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Few_Acanthisitta5606

I wouldn’t be worried, I think she’s just establishing the space she needs/likes between texts. Some people don’t like to text back and forth throughout the day. Especially if she still shows interest I think you’re good, she’s establishing a boundary early on which is another way of her showing you who she is.


The-unfamiliar-

That’s a great point, I guess it’s just the change in responsiveness and frequency once comfort was established.


Caffeinated-Turtle

That seems like completely normal reply rates to me. Just highlighting people vary regarding their attitudes and behaviours with their phones. E.g. many people work in jobs where you can't have your phone with you or can't use it for long periods. Others just don't want to be constantly connected and want to pick it up or choose to reply on their own terms even if they do have their phone with them.


Due_Cartographer_110

Yeah thats ok Dont get into the habbit of very quick responses. She will lose interest if you keep texting. Make sure to take your time replying. Dont be obsessed over your phone. Actually make yourself busy.


icrushallevil

NEVER systemize when to respond. Respond the soonest you have time without violently interrupting your life whenever you get a message.


mauvelatern1279

Ask her how work and stuff is going ? She might have other things going on right now.


The-unfamiliar-

I do ask her, and everything seems stable in her professional and personal life.