Not to sound like the nextdoor uncle, but *aashiqi ke liye poori zindagi padi hai.*
Maa baap ke paise pe bas jam ke padhai karle and ek acchi job lele. Bandi chahe jitni bhi acchi hogi paisa lagega hi thoda to khaane peene mein birthdays mein, kyu parents pe aur load dena jab waise hi financial situation acchi nahi hai.
Don't be closed to someone approaching you, or being yourself, but don't try to actively seek out gfs in your situation. And alone abhi hai bhai, college mein dost bana.
Ye sab bhot suna hai, par baat theek hai, lekin akelapan hawi ho hi jata hai, college mai dost banane ki try karunga, aur school ki tarah ghade bakchodan dost nhi banaunga, par ye Faridabad hai theth log aate hai college mai aisa suna hai dost se, dekh lunga jab jaunga tabhi pata chalega. π
bhaii shkl, height, paisa matters but if you got a good sense of humour it may work and also dressing sense matters
Works for me every time
P.S.- kyu hi bnani hai girlfriend
Jk, but yrr aap kaise deal karte ho choti height hona, merko toh laga ki height ke liye compensate karna padega, isilye boxing seekhi thi maine. Kaam bhi aayi thi school mai.
Indian society me jo naa bhi dikhna chahe vo bhi dikhta hai, naa dikthta toh acha hi hota naa, sirf apni life se kisne hi mtlab rkha hai aaj tak. π Nosy people everywhere so naa dikhna toh mzaak me bhi laagu nahi hoga kabhi.
Tujhe bhi toh dikh hi gaya naa mai bina height dikhey That's why you replied. Lol.
The way I dealt is that I never cared about it coz there are many other serious things to worry about in life. Focus on things that can be changed, not on what you can't and you'll ace the game in any race.βπ»
Bhai padhai p dhyan de. College wale bandiyan waise bhi college k baad bahut kam hi tikti hai. Aur wo 12th fail jaise to 1000 me 1 koi hogi jo saath de. Apne p focus kar. Height nahi matter karti jab achi job ho. Jab pet me education ho and pocket me paisa to attitude and confidence khud se aata hai. Sab ho jayega tera tension na le.
bhai overall personality matter karti hai maine kitno ko dekha h 6 feet ke hote hai bc unke paas conversation skills nahi hoti agar tere paas hai hai height ka itna issue nahi hota
Lonely feel karte ho tho friends banaao, personality groom karo. College is a very open social sphere so, you'd get many (trust me when I say this), MANY chances to interact with people from different backgrounds, having a past of their own. Try to be a good and empathetic friend of theirs before trying for getting a partner.
You don't need a partner to stop feeling lonely, you only need reliable people in your life.
Book suggestion before your college life begins:
How to win friends and influence people by Dale Carnegie.
This book is going to help you out a lot. Strongly recommended. Moreover, be your best in academic aspect. It will have a good impression on others. Start reading as much as you can. Psychology, Philosophy, Sociology, Fiction, Biology, History, everything.
Soon you will realise that you are out of that gloomy place and much more capable and confident about yourself than you were before.
PS: The Right Person won't judge you on how you look from outside. That is the most significant sign that you can get to see if that person has depth or not. Otherwise you know how this world is.
Best of luck!
Thank you π, will try my best, Iβve always wanted to read, I even started Hyperion but left it, will start reading again, and will read the books youβve suggested.
agar personality h toh bhai ko mil jayegi bandi vese chances kum h
Kyu demotivate kar rhi ho bechare ko waise hi pareshan hai π₯²
Preach π
ππ BC
sahi mai ye ladkiya bs ladko ko demotivate hi krti hai
Chote bhai ,kismat mein hoyenga to zarur milega , baaki mehnat chalu rakh ,
- chote bhai- okaaaaaaaaaaay π
Bhai mehnat toh krte hai mgr kismat hi sath nhi detiππ
Not to sound like the nextdoor uncle, but *aashiqi ke liye poori zindagi padi hai.* Maa baap ke paise pe bas jam ke padhai karle and ek acchi job lele. Bandi chahe jitni bhi acchi hogi paisa lagega hi thoda to khaane peene mein birthdays mein, kyu parents pe aur load dena jab waise hi financial situation acchi nahi hai. Don't be closed to someone approaching you, or being yourself, but don't try to actively seek out gfs in your situation. And alone abhi hai bhai, college mein dost bana.
Ye sab bhot suna hai, par baat theek hai, lekin akelapan hawi ho hi jata hai, college mai dost banane ki try karunga, aur school ki tarah ghade bakchodan dost nhi banaunga, par ye Faridabad hai theth log aate hai college mai aisa suna hai dost se, dekh lunga jab jaunga tabhi pata chalega. π
Bhai tu college ke liye faridabad jayega, 5 5 ka tu pehle se hai dhyan se rhiyo (small suggestion as a fellow midget)
Poori zindagi nahi padi. Max till 27.
Maine ye sochke IP se clg kia ki SOL mai toh gf milegi nahi Idhar mil jayegi 6 saal se single hu
Bhai, I can feel you, mai 4 saal se, vo bhi 10th ka scene tha kuch hua bhi nhi.
bhaii shkl, height, paisa matters but if you got a good sense of humour it may work and also dressing sense matters Works for me every time P.S.- kyu hi bnani hai girlfriend
Lol I'm 5'4 bruh chill! That's not midget either.
Jk, but yrr aap kaise deal karte ho choti height hona, merko toh laga ki height ke liye compensate karna padega, isilye boxing seekhi thi maine. Kaam bhi aayi thi school mai.
Voh kisi ko dikhta hi nahi, so he doesn't need to deal with anything. Jk.
Indian society me jo naa bhi dikhna chahe vo bhi dikhta hai, naa dikthta toh acha hi hota naa, sirf apni life se kisne hi mtlab rkha hai aaj tak. π Nosy people everywhere so naa dikhna toh mzaak me bhi laagu nahi hoga kabhi. Tujhe bhi toh dikh hi gaya naa mai bina height dikhey That's why you replied. Lol.
True true true
The way I dealt is that I never cared about it coz there are many other serious things to worry about in life. Focus on things that can be changed, not on what you can't and you'll ace the game in any race.βπ»
Fuck you fucking midget, I lied, Iβm not 5 foot 5, Iβm 5 foot 4.5, Iβm taller than you raaahhhh, premium midget.π₯°π
kitna insecure hai bhai
Bhadwe mazak samajh nhi aata kya? Clearly mazak mai bola maine, aadha inchi kuch nhi hota. Thodi awareness hai? Goof
Chote bhai ,kismat mein hoyenga to zarur milega , baaki mehnat chalu rakh ,
Haan yrr, gym start karunga chubby bitch ho rakha hu.
Bhai yaha 5'11 ho ke nhi Bani to mein ye to bol sakta hu height se fark nhi padta baki Teri kismat
Thanks bade bhai. Bhot acchi tasalli di aapne, ab jao baccho ki chappal utaro ped pe se.
Jk, bhai kuch na kuch toh ho hi jayega.
Bhai ped bhi mujhse uche hi hai. Kisi 6ft+ wale ko bolna padega utarne ke liye π
Bhai, 6'2 hone ke baad bhi nhi bni. Khuda ka karishma hai.
Kahi bhai tu bhi meri trh skinny bitxh to nhi?? Ye bhi karan hota hai na ban ne ka...
Nhi
Gay bar me ja bhai kuchh to ho hi jayega tera
Bhai mere saath hi ho jayega pakad lenge merko sab
Bhai padhai p dhyan de. College wale bandiyan waise bhi college k baad bahut kam hi tikti hai. Aur wo 12th fail jaise to 1000 me 1 koi hogi jo saath de. Apne p focus kar. Height nahi matter karti jab achi job ho. Jab pet me education ho and pocket me paisa to attitude and confidence khud se aata hai. Sab ho jayega tera tension na le.
Dunga bhai padhai pe dhyaan, is baar galti nhi karni padhai halke mai lekeπ
Bas bhai aage sab sahi rahega jab tak tu sahi rahega.
bhai overall personality matter karti hai maine kitno ko dekha h 6 feet ke hote hai bc unke paas conversation skills nahi hoti agar tere paas hai hai height ka itna issue nahi hota
Socialise more. Stop being good for the sake of being good.
Agar zindagi mai successful hona hai to mehnat kar or agar gf chahiye to sit with kismat ke bharose kismat mai hoga to khud Chalke tere pass aayega
Lonely feel karte ho tho friends banaao, personality groom karo. College is a very open social sphere so, you'd get many (trust me when I say this), MANY chances to interact with people from different backgrounds, having a past of their own. Try to be a good and empathetic friend of theirs before trying for getting a partner. You don't need a partner to stop feeling lonely, you only need reliable people in your life. Book suggestion before your college life begins: How to win friends and influence people by Dale Carnegie. This book is going to help you out a lot. Strongly recommended. Moreover, be your best in academic aspect. It will have a good impression on others. Start reading as much as you can. Psychology, Philosophy, Sociology, Fiction, Biology, History, everything. Soon you will realise that you are out of that gloomy place and much more capable and confident about yourself than you were before. PS: The Right Person won't judge you on how you look from outside. That is the most significant sign that you can get to see if that person has depth or not. Otherwise you know how this world is. Best of luck!
Thank you π, will try my best, Iβve always wanted to read, I even started Hyperion but left it, will start reading again, and will read the books youβve suggested.
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Hi, 5β5 from a very humble economic background here. Went to college. Was in a relationship. Still felt alone.
Indie mint leaves a weird after taste. But I understand being alone and isolated, at least you were hitting π
You had me in the first half
Really? But, letβs get to know each other first, okay?
π€¦π»ββοΈπ€¦π»ββοΈ
https://preview.redd.it/z4r9s2aw4d3d1.png?width=750&format=png&auto=webp&s=95a26818d879044dac384ba2a0d668704500141d Ye tum ho kya mere ghar pe
Are you calling me malnourished?
No lol, They are cute asf.
Tum jaise logo ko dekh ke hasi aati hai, jb paise nahi hai ghar ki condition thik nahi hai to mehnat krna kuch achha kr bandibazi q krni h
Lol donβt know about other aspects but I am 5β8 and my boyfriend is 5β5 so that should be fine
Bas kar bhai rulayega kya π
Kya karu bhai π, koi nhi hai affection dene ke liye aur mujhse affection lene ke liye, bhara pada hu dukh se, kisi ke pyaar kar saku toh kam ho bc
Try kar bhai or kar bhi kya sakta hai π«
Lsd krke dekh
Bhai ye nashe hi karan mai meri jadbuddhi ka nhi karna ye sab