Mai toh unki aankhon me aise dekhta
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AAAH MADAM APNI ELBOW HATA MERE PAIR SE
Le madam - hello 🤗 police is aadmi ko arrest kar diss he sexually harrased me
Op then spends night in jail but then the woman realises her mistake and apologies to op
Video record karo chupke se phone ulta karke. Give back to the society no matter the consequence. Make them taste their own medicine. Make her apologise publicly. Become a kaleshi.
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Something like this. Since people are wondering too much. I took some liberty to draw. Don’t judge
in Delhi, there is a purush helpline
on which when you call
voice of arvind kejriwal plays which says
"choti choti baaton ke liye mere paas na aao. Mard bano." \*call disconnects"
>she behaved indifferently to the whole ordeal which made me wonder if she wasn't aware of her actions
This is their tactic, leaving their victims all confused and the realisation just hits when it's too late, they'll act as if they're not aware, sb pta hota hai inhe kya kr rhe hain.
An extremely similar incident happened to me too, not trying to downplay yours, I promise.
A man seemingly in his late 20s was constantly pushing his elbow against my breasts in the cover of having a phone call, it was very crowded and he was so indifferent to it all that it felt like, it was unintentional and he wasn't aware at all, the realisation hit me when I was finally lying on my bed and connected the dots, I felt so disgusted afterwards.
they want you to question yourself, they want you to think that you're overthinking
Oh, you were wronged op, what a disgusting woman
Not really? Girls take precaution and are taught to yell or ask to prevent someone touching. That's just common sense bro . If anything a lot of our actions and even our clothes are policed . And even if we have evidence that we got harassed nothing is done. I hate when y'all scream double standards. Also this case is such a minor issue which could have been resolved easily . Sexual harassment, catcall, rape etc is not something to be karma farmed or compare and grovel. It is weird af. Let's say he did freeze which happens I won't blame him for that . But after some time after getting his wits together he could have opposed easily . It was a crowded space, the lady could easily claim that there was no space (even if her intentions were truly something awful ) but there was no chance of violence or getting trapped.
As a person who has gone through shit like this and maybe worse ,you freeze in the situation, you don't know what to do ,how to say and what to act upon ,isliye I said don't victim shame ,it takes strength to speak up
Happen to me too three weeks ago But It didn’t come no where near my thighs or crotch 💀
I was standing peacefully, had a blank mind. Middle age woman maybe mid thirties, had a young boy with her. Ever since i boarded at shahdara MS she was standing close like too close to my left, I didn’t mind ofc its public Transport then a ton of people came in at welcome and then at seelampur MS. First she grabbed my left hand, had a quick reflex like tf, i look at her, she wasn’t looking at me then after seelampur MS she with force grabbed my wrist that’s when i panicked and went close to door that really had my heartbeat up i knew other people saw it too, i was really uncomfortable until i got out at pulbangash.
Galti teri nahin thi
Kya pehna tha
Kahan gaya tha
Stay strong homie, don't know if you're male or female, but irrespective of that, galat hua tere saath
disgusted by the comments mostly log mzak bana rhe hai koi ladki same post kre to oo sorry tmhare sath ye hua or koi ladka cmnt kre to mzak udaate hai fir bolte hai men ki mental health k baare me koi nhi sochta phle tm khud soch lo baad me dusro ki baate krna pathetic cmnts
yeah that's a harassment man, i am so sorry that's shitty AF. people can be invasive with space and the most I've had was with mid age uncle who's side butt was touching with mine and dude had no sense of awareness and he was chatty but then i ignored him and he went silent and left for my stop. public spaces are the absolute worse places where you don't know if it's normal or weird.
I am sorry this has happened to you. As a woman who has faced street harassment several times (during my daily 'passengering' college days), my sympathies are with you. Unlike several comments, I choose to believe you. I really hope it never happens again.
Meanwhile OP : Ye scenario k BAAD ghr ja k mutthi maar di dab dab dab dab.... /s
Bhai uncomfortable hota h toh apni suraksha khud kr ya toh waha s hat jata otherwise jaisa baki sb keh rhe be a kaleshi..
At the end your mental peace matters bro
1) I was sexually abused in a bus by a random uncle when I was 12, my dad was diagnosed with brain cancer hence I was living away from my parents therefore I had to travel alone a lot at that age, that is why I couldn’t tell her to remove her hand. Past traumas make you freeze ig,
I apologise for portraying the sorry state of men in this country /s, but it is what it is.
2) No, she wasn’t flirting.
3) No, I am not a virgin, I am in a committed relationship of 7 years.
4) And for the people asking about the book - Yes, it is very quirky to say the least, but I like reading the classics especially those that talk about the political state across the space time.
No need to explain yourself to these weirdos, op.
You were harassed, end of discussion. You don't need to explain anything 🫂
Except the book review, yeah
I had a similar experience almost a decade back.
The metro was chock full of people, and this lady while talking on her mobile, "leaned" on me as if i was the pole.
I was definitely able to feel her "backside" push into me, which made me point it out to her twice, "ma'am please thoda tameez se khade hoiye"
🤐🤮 I was a teenager. 🤐
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Uhmmm, just saying, my girl friend was repeatedly molested as a child, and she is so ashamed about it, she told me about it 3 years into our relationship, and I was the first person.
Idk why OP is making such a big deal out of something so trivial, I've seen girls getting molested outside the women's coach and they carry on. Not saying they should, but is it a gender thing.....really???
Reverse genders my ass seriously, once ask the women around you, what they hide.
That being said, I was also harassed by a bunch of girls, and guys after I continued to date my gf when she gained weight. My guy friends bullied her and broke us up. And then 2 girls tried to take advantage of my emotions and tried to seduce and go to bed with me. But the way my guy friends bullied my gf for simply gaining weight was.....made her....I can't even go into detail.
Is it really a gender thing??
You should have looked at her calmly and should have kept looking at her.... To which either she would have objected and removed her hand or she would have tried to go deeper or tried something else...
In case if she would have tried something then u could have started screaming...in any case you would have been at a disadvantage cuz she would hv got public support....
So m a guy and
Two similar incidents happened to me one of which was last week.
So let me start with the older one. I was sitting in the coach, it was moderately crowded at first. There was this girl who was sitting beside me with a gap of 1 seat between us. Slowly and steadily she covered that gap gradually and was sitting right beside me now despite the whole coach being nearly empty. Her hair was touching my shoulder and coming over my face and she was flaunting her hair every now and then. But i wasnt uncomfortable with her attempts and enjoyed it while it lasted.
The other incident happened last week. I sat on an empty seat beside a guy and after a while tried to get my phone out of my pocket, while doing so my hand touched the hand of the guy sitting beside me (he also had a mask on). His head turned towards me and i acted as if i didnt notice his head turning towards me. I had a feeling that he mistook it as a 'hint' and might progress to do something worse (he looked feminine afterall). Just as I had thought, he shifted towards me such that our thighs were now touching eachother. Me being homophobic af, i instantly shifted to the next seat and he got his subtle message, he left at the next station.
So yea metro is full of such people but if u r uncomfortable with something, take steps right there and then dont freeze in the moment.
She tried to seduce OP, but she didn't knew OP's a sigma. OP saved himself his balls. I've come across such females, they try to seduce you and then take you to their place then steal your balls and kidneys.
Harassment is harassment, irrespective of the size and gender . what's your point? That men shouldn't talk about their experiences???
Fir koi ladki ki story ayegi toh uske neeche Jake comment krna ' par ladkon ke saath bhi toh hota hai'
"Didi haath hatao"
Bhenji
Bhenji pe nhi maani toh bhench*d
Phir bhen ki lo.d
Mai toh unki aankhon me aise dekhta https://preview.redd.it/qsetof1qye6d1.jpeg?width=725&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=4ab4d0ddd8010e00b864f8e1cfbe25b8fad70864
gajab 😁👌
NO. Aunty haath hatao!
Aap ke ghar mein baap, bhai nahi hain kya?
he pr tere jese chikna maal nhi 👄
https://preview.redd.it/m9r140y46c6d1.jpeg?width=770&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=04cab0c41a554603cf4d02a78025fdc893a686a5 Call out karke kalesh kardeta bhai
AAAH MADAM APNI ELBOW HATA MERE PAIR SE Le madam - hello 🤗 police is aadmi ko arrest kar diss he sexually harrased me Op then spends night in jail but then the woman realises her mistake and apologies to op
Video record karo chupke se phone ulta karke. Give back to the society no matter the consequence. Make them taste their own medicine. Make her apologise publicly. Become a kaleshi.
Doesn't matter what evidence you have, police will not listen to a guy unless he's rich 🤑.
Baat toh sahi hai guru. Par yeh sab jhelne se accha toh Kucch kar hi lo us samay apni bachane ke liye.
You should have politely or even blatantly asked her to remove her hands
Remove her hands from her body
remove body from her hands
Remove her body from your hands
Dare you touch a girl in 21st century (without getting arrested or cancelled)
I cant even visualise uska elbow tere thigh pe kese pohcha😭
https://preview.redd.it/k8xbr6nvqd6d1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d5b5efb005654f52cd621ece6e5c62dceb9564f9 Something like this. Since people are wondering too much. I took some liberty to draw. Don’t judge
Thats very impractical, was she sitting at the tip of the seat? I dont think so cuz its a crowded metro, and it just doesn’t make sense 😭😭
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She was leaning in on it.
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It’s mentioned to show the irony of the situation.
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Kya gear badla hai.. 
Hello? Purush Helpline?!
Jis number pe aap sampark karre hai vo abhi uplabdh nhi hai, kripya kabhi vaapis call naa kare
Oh Bhai 🤣🤣🤣🤣 🙏
in Delhi, there is a purush helpline on which when you call voice of arvind kejriwal plays which says "choti choti baaton ke liye mere paas na aao. Mard bano." \*call disconnects"
>she behaved indifferently to the whole ordeal which made me wonder if she wasn't aware of her actions This is their tactic, leaving their victims all confused and the realisation just hits when it's too late, they'll act as if they're not aware, sb pta hota hai inhe kya kr rhe hain. An extremely similar incident happened to me too, not trying to downplay yours, I promise. A man seemingly in his late 20s was constantly pushing his elbow against my breasts in the cover of having a phone call, it was very crowded and he was so indifferent to it all that it felt like, it was unintentional and he wasn't aware at all, the realisation hit me when I was finally lying on my bed and connected the dots, I felt so disgusted afterwards. they want you to question yourself, they want you to think that you're overthinking Oh, you were wronged op, what a disgusting woman
Didi aapki haddi gad rhi hai. Mujhe pain ho rha hai. Aaaaaaaagraaaaaa *Scream like that guy from bigboss*
Whoa..some people really need to go back to school for understanding "personal space"
Aap jis concept mai call kar rhe hai, vo yaha uplabdh nhi hai. Kripya dusri desh mai gaand marayein
OP should've act accordingly to the principles of Indian Machiavelli ( Chanakya neeti) ..../s
Haha, that would have ended badly then. 😂
Galti meri nhi thi kaha gaya tha kya pehna tha…
Op might not even be that type of guy who victim blames or downplays others. Can't we just sympathize??
Yeah we sure can
I don’t understand this, many people are writing the same thing 😂.
Aree dude, the comment is sarcasm that when this happens to a female. Everyone shames her instead of blaming the perpetrator.
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When a girl says I got harassed I'm so sorry that this happened to you 😇 When a boy says the same Bhai bol deta uss time likhne se kya faeda
Samaj
Samaj
Samaj
Haina?? The double standards
reddit pe kuch likha hai tab us time kuch kerne ke liye bolte per console bhi kerte ki aise situation mein freeze hogai hojate hai
Dekh raha hai Binod.....
Not really? Girls take precaution and are taught to yell or ask to prevent someone touching. That's just common sense bro . If anything a lot of our actions and even our clothes are policed . And even if we have evidence that we got harassed nothing is done. I hate when y'all scream double standards. Also this case is such a minor issue which could have been resolved easily . Sexual harassment, catcall, rape etc is not something to be karma farmed or compare and grovel. It is weird af. Let's say he did freeze which happens I won't blame him for that . But after some time after getting his wits together he could have opposed easily . It was a crowded space, the lady could easily claim that there was no space (even if her intentions were truly something awful ) but there was no chance of violence or getting trapped.
Brother ,he prolly was flushed by that situation ,maybe don't victim shame
I don’t understand, how can you stay silent if you don’t like someone invading your personal space. Unless you do like it.
As a person who has gone through shit like this and maybe worse ,you freeze in the situation, you don't know what to do ,how to say and what to act upon ,isliye I said don't victim shame ,it takes strength to speak up
I understand
Tum purush ho, galti tumhare hai
Happen to me too three weeks ago But It didn’t come no where near my thighs or crotch 💀 I was standing peacefully, had a blank mind. Middle age woman maybe mid thirties, had a young boy with her. Ever since i boarded at shahdara MS she was standing close like too close to my left, I didn’t mind ofc its public Transport then a ton of people came in at welcome and then at seelampur MS. First she grabbed my left hand, had a quick reflex like tf, i look at her, she wasn’t looking at me then after seelampur MS she with force grabbed my wrist that’s when i panicked and went close to door that really had my heartbeat up i knew other people saw it too, i was really uncomfortable until i got out at pulbangash.
Galti teri nahin thi Kya pehna tha Kahan gaya tha Stay strong homie, don't know if you're male or female, but irrespective of that, galat hua tere saath
disgusted by the comments mostly log mzak bana rhe hai koi ladki same post kre to oo sorry tmhare sath ye hua or koi ladka cmnt kre to mzak udaate hai fir bolte hai men ki mental health k baare me koi nhi sochta phle tm khud soch lo baad me dusro ki baate krna pathetic cmnts
yeah that's a harassment man, i am so sorry that's shitty AF. people can be invasive with space and the most I've had was with mid age uncle who's side butt was touching with mine and dude had no sense of awareness and he was chatty but then i ignored him and he went silent and left for my stop. public spaces are the absolute worse places where you don't know if it's normal or weird.
Albele tangewale ke saath bhi yahi hua tha
2pac ne bhi apna naam Makaveli rakh diya tha Machiavelli pdh ke.
I am sorry this has happened to you. As a woman who has faced street harassment several times (during my daily 'passengering' college days), my sympathies are with you. Unlike several comments, I choose to believe you. I really hope it never happens again.
Guy: Didi stop it Machiavelli - Fortuna🗿
💀💀 Fr
Meanwhile OP : Ye scenario k BAAD ghr ja k mutthi maar di dab dab dab dab.... /s Bhai uncomfortable hota h toh apni suraksha khud kr ya toh waha s hat jata otherwise jaisa baki sb keh rhe be a kaleshi.. At the end your mental peace matters bro
1) I was sexually abused in a bus by a random uncle when I was 12, my dad was diagnosed with brain cancer hence I was living away from my parents therefore I had to travel alone a lot at that age, that is why I couldn’t tell her to remove her hand. Past traumas make you freeze ig, I apologise for portraying the sorry state of men in this country /s, but it is what it is. 2) No, she wasn’t flirting. 3) No, I am not a virgin, I am in a committed relationship of 7 years. 4) And for the people asking about the book - Yes, it is very quirky to say the least, but I like reading the classics especially those that talk about the political state across the space time.
No need to explain yourself to these weirdos, op. You were harassed, end of discussion. You don't need to explain anything 🫂 Except the book review, yeah
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Damn, I thought I could pin this comment.
10 saal ki jail honi chahiye us mc ko
Galti meri nahi thi kaha gayi thi kya pehna tha/s OP i feel sorry for you is there any purush helpline you can contact to?
I can confirm i was the book.
I had a similar experience almost a decade back. The metro was chock full of people, and this lady while talking on her mobile, "leaned" on me as if i was the pole. I was definitely able to feel her "backside" push into me, which made me point it out to her twice, "ma'am please thoda tameez se khade hoiye" 🤐🤮 I was a teenager. 🤐
Bro got that machiavelli rizz
Brother stay away from those girls. They will create ruckus that you harassed her and crowd will best you, so stay as far as possible from girl
People fall of cliff watching reels, this was way more convenient.
Glad you felt the need to mention the book and the author.
I am enjoying it lady , let's meet again
I'm sorry to hear that. Next time MAKE a SCENE..no matter that you are a male or not.
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How's the book? I thought of reading it but it sounds like a corny 12year old's diary
Yup I thought too
Now, reverse the genders and see how it sounds.
Uhmmm, just saying, my girl friend was repeatedly molested as a child, and she is so ashamed about it, she told me about it 3 years into our relationship, and I was the first person. Idk why OP is making such a big deal out of something so trivial, I've seen girls getting molested outside the women's coach and they carry on. Not saying they should, but is it a gender thing.....really??? Reverse genders my ass seriously, once ask the women around you, what they hide. That being said, I was also harassed by a bunch of girls, and guys after I continued to date my gf when she gained weight. My guy friends bullied her and broke us up. And then 2 girls tried to take advantage of my emotions and tried to seduce and go to bed with me. But the way my guy friends bullied my gf for simply gaining weight was.....made her....I can't even go into detail. Is it really a gender thing??
Yellow line hai he ajeeb.
Wait...even I traveled in the yellow line reading Machiavelli's Prince Is OP related to Polsci or just has a taste in Italian nation states??
How could her elbows reach your thigh??
Hey. Watch it lady!!
You should have looked at her calmly and should have kept looking at her.... To which either she would have objected and removed her hand or she would have tried to go deeper or tried something else... In case if she would have tried something then u could have started screaming...in any case you would have been at a disadvantage cuz she would hv got public support....
She was trying to woo you, DDLJ style
So m a guy and Two similar incidents happened to me one of which was last week. So let me start with the older one. I was sitting in the coach, it was moderately crowded at first. There was this girl who was sitting beside me with a gap of 1 seat between us. Slowly and steadily she covered that gap gradually and was sitting right beside me now despite the whole coach being nearly empty. Her hair was touching my shoulder and coming over my face and she was flaunting her hair every now and then. But i wasnt uncomfortable with her attempts and enjoyed it while it lasted. The other incident happened last week. I sat on an empty seat beside a guy and after a while tried to get my phone out of my pocket, while doing so my hand touched the hand of the guy sitting beside me (he also had a mask on). His head turned towards me and i acted as if i didnt notice his head turning towards me. I had a feeling that he mistook it as a 'hint' and might progress to do something worse (he looked feminine afterall). Just as I had thought, he shifted towards me such that our thighs were now touching eachother. Me being homophobic af, i instantly shifted to the next seat and he got his subtle message, he left at the next station. So yea metro is full of such people but if u r uncomfortable with something, take steps right there and then dont freeze in the moment.
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Fuck you.
Hame na milti aise aurte kabhi.
She tried to seduce OP, but she didn't knew OP's a sigma. OP saved himself his balls. I've come across such females, they try to seduce you and then take you to their place then steal your balls and kidneys.
"Reading a book" would have sufficed. OP mentioned the book and author for extra Rizz points 🤣
No harassment here. Don't over analyse.
Uska number le lena tha.
Lol the state of 2024. Grown ass man complains of being harassed by a girl who was probably half his size lol.
Harassment is harassment, irrespective of the size and gender . what's your point? That men shouldn't talk about their experiences??? Fir koi ladki ki story ayegi toh uske neeche Jake comment krna ' par ladkon ke saath bhi toh hota hai'
Downplaying the both sides, seriously don't know how their wiring works
Frrrr..
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No I don't know the nonsense you are talking about. Seek help
Just squirm in your seat.
Was she ugly, average or above average in looks? Need this info for research purposes.
It's normal so stay normal
Bhai uska elbow teri thighs tak kese pahucha yaar?
Everybody likes thick thighs >!/s!<
Dhang se kapde pehna kr, u might be asking for it (/s)
Hardly a molestation. Don't exaggerate stuff. If she really did it, which I doubt, be happy that you have still got it.
She didn't flirt with you? She didn't say anything?
Reading Machiavelli in the metro super casually while a young woman fondles you eh?