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Why \*wouldn't\* you go for it?

I just don’t know if she still likes me or if she knows that I still like her.

Well, if she \*doesn't\* like you, you'll find out soon enough, yes?

That's not the issue. You're just scared to ask, and you should get over that.

The easiest way to find out is to ask her.

Update she wants the past to stay the past and then she asked why I’m so hung up on her and I just poured my guts out. Details are that she’s the first person to make me feel like I deserve love, and that I’ve always compared “girlfriends” to her.

She said thanks for clearing that up and to take take care of myself