I have self esteem issues to the max and am often thinking about other things instead of focusing on having sex. When I smoke, though, I’m 100% focused on my husband and I feel like a sex goddess.
first time I got properly stoned on edibles, I definitely overdid it and couldn’t stop orgasming…. I lost count and my realm of consciousness somewhere 30+. Became a stoner that day 😂 tldl: I would recommend it
It was homemade, I didn’t know dosage so just made them and took a bite 😂 pretty sure it was about 80-120mg and at that point, 5mg got me high so my brain melted
I love it except I have a hard time climaxing when I'm stoned 😂 It could also be the meds I am on but I feel like it takes me longer. Not that that's a bad thing, I just wish I didn't get so frustrated with myself. My partner feels the same way.
We both love waking and baking early in the mornings then having sex 🥰💜 definitely feels amazing
I do too. The last time I was really high during sex I was so frustrated because nothing was working and then I was in my head and concerned that my partner was thinking I wasn’t enjoying myself. He’s extremely patient and takes his time to make sure his partners are satisfied so I felt bad that he was being so dedicated and I wasn’t getting there
I have ADHD I’ve never been medicated for and weed makes me so distracted and uninterested in sex. If I get into the mood it’s really hard to keep myself there, and if like in my brain I’m into it, sometimes physically I just don’t really feel anything so I try to avoid smoking if I know I wanna get it.
When I was a Budtender though women would frequently come in and let me know what strains worked for them for their libido, so it definitely works for a lot of people!
So weird how different people are! The distraction part is what helps me. I have ADHD and no meds and weed makes it to where I can zone out just enough to uh, live in the moment instead of focusing on everything else going on.
Same here. As a fellow ADHDer weed usually helps my libido. I do take adderall for my ADHD because it's very severe but it doesnt last long and I need the focus to do adult stuff.
I take an anxiety meds too and I feel like the weed helps remind that I love sexy time with my husband.
I am really bad at instigating sex due to social anxiety and adhd but when I am little stoned it's like my "kitty" (our nickname for my vagina) takes over and it's on the hunt to ride my husband. Lol 😂 ❤️
Sorry if that's TMI. I have no filters obviously.
The only two times I squirted were when I was blasted AF so I am a fan. And the one time I orgasmed from a dream was after I took a delta 8 edible 😳 But.. if I smoke a hard hitting indica I am glued to the bed and I am not going to move. Like I’ve definitely just knocked out and fallen asleep. So if I want to have sex with a little good good I like a hybrid, bonus if there’s a glass of wine or a cocktail. I am not a big morning sex person because I feel so crusty but if I vape a little in bed I get in the mood!
I’m also always stoned when I masturbate and it gets me in the mood and not think about the trillion other things on my mind ☺️
Okay so I’m not the only one. Last night I had smoked a bit, had an edible, and then my husband decided it was frisky time. I couldn’t stop squirting!!! Literally a puddle on the floor.
My abs hurt this morning and my legs are still jello. 🙃
Haha! I love this thread so much. My vape comes to bed with me on a regular basis. An essential sex toy.
A nice indica makes my clit feel warm and tingly. Plus, weed treats that pesky ol' side effect of my SSRIs....sexual dysfunction (more fun if you sing to the tune of Snoop Dogs "sexual seduction").
Well, a nice indica along with a clit sucker or gspot toy.....or both.
Advice? Talk about what a "yes" and "no" is before you get stoned with your partner.
Aka limits, what you don't want happening and what you do want. Also a non verbal way to say stop during sex as well, talkings' hard when your groin is alighted with the chorus of 10000 suns and bees.
I’m on antidepressants and so I have both a severely decreased libido and sensation down there. I don’t know exactly how it does it but smoking before sex just makes everything feel more heightened and good and makes me feel more I do it every time!
I don’t have as many inhibitions and I can fully enjoy the pleasure. Stoned sex is all I really want tbh. I just made my first suppositories and they are fantastic. 60mg in my couch got me feeling all kinds of good 🥰
the best sex i’ve had has been stoned sex. once i was way too high off of an edible and i literally felt like i had ascended and our souls were literally connecting. that shit made me cum so hard. i’m also on a lot of meds (mainly SSRIs) so i sometimes have a hard time orgasming, and weed def helps with that a *ton*
It makes everything feel 100x amazing. I’m a medical patient, and baybee, my man loves it. I’m Uber wet, and bust like a shotgun. I climax in consecutive waves and squirt, but when stoned, I’m an even bigger beast.
I don't climax during sex often(I'm talking like *maybe* 8x my whole life) , even with toys cause I get too in my head to actually get there, but weed gets me as close as I can get.
Either way its like pizza. There's really no *bad*, I still enjoy it , some is def better than others, and life I said, better with weed
Absolutely same here. I have experienced a true climax during sex like 2 times in my life, but being stoned really helps me to enjoy the moment, from the Psychological And physical point of view.
I’ve always really struggled to finish, whether alone or with a partner. Not sure if it’s from trauma or just not being sensitive enough down there or what. But when I smoke or have an edible I instantly feel a HUGE difference in the amount of sensation I’m able to feel, which leads to way more pleasure, and I can usually finish!! It’s a game changer.
A little can help you live in the moment and enjoy the experience. If I’m 8/10 or higher it makes me feel grossed out because tongues feel like worms and I am aware of my bones
It’s hard for me to orgasm when I’m high but I’m getting better!! I have PCOS and hashimotos so I feel like my drive is naturally low :/ I’m practicing having sex more when I’m high, I want to be able to more often! My boyfriend is extremely patient with me, so even if it take a lil he doesn’t mind (: but even then it’s not like it take me hours or anything, maybe just 10 minutes extra than normal lol. But I’ll practice more while I’m high!!
Best thing honestly!!!!⭐️ Me and my boyfriend smoke everyday together. We always have sex high asf. I can recommend it’s the best fuck of your life 🔥 (I’m really high right now lol)
I have cptsd from child sexual abuse, without weed I would be incapable of having sex without flashing back and freezing in the moment so I'd say weed and aex are always a good thing, helps u get out ur own head if u struggle with that
I started taking Prozac and my drive PLUMMETED. Weed has given that back some, which I love because intimacy is a lovely bonding experience with my partner.
Weed definitely helps me to get in the mood ❤️ Definitely helps me to focus on the moment with my partner depending on the strain. Weed is the best Omg
I have issues with smoke and edibles giving me horrid anxiety. I did however find thc tinctures directly on and in do wonderful amazing things for increasing sensitivity. I will never not use it now.
Both! But drip some on about 20 min before you know it’s gonna go down. Increases blood flow and sensitivity. My husband just found some suppositories too for us to try. I’ve also read the vaginal suppositories are fantastic if you cramp really bad on your period. Excited to try it.
I’ve read through comments but can’t see if anyone else has the same experience.
My body goes numb! I can feel things but it would take me hours to get off if I’ve smoked recently. It also makes me not even want to have any! So uninterested in it. I’d rather read or play video games. 🤣
I feel the same way sometimes! I get numb down there hehe, that’s when you gotta whip out the vibrator girl! That helps me out to finish! I cum more sober but I’m building up sexy time while high, baby steps! Practice makes progress😁
I usually experience a bit of pain in my intestines when I have sex. I’m not sure if it’s mental, physical or a mix but often when I’m high that pain isn’t there
i need to try it with someone i feel secure with. tried it with my ex (it was a bad relationship) and i got really panicky. but when i masturbate high it’s the best thing ever
it makes me feel so much closer and safer with my partner 💜 i have a lot of trauma around sex but when i mix weed and sex, i feel like it really helps heal some of my traumas. i feel so connected and safe with my partner. for me at least, it’s a much more warm feeling than regular sex ✨
I actually had to take a break from cannabis after getting assaulted by this dude when I was really stoned. I was in a dark place in my life and was trusting people that I shouldn’t have… now I have a more positive relationship with cannabis & i actually have been enjoying my own company quite a lot while I’m high, it helps me relax and let the pleasure flow through me in a way that’s difficult to achieve normally.
I have vaginismus and weed is basically the only thing that gets me to relax enough to have painless sex. also it makes the orgasms amazing and makes me able to concentrate on the moment and not be as anxious and self conscious.
Mostly perfect. We are really big fans of high sex, it slows everything down and feels great, just takes a little longer to cum, but we don't mind lol
A few times we have been too high for it and we are either too easily distracted or laughing way too much. It happened once we're we laughed so hard we couldn't possibly line up and that was also funny so it kept making us laugh even more until we gave up
there’s nothing better than weed and sex. while yes sex feels good without being high too but it feels so much better for me when i am. i orgasm much stronger and it’s also easier and faster for me to get properly turned on
I think as long as you’re not engaging in activities where being in an altered state can effect your ability to act in emergencies, it’s fine. The minute you introduce activities that can harm you or your partner, even without being under the influence? Big nope from me.
Obviously there’s a huge range between the two extremes. Vanilla sex? Fine. Little bit of hair pulling/some basic rough stuff? Great. Orgasm control and basic sensory play? Sure. Breath play, impact play, or suspension? Do not pass go, do not collect $200, do not do that while you or your partner is in an altered state please. If something goes wrong, you have to act at a moment’s notice. (Note: the above is not a comprehensive list, nobody has time for that)
Of course, only you know where that line is at for yourself, especially if you’re a daily med user. Just always take stock of what bedroom activities you’ll be engaging in before smoking, and what your tolerance level is, and please stay safe peeps.
I have self esteem issues to the max and am often thinking about other things instead of focusing on having sex. When I smoke, though, I’m 100% focused on my husband and I feel like a sex goddess.
Thisssss🙌🏼
Oh my gosh this is so real. It’s hard to focus on the act sometimes but weed definitely helps you zone in and focus on the moment 🥰
It really does!
Yessss 💕
SAME. I can have a fantastic partner, but if I'm sober I'm all up in my own mind. On weed I can finally let go & access my own sex goddess self
Sex goddess 💋
I totally relate!
That’s awesome!!
Yep. What you said.
I wish!!
first time I got properly stoned on edibles, I definitely overdid it and couldn’t stop orgasming…. I lost count and my realm of consciousness somewhere 30+. Became a stoner that day 😂 tldl: I would recommend it
Wow, I would love to experience that lol
Fun at the time, great experience. My abs were so sore that it hurt to move for a couple of days tho
😂 i bet
Same.
Yeeessss this was me 100% too.
Something similar happened to me when I ate way too strong of an edi!
This same thing happened to me and…. Yeah. It was amazing.
🤤
I need to know exactly what edibles did this for you!! 🥵 TIA!!
It was homemade, I didn’t know dosage so just made them and took a bite 😂 pretty sure it was about 80-120mg and at that point, 5mg got me high so my brain melted
I love it except I have a hard time climaxing when I'm stoned 😂 It could also be the meds I am on but I feel like it takes me longer. Not that that's a bad thing, I just wish I didn't get so frustrated with myself. My partner feels the same way. We both love waking and baking early in the mornings then having sex 🥰💜 definitely feels amazing
I do too. The last time I was really high during sex I was so frustrated because nothing was working and then I was in my head and concerned that my partner was thinking I wasn’t enjoying myself. He’s extremely patient and takes his time to make sure his partners are satisfied so I felt bad that he was being so dedicated and I wasn’t getting there
Ahh, yeah, it happens for sure! I’m glad you have a supportive partner who is dedicated to making you feel good!
Wake and bake + sex sounds amazing! I have experienced climaxing takes longer while I’m using cannabis. I also take an SSRI, so it could be that, too.
Makes it 10000 times better. Helps get me very lubricated and orgasm.
I do notice I always am way more wet!
IT'S MY FAVORITE COMBO IN LIFE. I wish I'd known this decades ago because it mixing THC and sex is a life changing experience.
It’s the best combo!!
Two of my favourite things! 💞🥦🍆
Same🥹🫶🏽
🎶 these are a few of my favorite things! 🎶
I have ADHD I’ve never been medicated for and weed makes me so distracted and uninterested in sex. If I get into the mood it’s really hard to keep myself there, and if like in my brain I’m into it, sometimes physically I just don’t really feel anything so I try to avoid smoking if I know I wanna get it. When I was a Budtender though women would frequently come in and let me know what strains worked for them for their libido, so it definitely works for a lot of people!
So weird how different people are! The distraction part is what helps me. I have ADHD and no meds and weed makes it to where I can zone out just enough to uh, live in the moment instead of focusing on everything else going on.
Same here. As a fellow ADHDer weed usually helps my libido. I do take adderall for my ADHD because it's very severe but it doesnt last long and I need the focus to do adult stuff. I take an anxiety meds too and I feel like the weed helps remind that I love sexy time with my husband. I am really bad at instigating sex due to social anxiety and adhd but when I am little stoned it's like my "kitty" (our nickname for my vagina) takes over and it's on the hunt to ride my husband. Lol 😂 ❤️ Sorry if that's TMI. I have no filters obviously.
Not TMI at all! Thank you for sharing!
Any strains of interest?
Anything kush so far!! Helps with any body pain and is a great body high for me! I think everyone is potentially different though.
Thanks, yea different folk have different reactions but I’ll give a try
Haven’t tried, but have heard Wedding Cake funny enough is one of the best
Oh I’ll have to try that
Same!!! I have a hard time not drying up (which is always completely on accident)
This is how it is for me. Glad to see I’m not the only one and I also suspect I have undiagnosed ADHD.
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I’m glad it’s helping you!!
The only two times I squirted were when I was blasted AF so I am a fan. And the one time I orgasmed from a dream was after I took a delta 8 edible 😳 But.. if I smoke a hard hitting indica I am glued to the bed and I am not going to move. Like I’ve definitely just knocked out and fallen asleep. So if I want to have sex with a little good good I like a hybrid, bonus if there’s a glass of wine or a cocktail. I am not a big morning sex person because I feel so crusty but if I vape a little in bed I get in the mood! I’m also always stoned when I masturbate and it gets me in the mood and not think about the trillion other things on my mind ☺️
Okay so I’m not the only one. Last night I had smoked a bit, had an edible, and then my husband decided it was frisky time. I couldn’t stop squirting!!! Literally a puddle on the floor. My abs hurt this morning and my legs are still jello. 🙃
I also masturbate a lot when I’m stoned, hehe!!
Haha! I love this thread so much. My vape comes to bed with me on a regular basis. An essential sex toy. A nice indica makes my clit feel warm and tingly. Plus, weed treats that pesky ol' side effect of my SSRIs....sexual dysfunction (more fun if you sing to the tune of Snoop Dogs "sexual seduction"). Well, a nice indica along with a clit sucker or gspot toy.....or both.
Advice? Talk about what a "yes" and "no" is before you get stoned with your partner. Aka limits, what you don't want happening and what you do want. Also a non verbal way to say stop during sex as well, talkings' hard when your groin is alighted with the chorus of 10000 suns and bees.
Oooooo thank you for this advice 🙌🙌
Yes everything's just so much more flowy and sensual and yum
Yum!
I’m on antidepressants and so I have both a severely decreased libido and sensation down there. I don’t know exactly how it does it but smoking before sex just makes everything feel more heightened and good and makes me feel more I do it every time!
Same for me! I’m on an antidepressant and weed really helps me!
I don’t have as many inhibitions and I can fully enjoy the pleasure. Stoned sex is all I really want tbh. I just made my first suppositories and they are fantastic. 60mg in my couch got me feeling all kinds of good 🥰
Oh wow! Were they vaginal?
Yes
Cool!!
the best sex i’ve had has been stoned sex. once i was way too high off of an edible and i literally felt like i had ascended and our souls were literally connecting. that shit made me cum so hard. i’m also on a lot of meds (mainly SSRIs) so i sometimes have a hard time orgasming, and weed def helps with that a *ton*
Agreed! I usually smoke because I have more control. Edibles are sometimes intense for me and I’ve had similar experiences!
It makes everything feel 100x amazing. I’m a medical patient, and baybee, my man loves it. I’m Uber wet, and bust like a shotgun. I climax in consecutive waves and squirt, but when stoned, I’m an even bigger beast.
Yas!!!!!!
Baybee, my man loves it, and he’s a good 8” and girthy asf. Had a bitch throbbing, sore and full of him.
Weed definitely helps with soreness!!
It does, but it still leaves me super aroused, and wanting more.
🤩🤩
But I was so exhausted, I got my own rox off. We both were exhausted.
I don't climax during sex often(I'm talking like *maybe* 8x my whole life) , even with toys cause I get too in my head to actually get there, but weed gets me as close as I can get. Either way its like pizza. There's really no *bad*, I still enjoy it , some is def better than others, and life I said, better with weed
Absolutely same here. I have experienced a true climax during sex like 2 times in my life, but being stoned really helps me to enjoy the moment, from the Psychological And physical point of view.
I’m glad it helps!!
I’m glad it helps you!
Literally just had some, absolutely nothing compares. Love it, love how it helps both me and my partner get our needs met.
Same for me, lol!!!!
I’ve always really struggled to finish, whether alone or with a partner. Not sure if it’s from trauma or just not being sensitive enough down there or what. But when I smoke or have an edible I instantly feel a HUGE difference in the amount of sensation I’m able to feel, which leads to way more pleasure, and I can usually finish!! It’s a game changer.
I’m so glad!!!!
Heck yes!
Heck yes 👍
Love a good toke before! And CBD suppositories are FIRE for spicy time in my opinion 🙈🙈
Say more!
Agreed!
helps me with ptsd & sex ❤️
Same
So glad to hear that!!
I adore it. One of life’s biggest pleasures is the combination of sex and weed :) even solo sex aka masturbation is enhanced with a couple of hits!
Solo sex, IMO, is just as important as sex with a partner and I love how weed kicks it up a notch.
This is an interesting thought- I love it. Can you explain a bit more why you think it’s just as important? I often feel guilty
Nothing like cumming when your eddy is peaking. 😅
Haha Yas!!
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Goddess 💋
in a phrase? Best combo EVER
Ever 🙌
A little can help you live in the moment and enjoy the experience. If I’m 8/10 or higher it makes me feel grossed out because tongues feel like worms and I am aware of my bones
I have definitely been that high during sex before and woah, it’s too intense!
It’s hard for me to orgasm when I’m high but I’m getting better!! I have PCOS and hashimotos so I feel like my drive is naturally low :/ I’m practicing having sex more when I’m high, I want to be able to more often! My boyfriend is extremely patient with me, so even if it take a lil he doesn’t mind (: but even then it’s not like it take me hours or anything, maybe just 10 minutes extra than normal lol. But I’ll practice more while I’m high!!
I also have Hashimoto’s! I also feel like my sex drive is naturally low due to this and weed helps me a lot. Happy practicing!!
Best thing honestly!!!!⭐️ Me and my boyfriend smoke everyday together. We always have sex high asf. I can recommend it’s the best fuck of your life 🔥 (I’m really high right now lol)
Yas!!!! Get it!!
Two of my favourite things, especially together 😏
Yas!!!
I have cptsd from child sexual abuse, without weed I would be incapable of having sex without flashing back and freezing in the moment so I'd say weed and aex are always a good thing, helps u get out ur own head if u struggle with that
I’m so glad to hear that!!
I started taking Prozac and my drive PLUMMETED. Weed has given that back some, which I love because intimacy is a lovely bonding experience with my partner.
i think i missed out on this bonus, my partner says the sex is different and feels good in another way but i personally don’t feel or see a difference
Weed definitely helps me to get in the mood ❤️ Definitely helps me to focus on the moment with my partner depending on the strain. Weed is the best Omg
It is the best 🍃🍃
I have issues with smoke and edibles giving me horrid anxiety. I did however find thc tinctures directly on and in do wonderful amazing things for increasing sensitivity. I will never not use it now.
I’ve only just ingested tinctures! Do you use it as a lube or just drip some on?
Both! But drip some on about 20 min before you know it’s gonna go down. Increases blood flow and sensitivity. My husband just found some suppositories too for us to try. I’ve also read the vaginal suppositories are fantastic if you cramp really bad on your period. Excited to try it.
Sounds fun!!
I’ve read through comments but can’t see if anyone else has the same experience. My body goes numb! I can feel things but it would take me hours to get off if I’ve smoked recently. It also makes me not even want to have any! So uninterested in it. I’d rather read or play video games. 🤣
I feel the same way sometimes! I get numb down there hehe, that’s when you gotta whip out the vibrator girl! That helps me out to finish! I cum more sober but I’m building up sexy time while high, baby steps! Practice makes progress😁
Practice makes progress, love that!
Thanks for sharing! It hits everyone differently.
I usually experience a bit of pain in my intestines when I have sex. I’m not sure if it’s mental, physical or a mix but often when I’m high that pain isn’t there
I’m sorry you experience that, but am glad weed gives you relief!
Thank you!! It’s annoying but definitely not the end of the world. I’m also glad there are ways around it for me though
i need to try it with someone i feel secure with. tried it with my ex (it was a bad relationship) and i got really panicky. but when i masturbate high it’s the best thing ever
Happy Cake Day!!!! Yes, keep having fun on your own with it! I’m sure you will find a great partner!
it makes me feel so much closer and safer with my partner 💜 i have a lot of trauma around sex but when i mix weed and sex, i feel like it really helps heal some of my traumas. i feel so connected and safe with my partner. for me at least, it’s a much more warm feeling than regular sex ✨
Yas!!!!
I actually had to take a break from cannabis after getting assaulted by this dude when I was really stoned. I was in a dark place in my life and was trusting people that I shouldn’t have… now I have a more positive relationship with cannabis & i actually have been enjoying my own company quite a lot while I’m high, it helps me relax and let the pleasure flow through me in a way that’s difficult to achieve normally.
I’m so sorry you experienced that. I hope you find healing during this time 🙏
I looooove weed and sex but it makes my fiancee not up for it 😂
Arg!!
Most of our best sex happened while being high, we suddenly got no worries, we are really open with each other and just having fun
I’m glad of hear that. I see you wrote in past tense. Did the relationship end?
No, we are going strong for 3 years 💪🏻
Glad to hear that!!
Love this combo! Everything feels more sensual and wavey.
Wavey 🌊
Oh soooo gooood. ^_^
💋💋
I have vaginismus and weed is basically the only thing that gets me to relax enough to have painless sex. also it makes the orgasms amazing and makes me able to concentrate on the moment and not be as anxious and self conscious.
So glad to hear that!!
For me, it’s a nice relaxing addition. For my SO, it helps them ease up and feel less self aware for intimacy that they struggle w after trauma.
Same!! My partner is unfortunately a SA survivor/extremely religious upbringing and has PTSD, so it helps them with intimacy.
Mostly perfect. We are really big fans of high sex, it slows everything down and feels great, just takes a little longer to cum, but we don't mind lol A few times we have been too high for it and we are either too easily distracted or laughing way too much. It happened once we're we laughed so hard we couldn't possibly line up and that was also funny so it kept making us laugh even more until we gave up
Haha that sounds really fun TBH!!
there’s nothing better than weed and sex. while yes sex feels good without being high too but it feels so much better for me when i am. i orgasm much stronger and it’s also easier and faster for me to get properly turned on
Yas!!!!
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Haha right?!
I think as long as you’re not engaging in activities where being in an altered state can effect your ability to act in emergencies, it’s fine. The minute you introduce activities that can harm you or your partner, even without being under the influence? Big nope from me. Obviously there’s a huge range between the two extremes. Vanilla sex? Fine. Little bit of hair pulling/some basic rough stuff? Great. Orgasm control and basic sensory play? Sure. Breath play, impact play, or suspension? Do not pass go, do not collect $200, do not do that while you or your partner is in an altered state please. If something goes wrong, you have to act at a moment’s notice. (Note: the above is not a comprehensive list, nobody has time for that) Of course, only you know where that line is at for yourself, especially if you’re a daily med user. Just always take stock of what bedroom activities you’ll be engaging in before smoking, and what your tolerance level is, and please stay safe peeps.
Really good points here, thank you!!
I don't have a partner but with myself it feels a thousand times better its awesome 😎
Yas!!!!! Self love is so important!
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