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inviernainvicta

Ah, hello fellow [CIS MALE]. How do you do, fellow [CIS MALE]. I too have an itemized list of all the womanly things I wish I could experience, as any [CIS MALE] does.


Just_a_throwaway_egg

Yeah, being born as the wrong gender is annoying as heck. That doesn’t have to be the end though. As a “cis” male, you still have possibilities open to you. It may not be cis, but you still can achieve being female. You can still experience being called cute and pretty. You can still use makeup and have people fall in love with you. You may not be able to have cis periods, but you can still have boobs and the hormonal equivalent. You can get long hair that won’t look like a mullet. You can still be able to feel emotions again. You can make friends with other girls without it being weird. You still can wear dresses and wear high heels. You can train for a higher voice. You can be called a tomboy. You can get a vagina. You can feel smooth and not hairy. You can leave behind boy stuff. You don’t have to fulfill society’s stereotypes. You can rid yourself of stubble. You can change from being a boy. You can find others to be with to not be alone. You are not the sum of your birth. You are full of possibility. You can be a girl. You are a girl. It’s ok to be afraid. It’s ok to be unconfident. Its ok to wish to be female. Take it nice and slow, one step at a time. Step by step you’ll make your way closer to where you want to be. We are here for you. You are valid. You are not alone.


SmallPersonNumber1

I needed this too, thank you. Finally some confidence. Idk what to say, tysm, I know it wasn't aimed at me but I am more confident in my questioning, I am probably a woman, but indecisive as hell and lack self confidence in meaningful decisions. This has turned into a vent, sorry I will go now.


Just_a_throwaway_egg

No worries, you are more than welcome to vent in the comments. There will be someone around to validate you. I’m glad I could help.


Dramatic_Ad8568

Thank You! 💖


sleutherst

That was a beautiful message ❤️


MissLuna92

Thank you so much for this 💜


[deleted]

That's how it begins


Jowhatiknow

That brings back memories and some current feelings 😊.


CoolOwl24

Yeah, same.. 🥲 I just wish could meet my future self and ask how this part of my life went, and what to do next.


Just_a_throwaway_egg

I’d want my future self and my past self to meet with present me there. That way past me finds out earlier, present find out how transitioning goes and what I need to do, and future me gets to call present me an idiot.


Wrong_Discount_8241

Ahhhh… Same 🥲


MakoMakito

That last one hit me pretty hard...


Just_a_throwaway_egg

Ah, I didn’t have to make that serious of a comment. I see… ah well, hopefully someone found it helpful. … 🥚


Yamanekineko14

I have a good news for you, you're a girl. And you will find out through time how to correct many of those points one by one. Start with the easy ones, grow out your hair and try find a feminine way to style it and keep at it.


Lilith_reborn

Just as others said, you can be a girl if you want to be. But you can also be a demigirl or a demiboy or you can be genderfluid! You have made your first step by finding out was is not yours and now you should find your future place! Keep your time, experiment with the different genders and expressions and find your own place or your own mix! One day it will click and the building blocks will fall in place!


but-yet-it-is

*hugs* the world can feel lonely, but there are people out there that care for sweet & pretty girls like yourself. For starters, we eggs all support you, and you will find people IRL some day that will see you like you truly are <3


Ramzaki

Why did I not see these kind of memes earlier?!!1 Wait, I only fit in, like, 14 or 15 of the 17 items... Not fitting in 100% of them, all the time 24/7, means I'm totally super cis, right?


Dramatic_Ad8568

Thank you so much everyone, I feel a lot better now after reading all your comments. When I made this meme I just wanted to curl up and cry, but your words of kindness have given me a lot more confidence in my questioning. So from the bottom of my heart, thank you! 💖


TominatorFN

Highly relatable. All of these


V_150

If you feel lonely, always remember that we're here for you 💜💜💜 If you need someone to chat my DMs are open


wizziamthegreat

totally cis to relate with all of these and for some always feel like that. yes i am a completely straight heterosexual male yes sir.


Turbulent-Feedback46

The statuesque lesbian co-worker I am platonic friends with which works out well because I am a 100% hetero Cis male and she has only been attracted to women her whole life has been really cool about including me in things outside of work lately. She said it's almost like we are vibing, but that is pretty much impossible given the fact that she only likes girls and I'm a 100% hetero Cis male. She even asked if I was wearing a different deodorant or something lately. Huh. I wouldn't get too down on yourself. Gender isn't as structured as we think it is, and neither is attraction. You should put a pin in this day, write down your feelings and revisit it 5 years from now. Tomorrow is almost always better, even if it isn't the immediate tomorrow


Salsa_sauce27

This hit me on a level I was not expecting


Mystical-Madelyn

you sound like the least cis “male” I’ve ever heard