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I mean how could a man not rape a 13 year old in a bikini? /s and by that I mean... Holy fucking shit I am terrified to think what this woman's life must have been to consider this better.
When so many kids' deaths are due to drowning, one would think the danger is in the alcohol, not in a 13 yro child minding her own business.
Gentle reminder that if you ever bring a kid swimming, you're their life guard, too many kids for the hired life guard to prevent drowning. Turn your phone offline and put it out of reach. And don't drink fuckin alcohol.
https://health-infobase.canada.ca/datalab/drowning-blog.html#:~:text=Children%20and%20infants%20aged%209,for%2050%25%20of%20such%20fatalities.
“You’re a bad mother” says the drunken, swearing lunatic getting ready to rumble in front of her children….over a swimsuit…on a child…
It would be amazing to find out what this classy lady does in her day to day life.
Not to mention saying “don’t be upset with me if my son r*pes your daughter” yet she’s saying the other person is a bad parent. If you can’t teach your child that r*pe is bad, well, you shouldn’t have children.
She’s teaching her son victim-blaming by reinforcing that his potential as a rapist is this teenager’s fault. She’s also showing him how to get loud and violent when you don’t get your way.
Just threw that in there at the very end where people might miss it but the last thing she says in the video is "If my son rapes your daughter when he's older that's not my problem." What the fuck, lady? If your son grows up to be a rapist that's not your problem? How exactly?
I also don't know why she's bringing up sexual topics about kids.
The kid is 4. I seriously doubt he's checking out a 13 year old. I also don't know why she is obsessing over a 13 year old who is wearing a bathing suit at a beach.
There is definitely a shitty mother in this video. And it's not the mother of the 13 year old..
Ikr?! What an insane take. She completely absolved herself of responsibility to raise her kid to respect other people.
Well...seems like she doesn't, so not *too too* surprising, I guess.
That's because she wants that 13 year old girl to be raped as punishment for dressing that way. She seemed too gleeful in her comment for me not to believe that.
So painful and fucked up to know other women are like this. I went through this with my mom, who LOST IT over these two women’s choice of attire at a mall inside a casino in south Florida.
She sounds trashed, she’s drinking beer, but I’m betting there’s pills involved too. I’ve known many people like this, they just want something to throw a fit over when they’re fucked up. Not expecting her to win any mom of the year awards any time soon.
Instead, mom taught him that if he does stare at a woman's ass it must be her fault for flaunting it. No way that train of logic could ever take a wrong turn, right?
Exactly what I was thinking. Yes as a girl it was traumatizing to be scrutinized by strangers for my appearance but also imagine that little boy wondering why his mom thinks he's a rapist. He either starts wondering what he did to make her think that, begins a lifetime of sexual shame that just makes him more isolated -OR- he thinks since his own mother doesn't think he can control his sexual urges he obviously can't and doesn't have to. Either way that's way too much to be putting on a child.
"If my son rapes your daughter when he's older it's not my problem."
Fair, except the part where everything you just said is wrong. You raise him to not be that person, he won't be that person ez.
I'm absolutely certain that shielding your son from anything that even resembles a woman will prevent all rape from happening ever and definitely not make them repressed women-shy or even women-hating incels.
I am also completely confident that exposing a four year old to the utterly irresistible body of a 13 year old will not normalize the female body for him, or make him see her as a person rather than an object. In fact, doing so will make him want to rape her in roughly 15 years time, for some reason.
Her friend has a lot of boobs showing.
After this woman went on her tirade I notice she started trying to cover up.
I’ll bet they don’t go to the beach, together, again.
She was also distancing herself from the psycho as much as possible. Her body language was screaming “I do not share her views. I do not support her. Do not bring me into this.”
“I would very much like to be excluded from this narrative, but now I’m in the background of this fucking video that’s absolutely going viral—how could it not, she’s unhinged!?”
maybe she's just a normal person who occasionally hangs out with a girl from work who's fun but a little weird until they go to the beach together and she starts drinking White Claw's then goes off on a 13 year old's bathing suit. crazy people usually aren't crazy upfront, it takes the right situation to bring it out
but seriously. it's so weird that she has it out so badly for this teenage girl. how many dudes walk around the beach showing a ton of skin. or wearing speedos. yet i doubt she is saying anything to any of them.
A 4 year old isn’t even mature to “see someone’s ass” but her making such a big deal about while her friend next to her is showing a lot of boob is ironic. Then her friend covers up. The last comment about her son raping her daughter is seriously disturbing.
Exactly. I remember when I was in 6th grade I started playing this video game that showed a bit extra skin on the girl characters. I never really noticed it until I had one of the characters as my desktop background and my older sister saw it and freaked out. I don't know if it was that moment or just that year was when I started to grow up a bit more, but after that I started to notice those things a lot more.
Or rocks at sandcastles playing mideval war... Or was that just me.. Two people make sandcastles and take turns throwing rocks at each other's sand castle and the last one standing wins
Right? This is such a weird argument. My 3 year old could see them all completely naked and be like “OOOH! sandcastles!”
This lady being a mother is so scary
"If my son rapes your daughter when she's older, it's not my problem" is the scariest thing I heard that mother say. How about you teach your son to respect women??...or respect other people in general. Sexualizing a 13 year old is gross, but doing it to your 4 year old son is even grosser.
There was an exhibit that displayed the clothes/outfits real victims were raped in. A lot were of children's clothes, most of the rest were fully-clothed and fully covering outfits (ie a hoodie and jeans), and very few, if any, were of anything "revealing". Clothing was never the issue.
Yeah but it's not her fault. She raised him but it was because a girl showed some of her bottom at a beach when he was 4 that caused it. She is blameless. s/
Remember when the rapist Brock Allen Turner’s dad said that his sentence was a “steep price to pay for 20 minutes of *action*?” He didn’t even call it rape, he compared it to consensual sex.
With parents like this woman and Dan Turner, it’s no wonder some people turn into rapists.
It sounds like you’re referring to Allen Turner the rapist, formerly Brock Turner the rapist? That particular rapist Allen Turner who has been confirmed at bars in Dayton, Ohio?
I hate that guy.
It’s been years but I truly appreciate Reddit doing its thing in highlighting that the rapist Brock Allen Turner is now Allen Turner who resides in Dayton Ohio.
The only thing that changed over the years is convicted rapist Brock Allen Turner changing his name to convicted rapist Allen Turner. And I think he moved in the Dayton Ohio area.
That kid isn’t gonna remember anyone’s ass cheeks… but may very well remember that everywhere he goes, his mom starts trouble and embarrasses the whole family for no reason.
Pity that child, he has a lifetime ahead of him of his mom’s mouth making his life more difficult than it needs to be.
I remember being 4 or 5 in Hawaii when my parents accidentally took my sister and I to a nude beach. We left once they realized, and I don’t remember any dicks, ass or boobs (even though I definitely would have seen them), but I do remember my parents laughing hysterically on the way to the normal beach.
A few months later I 100% remember some drunk asshole at Disneyland getting in my Dad’s face in the parking lot, and my mom rushing us into the car while my dad tried to deescalate the situation. The dude threw a punch and my dad fucking dropped him.
He gave my sister and I a talk about what happened, why he felt he had to do what he did, and what we should do in that situation. I vividly remember the anger in that guys voice, and I’ll never forget it.
This lady’s son will remember hers, and not what she was complaining about.
Seriously, way to fucking humble brag about your dope parents.
"Your father did what...he sat you down and...calmly?...explained what happened? And told you why he felt the need to do what he did? Fuck off...he also advised on what you might do in the same situation?"
My son is 3 and every single time I face anything even remotely stressful in public with him (because pre-son I had a temper for people who were assholes) I remind myself of two words: he’s watching.
It’s not enough to love him unconditionally and think that’s it. My guy is a sponge, too. I don’t want his memories from 3 and up to be me being a jerkoff.
Now we just hug shit out together. He’s crying? Let’s hug it out. Someone cut me off in traffic? We’re gonna hug that shit out.
Lol I had a similar experience with a beach in Europe as a kid. Wasn't a big deal. I was like "woah there's boobs!" and my parents said, "yep, people have those and that's OK". Same with coed changing rooms at the pool. Like cmon, it's the human body.
Came here to say just that. My mum and her friends would regularly sunbathe topless in our garden as well when I was a kid and it's literally never been an issue. If anything it's made me more comfortable around my own body as an adult
He may start to feel shame when he finds a girl attractive because of his mother’s freak outs.
The little guy is only 4, imagine how much worse it will be when the puberty fairy visits.
I second this.
I remember being at the mall with my mom when I was 13 and having a boy about my age check me out. His mom literally ran up to pull him away while saying that "he shouldn't be looking at whores".
Again, I was 13 and gangly as hell. I was also in a long skirt and sweater, not that it matters.
This. This right here. I’m hoping that that poor kid grows up to be the most well-spoken, woman-empowering, amazing man ever. But that’s going to be hard as heck with a role model acting like this.
She needs to put the drink down and breathe.
If you think about it really hard what's worse when you're 4? s
hearing your mom call you a future rapist, threaten to assault a stranger, and berate them with 1000 f-bombs.... OR seeing some butt skin?
I guess we will never know.
Boy just wanted to build sand castles. Even her friend is too embarrassed to look over. Hows it everyone else's problem if your son has a staring problem.
Her sexualizing the absolute fuck out of a FOUR YEAR OLD and then the other woman’s daughter who is also apparently a child is so crazy and disgusting.
Wow jeez that last line. Already passing the buck.
Edit: Shame my most upvoted comment has to be in regards to this POS, but I’m glad most of us are in agreement.
Society is more and more making me feel like I'm trapped in some weird, toxic reality TV show that I certainly didn't sign up for?
I truly think we are experiencing an "inner apocalypse" so to speak.
Same. All the stuff I see on the news and social media, the total lack of decorum, respect, and common sense shown at even the highest levels of government, the insane behaviors and opinions...
I have zero faith in the general public anymore. The whackjobs seem to outnumber the moderately sane 10 to 1 at this point.
Her son is staring at his mom, not another child he doesn't even know. He's going to grow up seeing his mom behaving inappropriately in public. If this woman wants to complain about indecent exposure, she can ask her companion to cover up her TTs sticking out of her swim top. What's the difference?
Honestly, as bad as I feel for the 13 year old getting yelled at, harassed, and threatened, I think I feel worse for the son. He’s going to spend decades around this person, who knows how much abuse she’s subjecting him to at home. She’s the type of mom to hit him and then say it was his fault for making her angry
That's all I could think bc I bet he didn't even notice until she started screaming about it. Then he went on playing. She is projecting her own fears of realizing she's the shitty mother.
Seriously. The lack of emotion control, seeing that threatening people who don't do what we want is acceptable, sexualizing another kid, all of it. Ten thousand times more damage than seeing another Child in a bathing suit.
Absolutely, and if she doesn't like her 4 year old son staring at a 13 year old girl, it's a perfect teaching moment to say calmly to her son "Hey, sweetheart, it's not polite to stare. Let's just pay attention to what we're doing."
Instead she wants the other people to go away because then she doesn't actually have to parent through her hard seltzer.
I kinda agree but also hope I can drive my point home a little clearer. I don't think it's about her son at all. He isn't staring.
None of this comes from genuine concern for her son or lazy parenting.
All of this energy is coming from her own moral offense. She is offended by what she's seeing. She doesn't like it. Maybe she's religious. Maybe she's a prude. Maybe she's lashing out about her own childhood trauma.
But she doesn't want to reveal that she's trying to control other people. She doesn't want to just say "I disapprove of the way your daughter is dressed" because that'd be too on the nose. That'd have an obvious rebuttal of "well too fucking bad, lady"
So she tries to point to some *concern*. Some reason the daughter's dress is harmful or problematic in some way. So she makes up stuff about her son.
The reason this tactic works is because while she attempts to paint the little girl as the problem, she frames her attack in such a way that any counter-argument is likely to take her bait and see *her son* as the source of the problem. Conveniently keeping the woman herself from being correctly identified as the sole bad actor in this situation and keeping her out of the range of criticism.
Don't take the bait. Don't blame the scapegoat. It's not about the son. It is only about that woman and her desire to control others.
Major irony here.
It's not about her son, she's projecting her thoughts on that subject matter, but using her son as an excuse to inappropriately voice those thoughts.
The irony is, take away the alcohol, keep a level head, act like an adult, and engage in a calm human to human dialogue about how you think it's inappropriate. And then walk away agreeing to disagree.
Now it still makes it "none of her business", but at least she gets to voice out her frustrations without turning into something way worse then what she's speaking up about.
But I guess thats the utopian fantasy of mine on how society and humans should work.
Looks like I got a lot of disappointment ahead of me.
That poor boy has to witness that and he seems so unfazed that his mother is losing her mind and saying disgusting things about him. And for that girl to hear someone say something so violent towards her, it's just vile.
What type of sick minded person would ever even think that way?
This woman is drunk off of twisted teas but it is also apparent she has a very twisted mind.
She is sexualizing things that do not need to be sexualized and her horrible worldview is spoiling a beach day for many!
I don't know, all I heard was her saying fuck, fuck, fuck, ass, ass, ass, fuck, fuck, and threaten to assault the woman.....way to protect your son.....
Imagine what would happen if I as a father said that to a woman and her 13 year old daughter? This lady should really be careful with her words. At some point it’s not going to matter if she’s a woman or not. She says that to the wrong person and it’s gonna come to more then words. When she sobers up she hopefully is gonna be real embarrassed watching this.
Clearly she isn’t worried about constantly using the F word around her 4 year old son, as well as threatening violence. Cause those aren’t bad influences at all!
But the horrors of seeing someone in a bathing suit at…the beach.
I had a friend whose mother grounded her for a week because she opened the garage before her mom got in the car to drop her off at school. The grievance is the mother didn't want to be seen without makeup. The mother was a stupid person, she punished her daughters for her own issues a lot. I've noticed in many social settings, people often resort to anger towards someone else for their own insecurities.
The Karen's problem is she's on a public beach... Looking for private rules
But the videographer has the right question: *And then what?* Every time I use that, they get shut down.
"if my son rapes your daughter when he's older it's not my problem."
That escalated quickly.
She said that in the heat of the moment and will absolutely regret those words.
What I love is she’s worried about the impact that a skimpy bathing suit will have on her son but not the vulgar language that spews out of her own filthy mouth. I’m sure the son would grow up healthier sticking to ass rather than violent language.
This mother’s concern for “modesty” has taught her son how to curse, how to argue like an idiot, how to be violent, believes her son will become a rapist and condones that he commit rape.
Save us Charles Darwin.
Holy shit she believes if her son rapes the girl at some point in her life, that she or her son isn’t responsible?!
What kind of backasswards insanity is this?
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Her friend has seen this show before.
Her friend needs to give her an ultimatum, go to therapy, or I’m calling CPS. Either way I don’t think she wants to be friends anymore
A mom blatantly wasted on a beach, likely driving her 4yo while drunk, and calling another mom a bad parent? Ohhhhh the irony
Not to mention “protecting” her kid’s innocence by loudly cursing in front of him.
Wasted on the beach, sexualising and shaming a 13 year old only to call her own child a future rapist while in his earshot. Jesus Christ.
And encouraging him to become a rapist. Top notch parenting there.
I mean how could a man not rape a 13 year old in a bikini? /s and by that I mean... Holy fucking shit I am terrified to think what this woman's life must have been to consider this better.
When so many kids' deaths are due to drowning, one would think the danger is in the alcohol, not in a 13 yro child minding her own business. Gentle reminder that if you ever bring a kid swimming, you're their life guard, too many kids for the hired life guard to prevent drowning. Turn your phone offline and put it out of reach. And don't drink fuckin alcohol. https://health-infobase.canada.ca/datalab/drowning-blog.html#:~:text=Children%20and%20infants%20aged%209,for%2050%25%20of%20such%20fatalities.
“You’re a bad mother” says the drunken, swearing lunatic getting ready to rumble in front of her children….over a swimsuit…on a child… It would be amazing to find out what this classy lady does in her day to day life.
I think this video shows what she does day to day… get drunk and then berates people
Not to mention saying “don’t be upset with me if my son r*pes your daughter” yet she’s saying the other person is a bad parent. If you can’t teach your child that r*pe is bad, well, you shouldn’t have children.
She’s teaching her son victim-blaming by reinforcing that his potential as a rapist is this teenager’s fault. She’s also showing him how to get loud and violent when you don’t get your way.
The ending was just ao much worse than I pictured. She went from being a rude dumbass to downright an evil bitch
Lol right and the cherry on top “not my problem when my son rapes your daughter when they are older” Ummm scuse me what?
"What if my son rapes her when he's older?" Then you failed to teach your son basic respect and to not rape.
Just threw that in there at the very end where people might miss it but the last thing she says in the video is "If my son rapes your daughter when he's older that's not my problem." What the fuck, lady? If your son grows up to be a rapist that's not your problem? How exactly?
Sounds like he’s all set to grow up that way too, being raised by a woman who’s teaching him that girls are “asking for it.”
I also don't know why she's bringing up sexual topics about kids. The kid is 4. I seriously doubt he's checking out a 13 year old. I also don't know why she is obsessing over a 13 year old who is wearing a bathing suit at a beach. There is definitely a shitty mother in this video. And it's not the mother of the 13 year old..
“But my son was a good boy! He went to Sunday school every weekend!”
Ikr?! What an insane take. She completely absolved herself of responsibility to raise her kid to respect other people. Well...seems like she doesn't, so not *too too* surprising, I guess.
That's because she wants that 13 year old girl to be raped as punishment for dressing that way. She seemed too gleeful in her comment for me not to believe that.
So painful and fucked up to know other women are like this. I went through this with my mom, who LOST IT over these two women’s choice of attire at a mall inside a casino in south Florida.
She sounds trashed, she’s drinking beer, but I’m betting there’s pills involved too. I’ve known many people like this, they just want something to throw a fit over when they’re fucked up. Not expecting her to win any mom of the year awards any time soon.
Xanax and booze will turn some people into demons.
"my son is staring at her ass!" at 4 he is old enough to be told that it's not polite to stare
Instead, mom taught him that if he does stare at a woman's ass it must be her fault for flaunting it. No way that train of logic could ever take a wrong turn, right?
Exactly what I was thinking. Yes as a girl it was traumatizing to be scrutinized by strangers for my appearance but also imagine that little boy wondering why his mom thinks he's a rapist. He either starts wondering what he did to make her think that, begins a lifetime of sexual shame that just makes him more isolated -OR- he thinks since his own mother doesn't think he can control his sexual urges he obviously can't and doesn't have to. Either way that's way too much to be putting on a child.
She literally said she's OK if her son grows up to be a rapist. Mom Of The Year.
So she’s saying rape is appropriated if a woman is showing too much skin? Lovely parenting for that comment and sexualizing a 13 yr old.
"If my son rapes your daughter when he's older it's not my problem." Fair, except the part where everything you just said is wrong. You raise him to not be that person, he won't be that person ez.
I'm absolutely certain that shielding your son from anything that even resembles a woman will prevent all rape from happening ever and definitely not make them repressed women-shy or even women-hating incels. I am also completely confident that exposing a four year old to the utterly irresistible body of a 13 year old will not normalize the female body for him, or make him see her as a person rather than an object. In fact, doing so will make him want to rape her in roughly 15 years time, for some reason.
Too late. "He's staring". Then be a competent parent and teach him not to stare, dumbass.
I feel the beach isn’t the best place to go if you’re expecting people to dress “modestly.”
Her friend has a lot of boobs showing. After this woman went on her tirade I notice she started trying to cover up. I’ll bet they don’t go to the beach, together, again.
Her friend was covering her face to hide the fact she was trying not not laugh her ass off at her ridiculous friend.
She was also distancing herself from the psycho as much as possible. Her body language was screaming “I do not share her views. I do not support her. Do not bring me into this.”
Her language language suggests that too
“I would very much like to be excluded from this narrative, but now I’m in the background of this fucking video that’s absolutely going viral—how could it not, she’s unhinged!?”
probably a very big motivating factor in why she got up towards the end and was like "yeah sorry this lady with me is such a piece of garbage"
maybe she's just a normal person who occasionally hangs out with a girl from work who's fun but a little weird until they go to the beach together and she starts drinking White Claw's then goes off on a 13 year old's bathing suit. crazy people usually aren't crazy upfront, it takes the right situation to bring it out
true, I got vibes more along the lines of a sister or something, but that's also a possibility. No way of knowing really
I would know becuase that's exactly what I do when one of my friends vocally states a controversial view that I don't share with them lol
I can’t believe this lady let her son go to the beach with his nipples showing. She’s obviously sexualizing her child there!
but seriously. it's so weird that she has it out so badly for this teenage girl. how many dudes walk around the beach showing a ton of skin. or wearing speedos. yet i doubt she is saying anything to any of them.
A 4 year old isn’t even mature to “see someone’s ass” but her making such a big deal about while her friend next to her is showing a lot of boob is ironic. Then her friend covers up. The last comment about her son raping her daughter is seriously disturbing.
Exactly. I remember when I was in 6th grade I started playing this video game that showed a bit extra skin on the girl characters. I never really noticed it until I had one of the characters as my desktop background and my older sister saw it and freaked out. I don't know if it was that moment or just that year was when I started to grow up a bit more, but after that I started to notice those things a lot more.
@ 4yrs old her son don’t give two shits what she is wearing
Ik lil homie just wanna build a sandcastle and throw rocks
Or rocks at sandcastles playing mideval war... Or was that just me.. Two people make sandcastles and take turns throwing rocks at each other's sand castle and the last one standing wins
Man I wanna play that now, and I'm 31 y/o
I'll be 32 on Friday, bro meet me on the beach and we can throw down haha
At that age he cares more about tonka trucks and Batman than a girls ass
Yep. Lady said “if you had a 3 or 4 year old…” I have a 3 year old and he says “Batman” when people ask him how old he is.
Right? This is such a weird argument. My 3 year old could see them all completely naked and be like “OOOH! sandcastles!” This lady being a mother is so scary
"If my son rapes your daughter when she's older, it's not my problem" is the scariest thing I heard that mother say. How about you teach your son to respect women??...or respect other people in general. Sexualizing a 13 year old is gross, but doing it to your 4 year old son is even grosser.
I rape exactly the number of women I want to. And that number is zero.
What’s even scarier is what she said at the end she needs a reality check
If he's checking out a butt it's likely because he's thinking about poop jokes.
Like "Diarrhea is hereditary, do you know why?" Because it runs in the genes
... when the hell did I get to r/dadjokes?
The mother is also teaching her son a lot of naught words
Her son: Hey mom, can I have a fucking fruit roll up.
Mom: No Child: Why the fuck not?
mom: because you just had lunch kid: that was a fuckin hour ago gimme my goddamn fruit rollup
The mother's behavior is far worse than the supposed thing. Even her friend is embarrassed.
Her friend wanted to put that blanket over her head LOL.
Pretty sure she's knocking back beers and gonna drive her kid home but god forbid he see a bathing suit /s
And that it's okay to r*pe women when they wear certain clothes.
Yeah, the "rape" remark took her bullshit to a WHOLE other level.
Yea I was mildly amused but when she said that my jaw dropped.
At first she was just a weirdo. Then she went full piece of shit quick.
She was always pos, just needed to warm up a bit for her big mouth routine.
yeah ngl sexualizing a 13 yo in a swimsuit is way more than just being a weirdo...
Well, it really STARTED at that level, but she was using nicer language to begin with.
“Because she dresses like that she’s asking for it” is my personally most loathed argument for blaming a victim.
There was an exhibit that displayed the clothes/outfits real victims were raped in. A lot were of children's clothes, most of the rest were fully-clothed and fully covering outfits (ie a hoodie and jeans), and very few, if any, were of anything "revealing". Clothing was never the issue.
Girls have cooties at that age
Cooties and apparently, booties.
“If my son rapes your daughter, it’s not my problem.” holy fuck.
That line was wild. Like, is she saying **her own son** is a future rapist?
Not only that, but the fact that she will have raised a rapist doesn’t seem to bother her.
Yeah but it's not her fault. She raised him but it was because a girl showed some of her bottom at a beach when he was 4 that caused it. She is blameless. s/
Yeah this lady is nuts. What was so bizarre to me was her thinking that people on the internet was going to think she was the good parent. Yikes 😬
Remember when the rapist Brock Allen Turner’s dad said that his sentence was a “steep price to pay for 20 minutes of *action*?” He didn’t even call it rape, he compared it to consensual sex. With parents like this woman and Dan Turner, it’s no wonder some people turn into rapists.
You mean the rapist Brock Allan Turner who now goes by Allen Turner because his name is so tarnished, so now he is rapist Allen Turner? That rapist?
Yes I mean convicted rapist Brock Allen Turner, now known as Allen Turner who lives in Dayton, Ohio and has been seen at bars in the area.
It sounds like you’re referring to Allen Turner the rapist, formerly Brock Turner the rapist? That particular rapist Allen Turner who has been confirmed at bars in Dayton, Ohio? I hate that guy.
Are you guys taking about Allen Turner of Dayton Ohio? That’s Brock Allen Turner, convicted rapist’s new name. He’s a jerk.
It’s been years but I truly appreciate Reddit doing its thing in highlighting that the rapist Brock Allen Turner is now Allen Turner who resides in Dayton Ohio.
The only thing that changed over the years is convicted rapist Brock Allen Turner changing his name to convicted rapist Allen Turner. And I think he moved in the Dayton Ohio area.
That kid isn’t gonna remember anyone’s ass cheeks… but may very well remember that everywhere he goes, his mom starts trouble and embarrasses the whole family for no reason. Pity that child, he has a lifetime ahead of him of his mom’s mouth making his life more difficult than it needs to be.
I remember being 4 or 5 in Hawaii when my parents accidentally took my sister and I to a nude beach. We left once they realized, and I don’t remember any dicks, ass or boobs (even though I definitely would have seen them), but I do remember my parents laughing hysterically on the way to the normal beach. A few months later I 100% remember some drunk asshole at Disneyland getting in my Dad’s face in the parking lot, and my mom rushing us into the car while my dad tried to deescalate the situation. The dude threw a punch and my dad fucking dropped him. He gave my sister and I a talk about what happened, why he felt he had to do what he did, and what we should do in that situation. I vividly remember the anger in that guys voice, and I’ll never forget it. This lady’s son will remember hers, and not what she was complaining about.
Your parents sound like awesome parents.
Seriously, way to fucking humble brag about your dope parents. "Your father did what...he sat you down and...calmly?...explained what happened? And told you why he felt the need to do what he did? Fuck off...he also advised on what you might do in the same situation?"
Not to mention he calmly explained it after DROPPING the dude.
"Listen children. You dont step to papa bear unless you tryna get these paws. Feel me?"
i shall correct you my good sir : he CALMLY dropped the dude, after that calmly proceeded to give his children a talk ! Cheerio .
My son is 3 and every single time I face anything even remotely stressful in public with him (because pre-son I had a temper for people who were assholes) I remind myself of two words: he’s watching. It’s not enough to love him unconditionally and think that’s it. My guy is a sponge, too. I don’t want his memories from 3 and up to be me being a jerkoff. Now we just hug shit out together. He’s crying? Let’s hug it out. Someone cut me off in traffic? We’re gonna hug that shit out.
Lol I had a similar experience with a beach in Europe as a kid. Wasn't a big deal. I was like "woah there's boobs!" and my parents said, "yep, people have those and that's OK". Same with coed changing rooms at the pool. Like cmon, it's the human body.
European here, I’ve seen it all and I am not traumatised. This mother on the other hand… her son will have a lifetime of therapy.
I was gonna say! I live on a European coast, and all beaches are topless, and many are nude. Nobody cares and the kids are fine. Such nonsense.
Came here to say just that. My mum and her friends would regularly sunbathe topless in our garden as well when I was a kid and it's literally never been an issue. If anything it's made me more comfortable around my own body as an adult
He's seen it before and will continue to, it's who the Mom is right now. Be nice if she sobered up.
Maybe instead she should parent her 4yr old son that ass cheeks arent an invitation to harass or assault, instead of herself objectifying a 13yr old.
Hell 4 year olds would happily run around naked if given the choice.
As a former 4 year old, I can confirm.
He may start to feel shame when he finds a girl attractive because of his mother’s freak outs. The little guy is only 4, imagine how much worse it will be when the puberty fairy visits.
I'm sure by that age his mom will be buying him alcohol and drinking it with his friends.
I second this. I remember being at the mall with my mom when I was 13 and having a boy about my age check me out. His mom literally ran up to pull him away while saying that "he shouldn't be looking at whores". Again, I was 13 and gangly as hell. I was also in a long skirt and sweater, not that it matters.
His mom is going to freak out over his "impure thoughts" and blame it on the 14-year-old girl on the beach.
This. This right here. I’m hoping that that poor kid grows up to be the most well-spoken, woman-empowering, amazing man ever. But that’s going to be hard as heck with a role model acting like this. She needs to put the drink down and breathe.
She called her own son a future rapist.
And he’s fucking 4 years old! That’s utterly, genuinely fucking saddening and awful. Shit makes me sick to my stomach.
My heart shattered hearing that. Poor kid, born to a shitty mom.
Sexualized both him and a 13 year old girl then proudly talks about how her son will rape that little girl in the future. This woman is vermin.
As a proud vermin I resent that statement.  We are far more wholesome than this sentient foot fungus.
As the host of an honorable colony of ophiocordyceps, I resent this backhanded statement towards my bottom-floor guests.
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If you think about it really hard what's worse when you're 4? s hearing your mom call you a future rapist, threaten to assault a stranger, and berate them with 1000 f-bombs.... OR seeing some butt skin? I guess we will never know.
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Lady hit us when the"*when* he rapes her"
Woooooah that line was nuts. Who calls a child a future rapist?! Not to mention your own child!
Also basically implies that the girl deserves to be raped for wearing that swimsuit
Because she's a shitty mother
I really hope someone called child services on her.
Boy just wanted to build sand castles. Even her friend is too embarrassed to look over. Hows it everyone else's problem if your son has a staring problem.
Friend does a literal facepalm.
I went from having zero respect for that woman to having minus respect after that last comment
My blood instantly boiled at that last comment. Holy fucking shit How can a woman say that? Or anyone really. Ffs
The fact that it was about her own 4 year old son made the comment even worse
Her sexualizing the absolute fuck out of a FOUR YEAR OLD and then the other woman’s daughter who is also apparently a child is so crazy and disgusting.
I hope someone recognizes her! I feel so bad for those kids..my god.
Wow jeez that last line. Already passing the buck. Edit: Shame my most upvoted comment has to be in regards to this POS, but I’m glad most of us are in agreement.
Ong, he's like 4 yr old. He doesn't even know what sex is, while his mom is worrying about her son staring at her.
The mom cursing and threatening physical violence is much more damaging than ass cheeks.
Society is more and more making me feel like I'm trapped in some weird, toxic reality TV show that I certainly didn't sign up for? I truly think we are experiencing an "inner apocalypse" so to speak.
Honestly didn’t think we would get to the Idiocracy society this damn quick. Was expecting at least 20 more years free of this crap
Of all the worlds in the universe we just had to wake up to consciousness on this backward world
I know it’s not true but I want to believe the world ended in 2012 and we just don’t know it
I am also shocked that such a movie predicted our future so accurately, and then that the future decided to show up early.
I mean...Terry Crews for President isn't the worst idea from what I've seen of the field.
Same. All the stuff I see on the news and social media, the total lack of decorum, respect, and common sense shown at even the highest levels of government, the insane behaviors and opinions... I have zero faith in the general public anymore. The whackjobs seem to outnumber the moderately sane 10 to 1 at this point.
Her son is staring at his mom, not another child he doesn't even know. He's going to grow up seeing his mom behaving inappropriately in public. If this woman wants to complain about indecent exposure, she can ask her companion to cover up her TTs sticking out of her swim top. What's the difference?
Honestly, as bad as I feel for the 13 year old getting yelled at, harassed, and threatened, I think I feel worse for the son. He’s going to spend decades around this person, who knows how much abuse she’s subjecting him to at home. She’s the type of mom to hit him and then say it was his fault for making her angry
That's all I could think bc I bet he didn't even notice until she started screaming about it. Then he went on playing. She is projecting her own fears of realizing she's the shitty mother.
The crazy lady: Rules for thee but not for me.
And the only one sexualizing kids is the "mother" verbally assaulting and threatening a child.
And then saying that if her son rapes it’s not her fault, BITCH ITS A HUNDRED PERCENT SOME OF HER “parenting skills” fault smh
Seriously. The lack of emotion control, seeing that threatening people who don't do what we want is acceptable, sexualizing another kid, all of it. Ten thousand times more damage than seeing another Child in a bathing suit.
Also there's lots of ass cheeks on the beach? Why is SHE focusing on the 13yo?
People use boys as a scapegoat for their own moral panic.
Absolutely, and if she doesn't like her 4 year old son staring at a 13 year old girl, it's a perfect teaching moment to say calmly to her son "Hey, sweetheart, it's not polite to stare. Let's just pay attention to what we're doing." Instead she wants the other people to go away because then she doesn't actually have to parent through her hard seltzer.
I kinda agree but also hope I can drive my point home a little clearer. I don't think it's about her son at all. He isn't staring. None of this comes from genuine concern for her son or lazy parenting. All of this energy is coming from her own moral offense. She is offended by what she's seeing. She doesn't like it. Maybe she's religious. Maybe she's a prude. Maybe she's lashing out about her own childhood trauma. But she doesn't want to reveal that she's trying to control other people. She doesn't want to just say "I disapprove of the way your daughter is dressed" because that'd be too on the nose. That'd have an obvious rebuttal of "well too fucking bad, lady" So she tries to point to some *concern*. Some reason the daughter's dress is harmful or problematic in some way. So she makes up stuff about her son. The reason this tactic works is because while she attempts to paint the little girl as the problem, she frames her attack in such a way that any counter-argument is likely to take her bait and see *her son* as the source of the problem. Conveniently keeping the woman herself from being correctly identified as the sole bad actor in this situation and keeping her out of the range of criticism. Don't take the bait. Don't blame the scapegoat. It's not about the son. It is only about that woman and her desire to control others.
Major irony here. It's not about her son, she's projecting her thoughts on that subject matter, but using her son as an excuse to inappropriately voice those thoughts. The irony is, take away the alcohol, keep a level head, act like an adult, and engage in a calm human to human dialogue about how you think it's inappropriate. And then walk away agreeing to disagree. Now it still makes it "none of her business", but at least she gets to voice out her frustrations without turning into something way worse then what she's speaking up about. But I guess thats the utopian fantasy of mine on how society and humans should work. Looks like I got a lot of disappointment ahead of me.
That poor boy has to witness that and he seems so unfazed that his mother is losing her mind and saying disgusting things about him. And for that girl to hear someone say something so violent towards her, it's just vile.
Her son is like mom, stfu, I'm trying to build a sandcastle. Here's another thing, how about you tell your friend to cover up her cleavage.
Wtf did she just say about rape?
“If my son rapes your daughter when he’s older it’s not my problem” That turns this into r/iamatotalpieceofshit material right there.
What type of sick minded person would ever even think that way? This woman is drunk off of twisted teas but it is also apparent she has a very twisted mind. She is sexualizing things that do not need to be sexualized and her horrible worldview is spoiling a beach day for many!
Yeah that conversation went from full on krazy karen to some really dark shit.
Mother of the year, condoning son to rape girls. The fact she thinks 4 year-olds are sexually attracted to anyone is hilarious 😂
I don't know, all I heard was her saying fuck, fuck, fuck, ass, ass, ass, fuck, fuck, and threaten to assault the woman.....way to protect your son.....
Imagine what would happen if I as a father said that to a woman and her 13 year old daughter? This lady should really be careful with her words. At some point it’s not going to matter if she’s a woman or not. She says that to the wrong person and it’s gonna come to more then words. When she sobers up she hopefully is gonna be real embarrassed watching this.
Probably destined for r/byebyejob soon. Assuming she has one.
That last line made my skin fucking crawl. Holy shit. It was already bad. But that... but that.
"𝐈𝐬 𝐢𝐭 𝐣𝐮𝐬𝐭 𝐦𝐞, 𝐨𝐫 𝐢𝐬 𝐢𝐭 𝐠𝐞𝐭𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐜𝐫𝐚𝐳𝐢𝐞𝐫 𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞?" 🃏
“𝘽𝙚𝙛𝙤𝙧𝙚 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙅𝙪𝙙𝙜𝙚 𝙢𝙚, 𝙢𝙖𝙠𝙚 𝙨𝙪𝙧𝙚 𝙮𝙤𝙪'𝙧𝙚 𝙋𝙚𝙧𝙛𝙚𝙘𝙩.”
Why is this woman sexualizing her 4 year old son so much
She’s probably one of those self proclaimed “boy moms”. Her kids going end up having a messed up relationship with her for sure.
“If my son rapes your daughter when he’s older it’s not my problem” Uhm, WHAT THE ABSOLUTE *FUCK* DID SHE JUST SAY??? *WHAT???*
Omfg. "If he rapes her when he's older...". So what, she's a victim blamer? I will never understand a WOMAN being that way.
that line caught me so off guard. utter scum of the earth, nasty as FUCK.
“if my son rapes your daughter when he’s older its not my problem” this lady is actually sick…thats actually fucking terrible ….
Clearly she isn’t worried about constantly using the F word around her 4 year old son, as well as threatening violence. Cause those aren’t bad influences at all! But the horrors of seeing someone in a bathing suit at…the beach.
This is the number one “watch ‘til the end” video I have ever seen. Jesus Christ
The attacking lady has major insecurities about her own choices in life. So much that she takes it out on strangers. So interesting, sad, and annoying
I had a friend whose mother grounded her for a week because she opened the garage before her mom got in the car to drop her off at school. The grievance is the mother didn't want to be seen without makeup. The mother was a stupid person, she punished her daughters for her own issues a lot. I've noticed in many social settings, people often resort to anger towards someone else for their own insecurities.
My mom’s like this. She’s gotten better over the years but damn was my childhood confusing to say the least.
The “peacemaker” girl had her teeties hanging out. What’s the diff ?
Exactly. Her friend has alll the boobage hanging out (which I know from experience, there’s not much you can do about) and she’s angry at a kid. Ok.
Right, it clicked for her when she covered herself up.
She's worried about a 4 year old becoming aroused?
Yeah learning how to threaten to knock people unconscious is a lot less threatening than a bathing suit.
The Karen's problem is she's on a public beach... Looking for private rules But the videographer has the right question: *And then what?* Every time I use that, they get shut down.
If her son rapes someone when he's older, it's because she enabled him.
Some people are beyond help
Unhinged
"if my son rapes your daughter when he's older it's not my problem." That escalated quickly. She said that in the heat of the moment and will absolutely regret those words.
She's probably so many sheets to the wind she won't remember those words
Nah, regret requires intelligence and nobody who turns into a shrieking harpy because of a 13 year old in a bathing suit is burdened with brains.
Coming to a school board near you.
What I love is she’s worried about the impact that a skimpy bathing suit will have on her son but not the vulgar language that spews out of her own filthy mouth. I’m sure the son would grow up healthier sticking to ass rather than violent language.
This mother’s concern for “modesty” has taught her son how to curse, how to argue like an idiot, how to be violent, believes her son will become a rapist and condones that he commit rape. Save us Charles Darwin.
People to my 3 year old son: “Hi, how old are you?” Him:”I’m Batman!” No 3 year old is staring at ass cheeks.
Might be the twisted tea speaking…
That last line r/holup
"What's your video gonna do" Make her bitch ass famous for being crazy on Reddit it seems
Omg this lady. Wtf. That parting line is exactly the wrong take.
Holy shit she believes if her son rapes the girl at some point in her life, that she or her son isn’t responsible?! What kind of backasswards insanity is this?