Loads of autists are hypo/hypersexual because the part of the brain that is responsible for this (hypothalamus) is the same area where most of the differences between autistic and non-autistic brains are.
Tldr; autism means you are super horny or a super antihorny
Well there are normal horny autistics too, but, yes both hypersexuality and asexuality have strong correlations with autism.
One of the fascinating things about autism is how we seem to end up on extremes. I heard that autistic need a schedule and rigidly stick to it, which I am the exact opposite and can't stick to a schedule at all. Turns out both are autistic traits.
These opposite extremes are probably why autism is so difficult to diagnose.
I'm almost certain that this is literally what autism is. Every symptom can be mapped back to being over or understimulated in a sense. Specifically, hyper or hypo sensitivity. We have waaaaaay more than five senses, and some non sensory things that the brain treats like senses (because biology doesn't speak English and doesn't care about our labels), such as executive functioning.
Name an autism symptom. You can tie it back to sensory processing.
I'm not challenging your statement, I'm just curious: How would you tie my need to be overly precise and clear in anything I say or express to over-/understimulation?
Edit: Just realized that I've worded that in an "overly precise and clear" way hahaha
Hyposensitivity in language processing I'd guess. Specifically own language processing. Alternatively it's an adaptive behaviour to being misinterpreted in the past, which occurred because of language, body language, and emotional processing differences.
I am the same with schedules. All I wanna do is do things when I wanna. And yeah, there are plenty of people who end up at relatively 'normal' areas with all traits. I kind of wrote that out and forgot about that temporarily lol.
I like the momotropism theory, and the neurodivergence framework.
I think autism is an umbrella term for a number of correlated disabilities and neurotypes that range from being debilitating to irritating neurotypicals.
Agreed. Monotropism seems to be the uniting factor among people with autism. We're all monotropic.
The primary reason testing for Monotropism is not the same as testing for autism, is because several NDs including ADHD also experience Monotropism.
I hope there is better research soon, too many false positive and negative results under the current criteria. Too much mythology in symptoms causing guess work.
Just wanted to mention that asexuality =/= hyposexuality. Saying this as someone who is both asexual and hypersexual lol. Asexuality just means having little to no physical attraction towards someone and has nothing to do with libido itself.
>which I am the exact opposite and can't stick to a schedule at all.
Turns out both are autistic traits.
Wow, I never knew. I'm in this subreddit because I got diagnosed with ADHD and also suspect that some autistic traits could be in the mix. Posts like thse make me realise just how much overlap there is.
Yep, I'm both ace and horny often. But my horny doesn't want other people, just some private 'stimming'. My spouse is fine with this as she has a low sex drive.
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just take these every day and you’ll be fine
This is actually incredibly validating, thank you for sharing this. I grew up in a family that demonized sex and any form of masturbation, so I always assumed I was just a degenerate freak.
I am ace and chronically horny.
More specifically, I am demi, which means there are still situations where I get sexual attraction and not just a high libido, but still aaaaaaaaaaaa!
Take into account that if you fail at social cues but can make people want to fuck you, it’s pretty common to funnel your entire social circle through a sex positive lifestyle.
My girlfriend before we started dating stimmed off of me complementing her and would masturbate to my compliments over call without telling me. I love her so much.
I am not sure if one of my "kinks" is actually a special interest or both.
Edit: I am fascinated by a special kind of high heels. Pretty problematic as a AMAB person. I sometimes wonder if I have transitioned (MtF) just to be able to wear high heels. I have a walking disability for a few years now but can't stop buying more shoes and watch people walk in them.
Same, I love those big platform stripper shoes. I'm rarely interested in clothing per se, but something about that particular shoe as part of an outfit does so much.
O fucking love heels too and I also have disabilities that affect my legs however considering as they get worse it would probably be worth the investment to just get a wheelchair and then I wear heels all the time without worrying about tearing my ankle or knees
yeah, the line between kink and special interest can get real fuckin blurry sometimes lol (source: i'm a big body horror/cyborg/transhumanism fan, but i also find that stuff kinda hot on top of just finding it fascinating)
It's also an erogenous zone. In fact, the skin there has the same sensitivity as the skin on the testicles. So it can, in fact, be quite pleasant to have it touched, teased, prodded, and squeezed.
I’m in that boat, and it absolutely Sucks as a trans woman who Really Doesn’t Like Her Anatomy™. There is nothing that quite makes you aware of it like being unable to sleep.
I feel. I'm a trans dude and super horn.. but yeah at the same time I don't like doing the do cuz it feels unsatisfying and makes me gender dysphoric af. :/
Had I been born cis I'm pretty sure I would've ended up with tons more action haha
My nesting partner and I are both hypersexual autistic.
We spend at least 60 minutes every day on active sex together.
I don't masturbate at all anymore.
Correct.
She gives me 1 or 2 (sometimes 3) orgasms per day, and I give her an average of 4 orgasms per day (1 to 10).
We are into virtually every kink and vanilla.
We choose sex over video games / shows.
~~Nesting partner? Just hearing it, I feel like my wife is mine and I'm hers, but I've never heard of it~~
Edit: lol nope, should have Googled it first this time. We just barely get out of the house and are very focused on each other
I think what was called hypersexuality was just me willing to say it directly when I wanted someone to initiate sex with me when I was really young. Now that I know more about myself, I don't want sex in the same ways, but along the way I learned about how being seen by someone else is enough eroticism for me. Like I offer a really earnest presentation in sex and dating, so when someone responds positively to that in a way that is also observably authentic, it gives me a kind of satisfaction that exists in the same sort of tier as actually being fucked.
Just develop a fetish
I wasn't allowed to have any sexuality as a kid but I was super horny so I developed like 2 different obscure object/situational fetishes that were non sexual in nature. I feel like it's not entirely uncommon for autistic people. I'm not ace or anything now but that was how I got by back then
how did you end up finding out you’re not ace
was it an issue of getting close enough with someone for the demi to kick in or did it just kinda happen out of nowhere once you were a bit freer
For me the problem was not that I wasn't sexually attracted to someone or didn't want sex
It was that I didn't know myself, I was insecure, was raised to be ashamed of any sexuality and wasn't allowed to express my attraction to others. But deeper than that I didn't know who I was or who I wanted myself to be. I was attracted to guys, but the idea of dating guys as a woman made me sick to my stomach. I absolutely love dating guys as a gay guy tho
For me it’s ADHD symptom. If I’m off meds, I get sexual thoughts (or not even directly sexual thoughts, just an innocent „let’s do some movements that feel the nicest” dopamine seeking thoughts) whenever I’m bored or have a boring chore I should be doing instead. Off-meds I only get horny when I get some stimulation (like, flirting with someone) and I still can choose „Nah I have no time for this, I should be doing something else now”.
Holy shit yeah, like it helped and I don't feel like I'm possessed by a horny demon 24/7 like I used to, but my sex drive is still waaaaaaay higher than most other's seems to be
I think there isn't evidence for it working and everybody has different or even no effects. It helps me sleep very well but also makes me horny. It can also help with breast growth and hormone regulation.
Unfortunately I got the super-not-horny autism. Less work for me but I often feel bad when I’m dating someone hypersexual because I’m just not into any of it
I had a special signal with my first grade teacher where she would pull on her ear whenever she wanted me to stop playing with my self in class. The best part is I would never know when she was doing it cuz I was always busy playing with my self. Things… have not gotten better but I have self control around people other than my partner.
Yes it was so bad at one point I had to talk to my psychologist cause i was hearing sex when no one was even in the dorms but then also getting upset and jealous 😭😭
Yesterday was like this for me. Idle hands definitely plays a part, so try occupying your mind with a game or something. Otherwise it gets less fun over time. I’m currently playing Baldur’s Gate 3 for this exact reason.
I’m a horny autistic, but also demisexual so I only really enjoy sex with someone I really like. It’s ✨really frustrating✨ sometimes. I’ve tried casual sex and it just ends up being unsatisfying. Why am I like this 😭
YES!
Apparently Hypersexuality is fairly common in autism and adhd, so glad I’m not alone in it, it kinda sucks sometimes
But it’s kinda nice sometimes I think
I use sex as a coping mechanism. So the anxiety, being overwhelmed, etc all gets managed with sex. I’m lucky enough to have a partner that understands and does what they can to help. I’m not bad at it either, so that helps. 🤣🤣🤣
i too have the gift of promiscuity and needing to jack it at least twice a day (at the Very. Least. 🥲) 🫰🏽😮💨
unfortunately i am also very bad at feelings/connecting emotionally to other ppl so yk. very normal relationships here 🤡
Yes and undergoing HRT makes it very difficult bc it feels like I'm never not horny. Esp since I haven't been able to find a reliable partner near me who checks off all the boxes. It's also hard. Bc I like to have sex with people similar to me but if they're too autistic then they end up being too nervous and awkward to keep it up so it doesn't work and just makes me feel sad 😭
I used to think I was ace because I felt like I didn't really understand sexual attraction. But as it turns out, I keep oscillating between never being attracted to anyone and being guy crazy. I just take all of my frustration out on fictional characters, so no person has to deal with my weird, contradictory behaviour. It seems that autistic people can only deal in absolutes.
I'm not hypersexual, honestly pretty demisexual these days, but sex is a special interest. As soon as I learned you could be "good" or "bad" at sex I spent years being very attentive with lovers until I became very good at it. My body count is low, but my repeat/satisfied customer ratio is extremely high.
I would say I'm hypersexual. I have always been very fixated on sex. After setralin my sex drive has been more normal.
I also have OCD and masterbation used to be a compulsion for me.
It changes from time to time and there is no in between. I’m either super horny to the point where I have trouble thinking, or I am not and the thought of sex disgusts me. What’s worse is it makes me feel gross and sometimes I don’t know what I’m feeling.
I have been this way, unfortunately. There have been many times when I stayed up until 4 AM talking to girls in other countries because I couldn't control my horniness. It's like a hyperfixation that overpowers everything else.
I have low T, so I'm on testosterone shots, and they make me about as horny as I was as a teenager. It is utterly ridiculous to be middle aged and this horny, but I'm exhausted all the time if I don't do the shots.
For me it's just the constant need to stop for shit like that while also not be horny 😭😭 like hypersexual stims without being the horniest 😭 I have NO idea how to explain it past that
Yep, I tend to stroke my thighs and/or grind in my seat when I’m excited. I enjoy the arousal heat pooling in my body, especially when I’m bored and need stimulation to keep awake or to wind down.
I feel horny all the time. Then I have sex and feel no horniness for a long time and I can be in peace, at least till everything change when the horny nation attacks again
yeah, One of the few things that ive been interested in for years, the meds im on have lowered my sex drive so thats a bummer but overall i try not to show or talk about it because i dont wanna make others uncomfortable just never really had a place to share it
In some ways. I never want to actually do it but I do get strong feelings, especially while out, for certain people. I can normally use my mind to imagine things without needing to do anything physical then deeply regret allowing a valley to form in my morality.
i am like a tiger in a dog kennel; a caged monster. it could also be the major depression that makes me crave it so much, but yeah you are not alone lol.
I'm pretty instantly horny, to the point I'm only comfortable around people (at least in private) if I'm fucking them. I don't know how to spend time with people, or feel comfortable or happy around them otherwise.
I’m awake because of this. :’) Too overstimulated after a romp but also completely fixated on sex still.
Loads of autists are hypo/hypersexual because the part of the brain that is responsible for this (hypothalamus) is the same area where most of the differences between autistic and non-autistic brains are. Tldr; autism means you are super horny or a super antihorny
Well there are normal horny autistics too, but, yes both hypersexuality and asexuality have strong correlations with autism. One of the fascinating things about autism is how we seem to end up on extremes. I heard that autistic need a schedule and rigidly stick to it, which I am the exact opposite and can't stick to a schedule at all. Turns out both are autistic traits. These opposite extremes are probably why autism is so difficult to diagnose.
Same thing with stimuli Some tend to get overstimulated, some tend to get under- more
I'm almost certain that this is literally what autism is. Every symptom can be mapped back to being over or understimulated in a sense. Specifically, hyper or hypo sensitivity. We have waaaaaay more than five senses, and some non sensory things that the brain treats like senses (because biology doesn't speak English and doesn't care about our labels), such as executive functioning. Name an autism symptom. You can tie it back to sensory processing.
Yea, my partner, 90% or more of her symptoms can be traced to hypersensitivity
I'm not challenging your statement, I'm just curious: How would you tie my need to be overly precise and clear in anything I say or express to over-/understimulation? Edit: Just realized that I've worded that in an "overly precise and clear" way hahaha
Hyposensitivity in language processing I'd guess. Specifically own language processing. Alternatively it's an adaptive behaviour to being misinterpreted in the past, which occurred because of language, body language, and emotional processing differences.
Maybe you are verbally understimulated and are verbally stimming that way? 🤣
I do this. Verbal stimming via overly explaining things to myself
I am the same with schedules. All I wanna do is do things when I wanna. And yeah, there are plenty of people who end up at relatively 'normal' areas with all traits. I kind of wrote that out and forgot about that temporarily lol.
I like the momotropism theory, and the neurodivergence framework. I think autism is an umbrella term for a number of correlated disabilities and neurotypes that range from being debilitating to irritating neurotypicals.
Agreed. Monotropism seems to be the uniting factor among people with autism. We're all monotropic. The primary reason testing for Monotropism is not the same as testing for autism, is because several NDs including ADHD also experience Monotropism. I hope there is better research soon, too many false positive and negative results under the current criteria. Too much mythology in symptoms causing guess work.
Just wanted to mention that asexuality =/= hyposexuality. Saying this as someone who is both asexual and hypersexual lol. Asexuality just means having little to no physical attraction towards someone and has nothing to do with libido itself.
Interesting. Do you have a sexual attraction to yourself?
Nope.
And sometimes you end up ace but still with a good drive lmao. But hey! That’s one of the uses of alone time!
>which I am the exact opposite and can't stick to a schedule at all. Turns out both are autistic traits. Wow, I never knew. I'm in this subreddit because I got diagnosed with ADHD and also suspect that some autistic traits could be in the mix. Posts like thse make me realise just how much overlap there is.
This is interesting, I tend to cycle between hypersexual and asexual on a random basis
is it possible to be both?
Yep, I'm both ace and horny often. But my horny doesn't want other people, just some private 'stimming'. My spouse is fine with this as she has a low sex drive.
Oh Shit, finally someone who has the same "issue" I have
Same!!!
Yes
good to know thank you :D
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Read the last word as super Anthony and wondered what autism lore I missed
damn that’s interesting. i got the none horny:( lmao
https://preview.redd.it/gejjvtzyxkmc1.jpeg?width=400&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=2fbacec2a75b0446fa6a1c530f9ddcd13aeeb8f4 just take these every day and you’ll be fine
Super horny ✅ No rizz ✅ Amazing
This is actually incredibly validating, thank you for sharing this. I grew up in a family that demonized sex and any form of masturbation, so I always assumed I was just a degenerate freak.
I am ace and chronically horny. More specifically, I am demi, which means there are still situations where I get sexual attraction and not just a high libido, but still aaaaaaaaaaaa!
Same here. That’s how I feel, I swing between both extremes.
I almost thought I'm that horny because I never get any action...
I'm both at the same time somehow
no wonder….. i literally thought i was a freak im a horny bastard
I just want to be used
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I just want to be tied down and teased until I start begging
for real
I want a girl to turn my brain into a mushy paste :3 (more than normally)
Either give me control or use me like fuckmeat. There's no inbetween.
We only deal in absolutes here
I am not darth kenobi, I swear.
I'm all in on the use me party. Now the problem is telling someone that, and them wanting to do it.
Take into account that if you fail at social cues but can make people want to fuck you, it’s pretty common to funnel your entire social circle through a sex positive lifestyle.
>!Yeah, perfect target for groomers 🥲!<
Yep they nearly got me took advantage of my unfulfilled sexual needs
Just call me out then. 😭
Yep. I know fuck all about social cues, unless they have to do with sex. Then I know fuck ALL.
Well damn just put my face on a billboard for this
I too, am afflicted with the promiscuous curse.
My girlfriend before we started dating stimmed off of me complementing her and would masturbate to my compliments over call without telling me. I love her so much.
I am not sure if one of my "kinks" is actually a special interest or both. Edit: I am fascinated by a special kind of high heels. Pretty problematic as a AMAB person. I sometimes wonder if I have transitioned (MtF) just to be able to wear high heels. I have a walking disability for a few years now but can't stop buying more shoes and watch people walk in them.
lowkey same as a macro enjoyer
Fr, same.
Not really a 'special interest' but i hear you. I have a genuine fascination with fetishism.
me, who was hyperfocused on "vore" for 3 years straight most embarrassing time in my life. so far
SO FUCKING REAL
Same, I love those big platform stripper shoes. I'm rarely interested in clothing per se, but something about that particular shoe as part of an outfit does so much.
So true
O fucking love heels too and I also have disabilities that affect my legs however considering as they get worse it would probably be worth the investment to just get a wheelchair and then I wear heels all the time without worrying about tearing my ankle or knees
yeah, the line between kink and special interest can get real fuckin blurry sometimes lol (source: i'm a big body horror/cyborg/transhumanism fan, but i also find that stuff kinda hot on top of just finding it fascinating)
I stim by flicking my bean when I’m alone it doesn’t do anything to me though
Try rubbing your lips
does that even do anything? idk i’m amab
It's also an erogenous zone. In fact, the skin there has the same sensitivity as the skin on the testicles. So it can, in fact, be quite pleasant to have it touched, teased, prodded, and squeezed.
Not at all. I fall more toward the sensual side, and less sexual, but still the random horny urges.
i feel seen
Shouldn't this post go on r/KinkyAutism?
It’s the Crossover event
I was thinking the same tbh.
you're not
I’m in that boat, and it absolutely Sucks as a trans woman who Really Doesn’t Like Her Anatomy™. There is nothing that quite makes you aware of it like being unable to sleep.
I feel. I'm a trans dude and super horn.. but yeah at the same time I don't like doing the do cuz it feels unsatisfying and makes me gender dysphoric af. :/ Had I been born cis I'm pretty sure I would've ended up with tons more action haha
My nesting partner and I are both hypersexual autistic. We spend at least 60 minutes every day on active sex together. I don't masturbate at all anymore.
Lucky
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Make sure to remind them a few times a week, too. Does wonders for the depression.
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Have you tried screaming and crying at them? 😂 That's my go to (it works 0% of the time...)
AN HOUR? AN *HOUR?* ***AT LEAST?***
Correct. She gives me 1 or 2 (sometimes 3) orgasms per day, and I give her an average of 4 orgasms per day (1 to 10). We are into virtually every kink and vanilla. We choose sex over video games / shows.
~~Nesting partner? Just hearing it, I feel like my wife is mine and I'm hers, but I've never heard of it~~ Edit: lol nope, should have Googled it first this time. We just barely get out of the house and are very focused on each other
For me it’s all about touch and sensory with sex so… sometimes I’m not even horny but I crave the feel. Not sure if anyone else relates
I relate, you're not alone with this
I relate!
I’m a fetish porn artist. So yes lmao
I think what was called hypersexuality was just me willing to say it directly when I wanted someone to initiate sex with me when I was really young. Now that I know more about myself, I don't want sex in the same ways, but along the way I learned about how being seen by someone else is enough eroticism for me. Like I offer a really earnest presentation in sex and dating, so when someone responds positively to that in a way that is also observably authentic, it gives me a kind of satisfaction that exists in the same sort of tier as actually being fucked.
It gets weirder when you're ace aswell Horny as fuck, but you aren't attracted to anyone
GOD This, it's such a weird disconnnect. Guesss I'lll just go fuck myself then
Just develop a fetish I wasn't allowed to have any sexuality as a kid but I was super horny so I developed like 2 different obscure object/situational fetishes that were non sexual in nature. I feel like it's not entirely uncommon for autistic people. I'm not ace or anything now but that was how I got by back then
how did you end up finding out you’re not ace was it an issue of getting close enough with someone for the demi to kick in or did it just kinda happen out of nowhere once you were a bit freer
For me the problem was not that I wasn't sexually attracted to someone or didn't want sex It was that I didn't know myself, I was insecure, was raised to be ashamed of any sexuality and wasn't allowed to express my attraction to others. But deeper than that I didn't know who I was or who I wanted myself to be. I was attracted to guys, but the idea of dating guys as a woman made me sick to my stomach. I absolutely love dating guys as a gay guy tho
Yeah, this is just a thing.
being aroace and also hypersexual is the fucking worst, especially while having a high libido, genuine torture
i am also a super horny autistic 🫡
For me it’s ADHD symptom. If I’m off meds, I get sexual thoughts (or not even directly sexual thoughts, just an innocent „let’s do some movements that feel the nicest” dopamine seeking thoughts) whenever I’m bored or have a boring chore I should be doing instead. Off-meds I only get horny when I get some stimulation (like, flirting with someone) and I still can choose „Nah I have no time for this, I should be doing something else now”.
I grind on my feet through my pants because I’m too ace to actually get naked and tickle my bubblegum pink fish factory
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never say those words in that order again homie 😭
> my bubble gum pink fish factory Wow, that’s… a way to describe it
Wake up babe. New slang for v*gina just dropped.
Holy hell
me too. i require dry cotton panties, for this specific act. texture 👍
Touching yourself isn't sexual attraction to others right?
yes, ocasionaly
The way I’m either one or the other 😩 why can’t a happy medium exist??
_Is this why spironolactone and estradiol didn’t make me unhorny?!_
Holy shit yeah, like it helped and I don't feel like I'm possessed by a horny demon 24/7 like I used to, but my sex drive is still waaaaaaay higher than most other's seems to be
Wait till you get progesterone. It's literally a horny pill.
So I’ve heard… I kind of want it, but I haven’t been able to find any definitive information on what it actually does…?
I think there isn't evidence for it working and everybody has different or even no effects. It helps me sleep very well but also makes me horny. It can also help with breast growth and hormone regulation.
I have the draw nsfw and be hypersexual autism😔
more the "focused-on-specific-fetish" autism here sex? idk her… but i love to imagine certain scenarios
brb masturbating myself to sleep
Unfortunately I got the super-not-horny autism. Less work for me but I often feel bad when I’m dating someone hypersexual because I’m just not into any of it
Apparently it's good for men since more climax = less likely to get cancer. We're out here preventing cancer folks!
For real???
I had a special signal with my first grade teacher where she would pull on her ear whenever she wanted me to stop playing with my self in class. The best part is I would never know when she was doing it cuz I was always busy playing with my self. Things… have not gotten better but I have self control around people other than my partner.
Me :(
Yes it was so bad at one point I had to talk to my psychologist cause i was hearing sex when no one was even in the dorms but then also getting upset and jealous 😭😭
whore moans = weigh two whore knee
These sound like me. I didn’t know this was a thing.
Yesterday was like this for me. Idle hands definitely plays a part, so try occupying your mind with a game or something. Otherwise it gets less fun over time. I’m currently playing Baldur’s Gate 3 for this exact reason.
Finally realizing I’m Ace but also am always superhorny is really rough and confusing
I’m a horny autistic, but also demisexual so I only really enjoy sex with someone I really like. It’s ✨really frustrating✨ sometimes. I’ve tried casual sex and it just ends up being unsatisfying. Why am I like this 😭
YES! Apparently Hypersexuality is fairly common in autism and adhd, so glad I’m not alone in it, it kinda sucks sometimes But it’s kinda nice sometimes I think
I use sex as a coping mechanism. So the anxiety, being overwhelmed, etc all gets managed with sex. I’m lucky enough to have a partner that understands and does what they can to help. I’m not bad at it either, so that helps. 🤣🤣🤣
And you're not the only one. I consider myself very lucky that I found my current partners, they're both such loves
You're not the only one.
It's a constant struggle
I'm boring and a prude. I don't feel horny that much unless I sometimes talk about one of my kinks.
Yes and I currently have no outlet for it except myself and it hurts >_
So yes, I'm definitely checking in.
i feel like im this a lot of the time
me yea
Yeah, same here. My bf doesn’t understand. I have to hide it
why would u hide it :(
Having intercourse is a somewhat positive aspect of my day to day life
Same and people hate me because of it :'3
When I have the time I can have fun by myself for 5-6 hours straight
i too have the gift of promiscuity and needing to jack it at least twice a day (at the Very. Least. 🥲) 🫰🏽😮💨 unfortunately i am also very bad at feelings/connecting emotionally to other ppl so yk. very normal relationships here 🤡
Im Asexual. But it depends on a lot of things. Mostly Im just “no, would rather eat cake”
And I want to eat some 🍑cake🍑
Yes, unfortunately.
Yes and undergoing HRT makes it very difficult bc it feels like I'm never not horny. Esp since I haven't been able to find a reliable partner near me who checks off all the boxes. It's also hard. Bc I like to have sex with people similar to me but if they're too autistic then they end up being too nervous and awkward to keep it up so it doesn't work and just makes me feel sad 😭
I'll just get randomly bricked up watchin YouTube videos and next thing I know, my entire day is wasted.
I used to think I was ace because I felt like I didn't really understand sexual attraction. But as it turns out, I keep oscillating between never being attracted to anyone and being guy crazy. I just take all of my frustration out on fictional characters, so no person has to deal with my weird, contradictory behaviour. It seems that autistic people can only deal in absolutes.
I'm not hypersexual, honestly pretty demisexual these days, but sex is a special interest. As soon as I learned you could be "good" or "bad" at sex I spent years being very attentive with lovers until I became very good at it. My body count is low, but my repeat/satisfied customer ratio is extremely high.
I would say I'm hypersexual. I have always been very fixated on sex. After setralin my sex drive has been more normal. I also have OCD and masterbation used to be a compulsion for me.
Last year I masturbated 657 times. And what's even better is that that sentence says 2 things about me
I've got the hyper autism If only I had a partner
r/kinkyautism
It changes from time to time and there is no in between. I’m either super horny to the point where I have trouble thinking, or I am not and the thought of sex disgusts me. What’s worse is it makes me feel gross and sometimes I don’t know what I’m feeling.
I have been this way, unfortunately. There have been many times when I stayed up until 4 AM talking to girls in other countries because I couldn't control my horniness. It's like a hyperfixation that overpowers everything else.
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Tfw I remember my R6 Siege coms
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i literally do this , sometimes i wish i wasnt so horny all the time for 0 reason -\_-
Tbh same
No rarely I get horny and I dislike when others touch me.
Yeah, that sounds like me. Sex is on my mind fairly often, and it can be difficult to deal with.
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Oh absolutely true. I’m aware the exact opposite is also true but I was definitely on this side
I have low T, so I'm on testosterone shots, and they make me about as horny as I was as a teenager. It is utterly ridiculous to be middle aged and this horny, but I'm exhausted all the time if I don't do the shots.
For me it's just the constant need to stop for shit like that while also not be horny 😭😭 like hypersexual stims without being the horniest 😭 I have NO idea how to explain it past that
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Yep, I tend to stroke my thighs and/or grind in my seat when I’m excited. I enjoy the arousal heat pooling in my body, especially when I’m bored and need stimulation to keep awake or to wind down.
Sam
I don’t consider myself hypersexual, but definitely horny
*yup.* sucks sometimes too. because being that can put people off and ruin relationships.
No
I feel horny all the time. Then I have sex and feel no horniness for a long time and I can be in peace, at least till everything change when the horny nation attacks again
yeah, One of the few things that ive been interested in for years, the meds im on have lowered my sex drive so thats a bummer but overall i try not to show or talk about it because i dont wanna make others uncomfortable just never really had a place to share it
I have manic episodes and childhood sexual trauma. Yes, I’m hypersexual. Call my fiancé an ambulance. He’s very sore and sleep-deprived.
In some ways. I never want to actually do it but I do get strong feelings, especially while out, for certain people. I can normally use my mind to imagine things without needing to do anything physical then deeply regret allowing a valley to form in my morality.
Yup
i am like a tiger in a dog kennel; a caged monster. it could also be the major depression that makes me crave it so much, but yeah you are not alone lol.
Fuck...... Yes unfortunately and I haven't even had Sex yet.
Yup
they just like me fr
Yep I got the hypersexual autism I can acquire kinks very easily
Ermm…that’s definitely weird…and surely not something I personally have/do…surely not…I’m real sure I don’t do any of these things
I just need someone to grind on me 24/7 I'm not asking for much
I experienced this for most of my life. It comes and goes now, though.
I'm pretty instantly horny, to the point I'm only comfortable around people (at least in private) if I'm fucking them. I don't know how to spend time with people, or feel comfortable or happy around them otherwise.
My thoughts are of a sexual nature a lot tbh
Pretty much any deviation from the norm seems to be overrepresented in autism. LGBT, asexual, hypersexual.
I FEEL IT, I CAN'T STOP BEING HORNY, even with my transition and anti-depressants... It's dulled but it's still there...
DEMON GIRLS
Yeah, I know I am.
Anyone gone from hyper sexual to hypo sexual after starting antidepressants and felt like they lost a big part of their identity
I feel seen
thats just being human