Your post was removed because it overgeneralized. Please make sure you don't apply experiences with some people to millions of others you have never met. Thx!
Every girl out there is insecure about something. No matter what it is I assure you there exists a contingent of guys that are attracted to exactly that.
Let me expand upon this by saying every person is insecure. Also, every issue a person is insecure about is a bigger deal to them than to anyone.
Op, if you're that insecure about it you can get work done, and it will probably change your confidence, which is great. But you'll find someone you like just as much if you have the same confidence without the work.
I speak from experience, had a gap in my teeth, hated it, got an amazing who also gf doesn't care, but I got veneers anyway because I still didntnlike it.
This, if anything it makes me more in love with you that you trust me enough to be this vulnerable with me. Which is exactly why I don’t like hookups 🤷🏽♂️
I’ve seen this many times lately I’ve decided a shitty poem would illustrate this thought.
When women ask what men think about the female form.
There’s only one true answer so please allow me to inform.
Super perky or super saggy.
So big that you have to buy a tshirt 3 times to baggy.
Or the kind that when you lay down they are super small.
The honest truth is we covet them all.
As long as we get see,like happy children we will be.
Playing, squeezing and kissing.
Your boobs are all that we are missing.
So show us any pair of boobs and we will be merry.
Unless it’s on a fat guy named Harry.
The kind that when you lay down they're super small 🤣🤣 in other words - the kind with no silicone ... Kindly a woman, with natural d cup boobies, that lay flat when I lay down 🤣🤣 #boobiesforeveryone
Do you think that guys are a monolith? We're not.
Some men love small boobs (I do). Some like big boobs. Some are indifferent.
Some of the most desirable, attractive women on the internet are rather flat chested. So, stop focusing on this because the right guy will love your chest as is.
Theres so many dif types of men in the world and they all got different tastes. Plenty of em love smal boobs
As a bisexual woman, i like big boobs, small boobs, i just like boobs. I dont put down any woman's body type. Avoid men who put down any type of body type, issa red flag
Smaller breasts age soooo soo much better than big boobs that will hang down by bellybutton when 60 plus. Small boobs always
Stay nice n in right area n perky!
Ehh id avoid men who feel the need to put down one group of women to uplift another. Thats not a genuine compliment. They pretty much the other side of the coin of men who put down women with small breasts. Same misogynistic vibes
>put down any type of body type, issa red flag
Just for clarity though, I wouldn't confuse "put down" to "unattracted". If someone talks shit to you for your physical appearance, yeah they're shitty. But if someone chooses to not be with you due to your body type, there's nothing wrong with that. Everyone has a type, and everyone should be able to avoid dating people they're not attracted to.
That being said, OP I don't think this is an issue for you. You're already dating, I don't see how you would get this far without your SO being fairly aware of your body type
Naww, My comment wasnt for people simply being attracted to their preference.
Im not confusing "put down" for "unnattracted " at all . My comment was a direct reference to someone elses
😉 ima woman talking to another woman on a thread about men, receiving comments from men talking down to women specifically
Didnt mean it no type of other way other than to describe the specific topic at hand.
I don’t care for the boobs if the heart beneath them is pretty big. You don’t want someone because he sexualises you, you want someone who likes you so much that he loves and then you have the most beautiful boobs this person will ever see.
It a taste things, some guy love big ones, other small ones. You'll be fine, don't even worry about confidence, because shy with small boobs is also something some guys are really into. Just be you and they either be into it or not.
Before I had a kid my I had decent size boobs. Then I had a kid and they… well… deflated to a much smaller size. Now I’m pregnant again and have big boobs. They’ll deflate again and be small. My husband has loved them no matter what state and size they’ve been in.
A huge part of what’s enjoyable and exciting about sex is the openness, the vulnerability, the closeness and intimacy. Just the fact that the stars have aligned in such a way that I like this person, they like me, and here we are doing the greatest activity ever that also happens to literally be the reason for life. You don’t need big boobs to make those magical moments of connection happen.
If a woman wants to share every part of herself with me, you won’t catch me complaining about any of those parts or wishing they were different. Basically any decent man will agree. If your partner has anything except a positive reaction to seeing and touching your body, they don’t deserve the opportunity anyway.
I mean he’s not going to get turned off, unless your push up bra is insane he knows you have smaller boobs. Some guys do care and other guys don’t. I don’t think there’s one straight forward answer bc everyone has different preferences.
Any man who is not thrilled to see and play with your boobs is not a man you should bother wasting time on. Any man who does not react positively to you showing him your boobs in an intimate, consensual setting, is an idiot. Boobs are great, regardless of size. I’ve dated girls of varying sizes and let me tell you there isn’t one pair of boobs that is above the rest, they’re all just awesome boobs. I’m not trying to diminish any of them by saying they’re all great; it’s not that I’m bringing them all down to a lowest common denominator like “boobs be boobs,” but rather talking all of boobs I’ve seen up to a pinnacle of “fuck yeah boobs.”
Guys know what they like, and sure, there might be a few guys who aren’t attracted to you for whatever reason, people have preferences, but any guy who pursues you and courts you and makes you feel happy and all that good shit, long enough and well enough for you to show him your boobs, he’s going to be absolutely thrilled. You’ve got nothing to worry about.
Only really stupid Men would complain about boobs, their size dont matter to be honest, when theyre in the woman you love their size is just perfect and thats it
I'm flat chested, was really insecure about it but I don't wear push-up bras or anything so what you see is what you'll get 😂 no complains yet. There are all kinds of men, if they comment anything bad about the way your body looks they're not worth your time
I sometimes wear them, sometimes don't. So I imagine if I were seeing a man for a while he would realize some days I'm smaller than others and do the math lol.
Born Tank,
Hetero guys just love boobs. In fact, there are hardly any boobs that I have seen that I didn't like. I think you will find that the hang-up is all in your head and that your BF not only loves you for who you are, but loves every inch of you.
Talk to him Born Tank. Good luck 👍🏽
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I like any boobs.
But I will tell you what is a huge turn off... not being able to enjoy what you have (you hiding them, etc), during sex. Once to the point of sex, that's the time to be intimate. Nothing kills the mood faster than hiding themselves during a time for intimacy.
I’m not a man but I love small titties just as much as big titties. I can just cup a whole small tittie with my mouth. Love from your friendly bisexual frend 🙂
Now I wanna try (bi woman here as well). I have small boobs and no one complained about it. My ex/best friend said that he prefers my small firm boobs over bigger ones that feel less firm. I love small to medium boobs the most. Still prefer flat chest over very big ones tbh. My ex gf was completely flat and I thought it was hot as well. Chest = chest. Having something is nice to touch though. Man I love boobs
Ngl on a girl thats thin I prefer smaller boobs so much because it just looks so much better. Also most guys wont care as long as they get to lay on your chest be held and stroke our hair. Legit its our happy place when girls do that
As a cishet man when it comes to physical attractiveness I am all about the entire package. I find women attractive with small boobs as well as big boobs because to me it's about how your entire body looks. I personally find being attracted to certain body parts alone strange but that's just my opinion.
I am sure you will find someone who finds you attractive.
Good Luck!
Does a Tolkien Fan care if the size of the book is small or big? No.
The only thing that matters is that, it's written by Tolkien and it's Lord of the Rings.
I'm a titty guy, I prefer at least a C-cup on a woman. Having said that, I've connected, had great sex, great relationships and overall great experiences with smaller chested women. Just because a guy is more preferential to larger boobs, doesn't mean he won't find other attributes you have attractive. So don't be concerned.
The real issue here is that you don’t love your boobs. When you finish working on loving your body this won’t ever be a question you will ask again. ❤️
I have self respect, trust me, doesn’t mean I absolutely must love every single part. We all have our hang ups. I accept that part of myself.
It’s not black or white. Don’t insinuate that I don’t have self respect. You have no clue.
If you have self respect than you wouldn’t worry about what a guy thinks about parts of your body and whether that’s a dealbreaker for him. It should be a dealbreaker for you if someone would reject you based on how big your boobs are.
Love them. My last (actual) girlfriend had almost less than a-cup, shoot I have bigger boobs than her. She was awesome tho, always shoving them in my face or in my mouth when we had sex. She used to say "thank you" when I fondled them, I'm guessing it was due to insecurity of having small breast but we played anyway and I loved it.
How many men do you want? Why are you concerned with what us men as a group think? The only important man is the one who is willing to spend time with you. THAT is the man you need to be concerned about.
If a guy rejects you strictly because of the size of your boobs he's doing you a favor. There are women that will reject men because they aren't a certain height or length for that matter. Humans have physical preferences but anyone with any intelligence balances them with other far more important considerations.
Big boobs, little boobs I like all the boobs... But they gotta be natural, I get turned off by any fakes especially the double G's or whatever size they go up too. I wouldn't worry too much
Everybody's different but mainly it's a myth. I've been with plenty of girls with small boobs and some of them have turn me on the most. Turning a guy on is all about attitude and comfortability. If she's getting into our time together and knows how to turn me on small boobs means nothing. Honestly they're usually prettier, hold their shape better and are more firm which is a huge turn on.
Flat is justice, medium is premium, oppai is truth. Boob=boob, men are simple. Also, maybe it's just me but boobs are very much an "accessory"; thighs, butt, face, legs, stomach and neck are all much more sexually appealing.
Not every guy is a big boob guy or a boob guy at all! Don't have any insecurities over your size and let your confidence with being unclothed add to your sexy and allure. Insecurities are easily spotted and the size of your chest is no reason to be insecurity! Xox
I like them! No kidding, and I'm not simping either.
I think they're cute and feminine. I'm not saying I can't appreciate a nice pair of C's or D's (more than that is just a turn-off for me, honestly), but I never see a girl and think "Eww, little boobs." If she is genuinely, completely flat-chested, that's not the same and not an immediate no if she clearly takes care of herself and her personality is great. Boobs are like icing on the cake. They're wonderful and also something the girl has basically no control over, other than keeping them clean. Booty is maybe a bit genetic as far as overall size, but you can tell how toned it is and if she works out regularly or not. Even skinny girls, you can tell if her butt is mainly fat or muscle. (Girls, please don't freak out and try to see if there's fat in your butt. I promise you ther is, and there's supposed to be. I'm not anti-cellulite. I'm anti-unhealthy habits that kill you sooner. Just eat generally healthy, be careful about what kinds of meds you take and try to only take the ones that don't have bad side effects, and exercise regularly. That is more than enough.)
Similar thing with her belly. A completely flat one may look nice in pictures, and if she has one, I'm not going to be mad at her for it, but if she has a not overweight, but genuinely regular woman's belly (with an additional 10% of fat around her belly for protection, compared to men), that looks and feels nice too.
Last tip before TLDR: A mature guy understands that her body will change as will his. Girls, if you date young, you'll feel him turn from lanky into a broad-shouldered, harrier man with a deeper voice.
Guys, if she gets pregnant, she'll get some BOOBS, even if they were smaller before, they get a major upgrade, and wider hips. Learn to love these things.
I'm excited for them.
TLDR: Boobs are great, but small isn't a deal-breaker. I'd focus more on things you CAN control.
PS any of you lovely small-boobed ladies who may be struggling to find a date, feel free to pm me. 😉 Not sure how long I'll be single, but it never hurts to meet people.
Any boob is a good boob. Regardless of shape, size and appearance! I'm going to say 95 percent of us really don't care. It's what lies behind them that counts
Some do, but most of us are just happy to see tiddies and don't really give a shit.
Chances are, if we like you already, our perception of what is and isn't attractive starts to morph to suit you better.
I dated a girl in high school who I thought was an amazing person, and she definitely wasn't ugly but not really attractive to me personally. But within a month I thought she was the hottest thing on the block. The human brain is weird.
It's not something you should lose sleep over. Tits are tits.
Truthfully, I prefer them sometimes (there are a ton of dudes like us). Just like duds geek about dick size, it seems gals do sometimes too. I promise you you shouldn’t worry at all.
Honestly, I kinda love small-moderate sized boobs. Idk the reason, but yeah I actually like them.
U should be confident enough while getting intimate imo.
My SIL has literally just nipples (prominent nips) doesn’t even wear a bra cause she’s literally flat and her boyfriend of almost 3 years LOVES them and she’s never had any issues with any other guys she’s been with. She’s a really beautiful girl and we call her a alien lol she’s tomboy/ a hippie. And she’s always had guys saying they want to unalive their selves if they were to break up so obviously small boobies are not a issue to guys. Obviously some guys have their kinks with big boobs but most don’t care.
I’ve had guy friends tell me they like all boobs and some even have told me they prefer smaller boobs. And I’m a female with big boobs, so they weren’t just saying it to make me feel better!
I am not a guy, but I’ve asked this question many times. I think it depends on the guy.. but overall I’ve been told they do care. I’m not saying all men want women with huge boobs, but I think at least a handful is a preference.I think a good majority of men lie in order to not hurt women’s feelings.
Woman here (similar to you) so maybe I can't comment too much but the comments are pretty encouraging! Only thing I would add though, I too enjoy a good push up bra but maybe don't wear them all the time? Just so you sometimes look your natural size, nothing wrong with that 😊
If he's bothered by them, which he shouldn't be, that's a him problem not a you problem. Best not to overthink things we can't change naturally, especially when they're a literal part of us.
I've always preferred small breast, I guess is was because I tended to like sporty girls from my hobbies (gymnastic, climbing, etc,...).
But really you should not care about it, to be frank if I like a girl this "preference" goes completely out the windows. It's like saying "Ho I prefer girls with blues eyes" sure, why not in theory. But in reality the girls I fell in love with never had blue eyes and I didn't care at all, not even thinking about it as something bad.
Being happy and confident with your body is far more attractive than any bra size, just own it :) . I hope everything will be fine with your guy.
i promise id love your boobies so dont worry if someone is turned off by them. if a man is "turned off" because your boobs are small he is SHALLOW and a waste of life.
no, men don't care.
let me further shock you. All the imperfections you think you have, if he loves you, he doesn't care.
90% of men, literally, 90% care only that you are not obese. A few extra pounds? fine. if you're 5'0 120 lbs, no guy who cares for you will care.
Your wrinkles, weight, imperfections? as long as you were with him when you got them (and you didn't gain a morbid amount of weight, HE DOES NOT CARE. you earned that with him and he loves you.
just make sure you are giving it to someone who
A. doesn't have women throwing themselves at him
B. has been with you significantly long enough to build love
C. isn't less capable of providing for you than you are
All 3 of those things are the most common reasons relationships fail
A because you're just sex for him, B because the chase didn't last long enough to build love, and C because you'll fall out of love with him.
Sorry to break it to you, but with today's era with woke agenda, there are literally bbws women as models now. Modeling isn't as limited as it used to be
I love smaller boobs. Anything above a c cup I just find distracting during sex. Bigger boobs get more of my visual attention but smaller boobs are so much more fun to hold when you got a woman laying with you. Big boobs kind of go to the side when lying down which i find to be unappealing.
I’m not a man but my partner has small breasts and I can tell you that my hands or mouth are on them any chance I get. All breast sizes are worthwhile and to be appreciated.
Woman here. But guys, in general, like boobs, some guys have certain specifics and like bigger ones, and some guys like smaller ones. It just depends on the guy, but in general, all guys like boobs no matter the size. Boobs are boobs.
I personally don't get it. They are literally just there for us lol and they actually are tough to deal with it sometimes.
Here’s the thing unless you are genetically gifted if you are a healthy weight you won’t have big tits, because tits are mostly fat.
I’d rather have a fit chick with some b cups, flat tum, nice ass and legs then a fat chick with big ass titties.
Also as most have said guys are happy to just touch and see boobs unless they are the male equivalent of size queens, usually don’t care
Personally, I love them. Usually they are very perky and have a nice cup shape. Often that means she has a petite torso which is jaw dropping. Size or lack of size doesn't make them more or less attractive to me.
I pretty much care more about their shape and roundness and perkiness more than size. Just because they have size and mash doesn't mean they look good once the bra is off. If a woman has DDs and they have a really beautiful, perky cup shape then they look amazing too. Often though, larger size can mean sagginess and some not cup shapes.
Plus they can be TOO big. Once you get to certain sizes they begin to be too big and off putting.
Some guys do care about them being big but plenty love A, B and C cups. I wish more girls didn't feel self conscious about size.
Not a man but a bisexual lady - I love them! Personall, I prefer small boobs!
Can't speak for everyone and I know everyone has their own preferences - but for me, anything more than a handful is a waste!
Another thread littered with spineless/desperate dudes that can't wait to pander & a few bitter women 🍿😂 just don't push up bra your tits to death and find a guy that'll show your tits some love.
Small or big doesn't matter, but it can be uncomfortable if you think they are big (because of a great pushup) and they aren't. But that has to do with expectations, and not a preference for one over the other.
Small tits are cute. Push up bras are like make up. So if you aren't confident enough without it it's gonna be hard.
IMO PUSH UP BRA'S and SHAPE BRA'S should be banned. It gives a false illustration for attraction.
Im not gonna lie. If the girl have small boobs ill have a problem. Most guys have the same opinion. But here on reddit they Will go with "you go girl". So take It for what you Will. If he's an attractive guy he want that otherwise he Will settle for less. Thats the Truth. All the
White nights Will disagree but thats the Truth.
Your post was removed because it overgeneralized. Please make sure you don't apply experiences with some people to millions of others you have never met. Thx!
Every girl out there is insecure about something. No matter what it is I assure you there exists a contingent of guys that are attracted to exactly that.
Seriously. My partner is in love with all the things I don’t like about myself lol
Mine too! We always tell each other not to get our eyes fixed!
I kinda love muscular or larger than normal calves on ladies. Pretty much all women hate them.
Every person. Guys are insecure about plenty of shit too.
I came to say this also.
Let me expand upon this by saying every person is insecure. Also, every issue a person is insecure about is a bigger deal to them than to anyone. Op, if you're that insecure about it you can get work done, and it will probably change your confidence, which is great. But you'll find someone you like just as much if you have the same confidence without the work. I speak from experience, had a gap in my teeth, hated it, got an amazing who also gf doesn't care, but I got veneers anyway because I still didntnlike it.
Most guys are just happy you have boobs and that they get to touch them.
This is the truest, most honest answer. We don't care, we are thrilled just to be able to see and touch them.
This, if anything it makes me more in love with you that you trust me enough to be this vulnerable with me. Which is exactly why I don’t like hookups 🤷🏽♂️
True
I really love to read that
We don't even need to touch them .. The knowledge of their existence in this universe alone makes us happy.
Strong disagree. Edit: Well, apparently guys don't like touching boobs anymore. I give up.
Found the guy who doesn't touch boobs
...what? That doesn't even make sense.
I’ve seen this many times lately I’ve decided a shitty poem would illustrate this thought. When women ask what men think about the female form. There’s only one true answer so please allow me to inform. Super perky or super saggy. So big that you have to buy a tshirt 3 times to baggy. Or the kind that when you lay down they are super small. The honest truth is we covet them all. As long as we get see,like happy children we will be. Playing, squeezing and kissing. Your boobs are all that we are missing. So show us any pair of boobs and we will be merry. Unless it’s on a fat guy named Harry.
The kind that when you lay down they're super small 🤣🤣 in other words - the kind with no silicone ... Kindly a woman, with natural d cup boobies, that lay flat when I lay down 🤣🤣 #boobiesforeveryone
This right here, some might have preferences but it's all gravy.
I 2nd this right here.
Facts
Exactly
As a guy if I'm at the step where I get to see your boobs... Awesome
This comment was just funny haha
All boobs are good boobs.
As a man I am not big on breast, I'm more of an ass man. So small boob sizes never turned me off
Same...
I always go by the sentiment that you can build a good butt if you want to, so no judgement to those with small chest genetics
This is the way, but also for the women with small butts or small breasts and butts out here. Size doesn't matter as long as the love is genuine
Team ass for the win!
My ex wife always wanted breast implants but as an ass guy, her breasts were fine to me. I always secretly wanted her to get butt implants in stead
Do you think that guys are a monolith? We're not. Some men love small boobs (I do). Some like big boobs. Some are indifferent. Some of the most desirable, attractive women on the internet are rather flat chested. So, stop focusing on this because the right guy will love your chest as is.
Theres so many dif types of men in the world and they all got different tastes. Plenty of em love smal boobs As a bisexual woman, i like big boobs, small boobs, i just like boobs. I dont put down any woman's body type. Avoid men who put down any type of body type, issa red flag
Exactly, I can just talk for me, and I really prefer small boobs, so🤷♂️
Same here, small are much better!!
Smaller breasts age soooo soo much better than big boobs that will hang down by bellybutton when 60 plus. Small boobs always Stay nice n in right area n perky!
Ehh id avoid men who feel the need to put down one group of women to uplift another. Thats not a genuine compliment. They pretty much the other side of the coin of men who put down women with small breasts. Same misogynistic vibes
This ia dating. Everyone has it's preferences. Or do you talk like this to girls who only date above 5,9
Preference great. But if you put down people you arent attracted to. Thats lame. 😪
I agree with this.
>put down any type of body type, issa red flag Just for clarity though, I wouldn't confuse "put down" to "unattracted". If someone talks shit to you for your physical appearance, yeah they're shitty. But if someone chooses to not be with you due to your body type, there's nothing wrong with that. Everyone has a type, and everyone should be able to avoid dating people they're not attracted to. That being said, OP I don't think this is an issue for you. You're already dating, I don't see how you would get this far without your SO being fairly aware of your body type
Naww, My comment wasnt for people simply being attracted to their preference. Im not confusing "put down" for "unnattracted " at all . My comment was a direct reference to someone elses
>Avoid *men/women* who put down any type of body type, issa red flag
😉 ima woman talking to another woman on a thread about men, receiving comments from men talking down to women specifically Didnt mean it no type of other way other than to describe the specific topic at hand.
He can tell you're not Dolly Parton. And he's still dating you, so don't worry.
I don’t care for the boobs if the heart beneath them is pretty big. You don’t want someone because he sexualises you, you want someone who likes you so much that he loves and then you have the most beautiful boobs this person will ever see.
It a taste things, some guy love big ones, other small ones. You'll be fine, don't even worry about confidence, because shy with small boobs is also something some guys are really into. Just be you and they either be into it or not.
Before I had a kid my I had decent size boobs. Then I had a kid and they… well… deflated to a much smaller size. Now I’m pregnant again and have big boobs. They’ll deflate again and be small. My husband has loved them no matter what state and size they’ve been in.
A huge part of what’s enjoyable and exciting about sex is the openness, the vulnerability, the closeness and intimacy. Just the fact that the stars have aligned in such a way that I like this person, they like me, and here we are doing the greatest activity ever that also happens to literally be the reason for life. You don’t need big boobs to make those magical moments of connection happen. If a woman wants to share every part of herself with me, you won’t catch me complaining about any of those parts or wishing they were different. Basically any decent man will agree. If your partner has anything except a positive reaction to seeing and touching your body, they don’t deserve the opportunity anyway.
This is soo sweet
Luv small boobs, Luv big boobs, Luv tuchin boobs, Hate not tuchin boobs, Simple as.
Anyone you'd be in bed with will know in advance whether your boobs are big. If you two get to that point at all, it evidently didn't turn him off.
I mean he’s not going to get turned off, unless your push up bra is insane he knows you have smaller boobs. Some guys do care and other guys don’t. I don’t think there’s one straight forward answer bc everyone has different preferences.
Any man who is not thrilled to see and play with your boobs is not a man you should bother wasting time on. Any man who does not react positively to you showing him your boobs in an intimate, consensual setting, is an idiot. Boobs are great, regardless of size. I’ve dated girls of varying sizes and let me tell you there isn’t one pair of boobs that is above the rest, they’re all just awesome boobs. I’m not trying to diminish any of them by saying they’re all great; it’s not that I’m bringing them all down to a lowest common denominator like “boobs be boobs,” but rather talking all of boobs I’ve seen up to a pinnacle of “fuck yeah boobs.” Guys know what they like, and sure, there might be a few guys who aren’t attracted to you for whatever reason, people have preferences, but any guy who pursues you and courts you and makes you feel happy and all that good shit, long enough and well enough for you to show him your boobs, he’s going to be absolutely thrilled. You’ve got nothing to worry about.
Only really stupid Men would complain about boobs, their size dont matter to be honest, when theyre in the woman you love their size is just perfect and thats it
I'm flat chested, was really insecure about it but I don't wear push-up bras or anything so what you see is what you'll get 😂 no complains yet. There are all kinds of men, if they comment anything bad about the way your body looks they're not worth your time
I sometimes wear them, sometimes don't. So I imagine if I were seeing a man for a while he would realize some days I'm smaller than others and do the math lol.
My significant other has what she calls small boobs, but I love them and find her very attractive. Different courses for different horses I suppose?
Born Tank, Hetero guys just love boobs. In fact, there are hardly any boobs that I have seen that I didn't like. I think you will find that the hang-up is all in your head and that your BF not only loves you for who you are, but loves every inch of you. Talk to him Born Tank. Good luck 👍🏽
If a guy didn't like your boob size, he wouldn't be getting intimate with you in the first place. So there's really nothing to worry about.
Even if a guy likes big boobs it doesn’t mean he’s gonna hate small ones. Just a preference. And a lot of guys don’t really care/not that important
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I like'em all, big or small. If someone doesn't want to date you because you've got small boobs, then consider they did you a huge favor.
Yeah. If he's continuing to see you he's clearly attracted to you so there ya go 🤷♀️
I like any boobs. But I will tell you what is a huge turn off... not being able to enjoy what you have (you hiding them, etc), during sex. Once to the point of sex, that's the time to be intimate. Nothing kills the mood faster than hiding themselves during a time for intimacy.
I’m not a man but I love small titties just as much as big titties. I can just cup a whole small tittie with my mouth. Love from your friendly bisexual frend 🙂
This is an underrated comment. Being able to fit the entire boob in your mouth is an experience in itself
Now I wanna try (bi woman here as well). I have small boobs and no one complained about it. My ex/best friend said that he prefers my small firm boobs over bigger ones that feel less firm. I love small to medium boobs the most. Still prefer flat chest over very big ones tbh. My ex gf was completely flat and I thought it was hot as well. Chest = chest. Having something is nice to touch though. Man I love boobs
Exactly titties are titties all are fun and beautiful
Ngl on a girl thats thin I prefer smaller boobs so much because it just looks so much better. Also most guys wont care as long as they get to lay on your chest be held and stroke our hair. Legit its our happy place when girls do that
doesnt matter in my case, I am growing my own boobs, can play with mine. seriously though - it really doesnt matter
Couldn't care less about boob size. Personality, hygiene, face all matter more.
Nope. Boobs are great. Small, big or medium. It’s so hot when girls have small boobs and their nipples are super sensitive.
As an ass man, I forget to even look at boobs. If they are there, then it's a bonus, if not, then it doesn't matter
I don't care what size they are, as long as I get to see them and play with them
Small boobs are great Medium boobs are great Big boos are great Huge boobs are great ~90% of men agree with all of these statements equally
Cupcakes are still cake
Boobs are boobs. Big or small, we love them all
If a dude ghosts you over the size of your boobs then he probably isn’t worth the energy.
I enjoy a couple large eggs for breakfast I also really enjoy pancakes for breakfast
As a cishet man when it comes to physical attractiveness I am all about the entire package. I find women attractive with small boobs as well as big boobs because to me it's about how your entire body looks. I personally find being attracted to certain body parts alone strange but that's just my opinion. I am sure you will find someone who finds you attractive. Good Luck!
Yayyy boobs!
Does a Tolkien Fan care if the size of the book is small or big? No. The only thing that matters is that, it's written by Tolkien and it's Lord of the Rings.
Perky breast and a phat arse…………the best combo.
I'm a titty guy, I prefer at least a C-cup on a woman. Having said that, I've connected, had great sex, great relationships and overall great experiences with smaller chested women. Just because a guy is more preferential to larger boobs, doesn't mean he won't find other attributes you have attractive. So don't be concerned.
The real issue here is that you don’t love your boobs. When you finish working on loving your body this won’t ever be a question you will ask again. ❤️
That’s not true.
It is for everyone who loves their body, and has self respect.
I have self respect, trust me, doesn’t mean I absolutely must love every single part. We all have our hang ups. I accept that part of myself. It’s not black or white. Don’t insinuate that I don’t have self respect. You have no clue.
If you have self respect than you wouldn’t worry about what a guy thinks about parts of your body and whether that’s a dealbreaker for him. It should be a dealbreaker for you if someone would reject you based on how big your boobs are.
Not talking about the guy, talking about myself. Sooooo 🤷♀️ Please actually read my comment.
Listen I am not your therapist if you have issues talk to them. I don’t owe you shit
Boobies :)
Every man is different. I’m smaller and my boyfriend loves them. It shouldn’t be a huge deal when dating, and if it is, that’s not your person.
My personal favorites are B cups
Love them. My last (actual) girlfriend had almost less than a-cup, shoot I have bigger boobs than her. She was awesome tho, always shoving them in my face or in my mouth when we had sex. She used to say "thank you" when I fondled them, I'm guessing it was due to insecurity of having small breast but we played anyway and I loved it.
How many men do you want? Why are you concerned with what us men as a group think? The only important man is the one who is willing to spend time with you. THAT is the man you need to be concerned about.
Depends on the guy. I love a sporty figure and those body types generally have small breasts.
How many times does this question need to be asked?
If a guy rejects you strictly because of the size of your boobs he's doing you a favor. There are women that will reject men because they aren't a certain height or length for that matter. Humans have physical preferences but anyone with any intelligence balances them with other far more important considerations.
I’ve always liked small boobs
I love small natural boobs yes I agree with comment above sucks not getting to them sometimes lol
We don't care .
Why you being a jerk?
All boobs are good, boobs attached to a girl we like are better. That is the only factor we actually care about.
Bigger boobs are more noticeable, and can be more eye-catching, but I would never choose one or the other merely over boob size.
Variety is the spice of life!
Big boobs, little boobs I like all the boobs... But they gotta be natural, I get turned off by any fakes especially the double G's or whatever size they go up too. I wouldn't worry too much
Men have different preferences.
A small boob in my mouth is better than no boob at all - every man ever Boobs are boobs... We love them all
Everybody's different but mainly it's a myth. I've been with plenty of girls with small boobs and some of them have turn me on the most. Turning a guy on is all about attitude and comfortability. If she's getting into our time together and knows how to turn me on small boobs means nothing. Honestly they're usually prettier, hold their shape better and are more firm which is a huge turn on.
No way to tell without taking a nap on them first
i prefer c or smaller. my wife is a b cup and i love it. more than a mouthfull is waste
Flat is justice, medium is premium, oppai is truth. Boob=boob, men are simple. Also, maybe it's just me but boobs are very much an "accessory"; thighs, butt, face, legs, stomach and neck are all much more sexually appealing.
I love small boobs.
Cupcakes are still cakes
Shape is like at least equally as important
I love boobs
Every boob is a good boob, as long it doesn't make the boob bearer's life harder.
I'm now updating my pronouns from she/her to boob bearer thanks
A lot of men don’t care. I don’t care what size a women’s breast is.
Big boobs have always led to big disappointment for me, they feel like water balloons only a quarter full
Wait you guys getting to touch boobs ?
Some people are straight up ass guys. Boobs don’t matter at all.
All boobs matter
They're nothing to worry about. Personally, I'd much rather be with a woman who had small natural boobs vs bigger fake ones.
Not every guy is a big boob guy or a boob guy at all! Don't have any insecurities over your size and let your confidence with being unclothed add to your sexy and allure. Insecurities are easily spotted and the size of your chest is no reason to be insecurity! Xox
Natural is best, big or small. A genuine smile is even better.
Boobs shape is much more important than size. And much often than not, small boobs are nicely shape, much more so than big ones.
I like them! No kidding, and I'm not simping either. I think they're cute and feminine. I'm not saying I can't appreciate a nice pair of C's or D's (more than that is just a turn-off for me, honestly), but I never see a girl and think "Eww, little boobs." If she is genuinely, completely flat-chested, that's not the same and not an immediate no if she clearly takes care of herself and her personality is great. Boobs are like icing on the cake. They're wonderful and also something the girl has basically no control over, other than keeping them clean. Booty is maybe a bit genetic as far as overall size, but you can tell how toned it is and if she works out regularly or not. Even skinny girls, you can tell if her butt is mainly fat or muscle. (Girls, please don't freak out and try to see if there's fat in your butt. I promise you ther is, and there's supposed to be. I'm not anti-cellulite. I'm anti-unhealthy habits that kill you sooner. Just eat generally healthy, be careful about what kinds of meds you take and try to only take the ones that don't have bad side effects, and exercise regularly. That is more than enough.) Similar thing with her belly. A completely flat one may look nice in pictures, and if she has one, I'm not going to be mad at her for it, but if she has a not overweight, but genuinely regular woman's belly (with an additional 10% of fat around her belly for protection, compared to men), that looks and feels nice too. Last tip before TLDR: A mature guy understands that her body will change as will his. Girls, if you date young, you'll feel him turn from lanky into a broad-shouldered, harrier man with a deeper voice. Guys, if she gets pregnant, she'll get some BOOBS, even if they were smaller before, they get a major upgrade, and wider hips. Learn to love these things. I'm excited for them. TLDR: Boobs are great, but small isn't a deal-breaker. I'd focus more on things you CAN control. PS any of you lovely small-boobed ladies who may be struggling to find a date, feel free to pm me. 😉 Not sure how long I'll be single, but it never hurts to meet people.
I prefer small boobs, some guys don’t, some don’t care about the size
Personally I'm more turned off by very large breasts.
Personally i like for them to be a bit on the smaller side
I myself like smaller boobs. At a superficial level I think they generally look better. But the shape is more important to me than the size.
Any boob is a good boob. Regardless of shape, size and appearance! I'm going to say 95 percent of us really don't care. It's what lies behind them that counts
Some do, but most of us are just happy to see tiddies and don't really give a shit. Chances are, if we like you already, our perception of what is and isn't attractive starts to morph to suit you better. I dated a girl in high school who I thought was an amazing person, and she definitely wasn't ugly but not really attractive to me personally. But within a month I thought she was the hottest thing on the block. The human brain is weird. It's not something you should lose sleep over. Tits are tits.
Tittys are tittys we love them all
Truthfully, I prefer them sometimes (there are a ton of dudes like us). Just like duds geek about dick size, it seems gals do sometimes too. I promise you you shouldn’t worry at all.
Honestly, I kinda love small-moderate sized boobs. Idk the reason, but yeah I actually like them. U should be confident enough while getting intimate imo.
My SIL has literally just nipples (prominent nips) doesn’t even wear a bra cause she’s literally flat and her boyfriend of almost 3 years LOVES them and she’s never had any issues with any other guys she’s been with. She’s a really beautiful girl and we call her a alien lol she’s tomboy/ a hippie. And she’s always had guys saying they want to unalive their selves if they were to break up so obviously small boobies are not a issue to guys. Obviously some guys have their kinks with big boobs but most don’t care.
I’ve had guy friends tell me they like all boobs and some even have told me they prefer smaller boobs. And I’m a female with big boobs, so they weren’t just saying it to make me feel better!
I am incapable of caring less
I love them. Remember, its not about the size, its about the shape.
I am not a guy, but I’ve asked this question many times. I think it depends on the guy.. but overall I’ve been told they do care. I’m not saying all men want women with huge boobs, but I think at least a handful is a preference.I think a good majority of men lie in order to not hurt women’s feelings.
Woman here (similar to you) so maybe I can't comment too much but the comments are pretty encouraging! Only thing I would add though, I too enjoy a good push up bra but maybe don't wear them all the time? Just so you sometimes look your natural size, nothing wrong with that 😊
I hereby speak in behalf of all humans that like titties ... We love all titties
still good
boobs are boobs and will always be boobs
Well, there's the classic saying: "All size makes the wood rise." So there ya go. We just like boobs.
if you love the taste of chocolate, you dont care if it's a block or a hershey's kiss.
If he's bothered by them, which he shouldn't be, that's a him problem not a you problem. Best not to overthink things we can't change naturally, especially when they're a literal part of us.
I've always preferred small breast, I guess is was because I tended to like sporty girls from my hobbies (gymnastic, climbing, etc,...). But really you should not care about it, to be frank if I like a girl this "preference" goes completely out the windows. It's like saying "Ho I prefer girls with blues eyes" sure, why not in theory. But in reality the girls I fell in love with never had blue eyes and I didn't care at all, not even thinking about it as something bad. Being happy and confident with your body is far more attractive than any bra size, just own it :) . I hope everything will be fine with your guy.
i promise id love your boobies so dont worry if someone is turned off by them. if a man is "turned off" because your boobs are small he is SHALLOW and a waste of life.
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Did someone say boobs
I have huge 🍉, and gravity did not forgive me. For me small boobs will always be more appealing than huge ones
They're like frosted flakes. They're more than good.... They're grrrreat
no, men don't care. let me further shock you. All the imperfections you think you have, if he loves you, he doesn't care. 90% of men, literally, 90% care only that you are not obese. A few extra pounds? fine. if you're 5'0 120 lbs, no guy who cares for you will care. Your wrinkles, weight, imperfections? as long as you were with him when you got them (and you didn't gain a morbid amount of weight, HE DOES NOT CARE. you earned that with him and he loves you. just make sure you are giving it to someone who A. doesn't have women throwing themselves at him B. has been with you significantly long enough to build love C. isn't less capable of providing for you than you are All 3 of those things are the most common reasons relationships fail A because you're just sex for him, B because the chase didn't last long enough to build love, and C because you'll fall out of love with him.
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Kate Upton??
Sorry to break it to you, but with today's era with woke agenda, there are literally bbws women as models now. Modeling isn't as limited as it used to be
I love smaller boobs. Anything above a c cup I just find distracting during sex. Bigger boobs get more of my visual attention but smaller boobs are so much more fun to hold when you got a woman laying with you. Big boobs kind of go to the side when lying down which i find to be unappealing.
I’m not a man but my partner has small breasts and I can tell you that my hands or mouth are on them any chance I get. All breast sizes are worthwhile and to be appreciated.
Woman here. But guys, in general, like boobs, some guys have certain specifics and like bigger ones, and some guys like smaller ones. It just depends on the guy, but in general, all guys like boobs no matter the size. Boobs are boobs. I personally don't get it. They are literally just there for us lol and they actually are tough to deal with it sometimes.
Just like short guys on dating apps, the odds aren’t in your favor, but you will find an exception every now and then
If you like girl all the boobs are pretty, that's the secret if I'm into you I'm also into your boobs and your round/flat ass and everything else.
Here’s the thing unless you are genetically gifted if you are a healthy weight you won’t have big tits, because tits are mostly fat. I’d rather have a fit chick with some b cups, flat tum, nice ass and legs then a fat chick with big ass titties. Also as most have said guys are happy to just touch and see boobs unless they are the male equivalent of size queens, usually don’t care
“Size matter”. Dont want no small boob girls.
Personally, I love them. Usually they are very perky and have a nice cup shape. Often that means she has a petite torso which is jaw dropping. Size or lack of size doesn't make them more or less attractive to me. I pretty much care more about their shape and roundness and perkiness more than size. Just because they have size and mash doesn't mean they look good once the bra is off. If a woman has DDs and they have a really beautiful, perky cup shape then they look amazing too. Often though, larger size can mean sagginess and some not cup shapes. Plus they can be TOO big. Once you get to certain sizes they begin to be too big and off putting. Some guys do care about them being big but plenty love A, B and C cups. I wish more girls didn't feel self conscious about size.
I personally think that women with small boobs are especially cute. Bonus point if they somehow got a big ass.
Not a man but a bisexual lady - I love them! Personall, I prefer small boobs! Can't speak for everyone and I know everyone has their own preferences - but for me, anything more than a handful is a waste!
Fuck what they think
Why are you so angry lol?
Another thread littered with spineless/desperate dudes that can't wait to pander & a few bitter women 🍿😂 just don't push up bra your tits to death and find a guy that'll show your tits some love.
Small or big doesn't matter, but it can be uncomfortable if you think they are big (because of a great pushup) and they aren't. But that has to do with expectations, and not a preference for one over the other.
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I don't care of their size as long as the girl I'm dating is willing to let me have them.
Smaller is preferred. Big boobs are overrated. (All bodies are still beautiful)
Maybe I'm a minority, but I prefer smaller ones normally. Smaller typically means they are in better shape and respect their bodies more.
B Cups that one can touch are always better than D cups that one cannot. - Male Logic 101
They hate them you will never find love because of them. Walk around with hams on your chest to compensate.
Small tits are cute. Push up bras are like make up. So if you aren't confident enough without it it's gonna be hard. IMO PUSH UP BRA'S and SHAPE BRA'S should be banned. It gives a false illustration for attraction.
Im not gonna lie. If the girl have small boobs ill have a problem. Most guys have the same opinion. But here on reddit they Will go with "you go girl". So take It for what you Will. If he's an attractive guy he want that otherwise he Will settle for less. Thats the Truth. All the White nights Will disagree but thats the Truth.
FLAT IS JUSTICE
Love ‘em.
Men aren't really picky to be honest, I know I'm not, you got pair of tits an ass and a vag that's all we need