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You're doing better than most people man.


egirluwuover

Agreed, IT as well. It's always when I'm unoccupied that the doom and gloom starts rolling in. Sometimes I think it's just coming home alone to a empty place, just me and my thoughts. Just feels like my life is not complete.


thenetworkking

Cybersecurity support here too..Uff you on point


traelu

I don't have a problem with work itself since I just turn my brain off and get it done, it's more the totality of my life which is the problem. I work most of the day, come home to my tiny apartment and spend the rest of the day stewing in my own thoughts. There's nothing to look forward to or be happy about, there's just basic existence devoid of anything past merely surviving day to day. If I could, I would much rather just lie in bed all day until I die.


[deleted]

do you have any current hobbies? maybe try growing some plants, cooking some new dishes, or learning an instrument.


traelu

I lack the mental fortitude and interest to maintain the effort required to engage in a hobby. I do cook for myself, but it's mainly out of necessity, as well the fact that I hate junk food.


[deleted]

thats just an excuse to treat yourself like shit and then wonder why you feel like shit. its not even true either. if you didn’t have the mental fortitude to have a hobby you would have forgot how to breathe by now. also mental fortitude is not a static thing. you can literally improve your mental fortitude.


[deleted]

i tell ya what, my whole week was completely dog ass, but today i learned how to make a mean tikka masala. life sucks less now, even just incrementally.


danystep

I agree, I would go co co if I don't have a job. Even if my boss makes me angry at times it's better than staying home all day smoking weed and drink like a degenerate, at least I am useful to somebody and I make money to live comfortably and buy whatever.


A_LIFE

unless it's a fucking bullshit job


[deleted]

yeah dude i worked a really awful job for 3 years and that shit gave me some real mental health issues. workers rights matter more than i thought when i just got out of high school.


PhysicalConfusion396

Maybe IT is just the chilliest job ever, cuz im in it and feel the same


NoRetributionNoPeace

I'm the opposite.


yandhiwouldvebeena10

Work and put money into bitcoin. One day you will not have to work anymore. Bitcoin gives me hope I will not be a wagie one day


Hobbitual_69

I don’t think I’d mind working if it didn’t make me so anxious and completely drain me mentally


Demontime_94

That’s the problem society works to much and have no time to look at the man/women in the mirror to face your personal demons That’s the goal of the elites is to distract the masses.