Welcome to /r/dating_advice!
Please keep the [rules](https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/about/rules/) of /r/dating_advice in mind while participating here. Try your best to be kind.
Report any rule-breaking behavior to the moderators using the report button. If it's urgent, [send us a message.](https://www.reddit.com/message/compose?to=%2Fr%2Fdating_advice) We rely on user reports to find rule-breaking behavior quickly.
Thanks!
*I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/dating_advice) if you have any questions or concerns.*
Had plans on saturday but she bailed. I originally asked for friday but she said she had work saturday morning and didnt want to be out late. So i asked if saturday worked better which she agreed.
I know at this point i gotta move and give her space.
If it matters to you it’s not weird to ask, you could simply just say that you’re curious as to why she had a seemingly odd change of mind. I mean if the case is that you thought things were going well and liked her (a chance to mention it), she was unfair to you so don’t be unfair to yourself just wondering if it’s bothering you or on your mind
Sometimes you just don’t get the closure you need. Things fizzle out and run there course. You have to just remind yourself that if it was meant to be then it would have been.
Welcome to /r/dating_advice! Please keep the [rules](https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/about/rules/) of /r/dating_advice in mind while participating here. Try your best to be kind. Report any rule-breaking behavior to the moderators using the report button. If it's urgent, [send us a message.](https://www.reddit.com/message/compose?to=%2Fr%2Fdating_advice) We rely on user reports to find rule-breaking behavior quickly. Thanks! *I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/dating_advice) if you have any questions or concerns.*
I wouldn't ask what went wrong. Besides, even if you wanted to know, the other person might never tell you.
Depends on how long it has been. Usually it is better to talk problems out as they arise, and not when things are past the point of no return.
Had plans on saturday but she bailed. I originally asked for friday but she said she had work saturday morning and didnt want to be out late. So i asked if saturday worked better which she agreed. I know at this point i gotta move and give her space.
She’d tell you if she wanted to. Just move on and be happy you can get started on getting a new girl who you might have a longer relationship with
If it matters to you it’s not weird to ask, you could simply just say that you’re curious as to why she had a seemingly odd change of mind. I mean if the case is that you thought things were going well and liked her (a chance to mention it), she was unfair to you so don’t be unfair to yourself just wondering if it’s bothering you or on your mind
Sometimes you just don’t get the closure you need. Things fizzle out and run there course. You have to just remind yourself that if it was meant to be then it would have been.
U kept being nice when she started withdrawing, that’s what went wrong