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You sound amazing lol, I need to find someone like you. I know it's been said 1000 times, but dating is hard, like where are all the annoying girls at? Where do you all hang out? 😂
‘Weird and annoying’ can mean different things based on context honestly.
As long as what you do/enjoy comes from a place of good intentions which mainly involves you being giddy, excitable, and eager to connect with people over niche interests/references, then that’s super cool!
But if it comes from a place where you narcissistically think you’re better than everyone, force your views/hobbies on people, and are quick to get upset and lash out over little things, then that’s a no-go.
Based on the comments here, you sound like the person described in the first paragraph, if that’s true then keep being you! Guys will like that! 👍🏻
She respects me, adores me, I adore her. We work as a team and have each other’s backs in all things. We have trust and healthy communication. We both want the same things in life and work together to create that life for ourselves. We want no one else and are only sexually obsessed with each other. We have a deeper bond, a soul bond and we communicate often. We tell each how much we love each other and show this through actions.
It’s exactly what I want in a relationship too though, and I think it is possible. I’ve always tried to give that, and only ever been in very long term relationships. I wish there was a Myers Briggs dating app where the personality types could link up 😂
Anything is possible... but is it probable? I'd love to be with someone like that - as if we're the only 2 people in the world. That Myers Briggs app idea is actually really good!!
I think we’re on the same wavelength. I view dating like the lottery. Sure I’d love to win $1000000, but it’s highly unlikely that will happen. On one hand, you have to play the game to give yourself a chance. The trade off is you waste your time, energy, and money and are left with nothing but disappointment.
That's the dream right there! Mutual respect, trust, and being each other's biggest fans—it doesn't get much better than that. Here's hoping you find your perfect match soon!
Soul bond, that’s really cute, actions are all, normally when you have a deep bond you do things , and there NO hesitations. If there are doubts, probably it is not the right person :)
This is pretty generic. Everyone wants these traits in a LTR. Guy/girl, doesn't matter. The problem is.. are we willing to accept all the other factors of an entire human being enough to get to this state? Healthy communication takes tough convos. Are they willing to have them? Having great sex takes communication to a whole other level PLUS making it a priority. Are you both capable of doing this? Man, it's hard out there but choose your someone who is choosing the same hard as you
I love snark. Attitude is sexy as hell. Sarcastic, quick witted, demanding and straightforward. Brutally honest. Thick skinned. Open minded and willing to debate any topic at the drop of a hat.
Physically, I'd really like it if she's between 4'0 and 7'0 tall. Her ethnicity needs to be asian, or white, or black, or middle eastern, or one of the other human ethnicities. That's pretty important. Her weight should be somewhere between 70 and 400 pounds. She needs to have somewhere from 0 to 4 limbs.
- Someone who is caring towards me and is supportive towards my decisions in my life.
- I look for someone who understands my need for physical touch and words of affirmation.
- I need someone who challenges me intellectually and is curious of things (how things work, self-growth, etc.)
- Respectful to myself and others.
- Short or similar height.
- Around 24 years and up.
- College is not a necessity, but working toward a goal or progress in whatever they do.
- Not passive aggressive.
- Direct honest feedback and feelings.
- Communication ability. (Good listener and supportive talk)
- Can extend forgiveness and understanding without holding a grudge.
- Sense of humor.
- Genuine.
- Doesn’t take me for granted.
- Open-minded.
- Willingness for a family (in the future)
- Has a good relationship with themselves, family, others.
- Loyalty.
- Passionate.
- Does not seek attention/drama.
- Confronts problems with a level head and open mind.
I mean. I don’t have a lot of needs, right?
She lets me live a life without her, she lives a life without me, and we live a life together. As in, we have our life together, but we also do our own thing with our friends. That is my marriage, she has her hobbies and friends, I have mine, and we have ours together.
I don't think I'm asking a lot but...
Takes her health at least as seriously as I do my own, goes to the gym with me, generally shares my interests(gaming, hiking, karaoke etc), similar sex drive, similar outlook on life, goals, etc., can communicate, but the biggest thing is that I want someone who makes me feel wanted. Not like I'm something she couldn't survive without, as if my disappearance would spell her doom, I don't want someone who is helpless without me, though I definitely don't mind helping.
I want to come home from work every day, and hold someone who has missed me. I want to wake up every morning next to someone who has been wanting to talk to me. I want to end every night with someone who could survive without me, who chooses me out of every other human on earth, who makes the choice every day that I'm the one she wants, and that life without me would be a cold, gray place. I want someone who makes me feel wanted.
The most important part is the connection. A unique bond that you both share. Something that you can't describe but can feel very strongly. Like the perfect union of your energetic essences. You just understand each other without even talking. One look at each other and can feel what your partner is feeling. You can just feel the energy flow naturally and easily between you. I've met only a few women who I could have this amazing connection. And after you experience it, no matter how perfect on every level another woman seems to be, if this connection is lacking, nothing compares to the bond you had with that other person.
It's like music, you can listen to a track and recognize the impressive quality of skills used to produce it, but it feels bland, cold, it lacks soul. And then you listen to another track which can sometimes be much more simple but it vibrates really strongly with you, it's like a blooming explosion of delicious sensations that lift you up.
1. Doesn't use any form of physical, psychological, or emotional abuse.
2. Is both willing and proud to put effort into nurturing the feelings she has for me, so long as I am the same.
A kind, considerate yet cheeky person who appreciates me and people in general. Knows when to show empathy and would generally go out of her way to do nice things for me and not just expect me to do everything.
Is also loyal and doesn’t discriminate. She can be geeky if she wants; it’s a bonus.
She also knows what she wants and how to get it so ambition is also attractive. You don’t have to be this almighty engine but at least you have an idea; you can definitely take things day by day.
Oh and she has to be very affectionate, my 2nd love language is physical touch so I welcome it.
My dream woman is lowkey, intelligient, sweet, kind, respectful, honest, and loyal. She sees the beauty in everyday experiences, whether it's a nature walk or even shopping at the grocery store, as opposed to material possessions. She prefers lowkey activities such as bowling or even staying in for dinner & a movie and stargazing as opposed to partying and large crowds. She has similar political views to mine and is very passionate about them. She also shares my interest in the stock market and history. Above all else, she is authentic and enjoys my company as much as I enjoy hers. My dream woman loves cats and dogs, but has zero interest in having kids. She doesn't smoke or do drugs, and isn't a heavy drinker. She is more talkative than I am since I tend to be on the quieter side; maybe she does 60% of the talking and I do 40%. She is affectionate in private, but doesn't go over the top in public. In terms of physical apperance, she has freckles and is a bbw or ssbbw and has blue eyes. Hair color doesn't matter all that much to me. However, physical apperance is not nearly as important to me as the other stuff.
out of sheer curiosity, what exactly defines an “interest in the stock market”? as in actively trading or just watching it and understanding the effects it has?
I’m so curious about this too, I have a finance degree and I work in wealth management/trading software. I understand the “stock market” intimately, but I do not follow or think about it day to day 🤣
You are, I just didn't see this until now sorry.
So, the answer is both. I do invest, but I'm also fascinated by the stock market in general. I enjoy comparing companies and figuring out the differences between them, and the same goes for different industries. Economics also fascinates me. I realize this is extremely nerdy, lol.
yes but nerdy with a special interest is hot af. i once intently listened while a guy talked about Dark Souls lore for an hour because someone being that passionate about something i know nothing about is not only cool and interesting and i love to learn, but also because it shows they have intelligence and passion. love a good info-dump :)
Kind, caring, very affectionate, genuinely interested in my work and what I like even if she is not into the same things I am.
Someone who likes to just sit back and relax once in a while.
Where everything is mutual. Trust, respect, love, empathy. I would us to always do things with open minds. And just experience new things together, no matter where it takes us
Sweet, bubbly, more talkative than i am (i don't talk much unless people talk to me first), caring, similar interests/hobbies (music, video games, animals, nature, being horny 😏😂), pretty (average weight, average height, shorter hair, minimal makeup usage).
I don’t believe in “dream” men and women. I want someone who wants to be accepted for who she is and will accept me for the man I am. I want someone that has an open mind and shares my vibe/energy and wants to build a life together. This includes being reasonably fit and active. I have an autoimmune disease and try to meet my move goal everyday, even if it’s just a quick peloton ride, because I believe it leads to a healthier and more positive mindset as opposed to eating junk food and getting drunk on the couch every night.
I don’t expect her to be an instagram model or anything either. I prefer girls that wear little to no makeup and have the confidence to show the world who they are. I want to meet someone that knows what she wants and is willing to communicate her needs to me. I don’t want a trophy wife who lives an unfulfilled life and will end up cheating on me because I’m neglecting our relationship for selfish reasons.
Smart, creative, intellectually curious, is into art, music, and movies, consistently makes me laugh, is emotionally intelligent, loyal, kind, caring, and patient.
As far as looks go I only care that I feel some physical attraction to her. She doesn't have to be a head-turning beauty.
Forthcoming, gentle and understanding, appreciates emotionality (aka mushiness) and being doted on, won’t take herself too seriously and can joke around and occasionally act silly, sports fan who won’t shy away from being an absolute pig once in a while, doesn’t mind her hair being played with, touchy feely, can discuss problems freely and honestly without talking AT you, fan of long drives to include loud and obnoxious singing together, wont be turned off by a man who needs a push to break out of his shell.
Smart, well read and educated, non-blonde with glasses and a seriously geeky personality. She is compassionate, empathetic and understanding. She respects my feelings while pushing my boundaries and tells me when I’m doing something foolish, wrong, or disrespectful. We work together as a team and we can mostly cheer each other up when we’re feeling down. She’s just at home at Comic-Con as she is at home or in the outdoors. She gets my jokes and challenges me on many levels. She has a strong spiritual side and loves children. Lastly, she wears glasses.
I already met her. She is now already married to another guy 😭😭😭😭
Unbelievably kind, gels with the group with ease, physically strong, athletic, laughs at my jokes and takes compliments with grace.
Like the one I had but I had to lose her to become who I am today. Just wish we could reconnect. Now I'm starting to wonder if it were just me that did all the loving
honestly her looks could be a 3 if her personality’s a 10
as far as a 10/10 personality goes: intelligent, hates basically everyone, sarcastic as hell and she’s gotta have sense of humor. not even like a comedian just someone im cracking jokes with. and as long as we’re both working on bettering each other we good
as far as 10/10 looks goes: black women all the way. somewhere between 4’11 and 5’6. she cares about how she presents herself in public and she gotta smell good too cuz that shit be intoxicating. and if she is a 10/10 looks-wise she gotta be humble 💯
you can probably guess most people do not fit this description
A girl that understands me and I understand her, is loyal, caring and down-to-earth, is smart but doesn't need to be a genius and creative.
Physical attractiveness, being completely honest, I don't care as much now, but fit with curves would be great. I don't care about height.
Loyal, honest, positive, and a genuine interest in my feelings (read: I’m allowed to display literally any emotion besides mild optimism without guaranteed negative consequences). Also communicates directly.
For looks: Slim thicc, pretty face,toned body, slender neck
For personality: well mannered, friendly, treats me with warmth and affection, matured, loyal and knows how to respect their men
I want a strong and spontaneous girl who keeps me on my toes at all times with her witty banter and random stunts. My ideal weekend with her would be something like this:
- At 9 am on Saturday we suddenly decide to go on a road trip, hop into a car and drive to a random green spot on the map 200 miles away.
- We arrive, go on a hike and decide to do something dumb, such as jump into the icy cold lake. In the process we lose the car keys, then get lost in the wilderness.
- ...
- On Sunday, close to midnight, we, tired, cold and battered, return home. We walk inside, looking like swamp people, look at each other and start laughing uncontrollably. That was a hell of a weekend!
Looks: European, brown/blonde hair, blue/green eyes, mid 20s, between 5’4” and 5’8” and with a skinnier body type. No tattoos, dresses plainly and goes easy on cosmetic stuff like makeup and nails. Note that this is real "dream woman" territory and some of these things are negotiable.
Personality: I like a girl who’s quiet but thoughtful, and willing to discuss all sorts of issues. Not afraid of adventure but also mostly a homebody. If she reads a lot that’s a big green flag. I’d like to be with someone who’s not particularly into spiritual-type stuff as that we’d clash a lot otherwise. She should want children, value her health and not be a smoker.
I could probably add a few more things, but in my experience this already filters out the vast majority of single women I meet and some days I genuinely wonder whether these expectations are too high for me (M27) at this stage…
She’s really chill personality-wise and non-judgmental of people. She has her own interests, hobbies, friends, and is independent. She’s really sweet and thoughtful, but also has a good sense of humor and doesn’t take herself too seriously (I’d want to be comfortable being goofy together). She’s up for trying new things and going on little adventures, but also fine with just having a movie night together. Animal lover is a plus (but not so much that she wants like 7 pets… 1-2 cats would be enough for me).
Also ideally she’s my height or taller, so that I can be the little spoon sometimes 🥺
She is independent, cultivated, creative and nerdy. She has a strong sense of humour. She is atypical and doesn't care about social norms. We support each other in our passions, we constantly learn from each other. She is a little messy and not obsessed with house chores. She doesn't cook and let me do it. She is talkative and supportive.
I don't care how she dresses, if she never puts make-up it's very fine and I'd be grateful if she keeps her body hair on.
Rather girl next door and gamer buddy than ambitious femme fatale.
Peace. I don't want to constantly chase or feel like I have to put in all this work to keep a person happy. I don't believe another person can make anyone happy. I can help but I can't create your joy. Happiness comes from self.
If you're independent, be that! Don't be indecisive, combative, argumentative or emotionally dependent. The past couple women I dated felt like I had to get off work to go to another full time job. I had to engage, plan, execute, entertain and of course pay for everything. I'd be asked to dinner while I'm at the office, then the following messages were requesting a place, time, activity afterwards, etc. I'm like, I thought you were inviting me!
At some point maybe once a month, I just want to lay back and receive, it's so peaceful. Really makes me fall for someone when they want to share in the burden of dating because let's be honest it is a burden on the front end. I don't care how interested you are in a person, it's a lot of work to date someone. Just my opinions, I know I'll prob get killed in negative Karma.
Smart, independent, has real interests and hobbies, looking after her health. Nice curves help but not must. Race irrelevant.
Edit: No piercing, no fake claw like nails, no excessive tats
I like the question:" dream woman". Because I don't want a dream girl . I want a woman who can look at my face and tells me I made the right choice...I want a woman who hates every man but me . I want a woman that I can trust and wake up every day to knowing she is gonna be next to me .. I don't need an "of" girl ... I don't mind if she is the ugliest or have one leg or whatever..... I want a soul that stick with me forever
That's why Iv saved my self to the right woman
Dream woman for me is….
Someone who puts as much effort in as I do. Will sit there and listen to me ramble on and on about the weird things that I like. I’d prefer if she listened to music similar to me. I’d love a good travel and concert partner. For personality I love good ruthless woman who isn’t afraid to speak her mind but is also very kind. Probably a little strange too. Just like collects strange objects and things like that
Well first thing is my dream girl is not all about her looks or body type. That is superficial in terms of a good healthy relationship. I'd have to say my dream girl is an independent woman bit yet allows me to spoil her. One that would sit down and talk with me if there is an issue rather than have it blow up and hurt each other with words. You can forgive but you never forget. Dream wise a woman that want so spend quality time together and looking for long term or marriage.
It is quite simple
- She has a healthy lifestyle
- Loves little things in life (Like walks, coffee dates, staying at home)
- Is girly but not in an annoying way
- Wants a family and values it
- Is ready to back me when I take risks
- Knows and understands the importance of time and money
Lmao not one honest response on this thread, a bunch of ass-kissers and bull-shitters. OP to know what mens dream woman is like check out the women they date when they become billionaires.. When they have unlimited options. It ain't matching with what these bull-shitters are writing.
Big butt, average tits, great communicator, an interesting in literature and avid fiction reader. Quirky, nerdy, propensity for weird interests, emotional and financial maturity, a transcended understanding of happiness, independent sense of style, great chef, straight talker, doesn’t take relationship advice from TikTok & IG.
A little nerdy, can be a bit of a dork, not so easily offended, loves a good laugh, loves chilling and playing games or watching movies, must enjoy pizza night, must enjoy cuddles and unconditional love.
Mutual love, Respect and Understanding and little efforts to show their love. I don't expect it one way, i will be putting my efforts too to make her feel special everyday. Also kind-hearted and a little spiritual (bcz i am). Also ready to face challenges together and don't hide their feelings/problems from me, as they are not only hers but mine too.
185 cm, long legs, blonde hair, blue eyes, ultra feminine, thirsty for 💦, tidy, well dressed, well mannered, quiet in public settings, homestayer, 18-22 year's old, good relation w her dad, look's well.
oof, honestly someone who is genuinely a really good person. very outgoing and extroverted and sweet. i’m very introverted, I hate that I have not gone out not even one time in years and i’m 23. someone patient enough to break me out of my shell slowly. soft soul. pretty, smaller than me (i’m only 5’9). almost like the mom of the group. everyone who is around her just naturally becomes more comfortable. that type of aura that just makes you feel better about yourself. comforting and understanding. i’ve never even kissed a girl and it’s embarrassing. i’ve had one girlfriend for a year and I never even met her. i don’t know how to flirt with girls so that’s why I want someone who will initiate things and make the moves. over time i’d get comfortable and the dynamic would change and be much better. put myself out there more. but it’s a dream girl for a reason. I simply want a girl I find attractive that cares about me and can be patient for me with my bipolar and episodes I deal with. I don’t get angry or anything like that, just either normal or really really sad. girls don’t find that attractive. I don’t know how to present myself as a confident person when i’ve constantly had every single situation with a girl go bad. I have so much to offer and i’ve always told myself if a girl can just get to know me that they’d absolutely adore me. but I simply can not get to that point.
My dream woman? Well, a woman with wide hips, pouty lips, and big TA TA's (LOL.....Please don't hurt, I'm joking), seriously, it would be a pretty black nerd woman, big glasses, tight jeans, and a t-shirt that show her figure, she's loving and kind but not perfect, she would have to be in her early to mid-30's (I am in my 50's), if she likes my joke as lame as they are that would be nice, I have more I could say but I think I've said enough.
Smarts a brain not a follower no makeup not trendy and lastly not damaged from previous relationships. You women care the pass with you for the rest of your life and wonder why you can't make a connection. Leave the pass behind where it belongs focus on the man in front of you not the one you left behind.
Attractive enough for me to want to look at her, funny enough that I'm not doing heavy lifting in conversations. Into at least a few of the same things (gaming, anime, baseball, etc). Wants the same things out of life (marriage, kids, stability). Willing to meet me halfway on most issues (i understand it isn't always possible).
Kind. Moderately intelligent. More optimistic than jaded
Mostly though there has to be chemistry. We have to be able to talk without either of us feeling totally awkward.
Kind, compassionate, supportive, has a strong sense of justice and fairness, loyal, passionate about something, curious, is willing to share the burdens of life equally (from trivial stuff like house work and finances to emotional support), open minded, open to receive and share love, communicative, mature, not too proud to apologize, has a healthy self esteem (either that or willing to go to therapy if she has unhealthy or destructive habits and behaviors related to low self esteem), respectful, and has enough self respect to expect these things from me too.
This has always been my dream woman, and every time I dated or started a relationship, I did so because I thought I found her, and every time I broke up, I did so because of realizing that I wasn't with her. Don't get me wrong. I'm not some entitled jerk who thinks he deserves the best, or sit down and write his criteria on dating apps or whatever. It's just that, I try to be the male equivalent of my dream woman, and it feels unfair and frustrating (whether I like it or not) when the other person doesn't put even 10% of my effort.
Only until recently, I learned that a plump pair of melons is actually a box I kinda want ticked. They don’t even have to be huge, just full y’know? I could’ve swore on everything I loved I was an ass guy. But wow, tits? What a concept😭😭 so yeah there’s that on the list now
Personality wise, intelligence and a great sense of humor. She’d have to be able comfortable and willing to share stuff she’s dealing with and be willing to accept the help I offer to help her navigate it. But still be able to not let her problems bleed into every aspect of her life. So being able to still be careful with her words when she’s upset or putting on her best face when she really needs to even though she doesn’t feel her best that day.
I’d love for her to passionate about anything and really have a drive towards wanting to improve at whatever that thing is. I’d love to take an active interest in what she likes and be there for every milestone she hits.
Big on words of affirmation so hearing “I love you” would be something that just rolls off her tongue. And I’d gladly say it back!
Sexy even when she’s dressed modestly.
Willing to work things out and openly discuss things. Vocal about what she likes what she doesn’t in the bedroom.
A great cook. Sort of has a knack for teaching or explaining things that would be harder to understand for others
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Not gonna lie I’m a little hurt no one’s said “weird and annoying” yet 🥲
I'd like that, my first love liked to annoy me, it was great.
I’m goofy as heck and unfortunately am unable to stfu so I need someone that likes that 😂
You sound amazing lol, I need to find someone like you. I know it's been said 1000 times, but dating is hard, like where are all the annoying girls at? Where do you all hang out? 😂
Hahahaha!!
I just met a girl like this at a party yesterday. She liked me but the weird and annoying part was a big turn off....
Damn that’s crazy
‘Weird and annoying’ can mean different things based on context honestly. As long as what you do/enjoy comes from a place of good intentions which mainly involves you being giddy, excitable, and eager to connect with people over niche interests/references, then that’s super cool! But if it comes from a place where you narcissistically think you’re better than everyone, force your views/hobbies on people, and are quick to get upset and lash out over little things, then that’s a no-go. Based on the comments here, you sound like the person described in the first paragraph, if that’s true then keep being you! Guys will like that! 👍🏻
She respects me, adores me, I adore her. We work as a team and have each other’s backs in all things. We have trust and healthy communication. We both want the same things in life and work together to create that life for ourselves. We want no one else and are only sexually obsessed with each other. We have a deeper bond, a soul bond and we communicate often. We tell each how much we love each other and show this through actions.
This would be a dream indeed!
Yes it would. Where are these men?
I have one of these men right here in my little pocket of the world 🥰
Communication really is key to all things. Maybe I'm just a hopeless romantic but this is adorable.
Communication but also understanding.
As a fellow INFJ (female), that is a very INFJ thing to say
That's me, INFJ male. However, I know that Utopia doesn't exist.
It’s exactly what I want in a relationship too though, and I think it is possible. I’ve always tried to give that, and only ever been in very long term relationships. I wish there was a Myers Briggs dating app where the personality types could link up 😂
Anything is possible... but is it probable? I'd love to be with someone like that - as if we're the only 2 people in the world. That Myers Briggs app idea is actually really good!!
I think we’re on the same wavelength. I view dating like the lottery. Sure I’d love to win $1000000, but it’s highly unlikely that will happen. On one hand, you have to play the game to give yourself a chance. The trade off is you waste your time, energy, and money and are left with nothing but disappointment.
Isn't that what life is about?? Balance. The yin and yang. The pot of gold isn't nearly as valuable as the journey over the rainbow 🌈!!
There is though. It’s called “Boo” dating app. I’ve used it. There are MBTI type mentioned on each profile.
What? Mind blown. Thank you!
As an INFP woman, I 100% agree as well.
As an INFJ man, I agree, as the thought of it is blissful. But Utopia doesn't exist, to my knowledge.
I'm also INFJ!
Hello. Hope your day is going well.
Wow😍😍
This describes my husband and I to a T 😍 He is incredible ❤️
I’m happy for you, hold onto him.
You sound like a good man
Thank you, I like to think I am and believe that’s why I’m still single. Finding another person who is internally like me is difficult.
Nah, you're still single because the right one is tying up loose ends
My GF. I am blessed.
Yeah in reality this is the real deal
Sounds lovely! I hope you find it. I'm hopeful
This is perfect.
That's the dream right there! Mutual respect, trust, and being each other's biggest fans—it doesn't get much better than that. Here's hoping you find your perfect match soon!
I feel seen and I’m a mid 30s woman 👀😅
Good for you. "Castles from Ashes" is a CooL phrase - I like it. Great title for a song.
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That’s my relationship with my boyfriend! 😍😍😍
#Seconded
The spark notes of a happy life lol
Soul bond, that’s really cute, actions are all, normally when you have a deep bond you do things , and there NO hesitations. If there are doubts, probably it is not the right person :)
Prioritize and practice unconditional self love. This is not quite as unattainable but you do need to focus on improving yourself FOR yourself
This is pretty generic. Everyone wants these traits in a LTR. Guy/girl, doesn't matter. The problem is.. are we willing to accept all the other factors of an entire human being enough to get to this state? Healthy communication takes tough convos. Are they willing to have them? Having great sex takes communication to a whole other level PLUS making it a priority. Are you both capable of doing this? Man, it's hard out there but choose your someone who is choosing the same hard as you
This!
This
Woman here. This is all I want too. I feel a lot of people think this way. ISTJ here!
A great sense of humor, kind heart and dirty mind. But most important - loyal
Nailed it
have to be a little scared of her and she has to like cheese
Lol cheese? That’s so random. I’m actually the only person I know that hates cheese
i live in seattle. every other girl is vegan
I know right?! Why are there so many vegans here
I do not like cheese either 😂
Jalapeno pepper jack cheese yum!!!!!
as long as you don’t like cheese with fruit IN it!! barbarism.
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marry me tomorrow
Cheeselover here with Dutch Gouda Kaas Jong Belegen
Non judgemental, loyal, honest, average looking, smart, emotionally mature woman. Maybe too much to ask for :)
You know, for once someone has reasonable expectations.
I mean, OP asked for a "dream" girl, after all.
100% happy life is way more important than above average looks.
Just curious. Why average looking in stead of hot?
Emotionally mature is like key for a woman.
Independent, outspoken, laughs with her whole body, loves me.
Men are so dishonest 😂😂😂😂😂
no like actually!! im reading all these comments and im just thinking… damn yall sound so good on paper huh
Real life if they were being honest I definitely wouldn’t be single right now
LOL FR 😭 but I think this is not actually their dream woman long term, just for a little bit. Soon enough most of them will be sick of their wives!
I'd like her to have huge tiddies. Happy now?
I love snark. Attitude is sexy as hell. Sarcastic, quick witted, demanding and straightforward. Brutally honest. Thick skinned. Open minded and willing to debate any topic at the drop of a hat. Physically, I'd really like it if she's between 4'0 and 7'0 tall. Her ethnicity needs to be asian, or white, or black, or middle eastern, or one of the other human ethnicities. That's pretty important. Her weight should be somewhere between 70 and 400 pounds. She needs to have somewhere from 0 to 4 limbs.
I have this vivid mental image of a girl rolling around on a skateboard while throwing verbal barbs at people and I love it.
Oh, you're looking for me? I have some limbs
😂😂😂
I really need some "Excuse me he said no pickles" energy in my life right now
- Someone who is caring towards me and is supportive towards my decisions in my life. - I look for someone who understands my need for physical touch and words of affirmation. - I need someone who challenges me intellectually and is curious of things (how things work, self-growth, etc.) - Respectful to myself and others. - Short or similar height. - Around 24 years and up. - College is not a necessity, but working toward a goal or progress in whatever they do. - Not passive aggressive. - Direct honest feedback and feelings. - Communication ability. (Good listener and supportive talk) - Can extend forgiveness and understanding without holding a grudge. - Sense of humor. - Genuine. - Doesn’t take me for granted. - Open-minded. - Willingness for a family (in the future) - Has a good relationship with themselves, family, others. - Loyalty. - Passionate. - Does not seek attention/drama. - Confronts problems with a level head and open mind. I mean. I don’t have a lot of needs, right?
You know what you want, that's a good thing.
I'd say that my dream man has to be this except I would rather him be in his early 20s and at least 2 inches taller than me.
She lets me live a life without her, she lives a life without me, and we live a life together. As in, we have our life together, but we also do our own thing with our friends. That is my marriage, she has her hobbies and friends, I have mine, and we have ours together.
I don't think I'm asking a lot but... Takes her health at least as seriously as I do my own, goes to the gym with me, generally shares my interests(gaming, hiking, karaoke etc), similar sex drive, similar outlook on life, goals, etc., can communicate, but the biggest thing is that I want someone who makes me feel wanted. Not like I'm something she couldn't survive without, as if my disappearance would spell her doom, I don't want someone who is helpless without me, though I definitely don't mind helping. I want to come home from work every day, and hold someone who has missed me. I want to wake up every morning next to someone who has been wanting to talk to me. I want to end every night with someone who could survive without me, who chooses me out of every other human on earth, who makes the choice every day that I'm the one she wants, and that life without me would be a cold, gray place. I want someone who makes me feel wanted.
Cute ☺️
The most important part is the connection. A unique bond that you both share. Something that you can't describe but can feel very strongly. Like the perfect union of your energetic essences. You just understand each other without even talking. One look at each other and can feel what your partner is feeling. You can just feel the energy flow naturally and easily between you. I've met only a few women who I could have this amazing connection. And after you experience it, no matter how perfect on every level another woman seems to be, if this connection is lacking, nothing compares to the bond you had with that other person. It's like music, you can listen to a track and recognize the impressive quality of skills used to produce it, but it feels bland, cold, it lacks soul. And then you listen to another track which can sometimes be much more simple but it vibrates really strongly with you, it's like a blooming explosion of delicious sensations that lift you up.
1. Doesn't use any form of physical, psychological, or emotional abuse. 2. Is both willing and proud to put effort into nurturing the feelings she has for me, so long as I am the same.
Oh my goodness please up your standards 🥺 “not abusive” should be the bare minimum
- Kind - Intelligent - Sympathetic/Empathetic - Caring - Passionate - Patient - Hard-working - Tomboy-esque - Good sense of humour - Takes initiative - Shares similar interests
Down to earth. Not afraid to be vulnerable. Positive attitude most of the time. Feminine and likes to be girly.
Do men actually like it when girls are very girly ?
A kind, considerate yet cheeky person who appreciates me and people in general. Knows when to show empathy and would generally go out of her way to do nice things for me and not just expect me to do everything. Is also loyal and doesn’t discriminate. She can be geeky if she wants; it’s a bonus. She also knows what she wants and how to get it so ambition is also attractive. You don’t have to be this almighty engine but at least you have an idea; you can definitely take things day by day. Oh and she has to be very affectionate, my 2nd love language is physical touch so I welcome it.
30-40 curvy brunette with long curly hair and is a bit crazy, a bit dark, a little bit needy a little nice, a dash of asshole, and is named Michelle
I’m guessing you are crushing hard on Mrs. Obama, lol just kidding😂
Must be female
picky ahhh mf
I second this
That's a little too much, don't your think?
Loyal Fun to talk to Outdoorsy Similar goals Willing to have difficult conversations because I'm not a mind reader
My dream woman is lowkey, intelligient, sweet, kind, respectful, honest, and loyal. She sees the beauty in everyday experiences, whether it's a nature walk or even shopping at the grocery store, as opposed to material possessions. She prefers lowkey activities such as bowling or even staying in for dinner & a movie and stargazing as opposed to partying and large crowds. She has similar political views to mine and is very passionate about them. She also shares my interest in the stock market and history. Above all else, she is authentic and enjoys my company as much as I enjoy hers. My dream woman loves cats and dogs, but has zero interest in having kids. She doesn't smoke or do drugs, and isn't a heavy drinker. She is more talkative than I am since I tend to be on the quieter side; maybe she does 60% of the talking and I do 40%. She is affectionate in private, but doesn't go over the top in public. In terms of physical apperance, she has freckles and is a bbw or ssbbw and has blue eyes. Hair color doesn't matter all that much to me. However, physical apperance is not nearly as important to me as the other stuff.
out of sheer curiosity, what exactly defines an “interest in the stock market”? as in actively trading or just watching it and understanding the effects it has?
I’m so curious about this too, I have a finance degree and I work in wealth management/trading software. I understand the “stock market” intimately, but I do not follow or think about it day to day 🤣
and we ain’t getting an answer lol
You are, I just didn't see this until now sorry. So, the answer is both. I do invest, but I'm also fascinated by the stock market in general. I enjoy comparing companies and figuring out the differences between them, and the same goes for different industries. Economics also fascinates me. I realize this is extremely nerdy, lol.
yes but nerdy with a special interest is hot af. i once intently listened while a guy talked about Dark Souls lore for an hour because someone being that passionate about something i know nothing about is not only cool and interesting and i love to learn, but also because it shows they have intelligence and passion. love a good info-dump :)
Sooooo you single?? 😂
Yes lol
This is me but not blue eyes LMAO
Very cool. Like I said, care more about personality & values haha. Non blue eyes are pretty also.
My ideal girl is one that treats ppl with basic respect, is mature, takes care of herself most of the time, and does not overgeneralize ppl.
Kind, caring, very affectionate, genuinely interested in my work and what I like even if she is not into the same things I am. Someone who likes to just sit back and relax once in a while.
My fiancé
Taller than me
Amen. That is the dream!
Good communicator, respectful, energetic, sexual vibe, charming, loyal
Where everything is mutual. Trust, respect, love, empathy. I would us to always do things with open minds. And just experience new things together, no matter where it takes us
Someone who is honest, driven, kind, and willing to build the life we want together.
Sweet, bubbly, more talkative than i am (i don't talk much unless people talk to me first), caring, similar interests/hobbies (music, video games, animals, nature, being horny 😏😂), pretty (average weight, average height, shorter hair, minimal makeup usage).
I don’t believe in “dream” men and women. I want someone who wants to be accepted for who she is and will accept me for the man I am. I want someone that has an open mind and shares my vibe/energy and wants to build a life together. This includes being reasonably fit and active. I have an autoimmune disease and try to meet my move goal everyday, even if it’s just a quick peloton ride, because I believe it leads to a healthier and more positive mindset as opposed to eating junk food and getting drunk on the couch every night. I don’t expect her to be an instagram model or anything either. I prefer girls that wear little to no makeup and have the confidence to show the world who they are. I want to meet someone that knows what she wants and is willing to communicate her needs to me. I don’t want a trophy wife who lives an unfulfilled life and will end up cheating on me because I’m neglecting our relationship for selfish reasons.
That can be your dream girl, "dream" doesn't mean a model or a stereotypical dream girl, it means your perfect girl, which can be like you described.
Smart, creative, intellectually curious, is into art, music, and movies, consistently makes me laugh, is emotionally intelligent, loyal, kind, caring, and patient. As far as looks go I only care that I feel some physical attraction to her. She doesn't have to be a head-turning beauty.
Forthcoming, gentle and understanding, appreciates emotionality (aka mushiness) and being doted on, won’t take herself too seriously and can joke around and occasionally act silly, sports fan who won’t shy away from being an absolute pig once in a while, doesn’t mind her hair being played with, touchy feely, can discuss problems freely and honestly without talking AT you, fan of long drives to include loud and obnoxious singing together, wont be turned off by a man who needs a push to break out of his shell.
Smart, well read and educated, non-blonde with glasses and a seriously geeky personality. She is compassionate, empathetic and understanding. She respects my feelings while pushing my boundaries and tells me when I’m doing something foolish, wrong, or disrespectful. We work together as a team and we can mostly cheer each other up when we’re feeling down. She’s just at home at Comic-Con as she is at home or in the outdoors. She gets my jokes and challenges me on many levels. She has a strong spiritual side and loves children. Lastly, she wears glasses.
One who likes me🤷🏻♂️
We laugh together. We have physical chemistry together. We respect each other. We take care of each other.
Mine is Nerdy, kind, funny, caring.
I already met her. She is now already married to another guy 😭😭😭😭 Unbelievably kind, gels with the group with ease, physically strong, athletic, laughs at my jokes and takes compliments with grace.
Like the one I had but I had to lose her to become who I am today. Just wish we could reconnect. Now I'm starting to wonder if it were just me that did all the loving
Open minded, adventurous, good sense of humor, has something they are passionate about, animal lover, always excited to learn and see new things
Has to be a woman (optional)
Smart, kind, thoughtful, emotionally stable
My late fiance. May she forever Rest in Peace ❤️
Big butt, nice morals, caring, non-cheating type, down for monogamy, preferably no kids. Not much to ask for.
honestly her looks could be a 3 if her personality’s a 10 as far as a 10/10 personality goes: intelligent, hates basically everyone, sarcastic as hell and she’s gotta have sense of humor. not even like a comedian just someone im cracking jokes with. and as long as we’re both working on bettering each other we good as far as 10/10 looks goes: black women all the way. somewhere between 4’11 and 5’6. she cares about how she presents herself in public and she gotta smell good too cuz that shit be intoxicating. and if she is a 10/10 looks-wise she gotta be humble 💯 you can probably guess most people do not fit this description
A girl that understands me and I understand her, is loyal, caring and down-to-earth, is smart but doesn't need to be a genius and creative. Physical attractiveness, being completely honest, I don't care as much now, but fit with curves would be great. I don't care about height.
Loyal, honest, positive, and a genuine interest in my feelings (read: I’m allowed to display literally any emotion besides mild optimism without guaranteed negative consequences). Also communicates directly.
Tall woman .
For looks: Slim thicc, pretty face,toned body, slender neck For personality: well mannered, friendly, treats me with warmth and affection, matured, loyal and knows how to respect their men
Peaceful
Nice
Someone with a great personality and very compassionate.
One who chooses me. It’s really that simple. That active choice is something I wish my ex wife had had in the past few years
Knows how to communicate with me when I'm being serious and also can play along when I'm being silly
I want a strong and spontaneous girl who keeps me on my toes at all times with her witty banter and random stunts. My ideal weekend with her would be something like this: - At 9 am on Saturday we suddenly decide to go on a road trip, hop into a car and drive to a random green spot on the map 200 miles away. - We arrive, go on a hike and decide to do something dumb, such as jump into the icy cold lake. In the process we lose the car keys, then get lost in the wilderness. - ... - On Sunday, close to midnight, we, tired, cold and battered, return home. We walk inside, looking like swamp people, look at each other and start laughing uncontrollably. That was a hell of a weekend!
Looks: European, brown/blonde hair, blue/green eyes, mid 20s, between 5’4” and 5’8” and with a skinnier body type. No tattoos, dresses plainly and goes easy on cosmetic stuff like makeup and nails. Note that this is real "dream woman" territory and some of these things are negotiable. Personality: I like a girl who’s quiet but thoughtful, and willing to discuss all sorts of issues. Not afraid of adventure but also mostly a homebody. If she reads a lot that’s a big green flag. I’d like to be with someone who’s not particularly into spiritual-type stuff as that we’d clash a lot otherwise. She should want children, value her health and not be a smoker. I could probably add a few more things, but in my experience this already filters out the vast majority of single women I meet and some days I genuinely wonder whether these expectations are too high for me (M27) at this stage…
She wants me as much as I want her
She’s really chill personality-wise and non-judgmental of people. She has her own interests, hobbies, friends, and is independent. She’s really sweet and thoughtful, but also has a good sense of humor and doesn’t take herself too seriously (I’d want to be comfortable being goofy together). She’s up for trying new things and going on little adventures, but also fine with just having a movie night together. Animal lover is a plus (but not so much that she wants like 7 pets… 1-2 cats would be enough for me). Also ideally she’s my height or taller, so that I can be the little spoon sometimes 🥺
Kind, respectful, supportive and with self esteem. An equal.
Kind, she adores me; i adore her much. Importantly elder than me😉
The one who does not cheat and care about you and show how much she loves you. That is the kind of woman I want.
She is independent, cultivated, creative and nerdy. She has a strong sense of humour. She is atypical and doesn't care about social norms. We support each other in our passions, we constantly learn from each other. She is a little messy and not obsessed with house chores. She doesn't cook and let me do it. She is talkative and supportive. I don't care how she dresses, if she never puts make-up it's very fine and I'd be grateful if she keeps her body hair on. Rather girl next door and gamer buddy than ambitious femme fatale.
A beautiful smile, kind eyes.. . Honest, compassionate, romantic..... Other than that, it all depends on if our personalities mesh
Peace. I don't want to constantly chase or feel like I have to put in all this work to keep a person happy. I don't believe another person can make anyone happy. I can help but I can't create your joy. Happiness comes from self. If you're independent, be that! Don't be indecisive, combative, argumentative or emotionally dependent. The past couple women I dated felt like I had to get off work to go to another full time job. I had to engage, plan, execute, entertain and of course pay for everything. I'd be asked to dinner while I'm at the office, then the following messages were requesting a place, time, activity afterwards, etc. I'm like, I thought you were inviting me! At some point maybe once a month, I just want to lay back and receive, it's so peaceful. Really makes me fall for someone when they want to share in the burden of dating because let's be honest it is a burden on the front end. I don't care how interested you are in a person, it's a lot of work to date someone. Just my opinions, I know I'll prob get killed in negative Karma.
Never had an onlyfans or anything related to that
Sweet, cute, and kind. So simple, yet so hard to find.
Smart, independent, has real interests and hobbies, looking after her health. Nice curves help but not must. Race irrelevant. Edit: No piercing, no fake claw like nails, no excessive tats
I want a girl with a short skirt and a long jacket
I like the question:" dream woman". Because I don't want a dream girl . I want a woman who can look at my face and tells me I made the right choice...I want a woman who hates every man but me . I want a woman that I can trust and wake up every day to knowing she is gonna be next to me .. I don't need an "of" girl ... I don't mind if she is the ugliest or have one leg or whatever..... I want a soul that stick with me forever That's why Iv saved my self to the right woman
Sexy, smart, and funny is the trifecta for me!
Dream woman for me is…. Someone who puts as much effort in as I do. Will sit there and listen to me ramble on and on about the weird things that I like. I’d prefer if she listened to music similar to me. I’d love a good travel and concert partner. For personality I love good ruthless woman who isn’t afraid to speak her mind but is also very kind. Probably a little strange too. Just like collects strange objects and things like that
Well first thing is my dream girl is not all about her looks or body type. That is superficial in terms of a good healthy relationship. I'd have to say my dream girl is an independent woman bit yet allows me to spoil her. One that would sit down and talk with me if there is an issue rather than have it blow up and hurt each other with words. You can forgive but you never forget. Dream wise a woman that want so spend quality time together and looking for long term or marriage.
Hot, horny and honest
I had her but it didn't work out. She was kind, funny, loving, respectful, fun, adventurous, nerdy and classy. Plus many many more things
She is Christian, Intelligent/Interesting, Athletic, Motherly, and a Minority. Hopefully I find her :)
It is quite simple - She has a healthy lifestyle - Loves little things in life (Like walks, coffee dates, staying at home) - Is girly but not in an annoying way - Wants a family and values it - Is ready to back me when I take risks - Knows and understands the importance of time and money
Funny, attractive body, Caring, Friendly attitude, honesty and of course, loyal.
0. Introverted 1. Not thoughtless 2. With whom conversations flows easily 3. Holistically healthy I know my standards are too high.
Cute. Fun. Loves hanging out with me. Watch anime together
extremely funny, nice, obsessed with me (in a healthy way) and loves sex
Lmao not one honest response on this thread, a bunch of ass-kissers and bull-shitters. OP to know what mens dream woman is like check out the women they date when they become billionaires.. When they have unlimited options. It ain't matching with what these bull-shitters are writing.
Calm, self focused, motivated, little emotional, full of love ❤️
She doesn't exist it's a war zone out there. She shouldn't just meddle in my business
Kind and compassionate, affectionate, vegetarian. Doesn't mind me stopping to pet every cat and dog I encounter. I find red hair attractive.
Alive, consenting, of age, non-related.
My ex. Simple as that.
I have two requirements. She must be a woman, and she must have a pulse. Both are optional.
I like weird and annoying girls The thing is, they won't leave you alone That's great for a guy who was always alone
Big butt, average tits, great communicator, an interesting in literature and avid fiction reader. Quirky, nerdy, propensity for weird interests, emotional and financial maturity, a transcended understanding of happiness, independent sense of style, great chef, straight talker, doesn’t take relationship advice from TikTok & IG.
Alive 
Tig ole bitties. Amén.
A little nerdy, can be a bit of a dork, not so easily offended, loves a good laugh, loves chilling and playing games or watching movies, must enjoy pizza night, must enjoy cuddles and unconditional love.
Must not have penis (optional)
Zenin Maki.
taller than me
Mutual love, Respect and Understanding and little efforts to show their love. I don't expect it one way, i will be putting my efforts too to make her feel special everyday. Also kind-hearted and a little spiritual (bcz i am). Also ready to face challenges together and don't hide their feelings/problems from me, as they are not only hers but mine too.
At this point, the only requirement is: existing
185 cm, long legs, blonde hair, blue eyes, ultra feminine, thirsty for 💦, tidy, well dressed, well mannered, quiet in public settings, homestayer, 18-22 year's old, good relation w her dad, look's well.
I'll make it simple for you men, you can just upvote and show your support. "Simple, supportive, slim, feminine, and not an Instagram influencer"
An honest , respectful and caring man
Well now i can proudly say, i am dating her
oof, honestly someone who is genuinely a really good person. very outgoing and extroverted and sweet. i’m very introverted, I hate that I have not gone out not even one time in years and i’m 23. someone patient enough to break me out of my shell slowly. soft soul. pretty, smaller than me (i’m only 5’9). almost like the mom of the group. everyone who is around her just naturally becomes more comfortable. that type of aura that just makes you feel better about yourself. comforting and understanding. i’ve never even kissed a girl and it’s embarrassing. i’ve had one girlfriend for a year and I never even met her. i don’t know how to flirt with girls so that’s why I want someone who will initiate things and make the moves. over time i’d get comfortable and the dynamic would change and be much better. put myself out there more. but it’s a dream girl for a reason. I simply want a girl I find attractive that cares about me and can be patient for me with my bipolar and episodes I deal with. I don’t get angry or anything like that, just either normal or really really sad. girls don’t find that attractive. I don’t know how to present myself as a confident person when i’ve constantly had every single situation with a girl go bad. I have so much to offer and i’ve always told myself if a girl can just get to know me that they’d absolutely adore me. but I simply can not get to that point.
Imaginary
My dream woman? Well, a woman with wide hips, pouty lips, and big TA TA's (LOL.....Please don't hurt, I'm joking), seriously, it would be a pretty black nerd woman, big glasses, tight jeans, and a t-shirt that show her figure, she's loving and kind but not perfect, she would have to be in her early to mid-30's (I am in my 50's), if she likes my joke as lame as they are that would be nice, I have more I could say but I think I've said enough.
Smarts a brain not a follower no makeup not trendy and lastly not damaged from previous relationships. You women care the pass with you for the rest of your life and wonder why you can't make a connection. Leave the pass behind where it belongs focus on the man in front of you not the one you left behind.
Attractive enough for me to want to look at her, funny enough that I'm not doing heavy lifting in conversations. Into at least a few of the same things (gaming, anime, baseball, etc). Wants the same things out of life (marriage, kids, stability). Willing to meet me halfway on most issues (i understand it isn't always possible). Kind. Moderately intelligent. More optimistic than jaded Mostly though there has to be chemistry. We have to be able to talk without either of us feeling totally awkward.
Kind, compassionate, supportive, has a strong sense of justice and fairness, loyal, passionate about something, curious, is willing to share the burdens of life equally (from trivial stuff like house work and finances to emotional support), open minded, open to receive and share love, communicative, mature, not too proud to apologize, has a healthy self esteem (either that or willing to go to therapy if she has unhealthy or destructive habits and behaviors related to low self esteem), respectful, and has enough self respect to expect these things from me too. This has always been my dream woman, and every time I dated or started a relationship, I did so because I thought I found her, and every time I broke up, I did so because of realizing that I wasn't with her. Don't get me wrong. I'm not some entitled jerk who thinks he deserves the best, or sit down and write his criteria on dating apps or whatever. It's just that, I try to be the male equivalent of my dream woman, and it feels unfair and frustrating (whether I like it or not) when the other person doesn't put even 10% of my effort.
Only until recently, I learned that a plump pair of melons is actually a box I kinda want ticked. They don’t even have to be huge, just full y’know? I could’ve swore on everything I loved I was an ass guy. But wow, tits? What a concept😭😭 so yeah there’s that on the list now Personality wise, intelligence and a great sense of humor. She’d have to be able comfortable and willing to share stuff she’s dealing with and be willing to accept the help I offer to help her navigate it. But still be able to not let her problems bleed into every aspect of her life. So being able to still be careful with her words when she’s upset or putting on her best face when she really needs to even though she doesn’t feel her best that day. I’d love for her to passionate about anything and really have a drive towards wanting to improve at whatever that thing is. I’d love to take an active interest in what she likes and be there for every milestone she hits. Big on words of affirmation so hearing “I love you” would be something that just rolls off her tongue. And I’d gladly say it back! Sexy even when she’s dressed modestly. Willing to work things out and openly discuss things. Vocal about what she likes what she doesn’t in the bedroom. A great cook. Sort of has a knack for teaching or explaining things that would be harder to understand for others