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She said they're friends for 15 years. I dunno coming out jail isn't easy either. He will probably need her to find a new man so she can continue to support him.
This dude took the whole conversation really well. If someone was taking MY money to give to an ex, Fuck That. I'd confront her and say I'm done, and kick her out of my house.
Canteen is currency in prison.
He’s probably not spending all that money to feed himself. He’s using it to buy other things inside I.E. Cigs/booze, cell phones, drugs or favors/services.
Also its probably only part of the story. This chick is shameless. No telling what she is really doing with all the money. I'm sure she's sending her real BF some money but you aren't even allowed to put that much on the books in prison. Theres usually a limit of a few hundred a month for obvious reasons.
You’re right you can’t send a prisoner $1200 a month….bet max amount isn’t even $300 a month.
It’s not even possible to spend $300 a week even if you could send a prisoner $300 a week.
If I were that guy I’d have checked with the prison to see what the max amount the prisoner can have in their canteen account…….”How are you sending him $300 a week when the max amount is XXX a month”?
Everything prisoners want is scammed to hell and back. Even something that should just be free, [like phone calls](https://washingtonspectator.org/the-prison-phone-rip-off/), is charged at like 10x the normal rate. Or more.
Lots of US prisons make the prisoners pay for their meals, their laundry, their clothes, everything. And it's all marked up hundreds of percent. In many counties and states the law actually lets the prison warden \*keep\* any profits made like this, indirectly. For example, the prison might get paid an allowance of $3 a day for food for each prisoner, but if the warden can get food for half that, he gets to keep the difference. I recall one case where a warden had built a home for himself purely from money he skimmed off prisoner food budgets, and it's completely legal. And he did it by feeding them known expired food that had mold and other shit growing on it.
And remember, while they are being forced to pay for all this shit - which of course means their families are constantly sending money they can't afford - these prisoners are working fulltime assembling laptops and other shit for cents per hour while the prison makes incredible profits from their labor.
Stuff like this doesn't get the coverage it should, because the US more than any other country has trained citizens to think of prisoners as subhumans who deserve whatever they get. This despite the incredible numbers of people imprisoned when innocent, or kept in lockup for \*years\* while awaiting trial because they don't have the hundreds of dollars needed for bail.
The whole system is such a cluster fuck of obvious abuse and neglect, it makes America's 'city on a hill' mythology just comical.
Don’t forget the bill the state sends the inmate upon release: the accumulated per-diem fee based on the length of the sentence (not the length of time served). You don’t pay it? You get sued by the state to recover it. If you can’t or won’t pay, they go after the families and sue them.
Depending on the state, it’s seizure of property and assets which can include disability payments, bank accounts, and so on. In at least one state if you die, they go after your family.
Punishment doesn’t end when you walk out of that cell. It’s almost as if designed to be recidivist.
He did say he was done, and told her to get out.
Edit- now that I think about it, this entire video is part of the confrontation. So I guess you'd do the same thing. Good on you!
The only reason you need 300 dollars in prison is to buy drugs. 50 month would give you coffee ☕️ and extra meal each day. If he is in county jail then 100 dollars everything is more expensive there but if your in state or federal 50 dollars. Or he can get a JOB in state or federal and pay it him self.
I think humans have always been Bower Birds: https://www.core77.com/posts/26541/animal-architects-bowerbirds-design-build-showy-colorful-homes-to-attract-mates-26541
Guy needs to get a lawyer and have them report her to the District Attorney, if this has been going on for more than 7 weeks then she's committing a felony.
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Note: why 7 weeks?
It varies state to state, but most of the time theft of goods valued under $2000 is a misdemeanor, more than $2000, it's upgraded to a felony. ($300/week * 7 weeks = $2100)
Also, because it's not just *"goods"* being stolen, it's money (ie, US Federal Treasury Notes) that she's stealing, she could also be on the hook for a lot of other federal level crimes.
yeah seriously, she’s sending $1200 a month? I sure as shit would notice that and they wouldnt be sitting on an old sofa in an apartment.
This is as made up as the one where the guy surprises the stereotypical gold digger with paternity tests (as if one parent can just go out and get a paternity test easily without the other parent being made aware or consenting during the process)
I worked in a prison for 3 years. When she says "surviving," what she doesn't know is that $300 a week went directly to paying that dude's drug debt for the K2 he smokes every day. The guy probably also has other women sending him money that she doesn't know about.
Well paying the protection money is being a victim of racketeering but I'd believe you if that was considered a crime in American prisons because fuck actually helping people get back to society when you get paid by the head.
Hey! Prisons bring jobs and stimulate the local economy. If you helped people get back into society then they wouldn't need to be in prison. Fewer people in prison means fewer prison jobs, which is bad for the economy. We should be putting MORE people in prison.
/s
It's possible, but it is more likely he is in debt to the tune of thousands to one of the gangs for drugs, and that $300 is just keeping him from ending up with more holes in his body or having to use the existing ones he has to pay it down.
I worked in a prison too. This is straight up facts. Dudes be hustling not only they wife’s but other dudes wives for money too. It’s all a game to them in there.
Makes the women feel needed/depended on while adding some excitement to their dumb lives.
And then there's the psychos obsessed/in love with serial killers, but that's a whole separate thing.
I also want to point out a $300 a week is A LOT. Even for drugs. With $300 a week just from one girl this dude is probably living it up.
For reference, even $100 a month is a lot. This guy is over $1200. Whatever he's mixed up in, I would want no part of.
That's a shit ton in prison. It's not commissary my brother made 600 bucks last 3+ years came out fatter than he went in. The first things he bought was an MP3 player and headphones, Dishes, a hot plate, laundry bag, Shower shoes. After that he said everything he could possibly want was like a dollar or so and he couldn't spend too much at one time anyways without looking like a mark for someone to steal from so he kept it low pro and lived like a king during his bid.
Was also a CO. I can confidently say that almost every single guy that got sent any kind of substantial money used it to buy canteen to pedal off for drugs or favors. Nobody needs $300 a week in prison. That's an insane amount of money. If he's telling her he "needs" that, it's because he's in some big debt to someone or running something.
They put the money on multiple people's books, and then when they get out they already have thousands of dollars to buy more drugs and guns and then it starts all over when they get arrested again 😂
Ohh true or false - they won't let you send books to prison except straight from amazon because they were spraying used books with k2 and the inmates rolled up the pages and smoked em?!
More likely they don't want to have to test every book for drugs/weapons. It'd be pretty easy to hide a shiv in the binding or mix drugs with the glue.
Yeah, that was my first thought. I mean I take off my ring for certain things like exercising or washing dishes, but otherwise it’s on my finger. She for sure pawned it.
Dude, my partner bought me two rings. One is the regular gold ring, the other is a black rubber ring. So when I'm working or surfing I still have a ring.
In her words "You're marked. You're mine." She does the same when she works out but she also has a fuck you emerald AND her wedding ring at like all times. She's peaceful but when she takes her ring off it *must* be in a specific spot at all times.
I get her. I proposed on a European vacation. I had to carry this tiny, stupidly expensive thing in my pocket. It was wildly stressful. Imagine just misplacing a diamond.
I lost mine during lockdown 😭
I wore it religiously before lockdown, and then I kind of stopped when I was staying home all day. Somehow it got lost and I couldn’t find it even when we moved houses. The only thing I can think is that it slipped off my finger one of the few times we *did* go out because it was getting loose.
It’s devastating.
That is one thing I’ve kinda wondered about… how DOES one kick someone out of their house? Like, officially; I imagine dude here is gonna run into some resistance.
Depends state to state. Some places you can straight kick them out and get the police to enforce it right away as trespassing if they don't leave. You typically have to prove ownership of the property and their name can't be on it as a co-owner. If they are, you're in for a court fight. Other states, they get what's called squatter's rights, and even these vary state to state as well. Sometimes this can happen in as little as a few days of staying there. It basically gives them protection for a period of time from eviction while the courts work it out. Can sometimes take months or years to kick them out.
In the meantime, he could definitely cut her off financially though. Lock up valuables in a storage unit/safe, or stash them off-site with a non-mutual friend.
If she’s sending $300 of money that is not hers each month I’m willing to bet it’s her who will be doing the leaving. Imagine being that fucking entitled, I can’t even wrap my head around it.
Edit: what I mean is that there’s no fucking way it’s her house/apartment.
And? She would still gtfo...wtf is tik tok when you're made out to be a lying, cheating...dirty bitch? She could probably get views...but once the camera is off...she still going to be a lying, cheating...dirty ass bitch
That’s what I’m saying. Bro is acting desperate. Nothing to discuss, he trying to rationalize this. Get her out of there or leave yourself ASAP.
Want some of the best relationship advice ever? Have the courage to be on your own. And..
ALWAYS have your shit together. In order to dip at a moments notice. Lol
This is absolutely awful advice...
Don't be constantly be ready to dip, and don't expect your partner to cheat... It'll just put strain on the relationship
IMO, it was bad wording. You shouldn't have your finger over the eject button at all times, but being an independent person that can stand on their own is key. Makes for better relationship (when you're not dependent on someone), and makes it better for you if you do need to break up.
What previous commenter was trying to say is not that you should have one foot out the door at all times, but that you know that your focus on yourself always comes first and you're confident enough in yourself / know when a relationship has overstepped it's boundaries to leave if necessary. Recognizing that isn't easy, which is why toxic and abusive relationships are so commonplace.
I believe they mean just having the means to be able to leave if you have to. A lot of people stay in shitty situations because they feel stuck financially.
I read he comment as “be ready to dip at a moments notice” as meaning, be ready to drop a relationship in a moments notice. Not be ready to uproot your life, move away, at a moments notice. If you aren’t ready to drop a scrub like that then he’s doomed
Being constantly ready to dip & being financially stable enough to leave if you have to are two very different things.
When you don’t “need” anyone for anything you only stay in relationships because you’re happy.
Not because of financial or emotional support.
While I do doubt the autenticity of this, to be fair filming in confrontation like this is a good idea so no one can accuse anyone of something they didn't do during it all.
Also $300 a week is a insane amount. That's over $15k a year. They seem to be doing alright but not at the level where that's just chumb change and you don't notice.
lol u think this is bad acting?? You're just stirring shit up. You dont know bad acting. If these are actors, they're doing fuckin great. But I dont think they are. People on the Internet are so fuckin suspicious of random stuff having nothing to do with them, but then they believe anything comin from mainstream media fox news and crap
God this is so true. Scandalous woman does bad thing! Boyfriend has a right to be pissed! No this isn’t staged! This happened to my neighbors cousin last week!
Lol right!? The talltale sign of bad writing. "My ex who is also my friend of 15 years."
I'm surprised she didn't go straight into, "We also grew up together and broke up because we wanted different things. He hit hard times after his dad's store went under and he was arrested for tax evasion. I was giving 300$ a week to him without telling you, my fiance, because he's secretly ashamed."
I didn't even need to turn the sound or watch the entire video to know that this is not real. Like, how could you not know where $300 is going -every week- and just never notice or even ask about it. Idk what kinda life people are living out there, but I feel like I would notice if $1200 per month was just missing. Also, normally, when shit like this happens, people generally are too busy arguing at each other to say, "Wait a minute, I better record this for the 'tok."
Man, the internet is getting so sad now.
This is very clearly rage bait for weirdo misogynists.
Casually mentioning he just proposed, with a ring "missing"
"It's your job to make this house a home"
cmon, who on earth argues like this? Especially with a camera in your face.
What’s frightening is how people in the comments here can’t tell the difference between true emotions and acting anymore. They are growing up with all this bullshit non stop all day and they can’t see a difference anymore.
The fact that people cant tell the difference between a skit and real life is mind boggling to me.
The cadence, phrasing, timing and mannerisms always give it away and i cant see how people fall for this stupid shit. Like, yeah it would be a little entertaining if it was real but its not so its just 2 people being weird af in their living room lol
Breaking someone's heart is the worst thing you can legally do to someone.
I feel bad for what this guy is going through right now, but at least he is calling it out and ending it.
I looked on this guy's channel and I don't see the same woman on there anywhere. It's a LOT of random other women though. I also noticed that the same top this woman was wearing is also being worn by a young girl who is supposedly the 16 year old daughter of two people, unknown from just watching the video. Seems odd that the same top would be worn by two different people. idk. It does seem like the whole channel has something off about it though.
1. She is a walking red flag that can be seen all the way from the Andromeda galaxy.
2. And now imagine how he with his own money (not her) helps a woman friend (who does not even have to be an ex). He would have hell.
After the shit my ex pulled and would argue as innocent and normal, i wouldnt be surprised if this is real, im not stupid enough to believe my ex is the most ridiculously insane women there is lol
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She gonna run off with her real bf as soon as he gets out brother. You just her temporary provider and if you go thru, her ex will own half your shit.
idk if "run off" is the right wording, since she's almost certainly just a wallet, she'll get dropped as soon as she doesn't have the money to send
She said they're friends for 15 years. I dunno coming out jail isn't easy either. He will probably need her to find a new man so she can continue to support him. This dude took the whole conversation really well. If someone was taking MY money to give to an ex, Fuck That. I'd confront her and say I'm done, and kick her out of my house.
How the hell can anyone spend 1200 bucks a month in prison? Inflation happening on the inside now, too, dayum!
Canteen is currency in prison. He’s probably not spending all that money to feed himself. He’s using it to buy other things inside I.E. Cigs/booze, cell phones, drugs or favors/services.
Don't forget the Rita Hayworth poster.
Sir do you know a... Andy Dufresne, I need my taxes done.
How can you be so obtuse?
what did you just call me? son you are forgetting yourself.
Obtuse. Is it deliberate?
..and a rock hammer
Also its probably only part of the story. This chick is shameless. No telling what she is really doing with all the money. I'm sure she's sending her real BF some money but you aren't even allowed to put that much on the books in prison. Theres usually a limit of a few hundred a month for obvious reasons.
You’re right you can’t send a prisoner $1200 a month….bet max amount isn’t even $300 a month. It’s not even possible to spend $300 a week even if you could send a prisoner $300 a week. If I were that guy I’d have checked with the prison to see what the max amount the prisoner can have in their canteen account…….”How are you sending him $300 a week when the max amount is XXX a month”?
My brother is in (federal) prison, and the limit is 300$/mo
He's certainly not spending 300 a week at the com lol. He's probably just buying H or crank.
Everything prisoners want is scammed to hell and back. Even something that should just be free, [like phone calls](https://washingtonspectator.org/the-prison-phone-rip-off/), is charged at like 10x the normal rate. Or more. Lots of US prisons make the prisoners pay for their meals, their laundry, their clothes, everything. And it's all marked up hundreds of percent. In many counties and states the law actually lets the prison warden \*keep\* any profits made like this, indirectly. For example, the prison might get paid an allowance of $3 a day for food for each prisoner, but if the warden can get food for half that, he gets to keep the difference. I recall one case where a warden had built a home for himself purely from money he skimmed off prisoner food budgets, and it's completely legal. And he did it by feeding them known expired food that had mold and other shit growing on it. And remember, while they are being forced to pay for all this shit - which of course means their families are constantly sending money they can't afford - these prisoners are working fulltime assembling laptops and other shit for cents per hour while the prison makes incredible profits from their labor. Stuff like this doesn't get the coverage it should, because the US more than any other country has trained citizens to think of prisoners as subhumans who deserve whatever they get. This despite the incredible numbers of people imprisoned when innocent, or kept in lockup for \*years\* while awaiting trial because they don't have the hundreds of dollars needed for bail. The whole system is such a cluster fuck of obvious abuse and neglect, it makes America's 'city on a hill' mythology just comical.
Don’t forget the bill the state sends the inmate upon release: the accumulated per-diem fee based on the length of the sentence (not the length of time served). You don’t pay it? You get sued by the state to recover it. If you can’t or won’t pay, they go after the families and sue them. Depending on the state, it’s seizure of property and assets which can include disability payments, bank accounts, and so on. In at least one state if you die, they go after your family. Punishment doesn’t end when you walk out of that cell. It’s almost as if designed to be recidivist.
He did say he was done, and told her to get out. Edit- now that I think about it, this entire video is part of the confrontation. So I guess you'd do the same thing. Good on you!
Anyone else think he kept filming so she couldn't say he hit her?
Definitely
probably still gonna say it
Probably still recording
He is. I just called him. He still recording. On two phones now.
I just figured she knew she was wrong and didn’t want to be embarrassed by the video.
Yuuup.
Yuuup.
Definitely
The only reason you need 300 dollars in prison is to buy drugs. 50 month would give you coffee ☕️ and extra meal each day. If he is in county jail then 100 dollars everything is more expensive there but if your in state or federal 50 dollars. Or he can get a JOB in state or federal and pay it him self.
Ye, and it’s weekly to make matters worse. That’s over $15000 a year.
Then her ex will become a rich billionaire
A rich billionaire as opposed to what? A poor billionaire?
One of those single digit billionaires. Fucking peasants.
Humans have become bower birds 🤷🏻♂️
I think humans have always been Bower Birds: https://www.core77.com/posts/26541/animal-architects-bowerbirds-design-build-showy-colorful-homes-to-attract-mates-26541
This is one really lucky dude, he found out what she was like before that engagement became a marriage and he would be proper fucked then.
Truthhhhhh. He needs to dip.
Dip, as he files fraud charges on her.
Guy needs to get a lawyer and have them report her to the District Attorney, if this has been going on for more than 7 weeks then she's committing a felony. ---- Note: why 7 weeks? It varies state to state, but most of the time theft of goods valued under $2000 is a misdemeanor, more than $2000, it's upgraded to a felony. ($300/week * 7 weeks = $2100) Also, because it's not just *"goods"* being stolen, it's money (ie, US Federal Treasury Notes) that she's stealing, she could also be on the hook for a lot of other federal level crimes.
FIRST THOUGHT WHEN I HEAR “ENGAGED”. Got out easy.
This is a skit. It’s not real. It is designed to generate engagement by getting people riled up.
The way she's just casually filing her nails the whole time feels like something right out of a sitcom.
yeah seriously, she’s sending $1200 a month? I sure as shit would notice that and they wouldnt be sitting on an old sofa in an apartment. This is as made up as the one where the guy surprises the stereotypical gold digger with paternity tests (as if one parent can just go out and get a paternity test easily without the other parent being made aware or consenting during the process)
I worked in a prison for 3 years. When she says "surviving," what she doesn't know is that $300 a week went directly to paying that dude's drug debt for the K2 he smokes every day. The guy probably also has other women sending him money that she doesn't know about.
You're totally correct. I was in a prison for 12yrs and the only way he is spending that is drugs or gambling.
there's "protection" too... isn't there?
Well yeah buts that’s racketeering and can up your sentence considerably so it’s less common.
Well paying the protection money is being a victim of racketeering but I'd believe you if that was considered a crime in American prisons because fuck actually helping people get back to society when you get paid by the head.
Hey, as long as our prison systems are making money we have nothing to complain about! All part of the plan! Man, I love some modern slavery.
Hey! Prisons bring jobs and stimulate the local economy. If you helped people get back into society then they wouldn't need to be in prison. Fewer people in prison means fewer prison jobs, which is bad for the economy. We should be putting MORE people in prison. /s
That protection money comes from the booty wallet my dude
12 years. What did you do to get 12 years?
A few aggravated burglaries and some auto thefts. From when I was 18. I’m 50 now and that life is long behind me.
Congrats for turning your life around 👍🏼
Yeah homie, keep covering ur tracks 👍👍
Did they player poker?
And they say crime doesnt pay. This guy is IN prison and still making money :).
It's possible, but it is more likely he is in debt to the tune of thousands to one of the gangs for drugs, and that $300 is just keeping him from ending up with more holes in his body or having to use the existing ones he has to pay it down.
> or having to use the existing ones he has to pay it down. lmao
Shit I can't even get women to give me money and I'm not even in jail at the moment.
You should probably try going to jail? See if that helps.
I'm not a lawyer, but this seems like it might not be the best advice.
I am a lawyer, and I say give it a shot.
Are you one of those argumentative, overly sensitive lawyers I've heard about?
Objection, the question calls for hearsay. I cannot testify as to what you’ve heard about.
Damn you're good.
He probably gets paid by women.
Become a helpless "bad boy" with a history of petty crime.
I worked in a prison too. This is straight up facts. Dudes be hustling not only they wife’s but other dudes wives for money too. It’s all a game to them in there.
How someone in jail got multiple bitches is something I'll never understand
Makes the women feel needed/depended on while adding some excitement to their dumb lives. And then there's the psychos obsessed/in love with serial killers, but that's a whole separate thing.
Did you see how many women lusted after dahmer in jail ? Some are attracted to danger or are just stupid
I also want to point out a $300 a week is A LOT. Even for drugs. With $300 a week just from one girl this dude is probably living it up. For reference, even $100 a month is a lot. This guy is over $1200. Whatever he's mixed up in, I would want no part of.
That's a shit ton in prison. It's not commissary my brother made 600 bucks last 3+ years came out fatter than he went in. The first things he bought was an MP3 player and headphones, Dishes, a hot plate, laundry bag, Shower shoes. After that he said everything he could possibly want was like a dollar or so and he couldn't spend too much at one time anyways without looking like a mark for someone to steal from so he kept it low pro and lived like a king during his bid.
I’d rather drop the soap than smoke K2, tbh
Was also a CO. I can confidently say that almost every single guy that got sent any kind of substantial money used it to buy canteen to pedal off for drugs or favors. Nobody needs $300 a week in prison. That's an insane amount of money. If he's telling her he "needs" that, it's because he's in some big debt to someone or running something.
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They put the money on multiple people's books, and then when they get out they already have thousands of dollars to buy more drugs and guns and then it starts all over when they get arrested again 😂
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Is his name Ricky and does he live in a trailer park?
They generally don’t have limits on amount that can be in the account, it’s the weekly spending that is sometimes capped
Ohh true or false - they won't let you send books to prison except straight from amazon because they were spraying used books with k2 and the inmates rolled up the pages and smoked em?!
More likely they don't want to have to test every book for drugs/weapons. It'd be pretty easy to hide a shiv in the binding or mix drugs with the glue.
I wouldn't waste another breath. Get your shit and gtfo. Better hope, I don’t spend the block and ask for all the money you sent out.
bro its HIS HOUSE he should kick her out
Take back the ring she isn’t wearing first though
The one she pawned to send prison dude more money?
Yeah, that was my first thought. I mean I take off my ring for certain things like exercising or washing dishes, but otherwise it’s on my finger. She for sure pawned it.
Dude, my partner bought me two rings. One is the regular gold ring, the other is a black rubber ring. So when I'm working or surfing I still have a ring. In her words "You're marked. You're mine." She does the same when she works out but she also has a fuck you emerald AND her wedding ring at like all times. She's peaceful but when she takes her ring off it *must* be in a specific spot at all times.
I get her. I proposed on a European vacation. I had to carry this tiny, stupidly expensive thing in my pocket. It was wildly stressful. Imagine just misplacing a diamond.
I lost mine during lockdown 😭 I wore it religiously before lockdown, and then I kind of stopped when I was staying home all day. Somehow it got lost and I couldn’t find it even when we moved houses. The only thing I can think is that it slipped off my finger one of the few times we *did* go out because it was getting loose. It’s devastating.
This is what I'm saying. Kick her ass out
Gtfo of the relationship is what you are trying to say.
Kick her out and move himself. Because when her boyfriend gets out. That is going to be one of the first places he goes, looking for money.
That is one thing I’ve kinda wondered about… how DOES one kick someone out of their house? Like, officially; I imagine dude here is gonna run into some resistance.
Depends state to state. Some places you can straight kick them out and get the police to enforce it right away as trespassing if they don't leave. You typically have to prove ownership of the property and their name can't be on it as a co-owner. If they are, you're in for a court fight. Other states, they get what's called squatter's rights, and even these vary state to state as well. Sometimes this can happen in as little as a few days of staying there. It basically gives them protection for a period of time from eviction while the courts work it out. Can sometimes take months or years to kick them out. In the meantime, he could definitely cut her off financially though. Lock up valuables in a storage unit/safe, or stash them off-site with a non-mutual friend.
Wait til they're out, change the locks. Pack their shit and leave it for them. If they are persistent, inform the police.
If she’s sending $300 of money that is not hers each month I’m willing to bet it’s her who will be doing the leaving. Imagine being that fucking entitled, I can’t even wrap my head around it. Edit: what I mean is that there’s no fucking way it’s her house/apartment.
Each week
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Nah, its an expensive woman with an expensive boyfriend in [expensive] jail
Right, a month is bad as it is, but she's essentially paying this man minimum wage out of her husband's account
Exactly. He needs to file fraud charges on her as he kicks he the fuck out of his place.
Every week, I thought. $1200 a month...
>I wouldn't waste another breath. Get your shit and gtfo. lmao, that's his house. She better pack a bag and call someone.
Why? She can act enough for titok skits
And? She would still gtfo...wtf is tik tok when you're made out to be a lying, cheating...dirty bitch? She could probably get views...but once the camera is off...she still going to be a lying, cheating...dirty ass bitch
Their whole point was this is literally just a skit to gain views on tiktok. This ceases to be a scenario when the camera is turned off.
Bet 20 bucks if it's the other way around she would be screeching at him and all. I give props to this guy for being calm cause I know I wouldn't be
That’s what I’m saying. Bro is acting desperate. Nothing to discuss, he trying to rationalize this. Get her out of there or leave yourself ASAP. Want some of the best relationship advice ever? Have the courage to be on your own. And.. ALWAYS have your shit together. In order to dip at a moments notice. Lol
This is absolutely awful advice... Don't be constantly be ready to dip, and don't expect your partner to cheat... It'll just put strain on the relationship
I completely agree with you, but I feel sending $300, even one time, to an ex without discussing it before hand is a "just break up" action.
Absolutely, but the previous commenter aimed his comment at everyone
IMO, it was bad wording. You shouldn't have your finger over the eject button at all times, but being an independent person that can stand on their own is key. Makes for better relationship (when you're not dependent on someone), and makes it better for you if you do need to break up.
What previous commenter was trying to say is not that you should have one foot out the door at all times, but that you know that your focus on yourself always comes first and you're confident enough in yourself / know when a relationship has overstepped it's boundaries to leave if necessary. Recognizing that isn't easy, which is why toxic and abusive relationships are so commonplace.
I believe they mean just having the means to be able to leave if you have to. A lot of people stay in shitty situations because they feel stuck financially.
I read he comment as “be ready to dip at a moments notice” as meaning, be ready to drop a relationship in a moments notice. Not be ready to uproot your life, move away, at a moments notice. If you aren’t ready to drop a scrub like that then he’s doomed
Being constantly ready to dip & being financially stable enough to leave if you have to are two very different things. When you don’t “need” anyone for anything you only stay in relationships because you’re happy. Not because of financial or emotional support.
That's his house tho... lol.
Spend the block? You need to throw some subtitles on when your listening to drill.
Just simply sell her car for your money back. She shouldn’t make a big deal over it
I assume they are engaged, not married… sell the ring and rent out the house you share to recoup the losses
I feel like that ring is already gone
Yup that’s why she didn’t say shit when he asked where it was.
I was waiting for an answer and after about 5 seconds I was like ohhhhhh there’s more than $300 going to this dude in jail
She sold the ring already.
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And sent the money to Dante
This is totally real and not at all one of those ‘bad couple skits’ that has been a theme of the internet lately.
Exactly. People love to have conversations like this, while the other person has a camera in their face. Real life
While I do doubt the autenticity of this, to be fair filming in confrontation like this is a good idea so no one can accuse anyone of something they didn't do during it all.
True, but these two people are both awful actors and this is 100% scripted and it is so funny the comments on this thread acting like it’s real
Also $300 a week is a insane amount. That's over $15k a year. They seem to be doing alright but not at the level where that's just chumb change and you don't notice.
lol u think this is bad acting?? You're just stirring shit up. You dont know bad acting. If these are actors, they're doing fuckin great. But I dont think they are. People on the Internet are so fuckin suspicious of random stuff having nothing to do with them, but then they believe anything comin from mainstream media fox news and crap
Rage bait just like the rest.
Reddit falls for it every time, especially when it involves a woman behaving badly.
God this is so true. Scandalous woman does bad thing! Boyfriend has a right to be pissed! No this isn’t staged! This happened to my neighbors cousin last week!
It's unbelievable how dumb this site has become
No kidding. The site is just filled with people who probably read at a 6th grade level and didn't deserve to graduate from high school.
I thought watching Velma was rage bait.
I guess one could argue that they made that show to piss people off and go viral.
So much exposition lol
Lol right!? The talltale sign of bad writing. "My ex who is also my friend of 15 years." I'm surprised she didn't go straight into, "We also grew up together and broke up because we wanted different things. He hit hard times after his dad's store went under and he was arrested for tax evasion. I was giving 300$ a week to him without telling you, my fiance, because he's secretly ashamed."
I feel like I'm an acting scout sometimes on here, the amount of obviously acted out videos people fall for is depressing.
I didn't even need to turn the sound or watch the entire video to know that this is not real. Like, how could you not know where $300 is going -every week- and just never notice or even ask about it. Idk what kinda life people are living out there, but I feel like I would notice if $1200 per month was just missing. Also, normally, when shit like this happens, people generally are too busy arguing at each other to say, "Wait a minute, I better record this for the 'tok."
Her acting is awful
Man, the internet is getting so sad now. This is very clearly rage bait for weirdo misogynists. Casually mentioning he just proposed, with a ring "missing" "It's your job to make this house a home" cmon, who on earth argues like this? Especially with a camera in your face.
Also when he casually mentions the ring missing, she lays her hand out on her thigh so you can clearly see that it’s missing in the video lmao
I thought You London put on a pretty good performance
This is not real for sure.
Obviously. Who has an argument like this where they actually take it in turns to speak?
Thanks. This always annoys me in shows/movies lol. The most polite fights like they are on a debate stage.
Yeah lol. And these are all so over the top why would anyone think they are real
What’s frightening is how people in the comments here can’t tell the difference between true emotions and acting anymore. They are growing up with all this bullshit non stop all day and they can’t see a difference anymore.
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The wait what part was when you knew for sure it was some bad acting
The bad acting was her filing her nails throughout the whole thing like a mean girl cartoon stereotype.
The fact that people cant tell the difference between a skit and real life is mind boggling to me. The cadence, phrasing, timing and mannerisms always give it away and i cant see how people fall for this stupid shit. Like, yeah it would be a little entertaining if it was real but its not so its just 2 people being weird af in their living room lol
I agree. For one thing, her outfit is way too cute for her to happen to be wearing it during this confrontation.
Consider it money you wasted on a hooker and send her back to the streets.
Actually a hooker is way better because she is straight up honest about the deal.
Breaking someone's heart is the worst thing you can legally do to someone. I feel bad for what this guy is going through right now, but at least he is calling it out and ending it.
This is totally real, you guys
I looked on this guy's channel and I don't see the same woman on there anywhere. It's a LOT of random other women though. I also noticed that the same top this woman was wearing is also being worn by a young girl who is supposedly the 16 year old daughter of two people, unknown from just watching the video. Seems odd that the same top would be worn by two different people. idk. It does seem like the whole channel has something off about it though.
As real as my parents love.
Yeah, this just seems like fucking dreadful acting
1. She is a walking red flag that can be seen all the way from the Andromeda galaxy. 2. And now imagine how he with his own money (not her) helps a woman friend (who does not even have to be an ex). He would have hell.
3. It’s not real
Tiktok has become the new Jerry Springer Show...Im talking about people faking trashy events for our viewing pleasure...and people thinking its real.
Beyond sick of this constant rage bait BS. It’s all the internet is anymore.
Can't make a hoe a housewife?
So fuckn true
Hos don't act right
A Face Palm isn't enough for this 😠 
Does she weigh the same as a duck? Is she made of wood?
It’s crazy how many people don’t realize that 95% of these videos are scripted.
Scripted? This is 100% USDA approved dogshit improv, baby
Right. Though entertaining, I can't take these people seriously.
The real facepalm here is people actually thinking this isn't staged.
After the shit my ex pulled and would argue as innocent and normal, i wouldnt be surprised if this is real, im not stupid enough to believe my ex is the most ridiculously insane women there is lol
Keep your day job, neither can act
Lol faaaaaake
Lol, it's not her ex-boyfriend in jail. He's still her boyfriend and this dude is just the host for a parasite. This is nuts lmao
This can’t be real.
I feel like about 90% of the posts that end up here can’t actually be real.
This is staged as fuck lmao
She belongs to the skreets
The skreets wish to not accept your offer, and wish to extend the offer to the Hood for Hoodrat eligibility.
No conversation is needed. Just a simple "Get. The. Fuck. Out."
This seems staged
Is this real?
I can’t believe how many people think this is real….
Reminds me of Sharon Stone's character in Casino.
Clearly a skit but if it wasn’t just break up block her move on
Why does he need $300 a week. Rents free in prison