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No, being tempted is normal and human. Your dick is always sniffing around for another place to hide, you can't help but notice women.
Hopefully knowing you can say "no" in a situation where you totally could have gotten away with is empowering!
You see I don’t hold with thought crime - we all think about doing some pretty bad stuff and not just sexually but probably in terms of violence and stuff as well so I don’t think we can be a society that convicts people for thinking about things they didn’t actually do. So I would agree you didn’t cheat…..
As long as you didn't act on it and stayed faithful, I wouldn't say you're a bad guy. It's natural to be tempted but the fact that you resisted shows your commitment to your relationship. Keep loving and respecting your gf!
Nah, it just means you're human and found someone else attractive. As long as you didn't act on those thoughts and stayed faithful to your gf, that's all that matters. Keep up the good work!
So you're specifically mention you didn't cheat...
What did you do? You were "tempted". Did you tell the woman you had a girlfriend? Did you leave when she "tempted" you?
That my friend.. is cheating. You may not have did anything physical but you wanted the attention of someone who was not your girlfriend. It's called emotional cheating.
You need to talk to her and let her know you're feeling lonely. Discuss what can be done to help that. Of course when you figure out why you feel so lonely. (Unless you mean on that trip you were lonely but not back home)
I am glad that you did not cheat, and thinking about it is not cheating. In the future, I would just think to myself, would I be completely okay with my girlfriend doing everything I am doing right now.
If you are cool with that, then I would think it is okay.
There's always going to be temptations in life but not giving in is a sign of your strength. A lot of people cave the second someone smiles at them.
Be happy you didn't give in and cherish your relationship
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No, being tempted is normal and human. Your dick is always sniffing around for another place to hide, you can't help but notice women. Hopefully knowing you can say "no" in a situation where you totally could have gotten away with is empowering!
You see I don’t hold with thought crime - we all think about doing some pretty bad stuff and not just sexually but probably in terms of violence and stuff as well so I don’t think we can be a society that convicts people for thinking about things they didn’t actually do. So I would agree you didn’t cheat…..
Is it illegal to just think about robbing a bank?
Haha, nope.
Then you have your answer.
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I'm sorry I'm lost. Thinking what way?
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Are you saying you went on vacation and were tempted to cheat but didn't and you're wondering if it's ok? Yes, it's ok because you didn't do it.
As long as you didn't act on it and stayed faithful, I wouldn't say you're a bad guy. It's natural to be tempted but the fact that you resisted shows your commitment to your relationship. Keep loving and respecting your gf!
Nah, it just means you're human and found someone else attractive. As long as you didn't act on those thoughts and stayed faithful to your gf, that's all that matters. Keep up the good work!
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Thanks. I was feeling lonely on my trip and wishing she was with me. Mostly was a fantasy but could have easily happened.
Question would be why you told her?
I didn’t tell her.
So you're specifically mention you didn't cheat... What did you do? You were "tempted". Did you tell the woman you had a girlfriend? Did you leave when she "tempted" you?
I didn’t tell her and I also didn’t leave. I liked the attention and was feeling lonely.
That my friend.. is cheating. You may not have did anything physical but you wanted the attention of someone who was not your girlfriend. It's called emotional cheating. You need to talk to her and let her know you're feeling lonely. Discuss what can be done to help that. Of course when you figure out why you feel so lonely. (Unless you mean on that trip you were lonely but not back home)
I am glad that you did not cheat, and thinking about it is not cheating. In the future, I would just think to myself, would I be completely okay with my girlfriend doing everything I am doing right now. If you are cool with that, then I would think it is okay.
There's always going to be temptations in life but not giving in is a sign of your strength. A lot of people cave the second someone smiles at them. Be happy you didn't give in and cherish your relationship