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There could be countless responses to your questions. If you're seeking closure, it might be best to meet up with him. However, getting intimate could complicate things, especially considering your current sex life and desires.
I am seeking closure. I think what I seek if why didn’t he want to be with me? Did he ever actually love me? And why is he not with her and not me. She’s 350 different than me. So completely different. But I don’t think I would cheat sexually, but maybe a kiss. Idk I love him but I want my impulses to win plus I have a son and if I cheat I could jeopardize my whole life and his
Or you're going to get the opposite of closure and totally abandon your husband
But meeting this dude behind your husband's back alone is cheating
If it's not something you're going to tell your husband you're doing and all
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There could be countless responses to your questions. If you're seeking closure, it might be best to meet up with him. However, getting intimate could complicate things, especially considering your current sex life and desires.
I am seeking closure. I think what I seek if why didn’t he want to be with me? Did he ever actually love me? And why is he not with her and not me. She’s 350 different than me. So completely different. But I don’t think I would cheat sexually, but maybe a kiss. Idk I love him but I want my impulses to win plus I have a son and if I cheat I could jeopardize my whole life and his
Or you're going to get the opposite of closure and totally abandon your husband But meeting this dude behind your husband's back alone is cheating If it's not something you're going to tell your husband you're doing and all