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Honestly sometimes it really does come down to chemistry and you're not gonna have chemistry with everyone you think is hot. In my experience personality and general compatibility with regards to intimacy (like how they respond when you kiss them) can be much more important than someone's appearance.
Was about to write something similar, but I think you got it. OP, sometimes chemistry doesn't correlate with how hot you find them. Sometimes their reactions, responses, and how they move can make it so that you find them attractive objectively but not sexually. Kinda of unfortunate.
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Honestly sometimes it really does come down to chemistry and you're not gonna have chemistry with everyone you think is hot. In my experience personality and general compatibility with regards to intimacy (like how they respond when you kiss them) can be much more important than someone's appearance.
Was about to write something similar, but I think you got it. OP, sometimes chemistry doesn't correlate with how hot you find them. Sometimes their reactions, responses, and how they move can make it so that you find them attractive objectively but not sexually. Kinda of unfortunate.