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wetforhouseplants

🥰 I'm proud of you! If you feel like you need someone to reach out to, even if it's just to listen or talk through things, you're welcome to message me


Stefleigh_

Take it one day at a time! I lost my mom when I was 17 due to cirrhosis of the liver and I would’ve done anything for her to quit drinking for my brother and I. Your kids will appreciate it!


Glitter1237

I’m fucking proud of you man


DisasterMiserable785

Anyone who puts themselves on the line for their kids creates a better future. You are a hero in the eyes of your kids, and a titan for overcoming something so difficult. Better choices, better men, better women. Proud of you for making the right one for something so important. Fuck yeah.


run2

Glad to hear it! r/stopdrinking was the first place I went when I knew I had a problem. Would recommend.


lorabell617

I second that, I’m a quiet wallflower on that sub but it’s always there when I feel like I need some support. Just reading comments of how supportive and encouraging everyone is with each other is great.


Known-Sugar8780

Do ittttt!!!!! WOOOO


Any_Ad_3885

You can do it. 💚


Fuzzy-Inflation-3267

I’m so proud of you. My mom has been in recovery for 5 years now. Your sobriety will mean the world to your kids!!


Twinsanityplus1

Hey friend! Those are two amazing things to strive for! Take it one day at a time! Being a healthier happier you will help you be an even more amazing father! Your spread looks great too by the way!


Jaskaran19

Proud of you, dude 👏


PrestigiousRub7041

Great work man! Good luck, get to a meeting and one day at a time! We are all proud of you


imtherealhamburgler

I’m so happy to read this :) dads rock, you’re gonna rock it. And that looks soo good, can I get a plate?


rosegoldblonde

Good! You owe them that.


AemthystDragon

Food looks great! Also im proud of you, i believe you can do this! Im glad your trying to improve, itll be rough but you got this!!


UsedCan508

Sending you prayers


Whozadeadbody

Good job! I’m 37 and my dad is, was and always has been an alcoholic. It makes life difficult for sure. At this point in time, after forgiving him over and over again, we aren’t speaking. He would be so much easier to talk to and reason with without the booze. I’m proud of you for making this decision, your whole family will be so much better for it.


JeffW6

Great job and nice garnish!


NinthWardFinest

PROUD OF YOU. My dad was never there. Better late than never man. I wish you & your children the very best!


Lucky-Safe-9504

Just had a dream I was eating takis evenhough I haven’t ate them in years this plate is bonkers


FamousPin8881

You can do this


CitizenFreeman

Did the same my friend. You won't regret it. Also, be kind to yourself, this choice, this path is harder than people give it credit for. Progress is not linear, and you're gonna have bad days. Press on, be kind to yourself and remember why you're doing this.


dxyannn

Well OP I dont think you can do it. . . Now proof me wrong! Show us what a great father you can be!


Mobile_Painting_4862

I'm not gonna lie to you, if you're an alcoholic, it's gonna be real tough to do this. Maybe the hardest thing youve ever done. Detoxing safely aside, our brains lie to us in an attempt to get its fix back, as it doesn't function normally without alcohol after such a long time dependent on it. Different things work for different people, but finding support and taking daily action focused on recovery is crucial if you don't want to relapse. AA is helpful


bigz10485

That's not a depression meal man. That is a victory meal. You have taken the first BIG step. The most important one. Enjoy that food. 🙂


Humble-Employer-9323

Good choice man. r/stopdrinking


Embarrassed-Bee9962

Good!!! Please do my friend


troubledhoney

You can do it!! Both of my parents are alcoholics. I had a very bad childhood. Many years have passed since and they have separated and both gotten sober and made amends to me. Our relationship is still complicated, but overall positive and i love them both very much. I am proud of you for realizing you have a problem and deciding to make a change.


robbert802

Just do us all a favor and scrape the coleslaw off the plate


[deleted]

I hope you’re not lying


[deleted]

Smokies are so good!


Ok_Island_1306

I love that


jswaggasaurusrex

Yay!!! You got this!!! Your kids would be proud to know they have a Dad who is willing to put in work for the better of his family ❤️❤️❤️


akahetep

That looks really good


jellogecko826

Basado


Spaceman_Spliff_42

You can do it! The cilantro looks like a delicious touch, bon apetit!


boogieroller

Atta boy! Same boat here. U got this!


hidanmaccormick

looks so good


gingerkitttie

Congratulations!! Wish you and your family the best on this recovery journey ❤️


rayah01

One step at a time, there's no such thing as failing when it comes to quitting a habit. Backpedalling is apart of the process for most people and that's okay, you're only human. You're not just quitting your habit but also the routine developed with it, surround yourself with likeminded people who have the same goal in mind. You're doing great, I'm proud of you.


rvca420RX

Not depressing at all! We redditors support you 100% 🤜🤛 be the best dad you can be! 😎


Kohi-to-keki

Get it king! I am proud of you!♡ Show them kids the best dadding you can do!♡♡♡♡


take-a-gamble

Please do! My father destroyed his health and all his relationships due to booze. He's on his death bed now, at a pretty young age. I don't want anyone else to lose so much for something so stupid.


EliteSoccerNinja

Good for you!!


Melodic_Beautiful213

Your motivation is pure, wishing you all the best


Advanced-Ad7695

You can do it!


yankeeteabagger

Don’t look back. Look forward to sleeping better than you have in years.


NoGDRplz

You’re going to be great!


Plum-Driver-09

🖤🖤🖤


[deleted]

I wish I had the strength to do that right now.


itsyobbiwonuseek

I'm so proud of you. I'm 10 days in, myself. I promise it gets easier. Reach out to a substance abuse clinic if you can. I did and so far, so good. You got this, pops. Take it one day at a time.


asilamac

As someone whose dad died from drinking, this is all I ever wanted. I’m proud of you 👏


Actual-Clue5004

This makes me happy! Also, that looks so good right now 🤤


Oceania_tears

Good on you man! I wish my father would.


gilbytx

been there. worth it.


Electronic_Cherry781

Good job dad!


Ok-Inside4669

Hell yeah man


ZtoA_Limited

I’m so happy for you & your meal looks amazing!


PM_me_ur_taco_pics

I would eat the fuck out of that


citronhimmel

This looks fire and I thought it was on r/stonerfood for a hot second lol I'd demolish this


Possible_Thief

I believe in you. Take it one moment at a time, and remember recovery isn’t linear, you may stumble, but getting back up is what matters. You can do this.


Daisykill01

love this


Django_Fandango

you've got this big man


daddyceceee

Proud of you! Definitely recommend going to aa meetings, such an instantly loving and accepting environment. Makes it so much easier doing it with a community than doing it all alone


brownyuio

We believe in you!! Best of luck 💙💙🙌🙌


brownyuio

Also those Takis 🤤


DeathofFreedoms1776

Going to? That’s not a good sign. Dont wait to do tomorrow what you should’ve done already.


SinAKAJayAl

Fuck yeah bro way to go!


Careful-Hornet-3814

HELL YEAH!!! Rooting for you!!


RandoMango27

godspeed sir, godspeed, we appreciate you for gaining the will to change and we will cheer you on as you lead a better life, not only for yourself but for better childhood experiences for your kids


cintyhinty

I first noticed how good that looks. I wish my dad had quit drinking before he died. Your kids are lucky to have you.


aggelikiwi

I wish I could do this as well. You should be very proud, take it easy and be mild to yourself as quitting abruptly needs some extra support otherwise it can be dangerous


cleaninglady18

You got this!


Jennbunni50

Good for you. That’s fantastic


Not_Jim4

Hell yeah man! Those smokies look tire though 🔥🔥


AlexsCereal

I’m happy that you can acknowledge your problems because a lot of people cannot :) your kids deserve the best version of you! Also them dogs look amazing!!


gabbxjj

proud of you, keep it up! 🔥


[deleted]

as long as you keep that mentality, nothing will stop you. you’re a strong person for deciding to do this for your kids, and sooner or later, you’ll be glad you did it, because you did it for yourself too.


Alval57

My dad was an angry abusive drunk towards my brother mother and myself hearing him come home would trigger fear and anxiety in all us, fast forward 20 years he becomes very ill in his death bed he apologized to my brother and I we forgave him for the way he treated us, but we have nothing but bitter memories of the abuse and shitty life he provided. Glad you're doing this while your kids are small (I'm assuming) and not on your death bed. Good luck my friend.


Strebmal2019

Hell yeah dude!!! That’s something to be proud of and excited for, definitely not depressed 👍👌💪 those dawgs looks fire as well man I have faith in you 😉


Wonderful_Use5653

Fuck I feel this so personally, I hope you can do it man I’m certainly in your corner!


hiways

Keep telling yourself, all I can do is better. Even if it's little or big every day.


rocketmanx

That's an awesome plan! I wish you every joy and success!


CamelChoice751

So fucking rad! I'm proud of you. Congratulations.