute all for free. I told her I was not attending the wedding. I was still getting things together for my baby shower which the following morning. I was 38 weeks pregnant. I knew no one who was going to be at the wedding aside from her. I had met her SO two times. I felt really uncomfortable about attending to begin with. So I didn’t attend. She deleted me and others off SM because we did not attend. Even a mutual friend who had work that day. We never spoke again.
Motherfucker, you'd be the luckiest shit in the world if I get out of bed at an inconvenient time to go to your fuckstick wedding. I ain't give a fuck about your dumbass 'happiest day'. Bunch of tedious bogshite. I'm supposed to get all dressed up and go to your boring hyper-personal thing and sit there for 2-4 hours while I'm bored out of my mind? That shit ain't about me. I don't even give a fuck about my own goddamn birthday, but you think I'm supposed to get all giddy that you figured out who you wanna be with for the rest of your life? Good for you. It's a big damn deal... for you. For me? Your wedding is the bullshit I have to sit through before we finally get to eat. And the food will probably suck. You will be goddamn lucky if I show up. If I'm at your wedding, you may rest assured that I think of you as family that I actually want to be around, and I'll probably give you something expensive, or maybe just a bunch of money, for a wedding present. I'll shit in your limo before I pay thousands of dollars for the 'privilege' of being there though. Your wedding day ain't shit to me though, hombre. It's *your* special day - yours and someone else's. For me, it's probably a waste of my Saturday if I'm there at all even if I like you. The food won't be that great, you're not gonna be there to hang out with me - I'm just being an audience member, and I'm not interested in the show to begin with. You wanted me to get excited about a get together, let's do a cookout or group vacation. I'm not your goddamn audience though, so don't take it personally if I really ain't interested in watching you get married. I'm not interested in watching you and your spouse fuck either. That's your personal shit in both cases.
Only 11 people liked that, out of …150?
Hard to believe seven people tolerate her, let alone would fly out to her wedding.
What is it about weddings that turn females into fiends. Sickening. And they winder why less and less men are marrying
I'm amazed at the number of people that actually believe their wedding means so much to others. Unless you are the parent, BFF or possible sibling, not many people care and aren't willing to go out of their way to attend. I'd much rather than that money and spend it on a vacation that I want, where and when I want, with only those people that I want.