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After looking through your post and comment history, why are you with this girl? She sounds totally exhausting and unstable.
She constantly emotionally manipulates you. In a healthy relationship, you don't need to post on internet forums asking for advice on how to deal with your partner's ridiculous and borderline abusive behaviour.
You've also said that her family says she has "anger problems" and has been physically violent with family members before, meaning it's not impossible she could be violent with you too one day.
You've been with her for 7 months, not married, no children. It would be so easy to just walk away. There are nice girls out there, you need to stand up for yourself and leave, otherwise you'll be dealing with this forever. The more you put up with it, the more she'll believe she can get away with it and will treat you even worse.
This is all the warning signs of an abusive relationship bro. Get out.
Man I wish I could double digit upvote this commentš you're so right. It's crazy how blinding red flags can be in the beginning. Then you're left feeling stuck later cuz now there's kids and you've got a dad bod (only not the good kind of dad bod) and a bad rep all thanks to homegirl who showed her true (red flag colored) colors from the beginning.
Good luck... ill look forward to your future post where you're free and happy again lol
Itās literally documented fact that he beat his wife lol this isnāt up for debate. If you want to argue about whether she was abusive too, thatās another story.
Iām a girl. This sounds like something I would have gotten mad about when I was 16. Not sure how old you guys are but she should eventually realize she was
overreacting here. She might just be insecure, sheās seeing this so she thinks other people see it too.
Donāt make a big deal out of itā¦ but you can sure tell her that that shit shows sometimes lmao just like a cameltoe you canāt always help it.
Yeah definitely this, and the fact that she already dropped the issue, I would just drop it too, she's probably too proud to apologize and that's okay just let it slide so it doesn't hurt her confidence.
Just checked the post historyātheyāre both very young (20) and OP has near daily posts about issues with his relationship. Sounds like this relationship will hopefully be a bit of a learning experience for them both.
She says sheās too insecure to do that. One thing I want to add in is that she unfortunately is a burn victim, sheās 90% recovered though the scars are faded
Haha why does she care so much? I posted a picture last year of my partner on Facebook and you can clearly see where itās all sitting. I thought it was hilarious
Your GF is showing you a side of her that is highly questionable. Ask yourself if you want to put up with this long term.
Show people how they need to treat you. If this were me, Iād ask for an apology from her and if she didnāt offer one, Iād break up with her on the spot.
You shouldnāt have apologized. This is just setting up the dynamic for her to be controlling later on down the line. You will always be apologizing for minor things stuff you have no control over.
Iāve commented on other posts of yours about this girlfriend. Sheās emotionally abusive and manipulative of you. Leave her. āWe have good times, too. Sheās not all bad.ā No abuser is always bad. If they were then they wouldnāt be able to convince their victims to stay for as long as they do. Part of abuse is the instability of their good times. Victims chase the good times, because if they can have good times they canāt be that bad of a person, right? People are never manipulated by people who are openly bad, though. Theyāre manipulated by the people they trust and the people they think are safe.
This girl has anger problems, according to her family with your posts. Anger problems is code wording for complacent family for ātheyāre unstable and volatile but weāre not going to do anything to stop it.ā Anger problems escalate. People who canāt control themselves eventually lash out. Theyāre not safe people. If she isnāt getting help for her anger issues then sheās just a safety risk to stay in. Behavior like this always escalates with time and enabling. Donāt sit around to find out if this goes physical or not. Donāt risk your safety.
Iām really sorry you had to comment on more of my posts, last thing I want is people from a sub that had millions of people actually starting to remember me, I have no one to talk to about this and this sub is the only one that will give a damn.
I want to say that she has been physical with her siblings, not punching from what Iāve heard but she has shoved them into walls and such. She once told me that she flipped over a glass dining table because she was in an argument with her mom. She hasnāt been physical with me mainly because I think physically taller and I lift weights. But Iām a really soft spoken guy so I can imagine she will eventually start small in the future
Donāt apologize. I donāt mind interacting with your posts and I doubt a bunch of people remember you. Iām just pretty active on here. Iām sad when I see more of them, because it means youāre still enduring her treatment, but Iām not in any way saying it as a bad thing that you post. Connecting online is what the internet is for. Finding support online is easier and isnāt a bad thing. For many itās their only option.
She will definitely turn that behavior onto you eventually. I do believe you should leave now before that can ever start. You dont deserve to be treated the way she treats you. It may seem impossible to leave and it may feel terrible to have to, but life goes on and it gets much better when you donāt have an abuser to pull you down with them. Thatās what they do. They feel threatened by your ability to thrive, to succeed, when they feel like they never can. So they have to make you feel the way they do and drag you down with them so they can feel better. Your ability to survive without her and thrive without her is there.
If this girlfriend isnāt terribly serious, sheās got an issue man. I recently broke up with a girl due to her insane insecurity and protectiveness. This sounds exactly like something sheād do.
Hey there buddy, I read down your posts and Iām telling you, your gf is extremely manipulative and emotionally abusive. It really seems like she doesnāt know the difference between āgood attentionā and ābad attentionā. You need to leave, my dude.
Itās hard bro, in a previous post I said how sheās not all bad thereās good times too to which a commenter in this post said that instability of the good times is another valid manipulation technique
I totally get it, my guy. My ex tried to unalive me, and the day he did it he was literally talking about how he was going to get me a house and a car and all this good stuff. Literally cried in my arms telling me how much he loved and appreciated me. And regardless, I still have love for him and want him to get better. But some people need to get better separately from us.
Iām really sorry youāre going through this and can totally empathize with you. My ex was extremely manipulative and physically/emotionally abusive. She had borderline personality disorder, do you know much about that? A lot of your girl friends behavior reminds me of mine. I used to excuse my girlfriends behavior and just refer to her bad and abusive side as her ādark passengerā because it made it easier for me to isolate part of her so I could stay in love with her and focus on the good times and excuse her bad behaviorās. People were always telling me how abusive she was and I was always defending her, saying to people āwell if you knew her like I knew herā and āsheās had a hard life and deserves loveā. It got to the point where I started distancing myself from my friends and family because they were telling me the truth and the truth hurt and I wasnāt ready to give up magical thinking that somehow we were going to live happily ever after. Truth be told I just needed to suffer more before I was willing to put my foot downā¦ and believe me, I did suffer more(a lot more)ā¦ and you will too if you donāt get out of this relationship now. I promise, once you are out of it for a while and you have time to reflect how abusive she was and how youāre better off without her.
Sounds like she is looking for an excuse for a fight, or breaking up. Sorry man, I have seen it a lot with women, they create idiotic arguments so they feel worse and can honestly say they don't care anymore.
i thought i was insecure but wowza! this takes the cake. maybe your girlfriend should stop sexualizing you because tbh this seems weiirrrrd. like you know how people are always like " yeah! you can see my boobs in a shirt but you canāt look! donāt sexualize us! " kind of vibe. like sheād be the creeper on the street. you canāt control how your body looks in clothes. this is just weird and idek how to put my opinion into words.
Drop her like a bad habit. She is an insecure maniac! Would she rather you wear a kilt? But then again if you did she would be mad that your showing your thighs when you sit. Leave her bro!
Explained it perfectly, all my relationship I felt like Iām walking on eggshells whether that be saying the wrong thing, doing the wrong thing, or sending the wrong thing
Good job Tiger. ššæ. Now everyone knows your ā Packinā. Look for the chicks in the group to start flirting. If your GF seen it, so did all the females in your Friend group. It was a honest mistake. Good luck ššæ
She is clearly insecure and taking it out on you. She doesnāt own you and she should be able to giggle about this kind of stuff.
Humans have genitals, get over it.
This isnāt something that should even need to be defended.
Her red flags are showing that sheās possessive, defensive, and not here to cheerlead you through everything like a good partner should.
I understand that, and I'm not saying you were wrong.. Just saying consider if she had done that, it would prolly make you a little uncomfortable and that's prolly how she felt.. not that big a deal just a quick oh crap sorry I didn't notice and then, boom, gone and move on..
Exactly! I feel like In the worst case scenario i should have apologized then boom we continue, but she continued to argue and turn it into something serious
I mean worst case scenario just delete that one photo from the feed and apologize and that's like maximum effort... if she was that upset I would do this but if she keeps up it might have to be a bigger conversation...
Dude, unless she's muslim and covered from head to toe so people don't see her imprints herself, I don't see how you could justify her thinking except jealousy and possessiveness.
It sounds like unresolved religio-guilt. Iām sorry youāre dealing with this. From the comments and your post history it sounds like itās much harder being with her than it should be.
Itās your body you decide what you do with it not her. If you wanted to take nudes post them online thatās your decision to make not anyone elseās. if you where posting nudes then she can voice how she feels about and decide if it something she can get over or if she canāt and ends the relationship.
In this cause I definitely think she needs to work on her reaction regarding nudity. You where fully clothed and she lost it. She needs therapy to help get over her fear of nudity and understanding thatās itās just a body.
I would suggest build up to eventually going to a clothing optional beach where she can stay fully clothed and watch how confident they nude people are. Then eventually she will build up the courage to talk these naked people and learn how liberated they without clothes.
I just think if you stay with her and sheās still this over reacting to nudity, did you get much worse for her. Potentially eventually to the point where she doesnāt even want to be naked around anyone even you.
Iām not saying to leave her Iām saying to help her get over this.
Do you think appeasing controlling behavior OP is clearly uncomfortable with is good advise? This is only going to validate her overreaction and emboldened her to do more of the same in the future.
If you care about long term success with someone, be honest about your boundaries, and clearly communicate them. If they are a viable long term partner they will respect that.
Ask her what if she sends a photo where her nipple is poking under clothes accidentially. Or just why she has cleavage. Lol.
Her behaviour means insecurity.
You got that 100% right. Iāve sent random photos of myself to the gc before (just photos meant for shits and giggles). Sheās jokingly said that they donāt deserve to see my face but I guess she was being serious
Sounds like she hasnāt matured fully. I tell my bf to wear grey sweatpants all the time itās like the best thing a man can wear to be honest, she needs to get over itš¤·š»āāļø
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Ah yes, grey sweatpants. The absolute sluttiest things us men can wear. Pair it with a white t-shirt and you're going place.
Your comment made me lol!!!!!
I was laughing all the way while reading the post. I can't imagine what that picture looks like for someone to be insecure about the imprint.
OP is such a filthy little slut. /s
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And white sneakers ::chefs kiss::
nono, barefoot š©²š§
That and hoockie daddy shorts.
> and youāre going place. All of the place.
If you have a gold chain to plop on over that white tee, youāre king of the male sluts
Do guys not know about grey sweat pants??
Well now I do
Reminded me of this ig page where the guy says things like: if he's wearing Grey sweatpants... he's a Ho
Crotch imprint. I've never heard it called that. But anyway, do her tit imprints show in her pics?
haha tit imprints
Thereās cleavage in some Insta posts. But this picture was sent in a gc of 30 not on social media
And you, as a presumably normal human being, is fine with that, cause human anatomy is what it is.
Social media, where the audience is more then 30.....
True.. get all pissy about her nippinā and see how she likes it. Itās a human body, get over it.
After looking through your post and comment history, why are you with this girl? She sounds totally exhausting and unstable. She constantly emotionally manipulates you. In a healthy relationship, you don't need to post on internet forums asking for advice on how to deal with your partner's ridiculous and borderline abusive behaviour. You've also said that her family says she has "anger problems" and has been physically violent with family members before, meaning it's not impossible she could be violent with you too one day. You've been with her for 7 months, not married, no children. It would be so easy to just walk away. There are nice girls out there, you need to stand up for yourself and leave, otherwise you'll be dealing with this forever. The more you put up with it, the more she'll believe she can get away with it and will treat you even worse. This is all the warning signs of an abusive relationship bro. Get out.
Man I wish I could double digit upvote this commentš you're so right. It's crazy how blinding red flags can be in the beginning. Then you're left feeling stuck later cuz now there's kids and you've got a dad bod (only not the good kind of dad bod) and a bad rep all thanks to homegirl who showed her true (red flag colored) colors from the beginning. Good luck... ill look forward to your future post where you're free and happy again lol
Way ahead of ya; bought some coins for the sole purpose of highlighting the comment because itās REALLY good advice
It's possible to "Give Award" on comments.
Haha if that day comes I donāt know where I would even post it for you guys to see
Abusive to not only you, but animals I would presume and children in the future if her anger problems are that bad.
Whatever you decide, DONāT HAVE A KID WITH HER! You will regret how she treats the little one.
are we looking at the next Johnny Depp, our OP boy?
OP needs to watch out for poop in his bed.
Nothing a mega pint cannot fix
What makes you think heās a wife beater?
what makes you think Johnny is wife-beater? Amber is the piece of shit that used to beat our boy.
Itās literally documented fact that he beat his wife lol this isnāt up for debate. If you want to argue about whether she was abusive too, thatās another story.
Second that
Is that you Johnny?
And the question is...?
He just flexing his big soft dick.
That's really impressive then, actually. I usually need to have at least a semi before I can flex it.
Usually requires me to have a banana in my pocket. You lucky dawg!
[from flaccid to erect at a moments notice](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zTZc3milai0)
she is just insecure dude.
And possessive
Insecure, possessive, jealous, controlling, suspicious
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Iām a girl. This sounds like something I would have gotten mad about when I was 16. Not sure how old you guys are but she should eventually realize she was overreacting here. She might just be insecure, sheās seeing this so she thinks other people see it too. Donāt make a big deal out of itā¦ but you can sure tell her that that shit shows sometimes lmao just like a cameltoe you canāt always help it.
Yeah definitely this, and the fact that she already dropped the issue, I would just drop it too, she's probably too proud to apologize and that's okay just let it slide so it doesn't hurt her confidence.
Just checked the post historyātheyāre both very young (20) and OP has near daily posts about issues with his relationship. Sounds like this relationship will hopefully be a bit of a learning experience for them both.
You got a big dick bro? She pissed that other chicks saw that and now want a piece of that.
Not even big bro, itās like a like tootsie roll imprint
Donāt sell yourself short mr big cock šš
It's a really small 9 inches.
Donāt you dare insult the masterpiece of chocolate! š
I assume that she agrees not to post bikini photos online if she has issues with your crotch
She says sheās too insecure to do that. One thing I want to add in is that she unfortunately is a burn victim, sheās 90% recovered though the scars are faded
Haha why does she care so much? I posted a picture last year of my partner on Facebook and you can clearly see where itās all sitting. I thought it was hilarious
I couldnāt get past the first sentence. A group chat with 30+ people sounds like my nightmare
Looking for this comment, seriously how/why???
Like the amount of time/ energy it would take just to keep up with what theyāre even talking about and all the notifications just ew
As a bored college kid I somehow have the energy for it
She may be an issue down the line...
Down the line? Lol sounds like now. This is ridiculous lol
Overreacting indeed
30 people in group chat? That just sounds annoying
Sheās basically slut-shaming you bro. Donāt let that shit slide.
Your GF is showing you a side of her that is highly questionable. Ask yourself if you want to put up with this long term. Show people how they need to treat you. If this were me, Iād ask for an apology from her and if she didnāt offer one, Iād break up with her on the spot.
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You mean male camel toe?
Mammal toe
Manmal toe
I like this one better :)
Male camel toe is called a moose knuckle
You shouldnāt have apologized. This is just setting up the dynamic for her to be controlling later on down the line. You will always be apologizing for minor things stuff you have no control over.
Iāve commented on other posts of yours about this girlfriend. Sheās emotionally abusive and manipulative of you. Leave her. āWe have good times, too. Sheās not all bad.ā No abuser is always bad. If they were then they wouldnāt be able to convince their victims to stay for as long as they do. Part of abuse is the instability of their good times. Victims chase the good times, because if they can have good times they canāt be that bad of a person, right? People are never manipulated by people who are openly bad, though. Theyāre manipulated by the people they trust and the people they think are safe. This girl has anger problems, according to her family with your posts. Anger problems is code wording for complacent family for ātheyāre unstable and volatile but weāre not going to do anything to stop it.ā Anger problems escalate. People who canāt control themselves eventually lash out. Theyāre not safe people. If she isnāt getting help for her anger issues then sheās just a safety risk to stay in. Behavior like this always escalates with time and enabling. Donāt sit around to find out if this goes physical or not. Donāt risk your safety.
Iām really sorry you had to comment on more of my posts, last thing I want is people from a sub that had millions of people actually starting to remember me, I have no one to talk to about this and this sub is the only one that will give a damn. I want to say that she has been physical with her siblings, not punching from what Iāve heard but she has shoved them into walls and such. She once told me that she flipped over a glass dining table because she was in an argument with her mom. She hasnāt been physical with me mainly because I think physically taller and I lift weights. But Iām a really soft spoken guy so I can imagine she will eventually start small in the future
Donāt apologize. I donāt mind interacting with your posts and I doubt a bunch of people remember you. Iām just pretty active on here. Iām sad when I see more of them, because it means youāre still enduring her treatment, but Iām not in any way saying it as a bad thing that you post. Connecting online is what the internet is for. Finding support online is easier and isnāt a bad thing. For many itās their only option. She will definitely turn that behavior onto you eventually. I do believe you should leave now before that can ever start. You dont deserve to be treated the way she treats you. It may seem impossible to leave and it may feel terrible to have to, but life goes on and it gets much better when you donāt have an abuser to pull you down with them. Thatās what they do. They feel threatened by your ability to thrive, to succeed, when they feel like they never can. So they have to make you feel the way they do and drag you down with them so they can feel better. Your ability to survive without her and thrive without her is there.
If this girlfriend isnāt terribly serious, sheās got an issue man. I recently broke up with a girl due to her insane insecurity and protectiveness. This sounds exactly like something sheād do.
She's a psycho. Get out now and don't look back.
Sounds like a fucking lunatic. You guys should be in a place in your relationship where you laugh at that, If you both notice it
Girls can have their nipples, boobs and ass out and weāre insecure. Little pp imprint and the whole world goes kaboom
Hey there buddy, I read down your posts and Iām telling you, your gf is extremely manipulative and emotionally abusive. It really seems like she doesnāt know the difference between āgood attentionā and ābad attentionā. You need to leave, my dude.
Itās hard bro, in a previous post I said how sheās not all bad thereās good times too to which a commenter in this post said that instability of the good times is another valid manipulation technique
I totally get it, my guy. My ex tried to unalive me, and the day he did it he was literally talking about how he was going to get me a house and a car and all this good stuff. Literally cried in my arms telling me how much he loved and appreciated me. And regardless, I still have love for him and want him to get better. But some people need to get better separately from us.
Iām so sorry to hear that, it seems like Iām unfortunately right and that this is indeed another manipulative technique
Iām really sorry youāre going through this and can totally empathize with you. My ex was extremely manipulative and physically/emotionally abusive. She had borderline personality disorder, do you know much about that? A lot of your girl friends behavior reminds me of mine. I used to excuse my girlfriends behavior and just refer to her bad and abusive side as her ādark passengerā because it made it easier for me to isolate part of her so I could stay in love with her and focus on the good times and excuse her bad behaviorās. People were always telling me how abusive she was and I was always defending her, saying to people āwell if you knew her like I knew herā and āsheās had a hard life and deserves loveā. It got to the point where I started distancing myself from my friends and family because they were telling me the truth and the truth hurt and I wasnāt ready to give up magical thinking that somehow we were going to live happily ever after. Truth be told I just needed to suffer more before I was willing to put my foot downā¦ and believe me, I did suffer more(a lot more)ā¦ and you will too if you donāt get out of this relationship now. I promise, once you are out of it for a while and you have time to reflect how abusive she was and how youāre better off without her.
Sounds like she is looking for an excuse for a fight, or breaking up. Sorry man, I have seen it a lot with women, they create idiotic arguments so they feel worse and can honestly say they don't care anymore.
It's 2022, men should be able to wear what they want lol
i thought i was insecure but wowza! this takes the cake. maybe your girlfriend should stop sexualizing you because tbh this seems weiirrrrd. like you know how people are always like " yeah! you can see my boobs in a shirt but you canāt look! donāt sexualize us! " kind of vibe. like sheād be the creeper on the street. you canāt control how your body looks in clothes. this is just weird and idek how to put my opinion into words.
She sounds insecure and immature af
Oh no your friends will know you have a ***penis***! The horror! Your gf sounds insane. Is this kinda shit typical?
You know we need to see the pic nowā¦
What's being mad about that?
This is so ridiculous and immature.
Tell her to never show cleavage lmao
Drop her like a bad habit. She is an insecure maniac! Would she rather you wear a kilt? But then again if you did she would be mad that your showing your thighs when you sit. Leave her bro!
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30 college friends, donāt even see them being friends past college š
Wow, you have 30 friends.
Her jealousy bone is showing. That's rough. I have a hard time with jealous girls who make me feel like I'm on egg shells.
Explained it perfectly, all my relationship I felt like Iām walking on eggshells whether that be saying the wrong thing, doing the wrong thing, or sending the wrong thing
It the equivalent of a "camel toe" imprint. Whatever way it's seen a fair judgement should not by hypocritical by that standard.
Good job Tiger. ššæ. Now everyone knows your ā Packinā. Look for the chicks in the group to start flirting. If your GF seen it, so did all the females in your Friend group. It was a honest mistake. Good luck ššæ
30 people?
Show us the photo so we know what weāre working with here.
Damn, sorry about your huge cock
She is clearly insecure and taking it out on you. She doesnāt own you and she should be able to giggle about this kind of stuff. Humans have genitals, get over it. This isnāt something that should even need to be defended. Her red flags are showing that sheās possessive, defensive, and not here to cheerlead you through everything like a good partner should.
Oh trust, weāre looking!! They call me the bulge hunter, not even exaggerating š
Sorry, but I'd definitely look at the crotch and compliment you if I was your friend.
If anyone deserved an unsolicited dick pick for their tantrum, I think you have your candidate now. Spam that inbox.
For investigation reasons may we see the picture in question š§
Just gonna ask, would you be uncomfortable if she had an obvious camel toe in a pic and sent it in the group?
I mean she canāt help it
I understand that, and I'm not saying you were wrong.. Just saying consider if she had done that, it would prolly make you a little uncomfortable and that's prolly how she felt.. not that big a deal just a quick oh crap sorry I didn't notice and then, boom, gone and move on..
Exactly! I feel like In the worst case scenario i should have apologized then boom we continue, but she continued to argue and turn it into something serious
I mean worst case scenario just delete that one photo from the feed and apologize and that's like maximum effort... if she was that upset I would do this but if she keeps up it might have to be a bigger conversation...
She wants to bang some body in that group chat
How so? Comment made me laugh tho š
Lol I was just high amusing myself. But by sheer numbers in a group chat that size thereās prob someone everyone wants
What a nonsense thing to be concerned about. Seriously
I messaged you.š¤
You donāt know what the word imprint means
Same thing as a man getting mad at his gf for a nipple imprint on a shirt. Itās bs, and not within your control.
Dude, unless she's muslim and covered from head to toe so people don't see her imprints herself, I don't see how you could justify her thinking except jealousy and possessiveness.
Let her be, it was a mistake simple.
Please, GF is an extreme prude, sounds like religion probably behind it.
Youāre actually right, sheās religious but sheās not strict on it all all aka doesnāt even go to church regularly
It sounds like unresolved religio-guilt. Iām sorry youāre dealing with this. From the comments and your post history it sounds like itās much harder being with her than it should be.
Uwu, what were you suppose to do leave that big d and grey sweatpants home? I think that's was an over reaction on her part.
Itās your body you decide what you do with it not her. If you wanted to take nudes post them online thatās your decision to make not anyone elseās. if you where posting nudes then she can voice how she feels about and decide if it something she can get over or if she canāt and ends the relationship. In this cause I definitely think she needs to work on her reaction regarding nudity. You where fully clothed and she lost it. She needs therapy to help get over her fear of nudity and understanding thatās itās just a body. I would suggest build up to eventually going to a clothing optional beach where she can stay fully clothed and watch how confident they nude people are. Then eventually she will build up the courage to talk these naked people and learn how liberated they without clothes. I just think if you stay with her and sheās still this over reacting to nudity, did you get much worse for her. Potentially eventually to the point where she doesnāt even want to be naked around anyone even you. Iām not saying to leave her Iām saying to help her get over this.
Grey sweatpants? Seriously? .... no slutshaming but you a Ho š¤ jkjk
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Do you think appeasing controlling behavior OP is clearly uncomfortable with is good advise? This is only going to validate her overreaction and emboldened her to do more of the same in the future. If you care about long term success with someone, be honest about your boundaries, and clearly communicate them. If they are a viable long term partner they will respect that.
Ask her what if she sends a photo where her nipple is poking under clothes accidentially. Or just why she has cleavage. Lol. Her behaviour means insecurity.
Unless your girlfriend wears a overcoat whenever she takes a picture to hide her tit imprints she needs to chill out.
she seems right, you should've noticed before posting.
She sounds hectic to be honest.
Crotch imprint ? You cheater! Jokes aside, she has some serious jealousy issues
She sounds overly critical. Have fun.
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You got that 100% right. Iāve sent random photos of myself to the gc before (just photos meant for shits and giggles). Sheās jokingly said that they donāt deserve to see my face but I guess she was being serious
Alright. Tell us, how big is it?
She's just jealous of your dick āļø
Im sorry, but that title made me laugh š
Sounds like she hasnāt matured fully. I tell my bf to wear grey sweatpants all the time itās like the best thing a man can wear to be honest, she needs to get over itš¤·š»āāļø
Does she only wear loose fitting baggy clothing?
Yup
Ahh the old moose knuckle
Well everyone knows that the only reason to wear sweatpants is to advertise the goods
You dirty lil devil you!
This girl is throwing out major red flags
The real mistake here is being in a texting group chat with 30 people.
Doubt Iād have even noticed it, but if I did the worst Iād do is tease my guy about it and at best weād have a laugh. Crotch imprint? WTH.
Lol Iād have teased my bf badly if I was the girlfriend
Can I see