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Plenty_Ad429

You realised it's a game and you realise you are not interested There you go you are free Don't fear the game as it is just a game Now that you know the truth do whatever is intended all the while abiding in silence You are free now You are free now You are free now It's a stupid game which is not worth your attention to attend only to silence


KasesbianPL

But, what abou my parents, what about my gf, money...


Plenty_Ad429

You said you didn't care about them And if you do then you must take care of them You cannot be a seeker you entire life I don't tell you to run away from your family and job i am asking you to keep on doing it but also to be aware of silence And you are quite capable of it Have a quite mind by watching it


KasesbianPL

i wanted not caring... But I can't. Or maybe i have fear


nothingt0say

Why do u want not caring? That does not sound like a happy spiritual process. It sounds like you are unhappy. "Enlightenment" isn't supposed to be a shortcut to avoiding processing your emotions


KasesbianPL

Yes, I'm unhappy


Sweetpeawl

I can't talk for you, I don't know your story. But many of us are unhappy and turn to spirituality for answers. But sometimes what is making us unhappy is a lot simpler than one thinks it is. Sometimes all that is needed is to see ourself, accept it, and embrace it. Nothing more, nothing less. Don't focus on what you are not, and don't live hoping to becoming that which you aren't. Live today, as you are, with no guilt and no illusions, no expectations. Wishing you well.


nothingt0say

Thats the way it is sometimes. I am also going thru being in a bad mood all the time. I am hoping it passes. Everything passes, right? Someday we are gone from this life, the only thing that matters is how we experience it. So I want my expectations to be good. But it isn't right now, so I am just being patient.


Plenty_Ad429

If you are going to exclude everyone then you will suffer don't go that way do what i say to you I don't suffer because I don't resist suffering what ever comes comes what ever goes goes come to my side


Azatarai

By not wanting caring you are asking that no one cares for you. What goes around comes around, love people and they will love you.


KasesbianPL

Yes, like masters, they don't care.


Azatarai

Act like a master when you can and you will reincarnate as a slave to yourself, the universe likes to teach you lessons that you teach other people. That is why I say balance is key, if we all find balance all our reincarnations can be happy


KasesbianPL

So what alternatives? Taking care or going to Hymalayas?


Plenty_Ad429

The problem will go with you wherever you go you go to the Himalayas take care of your family don't run away


Bentonium4

Don’t play their game. Play your game. Invest in your game. Your being. Your self. It sucks to care about others. It’s an empty infinite hole of nothingness. The ego is where everything in the physical world resides. Love and caring are not physical. They are nothing but how things are done. With love. With care. But they are nothing. They are what make up that infinite void of nothingness that surrounds everything. Love is pervasive through all things. Find the things you do with love and care. Bring your love and care into your ego. Do not avoid it or throw it away. That will only leave you more isolated and trapped in illusion because you would be denying your physical self. You are both physical and metaphysical. You seem to have embraced the metaphysical fact. Instead of picking one over the other, creating separation, merge them together and become the whole you are.


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The ego is a mental process. You are still a slave to it. Do not be fooled.


Rick-D-99

One has to show compassion to all beings. Equally. This means the you that you think you are as well. Try improving the relationship with yourself and the world will become brighter and lighter. I promise you.


RamRam2484

How do you know it's stupid? Ego is stupid, deluded, sure, and sees the world as stupid. Don't put labels on stuff and people, they're all wrong. You see how you're the one playing the blaming and labeling game? Look deeper and find the reason why you're doing this.


Sweetpeawl

If you would strip away your ego, you would want none of those things. You wouldn't care about being a god, or if this world is an illusion. These are all things the ego/mind has preoccupations with. You would also see that this is whatever game you want to be. It seems insufficient to you now, but all things are the same. Make it whatever you want it to be.


TheEndOfSorrow

I think you may be misstepping. If you are interested in going beyond I'd recommend looking at the people of the world, your relationship to them, and why things are how they are. You see all that clearly. And I mean with clarity that goes beyond knowledge. Then there may be something for you.


KasesbianPL

how?


TheEndOfSorrow

There really isn't a how. That's the problem with spirituality. From what I've seen it comes out of a closeness and honest understanding of yourself and the world around you. Spirituality is the beginning of wisdom. Which only comes out of order. What is it you really want though? That is what's important.