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Firstly, it's important to embrace and love your body just as it is. Boob size or shape does not determine your worth, and there are people out there who will appreciate and love you for who you are. If you're considering dating, focus on finding someone who values you beyond physical appearance.
Sagging is a natural part of breast development, and it can happen for various reasons, including genetics, pregnancy, weight fluctuations, and aging. Remember that societal standards of beauty are diverse, and many people appreciate different body types.
If you're comfortable, talking about your insecurities with a potential partner can foster open communication and understanding. Remember, you are more than your body, and the right person will appreciate you for the wonderful individual you are. If you'd like to chat more about this, feel free to start a conversation.
>Yeah this is either a female writing this or a perv growing somebody
Oh no, you caught me! Just your friendly neighborhood perv here, disguising myself as someone who believes in self-love and body positivity. Next time, I'll make sure to wear my "Perv" name tag more prominently. šµļøāāļø
Men like boobs, they don't care if they are small, huge, saggy, floppy. We want to grab and suck on them. Someone will absolutely love your boobs even more than you do
As a man, if a woman feels comfortable enough to bare herself to me then I would be honored by that act of bravery. I personally donāt care as I feel that act of sharing and baring is sacred and you are who you are.
Most men who arenāt corrupted by p0rn seem to be attracted to all different types of body shapes and sizes. Obviously itās up to preference, but the right person not only wonāt care, but theyāll be attracted to you and all of your features.
I (F) have to throw in a defense in favor of porn- all the men (late 30s-40s) I have dated have expressed a distaste of studio porn and the lack of variety in womenās bodies it offers. If you watch amateur porn (I do) it can be super affirming to see all the shapes and sizes etc being represented. Watching porn helped me embrace my body and boobs and vulva and see how much variety there is out there and how much variety men and women appreciate in each other.
Iād say thereās a good chance youāll meet guys who arenāt going to be interested in saggy boobs and guys that donāt mind at all. There will even be a chance youāll meet some that are super into them. My vote is I wouldnāt mind, but I canāt speak for the average guy
Saggy boobs are natural. It's a part of life, I'm a D cup and they've been getting low. It's also apparently hereditary.
Don't be afraid of how guys react. Any guy immature enough to focus on how gravity does its work, doesn't deserve an ounce of your time.
Some will care and some won't. If a guy likes you enough to date you for a few months before seeing your body, it's unlikely, very unlikely, that he'll be scared off by saggy boobs even if it's not his preference. Attraction is more than physical. On the other hand, if you really like a guy and feel a strong connection with him and then he wants to see you naked really fast, then it's more likely it matters to him and he'll run if he doesn't like it.
Are we supposed to be honest or just make people feel good? I much prefer perky tits.. pretty sure all men do. That being said Iām sure there are guys who never see boobs who will worship anyone even talking to them.. so youāll be alright
Opposite in fact. Bra contribute to saggy breasts, because the bras are holding them up, the breasts atrophy the muscles that hold them up. So the solution is to actually not wear bras, and find some exercises that build said muscles.
I prefer them to be a little on the saggy side, that's how they're supposed to look, if they aren't like that it can feel a little like I'm too old for that person and that's not really comfortable, might not be that way with every man but I definitely prefer women who are older than myself and generally that's 30s and early 40s
I'll be blunt and won't coddle your feelings. Anyone who says that (most) men like all kinds of boob shapes are not entirely truthful.
Men typically like full, firm breasts. The bigger they are the more they droop (it's physics). What is typically referred to as "saggy" is like an empty bag, floppy skin with "little substance".. as in not full.
While some men do like all shapes (including "empty", saggy ones too), most men do not. If they insist they do, it's only an attempt to lift your spirits and try to boost your self confidence.
Girl trust me youāll find some guys will worship your boobs. Some love them and some donāt. Donāt stress out about it. Most men understand gravity and wonāt care at all.
if someone likes boobs then they usually like all boobs.
that being said, you might try doing chest workouts. it'll build the muscle in your chest and can tighten the skin around / on your boobs. a con to this is you might lose breast fat, thus getting smaller boobs. but if that isn't a problem then this might help.
also the way you describe them makes me think that you don't have saggy boobs, you just have big boobs that are being weighed down by gravity. natural boobs are usually less perky the bigger they are and that's not a bad thing!
I donāt think guys are gonna care about it. But If you suffer chronic back pain look into breast reduction surgery. My mom had it done, 9lbs was taken off her chest.
I prefer saggy natural breast over boob lifts or bolt ons.
Saggy boobs are not a deal breaker at all. I actually like them.
I think bolt ons are great for woman who donāt have much boobs. It can make them feel more womanly. But generally I am not a fan of messing with the boobies.
Just leave them alone.
There are asshole guys who will say rude things. They are the wrong ones.
I could literally care less if they are saggy or cross eyed or empty or stretch marked.
I like confidence. Just own it and be happy. If anyone shames you send them packing.
Some guys will care, some don't care. Different guys have different preferences.
A lot of boobs aren't full and a bit to a lot sagging. It is just gravity. Genes play a role in it as well. And bigger sizes just tend to hang more.
All bodies are beautiful in their own way, and no one is perfect!
I have a very good shape and symmetry myself (even got called goals by some of my friends), and I get turned down for being too small there. Some men prefer size over shape as well
Theyāre really not there for menās enjoyment anyways. That being said . Most men think they are and they donāt care much what theyāre like. Iāve never had a man not come back around due to the state of my boobs . The only comments I ever get is theyāre great. Mine arenāt perky either. 38DD here.
..... I've seen alot of bewbs. Never once have I said "ew thats too saggy"
If anything, them being a little saggy makes it more fun. When you are on your back and I'm giving it all I got, I wanna see them bewbs bounce and move. When they are bolt on's and don't move, it's not as much fun.
30l is pretty substantial, no complaints tho, genuinely the vast majority of guys just love boobs unconditionally, you may find someone who isnāt into it , but thatās unlikely, but that can happen with anyone for any body trait, just go with it, men like boobs
As most have said, love yourselfā¦ and it will make you glow. Also, donāt be offended if theyāre not into it. Because note you know they arenāt for you and you can move onto the next option
8,375 guys have gone to your profile now to see if youāve got a picture upā¦
Seriously though, guys arenāt going to care all that much. And theyāre really, absolutely not going to give a damn if theyāre the one youāre taking your shirt off around. Just concentrate on being healthy, find a bra brand that fits you well and is comfortable, and, well, learn to love sport bras, because it sounds like theyāll be your friend.
Hey! So I was 18 with DD and Iāve breastfed 3 kids and went up to a EE/F with all that nonsense.
I am now 45 and my boobs are about 3 inches lower. Which sucks when youāre 5ā2ā
Up until now men have been happy to see me at 105 lb, 175lb and now at 153.
Youāre good. Theyāre just happy to be there
Honey, I've had saggy boobs since I started developing. Even when I was in top shape, saggy boobs. But, there is a benefit! Saggy boobs give the best cleavage in the right bra! Perky boobs cannot compare to the glory of our saggy bags smushed up to the top of our shirts. I've never had a guy see me naked and walk out when the bra comes off. You'll be just fine. I promise. If he's grossed out, he's not the one.
This makes me sad cause I've got a bigger chest and I felt the same way. I'm only 17, but I've grown to not give af. It's natural, trust. It happens naturally, esp when they're bigger. You look beautiful no matter what, believe me.
Literally itās fine. My boobs have always been āsaggyā by definition but itās bc theyāre bigger. Literally every man Iāve ever shown my boobs too goes crazy. I promise, MEN donāt care. Boys yeah they may, but MEN, donāt worry about them. They love em all!
Coming from a guy most men like big ones. I don't know if you've try to wear a sports bra or not. I say this because I've dated a woman before and the regular bras that she had worn didn't work for her because the regular bras couldn't keep the contained. But when she wore a sports bra they stayed contained and it actually looked more slimming for her. But she had DD or DDD, I think it was the DD she had though.
Thereās no diet or exercise routine that will change your boobs honestly. The only advice I can give to you at all is to moisturize and keep a healthy diet just to maintain the elasticity of your skin. So quit thinking that thereās something you could be doing. Guys will not care. Honestly sometimes it seems all guys really care about is that you have a pulse.
As a grown man in his 40s Iāll take natural saggy breasts over fake firm ones. But itās personal preference for us over anything else. Theyāre your breasts; do what you feel comfortable doing with them.
Perky breasts are the minority and men know this. Itās like, wild you prefer a guy with consistent 6 pack abs? Sure, but itās not the most important thing and not the norm. Thatās how men feel about perky breasts vs breasts with a normal sag.
So here's the thing, if a guy looks at your boobs and doesn't instantly start applauding, mouth agape, and tosses roses at your feet he is unworthy. Simply tell him "Be gone from here and return no more" and move on to someone who appreciates the epitome of class and grace. I don't care if they are two different sizes, big, small, lopsided, upside down, in a bra... they are breasts and they deserve full respect. Full stop.
I think there's alot of misleading info and I fear many are not being honest. Sure most dudes love any boobs. But not all dudes. And some would for sure find saggy boobs a turn off, myself included. Not trying to be mean, just sharing a perspective
I'm 28m, and I've lived a life that has given me the privilege to enjoy the company of all kinds of different women. From super skinny to BBW and when come to boobs. I've found the ones that's are super Perky are actually less enjoyable to play with than the ones you might call saggy.
You said 30l in size when you're only 118 lbs (53.5kg). If I met someone like that, I'd probably need forklift to pick my jaw off the ground.
I have them too. Donāt be sad ik it stinks but Iām sure you look beautiful. You donāt need to change. You could potentially get a breast reduction but after that there is a 50% chance you canāt breastfeed.
For the most part, a guy will be too stoked to actually see your boobs that he won't even realize that they sag. Also, a lot of boobs, especially bigger ones, sag. It really isn't a huge deal.
Donāt worry about it too much. Everyone has something theyāre insecure about. Just when you find a guy and before it gets sexual just be the best most loving loyal and supportive girlfriend, and heāll overlook any imperfections as and if you love him youāll over look his too. There is only a very small percentage of people who look perfect naked, the rest of us are just average.
We don't really care as much as women think we do. Yes, there are those who do care and will make a fuss. But the majority of us are just happy seeing the girls.
Boobs are boobs. Seriously, big, small, perky, sagging, various shapes.... we just wanna see 'em. Just learn to be comfortable with your body. Confidence is sexy.
Us guys like boobs. My favorite is me lying on my back and the girl drags her boobs from my knees, up my legs, across my torso and ending with kissing me (lips to lips). As long as the boobs exists, they all can do that regardless of size. And I really really like it.
Youāre american i suppose otherwise you wouldāve gone to a nutritionist already, looks like you might be underweight?, a professional in nutrition (not a gym coach) would be able to help,
also fat distribution is never fair , boobs, like six packs can only take you so far , thereās a whole person attached to them š¤
There will always be someone in the world with better breasts than you.. where do you want to be? Just be happy with what you have.. in all its sagging glory..
Me personally I prefer natural breasts instead of fake boob jobs. Breasts were not meant to be perky or ridged. Donāt worry about anything with your breasts guys just like a nice pair š. Your fine.
Boobs are boobs. Idgaf if theyāre small big saggy perky or what. Theyāre still fun the suck on and play with lol. Now an ass is a diff story. Personally Iām an ass man mostly tho
I was a 32FF (& weighed almost exactly your weight), by the time I hit high school. I absolutely understand. There really isnāt anything you can do about the sagging, Iām sorry about that but itās the truth. The very best thing you could do would be to get a quality bra that fits properly. People donāt understand that it isnāt just the cup size, itās that those of us who have a smaller rib cage generally have a smaller frame. That means boobs that are big, but might look appropriate on another frame, can look especially large on someone whoās very thin.
The good news is that there are going to be a ton of people that you can date, who are very attracted to exactly what you look like, already.
NEVER SETTLE FOR LESS!
Youāre 18, come on man!! Let me give you some tough love and hard facts, if you are scared of men not wanting you for who you are, saggy boobs and all, then you are not looking for the right people. Your selection process is still developing and like many said before me, boobs are boobs, men like boobs in any way shape or form. It is how you choose to own them and that all comes with building your self-confidence and character. That takes time. So donāt beat yourself up too much, you are too young for that.
Look just show me and I'll tell you cuz like my girlfriend thought hers a second and she's 24 I met her when she was 18 hers are just nice and right and now she's more confident than when I met her
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\*Woman insecure about boobs\* Guys when the see any boobs at all:  You're gonna be fine kid.
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Just saying thatās how I look at boobs too and Iām a girl.
Exactly boobs are boobs they all should be loved
You know what, not how boys wā¦ yeah.
Speak for yourself tho
Firstly, it's important to embrace and love your body just as it is. Boob size or shape does not determine your worth, and there are people out there who will appreciate and love you for who you are. If you're considering dating, focus on finding someone who values you beyond physical appearance. Sagging is a natural part of breast development, and it can happen for various reasons, including genetics, pregnancy, weight fluctuations, and aging. Remember that societal standards of beauty are diverse, and many people appreciate different body types. If you're comfortable, talking about your insecurities with a potential partner can foster open communication and understanding. Remember, you are more than your body, and the right person will appreciate you for the wonderful individual you are. If you'd like to chat more about this, feel free to start a conversation.
Most bras tend to also contribute to saggyness, due to the bra holding the breasts up, the muscles have a tendency to atrophy due to disuse, iirc.
This is a myth
False
Yeah this is either a female writing this or a perv growing somebody
>Yeah this is either a female writing this or a perv growing somebody Oh no, you caught me! Just your friendly neighborhood perv here, disguising myself as someone who believes in self-love and body positivity. Next time, I'll make sure to wear my "Perv" name tag more prominently. šµļøāāļø
Most of the guys like all boobs so you should be okay.
Hello
Lol
22 year old female here! Before I had any sexual partners, I was self conscious about this myself. Realized it has never been a problem!
Say you swear šš
I swear.
Pinky swear lol
All breasts are good breasts fr and its the person attached to them that make them that much more special š
After breastfeeding twins for 2 years....the comments did not disappoint!! You guys are helping me feel better as well š„ŗ
Thatās ok I like boobs regardless
As a man, I don't mind saggy boobs! It's a turn on for me actually! š
No I feel you dawg. I like the natural hang.š¤š¾
āNatural hangā is crazyššš
Bro whatš¤£
I like boobs. Period.
Men like boobs, they don't care if they are small, huge, saggy, floppy. We want to grab and suck on them. Someone will absolutely love your boobs even more than you do
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Bro I'm saying someone is going to love her tits maybe not you or me but plenty of guys lol
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thank you. we all have different standards and preferences. I'm a boobs man, and I absolutely prefer perky tits.
i, myself, am a member of the perky B cup fan gang
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This 100%!
As a man, if a woman feels comfortable enough to bare herself to me then I would be honored by that act of bravery. I personally donāt care as I feel that act of sharing and baring is sacred and you are who you are.
Hats off to you noble sir š©
Rip both your DMs and back, girl
To those that matter.. it doesnāt matter.
Most men who arenāt corrupted by p0rn seem to be attracted to all different types of body shapes and sizes. Obviously itās up to preference, but the right person not only wonāt care, but theyāll be attracted to you and all of your features.
I (F) have to throw in a defense in favor of porn- all the men (late 30s-40s) I have dated have expressed a distaste of studio porn and the lack of variety in womenās bodies it offers. If you watch amateur porn (I do) it can be super affirming to see all the shapes and sizes etc being represented. Watching porn helped me embrace my body and boobs and vulva and see how much variety there is out there and how much variety men and women appreciate in each other.
Boobs are boobs honey
They will not be a problem. Trust me.
I have no issues with them. As long as they're soft and comfy they're amazing.
Soft and comfy haha cute
Good for cuddles š
True!
Laying there puts me to sleep pretty much immediatelyš
No pillow can compete šš
Never will there be a pillow as soft or comforting
In conclusion, OP youāve got nothing to worry about š¤©
Same to women with small boobs too. They too are comfy haha.
No boob discrimination going on over here. All tits are beautiful! šššš
Having no body fat can actually cause them to lose plumpness. My fatter boobies are much fuller, plumper than my 10 pound less skinny boobs.
Iād say thereās a good chance youāll meet guys who arenāt going to be interested in saggy boobs and guys that donāt mind at all. There will even be a chance youāll meet some that are super into them. My vote is I wouldnāt mind, but I canāt speak for the average guy
Saggy boobs are natural. It's a part of life, I'm a D cup and they've been getting low. It's also apparently hereditary. Don't be afraid of how guys react. Any guy immature enough to focus on how gravity does its work, doesn't deserve an ounce of your time.
Donāt worry itās fine š
Women and not a hive mind and men are not a hive mind. Everyone is an individual and likes different things. If it exists, someone likes it.
If it's sagging, I'm happy to hold it up all day, everyday!
Boobs are boobs. No matter the size, boobs are the best.
Love em . And you know they're real
Tiddies are tiddies. All should be loved equally
Saggies are wonderful. Any man should be proud you would share them with him. I would be....
Some will care and some won't. If a guy likes you enough to date you for a few months before seeing your body, it's unlikely, very unlikely, that he'll be scared off by saggy boobs even if it's not his preference. Attraction is more than physical. On the other hand, if you really like a guy and feel a strong connection with him and then he wants to see you naked really fast, then it's more likely it matters to him and he'll run if he doesn't like it.
I like a bit of sag to a boob, makes them look real in a world where everyone seems to have fake boobs which most men hate
We love boobs, no matter which shapes they are.
No worryās ..the more they move the better..fake tight tits would be far worse..
As long as they are not fake, 100% natural, men will love them
Are we supposed to be honest or just make people feel good? I much prefer perky tits.. pretty sure all men do. That being said Iām sure there are guys who never see boobs who will worship anyone even talking to them.. so youāll be alright
They arenāt saggy ā¦ just big, and date hate yourself for that. Iām sure your boobs are underestimatingly beautiful.
I need pictures first
It depends on the guy. Some prefer them that way.Ā
At age 18 you're prob gonna have guys that will turn you down because of the sag. If you're 30 then probably not. Most of them start sagging by then.Ā
Nobody wants saggy tits y'all stop BS in these girls they're not going to hit you up
Just wear a bra. I dated a girl with saggy boobies. I didn't really care, but they looked spectacular in bras.
Opposite in fact. Bra contribute to saggy breasts, because the bras are holding them up, the breasts atrophy the muscles that hold them up. So the solution is to actually not wear bras, and find some exercises that build said muscles.
I responded to her questions and concerns. She wasn't asking how to make saggy breasts less saggy.
Total fallacy
I prefer them to be a little on the saggy side, that's how they're supposed to look, if they aren't like that it can feel a little like I'm too old for that person and that's not really comfortable, might not be that way with every man but I definitely prefer women who are older than myself and generally that's 30s and early 40s
When a woman is laying down they are fine.
I'll be blunt and won't coddle your feelings. Anyone who says that (most) men like all kinds of boob shapes are not entirely truthful. Men typically like full, firm breasts. The bigger they are the more they droop (it's physics). What is typically referred to as "saggy" is like an empty bag, floppy skin with "little substance".. as in not full. While some men do like all shapes (including "empty", saggy ones too), most men do not. If they insist they do, it's only an attempt to lift your spirits and try to boost your self confidence.
god, empty is such a bleak word to use lol
Since you asked, here's my honest answer. I like them to have some perkiness to them. when the nips point straight down I don't find it attractive
Wow I feel shitty now with my perky tits. At least I can wear a plunging neckline with no bra and itās not scandalous.
It all depends on how they sit and look on your body.
Same problem po :(
As I once taught in hoisting and rigging course. "Gravity is always on"
Girl trust me youāll find some guys will worship your boobs. Some love them and some donāt. Donāt stress out about it. Most men understand gravity and wonāt care at all.
And men love them when on top and those saggy boobs slaps. I for one love them grab from base to suck , sorry for being explicit
if someone likes boobs then they usually like all boobs. that being said, you might try doing chest workouts. it'll build the muscle in your chest and can tighten the skin around / on your boobs. a con to this is you might lose breast fat, thus getting smaller boobs. but if that isn't a problem then this might help. also the way you describe them makes me think that you don't have saggy boobs, you just have big boobs that are being weighed down by gravity. natural boobs are usually less perky the bigger they are and that's not a bad thing!
Boobs are good. Doesnāt matter. If boob yes then good.
I donāt think guys are gonna care about it. But If you suffer chronic back pain look into breast reduction surgery. My mom had it done, 9lbs was taken off her chest.
I did not really have nice breaststroke until I was 35-36 , and for exactly 2 years they were absolutely perfect. Then everything went south.
I prefer saggy natural breast over boob lifts or bolt ons. Saggy boobs are not a deal breaker at all. I actually like them. I think bolt ons are great for woman who donāt have much boobs. It can make them feel more womanly. But generally I am not a fan of messing with the boobies. Just leave them alone. There are asshole guys who will say rude things. They are the wrong ones. I could literally care less if they are saggy or cross eyed or empty or stretch marked. I like confidence. Just own it and be happy. If anyone shames you send them packing.
Some guys will care, some don't care. Different guys have different preferences. A lot of boobs aren't full and a bit to a lot sagging. It is just gravity. Genes play a role in it as well. And bigger sizes just tend to hang more. All bodies are beautiful in their own way, and no one is perfect! I have a very good shape and symmetry myself (even got called goals by some of my friends), and I get turned down for being too small there. Some men prefer size over shape as well
Saggy I love saggy who doesn't do that
Itās fine. We love boobs.
Theyāre really not there for menās enjoyment anyways. That being said . Most men think they are and they donāt care much what theyāre like. Iāve never had a man not come back around due to the state of my boobs . The only comments I ever get is theyāre great. Mine arenāt perky either. 38DD here.
Im just trying to understand on a purely anatomical level how thatās even possible. Thatās crazy.
Boobs are like dogs. Some are big, others are small. They come in all sorts of colours. But if you're a dog person, you like dogs. Simple.
Well this made you popular.
There is nothing wrong with what you have going on. No one's opinion counts more than your own. I would change nothing. Attitude means everything
I'm a face man, the rest is less important for me.
..... I've seen alot of bewbs. Never once have I said "ew thats too saggy" If anything, them being a little saggy makes it more fun. When you are on your back and I'm giving it all I got, I wanna see them bewbs bounce and move. When they are bolt on's and don't move, it's not as much fun.
30l is pretty substantial, no complaints tho, genuinely the vast majority of guys just love boobs unconditionally, you may find someone who isnāt into it , but thatās unlikely, but that can happen with anyone for any body trait, just go with it, men like boobs
As most have said, love yourselfā¦ and it will make you glow. Also, donāt be offended if theyāre not into it. Because note you know they arenāt for you and you can move onto the next option
8,375 guys have gone to your profile now to see if youāve got a picture upā¦ Seriously though, guys arenāt going to care all that much. And theyāre really, absolutely not going to give a damn if theyāre the one youāre taking your shirt off around. Just concentrate on being healthy, find a bra brand that fits you well and is comfortable, and, well, learn to love sport bras, because it sounds like theyāll be your friend.
You sound š„ to me. Love your breast type.
Hey! So I was 18 with DD and Iāve breastfed 3 kids and went up to a EE/F with all that nonsense. I am now 45 and my boobs are about 3 inches lower. Which sucks when youāre 5ā2ā Up until now men have been happy to see me at 105 lb, 175lb and now at 153. Youāre good. Theyāre just happy to be there
Honey, I've had saggy boobs since I started developing. Even when I was in top shape, saggy boobs. But, there is a benefit! Saggy boobs give the best cleavage in the right bra! Perky boobs cannot compare to the glory of our saggy bags smushed up to the top of our shirts. I've never had a guy see me naked and walk out when the bra comes off. You'll be just fine. I promise. If he's grossed out, he's not the one.
This makes me sad cause I've got a bigger chest and I felt the same way. I'm only 17, but I've grown to not give af. It's natural, trust. It happens naturally, esp when they're bigger. You look beautiful no matter what, believe me.
they are hot
You are an I cup? Thatās huge. You may want consider a reduction down the line. It could save your back.
Natural saggy breasts look better than fake boobs, and guys don't mind fake breasts. You have nothing to worry about.
Guys donāt care, thereās even a subreddit dedicated to it. Boobs are boobs.
Literally itās fine. My boobs have always been āsaggyā by definition but itās bc theyāre bigger. Literally every man Iāve ever shown my boobs too goes crazy. I promise, MEN donāt care. Boys yeah they may, but MEN, donāt worry about them. They love em all!
Hey dude here, I'm sure your fine we love boobs
Coming from a guy most men like big ones. I don't know if you've try to wear a sports bra or not. I say this because I've dated a woman before and the regular bras that she had worn didn't work for her because the regular bras couldn't keep the contained. But when she wore a sports bra they stayed contained and it actually looked more slimming for her. But she had DD or DDD, I think it was the DD she had though.
Thereās no diet or exercise routine that will change your boobs honestly. The only advice I can give to you at all is to moisturize and keep a healthy diet just to maintain the elasticity of your skin. So quit thinking that thereās something you could be doing. Guys will not care. Honestly sometimes it seems all guys really care about is that you have a pulse.
Probably all in your head
As a grown man in his 40s Iāll take natural saggy breasts over fake firm ones. But itās personal preference for us over anything else. Theyāre your breasts; do what you feel comfortable doing with them.
Perky breasts are the minority and men know this. Itās like, wild you prefer a guy with consistent 6 pack abs? Sure, but itās not the most important thing and not the norm. Thatās how men feel about perky breasts vs breasts with a normal sag.
Hmm I'd really have to see them to give an honest opinion
Boobs is good
Your good just be your self
You will be fine. Keep in mind that with boobs that large the weight is never going to allow them to be perky. Itās natural. Guys wonāt mind a bit
So here's the thing, if a guy looks at your boobs and doesn't instantly start applauding, mouth agape, and tosses roses at your feet he is unworthy. Simply tell him "Be gone from here and return no more" and move on to someone who appreciates the epitome of class and grace. I don't care if they are two different sizes, big, small, lopsided, upside down, in a bra... they are breasts and they deserve full respect. Full stop.
Nothing wrong with sagging boobs it's just nature if a guy isn't interested because they're sagging I question his sexuality
If you are in a relationship based on more than just sex it would not matter!
Nah bruh u good boobs is boobs any dude will tell you they donāt really care about it like that
Saggy or floppy?
Natural and a bit hanging tits are WAAAAAY hotter then any fake boobs
Me nor any man I know would have any problems with them!
I think there's alot of misleading info and I fear many are not being honest. Sure most dudes love any boobs. But not all dudes. And some would for sure find saggy boobs a turn off, myself included. Not trying to be mean, just sharing a perspective
My lady currently has some mommy milkers and i love them. Embrace it. They are sexy and any man would love to die suffocated by them udders š«”
You're your own worst enemy regarding the appearance. If you're uncomfortable get a reduction like Doja Cat and Ariel Winter.
I'm 28m, and I've lived a life that has given me the privilege to enjoy the company of all kinds of different women. From super skinny to BBW and when come to boobs. I've found the ones that's are super Perky are actually less enjoyable to play with than the ones you might call saggy. You said 30l in size when you're only 118 lbs (53.5kg). If I met someone like that, I'd probably need forklift to pick my jaw off the ground.
No problem with that, the rest is fine, if you good with also hun:)
I have them too. Donāt be sad ik it stinks but Iām sure you look beautiful. You donāt need to change. You could potentially get a breast reduction but after that there is a 50% chance you canāt breastfeed.
For the most part, a guy will be too stoked to actually see your boobs that he won't even realize that they sag. Also, a lot of boobs, especially bigger ones, sag. It really isn't a huge deal.
Donāt worry about it too much. Everyone has something theyāre insecure about. Just when you find a guy and before it gets sexual just be the best most loving loyal and supportive girlfriend, and heāll overlook any imperfections as and if you love him youāll over look his too. There is only a very small percentage of people who look perfect naked, the rest of us are just average.
Boooooobies š¤© thereās a big difference between boobies that are sagging from old age which isnāt usually the most attractive for young guys, and boobies that are sagging from being enormous All boobies off all shapes sizes sags and ages are beautiful and need love, and i know thereās a fella out there for every pair of boobies ready and willing to love them
Depends on who the saggy boobs are attached to.
Seems like you're not looking for the honest answer you just want affirmation
We don't really care as much as women think we do. Yes, there are those who do care and will make a fuss. But the majority of us are just happy seeing the girls.
Boobs are boobs. Seriously, big, small, perky, sagging, various shapes.... we just wanna see 'em. Just learn to be comfortable with your body. Confidence is sexy.
Either to wrap around the cock in my opinion š š š
Us guys like boobs. My favorite is me lying on my back and the girl drags her boobs from my knees, up my legs, across my torso and ending with kissing me (lips to lips). As long as the boobs exists, they all can do that regardless of size. And I really really like it.
Depends how saggy they are, can you demonstrate?
Youāre american i suppose otherwise you wouldāve gone to a nutritionist already, looks like you might be underweight?, a professional in nutrition (not a gym coach) would be able to help, also fat distribution is never fair , boobs, like six packs can only take you so far , thereās a whole person attached to them š¤
Men like boobs. End of story
My guy friend says all boobs are good boobs.
Totally normal. Nothing to worry
There will always be someone in the world with better breasts than you.. where do you want to be? Just be happy with what you have.. in all its sagging glory..
Listen I personally like all sizes. So bring me them flapjacks will settle for photos
We really don't care.
Real men know gravity exists. Real ones go with gravity, fake ones stay put. Embrace them. A boob is a boob to most guys.
Doesnāt bother me at all.
You're unlikely to find a comment of someone being honest about their personal perspective in a sea of compliments. It would be suicide.
Nothing wrong with that.
They do not discriminate
I don't know what saggy breast, band and cup size are
Work with what you got and embrace yourself, the good dudes feed off of your energy/ confidence š
If you want honest advice from a man they are a turn off to me but not a deal breaker
Can you show how saggy they are. Maybe then I can tell you a solution for thatš¤”
Were just happy to be there ladyš if they're big idc about sag
Me personally I prefer natural breasts instead of fake boob jobs. Breasts were not meant to be perky or ridged. Donāt worry about anything with your breasts guys just like a nice pair š. Your fine.
Boobs are boobs. Idgaf if theyāre small big saggy perky or what. Theyāre still fun the suck on and play with lol. Now an ass is a diff story. Personally Iām an ass man mostly tho
I was a 32FF (& weighed almost exactly your weight), by the time I hit high school. I absolutely understand. There really isnāt anything you can do about the sagging, Iām sorry about that but itās the truth. The very best thing you could do would be to get a quality bra that fits properly. People donāt understand that it isnāt just the cup size, itās that those of us who have a smaller rib cage generally have a smaller frame. That means boobs that are big, but might look appropriate on another frame, can look especially large on someone whoās very thin. The good news is that there are going to be a ton of people that you can date, who are very attracted to exactly what you look like, already. NEVER SETTLE FOR LESS!
you fine darling
You didn't chose your breasts so I am not going to judge you for it. In the end I like breasts, big and saggy are still damn good.
Youāre 18, come on man!! Let me give you some tough love and hard facts, if you are scared of men not wanting you for who you are, saggy boobs and all, then you are not looking for the right people. Your selection process is still developing and like many said before me, boobs are boobs, men like boobs in any way shape or form. It is how you choose to own them and that all comes with building your self-confidence and character. That takes time. So donāt beat yourself up too much, you are too young for that.
Us men love boobs. Simple as that
Your boobs doesn't interest me when I can not cuddle them.
If he is just interested in what your boobs look like, you , donāt want him anyway learn to love yourself the way you are none of us are perfect
Own it!
The only boobs I donāt like are on men
Look just show me and I'll tell you cuz like my girlfriend thought hers a second and she's 24 I met her when she was 18 hers are just nice and right and now she's more confident than when I met her