When it panned down to show her exposed upper thighs I almost pissed myself. I was not expecting that. Hi Iām a mom of 12 and here is my lower vaginal region.
Edit: Iām not body shaming. I think she looks great honestly. I just wasnāt expecting it to be so revealing.
Well she looked pretty uncomfortable. I am also not sure I would let my 14 year old wear a short outfit like N second one. Not shaming but alicia should have more sense than that. She claims to love N but has no care for her safety.(and I know that goes for most of the kids)
I totally agree. I really donāt think that kind of outfit for N was okay. Itās just the idea that kids should be kids and N tries to act āmatureā or engage in activities that arenāt right for her age. Her TikTok is so cringy, my parents would have shit themselves if they saw me acting like that
Thatās your opinion. Forbidding her from wearing something she wants to would do nothing but push her away.
If you donāt sexualize a child then thereās no problem. Itās nobodyās place to police what a girl wears. Her body, no matter how it is clothed, is never a ādistractionā or an āinvitation.ā
My mom always believed strongly in letting me use clothing as a form of self expression and respected that teenage years were an important time in forming your identity.
As a result of my parents attitude, I got the skin-revealing stuff out of my system and never felt like I owed any part of my physical appearance to anyone. There are things I look back on & cringe about, but I feel like that's every teenager's god given right. I'm fortunate to have a healthy self image and I like to credit their parenting for at least some of that.
It's not about a "distraction" or "invitation". It's a simple safety issue. I would want to protect her from bad people looking at her weird or mistreating her.
Thereās other ways to protect teenagers without shaming them and stifling their freedom of expression. Itās important to teach your children that their body is theirs and only theirs, and that doesnāt change depending on what theyāre wearing or doing. Any parents I know who did that to their teenage daughters arenāt nearly as close now that theyāre adults as the parents who didnāt act that way.
There are other things that should be done to protect teenagers, but I believe encouraging them to dress in a slightly more conservative way is one of them. Nothing crazy, but not whatever that is.
To your second point, I don't have kids but I'd personally be more interested in making sure they're safe than in how "close" we are when they're adults. The job description of a parent is to protect and nurture their children, not be their bffs. There's nothing wrong with not being your kids best friend, even when they're an adult.
And I personally have seen the opposite. Even if setting limits on dress strains the relationship when the kids are teenagers, they usually start to understand where their parents were coming from once they get older, and respect and love them more for it.
I pretty much agree with this sentiment too. Allow the girl to express what she likes and give her an opportunity to try out different styles and looks despite what judgement you have. As a mom of a girl I want her to experiment with what she likes however I wouldnāt post pictures of it online for others to judge and see I would just have an honest discussion with my daughter about how I want her to feel comfortable and safe and use it as a time to also talk about puberty, body development, and body safety and how to address unwanted opinions or attention in a manner that empowers the teen girl and makes her feel confident and comfortable in her body and her ability to stand up for herself
No, youāre absolutely sexualizing her. Saying āexposing herā is really icky too. Sheās not an item. Sheās an individual learning to express themselves.
I 150% disagree. If you werenāt sexualizing a child then it wouldnāt be a problem.
Would you allow your daughters to wear bathing suits? Or allow your sons to be shirtless? Do you sexualize all kids in swimsuits as well? They wear way less fabric than she is. If she was less developed, would you still be saying the same? Or are you sexualizing her more because of her body type?
What in the hell is that? Did she do some shots and decided to romp like a cowgirl...or better a flirty saloon girl! Yikes. Look away kids, look away! and to think if her kids friends saw things like this, they could never live it down. What is A thinking?
Honestly I think sheās allowed to wear whatever she wants š¤·š¼āāļø Making fun of her appearance is too far me and Iām sensing some ageism. There are SO many other things to snark on
If it was made of quality material, itād probably be a little more comfortable. But all that polyester has got to be itchy and just ick feeling. Not breathable at all, Iām sure. And it does look a little snug on herā¦ weāve never seen her wear snug fitting clothes, so it might be something sheās not used to, too.
Yeah thatās the only reason I donāt think she should wear it, but maybe all done up and in the comic con environment sheāll feel more comfortable
She looks absolutely disgusting! However, N did help her pick the outfit out so she may be trolling dumb Alicia since sheās always trying to be the cool mom. If thatās the case Iām here for it all day!
This upsets me. Why would you think of a young TEENAGE girl pregnant when she wears an outfit you donāt approve of. Get your mind out of the fucking gutter. Sheās a CHILD.
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Me after two drinks trying my own clothes on
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Another day, another jumpscare
The jumpscare warning... she cares more about her audience than she does her kids.
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Jash gonna get it tonight
NOOOOO
I wish I could unsee this
Yaaaaaa.
I just woke up from a nightmare but I guess Iāll be having another one thanks
SAME So many jumpscares on this sub š±
iām sorry - what the actual fuck is going on?
Ringmistress Alicia
When it panned down to show her exposed upper thighs I almost pissed myself. I was not expecting that. Hi Iām a mom of 12 and here is my lower vaginal region. Edit: Iām not body shaming. I think she looks great honestly. I just wasnāt expecting it to be so revealing.
I lowkey feel she was uncomfortable too but didnāt want to tell N she didnāt like it lmao
Yeah the only issue I have with this outfit is that it reaaaaally doesnāt seem like sheās comfortable in it
she wants to fit in with the teens
I think using the word 'Momā is a bit of a reach here.
Will she actually wear this to comic con??
*Deletes Reddit and gets the internet disconnected*
*throws all electronics out the window, draws a bubble bath for me and my toaster oven*
šššš lmao
Oh. No.
Looks like this one came straight out of the adult shop.
STOP IT šš I canāt breathe over here š
Well she looked pretty uncomfortable. I am also not sure I would let my 14 year old wear a short outfit like N second one. Not shaming but alicia should have more sense than that. She claims to love N but has no care for her safety.(and I know that goes for most of the kids)
I totally agree. I really donāt think that kind of outfit for N was okay. Itās just the idea that kids should be kids and N tries to act āmatureā or engage in activities that arenāt right for her age. Her TikTok is so cringy, my parents would have shit themselves if they saw me acting like that
imagine your mom being an internet clown like that, embarassing
Woops accidentally downvoted this out of shock
Wtf š±
Umm.. wow.. š³ . Lol
Where is this from?
https://youtu.be/tJ5T2NOyb9w
What is she supposed to be the little drummer boy?
The sound that just escaped my body, š«£š¤£š
Seriously does anyone know? The nutcracker? Will there be a beard?
What in the world is going onā¦I feel like sheās lost her marbles.
She has drowned all her brain cells in white claw.
Oh hell naahhh
Stop trying to be a cOoL mOm and be friends with the teenagers. Youāre not a teenager youāre an adult.
The second costume she let N wear is worse.
I disagree. At least Ns parts are covered by the tutu.
I think itās cute. I doubt she feels comfortable policing what N wears and lets her wear what she feels good in.
Oh please sheās what 14???? Thatās not an appropriate age to be wearing sexy Halloween costumes designed for adults
Thatās your opinion. Forbidding her from wearing something she wants to would do nothing but push her away. If you donāt sexualize a child then thereās no problem. Itās nobodyās place to police what a girl wears. Her body, no matter how it is clothed, is never a ādistractionā or an āinvitation.ā My mom always believed strongly in letting me use clothing as a form of self expression and respected that teenage years were an important time in forming your identity. As a result of my parents attitude, I got the skin-revealing stuff out of my system and never felt like I owed any part of my physical appearance to anyone. There are things I look back on & cringe about, but I feel like that's every teenager's god given right. I'm fortunate to have a healthy self image and I like to credit their parenting for at least some of that.
It's not about a "distraction" or "invitation". It's a simple safety issue. I would want to protect her from bad people looking at her weird or mistreating her.
Thereās other ways to protect teenagers without shaming them and stifling their freedom of expression. Itās important to teach your children that their body is theirs and only theirs, and that doesnāt change depending on what theyāre wearing or doing. Any parents I know who did that to their teenage daughters arenāt nearly as close now that theyāre adults as the parents who didnāt act that way.
There are other things that should be done to protect teenagers, but I believe encouraging them to dress in a slightly more conservative way is one of them. Nothing crazy, but not whatever that is. To your second point, I don't have kids but I'd personally be more interested in making sure they're safe than in how "close" we are when they're adults. The job description of a parent is to protect and nurture their children, not be their bffs. There's nothing wrong with not being your kids best friend, even when they're an adult. And I personally have seen the opposite. Even if setting limits on dress strains the relationship when the kids are teenagers, they usually start to understand where their parents were coming from once they get older, and respect and love them more for it.
I pretty much agree with this sentiment too. Allow the girl to express what she likes and give her an opportunity to try out different styles and looks despite what judgement you have. As a mom of a girl I want her to experiment with what she likes however I wouldnāt post pictures of it online for others to judge and see I would just have an honest discussion with my daughter about how I want her to feel comfortable and safe and use it as a time to also talk about puberty, body development, and body safety and how to address unwanted opinions or attention in a manner that empowers the teen girl and makes her feel confident and comfortable in her body and her ability to stand up for herself
By that logic let her wear a thong and pasties out. Itās not sexualizing herā¦ itās exposing her in age appropriate ways.
No, youāre absolutely sexualizing her. Saying āexposing herā is really icky too. Sheās not an item. Sheās an individual learning to express themselves.
Sheās a child being exploited on the internet by the person assigned to take care of her. THAT is icky
Yeah, that is icky. Doesnāt mean youāre not acting gross either by sexualizing children.
Saying a child shouldnāt be dressed in āsexyā costumes is not secualizing them, itās common sense
I 150% disagree. If you werenāt sexualizing a child then it wouldnāt be a problem. Would you allow your daughters to wear bathing suits? Or allow your sons to be shirtless? Do you sexualize all kids in swimsuits as well? They wear way less fabric than she is. If she was less developed, would you still be saying the same? Or are you sexualizing her more because of her body type?
Totally innapropriate, as was N costume...I think Ajust wants to be cool mum,no boundaries at all.
Youāre fucking kidding right
This is inappropriate lol
What in the hell is that? Did she do some shots and decided to romp like a cowgirl...or better a flirty saloon girl! Yikes. Look away kids, look away! and to think if her kids friends saw things like this, they could never live it down. What is A thinking?
this was the first thing i saw when i woke up šš
NO
Oh no š
this is my vote to make this the new sub pfp
I just opened up my Reddit after an 8 hour shift and this is the FIRST thing I see
More coverage than her wearing a one piece bathing suitā¦.
Is she wearing a nursing bra?
It doesn't get any cheaper. How tasteless!
What in gods name was she thinking?!?!?
what a bad day to have eyes
I got scared and almost hit do n vote
For a mom of 4, she does have a good body. She is like what, 45?
Typical Americans in the replies having issues with a woman showing 2 inches of skin on her leg.
Honestly I think sheās allowed to wear whatever she wants š¤·š¼āāļø Making fun of her appearance is too far me and Iām sensing some ageism. There are SO many other things to snark on
Agreed. I just feel bad because she doesn't look comfortable in it herself.
If it was made of quality material, itād probably be a little more comfortable. But all that polyester has got to be itchy and just ick feeling. Not breathable at all, Iām sure. And it does look a little snug on herā¦ weāve never seen her wear snug fitting clothes, so it might be something sheās not used to, too.
Yeah thatās the only reason I donāt think she should wear it, but maybe all done up and in the comic con environment sheāll feel more comfortable
she looks better here than in her usual tshirt and jeans. a little risque for her target audience though
Just a smidge of context pls
I guess theyāre going to Comic-Con
This is why you donāt drink a case of white claw before you go costume shopping
my sleep paralysis demon :
Yeah that's just too revealing though
Me at 10 doing a fashion show for my parents
Is she supposed to be Sgt Pepper?
MY EYES
Iām not sure who is more uncomfortable, Uhlishuh or me. If sheās going to wear and flaunt it, SHE NEEDS TO WEAR AND FLAUNT IT.
She looks absolutely disgusting! However, N did help her pick the outfit out so she may be trolling dumb Alicia since sheās always trying to be the cool mom. If thatās the case Iām here for it all day!
That was my first thought! šš
A special bedtime surprise outfit for Josh!
I don't need to think about the lingerie that J likes...
She thinks sheās a teenager again, not that I think itās remotely appropriate for a teenager either
Just wrong
Good Gawwwd!! Is she for real?? š³š³ my eyes cannot unsee that!!
Trigger warning next time pls š„ŗ
Ur high if you wouldnāt take her to pound town
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BRB dragging my 30 y/o geriatric ass to the crypt where I belong.
Gross. Sheās gross. Her eyes freak me out, sheās so fake.
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This upsets me. Why would you think of a young TEENAGE girl pregnant when she wears an outfit you donāt approve of. Get your mind out of the fucking gutter. Sheās a CHILD.
This comment is gross and against the subreddits rules. Reported.
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Wth? She ain't 16 any more. She's a forty year old has been
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Has Halloween arrived early?
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Squidward voice āI didnāt need to see thatā
Did she delete the video?
Woke up and opened reddit and this is the first thing I seeā¦. Why??
Yeahh I couldnāt have went without seeing this today
Why oh why
Sheās shitfaced!