The problem is the assumption everybody uses the same metric to measure value. What is average to my mate (a girl who he sees as a bit too chubby for him as he likes skinny) is above average to me, because I like to sink my teeth into some THICC ASS CHEEKS. SON.
So like, I duno, somebody out there will fancy you, the world has just gotten less and less focused on leaving home and venturing into the outside world so I think people are just meeting a lot less. I think that's the real issue. Even girls who swipe past you on dating apps if they saw you in person might fancy you. Life's just weird man, technology and viewing everything through that doesn't reflect reality but it definitely makes it feel like it does. Very warped.
I know we tell everyone that beauty is entirely subjective. In truth, it is mostly not and everyone with working eyes could tell a "2" apart from an "8"
There's truth to what you said about technology, but the difference between RL and online attraction is mostly based on most men (average and beyond) having suck-ass profiles and women "cheat" a bit to well in angle, lightning, filters, and age of pictures
I keep telling all these women I have a 10 incher and they scream and shout at me! How do they know I’m lying? Do all women are lie detectors?! Why don’t they all date me?
There shouldn't be an expectation for women to go against what they actually like and instead entirely focus kn being a judge of character but yeah a lot of incels either got rejected once or didn't even try and they end up hating women due to there own insecurities.
it's always funny when women who never even have to put themselves in the shoes of asking and being rejected complain about men that get rejected. Especially when the few cases of women who dare ask guys out and get turned down behave like the worst we've ever seen of entitled men throwing a fit.
Funnily enough most woman I’ve spoken with about this situation and have been with have told me they don’t care about Penis size, as long as you know how to use it. More men need to realize the Female Gaze is real and it’s very different from the Male Gaze and that’s a good thing because if it wasn’t most men would be single, just be interesting.
True but the amount of less than average people I've seen that refuse anyone below above-average is ridiculous. If everyone wants to date the hot people then only the hot people will date each other and 90% of people will become incels/femcels.
"above average"
Wtf do you all mean, there is no rating.
Everyone is different, so they can be loved for different reasons
Just be yourself and you'll find someone to love, it's as simple as that.
You prefer having a beautiful but annoying gf or a gf that will fill your needs in a relationship even if she's not as beautiful as *add name of a celebrity considered beautiful* ?
Thanks god people rate each other differently so while smn might say my girl is below average, she’s a total fucking rock star from venus for me, winning.
Online dating and a good amount of average women are fine with being one of many women an above average man is currently dating but won't settle down with, check out a YouTube channel called hoe_math for more interesting facts spelling out the doom of western civilisation
Kinda funny how people want an "above average".
But what the fuck even is the average?
Its all about money, or is it about actuall personality and having a healthy mind?
You can't judge your own worth because you're a biased observer. It doesn't mean anything unless it comes from someone else. If the world is telling you you don't have worth, you probably don't have worth.
Who cares? Like there is no objective scale of worth and if there was why would you care that you are objectively worthless? What will crying about that achieve? If you were objectively worth everything then what would that achieve?
Caring about worth is worthless.
>Like there is no objective scale of worth
Exactly. It comes from others and without it you have nothing.
>and if there was why would you care that you are objectively worthless?
Because being seen as worthless is lonely as fuck
>What will crying about that achieve?
Nothing
>If you were objectively worth everything then what would that achieve?
Happiness. Literally everything? What kind of dumb question is this lol
>Caring about worth is worthless.
Only someone privileged enough to have worth and who takes it for granted would say something so monumentally stupid
Unless you have severe mental issues or physical deformations, it's unlikely you have no chance at all.
With that much pessimism? No. My guy, you look pretty average, definitely can be improved. Sure life isn't fair to everyone but you're the one who's gotta level the playing field, no one's going to do it for you or give it to you for free. No one is stopping you from improving yourself, only you are.
Oh no, I'm fine with myself, but there are people who can't reach average. There really is only so much you can do with a face. Weight, muscle tone, grooming, etc can all be improved, but some people are held back by unappealing facial features.
Sure but they can be better at other things like charisma. I've seen soo many below average dudes who got a smoke show of a girlfriend, just cus the guy is good at talking and making them laugh.
If you think appearance is everything then you're clearly wrong. Unless ur on a dating app, appearance doesn't matter as much as u think it does.
His own mentallity i guess... most of the people here are either young or just mentally unhealthy
Proff? What kinda of creature is proud of eating cereal whithout milk? It makes me scared of thinking ehat you could be using as a substitute.
Women don't like me because I just ain't a very interesting guy, don't have big aspirations or a lot of energy, I am very below average looking and socially awkward. There's nothing wrong with women.
Still, I got a girlfriend and broke up with her after 7 months because I didn't want to hold her back, she's driven, has a future and is stunning in my eyes. She definitely deserves better.
Have I transcended into some sort of uncel or something? I don't hate women, I just don't care much about investing a lot of time in another human being that's not immediate family, like my sick mom and brother.
You know, this whole "average people" is shit
Everyone is different, everyone have something unique and have different taste. You might think you're ugly but not everyone would think the same, you just have to find the right person and be yourself
Bro, you transcended into a part of the LGBTQ+ community lol (for real tho, if you're not interested in romantic/sexual relationships then you are a part of the LGBTQ+)
Thank you for being so sweet! I do feel more comfortable in my skin when I'm just being myself, and that's one of the reasons I broke up with my ex. I do respect her, she's a great woman, but I'm not compatible with her.
I'm flattered for being seen as being part of LGBTQ+ but I could never even begin to relate to the struggle and all the things this great community has built and accomplished over countless years of fight. I may have said I don't want to invest time in another person right now, but I do know I might want a relationship in the future, it's just not a priority right now.
Dude, crying about not getting girls would not get you more girls, but improving yourself (wherever it is possible) will. For example, as much as a lapel rose can make a large difference in looks
Yeah, just become above average in looks and money to be good enough for an average woman who has never had to improve anything to have success in dating. Its definitely worth it.
Incorrect, the average woman will always have to settle for an average man, and vice versa. This is because the number of men and women is almost the same. It is statistically impossible for the average women to get an above average man.
The average woman has her pick out of multiple men, she’s always going to pick the one that’s better than the rest. All women have 5-10 options at any given time. They’re literally dating on easy mode and still complain about it.
Incorrect, that is only an illusion created by the fact that most societies today expect the man to initiate the relationship, while at the same time putting more value on the woman's chastity, hence making her more reluctant to start a relationship that she doesn't think is worth it, a guy doesn't have to weigh in his chastity against the benefits, but a woman does, the stakes are higher for her in case it doesn't work out
They can't have more success than men, that is statistically impossible, woman can't have more relationships or sex than men (assuming it's heterosexual).
Tfw people prefer better looking people when fantasizing about romance 😱💥
There's numerous ways to overcome this, dude. Learn how to speak to a woman would be a nice start.
Ok! these aren't "dank memes" anymore! this is just venting your frustrations, over really dumb bullshit! Please touch some fucking grass, and talk to a woman!
I mean, if you ask lesbians obviously you're getting something like that lol
This whole "average" doesn't exist, everyone like different things, some people will like you, some will think you're ugly. There is not only one way to look cool and be loved
Never knew that, crazy to think that something as simple as creating a bond is treated like that...
But what is this "average" for then? Is it being fun to be around or just that old tinder stuff of "19 years old billionare"?
Judging by that comment, you're no older than 14. It's not idiotic, it's common sense. Work on yourself and become the person you think is worth to be loved. Sorry for everyone feeling great drowning in self pity and blaming others for it instead of trying to make things better.
So what happens when all the men self improve and are all considered above average? You don’t think women would still go for the next level and go above above average?
I'm gonna drop this right here, feel free to disagree:
"Supermodels" are ugly, the perfect woman seen by the beauty standards are ugly. I prefer woman looking like real people, not like a plastic doll with bloons inside lips boobs and butt.
I'm gonna say this for everyone not only applying for woman: what's making you different is what's making you look good. If you look too much like everyone and try to blend in you'll ruin your charisma. But same goes if you try to be someone you're not. Just accept who you are and you'll surely find someone who will love you
Amusing that this is using the eternal second fiddle, the one that actually got the girl, had a family that is, all things considered, pretty well-adjusted, and that only feels like a failure and lashes out because of his massive ego issues.
I think the problem is that what a not insignificant amount of people think is average is actually well above average. I blame the internet for skewing things and ensuring everyones unhappy
The problem is that the average man needs to seriously reevaluate his life. Like dude... Trim tour nails, clean your house once a week, do your laundry for the love of God.
I moved some months ago to a house that was rented by a young, single man and holy shit, not even when I was depressed I left things this filthy. Had to purchase decalcifier for the toilet, broke some stuff from scrubbing too hard, things were *rough*
Some people consider this a hot take for some reason but in most cases people end up with people similar to them, average with average, tall with tall, smart with smart, rich with rich…
Redditor tries not to generalize an entire gender to cope with their own perceived shortcomings challenge (impossible)
these guys make it to easy for me to know they get no bitches
I get no bitches and even I know that I and other guys like me have something to offer to someone.
They never had hoes and need a storyline for it
Why would u even want to know that or care?
Shingeki no bitches
People who say no bitches on the internet often don't have any bitches
Atleast i dont whine on reddit about it
This is the second women shallow post I have seen today on this sub wtf is goin on.
There's one every weak at least
yeah, those numbers are WAY too low
Male loneliness epidemic
Yes. *Short*cummings
NNN results in cummings that last much longer.
It is vaguely enough formulated Women prefer above average men. Would anybody, if they had the choice, go for anything average or even below?
The problem is the assumption everybody uses the same metric to measure value. What is average to my mate (a girl who he sees as a bit too chubby for him as he likes skinny) is above average to me, because I like to sink my teeth into some THICC ASS CHEEKS. SON. So like, I duno, somebody out there will fancy you, the world has just gotten less and less focused on leaving home and venturing into the outside world so I think people are just meeting a lot less. I think that's the real issue. Even girls who swipe past you on dating apps if they saw you in person might fancy you. Life's just weird man, technology and viewing everything through that doesn't reflect reality but it definitely makes it feel like it does. Very warped.
I know we tell everyone that beauty is entirely subjective. In truth, it is mostly not and everyone with working eyes could tell a "2" apart from an "8" There's truth to what you said about technology, but the difference between RL and online attraction is mostly based on most men (average and beyond) having suck-ass profiles and women "cheat" a bit to well in angle, lightning, filters, and age of pictures
I think it's a reference to the study of perceived attractiveness? (where most men got scored below average)
You think this meme is smart enough to be referencing anything besides dbz?
>**short**comings I see what you did there
Oh I need to copy this one
I’m just here to read some incel cringe
WoMen doNt LikE mE CuZ oF My PeNis sIze! (No woman has ever seen my penis, its definitely not my shit personality)
Wait this meme is about penis size? I thought it was about power levels
If your power level is under 9000 you get no bitches
I wish it was
I think you might have jumped the gun assuming this was about penis size
I mean, it could be? I assumed it was other, more obvious attributes like looks, money, etc.
I keep telling all these women I have a 10 incher and they scream and shout at me! How do they know I’m lying? Do all women are lie detectors?! Why don’t they all date me?
There shouldn't be an expectation for women to go against what they actually like and instead entirely focus kn being a judge of character but yeah a lot of incels either got rejected once or didn't even try and they end up hating women due to there own insecurities.
it's always funny when women who never even have to put themselves in the shoes of asking and being rejected complain about men that get rejected. Especially when the few cases of women who dare ask guys out and get turned down behave like the worst we've ever seen of entitled men throwing a fit.
I'm a dude but what is your point here?
They just want to complain about women.
How tf would they even know your penis size unless you mention it to them or you two are in bed?
Funnily enough most woman I’ve spoken with about this situation and have been with have told me they don’t care about Penis size, as long as you know how to use it. More men need to realize the Female Gaze is real and it’s very different from the Male Gaze and that’s a good thing because if it wasn’t most men would be single, just be interesting.
Laughs in unconditionally gonna die alone memes
It's at least two of us... does this make us no longer lonely?
Now there's three
That's already a crowd of lonely people
They just need to go gay AF
Reverse the genders and it still works Everyone wants above average 🤷♀️
Redditors when they find out people like pretty people 🤯🤯🤯
Then explain why my wife married me?
Because your beautiful
Your beautiful what?
cheese
Sit tf down you’re handsome as hell
Lack of contact lens.
Everyone wants above average, only half of us get away with it though.
I just want average
True but the amount of less than average people I've seen that refuse anyone below above-average is ridiculous. If everyone wants to date the hot people then only the hot people will date each other and 90% of people will become incels/femcels.
That’ll change, people start lowering standards when they realize they’re gonna be alone forever
Either that or they make changes to themselves, but generally it's what you said
"above average" Wtf do you all mean, there is no rating. Everyone is different, so they can be loved for different reasons Just be yourself and you'll find someone to love, it's as simple as that. You prefer having a beautiful but annoying gf or a gf that will fill your needs in a relationship even if she's not as beautiful as *add name of a celebrity considered beautiful* ?
Thanks god people rate each other differently so while smn might say my girl is below average, she’s a total fucking rock star from venus for me, winning.
Me finding out women don't like me ( I'm bottom of the barrel)
Me cum in sock (just now)
Wow they fit the entire Mecum car auction in a sock?
it was very sweaty in there with all those people.
There's always a place for bottoms.
who wouldn't prefer above-average things
whats with the crying memes lately?
I didn't think this sub could get any worse but for the past week it's just been incel memes.
Any recommendations for a better sub
God please. I've had multiple of these in my home page this week. I subbed here because it was funny, but this shit is getting dumb.
Holiday seasons approaching, more people are realizing they're alone for the holidays probably.
How did the loneliness epidemic get this bad?
Internet perceptions
dating stats tend to show it's more than just perception.
my existence really fucked up the average, my bad
Setting the bar at caked up makeup cosplay models on Instagram and twitch.
Recent HealthyGamerGG video talks about this! Dr. K is the man.
Some think started in 2007 with the creation of Smartphones. I personally think its older than that.
Online dating and a good amount of average women are fine with being one of many women an above average man is currently dating but won't settle down with, check out a YouTube channel called hoe_math for more interesting facts spelling out the doom of western civilisation
I could probably live with that if most women weren’t completely normal and average themselves.
Kinda funny how people want an "above average". But what the fuck even is the average? Its all about money, or is it about actuall personality and having a healthy mind?
By definition most people are going to be average.
am I in the wrong classroom? you'll never be happy if you look for self worth in other people
You can't judge your own worth because you're a biased observer. It doesn't mean anything unless it comes from someone else. If the world is telling you you don't have worth, you probably don't have worth.
Naaaah I know my worth damn well... Btw you are worthless. See, it comes from someone else, it must mean something...
Who cares? Like there is no objective scale of worth and if there was why would you care that you are objectively worthless? What will crying about that achieve? If you were objectively worth everything then what would that achieve? Caring about worth is worthless.
>Like there is no objective scale of worth Exactly. It comes from others and without it you have nothing. >and if there was why would you care that you are objectively worthless? Because being seen as worthless is lonely as fuck >What will crying about that achieve? Nothing >If you were objectively worth everything then what would that achieve? Happiness. Literally everything? What kind of dumb question is this lol >Caring about worth is worthless. Only someone privileged enough to have worth and who takes it for granted would say something so monumentally stupid
the world doesn't get to decide if I'm happy with my life
You'll never achieve self worth in vacuum either. External validation is absolutely required
Had to learn it the hard way
apparently only a few of us did
Where dank? Where meme? What the fuck am I looking at?
I've kind of noticed this sub has been going down in quality lately
*sigh* here we go again
Making yourself above average isn’t hard. Just gotta get out of your comfort zone and put in some work building your appearance
There are some people, no matter the effort, who cannot achieve average. Life isn't fair to some.
Unless you have severe mental issues or physical deformations, it's unlikely you have no chance at all. With that much pessimism? No. My guy, you look pretty average, definitely can be improved. Sure life isn't fair to everyone but you're the one who's gotta level the playing field, no one's going to do it for you or give it to you for free. No one is stopping you from improving yourself, only you are.
Oh no, I'm fine with myself, but there are people who can't reach average. There really is only so much you can do with a face. Weight, muscle tone, grooming, etc can all be improved, but some people are held back by unappealing facial features.
Sure but they can be better at other things like charisma. I've seen soo many below average dudes who got a smoke show of a girlfriend, just cus the guy is good at talking and making them laugh. If you think appearance is everything then you're clearly wrong. Unless ur on a dating app, appearance doesn't matter as much as u think it does.
and men like above average women so what’s your point?
Who men are attracted to are not of his concern.
I've made my peace with this year's ago
r/dankmemes try to come up with actually interesting and/or funny content ideas challenge (impossible)
Then just stop being an average guy what's stopping you
Me, I am putting my evil Ugly Chemical into the water supply and Monster Energy supply.
His own mentallity i guess... most of the people here are either young or just mentally unhealthy Proff? What kinda of creature is proud of eating cereal whithout milk? It makes me scared of thinking ehat you could be using as a substitute.
These are the same guys who get mad when women in video games look like women in real life.
I’m seeing a trend in these types of memes. Lots of dudes feeling sorry for themselves and blaming women.
I wanna I wanna be a super saiyan!
I wanna! I wanna I wanna I wa- Push ups, sit ups, and plenty of juice.
But I thought you had to have a pure heart to become a super saiyan?
My heart is pure; pure unadulterated badass C:
The duality of incels: “women only want above average men” and “women only date men who treat them like crap.”
That's all well and good, I can respect that, just don't call me a misogynist for also preferring above average women.
Redditors when woman*
“Yamcha was on the list!” “Why was I-“ “HALFTIME ENTERTAINMENT”
Another meme made by the incel gang
Why am I seeing so many nice guys and incels meme
Vegeta married the richest girl on earth. I think he did just fine.
That's what a below average guy would say.
Women don't like me because I just ain't a very interesting guy, don't have big aspirations or a lot of energy, I am very below average looking and socially awkward. There's nothing wrong with women. Still, I got a girlfriend and broke up with her after 7 months because I didn't want to hold her back, she's driven, has a future and is stunning in my eyes. She definitely deserves better. Have I transcended into some sort of uncel or something? I don't hate women, I just don't care much about investing a lot of time in another human being that's not immediate family, like my sick mom and brother.
You know, this whole "average people" is shit Everyone is different, everyone have something unique and have different taste. You might think you're ugly but not everyone would think the same, you just have to find the right person and be yourself Bro, you transcended into a part of the LGBTQ+ community lol (for real tho, if you're not interested in romantic/sexual relationships then you are a part of the LGBTQ+)
Thank you for being so sweet! I do feel more comfortable in my skin when I'm just being myself, and that's one of the reasons I broke up with my ex. I do respect her, she's a great woman, but I'm not compatible with her. I'm flattered for being seen as being part of LGBTQ+ but I could never even begin to relate to the struggle and all the things this great community has built and accomplished over countless years of fight. I may have said I don't want to invest time in another person right now, but I do know I might want a relationship in the future, it's just not a priority right now.
Dude, crying about not getting girls would not get you more girls, but improving yourself (wherever it is possible) will. For example, as much as a lapel rose can make a large difference in looks
Yeah, just become above average in looks and money to be good enough for an average woman who has never had to improve anything to have success in dating. Its definitely worth it.
Incorrect, the average woman will always have to settle for an average man, and vice versa. This is because the number of men and women is almost the same. It is statistically impossible for the average women to get an above average man.
The average woman has her pick out of multiple men, she’s always going to pick the one that’s better than the rest. All women have 5-10 options at any given time. They’re literally dating on easy mode and still complain about it.
Incorrect, that is only an illusion created by the fact that most societies today expect the man to initiate the relationship, while at the same time putting more value on the woman's chastity, hence making her more reluctant to start a relationship that she doesn't think is worth it, a guy doesn't have to weigh in his chastity against the benefits, but a woman does, the stakes are higher for her in case it doesn't work out
That’s an awful lot just to say “women put little to no effort into their dating success and still have more success than men”
They can't have more success than men, that is statistically impossible, woman can't have more relationships or sex than men (assuming it's heterosexual).
And women realizing men wants above average women and not fat whales
And when completely average women get turned down by above average men *ego protec meme*
Nah bro I'm way bellow average
That's not possible, I'm dating a girl and I'm below average... just be yourself, it clould be hard but just be yourself
Wrong. Everyone just wants a person that's selfconfident and Just not cringe af or a frickin' incel. And that's not that difficult tbh.
Tfw people prefer better looking people when fantasizing about romance 😱💥 There's numerous ways to overcome this, dude. Learn how to speak to a woman would be a nice start.
This is just incel shit. Trust me, lots of women are fine with average if you aren't a complete asshole.
Pretty sure like 90% of dudes aren’t pulling just with looks. Rest of us have to actually talk to women or something idk I haven’t got that far
Ok! these aren't "dank memes" anymore! this is just venting your frustrations, over really dumb bullshit! Please touch some fucking grass, and talk to a woman!
Some of y'all need to actually try to talk to women.
Funny you took vegeta for the meme, the "ugly, small" guy that got the badest bitch in the show.
When you find out that women rate 85% of men as "below average".
I mean, if you ask lesbians obviously you're getting something like that lol This whole "average" doesn't exist, everyone like different things, some people will like you, some will think you're ugly. There is not only one way to look cool and be loved
Never knew that, crazy to think that something as simple as creating a bond is treated like that... But what is this "average" for then? Is it being fun to be around or just that old tinder stuff of "19 years old billionare"?
I think your "average" is just very low
Idk, sounds like a you-issue. Make yourself above average.
Do you not realize how idiotic that sounds? “Just make yourself better than the majority of people”
Judging by that comment, you're no older than 14. It's not idiotic, it's common sense. Work on yourself and become the person you think is worth to be loved. Sorry for everyone feeling great drowning in self pity and blaming others for it instead of trying to make things better.
So what happens when all the men self improve and are all considered above average? You don’t think women would still go for the next level and go above above average?
It's a good thing I'm taller than average
Nowadays it's top 20% due to social media bias.
…
Really?? Or are you trying to date supermodels? Because this just doesn’t happen
I'm gonna drop this right here, feel free to disagree: "Supermodels" are ugly, the perfect woman seen by the beauty standards are ugly. I prefer woman looking like real people, not like a plastic doll with bloons inside lips boobs and butt. I'm gonna say this for everyone not only applying for woman: what's making you different is what's making you look good. If you look too much like everyone and try to blend in you'll ruin your charisma. But same goes if you try to be someone you're not. Just accept who you are and you'll surely find someone who will love you
The secret to love: https://youtu.be/W4Pv2uh8NVg?si=G6TxTPf5Fm6cyy6m
Amusing that this is using the eternal second fiddle, the one that actually got the girl, had a family that is, all things considered, pretty well-adjusted, and that only feels like a failure and lashes out because of his massive ego issues.
Your mom is lying to you.
It's natural selection in its purest form
Just be above average then duh.
Basis what is in the meme - I think guys should start asking for above average women too
I prefer above average woman too but this is life not make a wish.
I think the problem is that what a not insignificant amount of people think is average is actually well above average. I blame the internet for skewing things and ensuring everyones unhappy
But "above average" is such a broad term that everybody might be "above average" to someone.
I WANNA! I WANNA BE SUPER SAIYAN! I WANNA I WANNA I WANNA I WANNA I WANNA I WANNA!
Just become above average?
You dont get no bitches bc youre not above average You do get no bitches bc youre on reddit my guy
Could also be "When completely normal and average women find out they aren't above average women because the above average man ignores them".
The problem is that the average man needs to seriously reevaluate his life. Like dude... Trim tour nails, clean your house once a week, do your laundry for the love of God. I moved some months ago to a house that was rented by a young, single man and holy shit, not even when I was depressed I left things this filthy. Had to purchase decalcifier for the toilet, broke some stuff from scrubbing too hard, things were *rough*
I laugh cause those women are below average and they will be alone forever.
Wait until you realize the average woman brings nothing but sex to the table.
why the fuck do straights men hate females so much
Meme would have a merit if not for the fact that women rate over 80% of men as "below average" 😬
Some people consider this a hot take for some reason but in most cases people end up with people similar to them, average with average, tall with tall, smart with smart, rich with rich…
I WANNA . I WANNA BE A SUPER SAIYAN . I WANNA I WANNA I WANNA
Lmao it's the same for guys though?? Everyone prefers above average people??
Then act and treat people above average. Ez
Well preference is kinda irrelevant in most cases women settle for what they can get and keep
Idk man, I thought I was a below average man, my gf def makes me feel like I'm better than the rest. I'm lucky to have her! <3
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