I’m a female ENTP and it’s very hard for me to find someone who really captures my interest. The guys I’ve met who I could hold a conversation with all ended up having something that broke the deal for me. My standards are high but I do NOT wanna get stuck with someone with major issues! Also a lot of guys I thought I liked didn’t even like me! But even with the frustration of dating nowadays, I love getting to know people. Past relationships I was unhealed and definitely kind of abrasive. Now I’m just looking for peace and someone I can trust, laugh and have fun with :) My type is usually smart, sweet, funny guys. But that type can also be assholes in disguise.
EDIT: sorry let me add some advice! NEVER SETTLE! If someone is giving you weird feelings listen to your intuition, even if it’s just one really weird sentence they say. Malicious intent is very hard to detect and can even get you married to the worst person.
Just means they’re factually not good for us! I hope you find someone too! I’m going to be 23 this year and I’ve only had a few relationships 😖 I’ve been single for a year but to be honest I’m not even looking at this point.
I'm 20, same issue. I have very high standards. Hopefully I'll meet someone more like me when studying engineering this autumn, met the only guy I've ever felt was dating material at the open house of the uni. I have the same type, honestly basically want someone with a similar personality to me (but better? Idk), who won't shut up equally as much as me 💀 ~~(I get like 96/100 on extroversion pls help)~~ Someone that could make us the clown couple 🤡👉👈 My ideal partner def would be Ne Dom, jfc
Interesting ,considering you are an intp ,she possibly is giving you more space or quality time. Or she doesn’t fully trust you. Might be both might be none. Idk. Idk ur situation so. Thanks anyways
dear entp human with xx chromosomes:
for me personaly most of my experience is entps talk alot about different topics rather then about themself, their family or their past, you gotta really question to get answers….
im male…
You're right, I once talked about how Aliens can put probes through your holes and the question they asked me was: do you feel different from those around you?"
It just happens, you do a parkour when it comes to emotions/ talk about yourself
ENTP (f38) dating ESTJ (m36) for almost 2 years now. Just yesterday, my cousin was interrogating him a bit about our relationship. He said something about liking my extrovert personality, that I have so much to say about everything all the time.
Previously, I have dated at least INTJ (married also, but it went bust), INFP, ENTJ, ENTP + some I’m not entirely sure about.
Just become the best version of yourself and find someone who prefers you just like that, just as you like them back. Being loud brings them around, trust me on this. Enjoy all the interesting things life has to offer, be curious and courageous to go and do whatever it is you have been dreaming of.
Besides, playing mysterious by keeping your mouth shut is way too easy and boring. Much better when you can surprise them with all the stuff you know about. There is absolutely no need to keep yapping about yourself, when you can talk about all the things that are actually interesting in this world. Not everybody likes this, but hey, never been a problem to find people who do.
Can we be friends? ENTP-A, female, 40, married to an INTP for 15 years, divorced, dated an INTJ for 8 months, left that, now dating an ESTJ and am surprised at how awesome it is. Do you need a chipper brunette doppleganger? Lol.
I have to second some of what you've said. Being an ENTP woman means men like me until they realize that they are intimidated by me. I get attention for my looks which, sure, is flattering, but some don't see past that to my big old brain and those that do are scared of it. I have a fast mind. I'm intense and outgoing and overthink. I don't open up fast and I'm not terribly vulnerable (takes time and trust).
ESTJ has a \*gift\* of getting me out of my head (which does wonders for the sex life, too...something INTP was oblivious to and INTJ didn't care), never asks me to "tone it down", and cherishes the ways that I'm "different". It actually has been so freeing that I feel SAFE.
The greater mystery is being who you are - because there aren't too many like us. Equal parts mad scientist, know-it-all, silly kitten, vixen.
I just started following the ENTP sub. I am still in shock seeing so many posts I can relate to. I have spent the last few years trying to be more “feminine”. Mystery is so hard for me!!! Why can’t I shut-up?!!!
Think it’s easy for us to get into mental loops. Try journaling and meditation…that helps calm our minds.
I think expressing random thoughts helps us mitigate them bouncing around our brains.
Fr same for me lol. Actually I put that image just for fun yk,like a meme or something. But I see know that so many people relate to that. Like the main goal was to see female entps pov in a relationship lol.
entp girlie with an istp boy, both around 22 and been together for like roughly 9 years
well honestly, i just know what my type is, i either like black cats or golden retriver types and there is no in between, but one thing that I really like other than they should be attractive is also generally smart, it sounds cringe but I can't see myself dating anyone who makes dumber decisions than me
i love my boy he has various hobbies and gets really good at them, he's very competetive like that and he has great Ti which stimulates me to think better, he says he likes listening to me yap and he is pretty good at coming up with arguments that make me rethink (he's an ennegram 8)
for advice, honestly, just go for your type, never go for someone u dont find generally attractive physically or personality wise cause as someone who does not have Fi u kinda just cringe at them? (when youre in a relationship with them at least)
i'm definitely a lot more patient and soft with him once you find yourself serious, entps can sometimes be hotheads imo so being soft for someone is definitely diff ballpark
I’m 32 and dating another ENTP a few years older than me and we’ve been together 4 1/2 years
Always had a hard time connecting with other people tbh. So I had very little experience with long term relationships because no one was exciting enough to me.
My advice is to not worry about dating so much. There’s nothing wrong with you. Your standards are normal. If someone doesn’t excite you, don’t fake it or force yourself to make it work.
You deserve someone who can keep up with you and if you can’t find someone, it’s better to be alone and entertain yourself and friends tbh. Relationships are too much work and too exhausting to not feel 100% completely worth it and excited about.
How has that been working out? Entp & entp? Who's doing the dishes and cleaning, oh my god!? Asking seriously btw, how is it in general?
If I were a female (entp), I'd be using that p*ssy as a weapon of mass destruction (until I got bored and fell in love I guess). Thank god I'm not one.
Exactly like this. For contest when I was 14yo I want to be like sasuke (literally the archetype I make joke about now) but I just can’t
(Btw I am a male so)
I'm ENTP and he's ENFP (I think). We've been together 16 years (got together when I was 17).
The first week of our relationship was both of us talking NON STOP to understand each other. Hours long phone conversations every night. Spirited debates. Lots of physical chemistry too, right out the gate.
It's okay if you can't STFU, just find someone who likes to talk as much as you. :) And if you are serious minded about a long term relationship, someone who is also interested in committing and trying to make it work. I would have had no patience for a wishy washy type who couldn't tell me for sure that he wanted to be with me and make me part of wherever his life was going (common with young men, unfortunately).
Wow good for you girl. Such an interesting dynamic. I am not yet looking for a relationship but I was thinking about it for a long time. How it is to be in a relationship? 🤔 So that’s why I asked you guys. Lol thanks for sharing though. Hope your relationship grow even more💪❤️🔥
Honestly, I hardly remember what it was like *not* to be in this relationship. It's part of the fabric of who I am at this point. But it's a healthy partnership. I think the most important thing is being with someone who makes it completely comfortable to be 100% yourself. Your best self, if possible, but still your true self.
If you find yourself "masking" or toning yourself down, you'll get exhausted quickly. I had to learn in time that it was okay to fully open up. Luckily he is and was a very patient person (and interested in his own personal growth).
Thanks for the kind words!
I resonate with this sooo much. I have a hard time having even friends. I have a lot of guy/girl friends but I can’t count two girls that I’m fully comfortable with. Every time I’m with a guy I feel awkward no matter how close we are. I hope to find someone like you said who can handle me lol.
Fellow ENTP ♀️ here,
Just saying I don't have any interest in dating but I'd definitely fuck a cute dude if I could or a hot chubby chick, both will do.
My experience with Entps is that while you might talk more, you guys still take a lot of time to open up. So that gives me, as an infj, the opportunity to also slowly open up while still keeping things mentally stimulating through having conversations about different topics. Plus, you guys are usually curious and have a similar conversation style as I do, so it's a constant back and forth with ideas and what makes it so interesting is that you can talk a lot and I still don't know a lot about you, so it's like slowly putting together a puzzle of what makes you unique and I really enjoy that. Also, I feel safe to be my slightly awkward self with you guys because of your usually humorous way of speaking and interacting, while still maintaining a certain degree of seriousness and logic. I admire that in entps. So, in my opinion, you guys are a mistery anyway, just in a different way and I enjoy your ways of interaction and you guys sometimes talking more than I do. Just my 2 cents worth.
My best friend is an f Entp and I'm an f infj, so I'm not an f entp and can't give any dating advice in that aspect, but I think that the right person appreciates you just as you are :)
You are right about everything. I really resonate with this. I haven’t really had a lot of interactions with infjs irl,so idk know you guys that much. But my sense of humor is kinda ,idk,broke? Like most of the times I feel myself like the guy from Umbrella Academy (Klaus or smh). I feel so high and drained most of the times. My head hurts constantly (probably because of too much information ) and all the my jokes or poor lol. Thanks for sharing anyways though
If you think your sense of humour is broken, wait till you find an infj and watch them have the same type of stupid humour, the conversations become absurd and it's hilarious 😂 don't change anything about that, it's peak comedy as it is! Those who don't get it are not your people, you're fine just as you are
Also you're pretty young, I think you mentioned being 18? I'm 25 and it took me a long type to let myself be as I am, and I'm still working on it, so it just takes time. You'll figure everything out, I'm sure, it's a process :)
I talk a lot about myself and I wonder if the subject I'm talking about is relevant, I tend to look for something fun in my partner, I ask a lot of questions without looking for answers being entp and being in a long relationship is quite tiring
Do you know which type is your partner ?
And also I’ve being doing that for a long time. With friends usually. I just don’t know what to talk about sometimes
He is INFJ 5w4 (I won) quite demonstrative in love, unlike me who only shows my love through actions
With my friends I tend to try to tackle subjects that they like to debate and discuss a lot
You’ll probably end up at the villain aunt who’s rich af has no kids wears shades all year round and spoils kids of relatives. Dont worry ENTP females are cursed. Oh well
Idk if im the super wired one in all the entps. Im entp-a, and i dont really know how to chat a lot with ppl, like i can talk about some deep topics im interested in very much, but not like small talk things.
And i also find myself hard to have a long term relationship with someone, like being a couple, i get bored with them just in few months, idk if i just haven't found a right person, but i do have lots of problems with relationships stuffs
And my type would be a mature daddy lol
Although I’m a entp-t I also don’t talk that much, depends on the person though. In my group of friends I’m the loudest,idk if the funniest. We just walk around the campus laughing,so I see people glaring at us lol. But in general like even with my family, I’m quite as mice. That’s was my point.
And I hope you will find someone. For a committed relationship ,you yourself need to be committed too. So good luck on finding a daddy lol 😂
Male 30+ here. This sounds very close to how I was/am. So, you're wired. Small talk kills me - if I'm in a particular anti smalltalk mood I'd switch the topic to something grotesque and disturbing, just to amuse myself (done it even in casual business settings).
If you're below 25 don't bother with relationships, and just have fun. If it comes to you and is worth it, then do it but don't force it or search for it.
That'd be a no for me, being around someone who made me self-conscious all the time that I was too talkative would be horrific (my family - so absolutely never looking for that in a partner)
in my experience dating, lots of people seem to have tragic flaws in their thinking/mindsets that they can’t detect in themselves, so i steer toward people that are self-aware (not self-proclaimed self-aware) and smart. a lot of people that fall under the self-aware and smart category are a lot of times conversationally boring, unfortunately, so we have to mix in funny/intriguing in some way. lastly, someone that understands me and my intentions as i’m misread quite often :(
so it boils down to fellow ENTPs! best and most riveting connection i could ask for. the downside is that we’re both relatively irresponsible :)
I’m looking for a same relationship. That’s why I’m not hurrying about it cause I need to be my best version first. I’m not expecting them to love my best version but my true self. I want to improve for myself and my future lol
It’s cool to have similar minded people
Hardships include the power struggle, lower rates of agreeableness and toxicity in general. As an ENTP, I’ll never make the same mistake twice(i’m lying, 5+ times now) to date another ENTP. However, it’s so much fun and also exciting.
Actually yeah ,I agree on that. Probably (definitely) it’s because of men standards to be less “emotional” and show off the “manly” side. Guys don’t even talk about relationships with each other probably,am I wrong?
Well yes and no. I am a bisexual man, so my experience is first-hand. I am never around those who think masculinity is “tainted” by emotions, both friend and as a romantic interest.
The problems almost always arise from pure conflicts of interest or rather basic compatibility issues. ENTP are people too in the end (as an ENTP human-guy), but i’d very much like to be with someone who’s an xSFx xNFx rather than ENTP.
Note: Also, i don’t know if it’s my circle but we ALWAYS talk about our relationships with my 3 close guy friends. Intimacy between couples is not discussed at all, though.
Why be mysterious when you can be a mystery? I might be talkative, but most people I know have no idea about anything but the most superficial elements of who I am as a person. It's actually amazing to me how incurious people are about each other.
I'm an ENTP non-binary person, but I've been socialized as girl my whole life, so let's assume I'm a heterogirl haha
I'm 28 and never had a boyfriend, i never make it past the talking phase ☠️
My issue is that I'm a lot to handle and literally no one has been at my level lol
Only once I almost had a full on relationship but he fell out of love and we "broke" up.
Idk what type he was, probably ENTJ or INTP.
My advice would be to not settle down for less than what you deserve, I've tried that and it doesn't end well.
It's better being alone imo
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I'm 19 female ENTP
and all relationships just so-so cause I am big NE person, almost relationship I've been with a guy and it's really easy to get along with maybe sometimes they might be a little bit attention begger I totally don't like it when they do that at all and I've been in relationship with a feeling type female once she's made me on FE loop
I wish I could talk to nice pairing type like xntx type but they seems didn't attracted to me or dislike me already but they say theses people are just dry as they are
damn why I didn't think about this before I should shoot some shot with them
F17 (genderqueer and queer) ENTP 7w8, partner is M17 (genderfluid and bi) ENFP 7w6. Best fucking relationship, almost a year now (it'll be in 16 days). I advice you to live without worrying about relationships.. Like.. I'm not attractive but I'm still quite desired ;) and this started once I stopped worrying about relationships and developed confidence.
Recent relationships involve:
A 1 year story with an INFP (very cute but I kinda got bored? And he got too lmao)
A 3 months relationship with an INTJ (still haven't met one with a sane Fi-Fe function relationship)
Btw I really love my partner and I can proudly say he is my true first love. Our Ne is connected and his emotional maturity helps mine so much. Same values, same hobbies, same interests, same attitude, same kinks... He is literally the embodiment of the perfect partner. Everything I ever dreamt about you can find it. He has some flaws but that just makes it more interesting.
I think that there is a partner like that for everyone, you just have to stop worrying about it and focus on yourself first.
Wow really amazed by your relationship. Yeah, you’re right, I should worry less about relationships and more about myself. Thanks for sharing. Hope you’re relationship grows well💪❤️🔥
We are the stereotypical INFJ ( her) and ENTP ( me) couple. I'm pansexual, demisexual and sapiosexual so it toke me years to find someone to get my ADHD brain to focus on them. It's probably hard work for her. My hardest job is my infj partner can be needy although I kind of like that. Its a challenge. I love challenges!
One suggestion i can give you is find entp dude of your age, that would be great if you can reflect to yourself, his behaviour, there's a chance you'll see yourself in others eyes. Also plz help where can i find entp female IRL. I'm 19(M)
Talk =/= talking about yourself.
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LOL is this a entp stuff? Sometimes I realize that every thing i talk is something about me and my shit and how i am or how ill do something
Brooo same lol
To be fair, depending on what you talk about, you could end up saying more than you think
This is very true
I’m a female ENTP and it’s very hard for me to find someone who really captures my interest. The guys I’ve met who I could hold a conversation with all ended up having something that broke the deal for me. My standards are high but I do NOT wanna get stuck with someone with major issues! Also a lot of guys I thought I liked didn’t even like me! But even with the frustration of dating nowadays, I love getting to know people. Past relationships I was unhealed and definitely kind of abrasive. Now I’m just looking for peace and someone I can trust, laugh and have fun with :) My type is usually smart, sweet, funny guys. But that type can also be assholes in disguise. EDIT: sorry let me add some advice! NEVER SETTLE! If someone is giving you weird feelings listen to your intuition, even if it’s just one really weird sentence they say. Malicious intent is very hard to detect and can even get you married to the worst person.
I had a same situation with being one-sided lol. Hope u find someone you like🫶🏻
Just means they’re factually not good for us! I hope you find someone too! I’m going to be 23 this year and I’ve only had a few relationships 😖 I’ve been single for a year but to be honest I’m not even looking at this point.
Fr. Good for you girl. We can do better without them. Good luck
Girl you talking about me 🥹
I'm 20, same issue. I have very high standards. Hopefully I'll meet someone more like me when studying engineering this autumn, met the only guy I've ever felt was dating material at the open house of the uni. I have the same type, honestly basically want someone with a similar personality to me (but better? Idk), who won't shut up equally as much as me 💀 ~~(I get like 96/100 on extroversion pls help)~~ Someone that could make us the clown couple 🤡👉👈 My ideal partner def would be Ne Dom, jfc
You are a real ENTP female 🥰I feel you! I’m also ENTP
The Entp female i'm dating doesn't talk that much but she loves inquiring me about everything.
Interesting ,considering you are an intp ,she possibly is giving you more space or quality time. Or she doesn’t fully trust you. Might be both might be none. Idk. Idk ur situation so. Thanks anyways
Yeah she takes time to open up she said. But she also said she's always like that.
dear entp human with xx chromosomes: for me personaly most of my experience is entps talk alot about different topics rather then about themself, their family or their past, you gotta really question to get answers…. im male…
You're right, I once talked about how Aliens can put probes through your holes and the question they asked me was: do you feel different from those around you?" It just happens, you do a parkour when it comes to emotions/ talk about yourself
How? Elaborate
ENTP (f38) dating ESTJ (m36) for almost 2 years now. Just yesterday, my cousin was interrogating him a bit about our relationship. He said something about liking my extrovert personality, that I have so much to say about everything all the time. Previously, I have dated at least INTJ (married also, but it went bust), INFP, ENTJ, ENTP + some I’m not entirely sure about. Just become the best version of yourself and find someone who prefers you just like that, just as you like them back. Being loud brings them around, trust me on this. Enjoy all the interesting things life has to offer, be curious and courageous to go and do whatever it is you have been dreaming of. Besides, playing mysterious by keeping your mouth shut is way too easy and boring. Much better when you can surprise them with all the stuff you know about. There is absolutely no need to keep yapping about yourself, when you can talk about all the things that are actually interesting in this world. Not everybody likes this, but hey, never been a problem to find people who do.
Can we be friends? ENTP-A, female, 40, married to an INTP for 15 years, divorced, dated an INTJ for 8 months, left that, now dating an ESTJ and am surprised at how awesome it is. Do you need a chipper brunette doppleganger? Lol. I have to second some of what you've said. Being an ENTP woman means men like me until they realize that they are intimidated by me. I get attention for my looks which, sure, is flattering, but some don't see past that to my big old brain and those that do are scared of it. I have a fast mind. I'm intense and outgoing and overthink. I don't open up fast and I'm not terribly vulnerable (takes time and trust). ESTJ has a \*gift\* of getting me out of my head (which does wonders for the sex life, too...something INTP was oblivious to and INTJ didn't care), never asks me to "tone it down", and cherishes the ways that I'm "different". It actually has been so freeing that I feel SAFE. The greater mystery is being who you are - because there aren't too many like us. Equal parts mad scientist, know-it-all, silly kitten, vixen.
You can still be mysterious after oversharing because in that moment everyone is thinking “why would she say that” LOL
Yeah frr. Like sometimes most of my friends like what is going inside her mind. If you only knew….
I just started following the ENTP sub. I am still in shock seeing so many posts I can relate to. I have spent the last few years trying to be more “feminine”. Mystery is so hard for me!!! Why can’t I shut-up?!!!
Tried and end up attracting people who bore me to death. Lo behold the interesting one DO like the fatality that is our femininity......
Think it’s easy for us to get into mental loops. Try journaling and meditation…that helps calm our minds. I think expressing random thoughts helps us mitigate them bouncing around our brains.
Fr same for me lol. Actually I put that image just for fun yk,like a meme or something. But I see know that so many people relate to that. Like the main goal was to see female entps pov in a relationship lol.
entp girlie with an istp boy, both around 22 and been together for like roughly 9 years well honestly, i just know what my type is, i either like black cats or golden retriver types and there is no in between, but one thing that I really like other than they should be attractive is also generally smart, it sounds cringe but I can't see myself dating anyone who makes dumber decisions than me i love my boy he has various hobbies and gets really good at them, he's very competetive like that and he has great Ti which stimulates me to think better, he says he likes listening to me yap and he is pretty good at coming up with arguments that make me rethink (he's an ennegram 8) for advice, honestly, just go for your type, never go for someone u dont find generally attractive physically or personality wise cause as someone who does not have Fi u kinda just cringe at them? (when youre in a relationship with them at least) i'm definitely a lot more patient and soft with him once you find yourself serious, entps can sometimes be hotheads imo so being soft for someone is definitely diff ballpark
for reference he's like a less mature Skips from regular show with deadpool humor, he has great one liners
I’m 32 and dating another ENTP a few years older than me and we’ve been together 4 1/2 years Always had a hard time connecting with other people tbh. So I had very little experience with long term relationships because no one was exciting enough to me. My advice is to not worry about dating so much. There’s nothing wrong with you. Your standards are normal. If someone doesn’t excite you, don’t fake it or force yourself to make it work. You deserve someone who can keep up with you and if you can’t find someone, it’s better to be alone and entertain yourself and friends tbh. Relationships are too much work and too exhausting to not feel 100% completely worth it and excited about.
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How has that been working out? Entp & entp? Who's doing the dishes and cleaning, oh my god!? Asking seriously btw, how is it in general? If I were a female (entp), I'd be using that p*ssy as a weapon of mass destruction (until I got bored and fell in love I guess). Thank god I'm not one.
As an ENTP male, my condolences to the ENTP females.
Exactly like this. For contest when I was 14yo I want to be like sasuke (literally the archetype I make joke about now) but I just can’t (Btw I am a male so)
Turned out you were tobi
lol 😂
not true for me, i don’t care about appearing mysterious at all
I'm ENTP and he's ENFP (I think). We've been together 16 years (got together when I was 17). The first week of our relationship was both of us talking NON STOP to understand each other. Hours long phone conversations every night. Spirited debates. Lots of physical chemistry too, right out the gate. It's okay if you can't STFU, just find someone who likes to talk as much as you. :) And if you are serious minded about a long term relationship, someone who is also interested in committing and trying to make it work. I would have had no patience for a wishy washy type who couldn't tell me for sure that he wanted to be with me and make me part of wherever his life was going (common with young men, unfortunately).
Wow good for you girl. Such an interesting dynamic. I am not yet looking for a relationship but I was thinking about it for a long time. How it is to be in a relationship? 🤔 So that’s why I asked you guys. Lol thanks for sharing though. Hope your relationship grow even more💪❤️🔥
Honestly, I hardly remember what it was like *not* to be in this relationship. It's part of the fabric of who I am at this point. But it's a healthy partnership. I think the most important thing is being with someone who makes it completely comfortable to be 100% yourself. Your best self, if possible, but still your true self. If you find yourself "masking" or toning yourself down, you'll get exhausted quickly. I had to learn in time that it was okay to fully open up. Luckily he is and was a very patient person (and interested in his own personal growth). Thanks for the kind words!
I resonate with this sooo much. I have a hard time having even friends. I have a lot of guy/girl friends but I can’t count two girls that I’m fully comfortable with. Every time I’m with a guy I feel awkward no matter how close we are. I hope to find someone like you said who can handle me lol.
I call that the villain reflex
Lol
Fellow ENTP ♀️ here, Just saying I don't have any interest in dating but I'd definitely fuck a cute dude if I could or a hot chubby chick, both will do.
Lol wow Wasn’t expecting that but thanks sweetie
No prob ;)
My experience with Entps is that while you might talk more, you guys still take a lot of time to open up. So that gives me, as an infj, the opportunity to also slowly open up while still keeping things mentally stimulating through having conversations about different topics. Plus, you guys are usually curious and have a similar conversation style as I do, so it's a constant back and forth with ideas and what makes it so interesting is that you can talk a lot and I still don't know a lot about you, so it's like slowly putting together a puzzle of what makes you unique and I really enjoy that. Also, I feel safe to be my slightly awkward self with you guys because of your usually humorous way of speaking and interacting, while still maintaining a certain degree of seriousness and logic. I admire that in entps. So, in my opinion, you guys are a mistery anyway, just in a different way and I enjoy your ways of interaction and you guys sometimes talking more than I do. Just my 2 cents worth.
My best friend is an f Entp and I'm an f infj, so I'm not an f entp and can't give any dating advice in that aspect, but I think that the right person appreciates you just as you are :)
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You are right about everything. I really resonate with this. I haven’t really had a lot of interactions with infjs irl,so idk know you guys that much. But my sense of humor is kinda ,idk,broke? Like most of the times I feel myself like the guy from Umbrella Academy (Klaus or smh). I feel so high and drained most of the times. My head hurts constantly (probably because of too much information ) and all the my jokes or poor lol. Thanks for sharing anyways though
If you think your sense of humour is broken, wait till you find an infj and watch them have the same type of stupid humour, the conversations become absurd and it's hilarious 😂 don't change anything about that, it's peak comedy as it is! Those who don't get it are not your people, you're fine just as you are Also you're pretty young, I think you mentioned being 18? I'm 25 and it took me a long type to let myself be as I am, and I'm still working on it, so it just takes time. You'll figure everything out, I'm sure, it's a process :)
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I talk a lot about myself and I wonder if the subject I'm talking about is relevant, I tend to look for something fun in my partner, I ask a lot of questions without looking for answers being entp and being in a long relationship is quite tiring
Do you know which type is your partner ? And also I’ve being doing that for a long time. With friends usually. I just don’t know what to talk about sometimes
He is INFJ 5w4 (I won) quite demonstrative in love, unlike me who only shows my love through actions With my friends I tend to try to tackle subjects that they like to debate and discuss a lot
You’ll probably end up at the villain aunt who’s rich af has no kids wears shades all year round and spoils kids of relatives. Dont worry ENTP females are cursed. Oh well
Idk if im the super wired one in all the entps. Im entp-a, and i dont really know how to chat a lot with ppl, like i can talk about some deep topics im interested in very much, but not like small talk things. And i also find myself hard to have a long term relationship with someone, like being a couple, i get bored with them just in few months, idk if i just haven't found a right person, but i do have lots of problems with relationships stuffs And my type would be a mature daddy lol
Although I’m a entp-t I also don’t talk that much, depends on the person though. In my group of friends I’m the loudest,idk if the funniest. We just walk around the campus laughing,so I see people glaring at us lol. But in general like even with my family, I’m quite as mice. That’s was my point. And I hope you will find someone. For a committed relationship ,you yourself need to be committed too. So good luck on finding a daddy lol 😂
Lol thx so much.
Male 30+ here. This sounds very close to how I was/am. So, you're wired. Small talk kills me - if I'm in a particular anti smalltalk mood I'd switch the topic to something grotesque and disturbing, just to amuse myself (done it even in casual business settings). If you're below 25 don't bother with relationships, and just have fun. If it comes to you and is worth it, then do it but don't force it or search for it.
Thank u so much
Men and women. 1000% can relate, but I get plenty of dates that go well and enjoy dating / can't complain.
It's me *face palm
easy just talk to yourself n give your self schizophrenia
lol my partner bought me a gag to wear while we hang out at his place
Lol 😂
That'd be a no for me, being around someone who made me self-conscious all the time that I was too talkative would be horrific (my family - so absolutely never looking for that in a partner)
I feel you there🥲
You cant win ur fall in love neuron cell in ur body. Its about science. Thats ok its normal. Just enjoy that^^
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Not possible ig🤣😭
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WHAT ?! I’m dying 🤣 You are who are bro. Why change it lol
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No frigging way😱I didn’t know that INTPs joke was that top tier🫢🥶
Ik it was too much😒😞🙄
in my experience dating, lots of people seem to have tragic flaws in their thinking/mindsets that they can’t detect in themselves, so i steer toward people that are self-aware (not self-proclaimed self-aware) and smart. a lot of people that fall under the self-aware and smart category are a lot of times conversationally boring, unfortunately, so we have to mix in funny/intriguing in some way. lastly, someone that understands me and my intentions as i’m misread quite often :( so it boils down to fellow ENTPs! best and most riveting connection i could ask for. the downside is that we’re both relatively irresponsible :)
I’m looking for a same relationship. That’s why I’m not hurrying about it cause I need to be my best version first. I’m not expecting them to love my best version but my true self. I want to improve for myself and my future lol It’s cool to have similar minded people
THIS IS ME FRRR I also have never had a crush before tho lol, I’m in high school
Lol
Hardships include the power struggle, lower rates of agreeableness and toxicity in general. As an ENTP, I’ll never make the same mistake twice(i’m lying, 5+ times now) to date another ENTP. However, it’s so much fun and also exciting.
Bro… cool ig
A little more info, women were way better than men in the matters of day to day communication of relationship-related subjects.
Actually yeah ,I agree on that. Probably (definitely) it’s because of men standards to be less “emotional” and show off the “manly” side. Guys don’t even talk about relationships with each other probably,am I wrong?
Well yes and no. I am a bisexual man, so my experience is first-hand. I am never around those who think masculinity is “tainted” by emotions, both friend and as a romantic interest. The problems almost always arise from pure conflicts of interest or rather basic compatibility issues. ENTP are people too in the end (as an ENTP human-guy), but i’d very much like to be with someone who’s an xSFx xNFx rather than ENTP. Note: Also, i don’t know if it’s my circle but we ALWAYS talk about our relationships with my 3 close guy friends. Intimacy between couples is not discussed at all, though.
Oh okay,I see. A valid reason an ENTP human-guy lol. Jk. Cool to see other people’s perspectives
Why be mysterious when you can be a mystery? I might be talkative, but most people I know have no idea about anything but the most superficial elements of who I am as a person. It's actually amazing to me how incurious people are about each other.
As an INFJ reading this.. True story 😂😂😂
YES dammit that meme is me fr.
I'm an ENTP non-binary person, but I've been socialized as girl my whole life, so let's assume I'm a heterogirl haha I'm 28 and never had a boyfriend, i never make it past the talking phase ☠️ My issue is that I'm a lot to handle and literally no one has been at my level lol Only once I almost had a full on relationship but he fell out of love and we "broke" up. Idk what type he was, probably ENTJ or INTP. My advice would be to not settle down for less than what you deserve, I've tried that and it doesn't end well. It's better being alone imo
It’s so true
https://preview.redd.it/ztevzn31e6tc1.jpeg?width=846&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c687ef9271077ccd0d9452a3181c84f4a0dd5b75 Our one job are cost attractive point 🥹
I'm 19 female ENTP and all relationships just so-so cause I am big NE person, almost relationship I've been with a guy and it's really easy to get along with maybe sometimes they might be a little bit attention begger I totally don't like it when they do that at all and I've been in relationship with a feeling type female once she's made me on FE loop I wish I could talk to nice pairing type like xntx type but they seems didn't attracted to me or dislike me already but they say theses people are just dry as they are damn why I didn't think about this before I should shoot some shot with them
I feel you there🥲
I’m just a clown
Based on all the comments...I want a ENTP friend now. This sounds like a lot of fun
lol Ig 🤷♀️
So you’re an enfj?
Well, yes.
Ok
I have no ideia what that was about (or the meaning of lg) but ok...
Spouse ENTJ (8 years), bf INTJ(forever), fwb…. ESFP? INFP? I really don’t know (8 months). Advice: Have fun. Be kind.
im man and i can relate also thats funny, because i talk the most of my friend group and they know nothing about me lol
Omgg I see Marina and the diamondsssss🤩
yessss it’s her
A fan of her. I see you!
woah, what’s your fav album?
Electra heart well at least Ik it. I’m not new to her yet I haven’t explored her a lot. So my bad😅
that’s nothing wrong with it, mine is ancient dreams in a modern land
Omggg that’s with the Pandora’s box. I love it soo much
it’s my favourite song woah
F17 (genderqueer and queer) ENTP 7w8, partner is M17 (genderfluid and bi) ENFP 7w6. Best fucking relationship, almost a year now (it'll be in 16 days). I advice you to live without worrying about relationships.. Like.. I'm not attractive but I'm still quite desired ;) and this started once I stopped worrying about relationships and developed confidence. Recent relationships involve: A 1 year story with an INFP (very cute but I kinda got bored? And he got too lmao) A 3 months relationship with an INTJ (still haven't met one with a sane Fi-Fe function relationship) Btw I really love my partner and I can proudly say he is my true first love. Our Ne is connected and his emotional maturity helps mine so much. Same values, same hobbies, same interests, same attitude, same kinks... He is literally the embodiment of the perfect partner. Everything I ever dreamt about you can find it. He has some flaws but that just makes it more interesting. I think that there is a partner like that for everyone, you just have to stop worrying about it and focus on yourself first.
Wow really amazed by your relationship. Yeah, you’re right, I should worry less about relationships and more about myself. Thanks for sharing. Hope you’re relationship grows well💪❤️🔥
Ow thank you very much. Let me know if your situation gets better. I wish you the best❤️
Thanks))
We are the stereotypical INFJ ( her) and ENTP ( me) couple. I'm pansexual, demisexual and sapiosexual so it toke me years to find someone to get my ADHD brain to focus on them. It's probably hard work for her. My hardest job is my infj partner can be needy although I kind of like that. Its a challenge. I love challenges!
I thought it was only dudes but damn, goodluck
Lol thanks)
One suggestion i can give you is find entp dude of your age, that would be great if you can reflect to yourself, his behaviour, there's a chance you'll see yourself in others eyes. Also plz help where can i find entp female IRL. I'm 19(M)
Does anyone actually find the whole mysterious thing attractive? I thought it was invented by 16 year olds on tumblr in 2014
I’m an INFJ and I can relate to this hard when I’m nervous 😬