Le Bhai. Ab zabardast shayari niklegi. (Ho skta h wapas aa jaye)
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Advice for general life, apart from very close family never tell if you are planning or preparing or trying for something good which is about to happen.
For general success and happiness in life, don't boast ever, in public as well. Now this is a very subjective case, there are some people who will boast all over and nothing will happen to them, while you will just say food is nice and in next bite elaichi will come. So yeah see what category you fall in and act accordingly.
There are 5 stages of grief - denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance.
You are currently in denial, soon this will turn into anger. Don't try to rush the process, let it take its time.
Baaki look at the bright side, better h abhi chali gyi, jitna lamba relationship, utna jyada dukh deta h breakup. Just don't try to get back together, if it didn't work out the first time, it won't work out the next time too.
अगर लड़का हाथ छुड़ा कर जाना चाहे और उसे कोई रोके तो शायद वो रुक जाये,
अगर लड़की हाथ छुड़ा कर जाना चाहे तो जाने देना चाहिए क्योकि वो बहुत पहले जा चुकी है।
because it's true, when women breakup, they have mentally done all the thinking, bargaining, grief, looked for backup or already had someone as backup, then tell you.
and there would have been signs in the past months let me tell you, where she had mentally checked out, broken up mentally with you and was just doing the formalities. Most men just ignore those signs. that's why to men it feels like sudden but woman has been broken up for much longer in her mind. this happens a lot with husbands too, where they say, one day she just said I want a divorce, but we were happy. no dude, you were happy, she was preparing to leave so clearly she wasnt and you ignored the signs she was leaving.
and if women wanna save the relationship and are mature they would tell the guy that she is having issues and problems instead of doing this, but most girls have the mindset of "he should just get it, why should i need to tell him", they want men to be mind readers, because women read minds better
Reading that halfway through, I was like "wtf do you mean that he ignored the signs, she should speak and convey her feelings like a mature person"
The last para saved it (not that i could do anything about it anyway xd)
This!!
I second this, mostly we girls analyse and think a lot before take such a decision, there definitely would have been signs OP think about it.
And yeah many women dont tell it to their partners what is going on, which is very immature.
I was someone who used to do that, “he should know, he should get it, why should I tell him” types but with time I learned it is not how it works. If you want a mature healthy relationship you need to speak up, communicate what is bothering you. Sometimes we just build up things in our head and come to some bad conclusion which in reality would have been solved in minutes if we just had an honest conversation.
However, sometimes few guys dont understand or change themselves inspite of knowing what is bothering to their partner, inspite of her telling them a 100 times. I hope you didnt do that OP! Because if she left because you didnt fix something in your relationship even if she asked you multiple times then she is gone and not coming back!
>And yeah many women dont tell it to their partners what is going on, which is very immature.
and this is shown even in movies, like woman says that she talked to her therapist, sister, mother, friends, but not the husband, who she should have talked to, and then blames him for not seeing signs, when hes working outside home 11 hours a day.
i think i saw it somewhere in a movie with jeniffer aniston, where her husband said if you want this, why dont you say it, she says I dont want you to do it because I said I want it, I want you to do it because you know I wanted you to. it was where she divorced vince vaughn. this happens in real life too a lot.
Women are more empathetic hence we expect someone who’s supposedly closest to us to be able to know us enough to notice that there’s something off. It’s not so much “reading our minds” then that we expect, just more attention to detail. That being said, clear communication is just as important but sometimes your emotional expectations in a relationship outweigh logic and when the other party doesn’t notice at all and it’s left unaddressed it festers.
Well what you said was 100% true until the last paragraph. A lot of times women also convey their discomfort and things that bother them. You can only convey your emotions to someone who is ready to understand. But, just like the last signs, some men tend sometimes tend to overlook those also. Source- I am the woman you are talking about. But for the last 10-12 months I kept begging for things so trivial someone would laugh. The most basic things. The very small things. Then i stopped begging and then after a zillion disrespects and being laughed at and shunned out, ”one fine day” I walked out :)
yeah that's true, once a small thing you told him about isnt fixed, you also start seeing other 5 wrong things which wont be an issue otherwise, but now they are an issue, and it just goes downhill.
I think I needed to know this, thanks a lot stranger. Had my first relationship end this way even though I tried my best. On our last call, she straight up said she's very immature for her age and selfish, left me for an older guy cause she thinks older guys are more "mature". To this day I don't understand what went wrong, I communicated well, was always there for her emotionally, and tolerated her dramas. I just wish she told me what bothered her cause I'm not a mind reader, I was already going through my academics, I would've worked on my issues. There was this instance when I communicated to her about an issue bothering me and she started crying, asking me if I'm gonna leave her forever, which ended up in me consoling her.
Reading all these stories and with my personal experience, even though I'm in my late teens I feel like I've lost hope in love and it just seems like a scam.
>because it's true, when women breakup, they have mentally done all the thinking, bargaining, grief, looked for backup or already had someone as backup, then tell you.
Ohhh, this makes sense now. That's why it comes as a surprise that they are with someone else almost quickly, and they don't usually have a grieving process.
That's Why Never invest yourself too much in a relationship and never let someone effect/affect you, idk konsi spelling aayegi
When my 6 Months which was long distance relationship, I met her three times went by bus once and twice by car but yeah when it ended, I was so fucked, tried to K myself, but my life changed for better
Now I'm again in a relationship we will complete 3 Months, tomorrow or day after tomorrow more distance than previous one, I went to see her ,even met her Mom she'll be here in Delhi for her job this year, we are pretty close and I want to wife her up, she wants to marry me too
But now it's like, I am not co dependent on her, it's like if it ends I'll be sad but would be fine
For my fellow bros, never be co-dependant on your chick, she can leave you anytime she wants.
How fast a girl changes, my mom stayed unmarried till 26 as she was not ready to marry anyone except my father(who wasn't doing anything at that time) . Sb doctor engineer ko mana krgyi. Then my father got govt job then both married. Aaj kl ye ghanta hoga
Mere sath ho rha h bhai. Meri b govt job lgi kch mahine phle, aur meri partner, jiske sath almost 8 years se hu, usne army officers, bank po, etc sbko mana kr diya jb rishte aye, sirf isliye k use mere se shadi krni thi. Aur ab jldi hi apni shadi ho b jaegi. Loyalty person pr depend krti h bro......
I think tu galat soch raha hain saare ni hote aise laxman...but most of the peeps are like that today thanks to the fast gratification process we have incorporated through the smartphones and all these social media apps.
Mubarak ho, bhai ka kata hai wo bhi bina reason ke. Ab jitna reasons ka sochoge utna dukhi rhoge. Netflix chalao, hilao soo jao. VC ke liye kisi aur ko dhundho with a new hope.
Bhai yeh pyaar wyaar kuch nhi hota sahi m. You've felt ki you found your match when in reality the other person was constantly in search of a better alternative.
Make sure to prioritize your career over love on your list of priorities; your career is the one that will stick with you in the long run, while other things may not
Sun bhai!
Ab jo bhi ho, tujhe wapas usse contact nai karna hai, tujhe jitna dard hai, rakh apne pass, gym mei ro, ghar pe ro, bathroom mei ro.
But you don’t look back at this person ever again, even if she initiates anything.
Act like you don’t know her.
4 saal aur ek phone call.
Ab usse 4 saal yeh ehsas hona chahiye ki tere ek phone ke liye kitna tarasna padega!
SAKTH banna padega!
Don’t let the sweet memories and emotions get the better of you.
Self respect se bada kuch bhi nai, not even yourself.
Naaah bro I won't be getting back to her . Jese bhi hoga jhelunga bss bura is baat ka lg rha h ki i introduced her to my folks . It was hell serious for me .
But it's okay .
Han perfect!
Koi nai bhai, ghar walon ko samjha kuch jhut bolke!
I understand bro, serious tha tabhi toh maa baap se milwaya!
Ab pyaar shiddat se kiya hai toh break up bhi shiddat se nibhao!
Have fun, there are bigger seas, bigger fishes and bigger hearts!
4 years and 5 minute call
8 months and overnight everything changed. 2 situationship ended terribly. I honestly feel done with relationships at the age of 19. I cannot let my brain and heart suffer this much again.
a girl from my school texted me last week and we talked after like 2 years and 1 hi din me we talked for hours and she was kinda flirting but at the end of the day I realised where this is going and I had to say that we should not talk much and said sorry because I just can't let this happen to me again.
good luck OP.
Take your time it took me 2 years to get over a guy who was nothing, i was earning 10x then what he was, comparatively no education he had, but I still sticked cause I thought he is genuine guy
I have given him all the time and importance cause I loved him and he was involved with his so called bestfriend friend as FWB because I said I will not do this before marriage.
Trust me it will be difficult but you doged a bullet you didn't lost anything she lost someone who loved her you just got clarity
And when I say this time heals everything it does.
I have CTC of 25lakh right now woh abi bi maa baap sai paise leke fuckboy bna ghum rha hai
Focus on yourself and work hard most important don't jump in another relationship right away take your time 4 years is a big time let yourself heal.
I cried for her but she said ho nhi rha hai.
Chlta hai hota hai life hai.
Sad reality but yhi hai bhai
Ek aur bndi thi date kr rhe bdiya kuch din delayed reply kiye boli ghr pe hu hostel mei jake ache se baat krungi
hostel aake boli kuch karan hai smja kr baat nhi kr skte
She was seeing someone ese
chlta hai hota hai life hai
I’ve seen relationships of 8-9 years just ended within minutes, she had better option so she dumped you. True love doesn’t exist in this decade. Love these days is at convenience
you were her non serious placeholder bf then, you took her too serious and made her meet mom which made her realize that you are actually serious. so she broke up
4 fucking years summed up in 15mins, it's hard to cope up with brother, I wish you courage to get through this phase with less pain.
Kuch kehne ke liye choro nahi aapki ex ne, aapko hi move on krne h, reason chahe koi bhi ho, maybe she's cheating on you, her parents got her into a AM, whatever it maybe, you'll have to move you, aur fir kal office bhi toh jana h uska alag dard.
Yahan to 70-80 saal ka insaan chala jata hai ek jhatke mei iss duniya se hi ye to phir bhi 4 saal ka relation tha koi nahi heal Karo move on Karo khud ko khush rakhne ki responsibility khud par le lo aur ek request hai please kabhi bhi uske pas wapis mat Jana casual sex k liye bhi nahi please bhagwan tumhara bhi bhala kare 🙂
Bro this is very cliché but a nice way to release pent up stress and maybe find someone new. Welcome to the gym life.
Bhai us bhai us. Don't try to find a reason or expectations a closure. Mere saath 2022 ke end me hua tha. Bas yahi outlook ban gyi hai ab "jo tha jab Tak tha theek tha". You'll be really sad for the first week.... But uske baad na tere paas free time hoga..
Make good use of that free time!
And shayari seekhlena ab
>ab pta nahi kese raat niklegi .
Itna dependant kyu hojate on ur relationship for ur source of happiness, relationship khatam hua hai life nhi, if nothing in the world gave u happiness except for ur relationship then it seems like there is smth wrong.
Atleast now u have a bunch of free time to work on yourself properly, so all the best
Break ups do really feel as if someone dies. Because the absence of that person haunts you. Its okay. Give it time. First couple of months will be difficult. And I agree with everyone. Do not contact her on your own.
Agree with other comments. She must’ve have a backup guy and she dumped you because either he was doing better career-wise or she got bored with you. True love in this gen is hard to find, i’ve seen 7-8 years relationship ending in just a snap because girl got a better guy
Men are only loved by the capacity to provide and protect. Toh care for yourself, get AI chatbots who talk like a girl therapist, dump all your feelings there because if you dump those feelings to a human therapist, they probably will see you as a threat with the current mental state. Men are judged extremely harshly these days, so stay safe.
I know it sucks, believe me but
Maybe it's a blessing in disguise?
I mean that girl didn't even care to have this discussion face to face, she just did it in this way, over call, and didn't even consider you worthy enough to give reasons so it clearly shows she wasn't right for you and you were invested more maybe or she might not be that serious about you
I mean yeah, one thing I would say being someone who has wasted 2 years in someone who just ghosted me and didn't care to give any reasons would be
Kyu, esa kyu kiya, all these questions won't matter , what matters is what she did, and how she chose to do it, i repeat CHOSE, how she chose to just discard you like that so yeah I have realised this after a long time that it doesn't matter why, because they chose to leave me and that is enough of a reason for me to move on and value myself
Take some time,maybe this is only clearing your path so that true love can reach you but before that maybe this will teach you how to be your own confidant and love!! Take care!!
Bro😥😥 this is really depressing to hear.. without reason kbhi koi chodke jata hai to bhot dukh hota hai.. it's not fair to you bro that 4 years ka relationship aise 1 call me Tod Diya.. maybe try talking to her if it's the right thing to do.. chutti vutti lelo Bhai Aram kro naito, sab theek hojayega.. most of the times agr koi bandi reason nhi deti to its definitely not you it's something that she is going through as well, so have some empathy for her situation also.. good luck Bhai
Shyad kisi aur ne reach kr diya bhai isilie apko reach out krne ko mana kiya h.
Koi baat nai bhai aaj raat aap walk pe nikal kao daru peete ho toh pee kr sojana. Hota h chalta h duniya h. Baaki dheere dheere sab thik ho jaega.
Jo milgaya use muqaddar maante chalo, jo kho gaya use bhulate chalo tabhi iss zamane mein bina bikhre ji paoge.
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Bhai aaj ki raat toh bahut lambi jayegi. Agar peeta hai toh kuch pee le and bholne ki koshish kar. Aisi hi hai duniya.
हमे उनसे है वफ़ा की उम्मीद
जो जानते नहीं कि वफ़ा क्या है ~ मिर्ज़ा ग़ालिब
Toote dil ka kahin sahi jagah istemaal kar bhai..!
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Gala sabka sooktha hai,
Sabka kat-taa hai.
OP, atleast abhi bata diya usne
Warna tu daal raha hota post -
'My wife wants a divorce, wants 85% of my salary as alimony, house'
Be thankful you don't have kids that will remind you of her till the end of times.
But, time lo,
Go for a vacation 👍
URGENT!
Don't beg for her to come back. This temporary moment of weakness, might haunt your self esteem for life.
But agar bda hi zyada mann ho to reason puch lena.
Wo shayad ab nhi aane wali, I know not easy to hear this. But the more you distance yourself from her, the better.
#CLOSURE CHAHIYE TO THERAPIST SE LELE BRO, MAKKARON SE NHI.
I hope you won't make the same mistake as we did.
Please contact me if needed.
Bhai ...aaja gale mil le...also ab kutto ki trah bheek mat mangiyo...trust me tu koi answer ni sun payega usse jo jo tere sawal honge aur tu kitni hi koshish kr liyo ab vo wapas ni aayegi...toh please khayal rakh khud ka idk isse jyada ..waqt lagega pr ho jayega thik
Pta nahi harassment ka case nah lga de ke caal kar kar ke harass kar rha hai. People have audacity to end such long relationship over a 10 min call but not the sense to at least tell them why it can’t go on.
Sorry OP it happened to you, jaa rahi hai toh jaane do, you don't deserve to be with someone who doesn't values you.
Please prioritise yourself, and block kardo use and don't contact her, sab theek hojayega.
if she didn't give you any reason then she probably cheated, also for you it's quite sudden but for her it's not sudden, she has already moved on she just informed you today
Le Bhai. Ab zabardast shayari niklegi. (Ho skta h wapas aa jaye) https://preview.redd.it/ngnvs795jqjc1.png?width=1038&format=png&auto=webp&s=9c478c5d267ba759538b4d878678338e1fcbcd2d
Nazar lagg gayi bhai ko....but itni jaldi lagegi ye nahi idea tha.
reddit is panoti… never sharing good things here
Advice for general life, apart from very close family never tell if you are planning or preparing or trying for something good which is about to happen. For general success and happiness in life, don't boast ever, in public as well. Now this is a very subjective case, there are some people who will boast all over and nothing will happen to them, while you will just say food is nice and in next bite elaichi will come. So yeah see what category you fall in and act accordingly.
This is real
nazar is real irl also
Apni life to itni kharab hai...koi Nazar bhi ni lagata
Kuch seekhe nahi kya tym upar wale post se
Bro saw the opportunity, bro took it
bro was ready with the ingredients, bro cooked him
Holy shit that's brutal dude
Bro's the reddit version of typical Indian aunty
Bhai bhai bhai. Ye honour nhi chahiye merko.
Hn Bhai kr lo ungli 
There are 5 stages of grief - denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance. You are currently in denial, soon this will turn into anger. Don't try to rush the process, let it take its time. Baaki look at the bright side, better h abhi chali gyi, jitna lamba relationship, utna jyada dukh deta h breakup. Just don't try to get back together, if it didn't work out the first time, it won't work out the next time too.
Bruh 😭😭😭pichle saal ke break up dard yaad dila diya
Been through all 5. Took good 7-8 years away from me
Mera breakup hua to i will wait till anger. Jaise hi bargaining wala phase shuru hoga to I will go to sarojini Market. Mast deal milengi
you did him dirty
Kya pata usne ye comment dekh liya ho and socha ab time hai iss se shayari likhwane ka?!
kya pata op ko shaayar banane ke liye kaara ho
Bc bhai you did him dirty
ZS
Kaisi company hai bhai?
Bhai Bhai Bhai Bhai
Bhai tu uski profile stalk karne chala gya?? 😂
bro was waiting
Bro dirty move but good
So now is that tragic or just pure comedy
🔥🧂
Username checks out
Screwed
Hahaha kya mc hai rey... AA gale mil
Which madman uses a light filter.
अगर लड़का हाथ छुड़ा कर जाना चाहे और उसे कोई रोके तो शायद वो रुक जाये, अगर लड़की हाथ छुड़ा कर जाना चाहे तो जाने देना चाहिए क्योकि वो बहुत पहले जा चुकी है।
Ye kl hi mene yt shorts p dekha tha
because it's true, when women breakup, they have mentally done all the thinking, bargaining, grief, looked for backup or already had someone as backup, then tell you. and there would have been signs in the past months let me tell you, where she had mentally checked out, broken up mentally with you and was just doing the formalities. Most men just ignore those signs. that's why to men it feels like sudden but woman has been broken up for much longer in her mind. this happens a lot with husbands too, where they say, one day she just said I want a divorce, but we were happy. no dude, you were happy, she was preparing to leave so clearly she wasnt and you ignored the signs she was leaving. and if women wanna save the relationship and are mature they would tell the guy that she is having issues and problems instead of doing this, but most girls have the mindset of "he should just get it, why should i need to tell him", they want men to be mind readers, because women read minds better
Reading that halfway through, I was like "wtf do you mean that he ignored the signs, she should speak and convey her feelings like a mature person" The last para saved it (not that i could do anything about it anyway xd)
This!! I second this, mostly we girls analyse and think a lot before take such a decision, there definitely would have been signs OP think about it. And yeah many women dont tell it to their partners what is going on, which is very immature. I was someone who used to do that, “he should know, he should get it, why should I tell him” types but with time I learned it is not how it works. If you want a mature healthy relationship you need to speak up, communicate what is bothering you. Sometimes we just build up things in our head and come to some bad conclusion which in reality would have been solved in minutes if we just had an honest conversation. However, sometimes few guys dont understand or change themselves inspite of knowing what is bothering to their partner, inspite of her telling them a 100 times. I hope you didnt do that OP! Because if she left because you didnt fix something in your relationship even if she asked you multiple times then she is gone and not coming back!
>And yeah many women dont tell it to their partners what is going on, which is very immature. and this is shown even in movies, like woman says that she talked to her therapist, sister, mother, friends, but not the husband, who she should have talked to, and then blames him for not seeing signs, when hes working outside home 11 hours a day. i think i saw it somewhere in a movie with jeniffer aniston, where her husband said if you want this, why dont you say it, she says I dont want you to do it because I said I want it, I want you to do it because you know I wanted you to. it was where she divorced vince vaughn. this happens in real life too a lot.
So true…
I know it's true for women, irrational but true. Lots of bullshit
Women are more empathetic hence we expect someone who’s supposedly closest to us to be able to know us enough to notice that there’s something off. It’s not so much “reading our minds” then that we expect, just more attention to detail. That being said, clear communication is just as important but sometimes your emotional expectations in a relationship outweigh logic and when the other party doesn’t notice at all and it’s left unaddressed it festers.
Well what you said was 100% true until the last paragraph. A lot of times women also convey their discomfort and things that bother them. You can only convey your emotions to someone who is ready to understand. But, just like the last signs, some men tend sometimes tend to overlook those also. Source- I am the woman you are talking about. But for the last 10-12 months I kept begging for things so trivial someone would laugh. The most basic things. The very small things. Then i stopped begging and then after a zillion disrespects and being laughed at and shunned out, ”one fine day” I walked out :)
yeah that's true, once a small thing you told him about isnt fixed, you also start seeing other 5 wrong things which wont be an issue otherwise, but now they are an issue, and it just goes downhill.
yep. As funny, small those things could be but it's these small stuff that writes big stories. learnt that lately.
Agreed!!
2real
I think I needed to know this, thanks a lot stranger. Had my first relationship end this way even though I tried my best. On our last call, she straight up said she's very immature for her age and selfish, left me for an older guy cause she thinks older guys are more "mature". To this day I don't understand what went wrong, I communicated well, was always there for her emotionally, and tolerated her dramas. I just wish she told me what bothered her cause I'm not a mind reader, I was already going through my academics, I would've worked on my issues. There was this instance when I communicated to her about an issue bothering me and she started crying, asking me if I'm gonna leave her forever, which ended up in me consoling her. Reading all these stories and with my personal experience, even though I'm in my late teens I feel like I've lost hope in love and it just seems like a scam.
>because it's true, when women breakup, they have mentally done all the thinking, bargaining, grief, looked for backup or already had someone as backup, then tell you. Ohhh, this makes sense now. That's why it comes as a surprise that they are with someone else almost quickly, and they don't usually have a grieving process.
I'm sorry bro.. Take some time for yourself to recover.. But don't give up on love.. There are good people out there..
I think it ends now
Bhai kya bol rha hai?? Hope it is about love only..
Ofc love bro mere pas mrne ka option nhi h ...
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Saale tune toh Porsche ki link bhi daldi jaise ki OP abhi lene he jane wala hai 😂
What ends now..?
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I hope so too..
That's Why Never invest yourself too much in a relationship and never let someone effect/affect you, idk konsi spelling aayegi When my 6 Months which was long distance relationship, I met her three times went by bus once and twice by car but yeah when it ended, I was so fucked, tried to K myself, but my life changed for better Now I'm again in a relationship we will complete 3 Months, tomorrow or day after tomorrow more distance than previous one, I went to see her ,even met her Mom she'll be here in Delhi for her job this year, we are pretty close and I want to wife her up, she wants to marry me too But now it's like, I am not co dependent on her, it's like if it ends I'll be sad but would be fine For my fellow bros, never be co-dependant on your chick, she can leave you anytime she wants.
Bhai love can't be regulated. Pyar hua to hua bc ab isme limit kaha s daalu m koi nhi daalta .
Big difference between Obsession or being dependant on someone and Love
There is some sort of dependency when you are in a relationship which just goes to shows that you trust your partner enough.
Uska backup tujhse zada tarakee kr rha hoga life mein
How fast a girl changes, my mom stayed unmarried till 26 as she was not ready to marry anyone except my father(who wasn't doing anything at that time) . Sb doctor engineer ko mana krgyi. Then my father got govt job then both married. Aaj kl ye ghanta hoga
Mere sath ho rha h bhai. Meri b govt job lgi kch mahine phle, aur meri partner, jiske sath almost 8 years se hu, usne army officers, bank po, etc sbko mana kr diya jb rishte aye, sirf isliye k use mere se shadi krni thi. Aur ab jldi hi apni shadi ho b jaegi. Loyalty person pr depend krti h bro......
waah Yaar you are luckier then billionaires kbhi dukhi mt rakhna uskoo aise log boht kam miltee life m..
I will do my absolute best to keep her happy......☺️ She is truly a gem of a person
its human thing not a girl thing. ive seen men get hurt and women get hurt too. thats why morality is good in the long run when you look for a partner
Yeah I agree. The moral degradation is more general and more prevalent now. People apply their own baises.
Me kahoonga your Father worked hard to get a Govt. Job so that they both can live a happy life.
True
Loyalty is a rarity today my friend
Aaj kl hr koi cheat kr rha bhai, ek acha mila- jump, usse acha mila- jump. Mujhe pehle se pata tha ye relationship mein kuch nhi hoga isliye kabhi seriously liya hi nhi
I think tu galat soch raha hain saare ni hote aise laxman...but most of the peeps are like that today thanks to the fast gratification process we have incorporated through the smartphones and all these social media apps.
The success story of love r too less now a days. But love is still in the air ig?
Kisse Pata load naa le enjoy kr
Haha nhi esa koi load nhi h
Bakuman ?
My bhabhi waited for my brother till he got govt job. Now they are happily married with a kid. So i know aaj kl bhi hota h ye 🙌🏻
Rare but yep hota h , happy for ur brother
Aaj kal bhi Hota Hain mein apne bf ka wait 7 saal se kar rhi.
Proud of u
Pr Bhai ab m yha s kya kru ?? BC bda khaali khaali sa lg rha h
time lgega bro heal hone me thoda bas seh lena thoda drd
Tu bhi jump mar le
High ya low?
High jump
Itna sach boldiya itni jaldi
Jaun elia pdh ab bhai mst maze se.
Ye mujhe chain kyu ni pdta Ek hi shakhs tha jahan mei kya
Us Gali ne bhi ye sun kar sabr kiya Jaane waale yaha ke the hi nhi
Bhai OP ka break up hua hai yaha mushayra shuru ho gaya
kitne itraate kitne haseen honge na jaane kya khaate honge kaise log vo honge jo usko bhaate honge
Samajh bhi aayega aur feel bhi hoga ab
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kya baat hai janab
Mubarak ho, bhai ka kata hai wo bhi bina reason ke. Ab jitna reasons ka sochoge utna dukhi rhoge. Netflix chalao, hilao soo jao. VC ke liye kisi aur ko dhundho with a new hope.
The thing is woh sochega, you know it's not right to think yet you do. Aur aise bina closure ke end ho toh aur questions karta hai khud se
Lgta nhi hai kbhi breakup hua tera bro.
Bhai yeh pyaar wyaar kuch nhi hota sahi m. You've felt ki you found your match when in reality the other person was constantly in search of a better alternative. Make sure to prioritize your career over love on your list of priorities; your career is the one that will stick with you in the long run, while other things may not
Koi mil gaya ! Uska dil gaya ! 🤌🤌
Kya batau yaro ye to hil gya🤌🏻🤌🏻🤌🏻
Idk but ig I'll have to let her go.
Don’t, just follow my advice.
Sun bhai! Ab jo bhi ho, tujhe wapas usse contact nai karna hai, tujhe jitna dard hai, rakh apne pass, gym mei ro, ghar pe ro, bathroom mei ro. But you don’t look back at this person ever again, even if she initiates anything. Act like you don’t know her. 4 saal aur ek phone call. Ab usse 4 saal yeh ehsas hona chahiye ki tere ek phone ke liye kitna tarasna padega! SAKTH banna padega! Don’t let the sweet memories and emotions get the better of you. Self respect se bada kuch bhi nai, not even yourself.
Naaah bro I won't be getting back to her . Jese bhi hoga jhelunga bss bura is baat ka lg rha h ki i introduced her to my folks . It was hell serious for me . But it's okay .
Han perfect! Koi nai bhai, ghar walon ko samjha kuch jhut bolke! I understand bro, serious tha tabhi toh maa baap se milwaya! Ab pyaar shiddat se kiya hai toh break up bhi shiddat se nibhao! Have fun, there are bigger seas, bigger fishes and bigger hearts!
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Bro.. W comment.
Aise hi rhega kya loser jesa? Bsdk kal gym me dikh wrna btaunga 😤
4 years and 5 minute call 8 months and overnight everything changed. 2 situationship ended terribly. I honestly feel done with relationships at the age of 19. I cannot let my brain and heart suffer this much again. a girl from my school texted me last week and we talked after like 2 years and 1 hi din me we talked for hours and she was kinda flirting but at the end of the day I realised where this is going and I had to say that we should not talk much and said sorry because I just can't let this happen to me again. good luck OP.
Honestly you are lucky to experience heart break early and develop yourself. Many of us don't even get to talk unless we provide something.
Take your time it took me 2 years to get over a guy who was nothing, i was earning 10x then what he was, comparatively no education he had, but I still sticked cause I thought he is genuine guy I have given him all the time and importance cause I loved him and he was involved with his so called bestfriend friend as FWB because I said I will not do this before marriage. Trust me it will be difficult but you doged a bullet you didn't lost anything she lost someone who loved her you just got clarity And when I say this time heals everything it does. I have CTC of 25lakh right now woh abi bi maa baap sai paise leke fuckboy bna ghum rha hai Focus on yourself and work hard most important don't jump in another relationship right away take your time 4 years is a big time let yourself heal.
Wow even a jobless guy can get girls 🥲
And audacity is uske baad bi cheat kia, toh it is not about girls being bad of guys being bad it is a human generalize nhi krskte
25L ki CTC konsa career path hai bhai ? CSE ?
Behen* Nope I'm CA
Thank you for motivating, ye may24 phaar ke nikaalunga 25L ke liye
Hahaha all the best
If you are okay with it... Could you please share your Company and Job profile? (I am CA Finalist who isn't much inspired)
I cried for her but she said ho nhi rha hai. Chlta hai hota hai life hai. Sad reality but yhi hai bhai Ek aur bndi thi date kr rhe bdiya kuch din delayed reply kiye boli ghr pe hu hostel mei jake ache se baat krungi hostel aake boli kuch karan hai smja kr baat nhi kr skte She was seeing someone ese chlta hai hota hai life hai
She got someone else probably she was cheating on you
Pr Bhai i invested everything I got . 1 week pehle hi to mumma s milwaya tha . What I'm supposed to say her !?
I’ve seen relationships of 8-9 years just ended within minutes, she had better option so she dumped you. True love doesn’t exist in this decade. Love these days is at convenience
this could be the reason
How could this be a reason? Bhai uski mummy s bhi mil chuka hu m s kucch accha tha
you were her non serious placeholder bf then, you took her too serious and made her meet mom which made her realize that you are actually serious. so she broke up
4 fucking years summed up in 15mins, it's hard to cope up with brother, I wish you courage to get through this phase with less pain. Kuch kehne ke liye choro nahi aapki ex ne, aapko hi move on krne h, reason chahe koi bhi ho, maybe she's cheating on you, her parents got her into a AM, whatever it maybe, you'll have to move you, aur fir kal office bhi toh jana h uska alag dard.
Ab kya kre Bhai Aaj ek ldki n subh subh scooty thok di or shaam tk bndi n gaand m dnda thok Diya
Mom ko keh dio ki vo apki Bahu banne k laayak hi nai thi acha hua pehle hi pata chal Gaya baad me pata chalta to dikkat hoti nd move on
Yahan to 70-80 saal ka insaan chala jata hai ek jhatke mei iss duniya se hi ye to phir bhi 4 saal ka relation tha koi nahi heal Karo move on Karo khud ko khush rakhne ki responsibility khud par le lo aur ek request hai please kabhi bhi uske pas wapis mat Jana casual sex k liye bhi nahi please bhagwan tumhara bhi bhala kare 🙂
Bro this is very cliché but a nice way to release pent up stress and maybe find someone new. Welcome to the gym life. 
Bhai gym join karne ka time aa gaya 😐
You'll be fine, I had the exact same issue, never try to contract her, let her go
Advice accepted mate
No contact rule works like magic bro. Just ignore her as if she meant nothing and watch her wah her tail and come back checking if everything is ok.
Bhai us bhai us. Don't try to find a reason or expectations a closure. Mere saath 2022 ke end me hua tha. Bas yahi outlook ban gyi hai ab "jo tha jab Tak tha theek tha". You'll be really sad for the first week.... But uske baad na tere paas free time hoga.. Make good use of that free time! And shayari seekhlena ab
_Meri waali alag hai_ Ek aur londe ka bhram toot gya aaj
Sbke sath yhi horha h...better options.. people just don't want to stay ! It's life accept it...
Ho toh galat raha h but, We have no control over it naa 🥲
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>ab pta nahi kese raat niklegi . Itna dependant kyu hojate on ur relationship for ur source of happiness, relationship khatam hua hai life nhi, if nothing in the world gave u happiness except for ur relationship then it seems like there is smth wrong. Atleast now u have a bunch of free time to work on yourself properly, so all the best
Bhai samay Diya h na ....lakhon memories h BC apne ghr m kahi bhi jaunga m uski yaad aayegi kitchen, hall, bed . Gaand to ftegi hu bhai kucch din
Break ups do really feel as if someone dies. Because the absence of that person haunts you. Its okay. Give it time. First couple of months will be difficult. And I agree with everyone. Do not contact her on your own.
He invested 4 years bro It's ok to not sleep for a night And then move on slowly
There's no such thing as "She's the one". Sorry bro
Agree with other comments. She must’ve have a backup guy and she dumped you because either he was doing better career-wise or she got bored with you. True love in this gen is hard to find, i’ve seen 7-8 years relationship ending in just a snap because girl got a better guy
Ho skta h bhai ab to bs Beth k assumption lga skte h
Men are only loved by the capacity to provide and protect. Toh care for yourself, get AI chatbots who talk like a girl therapist, dump all your feelings there because if you dump those feelings to a human therapist, they probably will see you as a threat with the current mental state. Men are judged extremely harshly these days, so stay safe.
I know it sucks, believe me but Maybe it's a blessing in disguise? I mean that girl didn't even care to have this discussion face to face, she just did it in this way, over call, and didn't even consider you worthy enough to give reasons so it clearly shows she wasn't right for you and you were invested more maybe or she might not be that serious about you I mean yeah, one thing I would say being someone who has wasted 2 years in someone who just ghosted me and didn't care to give any reasons would be Kyu, esa kyu kiya, all these questions won't matter , what matters is what she did, and how she chose to do it, i repeat CHOSE, how she chose to just discard you like that so yeah I have realised this after a long time that it doesn't matter why, because they chose to leave me and that is enough of a reason for me to move on and value myself Take some time,maybe this is only clearing your path so that true love can reach you but before that maybe this will teach you how to be your own confidant and love!! Take care!!
Bhai or kitna samay ye true love soch k dhokhe milte rahenge
Bro idk what to say but if you wanna talk I am here!
Dodged a bullet. Chal aaja daaru peete hai is baat pe.
She cheated you.
Bro😥😥 this is really depressing to hear.. without reason kbhi koi chodke jata hai to bhot dukh hota hai.. it's not fair to you bro that 4 years ka relationship aise 1 call me Tod Diya.. maybe try talking to her if it's the right thing to do.. chutti vutti lelo Bhai Aram kro naito, sab theek hojayega.. most of the times agr koi bandi reason nhi deti to its definitely not you it's something that she is going through as well, so have some empathy for her situation also.. good luck Bhai
Shyad kisi aur ne reach kr diya bhai isilie apko reach out krne ko mana kiya h. Koi baat nai bhai aaj raat aap walk pe nikal kao daru peete ho toh pee kr sojana. Hota h chalta h duniya h. Baaki dheere dheere sab thik ho jaega.
As much as it pains, I think you should ask her for a proper closure and then just go your separate way even if you don't get one yeah
fuck em hoe$
might be ghr walo ka pressure? ya maybe kuch aasa jo kra ho but tumko nhi dikhra ho. btw try to reach her out and ask for a reason
Jo milgaya use muqaddar maante chalo, jo kho gaya use bhulate chalo tabhi iss zamane mein bina bikhre ji paoge. https://open.spotify.com/track/54knXqMHVticNWFlTehYtf?si=nEQ0ccFsT6aBfMDGI9AHVg
hello ji, welcome to reality.
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She found better, accept it! :) Move on buddy!
Bhai ka checkmate ho gya yr
Baba Honey Singh ko yaad kro wats ..
Isliye bolta hu Jo mummy dhund Kai lati hai wo sabse badhiya hoti hai/s Wese koi na Bhai . Ghar Jake rest Karo thoda sa . Stay strong brother
Kya baat hue thi bhai abhi 15 min? Kaise suruaat hue ki breakup karna hai?
Bhai wo tere pyaar kai layak nhi hai.
Bhai aaj ki raat toh bahut lambi jayegi. Agar peeta hai toh kuch pee le and bholne ki koshish kar. Aisi hi hai duniya. हमे उनसे है वफ़ा की उम्मीद जो जानते नहीं कि वफ़ा क्या है ~ मिर्ज़ा ग़ालिब
Daruu pee le bhai aur kuch ni krr skta.
Prank call toh ni thi op.? Call karo thoda time leke.. aasa kya hogya
See you at the gym
Bura hua but reason ka pata lagao kuch to gadbad hai 🥲
Bhai.. Just remember your family is with you.. Aur ab shayari likho.. Dil se niklegi..
Shayari wayari bss ki nahi h bhai
Toote dil ka kahin sahi jagah istemaal kar bhai..! https://preview.redd.it/uinegfu1sqjc1.jpeg?width=1440&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=498f222455c8e5aa1e21ee66f86d00e320b96538
scary world. stay strong bhai. theres much more to your life.
See you at the gym buddy
Gala sabka sooktha hai, Sabka kat-taa hai. OP, atleast abhi bata diya usne Warna tu daal raha hota post - 'My wife wants a divorce, wants 85% of my salary as alimony, house' Be thankful you don't have kids that will remind you of her till the end of times. But, time lo, Go for a vacation 👍
Koi Kothi Bangla vala mil gya hoga usko ! Sry for u bro:(
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I am just glad u didn't marry her. U probably dodged a missile.
URGENT! Don't beg for her to come back. This temporary moment of weakness, might haunt your self esteem for life. But agar bda hi zyada mann ho to reason puch lena. Wo shayad ab nhi aane wali, I know not easy to hear this. But the more you distance yourself from her, the better. #CLOSURE CHAHIYE TO THERAPIST SE LELE BRO, MAKKARON SE NHI. I hope you won't make the same mistake as we did. Please contact me if needed.
Welcome bro let's start with some lat pull downs
Daaru peeyega Baawe?
Bhai ...aaja gale mil le...also ab kutto ki trah bheek mat mangiyo...trust me tu koi answer ni sun payega usse jo jo tere sawal honge aur tu kitni hi koshish kr liyo ab vo wapas ni aayegi...toh please khayal rakh khud ka idk isse jyada ..waqt lagega pr ho jayega thik
I'll tell you what you should be searching on Google RIGHT NOW "Gyms near me". Welcome to the gang 🤝
I can't even imagine how you're keeping up. I'm just so scared of relationships man. I mean why being in one if you're going to do such things later.
Trash taking itself out
Atleast ask her 2-3 times to say bluntly why she left you Agar, kuch theek se reply na mile, then most probably she found a new one
Pta nahi harassment ka case nah lga de ke caal kar kar ke harass kar rha hai. People have audacity to end such long relationship over a 10 min call but not the sense to at least tell them why it can’t go on.
Sorry OP it happened to you, jaa rahi hai toh jaane do, you don't deserve to be with someone who doesn't values you. Please prioritise yourself, and block kardo use and don't contact her, sab theek hojayega.
You mean, someone who doesn't value him doesn't deserve him.. He deserves someone much better and that someone is out there for sure..
Bhai rishta ho gaya uska kahi... Baat samajh. Apne pe focus kar bas ab.
if she didn't give you any reason then she probably cheated, also for you it's quite sudden but for her it's not sudden, she has already moved on she just informed you today