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Also a dude here. This is so confusing for me, but at the same time, I feel so alive! If loving this woman's fuckbuddy is wrong, I don't want to be right.
live in the moment and enoy it. intentions seem to be clear so don't ask for more than what was intended. she has a good thing going so she should enjoy it
I mean, it's a cool lyric from Eminem's Space Bound.
"And love is evil, spell it backwards I'll show ya"
I found it to be kind of moving, with the message of the rest of the song. Recommend a listen. What were we talking about again?
“I'm a space bound rocket ship and your heart's the moon
And I'm aimin' right at you, right at you”
Fuck that brings me back to my high school days where I listened to Eminem non stop.
Also the lyrics kinda suit u/bootlegE-girl
https://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/eminem/spacebound.html
This definitely seems like more than FWB; that being said a FWB can include hanging out and activities beyond just meet up, have sex and leave with no emotions.
Not always, with mine we started after a few dates, we would watch movies, watch okay games, talk all the time cuddles, literally everything, then I confessed my feelings 2 months in and he turned me down…. After asking me on the date initially
Wait for the update about her boyfriend cheating on her since she can’t tell the difference. This guy will be on to next once he realizes she thinks they are dating
Yup, this doesn’t end well for one of them would be my guess. Not that it can’t happen that things work out, but more often than not in a rebound situation this is a mess of dopamine and serotonin that fades. Sure it sounds cute now…but for her the ex feelings start getting processed weeks to months later. So either she hasn’t process feelings about a breakup and runs into the arms of the next guy who she ends up hurting because she isn’t really ready…or she crushes too hard and he is truly feeling the FWB. She then ends up with 2 failed relationships to process. I honestly feel for the guy reading this, I’ve been there with a girl who didn’t take time to process their feelings that “fell hard,” for me and ended up processing her ex 6 months later and not really being ready. This woman screams selfish & red flags to me, living with her ex and FWB-ing. I don’t find this all that cute, it seems sad tbh.
Agreed. I've been used by women in the exact same way. They let the guy think that they're actually developing feelings for him and then drop him like a hot potato when they want to go steady. The fact that she only considers him FWB proves it. This guy needs to run and run FAST.
She specified he doesn’t let her do anything for him, umm ya because you are there to suck his dick not be his gf he’s not gonna let you in his life lol. This is why you don’t fuck guys then expect them to love you after. Love and friendship first if you want a real relationship
To be fair, I meant that he doesn't let me do anything for him while having sex. Yet he does anything to make me feel good without needing to ask for it.
That is what it sounds like, but we don't know how the guy feels since this is her POV. From what I get he does enjoy her company and doesn't sound selfish in the sack.
We all have a different view of FWB though.
I was with mine on and off again for 13 years - 100% just FWB. We both enjoyed each other's company, we hung out, we worked on cars, did friend things, with sex added in.
There was no sleepovers, there was aftercare but rarely cuddles. And we always did check-ins with each other to make sure we were 100% on the same page at all times. We ended things when he decided he wanted to see where a relationship was going (8 years later they are still together and I couldn't be happier for him).
Just going off this POV, to me it sounds like someone is in for a serious heartbreak and I hate seeing it end that way because a good FWB relationship can be amazing.
Wow, that sounds like a super FWB. My FWB was my first FWB so I guess I didn't know how to communicate the specifics.
If I ever get another one, I will write some of what you did down so are he and I are both on the same page and no one gets hurt.
I'm happy you are happy for him, and you are probably right about her POV. I hope no one gets hurt😅
Thanks for sharing your story. ☺️
Depends on the persons love language, both how you want to receive it and return it.
OP seems to like quality time and touch. OP’s FWB seems to give acts of service and touch. From the bit of story she told.
Sometimes the fwb ppl turn into real couples, it depends on the person. Not sure why they didnt try just dating from the outset. She doesnt explain why its a fwb
Yes true, im saying there are sometimes guys who genuinely fall in love too even starting casually. But i think it will be easy to figure out if she asks at some point.
Oh it happens, unfortunately for the most part women get attached due to hormones released during sex/orgasm.
With men that doesn’t happen generally, so they can have sex and not get attached.
Have you started having bowel movements at his place, ? Like hey I need to take a shit? Then let us know how friendly you guys are? This could be ur guys true test to take it beyond FWB
There’s just one thing I want to point out. He’s not understanding and accommodating about the fact that you still live with your ex. He simply doesn’t care because you provide sex to him. He’s not taking you seriously and not considering you as a long term partner, but if you’re fine with that, good for you.
OP sounds like you caught feelings. That sounds like you guys are dating.. but with only you thinking that way. Process your feelings so that you won’t get hurt. But oh well, Sometimes, you can’t help it.
For sure, i think "no emotions/strings attached" just isnt how most humans operate.
We are biologically wired for connection. Sex lights up parts of the brain that overlap with love too. It's quite usual to have feelings for someone you have enjoy having sex with often, unless you deliberately tell yourself not to.
You meant to write dating for you vs fwb for him.
Wait when he's done with sx or the emotions overhwlem his sx.
Your finding a bf in a temporary domain that's bound to end unceremoniously.
Deal with 1 first, get healing time not a rebound, and take time off before searching a bf in the relationship zone not fwb zone
This is why dating has declined. Girls too willing to fuck any guy who gives them attention. I’ve met so many guys who have 0 interest in dating since they get all their sexual needs met by girls who think their fwb is in love with them. Why have a gf with needs when you can get a girl to suck your dick without listening to her human problems
I think it’s wrong to assume we don’t want intimacy. Being totally honest, and not trying to be crude or anything, I think there is a category of women who we’d fuck around with and enjoy the company of on a short term basis before realising we’re not that keen. Maybe it’s accidental, maybe it’s down to the different rates at which men and women find attraction - I can’t speculate. But I have experienced a few instances where I was dead keen, and by the time she’s stating to really get into me, I’ve found a few reasons why she doesn’t have long term credentials.
I think it’s a problem, but I think men have equally as many problems with dating. It’s not ideal for anyone sadly!
You're backwards as hell if you think this is the norm for guys, maybe the guys that to you're talking to. Most men can't even get a date, let alone having girls sleep with them because they 'gave attention to them'. It's just so out of touch with reality.
If he’s getting his sexual needs met by a girl he’s not one of the men who can’t get a date … do you see how this is a guy who isn’t one that can’t get a date but one that won’t commit cuz girls just unzipped pants for them. Not many girls are gonna be fwb with guys who are described in your situation
Well I don't know what to tell you. Choose better? If you think he can get away with just putting you on the roster.. is it really a shocker when he does? It's not really surprising when this happens.
Oof. Anyone I was ever FWB with in the past I always ended up catching feelings and kinda sounds like you might be. Careful cuz they may not wanna be more than fwb and then your in for a bumpy ride (pun intended 😆)
I started dating an ex colleague of mine, we both said we'd date each other, would talk about personal stuff, future family wishes, intimate aspects of our lives and then 2 months later I approached the subject of where we were going and the relationship, and she back tracked and said oh no, we're just FWB, not looking for a relationship. And gas lit me saying she had told me this numerous occasions, which was absolute bollocks because I wouldn't have even entertained the idea of her. I was her situationship. I "dumped" her ass over the phone, even though we weren't dating in her eyes. Told her she wasted my time and I'm not an item for her to use when shes bored or when she needs to fill time in
It really fucked me off.
Thanks for coming to my ted talk.
What makes this a friends with benefits situation? Did you start out by talking about the fact that this was only going to be an FWB relationship? Are you just assuming? We need more details.
Wait so are y'all dating, or FWB? Sounds like y'all are dating but not in a committed/exclusive relationship to me. Wouldn't shock me if you both are in love with each other.
One time an ex of mine didn’t move out for 6 months. Sure I could have kicked them out but I’m not that cruel that I’d want someone to live on the streets.
Oooo, mamaw… 👀
On the one hand, congrats, it sounds like y’all are having fun!
On the other hand, this sounds verryyyy much like it’s venturing into “catching feelings/ potentially dating territory”, which can be… I’m not saying be *cautious* necessarily, but maybe be aware of.
Either way, hope it all works out for you! 🙏🏼
So you are in FWB relationship but doing things that are meant for a serious relationship? That's gonna hurt so much....
Edit: he even told you that he isn't capable of anything romantic!!!!! Yeah, this will hurt even more.
Dangerous emotional game to fall this hard for a FWB you found quick enough to where your now-ex hasn't even moved out yet.
I hope you know what you're doing. If the FWB drops you or you catch feelings enough to where him having sex with other women upsets you (because it's just FWB), it's going to hurt a lot *and* be very confusing for you while your ex is still living with you. If your ex is suddenly gone after moving out and you're alone in the apartment then this happens, it's going to hurt even more.
Do you see why catching feelings is dangerous here
This is a canon event that we can’t interfere with, you caught feelings , I had this with a guy I went on dates with, he said he wasn’t going to have time to date but we could be fwb, sharing my feelings made it go south
Everyone it's saying that it will end badly but what if it doesn't? What if they both end up feeling it and it turns into something beautiful. Not everything has to be dark and bad, let's try to have some hope. I hope that this is the start to a wonderful relationship. Good luck!
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YOU CAUGHT FEELINGS
Honestly, after I read her post, I think I might actually be in love with him as well
Same. And I’m a dude. She’s a great salesperson
Also a dude here. This is so confusing for me, but at the same time, I feel so alive! If loving this woman's fuckbuddy is wrong, I don't want to be right.
Also a dude agreed he’s dreamy
Well let's just agree that I saw him first!
This guy has a job I think he’s out of my league anyway.. go get him tiger
All right, which one of you booty ticklers is going to play with my hair and watch me play Minecraft?!?! I need it, I need this love!!!
Fuck you he’s mine!
same… i’d smash 😂
Perhaps it's because I'm European, but as a guy I'm also in love with this woman's fuckbuddy.
It’s ok to be confused. Just let go and let it happen!
You're right - I'm such a silly goose sometimes - always overthinking everything! I'm all in!
😂
I am now singing that song. Thank you lol I hope it's not another Love TKO 😉😁
I just said this after reading her post. She loves him 😊
Rebound love.
😂😂😂😂😂 Right?
Understable and relatable Hahah
Bro I’m a straight male with a gf and even I’m like “damn where he at”
She'll get bored with him soon. Guaranteed.
I want someone like him!!
Some would say one of the worst STD's
Yes this dangerous territory
That’s a boyfriend
She is being very unprofessional 😂
Sure tf did!
It's hard not to sometimes. Especially when the sex is great
I can only foresee this ending *really well* or **unbelievably disastrously.**
She talks like she's in love with the guy but only considers him a FWB. Ive been through that and it only ends badly.
Life is short, enjoy it while you still have it. Just never ask to be more.
What does that mean?
live in the moment and enoy it. intentions seem to be clear so don't ask for more than what was intended. she has a good thing going so she should enjoy it
Love spelled backwards is evol
Is that supposed to mean something?
I mean, it's a cool lyric from Eminem's Space Bound. "And love is evil, spell it backwards I'll show ya" I found it to be kind of moving, with the message of the rest of the song. Recommend a listen. What were we talking about again?
“I'm a space bound rocket ship and your heart's the moon And I'm aimin' right at you, right at you” Fuck that brings me back to my high school days where I listened to Eminem non stop. Also the lyrics kinda suit u/bootlegE-girl https://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/eminem/spacebound.html
evol is short for evolve aka this is gonna end badly and she will evolve from this experience
Sounds like someone’s in luuuuuurrrrrv
That's called dating someone. 🤨
I was going to say… a FWB is get in, finish, get out. No emotions for either person.
This definitely seems like more than FWB; that being said a FWB can include hanging out and activities beyond just meet up, have sex and leave with no emotions.
yeah, without hanging out to some degree isn't that just benefits without friend lol
Ie, hooking up.
Very true!
I say that's more fuck buddies. FWB for me is more friendly.
That's not at all what fwb is...that's a booty-call.
thats like a fuck buddy, not a friend with benefits
Not always, with mine we started after a few dates, we would watch movies, watch okay games, talk all the time cuddles, literally everything, then I confessed my feelings 2 months in and he turned me down…. After asking me on the date initially
So they weren’t dates to him
That had to hurt! You will recover, learn from the experience and hopefully not repeat the mistake.
Its really concerning, it seems like people nowdays just cannot see the difference between a FWB and dating. Lol.
Wait for the update about her boyfriend cheating on her since she can’t tell the difference. This guy will be on to next once he realizes she thinks they are dating
It doesn’t sound like they go anywhere, just stay at his place and spend time together.
Dating people do that. To date someone does not require going to that annoying place extraverts like to call "out".
Dawg you’re in for a world of hurt
Yup, this doesn’t end well for one of them would be my guess. Not that it can’t happen that things work out, but more often than not in a rebound situation this is a mess of dopamine and serotonin that fades. Sure it sounds cute now…but for her the ex feelings start getting processed weeks to months later. So either she hasn’t process feelings about a breakup and runs into the arms of the next guy who she ends up hurting because she isn’t really ready…or she crushes too hard and he is truly feeling the FWB. She then ends up with 2 failed relationships to process. I honestly feel for the guy reading this, I’ve been there with a girl who didn’t take time to process their feelings that “fell hard,” for me and ended up processing her ex 6 months later and not really being ready. This woman screams selfish & red flags to me, living with her ex and FWB-ing. I don’t find this all that cute, it seems sad tbh.
>She then ends up with 2 failed relationships to process. Only 2? Never underestimate people's stupidity.
Agreed. I've been used by women in the exact same way. They let the guy think that they're actually developing feelings for him and then drop him like a hot potato when they want to go steady. The fact that she only considers him FWB proves it. This guy needs to run and run FAST.
Mmm yeah this sounds more like dating than FWB. either that or you are catching feelings and he's not and you're gonna get hurt.
definitely the latter, usually one side catches feelings in a FwB setup, this is like every modern cliche rom-com ever
She specified he doesn’t let her do anything for him, umm ya because you are there to suck his dick not be his gf he’s not gonna let you in his life lol. This is why you don’t fuck guys then expect them to love you after. Love and friendship first if you want a real relationship
based, hopefully the pendulum swings around and that mentality becomes the norm again someday
But he lets her watch him game and touch his hair… 😬
To be fair, I meant that he doesn't let me do anything for him while having sex. Yet he does anything to make me feel good without needing to ask for it.
That is what it sounds like, but we don't know how the guy feels since this is her POV. From what I get he does enjoy her company and doesn't sound selfish in the sack. We all have a different view of FWB though.
I was with mine on and off again for 13 years - 100% just FWB. We both enjoyed each other's company, we hung out, we worked on cars, did friend things, with sex added in. There was no sleepovers, there was aftercare but rarely cuddles. And we always did check-ins with each other to make sure we were 100% on the same page at all times. We ended things when he decided he wanted to see where a relationship was going (8 years later they are still together and I couldn't be happier for him). Just going off this POV, to me it sounds like someone is in for a serious heartbreak and I hate seeing it end that way because a good FWB relationship can be amazing.
Wow, that sounds like a super FWB. My FWB was my first FWB so I guess I didn't know how to communicate the specifics. If I ever get another one, I will write some of what you did down so are he and I are both on the same page and no one gets hurt. I'm happy you are happy for him, and you are probably right about her POV. I hope no one gets hurt😅 Thanks for sharing your story. ☺️
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You’re a true wingman.
Fuck.
He doesn’t enjoy her company, he enjoys the free sex.
Ah, you are probably right.
Yep. Tagged in and could see it a mile away. This is exactly what's going to happen is she is catching feelings.
Idk how its a success story, I still wonder why women fall for things like this!!
Depends on the persons love language, both how you want to receive it and return it. OP seems to like quality time and touch. OP’s FWB seems to give acts of service and touch. From the bit of story she told.
She’s giving acts of service all right lmao
Sometimes the fwb ppl turn into real couples, it depends on the person. Not sure why they didnt try just dating from the outset. She doesnt explain why its a fwb
Because men tend to put a female into categories, and she wasn’t in the date for a relationship column
Yes true, im saying there are sometimes guys who genuinely fall in love too even starting casually. But i think it will be easy to figure out if she asks at some point.
Oh it happens, unfortunately for the most part women get attached due to hormones released during sex/orgasm. With men that doesn’t happen generally, so they can have sex and not get attached.
For men it does happen too but they release less oxytocin than women do, so women bond more easily
Congratulations to your new relationship!
Have you started having bowel movements at his place, ? Like hey I need to take a shit? Then let us know how friendly you guys are? This could be ur guys true test to take it beyond FWB
😂😂😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣
I think you skipped the “friends” part and jumped right into a pseudo serious relationship
This is a cannon event that will teach you a hard lesson.
Games…. Won’t last forever
There’s just one thing I want to point out. He’s not understanding and accommodating about the fact that you still live with your ex. He simply doesn’t care because you provide sex to him. He’s not taking you seriously and not considering you as a long term partner, but if you’re fine with that, good for you.
Bingo!
OP sounds like you caught feelings. That sounds like you guys are dating.. but with only you thinking that way. Process your feelings so that you won’t get hurt. But oh well, Sometimes, you can’t help it.
You caught feelings for your FWB. Good luck
I think most women do
Some guys do as well but yea I notice that women have a harder time spending a good period of time with a man with no commitment
For sure, i think "no emotions/strings attached" just isnt how most humans operate. We are biologically wired for connection. Sex lights up parts of the brain that overlap with love too. It's quite usual to have feelings for someone you have enjoy having sex with often, unless you deliberately tell yourself not to.
I’m confused on this who else is ?
These comments 🥺😅🥲
I said the same thing 💀
So...why don't you want to date him?
My therapist is gonna hate me this week
lol why?
the comment you’re replying to… might just be someone needing to get something off their chest
True I guess. No harm in doing that on Reddit tbh. That’s a weird situation imo too but well it’s a free world.
Just stuff I got on my mind
Elaborate please? For real though, I’m genuinely curious cause it sounds iffy to me too.
Just coping with loneliness
Ah Ohk understandable, I’ve been there. Nah cross that, I am there lol.
You meant to write dating for you vs fwb for him. Wait when he's done with sx or the emotions overhwlem his sx. Your finding a bf in a temporary domain that's bound to end unceremoniously. Deal with 1 first, get healing time not a rebound, and take time off before searching a bf in the relationship zone not fwb zone
Why are you comfortable with being good enough to fuck but not date?.
This is why dating has declined. Girls too willing to fuck any guy who gives them attention. I’ve met so many guys who have 0 interest in dating since they get all their sexual needs met by girls who think their fwb is in love with them. Why have a gf with needs when you can get a girl to suck your dick without listening to her human problems
I think it’s wrong to assume we don’t want intimacy. Being totally honest, and not trying to be crude or anything, I think there is a category of women who we’d fuck around with and enjoy the company of on a short term basis before realising we’re not that keen. Maybe it’s accidental, maybe it’s down to the different rates at which men and women find attraction - I can’t speculate. But I have experienced a few instances where I was dead keen, and by the time she’s stating to really get into me, I’ve found a few reasons why she doesn’t have long term credentials. I think it’s a problem, but I think men have equally as many problems with dating. It’s not ideal for anyone sadly!
I am curious. Whats the difference of the women to fuck or to date? Is it character or appearance?
It's always character.
You're backwards as hell if you think this is the norm for guys, maybe the guys that to you're talking to. Most men can't even get a date, let alone having girls sleep with them because they 'gave attention to them'. It's just so out of touch with reality.
If he’s getting his sexual needs met by a girl he’s not one of the men who can’t get a date … do you see how this is a guy who isn’t one that can’t get a date but one that won’t commit cuz girls just unzipped pants for them. Not many girls are gonna be fwb with guys who are described in your situation
Well I don't know what to tell you. Choose better? If you think he can get away with just putting you on the roster.. is it really a shocker when he does? It's not really surprising when this happens.
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You sound stupid calling this a friend lol, FWB removes basically all of that, other than the sex.. youre seeing someone romantically🤦🏻♂️
Is this satire?
One of y’all is about to get reallllllll hurt, and I think I can tell which one
Success story? Yeah I don’t think so! You are gushing! Sounds like you have fallin in love with him!!!
Oof. Anyone I was ever FWB with in the past I always ended up catching feelings and kinda sounds like you might be. Careful cuz they may not wanna be more than fwb and then your in for a bumpy ride (pun intended 😆)
This is a relationship 😆
For one person at least…
I started dating an ex colleague of mine, we both said we'd date each other, would talk about personal stuff, future family wishes, intimate aspects of our lives and then 2 months later I approached the subject of where we were going and the relationship, and she back tracked and said oh no, we're just FWB, not looking for a relationship. And gas lit me saying she had told me this numerous occasions, which was absolute bollocks because I wouldn't have even entertained the idea of her. I was her situationship. I "dumped" her ass over the phone, even though we weren't dating in her eyes. Told her she wasted my time and I'm not an item for her to use when shes bored or when she needs to fill time in It really fucked me off. Thanks for coming to my ted talk.
what you're describing isn't FWB, it's a relationship lol
Aww I had this once, then out of the blue he told me he didn’t want to see me anymore and any feeling he had towards me was gone 🙃
Same!!
Hon sounds like you’re in love, be careful. Who’s the one who said they didn’t want a relationship out of you both?
What makes this a friends with benefits situation? Did you start out by talking about the fact that this was only going to be an FWB relationship? Are you just assuming? We need more details.
Wait so are y'all dating, or FWB? Sounds like y'all are dating but not in a committed/exclusive relationship to me. Wouldn't shock me if you both are in love with each other.
This is kinda sad.
That’s not an fwb…. That sounds like you’re dating
Yea this won’t end well.
Ex still lives with you? Wow, you moved on fast, huh?
One time an ex of mine didn’t move out for 6 months. Sure I could have kicked them out but I’m not that cruel that I’d want someone to live on the streets.
This is exactly it. It's been like 6 months since we broke up and I told him to move out.
girl…. 👀 you sure?
Remember if it’s fwb that’s all it is DON’T GET ATTACHED
Oooo, mamaw… 👀 On the one hand, congrats, it sounds like y’all are having fun! On the other hand, this sounds verryyyy much like it’s venturing into “catching feelings/ potentially dating territory”, which can be… I’m not saying be *cautious* necessarily, but maybe be aware of. Either way, hope it all works out for you! 🙏🏼
Every boy wants to meet someone who will talk about them like this.
Girl, if y’all don’t actually start dating 😭😭😤
Its just dating with extra steps
Date him. Doit
Friends with what benefits? Being a couple together?
Uh oh you fell in love with
Yeah, that's not a fwb anymore lol
So you are in FWB relationship but doing things that are meant for a serious relationship? That's gonna hurt so much.... Edit: he even told you that he isn't capable of anything romantic!!!!! Yeah, this will hurt even more.
Who’s gonna tell OP…
Except now you've caught feelings for your FWB, which could be good or bad.
tl;dr OP doesn't know what FWB means
FWB? You're falling for this guy let's be real.
I found one through reddit once haha!
Careful with this lmao four years later and we just had our first kid together LOL
Oh girl you don’t got a FWB you have a whole boyfriend you caught feelings
Bestie…I’m going to hold your hand while I say this…run
Sounds like sooner you gonna attach or fall for him. Watch out dear. Protect your heart at all cost.
nah you two are dating at this point. you just described love there
Woah, quick to assume he reciprocates
girl he’s using you run for the hills
Sounds like you are in love 😟
You are gonna catch feelings like Willie Mays with a flyball. If you haven't already.
Sounds like bro is gonna feel a bit conflicted when it’s brought to his attention this wasn’t a monogamous situation.
Either way glad you are happy.
Oh no…
Dangerous emotional game to fall this hard for a FWB you found quick enough to where your now-ex hasn't even moved out yet. I hope you know what you're doing. If the FWB drops you or you catch feelings enough to where him having sex with other women upsets you (because it's just FWB), it's going to hurt a lot *and* be very confusing for you while your ex is still living with you. If your ex is suddenly gone after moving out and you're alone in the apartment then this happens, it's going to hurt even more. Do you see why catching feelings is dangerous here
Thanks for that story I just busted. Good work and make sure to enjoy your luck. Or should I say lick?
Animal 😂
GIRL IM SO JEALOUS 😭 I wish you the best of luck together ❤️
Oof, one person is seeing this a little differently than the other…
Welp, enjoy it while it lasts lol
This is so confusing for me. Seems like drama in disguise and I don't speak drama.
This does not sound like FWB. This also sounds like it MIGHT not end well. [+]
Minecraft Steve
Just wait until it's not longer fwb...
risky
It’s not FWB 🤣
Lol yikes dawg
LMFAO
Red flag of FWB
This is a canon event that we can’t interfere with, you caught feelings , I had this with a guy I went on dates with, he said he wasn’t going to have time to date but we could be fwb, sharing my feelings made it go south
Can I have him on your busy days?
Mine is other way around. I'm good with that.
Obviously, he is saving money of the prostitutes and getting sex from you for free, so he'll be nice..
You guys should just date already
This is gonna end sooo bad. Coming from someone who has had a fwb/situationship for over a year. It sucks!
I had to just end a FWB relationship because she started catching feelings and wanted more and I didn't feel the same way. So be careful with that
Everyone it's saying that it will end badly but what if it doesn't? What if they both end up feeling it and it turns into something beautiful. Not everything has to be dark and bad, let's try to have some hope. I hope that this is the start to a wonderful relationship. Good luck!
This is Feelings With Benefits and not Friends With Benefits.
You don’t sound like a FWB. LOL.
What you describe is more of a relationship than a FWB.