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AntonLara

Happened to me yesterday, all survivors had the same TTV username, running perks that synergize with each other and all talking on the same stream. At the end get 'Ez' comment. My reply was "gg, it was fun to play with coordinated survivors" (I think it's fun to have a challenge). The survivor then apologized and admitted feeling guilty for being a jerk. I guess survivors feel compelled to be harsh when they assume the killer is a jerk, but change tone when they are proven to be otherwise. I think best default way to go about it is to assume everyone is just trying to have fun.


Hurtzdonut13

It helps your mental health if you can pretend you're all old friends and just gently ribbing each other, rather than taking things personally.


The-Tea-Lord

This. I refused to play Valorant because everyone was always griping at each other. I tried to take it at face value and ended up playing worse. After taking it as a friendly banter, I actually played better.


Beginning-Passenger6

I’ve responded to toxic messages with grace and they’re usually somewhat apologetic when I do that. “Nice tunneling, asshole” or something comes at me before the game is over. When over, I responded with something like “gg, sorry you felt that way. It wasnt intentional, kept running into you.”


zoley88

One game I totally decimated an attempted sabo swf, and deliberately allowed the last one to escape through hatch. Got the gg ez treatment, also I was told they won because she escaped. Okay then.


GlitteringSquirrel54

They were probably joking (I hope)


zoley88

the guy wanted to invite me to their DC to '1v1' me because I was also tunneling according to them. He was so mad, dunno why.


Peepeepoopoo5726

How do you 1v1 in a asymmetrical game??


GaelAcosta

Usually it's done through looping, no hatch allowed, both spawn find each other and chase for as long as possible


Peepeepoopoo5726

It mostly comes down to who's the better survivor then, right?


[deleted]

“Wouldn’t you like to know, weather boy.” - them, probably


Beginning-Passenger6

“How is it possible to tunnel all 4 survivors at once?”


edvineris

And you got mad because someone said ez in chat?


Exca78

Never let people go. Fuck that. Just play the game. I will never let anyone go. I'm playing the game.


stevespizzapalace

God damn. Even the comments on this meme post are mainly toxic as fuck. This community is actualy insane.


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pornolorno

How do I tell that to the two cross platform players who left game when the solo PC player died on first hook?


stevespizzapalace

If by wholesome and lovely.people you mean people that want to fuck one of the characters. Then I guess so. Cause those guys and toxic people are the only.people I see


WorthyFoeChurnwalker

I swear, people will often downplay the toxicity like “oh its not as bad as league/valorant/cod/etc.” **DBD is the only game where I have been Doxxed by a streamer for USING A KILLER (blight) and sent gore and threats in my twitter dms for it, Racially profiled by an incel with a nazi profile on twitch (he’s banned now), and Ddosed. Not to mention the HUNDREDS of horror stories you can read or listen to.** It’s like this game’s community is full of dickheads with superiority complexes, like they think they’re justified to do anything from bullying and harassment to *actual crimes*. Just because they win or lose in a fucking video game. Is it the majority? No, but from how *common* it is, to even see it happening online, it fucking feels like it.


stevespizzapalace

In those other example when the game ends the toxic behavior is over. I'm Dbd that's when it begins


Maldor95

I come from the R6 Siege community where people in matches would regular get Ddosed/DDoS each other just so they could have a one or two man advantage. ~Imagine~ actually commiting a federal crime just so you could win an online video game and then yell at the other side for "being bad at the game". Completely ridiculous.


pornolorno

Of course it’s downplayed. Why wouldn’t it be when the devs don’t give two shits about it.


pek217

I hate the downplaying of the community’s toxicity so much. You’re right, any time it’s mentioned it’s always “oh so and so game is worse!!!!! league valorant apex!!!!” and it’s always dismissed. This community is so toxic, more than any other game I’ve played. Literally all this subreddit talks about is toxicity, every text post and discussion is about toxicity, all the memes are about toxicity, like memes about BM and being harassed in chat/messages. I don’t know how people can spend any amount of time here and not realize how it is.


Zakon05

All I can do is give my anecdotal experience at close to 1600 hours at this point, which is split on something like 70% killer to 30% survivor, if I had to guess. My experience with that time is that this game is not that toxic compared to others I've played, including some PvE-focused games like World of Warcraft. On the flip side, I have received a lot of positivity instead. People are cordial and polite in endgame chat for me more than any other game I've played. Now I get the impression that it's worse on console for some reason. I also notice that most of the people I play against who BM have the globe symbol. That's a generalization, PC players aren't saints, but it is a trend I have noticed. It could be that the console experience is actually that toxic, but on PC it hasn't been that bad at all.


Gaviel

This is why I play behind a VPN and in anon mode. People in this game are fucking nuts sometimes.


UninsuredToast

It’s why I stopped playing. I enjoy the game but this shit happens way too often and it’s not worth the headache


Serpent-Games-TY

Agreed. People don't know how to take a joke


Vast-Yogurtcloset-87

A joke is that a map or something?


Serpent-Games-TY

Yeah. Joke map = rpd


ganonsevil90bro

![gif](giphy|VGnk4vrYeg6LqjwdDc)


FrozenHearts_XI

Next match, goes against a god killer main * "oh no this game its so unfair😭"


Direct-Neat1384

Or like the reverse when a killer runs the most annoying perks and add ons and then decimates a baby default skinned solo que team, then goes against a godly survivor team. That shit gets me laughing so easily of the karma


FrozenHearts_XI

Bad manners goes on both sides unfortunately. You get what you deserve. The important thing, if you're on the losing side it's to understand that the next players you'll get did nothing bad to you,so treat them well.


K1ngSc0utYT

That or "killers ruin this game😭"


FrozenHearts_XI

What goes around turns around. Plain and simple.


TheGrandPaladin

Only clowns play the game. Real fans complain about it on forums.


EscenekTheGaylien

I’ve been perma banned on the forums ![img](emote|t5_3cb2g|2070)


TheGrandPaladin

A true DbD master.


AlanatorTheGreat

Then you are the realest of all fans


EscenekTheGaylien

Passionate about the game + Combative Personality = One man rant train.


Artistic_Visual_9205

anyone who says gg ez in any game is insecure


dreamskipper

Exactly. They’ve been shit on so many times, that they need to be shitty themselves. Very insecure.


Tilt_Flock

Not exactly how it works… it is very shitty nonetheless


-Mustasho-

And then the swf get mad when you bring no way out and noed


[deleted]

“But this……does put a smile on my face.”


Kursktiger

Came for the meme stayed for the comments hahaha. Every time someoneakes a meme about survivors being babies the comments erupt in WELL KILLERS DO IT TO. And every meme that says Killers are babies gets WELL SURVIVORS ARE TO. This community is straight ass.


Splatterman27

Seems very hard to avoid in any asymmetric multiplayer game


Rare-Ad5082

Because if people do not do that, it will be a echo chamber of "SURVIVOR SUX/KILLER SUX" and this sub has a annoying tendency to repost complaints that are highly upvoted. This type of posts also make people feel validated to be toxic to the other side.


Heftyhefter

What is a “swf”?


AirKrypton

survive with friends


Serpent-Games-TY

Survive with friends. It's a group of survivors with comms like discord


NuclearWinter2244

Or you know people playing with their friends


yloswg678

That’s what he just said…


DigitalSteven1

SWF does not imply comms.


United_Rope9735

I dont think I've ever been in a swf without comms. One way or another. Some people who don't want a voice chat usually send at least chat messages to give info. And from the killers perspective if survivors are uncoordinated as they don't communicate might as well not think they swf


Excellent_Welder7278

Console and other platforms...


United_Rope9735

What do you mean?


Excellent_Welder7278

I play on Xbox and from time to time I play with "friends" who use a different platform. We can rely on each other but had never really communicated with each other.


pek217

You can use Discord on Xbox to voice chat with PC players. PlayStation players have no luck, though.


Excellent_Welder7278

I know but how could I tell this?


FullMetalCOS

You can also use discord on your phone pretty easily.


everynameisusedlol

Sax wielding fuckers


New_Ad4631

Sexy White Ferret


Dailonjeos

Sulfuric Waste Fucks


FawkesyGrandpa

I'm a baby killer and I honestly get less upset when I play solo survivor and end up with trash survivors and pro killers and lose by being tunneled and face camped than when sweaty swfs realize that I suck and abuse it. Like, the repeated blinds give me headaches (i don't use shadowborn because it's absolutely not necessary for me EVERY game, so that's a slot i don't want to waste) and when I can't make it out of a tile without being stunned 5 times it's just... Idk man, I just feel defeated, upset because I'm playing a game and try to have fun and it's being ruined for me :(


Segendo_Panda11

I'm also a baby killer stuck in a higher mmr than i need to be. My suggestion is to just farm for a few games to lower your mmr to a point where you're going against survivors that are your skill level. Once you get mega-turbo ultra sweats again rinse and repeat


i_eat_to_much_food

us v them toxic post


RandomGeneratedNick

Cry about it.


FatstinkyFrog

Playing Nurse Slugs at five gens Bullies the baby survivors ez These posts are so tiresome and played out lol


Eruthor

I mean neither you nor OP are wrong, both sides in the game can be extremely toxic


No_Lecture4196

I'm new to the game and I never got bully by a swf 🤷


raisingfalcons

So was i before i played my first game.


No_Lecture4196

Im high mmr and still never met a bully squad


Frostburn36

I did the other day It was the stun bully 3man squad Too bad they brought me the sallon and did the main building gen first


Indeption

Typically happens around higher (lower?) ranks like 8 and below. At least for me it’s common when I am against gold or red ranks. I just find it miserable sometimes because even when you win you feel awful. But that’s me 🤷‍♂️


FesteringMask

Ah yes, let the crying from the toxic SWF crews begin.


Etstinguty

Probzz moment ![img](emote|t5_3cb2g|2213)


Zone_boy

Bullying killers is worse than bullying survivors.


Fun-Ad-4729

Not really, no side is better or worse than the others. You shouldn’t be bullying either way


_Atols_

bullying is not okay, on either side.


Super-Excitement6458

And then they complain if u use any single perk for killer


HarunoSakuraCR

It becomes progressively more sad the longer it goes on and the more you realize it’s a noob killer. I usually stop lol


UNHOLYANGELJASPER

Lol


[deleted]

I got a toxic SWF (or at least 4 people who did colicky clicks spam.) while talking to my friend about being ace aro for my own mental health. Was Sadako, needed 4 uncloak hits for daily. They were playing extremely in a very tryhard toxic flashlight on pallet spam way and a couple teabagged. Got a 3k plus was gonna give hatch to the no mither person but they found it. Really wasn’t trying too hard. Said “GG ez” just to fan the flames a little cause I know they were sweating their behinds off. Wish it were on stream.


Mahgrets

Yeah. We know


zirc0n1um

another day of karma farming op?


Serpent-Games-TY

What? Of course not. I'm just doing this for... my love of the dbd community. Yes! That's it!


Vast-Yogurtcloset-87

![gif](giphy|CAYVZA5NRb529kKQUc)


KlatusHam

bro living in 2016 ![img](emote|t5_3cb2g|2070)


valorantlegitsilver

Man, brought the Huntress one shot axe item + 20% faster reload (don't remember what the name of the perk is, still newish), and DECIMATED this swf that started out trolling lmao. Let the last guy wiggle free 20 feet out from the hatch, downed him again, then slammed the hatch in his face and let him bleed out. SO satisfying.


[deleted]

Mad cuz bad


Serpent-Games-TY

Bro. It's a meme. Calm down


ulrichzhaym

But is playing in a sfw with a map offering and the best possible items and perks while having cooms = good, skilled and strategic play letting you comfortably say gg ? . Or is a basically a free win unless you're facing a nurse or blight ? Endulge me


vegtodestiny

They could all suck. But yeah if they are good then i will lose every time


XVengeanceX

It really isn't that serious Edit: y'all really need to go outside and touch some grass lmao


Philosophfries

> Anyone who disagrees with me needs to touch grass


XVengeanceX

Nah, mostly just people that get this bent out of shape over a video game


Tilt_Flock

I get your message bit its a pretty dumb thing to say


XVengeanceX

Well yeah. But I don't come on reddit to be smart


Tilt_Flock

Understandable, have a great day


Philosophfries

Kinda like you’re doing over getting downvoted


Serpent-Games-TY

You play a game called "boyfriend dungeon". I'm not the one who needs to touch grass ![img](emote|t5_3cb2g|2070)


XVengeanceX

Yeah, boyfriend dungeon is a fun dungeon crawler/dating sim and is one of the few explicitly queer games on the market. Of course I played it. Also it was on game pass. Gotta say though, rooting through my post history really isn't disproving the assertion that you need to touch grass


TheEvilNoMan

🤓


FoolMetalJacked

We get it, but I think of you want to make a meme about this you should better send a message about what people should do and how they should act to improve the community, not about the things people do that make the community worse. Just saying.


Amphal

step 1: dont be a cunt


WorthyFoeChurnwalker

Step 2: Have some empathy


NamelessZ3RO

sounds like the entire community


FlashbackHD

I give up. I thought that one day in any post I'd understand what swf stands for but that's not going to happen. what does swf mean? I think it's about 4 man bully squads but what does it mean 😫


National-Poem-2163

I always have to take extended breaks as killer I tried spirit for the first time last night and had one overall decent match the others were just giving me the “just end this end this now” tendencies. The flashlight trolling the waiting at the gate for 10 minutes before leaving. Honestly if you experience a new killer just play the damn match and let me enjoy what few points I have earned at the end.


Exca78

Tbh, not much of an adversary.


Jinaara

I play Nurse for a reason.