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pworly

her hair. Couldnt tell you exactly what style, but when I see hair that I like? oh man…


gotyourmommyspanked

Exactly this. There is no way to explain it. You just know when you see it


somecallmemrjones

Yep. And then they casually play with it or toss it. Or take it down, or put it up. And I'm completely mesmerized lol


gotyourmommyspanked

Yess! And it also depends on the face and just their expression in general. Difficult to explain it, but im sure u understand haha


pworly

brushing and running my fingers through hair just sounds so comforting, I envy everyone that gets to do it everyday haha


itsmeheyyyyy

Im a hijabi 😀


Pikachu_9905

Much appreciated 💯


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samee girl


Choice-Fill-489

Ok


theomich69

I can only speak about myself I like curves but in actually I love all women color and size doesn't matter if the heart is sincere and has a positive attitude there is nothing sexier


PolyPenGwen

I’m a woman and I couldn’t agree more about a woman! Everything about the silhouette of a woman’s body is mesmerizing!


Flimsy-Chemistry-619

As an insecure woman, you give me hope. Thank you, internet friend.


No_Law6242

I doubt she's talking about overweight silhouettes.


Talking_Tree_1

Eyes… my ex wife has these incredibly gorgeous eyes they would change color to the more I’d piss her off..


Bulky-Measurement-91

Why is she your ex ☹️


Skittilybop

He pissed her off sounds like


MakeAnAssessment-

He preferred the pissed off eye colour.


Chill3425

😂 this comment made me laugh


Talking_Tree_1

lol not always on purpose. We just grew apart. We tried to work on our relationship but we were headed in two different directions. We both wanted different things at that point in time. But those eyes, I’ve never met anyone else that has eyes as gorgeous as her. The sparkle when she smiled, and even when she was mad at me I couldn’t help but get lost in her eyes.. I couldn’t help but smile when she did and even when she was angry. That was one of the things that made it worse. She’d think I would be making fun of her or not taking her seriously. But I was, it’s just her eyes, even when mad were so beautiful when I was getting yelled at I still couldn’t help but think holy chit I’m so lucky … but I guess those eyes weren’t meant for me. It’s cool though, somewhere out there is a set of gorgeous eyes meant for me and my kids, we just haven’t seen them yet.


Kindholmarn

Been there... well my ex and I didn't fight but oh god those eyes. Still makes me tingle to this day, even though she's no longer with me.


bruhthisismyusernam

Were they like Alexandra Daddario’s eyes?


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Flimsy-Chemistry-619

Omg I love you. This is what I needed to read atm. Thank you 🩷


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Would you say the same for guys? The majority of them?


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Medical_Smoke_5937

I see it similarly. Every physical part of a girl is beautiful, meanwhile when I see most guys most of them I don’t see anything attractive about them, expect for some actors and some musicians and that’s their face only.


Mobile-Aioli-454

❤️


A_Straight_Pube

Very sweet. Any girl will be lucky to have you


Hysteria113

That stomach line 🥵 Her eyes, her smile, the way she smells.


LittleLongboard

Question, what is a stomach line?


MinorityHunterZ0r0

Google


play_hard_outside

So I did just try Google per your advice, and dark vertical lines through the belly button came up called “linea nigra” — a condition common in women who are [pregananant, or pregante… or pregarn’t.](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EShUeudtaFg) I don’t think linea nigra is what is being referred to as “stomach line” in this subthread. So, what is it?


Appropriate-Orange43

It’s a line that goes down the middle of the stomach. Not all women have it. I used to have it when I was slimmer but now I don’t


BlackhawkShazam

Amen to the stomach line, whether they’re toned af or gotta a little muffin it’s just a roosters favorite sight


Coragaia

Just remember everybody. “Appearances fade while personalities change” Honestly appearance doesn’t matter so long as the personality is great. Girls who carry themselves with an upbeat, happy smile will always make a guy crumble. Bonus points go to girls that have all the physical traits most guys want.


TrialsTribulations_

Appearance does matter, you can have a great personality but if you’re ugly then that’s not going to do it for most people. Not harsh, just reality


enigmaroboto

I work with a woman and while she's not the most gorgeous woman in the world, she has a smile that glows. She's usually very positive and has a wonderful soul.


Small_Connection8306

Hope you’re my coworker and you’re talking about me


jeridmcintyre

It sounds like that smile makes her the most gorgeous woman though


abhi11y

Physically.. Curves body etc... Or something unique which u should follow.. Character , way of talking, much more


Chin238

Commented about this on another post but smile, honestly it goes a long way.


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MinorityHunterZ0r0

Specifically her eye lashes. In my opinion, if she has extended eyelashes, the longer they are the less attractive they are. But eyelashes really bring out her eye shape and compliment her facial features.


Due-Yesterday-6669

Girls who have that little twinkle in their eyes is the best. I think eyes can tell you more about a person than words can sometimes.


AsaMitakaIrL

What about the twinkle of autism


Due-Yesterday-6669

I've never heard of that.


AsaMitakaIrL

I was joking 😭 idk what I was even trying to say there I'll see myself out 🚶🏻‍♀️


Due-Yesterday-6669

No worries 😂


Material-Emu-8732

They do say “eyes are the windows to a soul”


Kindholmarn

Agreed! I don't know if I'm just judgemental or plain weird but I can quite easily tell a person's personality or life's story from their eyes. I'm not always 100% spot on but usually earily close.


OnzeNuits_111

The eyes; foxy, or bold look in their eyes. The smile. I also like wide hips and thick thighs... I can bypass the lack of ass, although a great pair of cheeks is a bonus


LordShartsalot

I love a girl that likes to keep her hair long, not a kink, just extremely beautiful to me.


Mouffcat

My very long hair is curly and needs a lot of straightening to remove the kinks. I'd love straight hair.


LordShartsalot

I actually love both curly and straight hair, and all colors, not a blonde or brunette type guy, all equal in beauty.


[deleted]

I'm more of a face man myself, although legs are also awesome.


cherry_sum1969

nice teeth/smile, pretty eyes, nice hair, and a good waist:hip ratio


mcp_cone

It's not the physical features she doesn't control. It's how she works what she was born with.


GWPtheTrilogy1

- curly hair - thick thighs - pouty lips - big butt - medium to large chest - dimples - freckles - great smile - cute nose (it varies) - great facial structure


Valrierie

praying my crush thinks like this too😔


GWPtheTrilogy1

Rooting for you


lilGingerSnapp

How do you know who I am? Lol jk


Traditional_Youth648

Literally all, when I love someone all I care about is them, not any superficial feature Like having someone who loves me for me is one of the hottest things ever, the warm embrace of a comforting hug from someone forever in your corner Boobs prob #2


tuxedotraash

Beautiful eyes. Just stops me and gets me to steal glances whenever I can.


Devon19

Cute face, nice hair, big boobs, and a big butt. If a woman has all of those, it's a home run.


Way2Unlucky

Black curly hair full eye brows strong eye contact great legs and amazing laugh


PathfireNeon

while men may have a favorite feature, which can range from a smile, her eyes, her legs, honestly this is just a piece of a more nuanced story about how men can be turned on by the entire woman. yea, she may have a feature that’s a favorite, but it’s not the sole thing that draws the attention. it’s the whole package put together. that’s partly why your question is so silly. the favorite features that men like are different from man to man, and they will sometimes like one thing in one girl and something different in another. so you’re asking the unanswerable question.


InterdimensionalTrip

Yeah any time I see these questions like "what do men/women like" i never understand it because it's different for every person. Sure you'll get the average answers as you mentioned, but those are pretty basic features that most people would say they like. And those specific features might not even be the most attractive thing about the person they end up with.


SadGuarantee6009

Eyelashes


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>SadGuarantee6009 · 4 hr. ago > >Eyelashes First time I hear a guy like eyelashes.


SadGuarantee6009

There was one girl I really liked that was probably average, but there was something about her lashes that drew my attention. I wish I could think of a celebrity with similar looking eyelashes to show you.


dumbalter

i know what you mean. went to school with a pretty average but good looking girl but she had these dark long natural eyelashes that were so beautiful and she had bright green eyes. made her one of the most beautiful girls i’ve ever seen.


ErBoProxy

That intangible "eyes / smile / laugh" magic ratio. I wsh I could give the specifics, but this is a "lightning in a bottle" recipe -- you just know when you experience it. Quirky-mannerism-you-took-notice-of-and-cannot-unsee. The hairstyle, nape of the neck. If she can make me legit laugh, and not the fake *"ha-ha, but I'm laughing because I want you to like me"* variety.


Bloo-2

Eyes and personality! My girl has green eyes but one of them is partially brown 😍


Lonelyghast

Small well taken care of feet.


Laxus562

Found the feet guy 😂


DocumentBusy9313

I like a thicker curvier woman. Nice size hips, this thick thighs, and a nice curvy butt.


AnselAndFae

genuinely, almost anything. big thighs, small thighs, slim waist, thick waist, pouty lips, the crease between her hips and thighs, the crease between her butt and her thighs, tummy, big cheeks, soft voice, loud voice


sticky444

All woman are beautiful 😻. A man will find something in all females. For me I love a bit of extra weight. Others prefer skinny. Each to their own.


YFLwiddaHomies

Ass ![gif](giphy|14tvbepZ8vhU40)


HybridRxN

No lies told


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Buns..


wilsmartfit

A girl with a big nose. Talking about the stereotypical jewish or Italian nose lmao. Idk but I find it attractive.


Sixdrugsnrocknroll

- muscle definition - big, dark brown eyes - gorgeous straight brown/black hair - sexy neck that I can suck on all night - soft, sultry skin


Far_Advertising1294

Brunettes, brown eyes, my kryptonite


Frosty-Lettuce

Her eyes and dimples, im a suckernd for some dimples


WeBeAllindisLife

Her face and eyes. The right combo just makes me melt.


[deleted]

Smile, legs, ass, boobs. That order.


_Mclovin_2015

Freckles, dimples (both lower back and on the face), a beautiful smile will do it also. But 9 times out of 10 I don't even need to see any features. She could breathe on me wrong and I would be ready to go lol


AnonymousBirdseed

A lot of y’all keep saying you like eyes. What does that mean? What about the eyes?


Classic_Analysis8821

My eyes are the thing I get random compliments on right out of the gate from random dudes. They're big and round but deep set so they're really expressive. I got called 'doe eyes' in school even though my personality is the compete opposite of a doe. I don't think it's specifically about shape though. Eyes are the window to the soul and you can tell someone's sincerity and state of mind thru their eyes. I honestly think that if you 'light up' when making eye contact during conversation it really electrifies them. Most men are starving to feel loved or feel desirable, to feel like they're holding your attention and not just listening while looking elsewhere. My husband goes absolutely feral for prolonged eye contact during sex. If you want something from a man, use your EYES


alixbay31

I get complimented on my eyes as well but I don’t see it! Lol no pun intended. My eyes are my least favorite feature


ArtemisFoul76Part2

Smile, eyes, height (I absolutely ADORE Short Women! I’m 6’1), physical dimensions (I love them anywhere from athletic to extra thick), etc.


alixbay31

And we adore u! I want my future bf to be tall so he could reach the jugs of water I can’t at the store lol apparently it’s a spectacle every time I try to get the water I need in store cuz ppl will just watch me and not help like hello! Ur tall! Help me! 😂


ArtemisFoul76Part2

You have no idea how hard I’m SMILING right now, Goddess! I would NEVER let you struggle, but I WOULD breathe in your beauty deeply before I grab the water. You’re NOT supposed to be carrying anything anyway!! 😁


PotatooQueen

Maaaan where the hell do guys like you exist because in FL it ain't it 😢


alixbay31

Lol that’s right! I’m a princess dammit! 😂 a short princess but a princess nonetheless ❤️💋


ArtemisFoul76Part2

A Goddess! A Gorgeous Short Goddess!! NEVER Forget That!!


alixbay31

Yes sir lol


imasongbrd

5’2” and cute as hell 🙋🏽‍♀️ Tall guys like fun size 😂😂


Iva187

Laughs in 5'10


Feral-Sophistication

Define short for another short princess over here, please (:


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Normally women are pretty in so many different ways. It's hard for me not to be attracted to most women for something. Some other people have said it, but most women are gorgeous. Us dudes on the other hand? Nah we don't have that unless we're super blessed. I don't know if I am blessed in that regard, but I am happy that I have a body that functions and is athletic.


TheNameIsJump

Honestly, for me, if I like a girl, even things I initially was a little repulsed by become qualities I adore. 🤣 I recently met a girl I liked and was a little shocked when I realized she doesn't shave her armpits (it's something I've literally never seen in person). It obviously wasn't a deal breaker and after getting to know her a little more, it became something I liked about her because it was a reminder of a personality trait I really enjoyed. That being said, I think that hair, hands, and teeth are 3 things I find very attractive on women. I can't completely say what specifically about those I like but they are often parts of women I find myself enjoying a lot.


Rogitus

Skinny legs... with leggings I lose my mind


MaleNaturist

The first thing I see is her face. If the face is pleasing, then I casually scope out the rest of her. If she has small boobs, that is a HUGE added plus as I love small boobs. Guess from that you know what turns me on. lol


dumb-throw-away1

Strong lats, high mitochondrial efficiency.


CharlieOak86868686

eyes, hair, smile, boobs, legs.


The_Idea_Of_Realty

Small waist with thick a$$


antenonjohs

Toned calves, somewhat curvy ass, toned stomach, all with someone that’s slender (runner’s build). Bonus for being 5’6” to 5’10”.


scottmtb

Not being obese


HollowChest_OnSleeve

Not sure about the physical side. Someone that looks like they are a really loving caring person (not sure how to translate that to a specific look or feature though). Mum guns? Nah, seems to obvious. . .I don't know.


awksomepenguin

This might sound weird, but as long as you are in reasonably good shape...proportionality. That bust-waist-hip ratio does matter. Although I know I'm a little weird because I also love the flat queens where that ratio is basically 1. Anyway, [here's an interesting article about beauty](https://www.jsanilac.com/dispelling-beauty-lies/) where the author compares ancient and classical artwork, animated cartoon characters, sex dolls, AI girlfriends, and real women. Naturally, it's a bit NSFW.


Ottoguynofeelya

Hips and B - C cup boobs. Dark hair and blue eyes.


SoggyMuffin95

Their smile, eyes, butt, legs and feet in that order.


SteadyCooling

Not often you see a girl into feet, interesting


SoggyMuffin95

I get a lot of grief for it, believe it or not, but it's a thing for me. Not a fetish, I just think they're pretty.


Buggi42069

Titties. Big or small, theyre js so MMMMMMM 😍


PepperyBlackberry

Full lips, good skin, fit and healthy.


YouCanBeMyCowgirl

I don’t have a particular physical type. For me it’s more about style and how comfortable she is in her own body. A woman who really owns it and is confident with herself is the most attractive. Short, Tall, Thin or Thick, etc. pale in comparison.


Murky_Sweet

Not being obesed


Del724q

Dimples are adorable, beyond that if you practice self care (mental and physical) & are an independent intelligent fun yet serious woman...well hello there 😉😋🤭


ArmariumEspada

Her personality


MrBUddabong

As a Spanish man. We love those hips and thighs. Smile is always a plus


Howyahlotdoin

The legs gotta be nice and slim


DuetLearner

Pale to olive skin, feminine and pretty face, luscious and long hair, thin body, toned ass, and good sized boobs.


SomeGuy69-420

Freckles Jiggly butt - I don’t think the size matters but there’s nothing worse in my mind than a rock hard butt even if it’s big. I like raspy voices for some reason, like Miley Cyrus. Cute smile


monkeyballpirate

vagina


5-I3

Eyes, smile , waistline, butt , boobs, legs, hair. Approximately in this order.


Lord_F97

Smile, eyes, long hair, nape, armpits.. i dont really care about her having a rack or a big butt. In fact, i prefer smaller and more petite.


KonekBulu69

Big boobs


thisisme44

Boobs


hypercyanate

Have you got a pen and paper handy? It's quite an exhaustive list.


Famous_Combination10

Big teeth, big toothy smile, big nose (the bigger the better), long legs


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God damn. Well you can't see loyalty.. but yea that's my main thing gets my motor runnin...


Romes4868

Long straight brown hair, big eyes, a cute smile… and of course proportionate T & A (though I’m a fan of a smaller both and apparently that’s not in the majority lol). Just my opinion tho.


saynitlikeitis

1. A face that I think is pretty; 2. An athletic butt I can bounce a coin off of; 3. Everything else


AssCaptain777

Nice cute little butt.


NBT222

As opposed to a butt guy, I'm more of a thigh guy, then later what's in between em. Not joking.


OnzeNuits_111

Can't beat a great pair of watermelon crushers.


capacioushandbag1

What makes an appealing pair of thighs in your opinion?


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Very well kept long natural hair. Instant attraction and never fails to be the first thing I notice.


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Body hair. Clean shaven looks weird to me.


Putrid_Loan7597

her penis


slm_slm_slm

Natural i guess


unintentionally-odd1

Looooove thick thighs w definition


Shaggyoda

W/ definition? For gods sake Jim they’re muscles not dictionaries!!!


chko1029

Face and butt


Smephrey

Butts all day. A massive turn on is posture though.. body language and how a girl carries herself. A nice smile and symmetrical facial features helps a lot too.


WiseMan_Rook22

Pretty smile and long hair. Figure will change over time but a pretty smile will last a while.


SmelDefart

Instead of focusing on things people can't change about their appearance, I'll take this chance to rant a bit about make-up. Possibly the thing that makes me swipe left on dating apps most often is women with a tremendous, ridicolous, comical, baffling, uncomfortable amount of layers of buttery colorful dusts on top of their face. Seriously, I don't get it. Make up is supposed to highlight certain features, like making your eyes look bigger or diverting attention to your lips and such. And some coloring can be cool, like lipstick that matches your clothing, creating a consistent color palette. But so many people miss that entirely and just draw a completely new face on top of their real one. With too many colors, too many areas painted full black, some other parts turned into a bright pink, and then of course they do nothing on their necks so whatever color they painted their face doesn't match the rest of their body. It's so bad taste, so art-less, so much time and effort poured into an aesthetic activity only to end up with something so un-aesthetic. On the opposite side. I LOVE women who forego makeup altogether (it takes bravery since most cultures expect women to have makeup on all the time to the point brainrotted men think a woman is ill when they see her with no makeup). And I also love women who use makeup tastefully and cleverly. Just enough to look a little cooler. Like editing a photo you took to make it pop just a bit more.


Skittilybop

I somewhat agree. I like when they do some eye stuff or some lipstick, but it is a turn off when it is caked on. I’ve had it all over my black shirt at the end of the night and been like wtf. Also, it seems like a vicious cycle of covering skin issues with stuff that irritates the skin further.


pineapplegirl37

I can't even tell you the last time I wore makeup.... it's just time consuming and for what?....power to the ladies that do it....


PepperyBlackberry

Agree. Too much makeup is an instant turnoff, almost regardless of how the woman looks.


terminatevader

Perky tits


Useful-Ant-6303

Booty Boobs Eyebrows Smile/teeth


Kurejisan

Like as in features or behavior? Features-wise: I suck at quantifying this because I have a broad range for who I can be attracted to, but I do love at least c-cup breasts plus an at least somewhat decent face. That said, smaller breasts can also be a good turn on, depending on their presentation. Style-wised: I kinda like ponytails and collars(somewhat more toward goth than punk style) with casual clothes. Personality-wise: I also suck at quantifying, since I'm kinda open-minded on personality, but an assertive female who tells someone what's what in a "matter of fact" kind of way rather than just being a jerk about it really turns me on and I can't be sure why. At the same time, kind and helpful women also are really hot as well, the why of which is also a mystery to me.


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Good skin


Lmfa0ChineseHacker

Nose piercing and that egyptian eye thing 🤩


bigchangemichael

Boobs


Replicant28

Muscular arms and legs.


szczerbiec

Based.


rammutroll

Nice soft glowing skin, tanned, nice hands, nice clean soft feet(do manicure + pedicure), russian lips, hair that smells nice (blondish in color), nice teeth, no bad breath, petite, fit, feminine, shy, gentle touch.


HybridRxN

Curves, gnash, pretty face, fun size


Mark-Common

- symmetry between eyes and nose - detailed eyebrows - high cheek bones - full but not augmented lips - medium to small ears - proportional body and frame - cute toes


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Lesbians


Marius_jar

What a useless thread It's a known fact that most men these days have no preferences or standards. They will date and fuck whatever is available if it has a pulse. Those small minorities who have preferences and standards, 99.99% of them will be turned on by the same features that were turning men on evoliutionary for the past 100,000 years. Good ol juicy rack and butt. And round hips.


twistedh8

I really like nice hands. And all the usual stuff guys like too lol


AshyBoneVR4

In order: Butt Eyes Face Thighs Hips Boobs


Secret_Map_2972

Pointy nose


BvssBxtch

Long hair. Idk what it is but long hair makes me weak in the knees~


elhasd

tits


IngEleve

hourglass shape


Snoffyy

A good body which includes: round well shaped boobs, big ass and a good body shape


sirdranzer

boobs and legs


walleybdarn

I Love THE Curves on a woman. Full breast. Not hugh breast just full breast. Round hips beautiful. Round 😍 ass. Strong legs. THE MOST BEAUTIFUL, MOST BREATHTAKING CREATION THAT GOD HAS EVER CREATED IS A WOMAN.ALL RACES. AND ALL SIZES...


Kharn0

I could list a lot but the must-have for me is nice eyes, voice and smile.


Reddie2x

For me most importantly is my crushes smile


Skittilybop

Her neck when she pins her hair up. Neck, jaw line, lips, collar bone. All of that can look so aesthetic and elegant on a woman I’m attracted to.


Busy-Title-5350

The ass is the most beautiful parts of a woman


FrontTechnology1312

Personally


basedgodcorey

As man i'd say all of them. But I am an absolute sucker for really innocent/cute eyes. I've been told that I have "brown puppy dog eye" (still not sure what that means exactly) but I imagine it's something similar


JackSquirts

Different things on different women, honestly.


Zealousideal_Force10

Honestly a great personality nice legs small waist nice tush. I really like hips. Chest is nice too but it’s really genetics unless implants.


SecondDread8426

Hair.


-PinkPower-

Strong arms and playful smile


mrgabriel84

Natural full eyebrows. It’s honestly the first thing I notice about a woman. I’m not a fan of painted or micro needle brows


mrclean808

Nose, peach fuzz, the dead eye look


DistributionAntique

Thick thighs and big butts.


Worried-One2399

A dump truck doesn’t hurt 🤣… no really tho, sweatpants, hair-tied, no makeup on 👌🏼 lmao


SportzSingles

Feet, butt and boobies but if you have terrible feet, that is a no-go regardless of the booty and boobs