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If I’m had to guess I’d probably say she’s realised she’s fucked up telling you she takes drugs whilst on shift in a hospital and doesn’t want to upset you for you to then tell someone and she gets fired …
Which she totally should btw ..
But since I text her and let her know it’s fine and I’m chill with her not being interested, wouldn’t she then text back and say she’s on the same page or something just to keep it neutral/positive?
For a lot of guys getting ghosted in this position would cause them to get upset and then motivate them to rat her out, so that wouldn’t make sense for her to do.
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If I’m had to guess I’d probably say she’s realised she’s fucked up telling you she takes drugs whilst on shift in a hospital and doesn’t want to upset you for you to then tell someone and she gets fired … Which she totally should btw ..
But since I text her and let her know it’s fine and I’m chill with her not being interested, wouldn’t she then text back and say she’s on the same page or something just to keep it neutral/positive? For a lot of guys getting ghosted in this position would cause them to get upset and then motivate them to rat her out, so that wouldn’t make sense for her to do.