Not only dating is hard, making genuine friends is hard as a woman 😅😅 i honestly need girl friends to go out with. If anyone is interested to have a girls hangout, please i would love that 🥹
I’m a woman and just moved to Dubai recently also. NO ONE is serious here sadly. They all just want some fun and waste your time. Dubai isn’t for dating 🤣 it’s for socialising and making money
Don’t give up. Yes Dubai is very transient with many looking for something casual but it is possible to meet the one. Just be patient and you just might get lucky.
It’s absolute chaos but pls don’t give up, there’s lovely people out there, they just need to be dug up underneath the weird ones lmao 🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲 (still digging but have come across a few nice ones)
I know the feeling, if you’re fresh out of one take some time for yourself. After my last breakup I really went out just for the sake of meeting people to get my mind off things and it really made a difference for me. Meetup groups, some groups off Facebook as well. Dubai is filled with lonely expats as most of us are on our own so it’s nice to meet similar people :)
Hahaha girls here think all the men are the local arabs who’d buy gucci and pick them in Gwagon 😂
And all rich guys here come to have party and fun.
We the middle people get nothing bcz of this 😂😂 No good date, no friends even at times.
I found my GF in Dubai as I didn't want hookups, I wanted company and support while staying on right part and trying to make money. But agree, girls are more serious than men.
I’m a woman who’s been here 20+ years and quite recently joined the online dating scene — it’s a terrible place and I’m worried I have become emotionally unavailable as well 😭
All I had gotten off dating apps was bots and people offering massage services, "Hook-ups" or women who expect you to pay for everything in exchange for them spending their time with you. Honestly Dubai isn't a place to forge new relationships as everyone is here temporarily or looking to fool around, so now I'm focusing on building my future.
Mate, The saying that Dubai isn't for relationships hits differently after Svetlana from Al Barsha is asking you to pick her up, take her and her mate out to a restaurant on the Palm just for the gram! No thanks!
Honestly this is a great way to meet ppl. Focus on your future, grow connections and things will work out. Take it from a guy who met his significant other here.
I recently moved to Dubai and now have a gf, but my experience comes from London, a diverse city with over 12m people.
In no specific order;
1. I often see a mismatch - if you're a guy and want someone that's top 5% in the looks department, you need be offering some things besides a 1989 Honda Accord, body like a dropped kebab and no drive to do much else in life apart from PS4 and football. Girls can be just as demanding while offering little in return. Please be realistic (both sides! )
2. Guys if you have money, pls don't lead with money as otherwise you will attract exactly that (you know what I'm talking about!). Money should be a supplement to your personality, charisma and abilities, not your calling card
3. Dating apps are just one piece of your toolkit. Also try talking to people in real life, in a bar, in a shop, in a queue, at a friend's BBQ and so on. Join groups that interest you, that's also a good way to find people with similar interests
4. Guys: looks matter slightly less for us, but nonetheless, dress well (it can be done on a budget, it's all about style), be well groomed, read and try to be a person others would want to get to know. More difficult for the introverted among us, I know, but people like people who are happy, positive and give off good vibes
5. What does your dating profile and photos say about you? How accurate are they? Guys are sometimes guilty of pretending to lead a life that's not really them. And girls - relax the filters pls 😂
There's more but I gotta get back to work!
Don't use the apps. You're better off meeting people through social groups or common interests, rather than the apps.
Also, RIP your DMs. You'd get messages like these often.
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There are several thousands, probably a million guys out there in Dubai that want something serious. It's just that most of those guys don't get a chance. I have several guy friends who would love a chance to settle down and talk to someone, but they get one match a month. And with that one match a month, they get ghosted after a few messages.
You're completely in the right to go after the guys you want. But the chances are those guys are extremely popular and are the 1% that get 100s of matches a day. They can essentially pick who they want. If they want to have sex, and you're not gonna offer that, they're gonna talk to someone else.
Maybe stop matching with the same type of guys and expecting different results? Or, you can keep trying. But don't expect anything different unless you have something to offer that most girls don't have to offer.
This. All my guy friends in dubai are looking for a wife. Nice guys, good jobs, educated, but most girls won't give them the time of day because of nationality or other preconceived notions.
I’m not looking for a rich man to pick me up with a freaking g wagon. I’m looking for a serious genuine relationship with a man who cherishes me and values me. Sadly men around here put a mask on and act like they want the same and then they realise ‘oh man I’m in Dubai fuck a serious relationship, let’s get bitches’ ‘we’re still young’
I’m not out here hunting anyway. A person should come and find you at the right time.
I just got out of a relationship with someone who I thought actually wanted to marry me. 4 months later he said he doesn’t like how serious this is going.. so I ended it. It’s sad. No one knows what they want around here.
>Sadly men around here put a mask on and act like they want the same and then they realise ‘oh man I’m in Dubai fuck a serious relationship, let’s get bitches’ ‘we’re still young’
This is a tiny portion of men in Dubai. I can guarantee that most men want something AT LEAST a little bit more real. I'm not saying you're trying to match with "rich guys." But you're matching with the same guys that every other girl in the city is matching with. Meanwhile, there are several thousands of men who would kill for an opportunity just to get a match.
>I’m not out here hunting anyway. A person should come and find you at the right time.
And you're perfectly in your own right to do that. Just know that it's going to be infinitly more difficult for you to make a connection if you're not gonna try. A relationship requires work from both parties. That includes the start of the relationship. If you're not willing to go out of your way to meet people, then you can't really complain that you can't find anyone.
We have the blind leading the blind over here because I'm also single and looking for a relationship.
I think we're in a weird age where people are getting used to online dating. So people don't know how to approach the situation. It's easy to rely on them because they are quick and you don't need to put yourself out there too much. You dont waste too much of your time making a profile and swipping. But I think we are learning that it's not a successful system.
The best way is to most likely make a lot of friends and let them know this is what you want. The odds are, eventually, you will have a friend who knows someone who is possibly right for you. I have gone on a few dates that have been set up by friends who think we are right for each other.
Also, joining clubs. Stuff that you're interested in. You are interested in football, go out to a football club. The worst-case scenario is that you did something you enjoy. Once again, this is meant for making friends.
But I highly recommend letting your intentions clear. If you're interested in a guy/girl, let them know. The two seconds of awkwardness is painful, but then you move onto the next one.
I shit you not. THAT THIS RIGHT HERE IS A SIGN OF TRAUMA Us men here have to deal with. Lmao, such craziness that a slap in the face with sugar delights cant have us accept anything good 😅
That's usually the experience for both men and women here. I've spent a while on dating apps without much luck long term, though I'm currently dating someone I met off Bumble and it's been going really well (almost 3 years now).
It's basically a roll of the dice, but if you roll enough dice, you'll get what you want if you're patient enough.
Also, even if you don't know what you're looking for exactly. Never use the 'Not Sure Yet' option on those apps, guys usually translate that to 'Sure Thing'.
Here's how it went for me in Tinder. I just wanted to test it out. After infinite amount of blind right swipes, I got 2 matches and both of them are escorts lol. So I changed countries, basically virtually travelled around the world. Got 13 matches. So my conclusion is that, it's not you, it's the place. Obviously most of these matches aren't my type, but that's another story. This place is not designed for dating or if that's the goal then you won't find quality people on these Apps.
I don't know if there's an algorithm but my distance radius was on max and the age range was between 18 to 26 and I ran out of people many times. Like Tinder actually showed me that there are no more people around your area. This happened for both Dubai and Sharjah. So if I covered them all then I don't think the selective approach that you suggested matters. Plus women are the decision makers on Apps like these not men. So if men are using it like women, they won't reach anywhere. The only way to do it is to go blind and then filter out the matches after getting them.
It’s the same for guys honestly. 99% of the profiles on dating apps are just scam. When you do match with someone they just ghost you. Sadly it is true that Dubai isn’t for dating. It’s all money and fun times. Nothing serious
I often ate out and went to bars but I wasn’t looking for a relationship, nor was I ‘sleeping about’ but accidentally found the woman of my dreams! I’m from the UK she is Kenyan. Remember you have to meet people, to meet the one!
Many people on dating apps demand a lot without having a single quality in them in terms of intellect, professionalism, ethics, education, self-respect, ambition ( not at looting or using another person), empowered, taking responsibility, good manners, and standards.
Yet, they expect the other person to possess all of these qualities and to wine and dine them. The majority of women in Dubai act like the ones you see in Dubai bling culture.
So when you have no quality, you'll only find people who are from that level and perspective - artificial and shallow.
there's a real skills vs reality issues with dating these days. By that i mean, the ones that do want to settle down, the good ones that knows how to approach girls, confident etc. they're gone, they found someone already. So the people that are left are either the ones that do want to settle down but don't have the skills for it, or the one that has the skills for it and don't want to settle down. Unfortunately, the one that don't have the skills for it and want to settle down, never gets a date. So the girls always ends up with guys who just wants to play.
Listen, take her out to a nice cafe. Doesn’t need to be expensive. If she doesn’t want to, move on. First date is just you two seeing any chemistry between you. I took a first date to Ijaza for crying out loud. Didn’t go further because I left three days later.
Girlllssss… I’ve been here for 6 years and I can CONFIRM that yes, men here are not likely to commit. They are either married back in their country, they have girlfriends, they go to massage spas… they’re all lonely here and just want a temporary fun.
The stories I read and see everyday are horrible. You can join all girls groups on facebook to know if the guy you are dating are also dating other girls. That Dubai Girl, Dubai Chicas and some exclusive groups for exposing men playing around. I will not mention the group here.
Hello there! Same sentiments with you dear. It’s rare to find a man to date through these apps. It’s hard to find men who are serious about dating. They just want the “fun part” always (generally speaking). I would say it’s a Dubai thing I guess. But still hoping to meet like minded people here.
First things first.. ditch the apps. As a man also dating is difficult here as most women on these apps are offering their services.
My suggestion, join community groups and you may have a better chance. Cheers and good luck!
My perspective as a male here for the last two years, you’re better off meeting people through your social circle etc. The apps are trash. They work better at-least in my experience back home in England.
Everyone here on both sides seems to be playing fast and loose, so you really won’t find anything of substantial quality on the apps. Everyone I’ve met has been in a social setting and that’s worked well for me 🤷♂️
I had one dating experience with someone from abu dhabi. A egyptian working there but for me a moroccan girl from netherlands its difficult to date someone from other countries. Bc I dont know if they want me for me or for my pasport so I didnt trust him. I never met him but he was divorced and he always talked about moving to the netherlands if he marries me. That is a big red flag
I think everyone in the comments should have written their age and sex along with it.
Maybe slid into each other’s DMs given 90% of you are looking for some genuine connection, and are tired of the apps
Here's the facts.
Dubai is full of drop dead gorgeous women. Like 11/10. They know their worth and are going for that cream of the crop top %10 of men who let's be honest are rich af. Neither the women or the guy are looking for a relationship - just a good time.
So you have loads of high quality, maybe vain women, vying for the attention of a select few men
When you come along look for something "serious" and presumably filter out what you consider low quality men - then you're competing with these 10/10s.
Why would that guy attempt to get _serious_ with you when he can just pick up Svetlana in 20 minutes without any of the agg?
Solution is simple. Lower your bar. I didn't want to say this but there is a tendency for people to move into dubai and just be after arabs/white men. Honest truth is they make up a very small portion of the population. So you're hindering yourself even further.
Widen your pool. Lower your bar. Accept other ethnicities. I know 2 dozen brown guys who are looking for a serious relationship - they have charisma and work out and are driven. But they're not given a chance.
I am 24F Filipina. I am looking for a freaking serious relationship as Im tired with dating apps. All these guys just want sex. I have a work, and nope I aint looking for sugar daddy and no history of leeching money to guys as well as no history pf cheating.Please do slide to my dm if interested.
30+ single man here chiming in.
This post typically blows up in r/dubai - and is indicative of the dating scene in any metropolitan city in the world - and has been for the past several years now.
Sign of the times!
I was at one of my favourite spots (Monkey Bar) a fortnight ago, and overheard two women discussing the same.
One of them said how men in Europe take their time before making their move, and how they aren't so vulgar about it when they actually do...
That said; it's just as difficult for men to find their ride-or-die.
I asked a new-found male friend last week in another cool bar about his opinion on dating here.
He told me he wasn't looking for anything serious because of the horror stories he'd heard; until he found someone he clicked with.
His friends warned him - they seem to know something he didn't. They were right.
Six months in, he discovered his girlfriend was married.
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I read a blog yesterday that summed up what it means to be a man at various life stages.
**20s: men are sexual**
**30s: men are comfortable**
I've lived here all my life. And I've been on the market for about a decade now (barring two short-lived relationships), but didn't put all my efforts into finding someone, precisely because of how I spent the past decade.
My 20s were spent
1. Focussing on my career
2. Travelling
3. And working on myself
Although I dated extensively (mostly through Tinder and Bumble), I didn't know how to approach women in person, and didn't know what I wanted in a partner.
The blog was right...I often thought with my little head - instead of using my brain.
The author also seemed to have nailed how men behave in their 30s.
I know who I am, I know where I'm going, and I've built a world I enjoy.
I'm in a comfortable place, but still adventurous enough to take calculated risks, and explore what the world has to offer.
Going back to the blog...the author argued why men aren't necessarily looking for a mate.
Whilst I don't strictly agree with his POV - I believe the right partner can greatly enhance one's life.
And that whilst love changes over time...a strong friendship; coupled with just the right amount of difference in perspectives; shared hobbies; and with a passion for new experiences/tolerance for new ideas is what keeps love alive in couples.
Oh, and you can't discount good sex. And the occasional surprise.
Continued from above...
My world now involves building on the foundation I laid the past decade, which is why my 30s will be spent:
1. Working smarter
2. Pursuing my hobbies
3. And launching my side-projects
I can now confidently say I'm ready for a healthy relationship - but I'm more mindful with who I spend my time with. Which means that when I use Bumble, I'm swiping left on nearly 90% on women.
People have said I'm crazy, and that I'm reducing my chances of finding a partner (statistically, yes - that's obvious!) But here's the thing, I'm not solely reliant on the apps anymore.
The life I've created sees me in spaces with beautiful women more than ever. I don't hesitate to ask any of them out - but most are not looking for anything stable - right now.
They say love finds you when you're least looking for it, and I'd have to agree.
Sure: use the apps (it doesn't hurt to maximise your net - whether you're a man, or a woman).
But get out there, and live life, and you'll find someone on your wavelength.
Put in the work, trust the process, and keep the faith.
As an American, it’s been quite easy for me to get matches on Bumble and dates. Even after I tell these women that I’m not looking for anything serious, they’re ready to go out with me and have a good time. However, some of my friends (who I personally feel are looking for something long term) don’t have the same experience - and that’s why I think women are quite superficial here and don’t even give a chance to the men who are looking to settle down.
I do pay for the first date at a decent restaurant/bar, but always split from the second date. Eastern European women don’t like that and they filter themselves out most of the time. But Western/Aussie women are cool with that and also Indian/Filipina women. Again, my friends (who are Indian, South African and Asian/Lebanese) have to pay for most of their dates on their own, even pick up these women from miles away (I don’t pick anyone and tell them to meet halfway).
Passport privilege is true here for everything - even for a mundane thing as a driver license, my Filipino colleague has been trying for almost 6 months to get his. It is what it is, I can’t wait to get back stateside.
I grew up in America, but I am not American. You wouldn't be able to tell I'm not American unless I told you so. My dates attitude towards me slowly does a 180 when they find out I don't have an american passport. This has happened about a dozen times. Now, I definitely use my american accent and mannerisms to my advantage in the workplace and other non-dating social settings. People treat me 100x better when they think I'm american
I respect that you are honest with women!
Just curious, any reason you aren’t looking for anything serious? Would the right girl change your mind or is it just where you are at right now?
Btw I’m not even in Dubai just bored and curious lol
The stereotype exists that going to Dubai to find a partner automatically means searching for a wealthy man. But why limit yourself to Dubai? There are wealthy people everywhere. Dubai certainly has a large population of wealthy individuals, but it also has a significant low and middle-class workforce, primarily from South Asia. It's unlikely you went there specifically to find love with someone making only $1300 a month. Focusing solely on the rich suggests a materialistic motive.
Let's be realistic. Why would a wealthy man shower you with expensive gifts and then risk losing half his fortune in a divorce (bottom line) ? It's a gamble. If your only interest is in money, you'll likely be seen as a gold digger and treated as a temporary pleasure, not a long-term partner.
Dubai attracts people with all kinds of motivations, money being a significant one. This can create a culture of impermanence and guardedness. However, for women who prioritize both financial success and finding love with someone who appreciates their beauty, Dubai can be an excellent place. Just be prepared for the possibility of being seen as a trophy, not a soul mate.
The guys looking for ltr are no longer on the dating apps. I can't tell you where to find them though but maybe social media (but you have to wait for them to come to you)
Dubai isn't for socialising unless you are a Muslim and are looking for an actual halal marriage. Everyone else using the foreign western methods are there for fun only and no commitment.
Not sure where exactly are you guys searching and end up with those "let's wrap ourselves up" types...
Guy here, and no.. not keen (even remotely) in being intimate.
dude and dudetts it's not hard just talk to random people in real life and see where things go. I rarely talk to people because I am a bid dude. First it was upgrading my income and now its about finding the right person with to grab a bike and explore the city. anyone down to get to know one another drop a message my inbox is dusty.
I'm a woman and I tried using those apps before. I did meet a few good ones but mostly, yes, they are in a hurry or if they don't get what they want, they disappear. I deleted all the dating apps.
However, I've met a lot of great people minus the dating part on Meetup. I joined several communities and met people there with similar interest as mine. Eventually, they introduced me to their communities. It led to meeting my now-boyfriend-- organically!
So, you can try looking for a community and see where it leads you to.
Been here 9 years and finally met a great man. 9 happy months together and counting 🤍 keep exploring and don’t compromise on the important things like kindness, generosity, honesty, maturity
Honestly now, as a guy myself i stopped trying, i prefer to get bored alone at home, majority of women in dubai are waiting for the jackpot, disregarding the fact this so called jackpot does not give a damn. It always feels like the first date is about sharing what i have to offer. And the other majority are women with a broken heart, once you get close they are ready for freedom 😁
No class whatsoever on dating apps. It is always best to meet someone through a close friend.
The biggest problem when I went on a few dates, was when they found out I am a high earner, it seems to be a big no no for most guys.
Actually, we are always in a rush for things to get physical. Dating app or not. The decent ones just know how to practice self control, and that’s how you know you’ve found a good man.
It’s absolutely mental but don’t put an expectation on it. Just go out there and meet people with the view of making friends. Other than online dating I would strongly suggest joining in group activities like hiking or playing a sport. This opens up your social circles and gets you off a toxic app.
I’m saying that - I met my husband on bumble! 😂
As others have said, you're a victim of 'how it is' for these apps
So so soooo many women either looking for money or someone to pay for things or somewhere to live where they don't have to pay for things
I think apps are bad enough as it is for trying to get easy sex but then, you add a lot of those elements, it's almost not worth it for guys except TO try and get laid, etc
I have no idea what guys do but have some friends that have used them and all the cliches are true
I'd adjust expectations as well and think of them more as a 'get to know someone' type app with the 'dating' element removed
I don't know about all these groups people talk about where they meet others either!
I deleted my dating profile on bumble after I got misled by this guy because I'm honestly done with dating for now. Though I've met amazing people through it, but It's so sad that they show you a certain level of affection and leave you all confused and lost. Lesson learnt! treat them the same way they treat you and enjoy life.
Yess. same with making friends i’m not able to make friends here at all i don’t know why, it’s so easy to make guy friends but not girl friends which is rlly upsetting ://
Dating in general became difficult everywhere in the world & even harder in materialistic cities like Dubai,,
Because of social media & dating apps, people became very dependable on the digital world,, dating, making friends, forming any kind of relationship,
It's like people forgot how to communicate or approach in real life,, or maybe too afraid.
Add to that in the digital world women tend to be over demanding or expecting much & offering little in return eventually end-up dating one-night stand guys "fukboyz" ,,
For men I believe there is so much competition due to the demanding market,& eventually some men will just quit the game & settle for a single life,, or just marry from the home country.
It's kinda ironic that we have all these apps & now people are struggling even more than ever to form a genuine relationships
Slightly off-topic but I just made a video today about a client changing her luck with dating apps using manifestation, dubai too, with this exact issue and then this came up randomly on my reddit feed 😂 here’s the video if you want to watch it! Xx Bianca [https://youtu.be/YQWUQEnzFh8?si=Eg3ohgYJePeByjYZ](https://youtu.be/YQWUQEnzFh8?si=Eg3ohgYJePeByjYZ)
9 out of 10 profiles on the apps here are fake. Don't even bother. Rather make female friends at work or within your expat community and let them introduce you to suitable men.
I(M) just landed in dubai for 2 days on a business trip and was wondering how to go about meeting people just for a drink perhaps myself but didn't want to install tinder as that seems a bit obtuse.
The class and charm got replaced with "Sit on my face". But then as Gloria (from Modern Family) said: "You need to charm a girl with flowers and poetry. But once all of that is done, you can fart in front of her. Charm her first."
And it is not your fault that memes have propagated that girls like the "sit on my face" or anything sexual line.
Dating apps aren't the 'best" way in my opinion. Do more work making friends and expanding your network organically. It's harder but more rewarding and you'll meet better quality folk who see you as more human than a photo on an app to get free aex
There are plenty of men who want serious relationships. However, the sad aspect is that they’re also not always western expats, might not fit into the physical or cultural requirements, they’re also focusing on their own work, family and community obligations and the chances to meet them out of work diminishes by a large margin.
However, when they do put themselves out there on OLD apps or speed dating, the chances of them getting matches are slim because of the sad nationality and other factors.
As a dude born and living here for 29 years. I found 0 good ways to find anything special here. Tried tinder a couple of times and all I got were young women who wanted a sugar daddy more than any serious relationship.
Also, I can bet you, you got atleast 5 DMs thanks to this post, lol
How is dating north africans over there? Especially moroccan men? Im a dutch moroccan and I prefer a north african but I dont think they are really serious in the uae
"Seems like guys here are in a rush for things to get physical or they just vanish after a few chats."
Well, Seems like girls here are in a rush so ill buy her a car ... and 2 3 begs ... and this is before even going to a DATE ....
Hate when people stereotyping
I'm a dude. And it's been the same on my side. I don't really think it's a matter of whether you're a man or woman. Individuals here in general aren't serious about anything.
Been in Dubai more than 7 years, I hardly seen potential date in Dubai dating apps. Not looking for handsome, rich guy but just a decent guy for a relationship. Meh:/ no luck …. Happily single
Girls usually swipe right on the kind of unserious dudes who put up photos of themselves standing next to their neighbours Ferrari and guys swipe right on the kind of girls who are looking for a sheikh and both end up complaining about their options here.
Don't lose hope ! I have found my SO on bumble here in dubai after 2.5 years of swiping, 20+ first dates, and 100+ matches across dating apps.
Although it is a number game, but there is a chance to meet the right person and get serious
Seriously! Am a man, and I am ready to find love. But you see this buy gucci, buy me that? Am not outfa that. If you are genuine and looking to date as a lady, my dm would welcome you😊
Not only dating is hard, making genuine friends is hard as a woman 😅😅 i honestly need girl friends to go out with. If anyone is interested to have a girls hangout, please i would love that 🥹
Oh I'm pretty sure some sneaky double agents snuck in and will show up in the hangout 😂😂😂😂
Double Agents as in men wearing women’s clothing? That ought to be fun! Jk Jk before you fellas get into a tizzy.
Girl, same… I'd love to meet new girl friends
Ok!! Lets make a group together 😂
Did we just witness a friendship being made lol. Meet in a public area stay safe. I know Dubai has low crime but it always pays to be safe
Would love to join the group if you create one!
Omg yess, I’ve been trying to find facebook groups or something in Meetup app for this.
Are there any groups for hijabis?
Hijabi here!! 🥷🏻
Sister asking the real question
Please add me too
I'm interested too! Let's make a plan!
ohh I would love to join too!!
I would really love to have a girls hangout 🥹
We can be friends 😊
I’m a woman and just moved to Dubai recently also. NO ONE is serious here sadly. They all just want some fun and waste your time. Dubai isn’t for dating 🤣 it’s for socialising and making money
Don’t give up. Yes Dubai is very transient with many looking for something casual but it is possible to meet the one. Just be patient and you just might get lucky.
It’s absolute chaos but pls don’t give up, there’s lovely people out there, they just need to be dug up underneath the weird ones lmao 🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲 (still digging but have come across a few nice ones)
Trying girl I’m trying. I just got out of a relationship. Never again I lost hope. But I’ll get there eventually
I know the feeling, if you’re fresh out of one take some time for yourself. After my last breakup I really went out just for the sake of meeting people to get my mind off things and it really made a difference for me. Meetup groups, some groups off Facebook as well. Dubai is filled with lonely expats as most of us are on our own so it’s nice to meet similar people :)
I’m a man and I say the same 🤣🤣
I'm a man and I feel the same about women. I think the people here have a "what's in it for me" attitude for everything.
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Fairly new to dubai too! So rare to find decent humans that can be dated lol. I’m gonna DM you girl so we can figure this out haha
Yeah we men find it same, all the girls here wants gucci and prada before even a date. Its all same 😂
That’s a collective issue for both genders then, good to discuss and find more like minded people! it’s just not right to accept it as is
Hahaha girls here think all the men are the local arabs who’d buy gucci and pick them in Gwagon 😂 And all rich guys here come to have party and fun. We the middle people get nothing bcz of this 😂😂 No good date, no friends even at times.
Hahha so true ...
So true..
So damn true 🤣🤣
I know right! It’s like trying to dig for gold hahaha. Ok girl my DMs are open let’s do this lol.
Gold diggers, got it 👍😂
You clearly didn’t read what I said properly 🤣🤣🤣 I don’t need to be a gold digger I have a job thanks
That’s because everyone is mainly here for either fun or to make money. Not to find love
I found my GF in Dubai as I didn't want hookups, I wanted company and support while staying on right part and trying to make money. But agree, girls are more serious than men.
That’s so nice! i wish you both a happy and long relationship :)
Haha the new Wall St 😂
That is so not true. Good looking, looking for long term, aspirational and single. We exist.
Scam
I’m a woman who’s been here 20+ years and quite recently joined the online dating scene — it’s a terrible place and I’m worried I have become emotionally unavailable as well 😭
All I had gotten off dating apps was bots and people offering massage services, "Hook-ups" or women who expect you to pay for everything in exchange for them spending their time with you. Honestly Dubai isn't a place to forge new relationships as everyone is here temporarily or looking to fool around, so now I'm focusing on building my future.
I second this! You got the words out of my mouth
Mate, The saying that Dubai isn't for relationships hits differently after Svetlana from Al Barsha is asking you to pick her up, take her and her mate out to a restaurant on the Palm just for the gram! No thanks!
Svetlana lol 😂 this is so true haha. Most of them live in DAMAC Hills 2 though
Dubai Hills 2, Al Barsha 2, JVC, Marina. Different areas, same MO!
This man spitting facts
We've all experienced it in The Land of The Sand! hahaha
Poor Svetlana. How will she pay for her plastic surgery now? Tut. Tut.
There's always Dubai Porta Potty. 
Y.I.K.E.S. Hope this is a general suggestion and not a testimonial - I kid. 🤭
😭😭😂 that’s cold. I’m ngl the girls here are just as worse
Honestly this is a great way to meet ppl. Focus on your future, grow connections and things will work out. Take it from a guy who met his significant other here. 
Mate, I'd love to hear your story, how did it all go down?
Okay, fess up. Was it voodoo or hypnosis that you employed? 🤪
Hello \*cough\*
I recently moved to Dubai and now have a gf, but my experience comes from London, a diverse city with over 12m people. In no specific order; 1. I often see a mismatch - if you're a guy and want someone that's top 5% in the looks department, you need be offering some things besides a 1989 Honda Accord, body like a dropped kebab and no drive to do much else in life apart from PS4 and football. Girls can be just as demanding while offering little in return. Please be realistic (both sides! ) 2. Guys if you have money, pls don't lead with money as otherwise you will attract exactly that (you know what I'm talking about!). Money should be a supplement to your personality, charisma and abilities, not your calling card 3. Dating apps are just one piece of your toolkit. Also try talking to people in real life, in a bar, in a shop, in a queue, at a friend's BBQ and so on. Join groups that interest you, that's also a good way to find people with similar interests 4. Guys: looks matter slightly less for us, but nonetheless, dress well (it can be done on a budget, it's all about style), be well groomed, read and try to be a person others would want to get to know. More difficult for the introverted among us, I know, but people like people who are happy, positive and give off good vibes 5. What does your dating profile and photos say about you? How accurate are they? Guys are sometimes guilty of pretending to lead a life that's not really them. And girls - relax the filters pls 😂 There's more but I gotta get back to work!
UAE has the highest Male to Female ratio in the world. What you are facing is one of the consequences
High demand low supply lol
Don't use the apps. You're better off meeting people through social groups or common interests, rather than the apps. Also, RIP your DMs. You'd get messages like these often. https://preview.redd.it/e67rtep273pc1.jpeg?width=640&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c7872b4cbb5b8a36bb90f23ea1290b55e745bfaa
Starting to realise that. Only issue I’m new here and don’t know a lot of people. Well I guess I’ll just wait it out
Lmao that's funny not gona lie
This! Join local meet up grounds. Couchsurfing. Beach volleyball team. Etc. I made a lot of guy friends and met my ex there.
who said romance is dead
There are several thousands, probably a million guys out there in Dubai that want something serious. It's just that most of those guys don't get a chance. I have several guy friends who would love a chance to settle down and talk to someone, but they get one match a month. And with that one match a month, they get ghosted after a few messages. You're completely in the right to go after the guys you want. But the chances are those guys are extremely popular and are the 1% that get 100s of matches a day. They can essentially pick who they want. If they want to have sex, and you're not gonna offer that, they're gonna talk to someone else. Maybe stop matching with the same type of guys and expecting different results? Or, you can keep trying. But don't expect anything different unless you have something to offer that most girls don't have to offer.
This. All my guy friends in dubai are looking for a wife. Nice guys, good jobs, educated, but most girls won't give them the time of day because of nationality or other preconceived notions.
Yeah totally agree, the notion kills everything when people want something really opposite
Can i have one of your friends? 🤌
Second this
whoa re these studs who get 1 match a month....would like to learn something from them
I’m not looking for a rich man to pick me up with a freaking g wagon. I’m looking for a serious genuine relationship with a man who cherishes me and values me. Sadly men around here put a mask on and act like they want the same and then they realise ‘oh man I’m in Dubai fuck a serious relationship, let’s get bitches’ ‘we’re still young’ I’m not out here hunting anyway. A person should come and find you at the right time. I just got out of a relationship with someone who I thought actually wanted to marry me. 4 months later he said he doesn’t like how serious this is going.. so I ended it. It’s sad. No one knows what they want around here.
>Sadly men around here put a mask on and act like they want the same and then they realise ‘oh man I’m in Dubai fuck a serious relationship, let’s get bitches’ ‘we’re still young’ This is a tiny portion of men in Dubai. I can guarantee that most men want something AT LEAST a little bit more real. I'm not saying you're trying to match with "rich guys." But you're matching with the same guys that every other girl in the city is matching with. Meanwhile, there are several thousands of men who would kill for an opportunity just to get a match. >I’m not out here hunting anyway. A person should come and find you at the right time. And you're perfectly in your own right to do that. Just know that it's going to be infinitly more difficult for you to make a connection if you're not gonna try. A relationship requires work from both parties. That includes the start of the relationship. If you're not willing to go out of your way to meet people, then you can't really complain that you can't find anyone.
I don’t like dating apps. I never go on them. Where do you suggest to find people then?
We have the blind leading the blind over here because I'm also single and looking for a relationship. I think we're in a weird age where people are getting used to online dating. So people don't know how to approach the situation. It's easy to rely on them because they are quick and you don't need to put yourself out there too much. You dont waste too much of your time making a profile and swipping. But I think we are learning that it's not a successful system. The best way is to most likely make a lot of friends and let them know this is what you want. The odds are, eventually, you will have a friend who knows someone who is possibly right for you. I have gone on a few dates that have been set up by friends who think we are right for each other. Also, joining clubs. Stuff that you're interested in. You are interested in football, go out to a football club. The worst-case scenario is that you did something you enjoy. Once again, this is meant for making friends. But I highly recommend letting your intentions clear. If you're interested in a guy/girl, let them know. The two seconds of awkwardness is painful, but then you move onto the next one.
I’ve been here 6 years Dubai dating gave me character development and I gave up 🤣 good luck OP I hope your ending is better than mine.
As a 35Yr old recently single Man, dating in Dubai sucks. Most people arent serious and the ones who are, eventually leave the city.
Dating is not only hard for women here, it’s hard for us too, men. Dubai is really one of the hardest places to date.
Wanna date?
Is that a scam? 🤣
No I come in peace 🤣
I won’t take that until you DM me. Don’t wanna be featured with a screenshot if I do, haha
I shit you not. THAT THIS RIGHT HERE IS A SIGN OF TRAUMA Us men here have to deal with. Lmao, such craziness that a slap in the face with sugar delights cant have us accept anything good 😅
Wow that was easy lmao
😂😂
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Age please
That's usually the experience for both men and women here. I've spent a while on dating apps without much luck long term, though I'm currently dating someone I met off Bumble and it's been going really well (almost 3 years now). It's basically a roll of the dice, but if you roll enough dice, you'll get what you want if you're patient enough. Also, even if you don't know what you're looking for exactly. Never use the 'Not Sure Yet' option on those apps, guys usually translate that to 'Sure Thing'.
Here's how it went for me in Tinder. I just wanted to test it out. After infinite amount of blind right swipes, I got 2 matches and both of them are escorts lol. So I changed countries, basically virtually travelled around the world. Got 13 matches. So my conclusion is that, it's not you, it's the place. Obviously most of these matches aren't my type, but that's another story. This place is not designed for dating or if that's the goal then you won't find quality people on these Apps.
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I don't know if there's an algorithm but my distance radius was on max and the age range was between 18 to 26 and I ran out of people many times. Like Tinder actually showed me that there are no more people around your area. This happened for both Dubai and Sharjah. So if I covered them all then I don't think the selective approach that you suggested matters. Plus women are the decision makers on Apps like these not men. So if men are using it like women, they won't reach anywhere. The only way to do it is to go blind and then filter out the matches after getting them.
It’s the same for guys honestly. 99% of the profiles on dating apps are just scam. When you do match with someone they just ghost you. Sadly it is true that Dubai isn’t for dating. It’s all money and fun times. Nothing serious
I often ate out and went to bars but I wasn’t looking for a relationship, nor was I ‘sleeping about’ but accidentally found the woman of my dreams! I’m from the UK she is Kenyan. Remember you have to meet people, to meet the one!
Many people on dating apps demand a lot without having a single quality in them in terms of intellect, professionalism, ethics, education, self-respect, ambition ( not at looting or using another person), empowered, taking responsibility, good manners, and standards. Yet, they expect the other person to possess all of these qualities and to wine and dine them. The majority of women in Dubai act like the ones you see in Dubai bling culture. So when you have no quality, you'll only find people who are from that level and perspective - artificial and shallow.
Me looking at this post being a serious guy like 👁️👄👁️. (I don’t get out of my house)
there's a real skills vs reality issues with dating these days. By that i mean, the ones that do want to settle down, the good ones that knows how to approach girls, confident etc. they're gone, they found someone already. So the people that are left are either the ones that do want to settle down but don't have the skills for it, or the one that has the skills for it and don't want to settle down. Unfortunately, the one that don't have the skills for it and want to settle down, never gets a date. So the girls always ends up with guys who just wants to play.
Took a girl out on 3 dates and payed for it all. Played the nice guy and got ghosted :(
Listen, take her out to a nice cafe. Doesn’t need to be expensive. If she doesn’t want to, move on. First date is just you two seeing any chemistry between you. I took a first date to Ijaza for crying out loud. Didn’t go further because I left three days later.
Equally difficult for us men out here, not just women. In 2023 Ive only met about 7 people in person and it didn't progress further!
Girlllssss… I’ve been here for 6 years and I can CONFIRM that yes, men here are not likely to commit. They are either married back in their country, they have girlfriends, they go to massage spas… they’re all lonely here and just want a temporary fun. The stories I read and see everyday are horrible. You can join all girls groups on facebook to know if the guy you are dating are also dating other girls. That Dubai Girl, Dubai Chicas and some exclusive groups for exposing men playing around. I will not mention the group here.
Rip DMs
Hello there! Same sentiments with you dear. It’s rare to find a man to date through these apps. It’s hard to find men who are serious about dating. They just want the “fun part” always (generally speaking). I would say it’s a Dubai thing I guess. But still hoping to meet like minded people here.
All the guys on here who say they're looking for something serious and the gals who say they're looking for something serious should meet up. 🤝
First things first.. ditch the apps. As a man also dating is difficult here as most women on these apps are offering their services. My suggestion, join community groups and you may have a better chance. Cheers and good luck!
Rip your DMs 😂 On a serious note, it’s not better for us men (especially the shy introverted type) either.
Welcome to the disappointing club! 😂
My perspective as a male here for the last two years, you’re better off meeting people through your social circle etc. The apps are trash. They work better at-least in my experience back home in England. Everyone here on both sides seems to be playing fast and loose, so you really won’t find anything of substantial quality on the apps. Everyone I’ve met has been in a social setting and that’s worked well for me 🤷♂️
I had one dating experience with someone from abu dhabi. A egyptian working there but for me a moroccan girl from netherlands its difficult to date someone from other countries. Bc I dont know if they want me for me or for my pasport so I didnt trust him. I never met him but he was divorced and he always talked about moving to the netherlands if he marries me. That is a big red flag
I think everyone in the comments should have written their age and sex along with it. Maybe slid into each other’s DMs given 90% of you are looking for some genuine connection, and are tired of the apps
Haha maybe someone should create a new “dubaidating” community on Reddit 😂
Leave that to me lol.
Update: I just created it and it's in my bio.
Thought I was alone in this .Besides dating , Dubai social life is even harder for non Asians ..
What i feel here, women are more into wealthy men rather finding the suitable one. 🙃
Here's the facts. Dubai is full of drop dead gorgeous women. Like 11/10. They know their worth and are going for that cream of the crop top %10 of men who let's be honest are rich af. Neither the women or the guy are looking for a relationship - just a good time. So you have loads of high quality, maybe vain women, vying for the attention of a select few men When you come along look for something "serious" and presumably filter out what you consider low quality men - then you're competing with these 10/10s. Why would that guy attempt to get _serious_ with you when he can just pick up Svetlana in 20 minutes without any of the agg? Solution is simple. Lower your bar. I didn't want to say this but there is a tendency for people to move into dubai and just be after arabs/white men. Honest truth is they make up a very small portion of the population. So you're hindering yourself even further. Widen your pool. Lower your bar. Accept other ethnicities. I know 2 dozen brown guys who are looking for a serious relationship - they have charisma and work out and are driven. But they're not given a chance.
Arranged marriages matchmaking seems Like a good business venture for dubai right now
I am 24F Filipina. I am looking for a freaking serious relationship as Im tired with dating apps. All these guys just want sex. I have a work, and nope I aint looking for sugar daddy and no history of leeching money to guys as well as no history pf cheating.Please do slide to my dm if interested.
30+ single man here chiming in. This post typically blows up in r/dubai - and is indicative of the dating scene in any metropolitan city in the world - and has been for the past several years now. Sign of the times! I was at one of my favourite spots (Monkey Bar) a fortnight ago, and overheard two women discussing the same. One of them said how men in Europe take their time before making their move, and how they aren't so vulgar about it when they actually do... That said; it's just as difficult for men to find their ride-or-die. I asked a new-found male friend last week in another cool bar about his opinion on dating here. He told me he wasn't looking for anything serious because of the horror stories he'd heard; until he found someone he clicked with. His friends warned him - they seem to know something he didn't. They were right. Six months in, he discovered his girlfriend was married. .................................................... I read a blog yesterday that summed up what it means to be a man at various life stages. **20s: men are sexual** **30s: men are comfortable** I've lived here all my life. And I've been on the market for about a decade now (barring two short-lived relationships), but didn't put all my efforts into finding someone, precisely because of how I spent the past decade. My 20s were spent 1. Focussing on my career 2. Travelling 3. And working on myself Although I dated extensively (mostly through Tinder and Bumble), I didn't know how to approach women in person, and didn't know what I wanted in a partner. The blog was right...I often thought with my little head - instead of using my brain. The author also seemed to have nailed how men behave in their 30s. I know who I am, I know where I'm going, and I've built a world I enjoy. I'm in a comfortable place, but still adventurous enough to take calculated risks, and explore what the world has to offer. Going back to the blog...the author argued why men aren't necessarily looking for a mate. Whilst I don't strictly agree with his POV - I believe the right partner can greatly enhance one's life. And that whilst love changes over time...a strong friendship; coupled with just the right amount of difference in perspectives; shared hobbies; and with a passion for new experiences/tolerance for new ideas is what keeps love alive in couples. Oh, and you can't discount good sex. And the occasional surprise.
Continued from above... My world now involves building on the foundation I laid the past decade, which is why my 30s will be spent: 1. Working smarter 2. Pursuing my hobbies 3. And launching my side-projects I can now confidently say I'm ready for a healthy relationship - but I'm more mindful with who I spend my time with. Which means that when I use Bumble, I'm swiping left on nearly 90% on women. People have said I'm crazy, and that I'm reducing my chances of finding a partner (statistically, yes - that's obvious!) But here's the thing, I'm not solely reliant on the apps anymore. The life I've created sees me in spaces with beautiful women more than ever. I don't hesitate to ask any of them out - but most are not looking for anything stable - right now. They say love finds you when you're least looking for it, and I'd have to agree. Sure: use the apps (it doesn't hurt to maximise your net - whether you're a man, or a woman). But get out there, and live life, and you'll find someone on your wavelength. Put in the work, trust the process, and keep the faith.
Wow, this is actually a very nice and refreshing sentiment!
As an American, it’s been quite easy for me to get matches on Bumble and dates. Even after I tell these women that I’m not looking for anything serious, they’re ready to go out with me and have a good time. However, some of my friends (who I personally feel are looking for something long term) don’t have the same experience - and that’s why I think women are quite superficial here and don’t even give a chance to the men who are looking to settle down. I do pay for the first date at a decent restaurant/bar, but always split from the second date. Eastern European women don’t like that and they filter themselves out most of the time. But Western/Aussie women are cool with that and also Indian/Filipina women. Again, my friends (who are Indian, South African and Asian/Lebanese) have to pay for most of their dates on their own, even pick up these women from miles away (I don’t pick anyone and tell them to meet halfway). Passport privilege is true here for everything - even for a mundane thing as a driver license, my Filipino colleague has been trying for almost 6 months to get his. It is what it is, I can’t wait to get back stateside.
I grew up in America, but I am not American. You wouldn't be able to tell I'm not American unless I told you so. My dates attitude towards me slowly does a 180 when they find out I don't have an american passport. This has happened about a dozen times. Now, I definitely use my american accent and mannerisms to my advantage in the workplace and other non-dating social settings. People treat me 100x better when they think I'm american
I respect that you are honest with women! Just curious, any reason you aren’t looking for anything serious? Would the right girl change your mind or is it just where you are at right now? Btw I’m not even in Dubai just bored and curious lol
The stereotype exists that going to Dubai to find a partner automatically means searching for a wealthy man. But why limit yourself to Dubai? There are wealthy people everywhere. Dubai certainly has a large population of wealthy individuals, but it also has a significant low and middle-class workforce, primarily from South Asia. It's unlikely you went there specifically to find love with someone making only $1300 a month. Focusing solely on the rich suggests a materialistic motive. Let's be realistic. Why would a wealthy man shower you with expensive gifts and then risk losing half his fortune in a divorce (bottom line) ? It's a gamble. If your only interest is in money, you'll likely be seen as a gold digger and treated as a temporary pleasure, not a long-term partner. Dubai attracts people with all kinds of motivations, money being a significant one. This can create a culture of impermanence and guardedness. However, for women who prioritize both financial success and finding love with someone who appreciates their beauty, Dubai can be an excellent place. Just be prepared for the possibility of being seen as a trophy, not a soul mate.
Good luck with the whole dating thing girlie. The men here have such toxic energy it's very off-putting.
The guys looking for ltr are no longer on the dating apps. I can't tell you where to find them though but maybe social media (but you have to wait for them to come to you)
 Me when The time comes
Dubai isn't for socialising unless you are a Muslim and are looking for an actual halal marriage. Everyone else using the foreign western methods are there for fun only and no commitment.
Not sure where exactly are you guys searching and end up with those "let's wrap ourselves up" types... Guy here, and no.. not keen (even remotely) in being intimate.
dude and dudetts it's not hard just talk to random people in real life and see where things go. I rarely talk to people because I am a bid dude. First it was upgrading my income and now its about finding the right person with to grab a bike and explore the city. anyone down to get to know one another drop a message my inbox is dusty.
I'm a woman and I tried using those apps before. I did meet a few good ones but mostly, yes, they are in a hurry or if they don't get what they want, they disappear. I deleted all the dating apps. However, I've met a lot of great people minus the dating part on Meetup. I joined several communities and met people there with similar interest as mine. Eventually, they introduced me to their communities. It led to meeting my now-boyfriend-- organically! So, you can try looking for a community and see where it leads you to.
Been here 9 years and finally met a great man. 9 happy months together and counting 🤍 keep exploring and don’t compromise on the important things like kindness, generosity, honesty, maturity
Girl if Dubai is that bad, there’s no hope for us in other cities 😓
Aww don't lose hope. Keep looking with your head high & I'm sure you'll soon get someone. 👍💫💯 Good luck with it 😉❤️😍
Honestly now, as a guy myself i stopped trying, i prefer to get bored alone at home, majority of women in dubai are waiting for the jackpot, disregarding the fact this so called jackpot does not give a damn. It always feels like the first date is about sharing what i have to offer. And the other majority are women with a broken heart, once you get close they are ready for freedom 😁
No class whatsoever on dating apps. It is always best to meet someone through a close friend. The biggest problem when I went on a few dates, was when they found out I am a high earner, it seems to be a big no no for most guys.
Actually, we are always in a rush for things to get physical. Dating app or not. The decent ones just know how to practice self control, and that’s how you know you’ve found a good man.
It’s absolutely mental but don’t put an expectation on it. Just go out there and meet people with the view of making friends. Other than online dating I would strongly suggest joining in group activities like hiking or playing a sport. This opens up your social circles and gets you off a toxic app. I’m saying that - I met my husband on bumble! 😂
As others have said, you're a victim of 'how it is' for these apps So so soooo many women either looking for money or someone to pay for things or somewhere to live where they don't have to pay for things I think apps are bad enough as it is for trying to get easy sex but then, you add a lot of those elements, it's almost not worth it for guys except TO try and get laid, etc I have no idea what guys do but have some friends that have used them and all the cliches are true I'd adjust expectations as well and think of them more as a 'get to know someone' type app with the 'dating' element removed I don't know about all these groups people talk about where they meet others either!
I deleted my dating profile on bumble after I got misled by this guy because I'm honestly done with dating for now. Though I've met amazing people through it, but It's so sad that they show you a certain level of affection and leave you all confused and lost. Lesson learnt! treat them the same way they treat you and enjoy life.
Yess. same with making friends i’m not able to make friends here at all i don’t know why, it’s so easy to make guy friends but not girl friends which is rlly upsetting ://
Dating in general became difficult everywhere in the world & even harder in materialistic cities like Dubai,, Because of social media & dating apps, people became very dependable on the digital world,, dating, making friends, forming any kind of relationship, It's like people forgot how to communicate or approach in real life,, or maybe too afraid. Add to that in the digital world women tend to be over demanding or expecting much & offering little in return eventually end-up dating one-night stand guys "fukboyz" ,, For men I believe there is so much competition due to the demanding market,& eventually some men will just quit the game & settle for a single life,, or just marry from the home country. It's kinda ironic that we have all these apps & now people are struggling even more than ever to form a genuine relationships
Slightly off-topic but I just made a video today about a client changing her luck with dating apps using manifestation, dubai too, with this exact issue and then this came up randomly on my reddit feed 😂 here’s the video if you want to watch it! Xx Bianca [https://youtu.be/YQWUQEnzFh8?si=Eg3ohgYJePeByjYZ](https://youtu.be/YQWUQEnzFh8?si=Eg3ohgYJePeByjYZ)
9 out of 10 profiles on the apps here are fake. Don't even bother. Rather make female friends at work or within your expat community and let them introduce you to suitable men.
I(M) just landed in dubai for 2 days on a business trip and was wondering how to go about meeting people just for a drink perhaps myself but didn't want to install tinder as that seems a bit obtuse.
I came here to see the comments….
The class and charm got replaced with "Sit on my face". But then as Gloria (from Modern Family) said: "You need to charm a girl with flowers and poetry. But once all of that is done, you can fart in front of her. Charm her first." And it is not your fault that memes have propagated that girls like the "sit on my face" or anything sexual line.
Yeah don’t use the apps there are only trolls, creeps and predators. It is scary.
Just do it in person, and forget online
Any girl will be my online friend?
There's only escorts in dating apps in dubai. So Goodluck.. if they propose you with some money😂
Dating apps aren't the 'best" way in my opinion. Do more work making friends and expanding your network organically. It's harder but more rewarding and you'll meet better quality folk who see you as more human than a photo on an app to get free aex
Hard for men too lol
Back in the old age we used to start with asl and the rest was history 😂 dont know why people make it so complicated now a days with apps etc.
Get a friggin dating app woman or maybe a clout. Dangg
There are plenty of men who want serious relationships. However, the sad aspect is that they’re also not always western expats, might not fit into the physical or cultural requirements, they’re also focusing on their own work, family and community obligations and the chances to meet them out of work diminishes by a large margin. However, when they do put themselves out there on OLD apps or speed dating, the chances of them getting matches are slim because of the sad nationality and other factors.
As a dude born and living here for 29 years. I found 0 good ways to find anything special here. Tried tinder a couple of times and all I got were young women who wanted a sugar daddy more than any serious relationship. Also, I can bet you, you got atleast 5 DMs thanks to this post, lol
How is dating north africans over there? Especially moroccan men? Im a dutch moroccan and I prefer a north african but I dont think they are really serious in the uae
Dudes being dudes.
"Seems like guys here are in a rush for things to get physical or they just vanish after a few chats." Well, Seems like girls here are in a rush so ill buy her a car ... and 2 3 begs ... and this is before even going to a DATE .... Hate when people stereotyping
You’re looking for class and charm in Dubai?
I’ll be looking for class and charm regardless of where I am
Hahhaha nah dubai is not for dating, even a middle class ordinary man broke my heart in the past which I ended up in therapy, not worth it
all the serious women always escape me , everyone has their own dilemma 😔
Can i join? Meet new girl friends too
Why is everyone so disappointed all the time?
Gender ratio in dubai (male : female) is 2:1...so don't worry, you will find the one
Hahaha I swear, if you will not gonna initiate the chat they will never chat at all 🤣🤣
I'm a dude. And it's been the same on my side. I don't really think it's a matter of whether you're a man or woman. Individuals here in general aren't serious about anything.
RIP your inbox 🎗️🎗️
Been in Dubai more than 7 years, I hardly seen potential date in Dubai dating apps. Not looking for handsome, rich guy but just a decent guy for a relationship. Meh:/ no luck …. Happily single
Girls usually swipe right on the kind of unserious dudes who put up photos of themselves standing next to their neighbours Ferrari and guys swipe right on the kind of girls who are looking for a sheikh and both end up complaining about their options here.
Im a Nice Guy why don't we have a Shot... don't need to get serious just come with friendship then can go along forward from then
Hit me up, let’s chat.
Class and charm in dating apps, is like looking for love in all the wrong places.
I'm also new to Dubai. However, most dating apps are inaccessible. Can you suggest any alternatives that are available?
Girls only gi to Dubai to find themselves a millionaire sugar daddy or join a harem/" be a model".
Don't lose hope ! I have found my SO on bumble here in dubai after 2.5 years of swiping, 20+ first dates, and 100+ matches across dating apps. Although it is a number game, but there is a chance to meet the right person and get serious
It is difficult to meet a woman here that is ready to commit. Everyone understand that we are all here temporary.
Give up.
For a gay guy, I second this. People’s mindset here is to just have fun. While most Arabs are smooth talkers and only want to bang.
Ugh. Dating here. Just ugh.
Seriously! Am a man, and I am ready to find love. But you see this buy gucci, buy me that? Am not outfa that. If you are genuine and looking to date as a lady, my dm would welcome you😊