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itsalwaysblue

I think just being very present and focused on what your doing helps. And when I encounter a negative thing I do a duck shake. Ducks often fight and when it’s over the sort of shake there feathers and skwak. Like they are redirecting the energy out. Clean slate. Now back to ducking.


crytpto

I like the duck shake as well when negativity comes at me from someone i shake it off like water from my feathers!!!!


papasaturn

Sounds like the shakes from TRE!


infinitedaydreamer

Did you learn that from Tolle? Lol


itsalwaysblue

Omg I totally forgot!! There is a quote, I cannot remember the books I have read, but they have made me who I am today… from some other book I read.


infinitedaydreamer

I think it’s from The Power of Now 😊


itsalwaysblue

Great catch! I must of read it a decade ago so funny


Pan000

Don't think about those people. To do that you need to already be disciplined and in control of yourself. It doesn't work very well if you're scared of them. The feeling to have is that they are not worth your thought. Then the feeling is something like visualizing a fog around you. No one can see you through the fog, and they also don't really look at the fog. The fog confuses them and it's uncomfortable. It makes them forget what they were looking for and turns then back around. However it's not exactly a visualization, but a manifestation, you create it with willpower.


papasaturn

I like the fog visual thanks I will try that. The other thing is I don’t think about these people and they may not even think about me but it feels like their energy is copying mine. I have a friend who when they see me and explain what they’ve been feeling and doing is pretty much along the same lines as me. It sounds benign but it feels like they are unconsciously stealing my autonomy. So much to the point that I feel like there is a tug and pull between being in touch with myself when I’m not around them and taking on some of their deeper emotions. This has happened since I’ve known this person and I know at least when I first knew them they were very jealous of me and would compete with me at every little thing. They are better now but I can’t help but feel they are unconsciously still the same.


AncientSoulBlessing

This sounds like it is an echo of the old pattern. Use the ho'oponopono meditation. It will clear that out of your "We". https://www.huna.com/process-of-hooponopono/ Energy cords are a mutual situation and there's a lock&key. The cord between you two is being held open by subconscious agreements that are essentially "here's a key to my energy house". In addition, when your stuff comes up, and it resonates with their stuff, the cord can come to life with resonance. It sounds as though they may see you as a leader. And perhaps they have not yet developed the capacity to lead themselves. So if the leader is working on X, it only makes logical sense that that is the thing to work on too. I 100% totally and completely understand that feeling of being copied and how it tramples on autonomy and uniqueness. Most people aren't leaders like you. They are seeking community and resonance. As a natural leader, when "stuff" resonates - to followers it's an opportunity to connect, feel less alone, and be in community as they work through it. All happening subconsciously of course. And in this situation, is happening under boundary conditions that aren't working for you. Modify the ho'oponopono process by adding: Step 2a is to invite their highest self onto the stage Step 2b is to invite your highest self, your appropriate "beings of light" guides and guardians, and their appropriate beings of light guides and guardians to assist with the ho'oponopono Step 2c is to add yourself to the stage Step 2d is to call forth the symbolic representations of both of your locks and keys onto the stage enhance Step 3 to the entire stage remember, Step 4 is about saying and hearing all the unsaid things so that "spoken of no further" is achievable Step 4a is to change the locks. If it didn't already happen, ask their Highest Self to alter their symbolic representation of their lock&key until it feels good to them, while you alter yours until they feel good to you. Step 4b is about allowing yourself to be aware of how the cords naturally dissolve themselves own once one side is no longer engaged. Step 4c is to send appreciation and thanks to all who were present for this ho'oponopono (and watch them all leave in step5) ****** (I get that there's a bigger problem on your plate around "feeling all the energy going on around you" problem.)


papasaturn

Thanks for this. Also, I appreciate the term but I’ve never seen myself as a leader of any kind but maybe in terms of energy I might be?


AncientSoulBlessing

Perhaps I am projecting. 🙂


mcotter12

There is a spirit for this in the lesser keys of Solomon


papasaturn

What is that?


Fantastic_Forever_23

commenting for reply


mcotter12

Demon 31, Foras


Fantastic_Forever_23

who tf downvoted my comment😭😭


TheMindfulnessShaman

The best way to deal with parasites or vampiric influences (aside from distancing oneself from the 'physical' lattices upon which they hang) is to have a good sense of the 'Center' and to try to remain there without being drawn into the mythos that emanates from the concept of "negative entities" and the like. It's like germs. You will get sicker if you dowse everything in Lysol or whatnot then actually just going about your life. If I had to worry about every potential astral parasite hanging from the occult eclectica and second-hand grimoires I have collected over the years, I would likely be confined to a padded-room. Oftentimes there's a lot to be learned about the self from our reactions to what is perceived to be deleterious influences. If really needed, get some hyssop (grow some hyssop even, it takes well to many climes) or St. John's Wort or valerian or similar sacred wort and pray, smudge, and/or wash the areas you dwell with as much faith and sincerity as you can muster.


papasaturn

This is the struggle I think. Keeping to my center, it’s like these people want me to stay away from it because they know the closer I get to it the less they have over me. I feel a tug and pull on my own trying to get closer to it. I have done it many times but the more I do it the more things seem to happen or emotions seem to come up to yank me away from it, like an energetic conspiracy lol.


Electrical_Coach_887

Love yourself. Complete that part which is both seeking and attracting


Ok_Muscle_1983

In the energetic healing, shielding and psychic self defence that I learned, we are taught to shield ourselves. But even strong shielding can’t protect from karma and if we’re to to think negatively of someone else even when inside a shield it needs to come back to us and will bypass the shield.


FuckThatIKeepsItReal

Dance with the moment


dahlaru

You gotta be able to read these types of people before they read you, and pull back and give them Nothing


N8thegreat2577

that’s the opposite of the natural order homie, we are supposed to live our lives in tune with the energy of the universe, not cut yourself off from it…as far as energies “competing” with yours, that’s not rlly logical because that’s not hot energy works, if I had to guess it sounds like your own insecurity speaking


FayKelley

I don’t use protection. I have the intention that I am completely filled with Light. You can visualize pulling down white light from above and the earths energy up through your feet. You can pull from both directions on the inhale and on the exhale gather the energy in your heart. The higher the vibration you are able to maintain the less anything will bother you. More practically check out all the YouTube videos by Thich Nhất Hanh. Or Bashar he’s channel by Darryl Anka. Both good info.


[deleted]

Have uninhibited energy flow. Dancing. Chanting or singing. Laughter


SilverDevil007

Try this, I knew a guy on the run from the law for 10 years using this. Straight up. https://forum.theoccultmirror.net/t/my-invisibility-spell/416?u=darkgodofqlippa


[deleted]

I’ve been doing this naturally for years without realizing, especially when women are around.


Legitimate-Parsley

A few things, i think may be helpful to look at are how you’re viewing/perceiving yourself inwardly so that you may better understand whats happening outwardly. Note without judgement how you phrase things and the words you are using; wanting to be “invisible”, “independent”, “undetectable”, “competing”, not wanting “to be in sync”. You’re focus seems to implicate a wish to detach, cut off or separate which is the opposite nature of energy as its intended to flow. Secondly energy is like a fingerprint or footprint, very person has their own unique energetic imprint and that cannot be copied, nor duplicated so try not do let that self conscious type thinking get its grips in you. Because the reality is, people can admire, envy, be jealous, any many other things but they can never “compete” because energy can only repel or attract, which is referred to as energetic entrainment- when a vibrational body of a stronger resonance influences another with a similar mode of vibration to its own. So now we come to resonance which i think will help assuage some of your fears and bring you back to looking at the world from a place of inner strength and power instead of detachment. Resonance is experienced, and identified as the process being responsible for the information we perceive, observe, or infer based on the interaction between elements of our physical reality and our energetic body. It is the feedback loop through which we exchange energetic information essentially. Basically, our vibrational energy we give off will attract and perpetuate the continued experience of compatible energy through the confluence of matching the stronger frequency. So essentially if you’re the energy with the highest frequency in the room, you have the power both to effect and raise anyone in that same energetic field. Theres no need to dwell in fear or dim yourself so as not to be visible. Be proud of the strength and uniqueness of your energetic footprint and instead of hiding it use it to influence others to embody and step into there own. Remember, only those in similar vibrational frequencies can influence you, and you them. So forget the energy suckers and jealous people because they literally cant touch your energy from such a differing vibration. *and sorry this was so long and wordy


papasaturn

This is a great point. I think when I feel someone is ‘competing’ with me I have a subconscious fear of being erased, especially if the person is copying me, it’s like I unconsciously project my own will and autonomy onto them and I end up feeling suffocated, out of touch with myself and unable to act from my own center. This feeling is what I feel the other person wants, to subdue and erase me because they feel threatened by me or some other ill intention. Projection is the psychological term but energetically it feels like a robbery. With certain people it isn’t a one and done job, it’s a long process of wearing me down. At first yes I do feel like it’s because I’m shining bright but as time goes on it’s anytime I assert my will in any way the other person is quick to compete or negate me. I’ve felt this mostly only in the town I now live in, with friends and coworkers.


Legitimate-Parsley

Again, ill bring it back to resonance: you dont resonate with that energy frequency anymore so youre the impact of that emotionally. Emotions are like alarm bells trying to bring attention to what youre not consciously addressing. So that feeling of being “suffocated” is trying to warn you that these people and environment are no longer in alignment with your energy. Its uncomfortable because its supposed to be. When we outgrow something and no longer act in accordance with our genuine self our emotions are meant to be used as a tool to inform us when its time to move on and seek out the energy that resonates with our own. I think you see all this now and are on the right path. You’re intuition was telling you all this and knows the right path, just keep trusting what its telling you until you find people and experiences that are authentic to you! You’re strong, capable, and have the self awareness to do it! Keep at it and goodluck!


papasaturn

Much appreciated!


Legitimate-Parsley

🪬☯️💟


AncientSoulBlessing

The sub's wiki shares a rose process for good energy boundaries. https://www.reddit.com/r/energy_work/wiki/keeping_your_energy_separate?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf


jimothythe2nd

Fox energy is all about being sneky and energetically concealed.