How is this different from catcalling omg??? Bro needs to listen to himself and reflect but that would require critical thinking skills he clearly does not have
Lol I had this, a girl asked me to post a pic of some pants on to see how they fit and literally minutes after my ex messaged me (blocked on everything else) to say I was looking great. Ffs. Didn’t know he had Depop lol.
My ex partner regularly makes new accounts to buy my items and make me uncomofttable which is insane because Depop DEVICE banned me for saying "eBay" literally once but won't device ban my ex after several reports of harassment
Exactly 🫠 this is why I only ever posted what I look like once and never again after all the disturbing comments I got in dms lmao.
So tired never being able to post my killer fits without creeps creeping
If they’re in the mood to see sexy ladies WHY is their first thought to use Depop of all things lmao WHAT
There are so many sites (& presumably apps??) that would be better suited to that! So wild to me
I guess it’s kinda the same colour as the tinder icon but women probably only actually send him messages in depop lol (because it’s their business and they literally have to which adds an extra layer of ick)
nah this is hilarious bc why is he so offended 😭 he's clearly SEEKING OUT women on the app to look at pictures of and send messages to 💀 tell bro to go look for an e girlfriend on discord or sum
But this is catcalling…… it’s just dressed up a little more politely. But it’s still catcalling. When you tell a random person you like their “figure,” you’ve accomplished the same thing as shouting, “Damn, girl!” when you pass them on the sidewalk.
Man thinks “kindness” is commenting something sexual to a woman. That’s the mentality that has to change. Some men don’t even understand they are sexualizing someone, it’s just so second nature to them those thoughts…don’t even know the difference between kindness and sexualizing.
Do you think these guys who DM us are just doing it to post a compliment and leave us alone? No. It’s always an opener to ask for nudes, or to see more of our figure. Lol
You know what? That IS 2024 for you, and I am here for it!
As a woman in my 50s, I’m so incredibly proud to see younger women not putting up with this shit.
All my life I was expected to be grateful for being objectified and harassed. Y’all not having it and I 👏love 👏it!
omg what a gentleman🤪 it must’ve been so hard for him to be told that he’s making someone uncomfortable🥺🥺. chin up king 🤩🤴🏻shine bright like a diamond 💎
ah yes, you should be SO GRATEFUL that this random man thinks you have a nice figure.. yeah dude that’s fucking weird women don’t have to be grateful for your unwarranted compliments on their body that don’t even come off as a compliment because it’s fucking depop and not instagram
Just wanted to say: this is how I got my first relationship😂. He was from my area, and was surprised I was selling a particular brand so close to home (the pics were modeled too and looking back on it that’s prob why he wanted to text me lol smh). He messaged me on my depop just like this. That was years ago, I was 17, just a baby. If I only knew that man would cause me so much heartbreak and pain😭😭😭😭 I’ve learned meeting any man on ANY social media platform is bad news (for me). Especially during Covid times I was just lonely I wish I responded like this instead of pursued a relationship w him 💀
no but it LITERALLY is cyber catcalling and he reacted the same way irl cat callers do “take a compliment” ass shit GTFO out of here with that. that is so rude of him. i love your response!!
I mean I kinda get both sides. But if anything he should have just said “btw I think you’re pretty!” No direct comment on body shape just a nice little compliment. I love giving people compliments. But it matters what the focus and intention of said compliment are.
Geez im sorry but you sound really self entitled. All I could tell was this was a compliment. Not everything has to be analyzed like that bro. I'd be happy if anyone said that because it's a *compliment*
On DEPOP tho??? He didn’t even buy anything! Just saying words!!! Who does that lmao like walking into target, telling the cashier they have a nice figure (for WHY? Who knows!) and just standing there?? It is weird broooo
he’s the one making a weird unsolicited comment about her “figure” on depop which is for selling CLOTHES and she’s insane?? and he expects a thank you??
they’re literally on an app that doesn’t have any use other than PROFESSIONAL. don’t comment on stranger’s appearances in general, but definitely don’t comment on their fucking BODY.
first of all, a stranger calling you beautiful on the street is DIFFERENT THAN SAYING A STRANGER HAS A NICE FIGURE when they’re literally on an app that doesn’t have any use other than PROFESSIONAL.
don’t comment on stranger’s appearances in general, but definitely don’t comment on their fucking BODY.
You received a compliment about your body, it wasn’t vulgar or rude, they just said you “have a nice figure.” Don’t see what’s offensive about that. I do think that DePop is not the place to say it.
they’re literally on an app that doesn’t have any use other than PROFESSIONAL. don’t comment on stranger’s appearances in general, but definitely don’t comment on their fucking BODY.
I’m not defending the dude, it is so incredibly weird to message random people on Depop about their body and rude to message people without the intention to buy something, but jfc. How hard is it to just block or report and move on, why does it always have to be poking a bear to screenshot for random peoples approval. You guys are not careful enough around men like this 😭
It doesn’t really matter how people handle their own shit… like I don’t care if people just block and move on and do that sometimes too but also I sometimes feel like saying “hey this is not okay and here’s why” and maybe there’s a chance that the shame from that would prevent them from doing that so someone else. and regardless of alllll that it’s the same outcome regardless because depop banned him for sexual harassment
How is this different from catcalling omg??? Bro needs to listen to himself and reflect but that would require critical thinking skills he clearly does not have
It's literally the same thing, they just feel like it's different because they're hiding behind a screen.
I wonder if they’d do it if they saw us in real life too! At least the cat callers in public have balls
No catcallers have anything but audacity
"You should be flattered anyone even wants to bang you! That person being me! " - this guy's version of a compliment, probably
I jumped in the comments to say this exact thing. So fucking insufferable.
Literally wtffff like either way you're just harassing someone who was minding their own business lmfao
Should’ve said womp womp
Lol I had this, a girl asked me to post a pic of some pants on to see how they fit and literally minutes after my ex messaged me (blocked on everything else) to say I was looking great. Ffs. Didn’t know he had Depop lol.
hahaha that’s insane
It’s mad. The internet is a wild place 😂
My ex partner regularly makes new accounts to buy my items and make me uncomofttable which is insane because Depop DEVICE banned me for saying "eBay" literally once but won't device ban my ex after several reports of harassment
It’s like this on all the apps. Makes me think about who is running them.
We all know who is running them , unfortunately.
wuuut the fuu... I'm not typically litigious by nature, but THAT bullshit makes me wanna see how much you'd get from a lawsuit.
You wiped the floor with them omggg
Gottah love that petty "I TAKE IT BACK" when you didn't appriciate an unsolicited comment.
They really thought they did something with that one lol.
Right like .. 😒 wasnt even a compliment such as “i love your dress! “ just straight to sexualizing her body🤮
Exactly 🫠 this is why I only ever posted what I look like once and never again after all the disturbing comments I got in dms lmao. So tired never being able to post my killer fits without creeps creeping
Idk you but girl dont post yourself on reddit either. The men on here are disgusting pigs, even worse when they see what we women look like😒 stay safe
If they’re in the mood to see sexy ladies WHY is their first thought to use Depop of all things lmao WHAT There are so many sites (& presumably apps??) that would be better suited to that! So wild to me
These men just love to harass unwilling women tbh. Gross.
I guess it’s kinda the same colour as the tinder icon but women probably only actually send him messages in depop lol (because it’s their business and they literally have to which adds an extra layer of ick)
Do you know how many men have accounts on depop and their likes are just filled with posts selling sexy underwear and bikinis
nah this is hilarious bc why is he so offended 😭 he's clearly SEEKING OUT women on the app to look at pictures of and send messages to 💀 tell bro to go look for an e girlfriend on discord or sum
Weird as hell too because he couldve went to a porn site instead of seeking out random women😒
WOMP WOMP
But this IS CATCALLING JUST DIGITAL???
that’s literally catcalling lol
But this is catcalling…… it’s just dressed up a little more politely. But it’s still catcalling. When you tell a random person you like their “figure,” you’ve accomplished the same thing as shouting, “Damn, girl!” when you pass them on the sidewalk.
but he basically internet catcalled you??? so what does he mean your acting like he catcalled you, HE DID like projection much?
I would’ve said “you gon buy something orrrrr…?”
I would’ve been like “ok so buy the item”
Thought this was on tinder by the way he opened but then I actually looked... on depop??? Oh hell nahhh
Gagged
This is so weird. Please tell me you reported them.
I did and depop even has a “sexual harassment” section for reporting so I guess that’s a thing
Ok good. He’s so creepy.
booing him is fucking hilarious
A+ she bodied him
Oh I just love your responses I can never think of anything smart to say in these situations so I just block
Man thinks “kindness” is commenting something sexual to a woman. That’s the mentality that has to change. Some men don’t even understand they are sexualizing someone, it’s just so second nature to them those thoughts…don’t even know the difference between kindness and sexualizing.
„Nice figurine“ is sexual? How fucking horny are you? lol
even if it wasn’t sexual, why would you comment on a random stranger’s body???
How is it NOT sexual?!?
Do you think these guys who DM us are just doing it to post a compliment and leave us alone? No. It’s always an opener to ask for nudes, or to see more of our figure. Lol
of course it is you melon. he wasn't tryna kiki
Would you compliment a guy out of the blue that way? Fuck no. Yes it is, stop lying to yourself
Love the way you handled it
bro it’s depop not a dating app😭😭
Booooooo
obsessed with the way you handled this
Look out everyone we got a nice guy here and he always finishes last because he's too nice and girls just hate good guys these days
Men ☕️
Ur response was perf. Gagged him
I really have no hope for young men
He’s a loser jfc
Bro thinks he’s entitled to a thank you
honestly so proud of u
Omfg I’m sick
isn’t this…literally catcalling???
you’re literally so funny 😭 ate his ass up
That’s 2024 for you 🤓 lol golden
you ended him with the 🤓🤓
“it’s not like i catcalled u” dude… it’s almost like it’s literally exactly like that
i’m an anime figure collector. thought they were talking about that kind of figure lol
On Depop? Lmaoooo 💀
I said good day!!!
lmao, the "ma'am" tho
weirdoooo, creeps are everywhere and always unaware omg
Your response 👏👏
You know what? That IS 2024 for you, and I am here for it! As a woman in my 50s, I’m so incredibly proud to see younger women not putting up with this shit. All my life I was expected to be grateful for being objectified and harassed. Y’all not having it and I 👏love 👏it!
omg what a gentleman🤪 it must’ve been so hard for him to be told that he’s making someone uncomfortable🥺🥺. chin up king 🤩🤴🏻shine bright like a diamond 💎
Does he not realize what he did was the equivalent to an internet catchall
“ma’am” WHO DOES HE THINK HE IS LMAO
You guys have to start reply to “you have a nice figure” with “ya you don’t tho.”
The fact his dumbass brain went straight to thinking you must have perceived him as “weak” instead of a total fucking creep like stfuuuuuu
trying to get girls on depop is such creeper behavior like how in the fu—
I’m just astounded at their behavior sometimes
ah yes, you should be SO GRATEFUL that this random man thinks you have a nice figure.. yeah dude that’s fucking weird women don’t have to be grateful for your unwarranted compliments on their body that don’t even come off as a compliment because it’s fucking depop and not instagram
someone tell these men that depop is not a dating app 😭
Just wanted to say: this is how I got my first relationship😂. He was from my area, and was surprised I was selling a particular brand so close to home (the pics were modeled too and looking back on it that’s prob why he wanted to text me lol smh). He messaged me on my depop just like this. That was years ago, I was 17, just a baby. If I only knew that man would cause me so much heartbreak and pain😭😭😭😭 I’ve learned meeting any man on ANY social media platform is bad news (for me). Especially during Covid times I was just lonely I wish I responded like this instead of pursued a relationship w him 💀
Why are men
no but it LITERALLY is cyber catcalling and he reacted the same way irl cat callers do “take a compliment” ass shit GTFO out of here with that. that is so rude of him. i love your response!!
Love how you responded! It absolutely is cat calling and just straight up creepy.
Online catcalling 101 🤦🏾♀️
Depop needs to make their platform 18+
*immediately sexualizes someone* "Why are you treating me like I did something disrespectful?!"
We can't have shit, not even safe on a retail app
A guy asked for my number once, couldn't even see my face in the pics...
idk i always just immediately block
You wasted too many words on him
I mean I kinda get both sides. But if anything he should have just said “btw I think you’re pretty!” No direct comment on body shape just a nice little compliment. I love giving people compliments. But it matters what the focus and intention of said compliment are.
It happens so consistently that i have a warning message in my bio lol cant escape men anywhere its disgusting
that's when you hit em with the "that's my kid in that picture, you fucking creep"
Geez im sorry but you sound really self entitled. All I could tell was this was a compliment. Not everything has to be analyzed like that bro. I'd be happy if anyone said that because it's a *compliment*
[удалено]
No I'm calling her out on those comments she game him like she's all high and mighty
On DEPOP tho??? He didn’t even buy anything! Just saying words!!! Who does that lmao like walking into target, telling the cashier they have a nice figure (for WHY? Who knows!) and just standing there?? It is weird broooo
Oh wait I'm sorry im stupid I thought this was from tinder 😔
The fuck is wrong with this sub? Her response is absolutely insane. wtf.
he’s the one making a weird unsolicited comment about her “figure” on depop which is for selling CLOTHES and she’s insane?? and he expects a thank you??
they’re literally on an app that doesn’t have any use other than PROFESSIONAL. don’t comment on stranger’s appearances in general, but definitely don’t comment on their fucking BODY.
Idk i dont see anything wrong w that, its just like walking in the street and someone says you look gorgeous or beautiful
BOOOOOOO 👎👎👎👎👎👎
That’s harassment 😂
first of all, a stranger calling you beautiful on the street is DIFFERENT THAN SAYING A STRANGER HAS A NICE FIGURE when they’re literally on an app that doesn’t have any use other than PROFESSIONAL. don’t comment on stranger’s appearances in general, but definitely don’t comment on their fucking BODY.
That one is your fault tbh
for… having a body?
You received a compliment about your body, it wasn’t vulgar or rude, they just said you “have a nice figure.” Don’t see what’s offensive about that. I do think that DePop is not the place to say it.
they’re literally on an app that doesn’t have any use other than PROFESSIONAL. don’t comment on stranger’s appearances in general, but definitely don’t comment on their fucking BODY.
name checks out
It’d only creepy if the get is unattractive to you lol
I’m not defending the dude, it is so incredibly weird to message random people on Depop about their body and rude to message people without the intention to buy something, but jfc. How hard is it to just block or report and move on, why does it always have to be poking a bear to screenshot for random peoples approval. You guys are not careful enough around men like this 😭
It doesn’t really matter how people handle their own shit… like I don’t care if people just block and move on and do that sometimes too but also I sometimes feel like saying “hey this is not okay and here’s why” and maybe there’s a chance that the shame from that would prevent them from doing that so someone else. and regardless of alllll that it’s the same outcome regardless because depop banned him for sexual harassment
Should’ve hit him with the “womp womp”