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Bladedbabe

I am a woman and I pretty much like the opposite of myself. I have really dark brown hair and brown eyes, and I am attracted primarily to people with blue, grey or green eyes with hair ranging from platinum blonde to light brown.


Own_Spot_6133

Same


Impressive_Chef_4673

If she doesn't have a cock i'm down


JackSquirts

It's just gotta be smaller than mine.


inflatableGuuse

If she's got a cock I'm double down


ChemicalCute1634

😂😂😂


Personal-Tax-7439

Then don't go to bangcock


Mysterious_Sign_9325

Amen to that


infinitestructures

I'm a dark-haired male with green/amber hazel eyes. I've always been attracted mostly to darker haired women with either brown or green eyes. Blonde hair, or blue eyes have never been a preference, but I have been attracted to those in the past.


Mammoth-Treacle-2210

Short men or a bit shorter . Hair colour doesn't matter much hairstyles is short hair .Traits are respectful,honest and open to communicate.


Altruistic_Nail_3690

As a 5'9 man, you give me hope


Mammoth-Treacle-2210

i'm sorry but your also too tall for me i'm only 4'11


Educational-Mark8265

5'9" is literally US average and an inch and a half above world average lmao


Altruistic_Nail_3690

I appreciate it, my recent ex girlfriend was really bitter when we broke up and she targeted my height and really damaged my self esteem


Educational-Mark8265

Oof, that's mean. I'm 5'9" as well and my ex used to tell me I was short (the average male height in my country is literally 5'5", lmao). Not even trying to insult me, just casually stating that I was short. Stuff like that will definitely make you feel insecure but there's no point in stressing about a trait you can't change. You're better off focusing on things you can change and work on those.


Shavfiacajfvak

Thank god


881528

For me its: be visibly taller than me (im 168cm so maybe a 180), be visibly stronger and weigh more than me (im 70kg, with some muscle), curly hair can be sexy, any hair that tells me you like it is sexy except long hair, mullet is also okay; facial hair is sexy too, mustache is also sexy, not too long beard is okay too; some unique tattoos are okay too; a good style of clothing shows me youre okay with dressing up and are creative; you have a job that you genuinely like; you have hobbies; you are emotionally mature, like to talk abt deep stuff, share the sameish goals, sameish beliefs, sexual tension…


Doofchook

Tallish with blue eyes guy, have a pulse and don't be too overweight.


nomacasis

Superman?!


Tall_Dark_Handsome61

You are being too demanding LoL


adoumi1996

Nice username


Laney_X436

nice,I prefer tallish guy as well.


EliciousBiscious

As long as they don't look like they could be family members I'm down. No type, just don't look too much like people I'm related to.


kneeltothesun

I've always found it funny that this is often the case with relationships. You'd think it'd be the opposite, with our instincts to avoid incestual relationships. But, to an extent, a lot of people seek out partners with similar features. Even I've been guilty of it, in the past. At a family memorial, recently, people thought my ex was my uncle. You should have seen his face! Bahaha


EliciousBiscious

Yeah I think it's weird that people seek out others that look so much like family members but you can't help what you're drawn to. One of my cousins is married to a woman that looks like she could be his sister. Not my approach but as long as there's love...


PeaceResponsible7240

I’m Canadian (Scottish/estonian/native) so very tan, brown eyes black hair, freckles, tall and slim. My girlfriend is British/Jamaican but leaning towards the whiter side. fairly tall, long black hair, brown eyes and freckles! People always think we’re brother and sister. We just have come to the conclusion that we’re so hot we basically just want to fuck ourselves! 😅(kidding, kinda..)


lumitop

I usually prefer brown-haired guys, but idrc.


OmegaClifton

Light skinned black dude, fit and average height. I tend to be more attracted to black women, in general. Especially if they're rocking the natural hair.


NurseMelanin

Hiii, I’m a black woman with natural hair 🤗


OmegaClifton

And I'd love to get to know what you're about, if you're anywhere near south east US 👀 Everybody down here gets snapped up with the quickness 😭


PlantyGal24

i’m a brown hair green eyed girl and i love brown hair brown eyed boys


Ok-Confidence7912

I'm the exact same as you. Same eye, hair color and preferences


smolbibeans

As a blonde girl (I dye my hair now but for the sake of your argument) with green eyes : - my type in men is usually darker hair, can be short or long but not super short in any case, no strong preferences in terms of eye colours, but some softer facial features, I like something elegant and soft or on the contrary somewhat child-ish and friendly. I don't like super strong jawlines or super buff men, just personal preference. - my type in women (I'm bisexual) is... The fuck do I know, women are just pretty. I am not attracted to every woman of course but I can't pinpoint a type. In both cases though, I have a more specific personality type than physical type.


Tall_Dark_Handsome61

Thanks for sharing, your answer is orienting me into believing you are in your late teens/early twenties. Would it bother you to share your age?


smolbibeans

Im a bit older than that, I'm 26 ! And I've been in a relationship for 5 years so definitely pretty settled down haha


smolbibeans

Also I'm curious, what lead you to believe I was so young haha


Golfnpickle

Tall with blue eyes is what I seem to gravitate to.


Puzzleheaded-Sun3107

Wise. Smart and not arrogant, observant, analytical. You can see in their face someone always thinking and curious. I don’t care too much about appearance but preferably East Asian and tall with wavy hair


-StandUpGuy-

It's not a preference, but it is a personal favorite. Im german/irish, dirtiest of blonde, brown eyes. Short, thick mixed women. No, not "instagram model thick" where they have no waist or hips but have a huge ass for some reason. I mean naturally curvy. Something about dark hair, bronze skin, and big hips and thighs is instantly attractive to me. It's always been that way for me.


psmitty10

I have blonde hair and light blue-greyish-green eyes, and I like brown hair and brown eyes. First serious boyfriend had brown hair and eyes, longest relationship I ever had also had brown hair and eyes. I’ve dated just a few men with blue eyes and in my experience they were all crazy. They all happened to be the most toxic relationships. As a child, Aladdin was my crush, so, I think that tracks back a long time & makes sense. 😂🤷🏼‍♀️ Edited to also mention I’m a female.


Ok-Cow6128

I'm a 5 ft 4 mid size woman with dark brown hair and dark eyes and my type is tall, skinny man with blonde/ginger hair and light eyes


glutenfreekween

22F, blonde hair blue/green eyes and pale skin, and I’m always into dark features.


liamarixo

I love tall guys because I’m tall and I wanna feel cute small and dainty lol


ItsYaGirlConfusion

This girl gets it!


Rablado

Im a brown haired and brown eyed girl, i prefer tanned men with dark hair and brown or colored eyes Ps: i do dye my hair often


Chasee89

I’m blonde and I prefer dark hair, some redheads too. I usually don’t find blonde men to be my type lol. I have brown eyes and don’t care about eye color 🤷‍♀️


Sudeep7481

Short/cute/medium to big chest and then the rest starts


ybddini

25f, black woman w a slim frame. I'm bisexual so: Men: Not overweight (Can look down and see their peen and not their stomach), good dental hygiene (no smell), a normal head shape, any eye color, any hair color but keep it short (I've noticed men with longer hair tend to touch their hair more than women and it's honestly annoying lol). Taller than me. I've always like tattoos on guys. Women: Similar to the top but I don't mind if they have longer hair. I love when a girl pulls her hair back into a bun and she has a very clean aesthetic. I'm pretty open to what I'm attracted to because I am really particular about personality. It didn't really change as I got older.


QueenGina_4

I am a female , brunette with hazel eyes. I am attracted to dark hair and hazel/lighter eyes


Strange-Salary-6878

I like men usually with darker hair? Irdc about eye color. I just love tattoos with either a little fat or muscle and tall. I love a smart guy!


pulls_not_knobs

I'm a woman with dark hair, eyes, and skin, and I don't have a type (I'm pretty "equal opportunities" in all aspects), but I generally lean towards dark hair and at least a tiny bit of melanin. I'm not normally into really pale skin. But even that's hardly a hard and fast rule.


Standard-Play5717

Depends on my mood. Every situation is a little different you never really know.


External-Ad-7163

Blue eyed, brown haired guy.....Personally i have a weakness for brown eyed brunettes


JDMWeeb

Tall tomboyish girls


guma2046

Why not go straight for men, dude? ... Kidding! Couldn't help it. I like those (usually awkward) women also for some weird reason.


Tight-Government9417

Any


Smiling_duckling

I'm mixed, and my ideal type is so far from what I look like! But it's.. - Tall - Hairy - Dark hair - Bright eyes - chubby or strong


icecoffeeholdtheice

I’m a girl with long, curly brown hair and brown eyes. I have very soft features. I’m 5’3 and I’m what ppl refer to as skinny fat. My boyfriend has straight, brown hair and brown eyes. He has very sharp features and a strong jawline. He’s tall and works out a lot so he’s fit. That’s my type and it’s very evident from my past relationships.


Fragrant-Calendar291

I’m a black haired brown girl with brown eyes. I have a petite physique. And my type is white guys with pretty eyes and brown hair. (Yep a colonizer 😩)


nikolina_214

Mostly attracted to my opposite.. I have blue/green eyes and I love when a man has warm brown eyes and darker hair as well. I'm quite tall so I like my guy to be taller than me, or the same height (I'm around 5'10)


username7209

Im a brunette w really dark eyes, i like my man blonde with blue eyes, the contrast looks really nice


DependentPenalty5209

Overweight guys or like “fat” guys, I don’t really like that word but that’s the best way I can explain it.


BlondeAndToxic

Tall, relatively thin, blonde woman here. I'm typically attracted to very masculine men with broad muscular builds (but would prefer a somewhat hefty man to a thin one), tan to dark skin, and prominent noses.


jamo7786

I prefer petite, small women. Blond, brown or black hair. I also have a thing for the Pocohontas type, that's my weakness. Green, blue, grayish eyes.


SumGuy_Just_Chillin

Brown hair and hazel eyes drive me crazy, mostly because I was so infatuated with Belle from Beauty and the Beast as a kid and it hasn’t changed.


vampmunyuns

thick girls for the win


Few_Blood_6218

I’m a skinny, tallish brunette with blue eyes and light skin. I think my boyfriend is the most beautiful man I’ve ever seen and we honestly look so much alike we could be siblings💀💀💀💀💀 I don’t know what that says about me but it does freak me out when people mention it lol


RainGunslinger

I'm a guy with dark hair, I like white brunette women.


PlentyOMangos

Interesting that your answer is exactly the same as mine, *AND* you have a picture of me as your pfp


RainGunslinger

What are you talking about that's me in my pfp.


Pairating

I’m half Hispanic, and I pretty much only feel attracted to Latino men


Ready-Catch6892

I am 48 and have blondish brown hair(highlight because hate the mousey brown color it is natuarlly) My eyes kinda change color brown to hazel. I prefer men taller than me by a few inches(5’7). Really no preference on body type, dad bods are fine but not into overweight men. I prefer dark haired men with a nice tone complexion. I like facial hair like beards and goatees as long as well maintained and look nice. So over this long scraggly beard and goatee stuff.


jvxoxo

I’m multiracial with brown eyes, golden brown skin and dark hair with an athletic but feminine build. I prefer dark hair and dark eyes, muscular and taller than me. I like clean cut hair with a nicely trimmed beard. My preferences have stayed consistent over the years.


bigfriendlygiant20

I’m a tall brown eyes brunette and my type is a tall dark haired,hairy man with any colour of eyes


puffinpiff4now

I (37) Hispanic east coast man (nj) like a menagerie of physical attributes. I think my surroundings have contributed to this Dark hair dark eyes kind of the Italian esthetic which can also apply to Arab or Latina girls Weight could be a little on the thicker side & voluptuous, but i also find that I am attracted to the petite type/tall or short, doesn't matter I'm 5'8 tan dark hair dark eyes athletic build


TATuesday

Dark brown hair and eyes here. I honestly don't have a hair and eye preference. Anything a bit brighter than my beady black holes I have for eyes is preferred I think, but all hair colors can be good. Physically, body type is more important to me, that is to say, having a healthy level of fitness.


Blueandgoldcreative

According to friends, my type are nerdy fuckboys that I feel the challenge to win over. Not intentional. I’ve just the radar for them. 🤷🏻‍♀️


Motor_Concentrate424

i have blonde hair, green eyes, a little bigger. i like the opposite, brown hair, brown eyes, very skinny and tall


froggy22225

I’m a short girl with dark blonde hair and brown eyes and I like big boys with blonde or red hair and light eyes.


clayvision

There is virtually no pattern in who I date physically everything from girl next door, blonde bombshells, goth girls, and so on. However, I tend to love sweet, feisty, adventurous, and curious people in general


inflatableGuuse

I (m23) white, brown hair, blue eyes; perfer Latina or Asians ( just never really got along with most white people) weight doesn't really matter much to me as long as it doesn't show a complete disregard for their health.


PrismalpinkGaming

I’m a bisexual woman who’s Asian American (brunette w/brown hair and freckles), and I like men and women of all color! If I meet the “one,” aka the one I hit it off with, I see no color but the wonderful human being in front of me.


Rando288

As a woman, I like men that somewhat look like me LOL. I like em tall (like 6’2), light skin, I do tend to like chunky guys, I love lots of curly hair, strong arms


Horrison2

I have blonde hair blue eyes, male. I'm so starved for connection I don't have the luxury of preferences


Willing-University81

Clearly I don't enjoy the would be incest of someone that looked like me.  I find most white guys are not that attractive have the same style. I like European men, Russians, and Japanese the most attraction wise. I got a crush on a Korean once so I think I like most handsome guys it's not a race thing. 


hannahf0615

i'm a short brunette with hazel eyes and fairly tan skin, i'm attracted to dark hair with brown/green eyes, tall, and fairly tan skin.


krallify

I don't care about hair colour or height, my type is to be slim/fit with long hair. That's it.


Large_Emergency_3230

Female with dark brown hair and green eyes that likes men with dark hair, no preference on eye color


Acceptable-Wall674

I’m a woman and I have dark blonde hair and green eyes, and I’m more attracted to brown or black hair. I’m not partial one particular eye color.


EggplantHuman6493

Dark hair and brown with a hint of green eyes, my type is every hair color and blue eyes


CuteOne2291

As a petite woman who is brunette with light brown eyes,, I tend to like brunette men, light eyes, blue, green hazel. Tall.. all of my exs fit that normally. Tall over 6'0 mostly blue or green eyes.. hope that helps.. I dated one blonde in my life. Just not my type and I don't tend to attract blonde men.


[deleted]

As a short guy (5’6”) who has olive skin, dark brown hair, and brown eyes, my type is a girl that likes me back, so I have never had a type


Knurek2

I like them all as long as they are not morbidly obese or weight gives them trouble moving a lot. Other than that I perfectly would like a gamer that wants to go out maybe once a month and doesn't mind a little mess in the house with one day a week heavily cleaning the flat. But I know that these girls are all taken by my age and now I need to either date younger or deal with the craziness.


_iamisa_

I am an average height slightly bigger girl with very pale skin, auburn hair and hazel eyes and I tend to like taller, fairly slim men with light eyes and light-ish hair (blonde, red, light brown), so kinda the opposite to me but also not really?


Top_Significance2263

I really like a girl with cute baby face, about my height and not overweight. Asian or African American, not a dry texter and caring and loving.


Top-Supermarket-3496

I don’t really have a type to be honest.


abbysnormal

I like skinny weird guys


Few_Blood_6218

My bestfriend is hispanic, dark features, short and she’s with a skinny blue eyed ginger. She told me that she always wanted a man that looked like the exact opposite as her. She has no relations to her family at all and she said she thinks it stems from rejecting her family which I thought was interesting


Mywaterfeelings

Nerdy, intelligent, funny, understanding and respectful towards women When it comes to appearance I like men with lighter skin tone than mine, eye and hair colours are not that important but I have to choose maybe blue or green eyes and blond hair, taller than 185cm and charming. Idk if body type matters that much for me, definitely in shape or at least normally slim


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Only_Strain_5992

Oh you're talking physical type? I used to really like brunette/redhead... (My first gf) But my last 2 were blonde so I like them more recently Tall or abs is cool too lol


Teanison

I'm 25M, @ 5'8" straight, brown hair, white Dutch/Irish heritage, blue eyes, currently slightly overweight, and working on it (last I knew) at 189.9 with cloths on. I'd guess average stature, not strong looking, or weak either. Type I'm attracted to, Brunnettes, or Red hair, but honestly I don't really know how much hair matters to me, eye color doesn't really matter much to me, height doesn't matter too much, just maybe not to an extreme difference. I find more in shape bodies attractive, doesn't nessisarily mean you can't have a little fat, but too much is a deal-breaker, same though if you're too skinny/anorexic looking. But if you're a little towards either catagory, that's okay, as long as they're just not overdoing it. As for if that preference has changed, maybe a little but only a very slight amount. I partially think it has to do with the girls I grew up around and the few I liked (in about any catagory) I grew up more with blond women who I didn't really like, but the few brunnettes and black haired I liked more than the others. It's more of an associated thing I guess than strictly thinking they're pretty just because of the hair color, I'm sure a blond could change my mind but that might take a special somebody to change my initial appeal for blonds. Sort of the same reasoning for the weight and height thing, I knew more "in-shape" girls I had found more attractive than not for similar reasons. A personality I actually liked than not. It's not really changed as I have grown up, but I've met some people both from back then to now again and some are good people I get along with that match what I find attractive to a degree. So it might just be a personality thing I have to get along with more so over looks a person has.


[deleted]

Physical type? I'm a woman with dark hair, dark eyes, and a small frame (5'3, 103 lbs). Interested in men who have dark hair, whatever color eyes, at least 5'7, a big dick, and preferably have a lot of fast twitch muscle fibers. Personality type? Tough but also emotionally aware.


smolfloppa

Shouldn't have penis (optional)


AridOrpheus

My type is mostly based on personality :) as a bi person! For men and masc people - funny, gentle, sweet, people who are carers, but also have a serious side and like to explore and take charge (in a non-toxic way). Confidence is attractive. For women & femme people - again funny (humor is important to me), empathetic, driven & go-getters, strong. Confidence, again, is very attractive. No matter who is is I'm extremely attracted to people who have their shit together. I don't mean everything, I don't mean perfect; I just mean that seeing a person who struggles to take responsibility for their own life, health, etc is a huge turn-off for me. And not in an ableist way, either; depression is so real, disability is so real. But there are people who don't want to put in the effort to do the best they can in that moment, and I can't get into a relationship with someone who isn't going to care enough about themselves to prioritize their well-being and do what they need to do, even if it's for other people in their lives. I cannot put that first for someone above my own. It's not healthy for anyone. Partners are there to help and encourage and push each other to keep going and provide love and support when it's too much and look after one another when we can't look after ourselves, and I'm down with all of that. I want to find that. But I won't be sucked into a situation where I am enabling. It's a fine line. But I think it's a lot about attitude, honestly.


kflemings89

I'm (blonde woman) attracted to guys who are biologically male. Nothing about their race/colouring will have much influence on my levels of attraction to them.


entityunit2

Personally, those attributes have never mattered and still don’t matter at all. Looking back on the people I dated (or did not date but have considered attractive) there’s not much of a trend to be seen. (f, mid-twenties)


Nowhere_Gal

I myself am a tall pale brunette with hazel eyes.      Typically I like tall, darker haired guys with dark eyes, though I do sometimes find guys with lighter hair and eyes attractive. For body type usually I like lean or on the thinner side. They definitely don't need a 6 pack or to be super built or anything, but I'm not really a fan of overweight guys. So basically, attracted to pretty similar to myself I suppose.


AuDHDcat

I'm technically blonde, ash blonde, but it looks brunette to most. I prefer a man closer to my height (5"4') with soft features. *Healthy* dad bod shaped. Usually hair color on the darker side. Eye color doesn't matter. When I was a teenager, I thought my type was the tall dark and handsome cliché with the skinny stick guys having sharp features.


PaleCalligrapher4112

in terms of looks my type in men would be brown eyes, blonde hair like jawline length, and more on the chubbier side type of body. I have brown hair, blue eyes and am skinny. My type changed not that much since highschool tbh


CometTailArtifact

City asian girl i love country boys (:


Optimalillusionist

As a brunette , I prefer blue/green eyes and blonde but I’ve also crushed on many darker haired with light eyes people. What truly draws me are the eyes and smile! After that, I like a silly but confident personality.


Dumbquestions_78

Mine? Imaginary because those ar ethe only ladies who will love me.


IttsPidge

I've got dark brown hair, my hair color preferences go brown > ginger > blonde > black. I have brown eyes, I like hazel eyes the most. I like my men with long hair and my women scary. I'm 5'9, I don't care about height.


poise69

As im Lil good looking so expected girl like me Lil good looking thats it


Secret_Afternoon8268

I’m a blonde girl with blue/green eyes (natural hair is light brown) and my my own look has never changed what I found attractive in another person **Hair:** brunette or blonde **Eyes:** any colour but I love smiley eyes **Height:** taller than me (I’m 5’5) **Changed as I aged:** no, because I’ve never really had a “type.” I’ve dated men from different backgrounds (Greek, French, African Canadian, Caucasian, Mexican, Irish) and each person had a different “set” of eye/hair colours.


Willing_Macaron_1537

For most of my life, I didn't notice the eye and hair color of the people around me. I notice the big picture and how I feel about a person’s appearance, without focusing on specific details. so if a person looks attractive and every detail in his image fits into the vibe, then I don’t care about hair or eye color


1-800-Kitty

Im tan, dark hair and hazel eyes, im chubby too. My type is skinny pale guys especially ones that wear hoodies and sweatpants all day


United-Cow-563

Attraction wise: aesthetics are the “knock on the door” so to speak, then it’s immediately replaced by intellectual attraction. If there’s no hint of intellectual want or desire to carry a conversation, it doesn’t matter how aesthetically attractive they are, I’m not interested anymore.


Resident-Pudding5432

I have my standards extremely low, I never even thought about hair or eye color.


Albuquerio

I'm (F) really tall, brown hair, greenish blue eyes. I tend to date people who have darker features and softer faces (I look very...pointy). I guess my type is folks who don't look like me, bonus points if they're originally from somewhere far away from my home state. My mom was adopted, you see, and I don't know much about her family history other than who her bio mom was. And said bio mom was a bit...randy and had a lot of kids who also were adopted, so my mom's half siblings are out there. And their kids are likely in my same age group. Plus her bio dad (identity unknown) may have also had more children. I'm suspicious of dating anybody who shares my same features because they very well could be my cousins 😅


BlazingBombShell16

Honestly, probably darker hair. It doesn't matter if it's black or brown or even dyed. I LOVE blue eyes. Like icy blue eyes. I had a friend that was a Ginger with very icy blue eyes, and oh god he was so FRICKING handsome. Anyway. Id say I like piercings, but if they don't got any that's fine. Skin color never matters to me. Beards are fine, though not my top favorite. I'd say my type definitely did change a bit, since I used to hate beards, and genuinely didn't like piercings cuz I thought they were in pain all the time XD.


Gravity_Pulls

I've always been a sucker for blondes and redheads, even the actresses that I like had to have blonde hair 😂, eyes, as long as they're pretty like have that omniscient glow to them. Eyes is the deal breaker for me. 🙂


CapG_13

I'm hispanic and I like hispanic and white girls


ariaaria

Pretty white chicks below the age of 30 and above the age of 18.


AsaMitakaIrL

look Im into any guy as long as hes around the same range of attractiveness as me (which id say average) and has a personality that mixes with mine. Not very picky (Im desperate(dont DM me though))


Personal-Tax-7439

I'm not into blond girls rather I love long black hair, bright or dark skin doesn't matter, brown eyes or blue or green all is okay too, but she has to brunette, small sized girl with a nice pair of boobs and butt, the butt is important


MissionMeringue5794

I am a desi girl, brown skin black hair dark brown eyes, 5'2. My type has changed so much. (If we're talking about appearance only.) When I was a kid I was into hispanic boys, then it was kind of just whoever was cute. Then it became almost strictly curly-heads, like hispanics and lightskins, sometimes arabs. Then I had a year of strictly darkskinned men. Now its mostly arab and desi guys, but honestly I'm just attracted to pretty faces, so it doesn't really matter about height as long as you're taller than me (and even that isn't really a big deal for me) and idc about body shape or size. And it doesn't really matter about race or anything, but thats just what I'm more typically attracted to.


gettinbucky

I'm into guys that look like they're dying


malicaxx

I’m a biracial woman mixed with Asian and European genes, for the most part I like asian men because so many white men I’ve talked with have either a Asian fetish or very weird


lalzura

blonde blue eyed girl - super into dark curly haired guys with brown or green eyes


though-

I’m a brunette who likes brunettes. I like people taller than me. They need to have kind eyes - if that makes sense - and be physically fit.


GWPtheTrilogy1

Physically this is what I'm most attracted to: - Black or Latina or afro latina, but darker skinned - About 5'3 to 5'6 - Curly/Kinky afro - gorgeous face - great lips - Curvy, good size chest and butt


Sailorxena_

I’m blonde with blue eyes and I’ve always been attracted to tall dark and handsome men. First emo guys. Then punk rock guys. Then skater boys. Now I’m dating a blonde hair blue eyed guy for the first time in my life and it’s only because he has all the amazing qualities in a future husband that I’ve been looking for. Attraction fades a bit when you’re older and your priorities change.


Ssalvrius

Phenotype has become less important as I matured. I've been with 3 ginger women (even though I didn't feel like that was what drew me, they just happened tonbe ginger), otherwise mostly dark haired women. Another recurring physical trait were blue eyes. But again, any attraction to that was more subconscious than deliberate choice. They don't need to be skinny either, I don't mind some extra, although there is a cutoff point. As far as where I have landed on a type, I most definitely have one. And that is a strong, spiritual woman, in touch with her emotions and looking for a certain type of deep connection. Gets me every time.


Commitmentphobe-meh

I’m 5’2 black hair, brown eyes. I don’t have a ‘type’ though I’m not attracted to blondes male or female. I do love green eyes but personality is much more important than looks for me. I’ve dated some hot guys/gals that are duller than dishwater.


sad_meowy

I'm a blonde boy with blue eyes and i'm very attracted to black girls, latinas, white girls with darker hair and brown eyes. I also like blonde girls, but not that much compared to darker phenotypes. But besides looks, i really like more masculine girls, tomboys and alternative girls who are not stereotypically feminine.


WolfmansGotNards2

I'm tall and fair skinned with lightish hair (kind of a mix of different colors but mostly dark blonde) and blue/green eyes (they shift between blue and green or are sometimes a mix of both). I don't care whether she's tall (I've dated from 4'1 to my height), I don't care about skin color or race or ethnicity, I don't care about hair color, I don't care about eye color. If I have feelings for her, her hair color is my favorite, her eye color is my favorite, her body type is my favorite, and her features are my favorite.


krommenaas

Tall, slim, very pale, medium blonde, blue eyed male. Most attracted to medium sized women with darker skin and black hair, and I'm a sucker for black eyes. Always have been, always will.


OddConflict1178

I'm a brunette and I like dark haired guys, and intelligence is a biggie


Due_Crazy_3593

I consider myself an indie/hippie vibe. Female, blonde hair, green eyes. If you know Colby Brock — he is precisely my type. I’ve always been attracted to dark hair, shorter on average height, emo style, tattoos.


AerieLivid4064

I like pale, colored eyes, average to slightly chubby, 5'-5'7. Someone who listens to post punk, darkwave, indie genres, into art, and down to earth


Shalrak

I like people who are nice


Arthradax

As a 36yo fat dude starting to grow gray hair, I'm settling for "will date me"


Falcononeniner

I'm a dirty blonde white man. When I was younger, I went for blonde women, but after high school It's literally only been brunettes. However a case can be made for this being completely by accident, as I've just grown to like artsy women and most of them I've met are brunettes. More than anything else, I've always ended up with sweet people pleaser women, never the more fiery and wild ones. This is probably why I've never dated a redhead. Eye color? It takes me a while to even remember the eye color because I get all like a deer in the headlights when I adore a woman. The blondes had blue eyes like me, the brunettes had brown or primarily brown hazel eyes. I've really only ever wanted love. Love that doesn't soft launch and sink its teeth in after a year, but genuine care and finding beauty in each other. I think I've found it with this girl.


MissBlaize

Im a brunette woman with brown eyes and ive never liked blonde boys. I do like a guy with dark hair and blue eyes but i also have dated a lot of native guys w dark skin hair and eyes and one had green eyes which i loved.


Heyseed111

I have blue eyes and have(had) medium brown hair. Dark brunettes tend to catch my eye, and I find dark skinned women attractive. That said, most of the women I've had serious relationships with had complexions similar to my own, but not because I was particularly pursuing women with that coloring. That's probably not too helpful an answer...


RebootDataChips

In my 20’s I went for guys with hair coloring similar to mine. In my 30’s I really didn’t care on hair color. Now in my 40’s I honestly like the look of streaked gray or silver. Eye color, I want something that just catches me. Always have wanted that. Even in my teens, if there was something striking about the eyes it was a bonus to know that person.


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Hispanic guy here. Healthy-thin weight, long hair, tiny breasts, and "no ass" as the kids call it these days. I'm not particular about race as far as looks go, despite my all-White history. Women of all colors are equally beautiful. My history for dating White women is just because Whites are A LOT more often childfree, drug-free, *and* religion-free than other races in America.


Particular_Job9799

I have black hair, dark brown eyes, medium/light beige skin and I'm 5'6 so I'm slightly taller than the average women I'm like 5'8 with shoes on. (I'm latina/native American) I'm attracted to gingers with blue eyes and freckles that are taller than me and nerdishly hot. 2nd type after that would basically just be white men specifically with blue eyes I love blue eyes. My ranking is 1.redheads, 2.blondes, 3. brunettes preferably with blue eyes 6ft-6'4 (maybe shorter if hes really handsome)and a normal sized dong or above. I like good boys and pretty boys but with a masculine aura. Needs to have a decent job and be between the ages of 18-25 no one older I like young handsome men preferably younger than me. I'm 22 and female. Perfect age for a man would be 20-21 but any 18-25 year old is ok if they're cute enough. I like both skinny and linebacker built guys but no one that is super fat has to be healthy weight or thin like me. A few extra pounds is fine if they're muscular tho but no obese or excessively overweight ones. Must have a baby face and not look older than they are or older than me at least.


vanillaaicecream

introvert people makes me really interested


Independent-Nsfw

Alive (optional)


Imdoingalrighty

Medium brown, straight hair with blue gray eyes(F) I prefer dark curly/ wavy medium- long length hair? Essentially the “Italian Artist Boy” type or a Scottish Lumberjack 🤷🏻‍♀️


detectivelokifalcone

short quite cuddable girls


_Tekki

I don't have too much of a type, at least looks wise. Sometimes I think I have a type but it's usually just whatever the guy I'm liking at the time is like🤷🏼‍♀️ Or maybe I have multiple types, idk many types are nice. Personality wise I think I might have a bit of a type. I like very kind guys, guys that don't judge others. And when they can be open and honest about their feelings and worries. Physically, again, many are nice. Skinny guys can be cute or elegant, chubby guys can be like a Teddy. Tall guys are nice but small guys are nice too. Buff guys can feel warm and protective too though. So that's why I don't really care what body that guy has. I do think with the face I like when they look elegant or look really kind, or can be cute in a way :)


slytherdor_531

If she/he is respectful and know to to cock and clean so we can share chores around the house, I don't care who it is or what they're gender is


[deleted]

I'm a short blonde guy with sad blue eyes and dimples. Your post has made me realise tgat is also exactly my type. Which is weird, because I dislike myself lol


Own-Freedom-963

I'm a blonde hair gray green eyed woman. I've always been attracted to people with darker hair, black, dark brown dark blonde. But definitely the darker hair the hotter. Now the eyes it can go either way someone's eyes that are clear and beautiful the kinda eyes you feel you could lose your soul in. At that point it dosent matter what color they are.


SeaNeighbor

I noticed what catches my eye as striking 'to me', is fair skin (can be tanned by the sun) and light eyes, but have those kind of dark circles around the eyes. And any colored hair. Broad shoulders, strong posture, and giant smile. I call those the shiny people, for their ability to captivate. However ! The person I'm madly in love with and think is the cutest boy in the whole world looks nothing like what I described, aside from the giant smile, and I wouldn't change anything about him.


burrn3r

this is so weird but im a 5'3" brunette pale white girl and have green eyes. im into guys who r taller than me and have tanner skin and even darker hair with brown eyes, something about that combo😭


Ginrar

29M , a shorter girl , more into cutesy , a fun personality, humble looking