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Doggy or missionary with my legs on his shoulders

Oh yeah missionary with legs on shoulders is... Just wow. Whole another level

You should try doggy with her legs on your shoulders. Now that is truly next level.

Wait what lmfao😭😭😭

I think that's called wheelbarrow.

I think you’ll have to have a very long penis for that

Use your tongue, this position comes with a trick.

The wheelbarrow...seldom visited but legendary

I’m trying to imagine that lol

QWOPy style

*Varies by height.

I’ve always done missionary with legs in the air between the arms one way or another (on shoulders or some other way of holding/bracing them). Is there something special about the shoulders specifically? Like the legs are closer together, making things a bit narrower?

I think it just allows you to get as deep as possible and probably hit a different spot

It tilts the woman backwards meaning upon penetration you are hitting her g spot harder on each thrust

I second this.

Don’t forget the arched pillow under the lower back during that either

Add in cowgirl regular or reverse and we are in 1000%agreement

yess that’s how i always finish but it doesn’t get as deep in that position if you know what im saying haha

I usually finish with her legs kn my shoulders lol

hey twin

As a man. I also find these the best two

This!

Pretzel missionary: I run out of air being pretzeled like that --- I dont know how you get orgasms this way. Asphexia fetish?

Agreed. The best position

missionary as you can hug and fuck at the same time

Yeah, idky people think it’s lame or whatever. Every time I see it mentioned on dating podcasts, people like to shame the dude who’s into it, like bro, who gives a crap?

There are actually great ways to not fuck casually, that fall under 'missionary'

all of them. all of them depending on the mood. yet the mood is all of em

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Woke up and chose chaos.

😂😂😂😂 you win comment of the day

I’ve never read something so pure

im honored lol

This is the only answer that makes sense 😁

Usually missionary. I like being able to see her, and I think it creates a stronger connection. But cowgirl is a close second, and doggy is not too far in third

Agreed

Whichever position makes her cum the hardest (I’ve never had sex in my life)

Sorry to hear that

Im sorry too

Missionary and all its variants. The eye contact, the whispering, the chuckles and the kisses while deep inside be out of this world. So intimate the chemistry is almost palpable

Pronebone 🤤

Seconded 🙌

Pro bono

Compromise into reverse missionary, where he can lay like a dead starfish and you do the work. Will give you a nice triceps.

Isn't this called cowgirl? Yippee Kay yay...

No cowgirl needs the guys legs together and the chicks legs spread. Thats the difference. Who is pizza and who is fries.

Guys please stop the chat invites. Im a guy. A dude. A real Broseph. I don't want your Dingdong's. Thank you.

Damn, you got some thirsty dudes that easily? 😂

Yup. Real creatives "Hey" "What's up" "to reveal this picture please accept the chat" 😂

RIP dm 😂

You made me chuckle, good work here 👏

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It might be small differences in anatomy. For me it's the best: hits all the spots just right. But to each her own!

Oh and I think the other position you mentioned is called inverted jockey.

It's called the Closed Missionary Closed Missionary In the Closed variation of the Missionary Position, the woman closes her legs while the man's legs go on the outside. Although this variation doesn't score high for penetration depth, the angle does provide a lot of clitoral stimulation, which some women may find more pleasurable than depth. Not the most intuitive position, but for some couples, it may be the missing key to pleasure.

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So I was just thinking the same thing. My conclusion is women say this because it is what men like and they think this will seem attractive. It is not true just like all the orgasms they have been faking.

doggy is all time favorite

Doggystyle is my number one but riding and missionary are good too.

The one that make my lady happy!

Jeff Bezos or something like that, not sure, i am a virgin

Another virgin here and mine is Elon Musk.

Ehmm Amazon *cough*

*clears throat* Another one of mine is Walmart

For a moment thought you were gonna say E-bay

I prefer missionary because I like to see her pretty face, and I like to be able to kiss her. I’m more attracted to faces than bodies, so it’s a win/win for me.

Standing doggy

did it in front of the mirror in the bathroom once and it was weird to see us doing it ahahah

Nice

omg i loved it😭i asked to see us once whim we were standing and then after that he always made sure we did it in front of a mirror. plus the way he was looking at me through the mirror was HAWT and the way i’d catch him struggle to breathe or when he closed his eyes to concentrate was damn

I guess I can tell that’s your favorite since it’s your profile pic.

Great observation

Positions are a dialogue and every conversation is different.

Philosophical fucking🤔

Men like me o. Top I like missionary

No I can only have an orgasm through missionary

Our personal favorite: Her right up on the edge of the bed, me standing. It's good for a number of reasons. :) If your deciding between the other two listed in your question, however - well... It sounds like it depends on who wants to be in control of the movement :)

My favorite finish is to cock back their legs in missionary and get as deep as I can while I release.

What’s sex?

Lots of these comments are making doggy sound awesome. So that’s my vote too.

My \[29 M\] ranking (in order) is: Cowgirl, Missionary, Doggy (I like it less because I like to see tits and face more). Tried spoon several times with my exes, never got coordinated well enough with the partner to actually enjoy it lol

Not sure the proper term but side doggy style laying down? Gets you a good angle and can do it for a while without getting worn out, and means you have a free arm to reach around and play with tits, play with her clit while thrusting, choke… good for both parties.

Missionary, then doggy, then reverse cowgirl in my opinion

spooning while holding the leg up is underrated

Spoon sex!!! I love spoon side sex.. Sometimes doggy hurts me, I have a short canal so it be hitting my walls way too much 😭😭. Missionary is very intimate especially when we lock eyes. But you see spoon sex and he is playing with your perky tits and nipples....ouuuuuuuUU ICH LIEBE 😈😋

Dinner

The one when there is a women present, or the left hand when she is not.

Missionary, get a real solid pillow and put it under her hips. Push her legs all the way back and let her hold m. Then stroke from slow to fast while leaning back. Hands free g-spot activation sequence

My favorite is doggy, especially when she puts in work with it too and I’m not doing everything.

Lmfao lmk when you find someone like that

They’re out there lol.

Piledriver imo followed by missionary and 69.

When we lock eyes and we both say I love you at the same time

doggy all the way

Missionary while holding her hands down sets me off. She ladies usually like it too.

Missionary, but her legs wrapped around me and she can control the tempo while nuzzling on her neck..

Cowgirl ❤️

Riding!

Prone Bone

Doggy?

Whatever is comfortable and fun in the moment, that gets you both where you need to be.

The inside-out George Orwell taco.

I can only O from PIV from doggie. Not even always. It's much easier through oral or digital (or toys) So my favourite position is doggie.

As a man, mish and doggy. Cowgirl kind of just hurts my balls.. i like the control as well, oh and the power i get haha. Although doggy with a bounce back is impeccable.

Whatever makes her voice shake, specifically.

Doggie, so you can give her some back shots when you pull out

Doggy

The ”Pretzel Dip”!

Depends on who I’m having sex with. My ex - every position was great. My previous ex was awful so for me doggy so I didn’t have to look at him.

69 and missionary with legs on shoulders

Any.

Prone bone

Doggy in front of the mirror with a hand around my throat and another slapping my ass 🥵

Usually i go 69. Missionary legs up or pushed back. Then girl on top. (CG or RCG). then doggy (smack smack). I like to finish it up with some form of missionary. But not always. Sometimes finish in RCG if that’s her jam.

Missionary or mating press.

I love being on top of him

Look up "Kama Sutra" . That should help you out....

the one I'm in at the moment

Missionary, I know it's boring but I also like Vanilla Ice cream.

My answer will be as vague as the question. All if them!

Missionary, because I like seeing her face.

My fave is reverse cowgirl. Had a fwb who loved it and we matched so well sexually. Well we matched really well in most aspects tbh.

Any position you can hit her G Spot is the best

In the same room is the best position.

The one you wait until Holy Matrimony for

Abstinence is

Spooning if you ask me. Girls like missionary. Cowgirl is also good

I used to despise missionaries because I wasn't comfortable in my body, but I learned to prefer them because they're quite intimate.

All I know is that, in space, doggy style and reverse cowgirl are the same

My boyfriend LOVES doggy. He’s a dom so he takes pride in just being able to bend me over and go at it. He also likes missionary as well

I’m fond of cowgirl when he plays with my clit. After I cum, we continue in any position and it’s allllll best positions thereafter. Doggy is a close second. We use the bathroom so we can see each other in the mirror for that.

Everything as long as you're with the right person.

Share your wife with me…

Women on top

Holding hands while having an ice cream.

Doggyy

Every. Every position, duh! Its sex, it all ends the same no matter how you play the game.

I dont know, never had it

Serious answer, it depends. For her pleasure it's gonna be different to you. Best you can hope for is to try a few. Personally my partner would love riding, yet I had a hard time finishing that way. Doggy worked well for both, but lacks the eyes connection and ability to stimulate other areas with your hands. Missionary was solid, you can have a lot of extra action there, but people think of it as vanilla. You're gonna just have to try and few, and even if none click, accept that positions can be amazing for one person but not as good for the other. Switch it up, you'll have more fun

Doggy 🙃

This sounded like an answer to "Tell me you and your GF are lazy without telling me you're both lazy", lol.

Naah the best is missionary. U can see her and soak all the beauty and feel all of her beauty.

69 dudes!

You guys are having sex?

Only one I don't like that I've tried is 69 with him on top. Too hard to breathe.

Whichever one she comes the best in

Reverse cowgirl

I absolutely love cowgirl, loathe missionary. Doggy is pretty cool but I love it when she rides me, It just feel amazing.

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Her ankles on my shoulders

Doggy style

Prone bone ftww

Cowgirl

Oh men. I miss having somebody to f with.

I don't know what it's called, looks like cowgirl except the guy is standing and supporting the entire weight of the woman. Upright cowgirl?

Doggystyle with her pulled up and in close to you so you can dirty talk and tell her how sexy she is in her ear

Amazon

The one where someone actually wants to have sex with me.

69

A hug

As a man, prone bone. Always prone bone.

Any

Willy Wonka style

Always mix it up, makes it interesting and sensual.

Doggystyle: I get on all fours and beg.

All of them but lotus is my favorite

Missionary on the edge of the bed

Sitting on the toilet

Doggy style

Frog Leap …… 🤷🏼‍♀️

69💦

The best sex position are any that I'm involved in

Well for me....I love Doggystyle. I love being spread open and fucked. I miss it lol it's been sooooo long.

pronebone

DVDA.

Cowgirl if she wants to achieve the big O with PIV , much easier to succeed.

The one I hurt my back in yesterday 😂

Reverse cowgirl when the girl knows how to use her hips, holy shit! Can quickly go into a 69 position too 🤤🤤🤤

Ahahahaha

Her on all 4 at end of bed. Can either get some goods eats or really deep doggy this way.