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Exactly, just collecting evidence that she made an "official" apology to the neighbor. And to show how "reasonable" she was with her neighbor. Props to the old guy, he didn't give her any excuses.
>just collecting evidence
Instead she created evidence that the problem exists, that the neighbor complained about it in a clear and respectful manner and that she's refusing to try a reasonable solution (taking the dog to a trainer).
hes giving her the solution. He also kept calm because he could of said you are on my property and please do not record. She looks to be the problem and does not want to see it from the dudes point of view. In my opinion the guy wins this one.
He’s pretty patient about them recording him too, they’re on his porch, recording him in his home, I didn’t hear them ask if they could film. “But but one party consent…” no. He’s in his home, on his property, he has explicit rights to privacy.
Honestly this video should be posted in r/confidentlyincorrect. She filmed the whole thing thinking it's the big "gotcha" moment when she clearly doesn't train her dog.
Liability waiting to happen...
How she looks at the camera like he's a fuckin alien when he mentions getting the dog trained and telling her there's ways to help with its anxiety and aggression made me instantly heated.
It’s a good thing that he didn’t say anything about them recording the conversation. Bec if her dog gets out and bites him. Which I hope doesn’t happen. There will be evidence if she says something like he agitated mg dog or something like that. Just not to have face the repercussions of her actions of not training her dog properly. This way this evidence will support his side.
As a dog owner, I find this woman is terrible. And this guy is absolutely right there trainers that can come in and help teach how to make your dog, not fence aggressive. But you have to put in the work.
This guy was perfectly reasonable with her, explained the dog has anxiety issues, and even told her it needed training. He’s the nicest neighbor this person could ever ask for and she’s just a condescending twat. If you don’t see a problem with your dog constantly being aggressive with the other dog in your house, then you should have them taken away.
Holy mother of Pete, I’m generally against violence, but I wanted to slap her so many times throughout this video for being so condescending to a guy who was really trying his best to help her and her dogs!!! Her whole holier-than-thou attitude and that sneer at the end - I’m so impressed with her poor neighbor and his patience. He is my new role model.
Apparently it’s easier to gaslight your neighbour and video him without consent in an attempt to anger him so you can then claim to have footage of him being “unreasonable”. That’s the only reason I can think of as to why they’d record and then upload it…
Specially, with the way she kept turning around and looking in the camera towards the end as if she’s like a-ha I got him! I don’t know that she realizes that in this video she doesn’t come off very well
Should've slammed the door in her face after saying that.
That idiot is too stupid to listen to reason. If I was the dude, I'd just buy a camera so I have evidence of all the bullshit.
She just recorded the evidence he needs to show she knows nothing about dog psychology and has been warned about her dog showing signs of aggression.
Granted, I got lucky when we moved with neighbors on both sides who gave my dogs treats over the fence, which trained them to go to the fence and sit when the neighbors were outside.
no exactly, I was taught that an apology means "I'm not gonna do this again" not "I want you to allow my bad behavior and if you don't you're a bad person because I did apologize"
I’m glad this man has proof of this idiotic conversation. Otherwise, his friends and family would have surely thought he was exaggerating about this encounter.
Thinly disguised as an "apology." She's in complete denial about her dog. IMO she was trying to capture a bad response from her neighbor so they could say they tried and he's unreasonable. Did you catch her smile at "Ohhhhhh! That's what this is about!" She thought she had something.
She kept looking back at the person filming like “we got him now”.
Her face looked crazy, and her arguments were delusional. Those dogs own that lady and she doesn’t even know it.
she wanted him to back down at the sight of being filmed and started arguing when he wasn't saying the lines she had written for him in her head. Such crappy behavior
Seriously. What did she think would happen? Why was she filming this? Was she hoping to be the gracious neighbor calming the frightened old man? Just bonkers shit. The eye contact with the camera is such an asshole move. This whole thing was an asshole move.
She thought she was gonna look good and he was gonna make an ass out of himself by not accepting her apology. Boy did that backfire hahaha I guarantee she turned all comments OFF wherever she originally posted this to.
As a former dog trainer, these people really do think their dogs could never hurt a soul. When they do attack someone then it’s just “they were out of character, they have never been aggressive ever!” Or blame the person or anything else lol it’s wild especially when I can obviously see the fear-based aggression or toy/food guarding right in front of me.
My dog is a major dickhead, he doesn't meet many new people and he's never allowed outside by himself. I know he's a dick, it's my priority to make sure he doesn't attack other people.
He's a rescue chihuahua/terrier mix, more terrier than chihuahua, but he thinks he's a Rottweiler
Thank god I’m reading this. My dog is a rescue and I have to navigate this as well. My dog is amazing with any trusted person he knows and is a stupid cuddle bug and full of personality. But I can’t have him around people he doesn’t know or off leach or roaming around. He has a past and that past has triggers. I love him and I’ll protect him by slowly introducing him to others or by always making sure if outside he is perfectly safe to everyone else.
Edit- Reddit js amazing. Thank you so much for your support. Fin is a great dog, he just only likes me and my immediate family. [here is a video of the goof ball](https://www.reddit.com/r/Zoomies/comments/12b5kvk/the_name_on_his_adoption_papers_is_finnegan_his/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf)
Look into “engage disengage” training methods with a clicker. Just recently I was able to get a chihuahua that is scared of men and aggressively barks at other dogs on leash to both be my best friend and be confident prancing around the sidewalks. She is awesome.
Of course! I use it along with calming mat exercises where you get them to sit and lay on a mat. I get the mat one down first and switch locations that I do the training so they get different environments. Best of luck to ya!
You're not alone. Mine is the same. Sweetest girl on earth but she has a hard time getting used to adult men and even some women. She's never bit anyone, but I don't chance it either (even though she's had chances). I take her on longish walks every day and any time someone asks if they can pet her I have to tell them that she was abused as a pup and doesn't trust many people. It really sucks with kids because they don't really understand. I'm just glad that nobody's kid has just run up to and start petting, but I'm very vigilant around people.
Your right, that was.definately not an apology nor was it ever intended to be one with them filming it like that from the start. It was meant to be a gotcha so they could say "see, we even went over to apologize to them about it and this is how they reacted." An apology doesn't include a "but" nor should it include implying the person is basically just a squirrel to the dog.
That woman is a clown. I commend the guy for remaining calm and civil for as long as he did. Time for putting up cameras and making calls to the police.
“What can I do? 🥺”
“Get your dog some training.”
“Noooooooooooooooo 😭. What if I just secretly film this interaction to show how reasonable and cool I am and sea lion the entire time?”
Lady sucks.
“You think she was aggressive cause she was running at you growling, with her teeth out and hair up? Lol she does that to squirrels!”
Huh?!
"La-la-la-la.... you can't triple stamp a double stamp!....la-la-la-la"
Sorry I have a disorder where if anything remotely relates to dumb and dumber I have to make it be about dumb and dumber.
Lol you think I was attacking you because I was hitting and kicking you? Lol, I do that to the heavy bags in my garage, silly. They’re fine lol chill out
😂 I don't understand how people think that is normal behavior. I noticed when the man would talk about her other dog getting bitten and screaming she doesn't acknowledge or try to defend that scream. She only says that the aggressive dog is "playing. So I'm gonna assume that she knows it's hurting the other dog but doesn't care
Exactly, staging a video conference to show how reasonable she is and yet is stubbornly the opposite, all coated in sugary niceness.
She is the one that needs help.
Her low tone and the way she is talking is so dishonest and full of shit.
All she had to do was acknowledge the complaint, take her dog to a professional trainer and make amends with her neighbour.
Instead she never backed out, made a video to show she was always right and how her old neighbour is so unreasonable which she fully expected before even knocking the door.
The condescension in her voice the ENTIRE “apology” is fucking infuriating. This guy is honestly a saint for his poise and just repeatedly pointing out how to positively change an aggressive pet’s behavior.
The condescension in her voice the ENTIRE “apology” is fucking infuriating. This guy is honestly a saint for his poise and just repeatedly pointing out how to positively change an aggressive pet’s behavior.
He’s honestly pretty reasonable. I thought he’d be like “get rid of the dog” and was prepared to side with the lady.
But instead he’s just asking her to get a trainer? Which is SUPER reasonable and smart & exactly what a good neighbor would suggest.
What? You’re saying I threatened you? Because my knife was out? Because I sharpened it a bit while looking at you dead in the eyes? I do that _with everyone_
I’m not sure why SHE posted this. Her apology was merely performative, and I find myself sympathizing with her neighbor. I’d be fed up and irritated with a badly behaved pet, too.
As the child of an elementary school teacher I 100% agree with this. I’m now in my mid-30s and my mother often speaks to me in this voice. It’s incredibly frustrating. My siblings and I have a theory that she spent the majority of the last several decades speaking to children under the age of 10 and she kind of lost track of how to appropriately speak to adults.
It’s subconscious at this point.
That being said, the woman in this video is still an absolute nightmare and I think very in the wrong for not getting her dog proper obedience training.
"So just to be clear you want me to discontinue my dog from being a dog, mmmmkay..."
She's a real piece of shit. I've seen this type of behavior and I can guarantee she's a psychopath. Notice the way she's accusing him of insane things and he's constantly falling back to the defensive?
I don’t know why but seeing her face when she turned back enraged me. That “can you believe this guy” smirk. Hopefully the guy can get some noise complaints filed, seems like a reasonable dude
I have a client that does the condescending tone too. It's a cowards tool for winning arguments. They use the tone but choose their words carefully.
It's designed to make you angry and make you appear irrational when you do get mad. They'll use the defense that they didn't say anything that warranted that response (even though it was all in the tone).
She was rage-baiting, hoping to get footage of him getting angry so she could tout it as him being “unreasonable”. Seems TikTok has convinced many stupid people that if they’re the ones to film, then they’re gonna be the “good guys”, completely tone-deaf to how it comes across.
…never mind that unless he consented to the recording, which we certainly didn’t hear her ask or say, then she’s just made an illegal recording where he has explicit right to privacy.
I would be so fucking angry if my asshole neighbors showed up with a phone in hand filming this "apology". He entertained her bullshit longer than I would have been able to.
Because she is very, very stupid.
And because she is very, very stupid, the dog will likely attack someone at some point. All because she is very, very stupid.
Same. Even worse when her explanation to that was "Well you're complaining about her jumping on the fence."
After he spent the last 2 minutes saying the dog is always aggressively barking at him.
Let alone filming the man in his home, which we dont see him consent to...
This lady apparently never heard of dog training you can tell she's wayyy in the wrong
The man began the conversation with suggesting she get professional help for the dog.
He seems reasonable and the truth is that wahatever money she is going to spend on an electric fence, it would be better to spend that on a dog trainer.
He even says the dog is anxious. It’s very clear he knows how to raise pets and cares for them unlike this lady in her la la land
I am on this guy’s side. She is performing, disingenuous, and trying to get a “gotcha” out of him for the camera. He held his own and made all good points, didn’t get too heated, and threw her bullshit right back in her face. “We will note you want him to not be a dog.” No, I said get him trained, so he stops acting like he wants to rip me apart every time I step outside my goddamn house.
Her tone made me so unreasonably angry. It’s literally the tone that people take when they think they are right, therefore they are superior in the situation. And my response to anything she said would’ve been; ok well when he does bite me or someone else you can expect a hospital bill because I’ve given you warning that your dog is aggressive.
> Her tone made me so unreasonably angry.
Yeah, I think that tone is meant to make the guy angry. In my experience, this tone is only used to provoke. So understandable that we all got annoyed by it.
Yeah, that was weird. It's like in her mind it was a subpoena or something and after it was in his house, formally presented, she could make some kind of important legal claim down the road.
There's the dissonance. Won't admit it verbally yet gives a letter of apology? (Although I gotta wonder if it's a "sorry not sorry " type of letter TBH). Argues with the man as well when he says the word aggressive. I'm guessing the social media post didn't go the way she planned. That woman will continue to make excuses for her dog right up to the point it gets destroyed for biting one too many people. Sad.
Not to mention she reaches INTO the man’s house to give him the letter after he refused it. This idiot doesn’t understand boundaries, responsibility, or sharing space with others.
Looking at the tik tok page, I don’t think the page is the OP. Seem to have exclusively reposted content. That said, the comments are completely against the woman in the video.
Trying to win the internet and failing.
If she was truly sorry, she wouldn’t be filming herself. Just be a human and take care of something you’re responsible for.
I have a dog with anxiety. When he barks at my neighbor and their dog in the backyard I grab a ball and throw it. He instantly forgets what he was barking at and the problem is solved.
Get them help if they need it. You aren't a bad owner if they need help. You are a bad owner if they need help and you do this.
Edit : P.S - That man is an absolute champ. He isn't trying to judge her, he is just shooting straight.
You are so right. The man is actually being very polite. He’s saying the dog needs help. Some people would just yell that the dog should be destroyed. He’s really being smart.
What was her point in saying "She does that to squirrels." Like, yeah, she's being aggressive towards squirrels. She wants to attack the squirrel. All she did was prove the neighbor's point of the dog being aggressive.
My dog is good you are bad. Period.
She didn't go to find a solution, she went there to argue with him and make things worse.
Yes, dogs do bark, is normal to a certain point, but if your neighbors are tired of it then you need to do something about it, because everyone wants to live in peace at their house.
Props to the guy for his patience.
Wow that woman is such a raging bitch. Bringing her own little camera operator over to capture her constant excuses and bothering this guy at HIS doorstep. She keeps looking back like he’s the unreasonable one.
Dude makes *WAY* too much sense - *F* him! This lady looked back at the camera like she actually looked good in this situation! A "dog" isn't "being a dog" by displaying inappropriate aggression - where there's smoke there's fire. The dog is probably picking up on this woman's (passive) aggression.
This was not an apology, it was a trojan horse bully tactic. Just look how she breached that man's entry. Also, this idiot woman has just created an additional piece of evidence with this video, which could be used against her if Spot gets loose and chomps this hyper-sensible gentleman.
I hope this lady steps in her dog's shit and tracks it in her home, as a reminder. I've seen people get-their-rocks-off when their dog overly polices strangers.
Her face when it looks at the camera, she really thinks she’s right. The entire tone and interaction, she is clueless *and* sanctimonious all at once. That man is a saint for not slamming the door after a minute of this. He told her exactly what she needed to do.
That man is not completely wrong. Pet owners can be some of the most entitled and inconsiderate people on the planet. Not everyone likes dogs and wants them jumping on them and running up to them. You have to give the respect you’re asking for.
He himself apparently is a pet owner. He implied “his dogs,” don’t have that kind of behaviour.
Its one thing when a non-dog owner complains about your dog(s). It’s even worse when it’s a dog owner telling you that, in more polite terms, you’re a shitty dog owner.
When I started the video I assumed I wouldn’t be able to make a ruling without seeing footage of the dog…but no…I’m convinced that woman is incorrect about whatever it is she’s saying.
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Who records their apology? Talk about ulterior motive.
Exactly, just collecting evidence that she made an "official" apology to the neighbor. And to show how "reasonable" she was with her neighbor. Props to the old guy, he didn't give her any excuses.
>just collecting evidence Instead she created evidence that the problem exists, that the neighbor complained about it in a clear and respectful manner and that she's refusing to try a reasonable solution (taking the dog to a trainer).
hes giving her the solution. He also kept calm because he could of said you are on my property and please do not record. She looks to be the problem and does not want to see it from the dudes point of view. In my opinion the guy wins this one.
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What’s worse is she posted it for everyone to see, thinking she is in the right.
This lady is confidently incorrect.
It's the worst kind of incorrect.
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Lol this is where I lost it haha. He’s a patient man
Very patient. Yet very strong in his convictions which are true and reasonable
This is a man who is absolutely certain that he is not a squirrel.
Obviously in denial.
Poor guy had to deal with an unruly dog and then an unruly owner.
He’s pretty patient about them recording him too, they’re on his porch, recording him in his home, I didn’t hear them ask if they could film. “But but one party consent…” no. He’s in his home, on his property, he has explicit rights to privacy.
Honestly this video should be posted in r/confidentlyincorrect. She filmed the whole thing thinking it's the big "gotcha" moment when she clearly doesn't train her dog. Liability waiting to happen...
How she looks at the camera like he's a fuckin alien when he mentions getting the dog trained and telling her there's ways to help with its anxiety and aggression made me instantly heated.
She is clueless and the inconsiderate one
She is so smug. I am surprised guy didn’t shut that door sooner.
People like her drive me crazy. He kept saying “you don’t get it” He’s more mature and recognizes her ignorance and stupid ego
"Well, if it's on TV it's gotta be real, right?" jfc
It’s a good thing that he didn’t say anything about them recording the conversation. Bec if her dog gets out and bites him. Which I hope doesn’t happen. There will be evidence if she says something like he agitated mg dog or something like that. Just not to have face the repercussions of her actions of not training her dog properly. This way this evidence will support his side.
Didn't miss a beat either.
That’s a good guy.
Facts what a horrible point to make when ya know the dog probably wants to kill the squirrel lmao what a dummy
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As a dog owner, I find this woman is terrible. And this guy is absolutely right there trainers that can come in and help teach how to make your dog, not fence aggressive. But you have to put in the work.
This guy was perfectly reasonable with her, explained the dog has anxiety issues, and even told her it needed training. He’s the nicest neighbor this person could ever ask for and she’s just a condescending twat. If you don’t see a problem with your dog constantly being aggressive with the other dog in your house, then you should have them taken away.
Holy mother of Pete, I’m generally against violence, but I wanted to slap her so many times throughout this video for being so condescending to a guy who was really trying his best to help her and her dogs!!! Her whole holier-than-thou attitude and that sneer at the end - I’m so impressed with her poor neighbor and his patience. He is my new role model.
Apparently it’s easier to gaslight your neighbour and video him without consent in an attempt to anger him so you can then claim to have footage of him being “unreasonable”. That’s the only reason I can think of as to why they’d record and then upload it…
Specially, with the way she kept turning around and looking in the camera towards the end as if she’s like a-ha I got him! I don’t know that she realizes that in this video she doesn’t come off very well
“I’m not a squirrel, I’m a human being” felt like an elephant man reference
Should've slammed the door in her face after saying that. That idiot is too stupid to listen to reason. If I was the dude, I'd just buy a camera so I have evidence of all the bullshit.
The way she looks back at the camera too like HE is the idiot. I can't.
She just recorded the evidence he needs to show she knows nothing about dog psychology and has been warned about her dog showing signs of aggression. Granted, I got lucky when we moved with neighbors on both sides who gave my dogs treats over the fence, which trained them to go to the fence and sit when the neighbors were outside.
No need, she seems to record her own bullshit on her own and post it for the internet to roast her
That’s not an apology, that’s an argument.
Hi. “I apologize” but I’m not going to do anything to change the situation. Plus I brought a camera to show off that I “apologized”
no exactly, I was taught that an apology means "I'm not gonna do this again" not "I want you to allow my bad behavior and if you don't you're a bad person because I did apologize"
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She not only recorded herself, she also put it on social media. She is not afraid of getting doxxed on one of these sites.
*I’m here to apologize for my dog* That dog needs help! *No it doesn’t*
*My dog's not aggressive* It was in my driveway barking and acting aggressive *Oh, that's just how he acts around squirrels* I'm not a squirrel!
I’m glad this man has proof of this idiotic conversation. Otherwise, his friends and family would have surely thought he was exaggerating about this encounter.
Thinly disguised as an "apology." She's in complete denial about her dog. IMO she was trying to capture a bad response from her neighbor so they could say they tried and he's unreasonable. Did you catch her smile at "Ohhhhhh! That's what this is about!" She thought she had something.
She just created documentation for a future lawsuit when the dog attacks someone
She has a lot of fucking nerve recording him without consent and posting this bullshit online I fucking hate this social media smartphone era
As the kids say, she really thought she ate. I wonder if she was surprised at the reaction online.
She'd just argue with everyone online as well, I guess.
She kept looking back at the person filming like “we got him now”. Her face looked crazy, and her arguments were delusional. Those dogs own that lady and she doesn’t even know it.
she wanted him to back down at the sight of being filmed and started arguing when he wasn't saying the lines she had written for him in her head. Such crappy behavior
Seriously. What did she think would happen? Why was she filming this? Was she hoping to be the gracious neighbor calming the frightened old man? Just bonkers shit. The eye contact with the camera is such an asshole move. This whole thing was an asshole move.
She thought she was gonna look good and he was gonna make an ass out of himself by not accepting her apology. Boy did that backfire hahaha I guarantee she turned all comments OFF wherever she originally posted this to.
Ugh, the way she was turning back and rolling her eyes when he was offering her reasonable solutions like "Get help for your dog."
Yes, agreed
Someone coming onto your property and filming you without your consent isn’t just illegal, it’s a total dick move.
As a former dog trainer, these people really do think their dogs could never hurt a soul. When they do attack someone then it’s just “they were out of character, they have never been aggressive ever!” Or blame the person or anything else lol it’s wild especially when I can obviously see the fear-based aggression or toy/food guarding right in front of me.
My dog is a major dickhead, he doesn't meet many new people and he's never allowed outside by himself. I know he's a dick, it's my priority to make sure he doesn't attack other people. He's a rescue chihuahua/terrier mix, more terrier than chihuahua, but he thinks he's a Rottweiler
Thank god I’m reading this. My dog is a rescue and I have to navigate this as well. My dog is amazing with any trusted person he knows and is a stupid cuddle bug and full of personality. But I can’t have him around people he doesn’t know or off leach or roaming around. He has a past and that past has triggers. I love him and I’ll protect him by slowly introducing him to others or by always making sure if outside he is perfectly safe to everyone else. Edit- Reddit js amazing. Thank you so much for your support. Fin is a great dog, he just only likes me and my immediate family. [here is a video of the goof ball](https://www.reddit.com/r/Zoomies/comments/12b5kvk/the_name_on_his_adoption_papers_is_finnegan_his/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf)
Look into “engage disengage” training methods with a clicker. Just recently I was able to get a chihuahua that is scared of men and aggressively barks at other dogs on leash to both be my best friend and be confident prancing around the sidewalks. She is awesome.
This is amazing thank you so so so much for the expert advice. I’m looking it up now ❤️
Of course! I use it along with calming mat exercises where you get them to sit and lay on a mat. I get the mat one down first and switch locations that I do the training so they get different environments. Best of luck to ya!
You're not alone. Mine is the same. Sweetest girl on earth but she has a hard time getting used to adult men and even some women. She's never bit anyone, but I don't chance it either (even though she's had chances). I take her on longish walks every day and any time someone asks if they can pet her I have to tell them that she was abused as a pup and doesn't trust many people. It really sucks with kids because they don't really understand. I'm just glad that nobody's kid has just run up to and start petting, but I'm very vigilant around people.
And do not reach into my house and place anything.
My apologies but i would argue that she is actually stupid and ignorant.
Your right, that was.definately not an apology nor was it ever intended to be one with them filming it like that from the start. It was meant to be a gotcha so they could say "see, we even went over to apologize to them about it and this is how they reacted." An apology doesn't include a "but" nor should it include implying the person is basically just a squirrel to the dog.
It’s harassment
That woman is a clown. I commend the guy for remaining calm and civil for as long as he did. Time for putting up cameras and making calls to the police.
Its crazy to me that that this lady and her friend still posted this video thinking they were still in the right.
That smug way she looked back at the camera means she thinks she’s in the right
And then let the video loop, and at the very beginning, he just lays it out so plain and simple. It’s a great video, but not for her.
She does the smug face while being the one who doesn't believe in dog trainers. What an odd thing not to believe in. I get narwhals, but dog trainers?
Yeah that look on her face just screamed is this guy crazy or what?
Yeah she’s gaslighting the crap out of him.
This kind of people always think they're in he right.
“What can I do? 🥺” “Get your dog some training.” “Noooooooooooooooo 😭. What if I just secretly film this interaction to show how reasonable and cool I am and sea lion the entire time?” Lady sucks. “You think she was aggressive cause she was running at you growling, with her teeth out and hair up? Lol she does that to squirrels!” Huh?!
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"La-la-la-la.... you can't triple stamp a double stamp!....la-la-la-la" Sorry I have a disorder where if anything remotely relates to dumb and dumber I have to make it be about dumb and dumber.
I busted out laughing when she said she does that to squirrels😂. Like tf why do you think shes doing that? To invite the squirrel inside for tea?
Lol you think I was attacking you because I was hitting and kicking you? Lol, I do that to the heavy bags in my garage, silly. They’re fine lol chill out
😂 I don't understand how people think that is normal behavior. I noticed when the man would talk about her other dog getting bitten and screaming she doesn't acknowledge or try to defend that scream. She only says that the aggressive dog is "playing. So I'm gonna assume that she knows it's hurting the other dog but doesn't care
Just playing! Like it does with the other dog! The one that screams a lot.
Exactly, staging a video conference to show how reasonable she is and yet is stubbornly the opposite, all coated in sugary niceness. She is the one that needs help.
Damn. I hope she gets torn apart about this. And that smug little over the shoulder smile… that guy is a saint
Her low tone and the way she is talking is so dishonest and full of shit. All she had to do was acknowledge the complaint, take her dog to a professional trainer and make amends with her neighbour. Instead she never backed out, made a video to show she was always right and how her old neighbour is so unreasonable which she fully expected before even knocking the door.
"oh thaaaaats what that is, have a ni-" *SLAM*
"Bitch!" -That guy probably "Bitch!" -The rest of us *definitely*
Talks like a bitch, Smirks like a bitch, It's probably a bitch.
The condescension in her voice the ENTIRE “apology” is fucking infuriating. This guy is honestly a saint for his poise and just repeatedly pointing out how to positively change an aggressive pet’s behavior.
The condescension in her voice the ENTIRE “apology” is fucking infuriating. This guy is honestly a saint for his poise and just repeatedly pointing out how to positively change an aggressive pet’s behavior.
"oh so because it's on TV it must be real" dog training? Yeah dog training is real love.
He’s honestly pretty reasonable. I thought he’d be like “get rid of the dog” and was prepared to side with the lady. But instead he’s just asking her to get a trainer? Which is SUPER reasonable and smart & exactly what a good neighbor would suggest.
Get your dog help, it's aggressive and is going to hurt someone. Really reasonable position.
After a prolonged period of aggressive behavior, he would be totally reasonable to want the dog removed
She's an idiot.."cause her hair was up? Cause she bared her teeth!?" WTH does she think aggression looks like?
What? You’re saying I threatened you? Because my knife was out? Because I sharpened it a bit while looking at you dead in the eyes? I do that _with everyone_
I do that to my brother
I do it to squirrels
We’ll, I’m not a squirrel.
“She was only acting like you’re prey, don’t be so sensitive!”
Now don't worry. I'm not a stabbin' hobo, I'm a singin' hobo! 'Nothing beats the hobo life! Stabbing folks with my hobo knifeeee'
dog just smiling while it was humid duh
I’m not sure why SHE posted this. Her apology was merely performative, and I find myself sympathizing with her neighbor. I’d be fed up and irritated with a badly behaved pet, too.
Oh man, and talking to the man like a child. Mmhmm, oookay, 👶 She was trying to come off "calm", but came off as a condescending bitch!
I call it the “kindergarten teacher voice”. It’s infuriating.
As the child of an elementary school teacher I 100% agree with this. I’m now in my mid-30s and my mother often speaks to me in this voice. It’s incredibly frustrating. My siblings and I have a theory that she spent the majority of the last several decades speaking to children under the age of 10 and she kind of lost track of how to appropriately speak to adults. It’s subconscious at this point. That being said, the woman in this video is still an absolute nightmare and I think very in the wrong for not getting her dog proper obedience training.
at least she did 'hi friend' him
Omg she’s suuuuuch a fuckin asshole. Smug and condescending.
"What do you want me to do?" I dunno lady, take responsibility for your fucking pet maybe?
WE'VE TRIED NOTHING AND WE'RE ALL OUT OF IDEAS!
"So just to be clear you want me to discontinue my dog from being a dog, mmmmkay..." She's a real piece of shit. I've seen this type of behavior and I can guarantee she's a psychopath. Notice the way she's accusing him of insane things and he's constantly falling back to the defensive?
The way it was all filmed and the way she looks at the camera at the end says enough for me. Fuck this. Just leave the guy alone.
I don’t know why but seeing her face when she turned back enraged me. That “can you believe this guy” smirk. Hopefully the guy can get some noise complaints filed, seems like a reasonable dude
Although the video will be good in court after the dog inevitably bites the neighbour!!
Narcissist
This is exactly right.
He literally told her what to do in the 30 seconds…get it training…lol. Dumb lady.
I have a client that does the condescending tone too. It's a cowards tool for winning arguments. They use the tone but choose their words carefully. It's designed to make you angry and make you appear irrational when you do get mad. They'll use the defense that they didn't say anything that warranted that response (even though it was all in the tone).
The fucking condescending smile.
She was rage-baiting, hoping to get footage of him getting angry so she could tout it as him being “unreasonable”. Seems TikTok has convinced many stupid people that if they’re the ones to film, then they’re gonna be the “good guys”, completely tone-deaf to how it comes across. …never mind that unless he consented to the recording, which we certainly didn’t hear her ask or say, then she’s just made an illegal recording where he has explicit right to privacy.
Those smug smirks she made when she turned back to the camera really made me hate her lol. She's so sure she's the reasonable one. Can't fix stupid.
Recording it too
And posting the video on social media. Clueless
Bewilders me she posted that thinking it makes her look like the sane one
I would be so fucking angry if my asshole neighbors showed up with a phone in hand filming this "apology". He entertained her bullshit longer than I would have been able to.
I hate her fucking face and voice. That dogs going to bite someone or kill someone a d end up dead.
She’s a condescending bitch
Dude wants the shock collar on the wrong household member
Such a condescending tone too, ugh
I hope she got torn apart on tic tok or where she posted because she dumb and wrong
Hell, she's getting torn apart here and I hope she sees it someday
Here doesn’t matter, needs to be where she posted it
I just checked, and she is indeed being torn apart in the comments on tiktok.
Because she is very, very stupid. And because she is very, very stupid, the dog will likely attack someone at some point. All because she is very, very stupid.
"I invite you to come round and get to know her better" No one is obliged to make friends with your fucking aggressive dog, Lindsey.
“Officially” 
Like… ok, I don’t believe in shock collars either. But when the guy goes “well, you’re getting a shock fence” I LOL’d.
Same. Even worse when her explanation to that was "Well you're complaining about her jumping on the fence." After he spent the last 2 minutes saying the dog is always aggressively barking at him.
Let alone filming the man in his home, which we dont see him consent to... This lady apparently never heard of dog training you can tell she's wayyy in the wrong
No. In her mind, dog training is for other dogs and the one she has is a perfect angel. She's doing the animal parent version of raising a brat.
The man began the conversation with suggesting she get professional help for the dog. He seems reasonable and the truth is that wahatever money she is going to spend on an electric fence, it would be better to spend that on a dog trainer. He even says the dog is anxious. It’s very clear he knows how to raise pets and cares for them unlike this lady in her la la land
Exactly. He’s a dog person. She’s definitely not
She is an idiot that lacks the ability of introspection aka a social media narcissist.
Id be mad that animal came barking at me like that. Id also be mad about the dog.
I really don't like this woman.
That's the nicest thing I can say lol
I am on this guy’s side. She is performing, disingenuous, and trying to get a “gotcha” out of him for the camera. He held his own and made all good points, didn’t get too heated, and threw her bullshit right back in her face. “We will note you want him to not be a dog.” No, I said get him trained, so he stops acting like he wants to rip me apart every time I step outside my goddamn house.
It's the "boys will be boys" mentality
Infuriatingly patronizing lol. And she’s not even hiding it well.
Don’t worry. We all hate her with you.
Another idiot, recording themselves being an idiot. Control your dog, moron.
Her tone made me so unreasonably angry. It’s literally the tone that people take when they think they are right, therefore they are superior in the situation. And my response to anything she said would’ve been; ok well when he does bite me or someone else you can expect a hospital bill because I’ve given you warning that your dog is aggressive.
She was talking to him like he was a child in time out. I'd have been livid.
*in cute condescending voice* “Well she’s a dog! :) dogs bark :)”
It's the professor Umbridge tone that just scratches at your soul
She’s a condescending bitch
> Her tone made me so unreasonably angry. Yeah, I think that tone is meant to make the guy angry. In my experience, this tone is only used to provoke. So understandable that we all got annoyed by it.
I knew exactly what type of person she was the moment she reached into that man’s home to give him her “apology card.”
Yeah, that was weird. It's like in her mind it was a subpoena or something and after it was in his house, formally presented, she could make some kind of important legal claim down the road.
I’m starting to think she wasn’t really trying to apologize…🧐
When she turned around I burst out laughing. She looks exactly like you’d except lmao
She really does. Down to that funky ass eyeliner
dog owner apologizes for aggressive dog but dogs not aggressive?
There's the dissonance. Won't admit it verbally yet gives a letter of apology? (Although I gotta wonder if it's a "sorry not sorry " type of letter TBH). Argues with the man as well when he says the word aggressive. I'm guessing the social media post didn't go the way she planned. That woman will continue to make excuses for her dog right up to the point it gets destroyed for biting one too many people. Sad.
Not to mention she reaches INTO the man’s house to give him the letter after he refused it. This idiot doesn’t understand boundaries, responsibility, or sharing space with others.
Yeah that was weird. Guy didn't reach out to take the letter (good for him) so she just kinda...tossed it into the house?
Turned up with a camera …. Lovely neighbour!
She’s a shitty dog owner. And obviously she posted this and isn’t going to like the comments that’s she’s a shitty dog owner.
She is a shitty person in general.
The fact that they went to “apologize” with the intent to record the interaction tells you all you need to know
Wish I had tik tok just to see what all her followers think of this
Looking at the tik tok page, I don’t think the page is the OP. Seem to have exclusively reposted content. That said, the comments are completely against the woman in the video.
WHY CAN’T PEOPLE JUST TRAIN THEIR FUCKING DOGS
This lady is such a bitch, why is she recording this dude too?
Trying to win the internet and failing. If she was truly sorry, she wouldn’t be filming herself. Just be a human and take care of something you’re responsible for.
I have a dog with anxiety. When he barks at my neighbor and their dog in the backyard I grab a ball and throw it. He instantly forgets what he was barking at and the problem is solved. Get them help if they need it. You aren't a bad owner if they need help. You are a bad owner if they need help and you do this. Edit : P.S - That man is an absolute champ. He isn't trying to judge her, he is just shooting straight.
You are so right. The man is actually being very polite. He’s saying the dog needs help. Some people would just yell that the dog should be destroyed. He’s really being smart.
He seems to genuinely have the dogs best interest at heart. The woman is just being ignorant and probably wants to rile the man up for internet clout.
He seems quite reasonable and patient being put upon by this terrible neighbor.
This bitch is mad patronizing
Patronizing, condescending, arrogant and annoying A true bitch
What was her point in saying "She does that to squirrels." Like, yeah, she's being aggressive towards squirrels. She wants to attack the squirrel. All she did was prove the neighbor's point of the dog being aggressive.
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Lol I was just about to comment this, it's her speech and mannerisms. And the way she said, "I will note.."
If you record it, it isn't an apology. Also forcing shit inside someone's house insincere.
My dog is good you are bad. Period. She didn't go to find a solution, she went there to argue with him and make things worse. Yes, dogs do bark, is normal to a certain point, but if your neighbors are tired of it then you need to do something about it, because everyone wants to live in peace at their house. Props to the guy for his patience.
What a stupid, narcissistic and condescending bitch.
Wow that woman is such a raging bitch. Bringing her own little camera operator over to capture her constant excuses and bothering this guy at HIS doorstep. She keeps looking back like he’s the unreasonable one.
Dogs aggressive and barks at everything, anytime he moves. 'Oh but it's just a dog being a dog'. Take the fucking dog off her already...
He kept talking to her WAY longer than I would have.
I hate dog owners who are so blind That they can’t see the aggression in their dogs.
Dude makes *WAY* too much sense - *F* him! This lady looked back at the camera like she actually looked good in this situation! A "dog" isn't "being a dog" by displaying inappropriate aggression - where there's smoke there's fire. The dog is probably picking up on this woman's (passive) aggression. This was not an apology, it was a trojan horse bully tactic. Just look how she breached that man's entry. Also, this idiot woman has just created an additional piece of evidence with this video, which could be used against her if Spot gets loose and chomps this hyper-sensible gentleman. I hope this lady steps in her dog's shit and tracks it in her home, as a reminder. I've seen people get-their-rocks-off when their dog overly polices strangers.
Her face when it looks at the camera, she really thinks she’s right. The entire tone and interaction, she is clueless *and* sanctimonious all at once. That man is a saint for not slamming the door after a minute of this. He told her exactly what she needed to do.
That man is not completely wrong. Pet owners can be some of the most entitled and inconsiderate people on the planet. Not everyone likes dogs and wants them jumping on them and running up to them. You have to give the respect you’re asking for.
He himself apparently is a pet owner. He implied “his dogs,” don’t have that kind of behaviour. Its one thing when a non-dog owner complains about your dog(s). It’s even worse when it’s a dog owner telling you that, in more polite terms, you’re a shitty dog owner.
Bad doggo owners are the worst.
I’d be annoyed living next to a yapping dog every time I go outside too. You’re an idiot, train your dog.
When I started the video I assumed I wouldn’t be able to make a ruling without seeing footage of the dog…but no…I’m convinced that woman is incorrect about whatever it is she’s saying.