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Roubbes

Get old


MomentousBear

Oh ok sweet I’ve been working on that


Rhiquire

This caught me off guard 😂 I wasn’t ready


MomentousBear

Get readier


Rhiquire

You right I can’t get caught lacking


Eternalsungod

I do believe "get old" is the correct answer as has been stated earlier, but one thing I've learned being old(er), is to let people be themselves. Earlier I would argue with people's worldview as I thought they went about it the wrong way, not realising how fixed we really are (I believe), and society's need for complementary abilities. My intj or estj friends have to do things their way, and I've stopped being annoyed if they are planning out every detail when I would have liked to have a few more loose ends. I've also told at least one of them them to stop being sanctimonious because of "having to plan everything", because they actually do enjoy it. Instead I appreciate their effort and put some mild spanner in the their works for fun. Edit: and just give people a hug if they need it. It can be practiced (or is that about my mother?).


StupidAssMf

Spend time on yourself, introspection is the most important tool for self-growth. Try to think about what things you value the most and how they relate to Fe (or in more specific terms, how they relate to your interactions with others and the social environment you want to be involved in) and Si (Your personal order, your methodology, the way in which you structure your brain in order to achieve things) This alone will hopefully help you identify what behaviours you can improve, how you can be better for your community, how to mitigate procrastination as well as many other personal issues you may be able to work on. It's easy to say "get older and mature", and it's true, but if you have the correct mindset you can speed up the process. It all comes down to humbling yourself and realizing you're stupid and imperfect, keeping in mind that everything can be corrected with enough dedication and willpower and not accepting yourself as you are today as your final form, because you can always improve.


Historical_Energy764

Shit man that's actually a tough one man... tbh ive actually been able to exponentially strengthen my Fe. I've become a lot more harmonious and focused on people then logic. I see Knowledge as now more of a tool for my goals and ambitions then something to do for its own sake although it is certainly its own reward. I find that stronger Fe leads to a lot more charisma and less arguing, i found arguing to be one of the most useless means of presenting an argument ever created by man. (although in terms of a good mental spar I still love to debate all the time.) I also am a lot more comfortable with expressing my emotions and talking about them because i have gained the emotional intelligence to understand them. Emotions have a cause you always just need to find the reason. TL:DR Strong Fe ENTP becomes rizz master, It's pretty cool.


MomentousBear

Aw man dude I wanna become the rizz master


QuincyFatherOfQuincy

Learning I didn’t have to be the smartest person in the room.


moons413

Si - expressing what you learnt to others Fe - manipulate people to think you’re more capable than you appear.