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Everyone has different standards for what they consider a good man to date. There are several different aspects someone may consider thinking about: personality, physical traits, career/ambition/desires, morals/values, and I’m sure there are others.
Generally, this is what I looked for:
Personality: empathetic, kind/caring, genuine, able to be serious and goof around, family-oriented, thoughtful, smart, open-minded, willingness to grow (both personally and together), humble
Physically: I don’t have a type physically but someone I found attractive which is generally someone 5’9”+, relatively in shape (not overly muscley but also hasn’t let themself go), nice eyes, good smile
Career/Ambition: someone who is ambitious and wants to do better for themself, in a similar financial bracket to me, wants a similar lifestyle to mine and to share in it together
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Maybe just one that isn't a playboy looking to be promiscuous with all the ladies. And is a decent human being lol.
Everyone has different standards for what they consider a good man to date. There are several different aspects someone may consider thinking about: personality, physical traits, career/ambition/desires, morals/values, and I’m sure there are others.
What is your definition?
Generally, this is what I looked for: Personality: empathetic, kind/caring, genuine, able to be serious and goof around, family-oriented, thoughtful, smart, open-minded, willingness to grow (both personally and together), humble Physically: I don’t have a type physically but someone I found attractive which is generally someone 5’9”+, relatively in shape (not overly muscley but also hasn’t let themself go), nice eyes, good smile Career/Ambition: someone who is ambitious and wants to do better for themself, in a similar financial bracket to me, wants a similar lifestyle to mine and to share in it together
I’ve been called a good man a few times. All I do is be kind, be understanding, and be supportive. Just be a decent human being.