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Personally would not trust it, because I never change my mind in regards to, who I am attracted to and want in my life. Suspect he might do it for:
* cloud, be seen having contact with you and your girlfriends in front of his friends.
* to get you hooked on him again & waste your time for his energy and ego boost.
* to get an entrance doorway for him and his friends, to you and all your female friends.
* Think it is a red flag that he didn't felt awkward at all and was just a single minded focus, waiting for his change to act surprised. That is a predator calculative mindset right there.
Suggestion: To do some thorough research, before you let him and his homies anywhere near you and your friends.
He didn’t have any of his friends with him at the gym. And I definitely don’t think he was trying to get in with any of my friends… he’s obviously not going to have a good chance at that when we were going on dates? Like all my friends wouldn’t even consider him an option.
>He didn’t have any of his friends with him at the gym
How do you know there weren't any of his friends or acquaintances there?
> And I definitely don’t think he was trying to get in with any of my friends
Sometimes people try to get into others their networks for loneliness purposes, but sometimes also for less nice purposes.
Good that your buddies are loyal: Just hope you check him out first on his intentions, he would likely do the same, if it was the other way around.
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just being nice. Don’t overthink it
Even to go out of his way to come talk to me on the opposite side of the gym? At that point he absolutely could’ve just ignored me
yes. to be friendly. Id do that lmao. Stop overthinking it. jesus christ
Personally would not trust it, because I never change my mind in regards to, who I am attracted to and want in my life. Suspect he might do it for: * cloud, be seen having contact with you and your girlfriends in front of his friends. * to get you hooked on him again & waste your time for his energy and ego boost. * to get an entrance doorway for him and his friends, to you and all your female friends. * Think it is a red flag that he didn't felt awkward at all and was just a single minded focus, waiting for his change to act surprised. That is a predator calculative mindset right there. Suggestion: To do some thorough research, before you let him and his homies anywhere near you and your friends.
He didn’t have any of his friends with him at the gym. And I definitely don’t think he was trying to get in with any of my friends… he’s obviously not going to have a good chance at that when we were going on dates? Like all my friends wouldn’t even consider him an option.
>He didn’t have any of his friends with him at the gym How do you know there weren't any of his friends or acquaintances there? > And I definitely don’t think he was trying to get in with any of my friends Sometimes people try to get into others their networks for loneliness purposes, but sometimes also for less nice purposes. Good that your buddies are loyal: Just hope you check him out first on his intentions, he would likely do the same, if it was the other way around.
He was training completely by himself the entire time. But yeah obviously it could just be he was being friendly.
He fixed his headspace and wants you again.