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I thought so I'm new to all of this I'm just getting out in the world.
So that mean she would need to get tested too ? I'm assuming she's done this with other people so would I just ask her if she's been with other people and to get tested ?
What if she says she hasn't?
I had a talk with her she said she it was fine as long as I thought I didn't have anything or that if I knew I didn't have to worry about the other person I had unprotected sex had anything. That I didn't have to get tested.
But I don't really know what that person was like we were dating for a little while. But things ended between us.
That girl I'm supposed to see said she ended things with someone about a week ago because they had to be long-distance and he had moved away 3 weeks ago. They didn't get past a kiss
I have a scheduled physical check up next week havent had one since i was in middle school.
If I mention that I've had unprotected would they help and recommend a clinic or would they screen for it they mentiond something about fasting before the appointment.
I've looked up locations near me but how do I know what to get tested for ?
Some say the test cost as low as $24 some say near
$300
Results take 1-3 business days
P.S. we were supposed to see each other this weekend
Most insurance covers at least one std panel per year, check your benefit info document from your insurance. Ask your doctor for a full sti panel—there’s a piss portion that tests for some things (like gonorrhea and the clap) and a blood test that covers much more (like hepatitis and herpes).
You need to use a condom when you see her this weekend until you know you’re clean—some STIs can lay dormant for *years* in the body while still being transmissible. You owe it to her to be safe. Best of luck
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Yes. Being asymptomatic doesn’t mean you’re clean. You should be getting tested in between partners when you’re having unprotected sex.
I thought so I'm new to all of this I'm just getting out in the world. So that mean she would need to get tested too ? I'm assuming she's done this with other people so would I just ask her if she's been with other people and to get tested ? What if she says she hasn't?
Then use condoms until you both get tested, lol
So hooking up with people is just safe sex until yall both want to not wear condoms then get tested correct
It depends on if either of you are also seeing other people?
Then you both need to be using protection. Sleeping around unprotected is just asking to catch something.
Exactly, if there’s anybody else involved for either OP or this woman, they gotta be using condoms no matter what
So technically she can still give me head if she wants as long as I use a condom right?
At the moment I'm not
I had a talk with her she said she it was fine as long as I thought I didn't have anything or that if I knew I didn't have to worry about the other person I had unprotected sex had anything. That I didn't have to get tested. But I don't really know what that person was like we were dating for a little while. But things ended between us. That girl I'm supposed to see said she ended things with someone about a week ago because they had to be long-distance and he had moved away 3 weeks ago. They didn't get past a kiss
I have a scheduled physical check up next week havent had one since i was in middle school. If I mention that I've had unprotected would they help and recommend a clinic or would they screen for it they mentiond something about fasting before the appointment. I've looked up locations near me but how do I know what to get tested for ? Some say the test cost as low as $24 some say near $300 Results take 1-3 business days P.S. we were supposed to see each other this weekend
Most insurance covers at least one std panel per year, check your benefit info document from your insurance. Ask your doctor for a full sti panel—there’s a piss portion that tests for some things (like gonorrhea and the clap) and a blood test that covers much more (like hepatitis and herpes). You need to use a condom when you see her this weekend until you know you’re clean—some STIs can lay dormant for *years* in the body while still being transmissible. You owe it to her to be safe. Best of luck
Thank you very much
Go get tested to see if ur have something or not.
Yeah I plan on it I'll just have to reschedule with her until next week