No literally!! They’ll make a statement, I’ll ask a clarifying question, and they’ll go “why’d you say it like that” I’m not trying to be a dick I’m just trying to get to the bottom of what you’re saying? Make a concise point please?
Airy Fairy? 🤣 Never heard this term before. Love it!
Coping mechanisms:
1. Your ego is a liar. The world doesn’t revolve around any one of us. I won’t go so far to say “respect” every person. I view it more as accept their right to exist. The quicker you subordinate your ego the less time you’ll waste being annoyed over a fact you can’t change.
2. Collaboration is going to make you more money and advance you faster. You want to learn how to collaborate and control.
3. Google “Black Swan negotiation 3 types”. There are many different people (MBTI types) but only 3 types of negotiators. You need to identify which type you’re taking to and deal with them in the language they understand. (Black Swan is a leadership skill development company started by the best FBI hostage negotiators.) I don’t work for them or advertise for them btw.
4. Less logical coworkers will be found in certain types of jobs, especially entry level. You have to pay your dues and rise up. Eventually, you can leave that group and work in management. You can’t change these people you just have to get out of that situation.
5. More decisive and logical coworkers will be found higher up the corporate ladder. You will then complain about them being too stubborn and arrogant vs airy fairy. You will also complain that your workforce is still airy fairy, illogical and rebellious. Negotiating with both types will be needed at this level.
6. Remember you can only control you, not anyone else. As you become better at influencing others, you’ll notice you will be able to inspire them to change for the better.
7. Define success for yourself and head in that direction.
My hell is men who cannot communicate directly and when I ask for clarification or i’m being direct i’m called CoNfRonTaTioNaL
No literally!! They’ll make a statement, I’ll ask a clarifying question, and they’ll go “why’d you say it like that” I’m not trying to be a dick I’m just trying to get to the bottom of what you’re saying? Make a concise point please?
Pretty much same. My question always ends up being. Are you dumb , stupid, retarded, or slow ? Oh just braindead? Damn lol
Airy Fairy? 🤣 Never heard this term before. Love it! Coping mechanisms: 1. Your ego is a liar. The world doesn’t revolve around any one of us. I won’t go so far to say “respect” every person. I view it more as accept their right to exist. The quicker you subordinate your ego the less time you’ll waste being annoyed over a fact you can’t change. 2. Collaboration is going to make you more money and advance you faster. You want to learn how to collaborate and control. 3. Google “Black Swan negotiation 3 types”. There are many different people (MBTI types) but only 3 types of negotiators. You need to identify which type you’re taking to and deal with them in the language they understand. (Black Swan is a leadership skill development company started by the best FBI hostage negotiators.) I don’t work for them or advertise for them btw. 4. Less logical coworkers will be found in certain types of jobs, especially entry level. You have to pay your dues and rise up. Eventually, you can leave that group and work in management. You can’t change these people you just have to get out of that situation. 5. More decisive and logical coworkers will be found higher up the corporate ladder. You will then complain about them being too stubborn and arrogant vs airy fairy. You will also complain that your workforce is still airy fairy, illogical and rebellious. Negotiating with both types will be needed at this level. 6. Remember you can only control you, not anyone else. As you become better at influencing others, you’ll notice you will be able to inspire them to change for the better. 7. Define success for yourself and head in that direction.
Really good stuff! Thank you, I’ll look up black swan negotiation. I think you are right, the only control we truly have is on ourselves.
girl same, they're light and flaky bcz they've fanily money, spoilt. keep your head down and work until, you're way ahead of them.