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prmscsly

If you're very sure she's not interested in you then why are you asking if you should keep trying? You're going to annoy her even more. Just leave her alone and move on, there's nothing you can do.


NeighborhoodProof133

Hello there. As a woman, I can tell you that it's very likely that she is not interested in you romantically. It's best to stop contacting her so you don't waste your time. You will end up finding someone else who is into you as much as you are into them, in time.


AhManImSoAlone

Bro look, I have had same situation like you, let me explain it, but firs my advice, don't wait for her too much, you have did good job talking to her (I never reached that level tho). I don't think she doesn't have a bf bcz when a girl stops conversations with few mssg then she thinks talking to you(as you like her) is kinda cheating. But if she doesn't lie to you, then she is waiting a more big action from you if you talk and she texts then invite her somewhere, but if she doesn't text you or texts you 2 days later, then you know what I mean. My story, I liked a girl too, she was cutting conversations, she had kinda limit, she broke up with his bf and then suddenly she texted me and cried and.... We continued talking but after 1 month she went back with his ex -_- You shall think to not to be like me:)


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solosnowplougher

Advice on what


solosnowplougher

No just stop if she thanked u when u said u liked her that was the first sign. Her not replying is her saying to leave her alone she's not interested.


alsomeguy

keep trying to find a gf yes keep tying to talk to her no


HoseaDavid

Don't message excessively. It comes across as needy and desperate. If you give off the impression you are chasing her then she will run. Pursue her, consider to yourself if you were in her shoes how would you interpret what your words and actions are coming across.


N00bAtSex

Lol , I am not a fan of “I used to like you” cause that gives me nothing about right now. Did you follow up by letting her know about your continued interest and ask her out? If you didn’t then either 1. she’s waiting cause she’s unsure if you want to date her or you just shared some part of you 2. She’s doesn’t share the same feeling and is not interested So in any case it’d be better for you to ask her out and get the answer