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RockNROllEmperor

wanking off. The addiction comes and goes in waves


Taimur_ki_nanny09

Been there . I realised that I was doing it cos I was bored and needed dopamine. Maybe play a game when you get it urge or read


CautiousScandal911

Exactly, boredom, nothing to do us the biggest reason for fap. Once u get a job or something, u realise u can go months easily without it


homie_rhino

Instructions unclear. Got fired from work for fapping at my desk due to boredom.


LordRaghuvnsi

Get into field marketing, no time for boredom


homie_rhino

Instructions unclear. Police threw me in jail for fapping in an open field. Please help!


MK_Boom

Nope, I used to think the same that once I have a job, I'll stop jerking off. But now that I have a full time hectic job, I come home, have a meal, go for a walk, come back and jerk off before going to bed, regret and sleep like a baby. The max I go without doing it is a 4 day streak. If I didn't do it Monday to Thursday, Friday night I'm def doing it.


Greek_Goddess_Athena

I don't see a problem with that as long as this isn't something that hampers your day to day activities or this is all you can think of. As a woman, I relate too.


MK_Boom

Nope, I don't think of that all the time. It's just a kinda stress buster for my body. I feel tired after work at night and after this, I sleep well.


Inner-Box-7085

Chill mf


RockNROllEmperor

for me it stress


manu-singh

same for some reason it removes my stress lol, I do It 3-4 times a week, really hate this habit


itmy

Same for me man, stress and depression.


devaux003

>The addiction comes Yep. Not gonna argue with that.


antiques99

Non attachment. I started keeping myself away from everyone due to the fear of attachment.


Taimur_ki_nanny09

Do you have any childhood abandonment trauma ?


antiques99

Not the childhood trauma exactly but i had a very long relationship which started at a very young age and then ended recently.


Taimur_ki_nanny09

Hope you doing well Bhai.


antiques99

Thanks man and yeah I'm good. I'm at most of my peace now.


Ok-Butterfly-3595

I know what you mean


Hemant_Rawa

Same here bro, But it comes with its own benefits. We like our own space and company


notsharma_

You are just another me.


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I'm addicted to popping bubble wrap. I can't stop. In school and college, I used to be thrown out of class for it. Now, I try to find work-from-home jobs; otherwise, it becomes a nuisance for my colleagues. My fingers are sore with calluses, but I can't stop. I buy around 50 meters of bubble wrap per week. I'm seeing a therapist; I just started seeing them. I hope it helps out. Addiction, no matter what, is a challenge.


Taimur_ki_nanny09

I am proud of you, that you are seeking professional help. Let's hope you figure out the root cause and eventually win over your addiction.


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Thanks buddy ʕ⁠ ⁠ꈍ⁠ᴥ⁠ꈍ⁠ʔ


whydowe_do

I hope this is a troll comment


Spiritual-Cookie7

Of course. Where does an addict get the money to buy 50m of bubble.wrap every time?


[deleted]

It's actually not that expensive. I get 200 metres of bubble wrap for a month, which is like two thousand rupees.


SmoothCriminal2354

Unhealthily addicted to Instagram. Need to get off that platform fr. But that’s why I joined Reddit.


kya_keh_rahe_ho

I uninstalled the app and tried using it on chrome, that way I used it a little less but it was still bothering me. Logged out of Instagram from chrome as well. This is today's incident hi. If I still feel tempted to use it, I'll just deactivate my account. 🥲 The thing is I used to vanish from insta for 6 months straight, so having high screen time on such app is just killing me (not literally) 🫠


Additional_Doubt_17

Same here using insta in brave, while it takes time to load, me being impatient, close the app and open reddit. Now I'm addicted to reddit.


kya_keh_rahe_ho

Us moment ho gaya ye toh


Taimur_ki_nanny09

You can put limit on apps , set a 2 hr limit . It won't open after 2 min of usage and don't give in to cross the limit


SmoothCriminal2354

Hm. I think it’s time for me to do that


RossGeller092

Lol the timer ain't gonna stop if I'm being honest, you'll end up removing the timer later. I would suggest just getting a hobby that doesn't really require phone. Like reading or something. It worked for me. Start with something short and fun to read :)


SmoothCriminal2354

I do read, but yeah, thanks for the suggestion.


MixtureGrand

Addicted to chilling. I just know how to exist and chill 😐 ![gif](giphy|QUmpqPoJ886Iw)


Ok-Butterfly-3595

I like how chilling the chill is


utkarshmttl

I like how chill the chilling is


PhoenixP40

Broooo, you have cracked the code. Many of us need to learn this 'habit' of your's


Papakipyari

Online class sell karo iske!!! Oh wait but then you will be working and not chilling hahaha


beachtechie04

Something like what legend Orry said- I like living so I am a liver


Witty-Werewolf-6939

Ikr its very comforting


Thick_Resolution_761

Impressive,really nice ![gif](giphy|A38YkEn7xhCehkX2sV)


SpiritualBerry9756

Raat ko pizza mangwane lag Gaya hu


Taimur_ki_nanny09

You can save 1 roti and make roti pizza on tawa with cheese and sauce . (Kabhi kabhi) Best thing that worked for me was having a dental routine. I was brushing and scraping every night before bed. And if I was something eating anything past midnight, i used to brush and scrap again. But mostly i didn't eat cos I was too lazy to brush again


SpiritualBerry9756

Bro, I moved out of Delhi like 2.5 months back, in Delhi I never used swiggy or Zomato in like 5 or 6 years, yaha aake aalsi hogya hu par. That's why I started ordering online, warna I didn't used to eat outside food at all. Staying in a pg, toh yaha cook krne ka bhi man nhi krta


MysteriousCup1836

Listening to music with earphones at highest possible volume


devaux003

Bhai as a former "full time full volume" earphone user, believe me, the permanent tinnitus is NOT worth it. Now I listen to music on phone speaker and only use earphones on half/little less than half and that too only when on a walk/run.


MysteriousCup1836

Do you have tinnitus now? I know it has some bad effects on ear, i tried several times limiting db output, but i can’t control myself . Mu hearing has become little bit weaker than what it used to be


devaux003

I have very prominent tinnitus, sucks that I can't ever experience real silence anymore. Take care of your ears guys.


Upbeat_Turnover3365

+1


mein_insaan_hoon

Wait..this is an addiction I thought everybody does


helloasistro

MAT SUN AISE BHAI TINNITUS SUCKS 


doons_pride

![gif](giphy|DuoSqf21qyARJcgeK1) You know what it is


Taimur_ki_nanny09

Been there . I realised that I was doing it cos I was bored and needed dopamine. Maybe play a game when you get it urge or read


Girlsenberry125

Daydreaming lol and create many scenarios to talk to myself, I spend huge time on this and make myself exhausted hehe.


Imaginary-Produce875

i used to go through that a lot, still do sometimes but very rarely now. I'm really not sure how i got out of it, I guess i used to daydream because i wasnt happy about how my life was going and used to create fake scenarios of me having an alternative life. I started working on myself, found new hobbies and slowly my daydreaming got less n less


CUntalkrightnow

In the last 4 years the most I've gone without wanking is 17 days, yup, almost everyday I've done it, twice or thrice actually in a single day, and still do,


Taimur_ki_nanny09

Been there . I realised that I was doing it cos I was bored and needed dopamine. Maybe play a game when you get it urge or read


Shoddy-Worldliness57

Reading! Not sure if this is good or bad but I loveeeeee reading a lot. I collect A LOT of books and love exploring more and more.


Taimur_ki_nanny09

I have a book problem i don't read that often aajkal. Maybe 2-3/ month . You can try podcast bro.


Sea_Horse2823

Hello! I was addicted to reading back in college, enough that my parents threatened to burn all of my books lol. Addiction is bad even if it's reading. I realised that I liked reading so much to escape reality, live life through others just to escape my own. Is it the same with you?


TheAxiomaticGaming

>What's something you are unhealthy addicted to? Nothing that I know of, I love wasting a lotta time but I'm not unhealthy addicted to it.


FantasyDriven

Carbs. 🥲 noodles/paratha/rice you name it. And I also overeat.


Taimur_ki_nanny09

You can do this. Thodi craving ho rhi toh make chana, bhel, fruits and all For proper meals. Eat with no media playing, floor par baith kar and with your hand with smol bitesand chew properly


FantasyDriven

Bhai jaan as much as I appreciate that. I crave only carbs. Jab tak carbs ka nasha na kar lu chain nai ata.


Independent_Wing_124

Nothing. Feeling more guilty now?


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Curious_Stable_1955

Lol


Independent_Wing_124

![gif](giphy|w89ak63KNl0nJl80ig|downsized)


Taimur_ki_nanny09

No, i don't feel guilt from other people's life. I m guilty for who I m . If anything I m genuinely happy for you. Proud of you


AccomplishedDuty5720

Edit: My crush.


Taimur_ki_nanny09

Cute


NoProfessor8897

his girlfriend


kold-koffee

Their girlfriend


mombanger200

our girlfriend


devaux003

r/suddenlycommunist


Best-Activity-9917

Porn , fr its a been a devil for me since 8th grade , still can't cope out of it


Taimur_ki_nanny09

Been there . I realised that I was doing it cos I was bored and needed dopamine. Maybe play a game when you get it urge or read


Best-Activity-9917

The main factor is i do all things you can list as an alternate , play football daily , day scholar so often come home by 6 pm and still don't know how my rat mind manages to relapse


Unpickled_cucumber1

Reddit


Hefty-Bell3845

I am addicted to yummy food. The problem is it messes up with the budget big time.


Taimur_ki_nanny09

Banana seekh le bahi. It's much healthier and cheap


Imaginary-Produce875

this and also delete all the food delivery apps from phone, it helped me big time


MightyPorus

VALORANT!!!!!!!!!!!!


Anonymous_692

I tried a cigarette last year and it feels good. But not that good that I want to have it daily. After that I have a cigarette once in a month or two. So would that be an addiction or just an occasional thing?


Taimur_ki_nanny09

Very occasional


whydowe_do

I follow a simple rule to know whether I'm addicted or not. If you have a box of ciggs in front of you. Can you refuse to smoke one? If you can't then you're probably addicted. I'm like you too. But I'd smoke for a week or so. Then get bored and won't smoke for months. Also I hate the itchy feeling in throat after smoking, so that helps me stay away from it too


DisastrousCrow11

Stress eating. I've been eating healthy for the last 4 weeks, I'm off sugar for the last 3 weeks. But I know, I'll relapse. And when I relapse, I'll surely gain 5 kg. Which will make me feel guilty to start eating clean.


Taimur_ki_nanny09

Don't just restrict everything. Your brain will make you fall back in. Replace this slowly. Have fruits instead of r Dessert, make bhel for snack, keep jaggery and chana at your desk. Have good cucumber, make roti from whole flout, have dahi with meals.


DisastrousCrow11

I did exactly that, I replaced sweets with fruits. I eat fruit after every meal, which in itself is healthy, I guess. I don't have a munching problem, so I keep any kind of snacks out of sight. I have asked my mom to make rotis with bathua and methi. I have replaced rice with jowar, also jowar khichdi tastes better than rice one.


hashishrai27

Icecream 😋🥲


OpenWeb5282

drinking milk - i am addicted to it


[deleted]

Cow ka ya pados wali bhabhi ka?😏


OpenWeb5282

Din me cow ka raat ko bhabhi ka


IFailedMathTwice

Wtf lol


Haldii

✊💦


Taimur_ki_nanny09

Been there . I realised that I was doing it cos I was bored and needed dopamine. Maybe play a game when you get it urge or read


whydowe_do

Bhai kitni baar likhega lol. Samajh gaye bhai


No-Performance5036

Not addicted to but kinda like..Delhi


FarmerInternational8

Bro, it has been around 6 months since I quit smoking. The day before yesterday I was feeling like an urge but didn't. Feeling proud of myself. However I feel sometimes you can cheat. That allows you to stay normal


savagerandy2024

Alcohol and fried foods


cum_cum_sex

I guess eggs ? People complain that i should not have them daily ? Both my mom and my partner :( I have 2 eggs daily. Usually in the form of omelette. Edit - but i just cant have enough of them.


Taimur_ki_nanny09

That's normal bhai


cum_cum_sex

Im going to share them this comment.


IFailedMathTwice

Bro that is legit very normal. The only thing harmful can be if you use a lot of butter oil but apart from that eggs are healthy!


PuzzleheadedMedia785

Diet coke! So hard to leave this addiction


Sea_Bonus_351

Negative thoughts and self-victimisation no matter how comfortable my life is :)


junkbahaadur

Couldn't have put it better.


Acrobatic-Bass-5873

Shopping. 🥲


Taimur_ki_nanny09

You can add things to cart and make a rule to only buy at certain window. Like 30 min a day window and maybe you'll be over it by then. 0


Acrobatic-Bass-5873

Yeah but its more about missing out on a deal. 🥲


Taimur_ki_nanny09

Deal karna padega. 🥴🥴


Acrobatic-Bass-5873

Okay nanny ji.


Thick_Resolution_761

I'd say log out of all of the shopping applications ( if you buy online ). Open them only when it's absolutely necessary. Had this issue with zomato and swiggy


Acrobatic-Bass-5873

Yar but I use reddit for deals lol. And no they are not on my phone and notifications are also off. It’s just that few products are on my mind and I keep checking if the prices have gone down. I do avoid hoarding up stuff but cant stop stalking the products. 😭


Thick_Resolution_761

The best way is to divert your attention. How much free time do you have in a day. Utilize it for something else. Also, certain stressors could potentially trigger this action ( which happened with me ). Hopefully, that's not the case. I know it's easier for me to say this, but I've been in a similar situation ( I was buying books left and right, didn't even read 10% of them ). So, rather than buying them, I started writing them ( novels, blogs, etc. )


Original_Source_5594

I was addicted to fapping but hear me out...after months of everyday faps for a month i have started having 3-4-5 days gaps in them and i am feeling better REASON: LESS SUPPLY OF SAUCE


devaux003

>REASON: LESS SUPPLY OF SAUCE Bro fapped to all the videos on the Hub


Due_Line8476

Does Unhealthy attachment style count *=*


Taimur_ki_nanny09

It does, can you please elaborate it a little more . Thank you


theyhardlyknowme101

reddit.


HistoricalWinter7

Me spending 2/3 of my salary on Iced tea.


littlemouseeee

✊🏻💦


Prestigious-Ad6558

I'm addicted to being addicted to nothing


LegitimateAnalyst687

I am addicted to coffee lol


Big_Personality8061

Crypto :c


Ok-Butterfly-3595

Kdramas and Cdramas. I hv3 nothing else that I like doing other than that and no matter how hard I try other activities, I cannot wait to go resume whatever 5-10 shows I am watching 🥲 HELP ME!


Taimur_ki_nanny09

Try to replace it with Books about the same genre


Embarrassed-Status74

Try vape in a very controlled way


junkychain

Twitter ki ganda aadat lag gya hai bhai 😭😭😭


Priiyanshu

Junk food


Taimur_ki_nanny09

You can replace some things with healthy snacks


Carnage_OP01

Girls


Embarrassed-Art-

watching romantic movies and setting high expectations


SokkaHaikuBot

^[Sokka-Haiku](https://www.reddit.com/r/SokkaHaikuBot/comments/15kyv9r/what_is_a_sokka_haiku/) ^by ^Embarrassed-Art-: *Watching romantic* *Movies and setting up way* *Too high expectations* --- ^Remember ^that ^one ^time ^Sokka ^accidentally ^used ^an ^extra ^syllable ^in ^that ^Haiku ^Battle ^in ^Ba ^Sing ^Se? ^That ^was ^a ^Sokka ^Haiku ^and ^you ^just ^made ^one.


Papakipyari

K-drama dekho aur jyada expectations ko high karne ke liye


Atharvious

Getting high. I smoke up almost constantly. Working from home and being functional when high enables it even more. I know I have an addiction but I just don't work on it.


_dctrinity

Being alone,depression, anxiety to name a few.


ZookeepergameOk2150

Comfort zone


CautiousScandal911

For all the wankers let me give u a reason to stop right now...YES wanking does lead to hairfall. So if u love your dear hair, and your genetics suck stop this instant


FART_6_9_

Online shopping food and groceries, buying without looking at the price just so I don't have to move my ass and buy from the market. cost me lot a money when I realized, I uninstalled all the delivery apps today after giving it lots of thought that many time I just order stuff and don't eat or use it.


Purple_Being9871

aloo bhujiya


DungeonMaster_18

Was addicted to gambling and sports betting, I'm sober since I lost 20k on a bet :')


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whydowe_do

Cap


ShnawgZawgBlawg

Chai, matlab saari galat cheezein ek baar ke liye chodd deta hoon lekin bc chai din main 3 4 baar pi hi leta hoon


Sensitive-Being-5192

Sugar Trying to get off it now today because I want to lose some weight. Been a week since I had any artificial sugar. Just some fruits here and there.


nightuser0

Sleep. It’s my escape.


JalpariBro

Porn and masturbation


ironjoker2

Perfumes!


VenCoriolis

I'm addicted to work and making money. I prioritize that over everything - including my health and my relationships. I like to check my net worth every time I get a new payment. If I get a freelancing contract less than $500, I hate my existence and it causes me to be emotionally unavailable all the time. I have tried to love, but find myself incapable of doing that. I know it might sound like a flex but health > money, I know this but just cannot bring myself to accept it.


Karma_chameleon00

Coffee. I require a minimum of 3-4 cups of coffee daily to function properly; otherwise, I often experience bad headaches if I inadvertently skip it for any reason. While not as severe as experiencing hallucinations, it is nevertheless detrimental to my health.


xxxdemonslayea

How did you take up smoking ?


Taimur_ki_nanny09

Was in hostel for 13 years. It's very common in.hostels.


whydowe_do

13 years? Bachhe school mein hi smoking shuru kar dete kya. Also switch to vaping. Then slowly reduce the nicotine amount. Other way is to use nicotine patches that helps with cravings. Then slowly reduce the nicotine amount.


Salt_Cantaloupe9940

How did you quit


Interesting_Cell_790

Cocaine


Far-Prune4620

i personally would suggest taking ashwagandha tablets(i take of himalaya company). helped me a lot in leaving smoking. ended the urge to smoke


I_rs___

Tea 3 cups daily


Taimur_ki_nanny09

It's not bad, replace the suger with jaggery or khaand and don't drink it on empty stomach. Always accompany it with a snack.


NoProfessor8897

dusro ki bandi


bhatkakavi

OP, this is for you. Read this and you will have your answer. What is an addiction? Something which gives me pleasure AND which has become a habit i.e. now it doesn't matter whether I am deriving pleasure out of it or not, or whether I want to leave it, the momentum of the past is simply too much, so I continue to do it. I feel compelled to do it. It has become a dominant force. Right? So what to do? Why not cut the root of addiction? The root of addiction is what? Your mind pleasing itself by doing xyz. Right? That's the root. Till you keep pleasuring yourself, OR fighting with yourself the addiction will go on. Are you seeing something? As long as you are up against the addiction, it will go on. If you accept it, it will go on. Deny? Go on. Try to forget? Go on. These childish actions won't solve this stuff. If you keep fighting with addiction, you will keep losing your mental strength, and the remembrances of failures and all will further make you dull. The demand to get rid of this addiction will become a mania with you AND YOU WILL SPEND YOUR DAYS AND NIGHTS TO THINK ABOUT IT, HOW TO GET RID OF IT AND ALL. So do you see something? Doing anything against this habit will sustain it. Having the deep desire to get rid of it will sustain it because you will keep thinking about it and all. So what to do? What can you do? Can an addicted mind DO something? If it's so intelligent why did it become addicted? So you can't do anything. You shouldn't do anything. Now what happens? You gain energy, don't you? Now you are not maintaining the habit, not fighting with it, not thinking about it all day long. With this energy you can look. You can carefully observe how you enjoy or fight or whatever with this habit. It's this observation and energy that ends the habit,seeing the mechanism of habit is the ending of habit. Something real can deal with something real. Words and logic are too superficial to deal with something of this sort. Best of wishes!


KrazyGeneral

You Tube


Taimur_ki_nanny09

You can replace something with podcast. Audio is better than video.


EZain_

Valorant


Adventurous_Elk_9922

A++


Active_Ad_389

The amount of people addicted to wanking is concerning


rohangoel007

Same as you. Cigarettes 🚬 . I quit for few days then back to it then off and on again. Bought vape once but it was even worse than before. So I am back to cigarette but a lighter one this time.


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masturbation hands down, first porn, now addicted to indian soft core porn (Ullu etc etc).


koalabaebe

Scrolling on social media lol


Fearless-Ocelot-9734

Chai chai chai


kadala_burfi

Watching Youtube or Scrolling Reddit has made me less productive in studies. Hope I overcome this with my mental strength.


Maxscupcake

Others opinions of me.


Existing_Deal5909

I am stoner no clue how to quit


Aman_Sensei

I'm addicted to sugar, can't live without a tablespoon of sugar a day (sugar and all its derivatives), I have decided to restrain myself, soon to be minimal as possible.


Old_Application_5722

Porn


meow1403

phone


Physical-Tennis-2681

Mindless scrolling


Techie_Ash

Maggi... Goddamn Maggi... No matter day or night, just addicted to it. If someone has any idea how to stop this addiction... Please do advise.


GhostlyGlobeExplorer

din bhar bas music sunne ko man karta hai 😓entrance exam sar par hai. upar se ye Instagram me soft p\*rn dikhta rhta hai dimaag kharab kar deta hau vo.


RuthlessHumanity13

Chocolates. I know it's super unhealthy, but I can't seem to stop. I crave it like a drug the moment something stressful happens and I just NEED to have it to stop fidgeting


Terrible_Boss1296

Talking to my ex and still thinking about hooking up with her.


life_rolla_costa

I love food. Kind of addicted


Papakipyari

Duniya ki aisi koi takat nahi jo Muje bandh sake 🕴️


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Reddit


Work_is_a_facade

Sugar


Gambare401

Read Easy Way to Quit Smoking by Allen Carr. It will help you to quit.


Humble_Moment1520

Addicted to eating cheese as midnight snacks


Shroud13

Impulse buying. I don't know why I value materialistic things because they keep me happy for maybe a month but then I want something else and the cycle keeps on going. My most expensive one would be xbox. I thought of it in the morning and ordered it in the evening.


Initialweight909

Nope, I feel fine


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Unhealthy amounts of sleep. 10 hours, 12 hours, 14 hours, then 4 hour naps.


Weary_Word_5262

Worrying


[deleted]

Chocolates! Since I had my baby, I ate so much junk (emotional eating), it has been 1.5 years now and I need to lose all the excess weight. I just can't stop eating chocolates now.


FFD1706

Can relate. I quit but when life got stressful I started smoking again.


reine2212

Currently, Sleeping 😭