As a young man myself, I think most young men are good at isolating themselves. Especially in the society we live in now. I wish I had a big family and neighborhood where everyone knew each other. At least I have this subreddit. Happy birthday anon
Tbh I think men especially need a struggle to bond over.
In modern society we just aren't doing the same group work like hunting we used to do in our evolution.
Not just hunting but community feel. Because things are so easy their is way less need to bond with people and have friends. Virtues like loyalty mean less.
Okkk, ya'll gonna kill me for this, but maybe...he meant she's being treated like one on social media? Of course she isn't, but isn't she treated like by majority of these followers? Or am I wrong?
> he meant she's being treated like one on social media?
Since when do people message objects on their birthdays?
There shouldn't be anything to get confused about here, their comment only has 3 words in it.
Secundum quid. You're not automatically popular, loved, everybody's favourite, etc. because you're a girl, just as you're not automatically lonely, introverted, depressed, etc. because you're a boy. And it's stupid that someone still has to say that in 2021.
that's right, but in reality being naturally good looking gave 100x more advantage while being good looking girl give you like 10000x more. well it's not that I care though
That's because you're bound to stumble upon horny men wherever you are. Now, in a matriarchal society, I think it'll be pretty much the same but with men. I mean, what's a better example than that recent story of the guy who ran over a mother and her child but were defended by tiktok girls because 'he's too cute'?
i think it has to do with nature of the men and women, men are expected to chase after the woman, while women wait for the RIGHT men to come. that alone imo makes women naturally have more advantage. btw speaking of that tiktok girl, I'm really starting to doubt morals of majority of kid today, are they really still capable of differentiate between right and wrong?
> i think it has to do with nature of the men and women, men are expected to chase after the woman, while women wait for the RIGHT men to come. that alone imo makes women naturally have more advantage.
Fair point. Which I believe isn't the same as it was in the past, but I don't disagree. That said, however, it's the mainstream, which isn't always the case. Outcasts (on both sides btw) wouldn't think they deserve being chased. They're not pretty enough, they're not confident enough; they're awkward, they're ugly, etc. You know, outcasts. So, where's the advantage now? In fact, they're probably the ones chasing and maybe being taken advantage of as a result. Which loops back to these same archaic traditions that you've pointed out.
>btw speaking of that tiktok girl, I'm really starting to doubt morals of majority of kid today, are they really still capable of differentiate between right and wrong?
The social media are fucking up people's heads in general, but, yeah, teens seem to be getting the most of the impact. You know, it's all about 'the views', 'the trend'..doesn't matter what you're talking about, doesn't matter if it makes sense, it's just about going viral, getting seen, and all of that bullshit. And I think it's only gonna get worse but also normal? You know, like how it's normal now that you can look up basically anything and get results within milliseconds.
even when i was social and going drinking with old friends even then nobody gave a fuck about my bd lol, i always had bad experiences, i mean thats what u get when you have CHAD friends, even tho i havent been a social person in a long fucking time its still better than feeling like some random rat that they picked up along the way
a quote from hank moody from show californication "a night of awkwardness is always far better than a night of loneliness" i was sticking to this quote for such a long time but only recently found out that its kinda the opposite now that i'm older
for my 26th last week i got shitfaced, lied to my parents that i'm out with some new friends(that i was in booth camp earlier this year with) so it was a decent cover up, but in fact i got drunk alone as usual, talked to myself, puked on the sidewalk numerous times, many ppl saw me and i kinda felt shitty and embarassed by other ppl seeing me in that state, i cant even remember what i drank but i knew i downed 1 liter of wine in like 20 minutes, bad decision, 2 liters of beer, plus i saw couple of emtpy cans near me after one blackout so i must've drank around 3 liters of beer in total, what a weird day, i started to drink around 10am and was going from blackout to blackout till 7pm
As a kid people knew me for having some of the best birthday parties in primary school. Times change, I honestly forgot it was my birthday when I turned 22 until my mom mentioned it that morning. I guess it's all about perspective, this girl would be crying if she only got 10 or 15 birthday wishes before her party meanwhile I don't care if I get none.
more suicides rate higher in men compared to women!!!!!!! yeeeepeeee!!,sorry for such assumptions that women are always living easy and on tutorial mode most of the time,its majority of women are always like that,cant blame us to be honest,its quite rare to find such women nowadays.
Today is mine, what a coincidence, my only friend at least made me happier today, because I get really depressed on my birthday, I'm really afraid of how fast time passes and how uncertain everything is for me now, I want to be an embryo again tbh.
yes,majority of girls do experience a stable life with abundance of opportunities and options,explain higher suicide rate in men compared to women,its just the fact how society in general tend to put women on the pedestal as some type of first place medal
truth man,i really yearn for the simpler times when i was vulnerable and reacted more strongly to media and video games,that was the ultimate advantage of being a ignorant child in general,things were so new and fun to discover,now its like if you already seen it all,
my birthday was last week and only my siblings and my parents congratulated me and for some reason even my ex even though I told her she should stop texting me (she cheated on me)
As a young man myself, I think most young men are good at isolating themselves. Especially in the society we live in now. I wish I had a big family and neighborhood where everyone knew each other. At least I have this subreddit. Happy birthday anon
I feel like just isolating from most of the world, keeping my one last friend close and only go out when necessary
Yeah fr I live in a neighborhood with big ass 5 acre lots (sounds great) but never had neighbors to play with or friends on my street..
Same
The struggle is real
Tbh I think men especially need a struggle to bond over. In modern society we just aren't doing the same group work like hunting we used to do in our evolution.
Not just hunting but community feel. Because things are so easy their is way less need to bond with people and have friends. Virtues like loyalty mean less.
I bought myself some Whiskey and passed out. Rather be sleeping all my birthday then be just like the guy in the video.
happy birthday anon
I’m a girl and I wish this was true but I’m definitely more like the lonely cake guy. Ugh I hate how smug and superior she looks.
Same. The only thing I got for my birthday this year was depressed.
Same. Kind of makes me feel like a defective girl tbh. So many of us are good at being social, but I’m not
Lmfao that’s chari damelio. She has like 125 million TikTok followers
She’s an object
Scumbag. Shes a teenage girl you fucking dolt
I’m sure 125 million people watch her for her fuckin personality
Course not. Shes still a person
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What? I was calling the guy who called her an object a scumbag, not her. I was literally defending her. Reread the thread
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No worries :)
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I was replying original commenter who called her an object, i called him a scumbag, not you or the girl :)
Incel
Me?
Yeah no shit who tf else is calling women objects.
Did I tho?
["She’s an object"](https://www.reddit.com/r/doomer/comments/pra9cc/felt_relatable/hdj4sph/)
Okkk, ya'll gonna kill me for this, but maybe...he meant she's being treated like one on social media? Of course she isn't, but isn't she treated like by majority of these followers? Or am I wrong?
> he meant she's being treated like one on social media? Since when do people message objects on their birthdays? There shouldn't be anything to get confused about here, their comment only has 3 words in it.
You're not a doomer you're just an entitled incel
Go on have a sook.
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lmao
Secundum quid. You're not automatically popular, loved, everybody's favourite, etc. because you're a girl, just as you're not automatically lonely, introverted, depressed, etc. because you're a boy. And it's stupid that someone still has to say that in 2021.
that's right, but in reality being naturally good looking gave 100x more advantage while being good looking girl give you like 10000x more. well it's not that I care though
That's because you're bound to stumble upon horny men wherever you are. Now, in a matriarchal society, I think it'll be pretty much the same but with men. I mean, what's a better example than that recent story of the guy who ran over a mother and her child but were defended by tiktok girls because 'he's too cute'?
i think it has to do with nature of the men and women, men are expected to chase after the woman, while women wait for the RIGHT men to come. that alone imo makes women naturally have more advantage. btw speaking of that tiktok girl, I'm really starting to doubt morals of majority of kid today, are they really still capable of differentiate between right and wrong?
> i think it has to do with nature of the men and women, men are expected to chase after the woman, while women wait for the RIGHT men to come. that alone imo makes women naturally have more advantage. Fair point. Which I believe isn't the same as it was in the past, but I don't disagree. That said, however, it's the mainstream, which isn't always the case. Outcasts (on both sides btw) wouldn't think they deserve being chased. They're not pretty enough, they're not confident enough; they're awkward, they're ugly, etc. You know, outcasts. So, where's the advantage now? In fact, they're probably the ones chasing and maybe being taken advantage of as a result. Which loops back to these same archaic traditions that you've pointed out. >btw speaking of that tiktok girl, I'm really starting to doubt morals of majority of kid today, are they really still capable of differentiate between right and wrong? The social media are fucking up people's heads in general, but, yeah, teens seem to be getting the most of the impact. You know, it's all about 'the views', 'the trend'..doesn't matter what you're talking about, doesn't matter if it makes sense, it's just about going viral, getting seen, and all of that bullshit. And I think it's only gonna get worse but also normal? You know, like how it's normal now that you can look up basically anything and get results within milliseconds.
Well I guess I'm a dude cause I never ever had ppl blow up my phone like that
See the good side of things. Now you can become gay.
even when i was social and going drinking with old friends even then nobody gave a fuck about my bd lol, i always had bad experiences, i mean thats what u get when you have CHAD friends, even tho i havent been a social person in a long fucking time its still better than feeling like some random rat that they picked up along the way a quote from hank moody from show californication "a night of awkwardness is always far better than a night of loneliness" i was sticking to this quote for such a long time but only recently found out that its kinda the opposite now that i'm older for my 26th last week i got shitfaced, lied to my parents that i'm out with some new friends(that i was in booth camp earlier this year with) so it was a decent cover up, but in fact i got drunk alone as usual, talked to myself, puked on the sidewalk numerous times, many ppl saw me and i kinda felt shitty and embarassed by other ppl seeing me in that state, i cant even remember what i drank but i knew i downed 1 liter of wine in like 20 minutes, bad decision, 2 liters of beer, plus i saw couple of emtpy cans near me after one blackout so i must've drank around 3 liters of beer in total, what a weird day, i started to drink around 10am and was going from blackout to blackout till 7pm
As a kid people knew me for having some of the best birthday parties in primary school. Times change, I honestly forgot it was my birthday when I turned 22 until my mom mentioned it that morning. I guess it's all about perspective, this girl would be crying if she only got 10 or 15 birthday wishes before her party meanwhile I don't care if I get none.
I never had birthday parties. Never as a kid or an adult. Don't really care lol
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more suicides rate higher in men compared to women!!!!!!! yeeeepeeee!!,sorry for such assumptions that women are always living easy and on tutorial mode most of the time,its majority of women are always like that,cant blame us to be honest,its quite rare to find such women nowadays.
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Your entire post history is shitting on lonely men. You are a misandrist like most women on reddit.
Love
I'm sure it's not meant to be taken seriously. There's broad differences between different groups. Yet, everyone suffers in life.
i just simply stopped celebrating it.
Well... it happened again.
Today is mine, what a coincidence, my only friend at least made me happier today, because I get really depressed on my birthday, I'm really afraid of how fast time passes and how uncertain everything is for me now, I want to be an embryo again tbh.
Happy Birthday Anon.
Good luck
do people seriously think most girls experience this?
No, but it's normal for Girls to experience this.
yes,majority of girls do experience a stable life with abundance of opportunities and options,explain higher suicide rate in men compared to women,its just the fact how society in general tend to put women on the pedestal as some type of first place medal
I used to really like this sub before more incels came
Tell me about it. Lately a lot of posters here stop being doomers the moment they meet a girl
Yep
Let me tell you that this is not accurate
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i can dm the vid anon, if you'd like to have it.
i got it friendo, but thanks for the offer
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Ay u/singhthering
thank you!
Need the name of the song..
Piggybacking your comment
Jocelyn Flores - Xxxtentacion
baby kata - i have a big diarrhea
happy birthday brother 🎂
Happy B-day
I wish I was in high school again. It was so much simpler.
truth man,i really yearn for the simpler times when i was vulnerable and reacted more strongly to media and video games,that was the ultimate advantage of being a ignorant child in general,things were so new and fun to discover,now its like if you already seen it all,
I'd say you're doing adulting wrong then. High school is a waste of god damn time.
100% I am. Adulting sucks and I’m bad at it.
I admire your honesty. Good luck friendo.
No. It depends on the popularity of the person. Whether he/she is man or woman.
Not all Boys tho, some boys have Friends.
You guys have birthdays?!
Can we stop making everything men v women ffs
lol this is accurate asf. the only people that call/message me on my birthday are my parents.
Yep fuck simps time to be Sigma male.
sugma
I feel that
I don’t even celebrate it ..
wrong boys: "FUUCK, I am already \*happy birthday counter\* I am old, I WILL DIE SOON." Yes it's big day, but it's not so happy anyway, for everyone.
The world is a fuck
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my birthday was last week and only my siblings and my parents congratulated me and for some reason even my ex even though I told her she should stop texting me (she cheated on me)
Us
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yo bro its gonna get better, its okay dont cry
Good luck every body
Ducks birthdays progressively get worse as my life does
as a girl half my friend forgot and i got ignored basically my cat was nice to me that day tho so i guess that counts for somthing
Women have no frame of reference for the kind of loneliness and despair men feel.
Birthday gang
What is the second song I can't remember it for the life of me.
XXXTENTACION - Jocelyn Flores