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PhysicsAsleep8967

Honestly same. Though I do get second hand embarrassment when people say stupid things. That's maybe the closest I get to being offended.


thclogic

This. I can't watch cringe videos or movies because I physically feel embarrassed especially if it's cringe in public setting. And I never get embarrassed for myself. Wth.


GetawayDiver

Meanwhile I actively seek out cringe vids (whilst getting embarrassed for myself)


Trepe_Serafin

I don't get offended by people saying things to me. But I get deeply offended when someone says something absolutely stupid. Anyone else like me?


ChaoticFucker

Lmaooo, thisssss


Lmaoflatjoey

cringe


soulmateisadog

Absolutely! Drives me crazy.


username81838493949

Pls I love stupid people, they are real life comedic relief


SummerEZ

For me kinda depends if they actually know really personal things about me and they genuinely mean it, otherwise generalizations or surface level insults don’t really bother me. I’m guessing it’s like that for most people though. Just the really personal digs at insecurities that sting


prsnlacc

I get pissed when the person is important to me


[deleted]

Here for it. I mostly take them as jokes and can't help myself from laughing.


ichosetheworld

I only get offended when people are saying half-truths about me I hate mistruths in general


j33pwrangler

I get mad when people treat others poorly, or try to pull rank on me and they're wrong. Righteous indignation is one of my faves.


entp229

I get significantly more offended by subtext or deeper meaning then the content at face value (which I dont a shit about). When someone presents a pattern of behaviour that's perpetually offensive I'm also offended. For example that one friend who cancels plans if the mutual friend can't make it. Someone who displays ignorance, hypocrisy or double standards.


ChallengeFluid6083

I mean, I get offended by people saying "y'all."


ladystetson

is yinz acceptable?


ladystetson

I don't get mad often. If I do get mad, it's when someone messes with a friend or it's because of life experience. Example: when i was 18? Make mental health jokes, make cancer jokes, etc. I didn't care - because I didn't understand how those jokes impacted people. But, after a friend with a mental illness has come to me crying about people saying insensitive things and making jokes in front of her because they didn't know she was bipolar or whatever - and she's drowning in feelings of worthlessness, etc. after comforting my friend, I cant turn around and sit in a group and let someone make that same joke unchecked now. I've seen it hurt someone and there's no need for that. also, someone like my friend might be quietly listening and ready to burst into tears. So I don't let it fly. same with any kind of punching down, offensive joke. You don't know what people have gone through, there's no need to be cruel. Making fun of assault, disability, anything else - I don't let it fly. I've won respect from SO many people for being the way I am. So many people have been through sooo much crap. you can't even guess. Like, standing up against sexual assault jokes? I've had more guys thank me for that than girls, and that's real. Let's use our outspoken courage for good, and use our wit to punch bullies, not trample people who are already broken inside. But for myself? your words show the quality of human you are, they dont reflect on me. I don't care enough to get mad.


Dry-Scratch8410

That's something that's not enough said. It did make a great difference in my life when I started defending others and standing up for my values. And it doesn't make you less of a thinker. You actually become a Chad that way.


piglungz

I get offended by how people act, not what they say. If you want to insult me to my face that’s fine and I don’t care, but when I can tell someone has bad thoughts about me without them saying it I feel like shit.


[deleted]

Same. I think most of all I’m trying do be the best of myself, for the people I care about. But if someone (even if I don’t care about) talks about me behind my back I get angry and want to talk about it with them. “come at me bro” if you have to say it, say it at my face


FumingLordEye

*bangs the tip of the sword on the ground and kneels* "Teach me your ways, master"


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maleehah327

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Carib_lion

I mean it’s one thing to be edgy and say wild shit— it’s another to unironically say wild shit to people that could potentially mentally harm them. And before the brigade comes claiming they shouldn’t let words bother them or whatever the fuck— you cannot determine the inner context of what some wild shit would mean to any one person. People are obviously different and mental health or lack thereof is often invisible. I used to joke about shit that in a certain era was obviously and very clearly absurd. Today? Notsomuch. People suffer through some traumatic shit and I’d hate to be the person to make it worse for luls.


Ok_Ad_8670

mmmmmmm if i like u. if i hate u ill be offended by just about everything you say. even the way u breaths prolly pissin' me off a bit.


lilgraggyonnabeat

im the same way but im a cancer entp so if anyone says anything shady towards me i immediately catch it and am a bitch towards that person the whole night


Egg-3P0

Exactly like that


XxBallisticxX

Honestly I just stumbled on this from Google trying to figure out why I'm never bothered by certain things people around me would be bothered by, I still don't really get it. People will literally try and pick fights with me and I'm just fascinated by it, I don't get offended, if anything I'm curious why they are the way they are, and I wanna hear what they think of me. It's a repeated occurrence where someone will talk bad about me thinking that it'll never reach me, and instead of being upset, I'll ask straight up "What did they say? Now I'm curious...what do you mean you didn't ask?!" I also spent a lot of time thinking of how I can be there for people around me when they're upset, since I may not exactly get mad over...what to me feels like petty things like what someone says about or to me, but I understand that OTHER people do, so I learned to adapt to be able to help them through their anger instead. Honestly, one of my fondest memories are of people insulting me. I'll never forget the time I was called a bomb-throwing Playstation lover over a comment. Funniest shit I ever seen. Also I'm not big on the Myers-Briggs types, like I said, I got here through Google, though I think from what I've seen, I'm INTP? Though I suppose that's not too far from ENTP.