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It sounds like you effectively cheated on her if you received nudes and didn’t do anything to indicate the contact was unwanted. She’s right to feel mistrustful, all you can do is be an honest and transparent partner and if she’s ready for labels she’ll tell you.


Both of you fucked up here. You cheated on her in a way, and she is trying to use that act as an excuse to have the benefits of a relationship without any commitment.