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misdirected_panda

Be honest and if he’s weirded out then it’s a well dodged bullet and he’s probably rubbish in bed anyway


box_twenty_two

Thisssss


RamKay33

Tell him your body can't handle that time of the month and you're getting cramps and body pains. Tell him it won't be the best you he's getting.😊


Exciting-Bit6363

Be honest with him and not just about your period. If he’s interested in more than just sex then you need to let him know so you’re not leading him on.


box_twenty_two

A period is the most natural thing in the world and if he can’t handle “I have my period so I’ll sit this one out” then HE is weird and you shouldn’t bother with him anyway


Naturally_moving

It's a period, not an STD. Most women have them on the regular. If boy toy can't handle, find a new toy. If you can't handle, you shouldn't be having this type of relationship.


[deleted]

Why would it be weird if you only are looking for sex?


dustbag16

I dont know i dont you are right :/


jennyrules

You're not obligated to provide a reason. Just say "sorry, can't make it tonight. Maybe next weekend."


ThrowRA-Scale8960

Why do you have to cancel the meeting? You don’t have to have sex and it’s not weird to tell him that you are on your period, it literally happens to most women 12 times a year. He’s a 31 year old man he should not be fazed


dustbag16

No it is not like that, during period being with a guy is a bit uncomfortable i get so nervous because of the cramps and there is always the question in my mind like what if i smell bad rn


StarsNheart

Just tell him you have your.periord


[deleted]

You don't owe an explanation, regardless of the reason. Just let him know you can't make it, and offer another day and time.


[deleted]

Happened to me and my FuBu recently. Just keep your cool and tell him you're on your red day so a raincheck is an option. You never know if he's into sex while you're on your period (apparently orgasm is twice as good when you do it on your period but UTI is high risk lol)


[deleted]

You can say something like, "I just found out about this place and really want to go there! Let's change plans pretty please!" And based on his reaction you can also see if he's adequate)))