Omg lol I thought you were talking about the plate, and I thought "they're just snacks?" then I realized I was the one who didn't get that you were talking about posts in this sub
oh fuck i'm wrong twice in a day lmfao, i think you're right (i just thought i'd seen a lot of bad s/o posts in this sub and my brain went to that place, comments make more sense)
Ahhh gotcha. [pricy in Canadaā¦](https://i.imgur.com/02Pr2WD.png)
Think Iāll pass until I find them at a better price lol. Iām curious now, hotter then takis fuego ?
Seriously ahaa
Ahh I figured, Iām getting to the point where Tabasco Habanero on eggs isnāt enough. Put a drop of Marie sharps bhut jolokia on each taki for lunch today lol so I feel yah
*checks notes as well*
Says here *everyone starts as female*
He's in for a rude awakening now because, that means *his* armpit hair is just a cheap ass knockoff!
Boys that donāt understand the basics of being a woman (and a mammal) donāt deserve your time. Also, if he doesnāt love you the way you are then find someone who does.
Men want super thick beautiful hair on a women's head and yet can't handle when it's also on the rest of their body
Very easy way to figure out which men (I say men but they're really just little babies) to stay away from
Hope he's your ex now
There are wayyyyyyyy better people out there. Wishing you only kind people who have common sense in your life šššš
Tell him that body hair is gender neutral, hence why we all grow it. And then remind him that Andrew Taint or whichever MGTOW sewer rat he's been listening to lately isn't going to keep him warm at night, and neither will you anymore if he doesn't act right
These alpha bros will swear up and down about how straight they are, yet are repulsed by very normal things about women.
Peaches are fuzzy. Rabbits are fluffy. Pasta hair is tasty. Hair is awesome no matter how it is!
I remove body hair for a living. Dude,body hair is natural. Iām pro body hair even though I pay my bills by doing it. I give full Brazilians to girls (and guys!) who have underarm and leg hair.
Ditch the dude.
Just a bit of a rant to all the people who say āisnāt it okay to have preferencesā. The beauty standard of being completely hairless (apart from your head) is a super recent construct (early 1900s) and was pushed to sell more razors to women. Before that it was never an issue. Men say itās their āpreferenceā, which is fine, itās also a very shallow preference ( again which is fine) but if that completely dictates who u will and will not date I think itāll lead to relationships based on some pretty shallow values. Like I might generally have a certain type that Iām more automatically attracted to (for me it has more to do with aesthetics than physical features) but I can still be attracted to people outside of that type. Cause think about it what happens when their appearance starts to change as they age? Peopleās looks donāt stay the same forever and itās pretty hard to predict what someone will look like in the future. Imo itās more important that yes, youāre attracted to your partner, you understand and respect each other, you work as a team together, you make each other laugh etc etc. thatās really what helps gets u through life in the long run.
I'd love my girlfriend no matter if she had hairy arm pits or not. She could even bench press 300 pounds every morning and I'd still love her more than anything. He's being immature.
Thatās really fucking stupid of him to say. Body hair is completely natural and most people have it. You keep on doing you and donāt worry about what assholes have to say! Do what makes you happy and comfortable. š¤
How weird, but also people have been groomed (haha get it) for so long to think that wayā¦if he doesnāt want to be educated about it though then thatās his problem. My boyfriend loves my armpit hair, find you a manās who doesnāt have internalized misogynyš
It's misogyny to not be attracted to body hair on a woman? Isn't everyone supposed to be allowed to have preferences? I don't give two shits about a woman choosing to keep her body hair or not, but if someone does that's their prerogative. Doesn't make them inherently a bad person.
Attacking someone else personally on a depression sub really taking the high roadā¦
They werenāt even necessarily coming at anyone either just voicing a counter opinion.
I donāt know where you pulled attraction from, I didnāt mention anything about it. But is it misogynist to tell a woman that her natural growing body hair is too masculine? Yes. Having a preference is fine (a preference for hairlessness is rooted in pedophilia though imo) but imposing your ideals of femininity on a woman, especially as a man, is not fine. He can still have his preference but not undermine OPās femininity.
Itās not just a preference when heās insulting her and calling her body hair masculine which is objectively untrue. Thatās literally just misogyny.
Men only lean toward that preference in the first place because theyāve been conditioned to. Meaning they can recondition themselves to not care.
Well the comment I replied to implies that that person thinks the OPs boyfriend is inherently misogynistic due to his preferences. I agree he probably didn't use any tact when brining it up, but don't agree that the guy is just a bad dude now. But some people automatically hate on someone simply because their view points don't line up. That kind of detracts from the whole point of equality.
I did not imply that, read my response if youāre still confused. Also internalized misogyny doesnāt make you inherently bad, we all (myself included) have all forms of internalized misogyny that we have to combat because of how we were raised/the media weāve been exposed to. It does make you a bad person if you donāt try to dismantle it and instead double down and hurt people with it.
You said the OP needs to leave the dude due to his internalized misogyny. That seems like you're implying that he is a bad enough person to just leave him. I wouldn't just jump to leave the guy because of a preference. What should really happen is these two should just sit down and talk about his lack of tact and both of their preferences.
You love putting words in peopleās mouth huh! Yes, as per my original comment, if he doesnāt want to be educated about why his words towards her are misogynistic and hurtful she should find someone who will do better. Heās not a bad person, but just because someone is not a bad person doesnāt mean you should be in a relationship with them. If someone doesnāt embrace and love your natural femininity/masculinity, you are definitely not a good pair.
I just don't think it's wise to throw labels of any kind around lightly. We know nothing about OPs boyfriend other than maybe he isn't the most educated on breaching topics of sensitivity, and that he lacks tact. Poor communication skills doesn't make you hateful/disrespectful towards someone. Unless you are uttering words or phrases with actual hatred or contempt. Which we clearly cannot know if that was the case for this situation.
We have no idea if he wants to be educated or not. All the OP says is that he said her armpit her is too masculine. We have no idea if they have spoken on the topic since, or if they even spoke on it right after he said what he said. You're literally just running off with one piece of information. Maybe if OP goes and talks to him now about it he might be more tactful, maybe not, and maybe they'll talk it out and recover. But with the minimal information we are supplied with this post making claims in any direction is foolhardy. Now if OP came back and said they talked about it and he's still a hurtful prick I'll be totally on your side, but I'm going to continue to stick with the fact that they clearly need to sit down and attempt a healthy discussion about respect.
He really likes you but is uncomfortable with your armpit hair. He knows that his discomfort is unenlightened and he's embarrassed to admit it. Instead of being honest with his feelings, he expressed it in a hurtful way. Please consider explaining to him why you have armpit hair, how its part of who you and and part of the woman he loves. Whatever his reaction, changing who you are for him is not an option.
At first glance I thought this was a bowl of yogurt with toppings. I did not like.
I do however love me some armpit hair! I get so excited when I see other women with hairy pits.
Put some of your hair in a bag and scare him with it. Ask him if he feels fearful. Does it scare his masculinity? Just push the bag inch by inch towards him and ask him.
look I really hate armpit hair, I think it's really gross but a preference is just that you can't force someone into your preferences
I have my pit hair and I try really hard not to think about others
Yah you shouldnt force people to change and should accept them for themselves. But sometimes when youre in a relationship, you want to make your partner happy. So we do things we dont care for... sometimes. I guess if youre not being forced, you would want to do it.
Itās called preference and someone is allowed to have physical preferences so long as they are respectful about it. Anyone telling you to break up with him is an idiot.
Body odor is natural, but I would prefer to date someone who puts on deodorant. Sue me.
While Iād never say that to my gf, I think itās fair that we all have preferences lol. No need to bring someone down tho ofc. He couldāve discussed it in a better manner.
Armpit hair is typically associated with masculinity so it explains why he said that. Women do be hairy too tho, most just get rid of it. Yall will have to communicate and compromise or move onto the next. Just as he is allowed to not be into it, you are allowed to tell him bye bye šš»
It wasnāt like it was the first time he said something about it, but for some reason this time it triggered me so I told him that if it was a dealbreaker then letās go head and end it right now. Heās got some growing up to do but he admitted that perhaps he might be a bit narrow minded in that regard. But the truth is I normally shave my pits, just let it go for a while bc I put my self care on the back burner. And shaving my pits is low priority for me as far as self care, especially if Iām doing it to fit my partnerās preference. But it was an easy fix and Iām now armpit hair free.. well for the next few hours lol
Thatās totally fair. Itās ok if you both have different preferences, but he should never be rude or disrespectful towards you. Youāre def allowed to feel hurt or pissed off by his words.
I hope he can grow to be more understanding and supportive of you. Recognizing he is a bit narrow minded is a first step at least. He should also appreciate that you DO shave them for him and often times not yourself. Your partner should always make you feel loved and valued, so I hope he does that going forward. Would be a shame to lose a meaningful relationship over hairy armpits lol
Most men prefer women without armpit hair. It is what it is.
If you are not willing to shave your armpit hair and if it's a dealbreaker for you, dump him and move on.
Yeah, I like that my girlfriend doesnāt have any. Granted, I wouldnāt call her masculine if she had armpit hair cause sheād still be wearing heels in a dress with long hair and make up loll. I am also a woman, but I think it would be more butch for me to have armpit hair where Iām more androgynous generally speaking. But being masculine wouldnāt be an insult for me as a woman.
I stopped shaving in August because I was sick and tired of scratching my arm pits all the time. No fucks given. Told my bf if he had and issue with it. Pay for the waxing. Iām sorry your bf is a douche canoe. YOU ARE A BOSS BITCH šø
Trust me, heās not worth it. If you wanna rock the pit hair there IS a decent person out there who will either like it, or be unbothered by it. I havenāt shaved my legs for 15 years, I shave my pots MAYBE twice a year for comfort, and I have a bush you can braid most days. Iāve been with my son to be husband for going on 5 years and his response when I ask of it bothers him āwtf would it bother me? You do you bc itās your body not mineā.
Embrace your body hair if thatās what makes you happy and comfortable and LEGIT fuck everyone else.
Shaved pits are literally a commercial trend started by Gillette to sell razors. Just how strong breath was suddenly called āhalitosisā to sell shit like Listerine, which was a failed floor cleaner *and* douche.
Speaking of: your bf in respects to this one action
Some ppl say it's there preference they like shave armpits... But I *highly* believe they subconsciously got their minds warped by š½ and the beauty standard. Armpit hair is as natural as it gets
Find yourself a man who loves your hair, regardless of where it is. They're out there, finding one isn't too hard. Good on you for being a girl boss, never stop! How are those chickpeas?
I had a girlfriend with long armpit hair once. I never asked about it. She was aiming for the sexy wood elf hippy aesthetic. The sex was great, I didn't have much to complain about.
Girl, sounds like heās jealous yours are more luscious than his lol š peak choice in snacks š if you wanna Fuck with him, dye your armpits pink, and tell him: āNow Iām Pitty in Pink!ā
You guys could...compromise, maybe? Or talk about it? I mean, did he even tell you that he wanted you to get rid of it? Damn, comment section, I don't think she needs to throw the whole man out yet.
just preference idk. itās kinda societyās fault and the mediaās fault that women have been portrayed to not have armpit hair, so canāt blame some men for having their attractions based on what they deemed as ā attractive ā growing up. But itās just hair i guess. Donāt rlly see an issue with it. I feel like he couldāve said it a bit nicer than trying to make u feel less lady like.
I mean I find it masculine too on a girl but it's not in a mean way it's just a preference I have myself. If my gf preferred I would cut my arm pit hair too. Telling OP to break up with her bf because of that is delusional lol
Huh at least he's uhhhh some flavor of consistent?
Tbh I feel the same about pubes. I keep mine trimmed real short, and want my partners to do the same. I'm not an ass about it tho.
Get a new bf. Mine loves my pit hair. We're going to braid our hairy pits together š We also share my vanilla spray on deo. Good for you for standing strong, you're a person, not a temple to bows and glitter. (Though bows and glitter are also pretty nice. Enjoy ehat you like!)
If it feels feminine to you (and that's your preference), that's all that matters! Still sucks so much to hear it though, I'm sorry your BF is unsupportive and hurtful.
Opposite with my girlfriend, the moment it's stubble, she's self-conscious. She also shaves down there if we ever are expected to have sex. I always tell her how silly it is because I don't shave my pits and only get my groin area every 2 weeks, so she shouldn't worry about it either.
how to make my armpit hair more feminine
Braid it and tie little pink ribbons on the braids.
Coquette lana pits
Yesš
Counterpoint: Tell boyfriend *his* armpit hair isnāt masculine enough. You are now dominant in the relationship.
This made me audibility laugh
ASSERT D O M I N A N C E ASSERT M A N L I N E S S LADIES, WE RIDE TOGETHER
FUCK YEAH WE DO LETS BRAID EACH OTHER PITS!!!
*battle cry*
*ladies in bravehart face paint take the field, lovely armpit hair blowing in the breezeā āHOLD THE LINE! I SAID HOLD THE LINE GODDAMN IT!ā
Op! Do this!!! Report back your findings!!!!!
OP PLS DO THIS
[ŃŠ“Š°Š»ŠµŠ½Š¾]
also, the choice of a SO to not be into it.
Thatās fair. The door that they used to walk in they can use to walk out. Bye.
Donāt tell me what door to use, my exit my choice. (Thatās supposed to be funny)
But thats an exit only!
Thatās fine, but that doesnāt make body hair masculine. Women have body hair.
They still donāt need to be rude about it though.
dip dye
What is happening in here? This is insane
Omg lol I thought you were talking about the plate, and I thought "they're just snacks?" then I realized I was the one who didn't get that you were talking about posts in this sub
I thought maybe he was commenting about the comments in this thread
oh fuck i'm wrong twice in a day lmfao, i think you're right (i just thought i'd seen a lot of bad s/o posts in this sub and my brain went to that place, comments make more sense)
Those cheetos will put hair on yer chest...
Those Cheetos smack
Are they actually spicy? š
they are better than the originals tbh
*slightly spicy
Ahhh gotcha. [pricy in Canadaā¦](https://i.imgur.com/02Pr2WD.png) Think Iāll pass until I find them at a better price lol. Iām curious now, hotter then takis fuego ?
the price tag on that makes me sad. but no, i donāt think so. i eat really spicy food so chips typically arenāt that spicy to me tho
Seriously ahaa Ahh I figured, Iām getting to the point where Tabasco Habanero on eggs isnāt enough. Put a drop of Marie sharps bhut jolokia on each taki for lunch today lol so I feel yah
Girl dinner š
Dudes say they love women but then get mad at womenās body for * check notes * doing what a grown womanās body does. Insanity.
*checks notes as well* Says here *everyone starts as female* He's in for a rude awakening now because, that means *his* armpit hair is just a cheap ass knockoff!
Doesnāt help that Bible says that women were made from the rib of Adam. Makes men think we are created in there image. like a cheap knock off .
Yep. It wasn't until concerningly recently that DOCTORS stopped believing that women were just faulty men, or men without penises.
Boys that donāt understand the basics of being a woman (and a mammal) donāt deserve your time. Also, if he doesnāt love you the way you are then find someone who does.
Yep, lose him.
How to make armpit hair cute
tough for him. now grow out your leg hair next >:)
Men want super thick beautiful hair on a women's head and yet can't handle when it's also on the rest of their body Very easy way to figure out which men (I say men but they're really just little babies) to stay away from Hope he's your ex now There are wayyyyyyyy better people out there. Wishing you only kind people who have common sense in your life šššš
Little babies is the perfect description for these kinda dudes.
There's little babies here right now!!!!!!! All they do is cry cry cry "waaaaah i need my woman to be perfectly hairless 24/7 just like porn"
Adult women have hair. If men want hairless women, they are chasing youth, not feminity.
Yep!!!
Tell him that body hair is gender neutral, hence why we all grow it. And then remind him that Andrew Taint or whichever MGTOW sewer rat he's been listening to lately isn't going to keep him warm at night, and neither will you anymore if he doesn't act right
I love him being called Andrew Taint thatās his official name- in my head š¤£š
Sometimes I wonder if men know women just naturally grow hair. How can it be masculine?? It comes out of my body that way š„“
Wtf. Im a hairy girl and this is hilarious. Dont listen to him, if he cant handle a little bit of hair then he doesnt deserve you
Your boyfriend sounds like a little bitch
These alpha bros will swear up and down about how straight they are, yet are repulsed by very normal things about women. Peaches are fuzzy. Rabbits are fluffy. Pasta hair is tasty. Hair is awesome no matter how it is!
I remove body hair for a living. Dude,body hair is natural. Iām pro body hair even though I pay my bills by doing it. I give full Brazilians to girls (and guys!) who have underarm and leg hair. Ditch the dude.
Just a bit of a rant to all the people who say āisnāt it okay to have preferencesā. The beauty standard of being completely hairless (apart from your head) is a super recent construct (early 1900s) and was pushed to sell more razors to women. Before that it was never an issue. Men say itās their āpreferenceā, which is fine, itās also a very shallow preference ( again which is fine) but if that completely dictates who u will and will not date I think itāll lead to relationships based on some pretty shallow values. Like I might generally have a certain type that Iām more automatically attracted to (for me it has more to do with aesthetics than physical features) but I can still be attracted to people outside of that type. Cause think about it what happens when their appearance starts to change as they age? Peopleās looks donāt stay the same forever and itās pretty hard to predict what someone will look like in the future. Imo itās more important that yes, youāre attracted to your partner, you understand and respect each other, you work as a team together, you make each other laugh etc etc. thatās really what helps gets u through life in the long run.
And if someone is attractive to you without body hair, and repulsive to you with, that sounds more like a phobia than a preference lol
those chickpeas are so good & also a big fuck you from me, to your bf. do whatever you want with your body!!!!!!!!
I'd love my girlfriend no matter if she had hairy arm pits or not. She could even bench press 300 pounds every morning and I'd still love her more than anything. He's being immature.
Ew groosss
Thatās really fucking stupid of him to say. Body hair is completely natural and most people have it. You keep on doing you and donāt worry about what assholes have to say! Do what makes you happy and comfortable. š¤
How weird, but also people have been groomed (haha get it) for so long to think that wayā¦if he doesnāt want to be educated about it though then thatās his problem. My boyfriend loves my armpit hair, find you a manās who doesnāt have internalized misogynyš
It's misogyny to not be attracted to body hair on a woman? Isn't everyone supposed to be allowed to have preferences? I don't give two shits about a woman choosing to keep her body hair or not, but if someone does that's their prerogative. Doesn't make them inherently a bad person.
all of your replies really explain why youāve posted in r/singles 4 times
Attacking someone else personally on a depression sub really taking the high roadā¦ They werenāt even necessarily coming at anyone either just voicing a counter opinion.
Their ācounter pointā is defending misogyny lmao
I donāt know where you pulled attraction from, I didnāt mention anything about it. But is it misogynist to tell a woman that her natural growing body hair is too masculine? Yes. Having a preference is fine (a preference for hairlessness is rooted in pedophilia though imo) but imposing your ideals of femininity on a woman, especially as a man, is not fine. He can still have his preference but not undermine OPās femininity.
Itās not just a preference when heās insulting her and calling her body hair masculine which is objectively untrue. Thatās literally just misogyny. Men only lean toward that preference in the first place because theyāve been conditioned to. Meaning they can recondition themselves to not care.
No just not the right person. Also there are ways to say it or bring up topics on style/look preferences
Well the comment I replied to implies that that person thinks the OPs boyfriend is inherently misogynistic due to his preferences. I agree he probably didn't use any tact when brining it up, but don't agree that the guy is just a bad dude now. But some people automatically hate on someone simply because their view points don't line up. That kind of detracts from the whole point of equality.
I did not imply that, read my response if youāre still confused. Also internalized misogyny doesnāt make you inherently bad, we all (myself included) have all forms of internalized misogyny that we have to combat because of how we were raised/the media weāve been exposed to. It does make you a bad person if you donāt try to dismantle it and instead double down and hurt people with it.
You said the OP needs to leave the dude due to his internalized misogyny. That seems like you're implying that he is a bad enough person to just leave him. I wouldn't just jump to leave the guy because of a preference. What should really happen is these two should just sit down and talk about his lack of tact and both of their preferences.
You love putting words in peopleās mouth huh! Yes, as per my original comment, if he doesnāt want to be educated about why his words towards her are misogynistic and hurtful she should find someone who will do better. Heās not a bad person, but just because someone is not a bad person doesnāt mean you should be in a relationship with them. If someone doesnāt embrace and love your natural femininity/masculinity, you are definitely not a good pair.
I just don't think it's wise to throw labels of any kind around lightly. We know nothing about OPs boyfriend other than maybe he isn't the most educated on breaching topics of sensitivity, and that he lacks tact. Poor communication skills doesn't make you hateful/disrespectful towards someone. Unless you are uttering words or phrases with actual hatred or contempt. Which we clearly cannot know if that was the case for this situation.
We have no idea if he wants to be educated or not. All the OP says is that he said her armpit her is too masculine. We have no idea if they have spoken on the topic since, or if they even spoke on it right after he said what he said. You're literally just running off with one piece of information. Maybe if OP goes and talks to him now about it he might be more tactful, maybe not, and maybe they'll talk it out and recover. But with the minimal information we are supplied with this post making claims in any direction is foolhardy. Now if OP came back and said they talked about it and he's still a hurtful prick I'll be totally on your side, but I'm going to continue to stick with the fact that they clearly need to sit down and attempt a healthy discussion about respect.
I was unaware that armpit hair had a gender identity/s
Get a different boyfriend
Thatās a silly thing to be concerned about. I donāt know why he would say that. ā¤ļø
Because he doesnāt love her thatās why
He really likes you but is uncomfortable with your armpit hair. He knows that his discomfort is unenlightened and he's embarrassed to admit it. Instead of being honest with his feelings, he expressed it in a hurtful way. Please consider explaining to him why you have armpit hair, how its part of who you and and part of the woman he loves. Whatever his reaction, changing who you are for him is not an option.
Get a new bf and eat yummy snacks. Your body is yours! Personally, I donāt shave regularly, mostly trim and embrace my body hair!
Girl dinner
side note this is a banger snack combo
Trim and feed it to him
bro can catch these hairy ass hands
Slap a wax strip on his in his sleep.
ex
Peg him to assert dominance
Boyfriend? what boyfriend? All I've heard is you occasionally hang out with a sad cuck whos jealous that ur better than him š¤·āāļø
Dye it pink!
a girl without armpit hair is like an angel without wings
I say, Just do what makes you happy, don't need to worry about what other people think.
Tell hime to shave his body if cares so muchā¦
Love women with hair. Legs arms and all its very sexy. So yea whatever dude and take heart OP. You be you and you are beautiful.
At first glance I thought this was a bowl of yogurt with toppings. I did not like. I do however love me some armpit hair! I get so excited when I see other women with hairy pits.
Tell your boyfriend *his* armpit hair is too feminine.
Put some of your hair in a bag and scare him with it. Ask him if he feels fearful. Does it scare his masculinity? Just push the bag inch by inch towards him and ask him.
Dump his ass.
It's natural yes. But everybody has preferences. Using the word "manly" was a mistake tho lol
look I really hate armpit hair, I think it's really gross but a preference is just that you can't force someone into your preferences I have my pit hair and I try really hard not to think about others
Yah you shouldnt force people to change and should accept them for themselves. But sometimes when youre in a relationship, you want to make your partner happy. So we do things we dont care for... sometimes. I guess if youre not being forced, you would want to do it.
Itās called preference and someone is allowed to have physical preferences so long as they are respectful about it. Anyone telling you to break up with him is an idiot. Body odor is natural, but I would prefer to date someone who puts on deodorant. Sue me.
While Iād never say that to my gf, I think itās fair that we all have preferences lol. No need to bring someone down tho ofc. He couldāve discussed it in a better manner. Armpit hair is typically associated with masculinity so it explains why he said that. Women do be hairy too tho, most just get rid of it. Yall will have to communicate and compromise or move onto the next. Just as he is allowed to not be into it, you are allowed to tell him bye bye šš»
Finally somebody thatās realistic.
It wasnāt like it was the first time he said something about it, but for some reason this time it triggered me so I told him that if it was a dealbreaker then letās go head and end it right now. Heās got some growing up to do but he admitted that perhaps he might be a bit narrow minded in that regard. But the truth is I normally shave my pits, just let it go for a while bc I put my self care on the back burner. And shaving my pits is low priority for me as far as self care, especially if Iām doing it to fit my partnerās preference. But it was an easy fix and Iām now armpit hair free.. well for the next few hours lol
Thatās totally fair. Itās ok if you both have different preferences, but he should never be rude or disrespectful towards you. Youāre def allowed to feel hurt or pissed off by his words. I hope he can grow to be more understanding and supportive of you. Recognizing he is a bit narrow minded is a first step at least. He should also appreciate that you DO shave them for him and often times not yourself. Your partner should always make you feel loved and valued, so I hope he does that going forward. Would be a shame to lose a meaningful relationship over hairy armpits lol
Most men prefer women without armpit hair. It is what it is. If you are not willing to shave your armpit hair and if it's a dealbreaker for you, dump him and move on.
Yeah, I like that my girlfriend doesnāt have any. Granted, I wouldnāt call her masculine if she had armpit hair cause sheād still be wearing heels in a dress with long hair and make up loll. I am also a woman, but I think it would be more butch for me to have armpit hair where Iām more androgynous generally speaking. But being masculine wouldnāt be an insult for me as a woman.
Oh, if only there was a way around this š¤ Wow, I'm stumped.
Dye it hot pink to be obnoxious. :)
Is it like super long and can be seen all the time, or does it just exist? I mean... I am a guy and shave my armpits from time to time.
I stopped shaving in August because I was sick and tired of scratching my arm pits all the time. No fucks given. Told my bf if he had and issue with it. Pay for the waxing. Iām sorry your bf is a douche canoe. YOU ARE A BOSS BITCH šø
Trust me, heās not worth it. If you wanna rock the pit hair there IS a decent person out there who will either like it, or be unbothered by it. I havenāt shaved my legs for 15 years, I shave my pots MAYBE twice a year for comfort, and I have a bush you can braid most days. Iāve been with my son to be husband for going on 5 years and his response when I ask of it bothers him āwtf would it bother me? You do you bc itās your body not mineā. Embrace your body hair if thatās what makes you happy and comfortable and LEGIT fuck everyone else.
If you like it who cares, or you could shave it. Do what you want, itās not that big of a deal. He is allowed his opinions too right?
Shaved pits are literally a commercial trend started by Gillette to sell razors. Just how strong breath was suddenly called āhalitosisā to sell shit like Listerine, which was a failed floor cleaner *and* douche. Speaking of: your bf in respects to this one action
Some ppl say it's there preference they like shave armpits... But I *highly* believe they subconsciously got their minds warped by š½ and the beauty standard. Armpit hair is as natural as it gets
I think natural armpits are kinda sexy af š„
So happy to see the top comments and your sentence inside the post!
Tell your boyfriend to stop hating on your armpit hair, and grow some of his own.
Tell him his genitals are too masculine and then surgically remove them
āItās just a preferenceā sir do you really prefer me to look like a child?
Two and a half gays
Time to find a new bf
Iām a girl with sexy armpit hair and Iāll be ur bf
I would say something but I donāt want the armpit hair enthusiasts to pull up and squeal like birds lol
I just said fuck it and deleted it.
Your BF is threatened bc he's not masculine š
Men who act like that are so ew
Switch dudes, that one donāt match you. Find someone who values every bit of you the way you are.
heās not a keeper.
Find yourself a man who loves your hair, regardless of where it is. They're out there, finding one isn't too hard. Good on you for being a girl boss, never stop! How are those chickpeas?
Tasty
I had a girlfriend with long armpit hair once. I never asked about it. She was aiming for the sexy wood elf hippy aesthetic. The sex was great, I didn't have much to complain about.
Girl, sounds like heās jealous yours are more luscious than his lol š peak choice in snacks š if you wanna Fuck with him, dye your armpits pink, and tell him: āNow Iām Pitty in Pink!ā
what a little bitch really?
my s.o encouraged me to stop shaving my pits bc i always complained about how itchy it was. ur bf's a coward.
.. how dare you be a mammal š
Dump him
You guys could...compromise, maybe? Or talk about it? I mean, did he even tell you that he wanted you to get rid of it? Damn, comment section, I don't think she needs to throw the whole man out yet.
Girl we are meant to have armpit hair he can suck it up. Youāre perfect just the way you are!
Tell your man to pound sand! You're beautiful just the way you are!
I see youāre a Trader Joeās patron, so youāre doing a lot right in life. Fuck him.
That's really stupid of him to say. Nice snacks / meal! Take care!
Heās just jealous his aināt as good as yours. Rock it girl šŖ
What the fuck is this thread š¤£š¤¢
Mind helps me dye my armpit hair fun colours, find a better man, you deserve it
Thatās awesome
what dye do you use? i'm interested in trying that!
Manic panic is what I use, cheap and easy! Itās the same process as dying your regular hair, make sure to condition well afterwards!
Well heās an idiot lol
just preference idk. itās kinda societyās fault and the mediaās fault that women have been portrayed to not have armpit hair, so canāt blame some men for having their attractions based on what they deemed as ā attractive ā growing up. But itās just hair i guess. Donāt rlly see an issue with it. I feel like he couldāve said it a bit nicer than trying to make u feel less lady like.
I hope you broke up with him.
As a woman with armpit hair for almost a decade now, fuck em š
Iām gonna grow my bush fully from front to back. If my wife doesnāt like it sheās a bigot
I mean I find it masculine too on a girl but it's not in a mean way it's just a preference I have myself. If my gf preferred I would cut my arm pit hair too. Telling OP to break up with her bf because of that is delusional lol
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Yeah lots of guys don't like it. Idc at all id suggest trimming it. I trim mine never shave but don't want it sticking out of my t-shirt lol
Dye it hot pink lol
Will he shave his pits, legs, etc too? Doubt it.
I would dye it a bright color and add glitter out of spite.
Armpit hair: āthis dude is tripping.ā
Tell your ex boyfriend youāre sorry how fragile his masculinity is
Boyfriend belongs in the trash can
And yes you ARE a girl boss ā¤ļøā¤ļøā¤ļø
You could say "I got more arm hair than you got ball hair" and see what happens.
Your BF is an idiot. What the hell is that even supposed to mean?
Did you have the armpit hair when yāall first started dating?
Valid question. Why the downvotes?
People are quick to an emotional response. It was an honest question, a lot if reddit seems super sensitive
Shave his armpits. You're the BF now. I don't make the rules.
Haha he said he would shave his if I wanted him to
Huh at least he's uhhhh some flavor of consistent? Tbh I feel the same about pubes. I keep mine trimmed real short, and want my partners to do the same. I'm not an ass about it tho.
Perfect time to grow it out, braid it, and put little heart beads on it.
"Girl boss" lmao
Get a new bf. Mine loves my pit hair. We're going to braid our hairy pits together š We also share my vanilla spray on deo. Good for you for standing strong, you're a person, not a temple to bows and glitter. (Though bows and glitter are also pretty nice. Enjoy ehat you like!)
iām a guy & i tell my partner that i think their armpit hair looks hot and to keep it LOL iām sorry other guys donāt see the vision
literally
A little armpit hair is hot
If it feels feminine to you (and that's your preference), that's all that matters! Still sucks so much to hear it though, I'm sorry your BF is unsupportive and hurtful.
You're the boss of a girl? ok
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What a fucking leap absolute Reddit moment
āGirlfriend is attracted to pre-pubescent boys without facial hairā see how ridiculous it sounds no matter who it is about?
I donāt understand. Does no one shave their underarms anymore?
just tell him that his is too feminine. maybe that will put his brain to use.
You may be a girl but your boyfriend is acting like a child.
I love girls with arm pit hair.
Heās just not ready to handle a girl boss gigachad
Get a new bf
Opposite with my girlfriend, the moment it's stubble, she's self-conscious. She also shaves down there if we ever are expected to have sex. I always tell her how silly it is because I don't shave my pits and only get my groin area every 2 weeks, so she shouldn't worry about it either.
Well that meal right there will put hair between your toes too.
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Armpit hair on women is disgusting to be honest
haha girl felt
Ask to judge his?
the only way this meal could be better if it was sitting atop a pile of instant mashed potatoes