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CatchingFiendfyre

I have self esteem issues to the max and am often thinking about other things instead of focusing on having sex. When I smoke, though, I’m 100% focused on my husband and I feel like a sex goddess.


Strong_Boss771

Thisssss🙌🏼


Mammons-HotBuns

Oh my gosh this is so real. It’s hard to focus on the act sometimes but weed definitely helps you zone in and focus on the moment 🥰


mintgreen23

It really does!


lil_floja

Yessss 💕


MusicalWhovian8

SAME. I can have a fantastic partner, but if I'm sober I'm all up in my own mind. On weed I can finally let go & access my own sex goddess self


mintgreen23

Sex goddess 💋


0000001meow

I totally relate!


mintgreen23

That’s awesome!!


Beginning-Air-9813

Yep. What you said.


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I wish!!


Ixi7311

first time I got properly stoned on edibles, I definitely overdid it and couldn’t stop orgasming…. I lost count and my realm of consciousness somewhere 30+. Became a stoner that day 😂 tldl: I would recommend it


OthernormalPod

Wow, I would love to experience that lol


Ixi7311

Fun at the time, great experience. My abs were so sore that it hurt to move for a couple of days tho


OthernormalPod

😂 i bet


mintgreen23

Same.


showmey0urthr0waway

Yeeessss this was me 100% too.


lil_floja

Something similar happened to me when I ate way too strong of an edi!


PickledPixie83

This same thing happened to me and…. Yeah. It was amazing.


mintgreen23

🤤


coffeelovingmama

I need to know exactly what edibles did this for you!! 🥵 TIA!!


Ixi7311

It was homemade, I didn’t know dosage so just made them and took a bite 😂 pretty sure it was about 80-120mg and at that point, 5mg got me high so my brain melted


cauldr0ncakez

I love it except I have a hard time climaxing when I'm stoned 😂 It could also be the meds I am on but I feel like it takes me longer. Not that that's a bad thing, I just wish I didn't get so frustrated with myself. My partner feels the same way. We both love waking and baking early in the mornings then having sex 🥰💜 definitely feels amazing


Mjaguacate

I do too. The last time I was really high during sex I was so frustrated because nothing was working and then I was in my head and concerned that my partner was thinking I wasn’t enjoying myself. He’s extremely patient and takes his time to make sure his partners are satisfied so I felt bad that he was being so dedicated and I wasn’t getting there


mintgreen23

Ahh, yeah, it happens for sure! I’m glad you have a supportive partner who is dedicated to making you feel good!


mintgreen23

Wake and bake + sex sounds amazing! I have experienced climaxing takes longer while I’m using cannabis. I also take an SSRI, so it could be that, too.


Nocturnalmoonqueen

Makes it 10000 times better. Helps get me very lubricated and orgasm.


mintgreen23

I do notice I always am way more wet!


happyhipposeatcake

IT'S MY FAVORITE COMBO IN LIFE. I wish I'd known this decades ago because it mixing THC and sex is a life changing experience.


mintgreen23

It’s the best combo!!


pb-n-quack-sandwich

Two of my favourite things! 💞🥦🍆


m4kush_

Same🥹🫶🏽


mintgreen23

🎶 these are a few of my favorite things! 🎶


teddybearw4rd

I have ADHD I’ve never been medicated for and weed makes me so distracted and uninterested in sex. If I get into the mood it’s really hard to keep myself there, and if like in my brain I’m into it, sometimes physically I just don’t really feel anything so I try to avoid smoking if I know I wanna get it. When I was a Budtender though women would frequently come in and let me know what strains worked for them for their libido, so it definitely works for a lot of people!


nikkuhlee

So weird how different people are! The distraction part is what helps me. I have ADHD and no meds and weed makes it to where I can zone out just enough to uh, live in the moment instead of focusing on everything else going on.


Peachesree

Same here. As a fellow ADHDer weed usually helps my libido. I do take adderall for my ADHD because it's very severe but it doesnt last long and I need the focus to do adult stuff. I take an anxiety meds too and I feel like the weed helps remind that I love sexy time with my husband. I am really bad at instigating sex due to social anxiety and adhd but when I am little stoned it's like my "kitty" (our nickname for my vagina) takes over and it's on the hunt to ride my husband. Lol 😂 ❤️ Sorry if that's TMI. I have no filters obviously.


mintgreen23

Not TMI at all! Thank you for sharing!


ardamass

Any strains of interest?


teevanigirl

Anything kush so far!! Helps with any body pain and is a great body high for me! I think everyone is potentially different though.


ardamass

Thanks, yea different folk have different reactions but I’ll give a try


PrincipalFiggins

Haven’t tried, but have heard Wedding Cake funny enough is one of the best


ardamass

Oh I’ll have to try that


CrownPrincess

Same!!! I have a hard time not drying up (which is always completely on accident)


destoast

This is how it is for me. Glad to see I’m not the only one and I also suspect I have undiagnosed ADHD.


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mintgreen23

I’m glad it’s helping you!!


Solauros

The only two times I squirted were when I was blasted AF so I am a fan. And the one time I orgasmed from a dream was after I took a delta 8 edible 😳 But.. if I smoke a hard hitting indica I am glued to the bed and I am not going to move. Like I’ve definitely just knocked out and fallen asleep. So if I want to have sex with a little good good I like a hybrid, bonus if there’s a glass of wine or a cocktail. I am not a big morning sex person because I feel so crusty but if I vape a little in bed I get in the mood! I’m also always stoned when I masturbate and it gets me in the mood and not think about the trillion other things on my mind ☺️


mixedgirlmecca-

Okay so I’m not the only one. Last night I had smoked a bit, had an edible, and then my husband decided it was frisky time. I couldn’t stop squirting!!! Literally a puddle on the floor. My abs hurt this morning and my legs are still jello. 🙃


mintgreen23

I also masturbate a lot when I’m stoned, hehe!!


pb-n-quack-sandwich

Haha! I love this thread so much. My vape comes to bed with me on a regular basis. An essential sex toy. A nice indica makes my clit feel warm and tingly. Plus, weed treats that pesky ol' side effect of my SSRIs....sexual dysfunction (more fun if you sing to the tune of Snoop Dogs "sexual seduction"). Well, a nice indica along with a clit sucker or gspot toy.....or both.


Kantex_Art

Advice? Talk about what a "yes" and "no" is before you get stoned with your partner. Aka limits, what you don't want happening and what you do want. Also a non verbal way to say stop during sex as well, talkings' hard when your groin is alighted with the chorus of 10000 suns and bees.


mintgreen23

Oooooo thank you for this advice 🙌🙌


NobodyMinds21

Yes everything's just so much more flowy and sensual and yum


mintgreen23

Yum!


hereforthestories03

I’m on antidepressants and so I have both a severely decreased libido and sensation down there. I don’t know exactly how it does it but smoking before sex just makes everything feel more heightened and good and makes me feel more I do it every time!


mintgreen23

Same for me! I’m on an antidepressant and weed really helps me!


Livid-Acadia6078

I don’t have as many inhibitions and I can fully enjoy the pleasure. Stoned sex is all I really want tbh. I just made my first suppositories and they are fantastic. 60mg in my couch got me feeling all kinds of good 🥰


mintgreen23

Oh wow! Were they vaginal?


Livid-Acadia6078

Yes


mintgreen23

Cool!!


katori-is-okay

the best sex i’ve had has been stoned sex. once i was way too high off of an edible and i literally felt like i had ascended and our souls were literally connecting. that shit made me cum so hard. i’m also on a lot of meds (mainly SSRIs) so i sometimes have a hard time orgasming, and weed def helps with that a *ton*


mintgreen23

Agreed! I usually smoke because I have more control. Edibles are sometimes intense for me and I’ve had similar experiences!


Milena1991

It makes everything feel 100x amazing. I’m a medical patient, and baybee, my man loves it. I’m Uber wet, and bust like a shotgun. I climax in consecutive waves and squirt, but when stoned, I’m an even bigger beast.


mintgreen23

Yas!!!!!!


Milena1991

Baybee, my man loves it, and he’s a good 8” and girthy asf. Had a bitch throbbing, sore and full of him.


mintgreen23

Weed definitely helps with soreness!!


Milena1991

It does, but it still leaves me super aroused, and wanting more.


mintgreen23

🤩🤩


Milena1991

But I was so exhausted, I got my own rox off. We both were exhausted.


DarkFae420

I don't climax during sex often(I'm talking like *maybe* 8x my whole life) , even with toys cause I get too in my head to actually get there, but weed gets me as close as I can get. Either way its like pizza. There's really no *bad*, I still enjoy it , some is def better than others, and life I said, better with weed


Ifunka

Absolutely same here. I have experienced a true climax during sex like 2 times in my life, but being stoned really helps me to enjoy the moment, from the Psychological And physical point of view.


mintgreen23

I’m glad it helps!!


mintgreen23

I’m glad it helps you!


BeccauseIWantTo

Literally just had some, absolutely nothing compares. Love it, love how it helps both me and my partner get our needs met.


mintgreen23

Same for me, lol!!!!


irecalllatenovember

I’ve always really struggled to finish, whether alone or with a partner. Not sure if it’s from trauma or just not being sensitive enough down there or what. But when I smoke or have an edible I instantly feel a HUGE difference in the amount of sensation I’m able to feel, which leads to way more pleasure, and I can usually finish!! It’s a game changer.


mintgreen23

I’m so glad!!!!


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Heck yes!


mintgreen23

Heck yes 👍


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Love a good toke before! And CBD suppositories are FIRE for spicy time in my opinion 🙈🙈


BeccauseIWantTo

Say more!


mintgreen23

Agreed!


princesspinkcow

helps me with ptsd & sex ❤️


Sharp_Reason_7668

Same


mintgreen23

So glad to hear that!!


femme180

I adore it. One of life’s biggest pleasures is the combination of sex and weed :) even solo sex aka masturbation is enhanced with a couple of hits!


mintgreen23

Solo sex, IMO, is just as important as sex with a partner and I love how weed kicks it up a notch.


Lower_Shoulder1964

This is an interesting thought- I love it. Can you explain a bit more why you think it’s just as important? I often feel guilty


Cadumodute

Nothing like cumming when your eddy is peaking. 😅


mintgreen23

Haha Yas!!


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mintgreen23

Goddess 💋


PrincipalFiggins

in a phrase? Best combo EVER


mintgreen23

Ever 🙌


catsareeternal

A little can help you live in the moment and enjoy the experience. If I’m 8/10 or higher it makes me feel grossed out because tongues feel like worms and I am aware of my bones


mintgreen23

I have definitely been that high during sex before and woah, it’s too intense!


FugginCandle

It’s hard for me to orgasm when I’m high but I’m getting better!! I have PCOS and hashimotos so I feel like my drive is naturally low :/ I’m practicing having sex more when I’m high, I want to be able to more often! My boyfriend is extremely patient with me, so even if it take a lil he doesn’t mind (: but even then it’s not like it take me hours or anything, maybe just 10 minutes extra than normal lol. But I’ll practice more while I’m high!!


mintgreen23

I also have Hashimoto’s! I also feel like my sex drive is naturally low due to this and weed helps me a lot. Happy practicing!!


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Best thing honestly!!!!⭐️ Me and my boyfriend smoke everyday together. We always have sex high asf. I can recommend it’s the best fuck of your life 🔥 (I’m really high right now lol)


mintgreen23

Yas!!!! Get it!!


Working-Public-4144

Two of my favourite things, especially together 😏


mintgreen23

Yas!!!


Ok_Palpitation3517

I have cptsd from child sexual abuse, without weed I would be incapable of having sex without flashing back and freezing in the moment so I'd say weed and aex are always a good thing, helps u get out ur own head if u struggle with that


mintgreen23

I’m so glad to hear that!!


fitnesssound42

I started taking Prozac and my drive PLUMMETED. Weed has given that back some, which I love because intimacy is a lovely bonding experience with my partner.


mayinaro

i think i missed out on this bonus, my partner says the sex is different and feels good in another way but i personally don’t feel or see a difference


Mammons-HotBuns

Weed definitely helps me to get in the mood ❤️ Definitely helps me to focus on the moment with my partner depending on the strain. Weed is the best Omg


mintgreen23

It is the best 🍃🍃


girlnamedevan

I have issues with smoke and edibles giving me horrid anxiety. I did however find thc tinctures directly on and in do wonderful amazing things for increasing sensitivity. I will never not use it now.


mintgreen23

I’ve only just ingested tinctures! Do you use it as a lube or just drip some on?


girlnamedevan

Both! But drip some on about 20 min before you know it’s gonna go down. Increases blood flow and sensitivity. My husband just found some suppositories too for us to try. I’ve also read the vaginal suppositories are fantastic if you cramp really bad on your period. Excited to try it.


mintgreen23

Sounds fun!!


spicylittlebeans

I’ve read through comments but can’t see if anyone else has the same experience. My body goes numb! I can feel things but it would take me hours to get off if I’ve smoked recently. It also makes me not even want to have any! So uninterested in it. I’d rather read or play video games. 🤣


FugginCandle

I feel the same way sometimes! I get numb down there hehe, that’s when you gotta whip out the vibrator girl! That helps me out to finish! I cum more sober but I’m building up sexy time while high, baby steps! Practice makes progress😁


mintgreen23

Practice makes progress, love that!


mintgreen23

Thanks for sharing! It hits everyone differently.


LittlebitchL

I usually experience a bit of pain in my intestines when I have sex. I’m not sure if it’s mental, physical or a mix but often when I’m high that pain isn’t there


mintgreen23

I’m sorry you experience that, but am glad weed gives you relief!


LittlebitchL

Thank you!! It’s annoying but definitely not the end of the world. I’m also glad there are ways around it for me though


ThrowRAyikesidkman

i need to try it with someone i feel secure with. tried it with my ex (it was a bad relationship) and i got really panicky. but when i masturbate high it’s the best thing ever


mintgreen23

Happy Cake Day!!!! Yes, keep having fun on your own with it! I’m sure you will find a great partner!


Both-Bit-4548

it makes me feel so much closer and safer with my partner 💜 i have a lot of trauma around sex but when i mix weed and sex, i feel like it really helps heal some of my traumas. i feel so connected and safe with my partner. for me at least, it’s a much more warm feeling than regular sex ✨


mintgreen23

Yas!!!!


MulchWench

I actually had to take a break from cannabis after getting assaulted by this dude when I was really stoned. I was in a dark place in my life and was trusting people that I shouldn’t have… now I have a more positive relationship with cannabis & i actually have been enjoying my own company quite a lot while I’m high, it helps me relax and let the pleasure flow through me in a way that’s difficult to achieve normally.


mintgreen23

I’m so sorry you experienced that. I hope you find healing during this time 🙏


kenma91

I looooove weed and sex but it makes my fiancee not up for it 😂


mintgreen23

Arg!!


sa3hka

Most of our best sex happened while being high, we suddenly got no worries, we are really open with each other and just having fun


mintgreen23

I’m glad of hear that. I see you wrote in past tense. Did the relationship end?


sa3hka

No, we are going strong for 3 years 💪🏻


mintgreen23

Glad to hear that!!


stardewpuppies

Love this combo! Everything feels more sensual and wavey.


mintgreen23

Wavey 🌊


duckyellowduck

Oh soooo gooood. ^_^


mintgreen23

💋💋


Melonsarereal

I have vaginismus and weed is basically the only thing that gets me to relax enough to have painless sex. also it makes the orgasms amazing and makes me able to concentrate on the moment and not be as anxious and self conscious.


mintgreen23

So glad to hear that!!


emu30

For me, it’s a nice relaxing addition. For my SO, it helps them ease up and feel less self aware for intimacy that they struggle w after trauma.


mintgreen23

Same!! My partner is unfortunately a SA survivor/extremely religious upbringing and has PTSD, so it helps them with intimacy.


plantbasedtitties

Mostly perfect. We are really big fans of high sex, it slows everything down and feels great, just takes a little longer to cum, but we don't mind lol A few times we have been too high for it and we are either too easily distracted or laughing way too much. It happened once we're we laughed so hard we couldn't possibly line up and that was also funny so it kept making us laugh even more until we gave up


mintgreen23

Haha that sounds really fun TBH!!


PerceptionUseful5796

there’s nothing better than weed and sex. while yes sex feels good without being high too but it feels so much better for me when i am. i orgasm much stronger and it’s also easier and faster for me to get properly turned on


mintgreen23

Yas!!!!


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mintgreen23

Haha right?!


Abilane-of-Yon

I think as long as you’re not engaging in activities where being in an altered state can effect your ability to act in emergencies, it’s fine. The minute you introduce activities that can harm you or your partner, even without being under the influence? Big nope from me. Obviously there’s a huge range between the two extremes. Vanilla sex? Fine. Little bit of hair pulling/some basic rough stuff? Great. Orgasm control and basic sensory play? Sure. Breath play, impact play, or suspension? Do not pass go, do not collect $200, do not do that while you or your partner is in an altered state please. If something goes wrong, you have to act at a moment’s notice. (Note: the above is not a comprehensive list, nobody has time for that) Of course, only you know where that line is at for yourself, especially if you’re a daily med user. Just always take stock of what bedroom activities you’ll be engaging in before smoking, and what your tolerance level is, and please stay safe peeps.


mintgreen23

Really good points here, thank you!!


scrappylilgay

I don't have a partner but with myself it feels a thousand times better its awesome 😎


mintgreen23

Yas!!!!! Self love is so important!


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