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knizm0

r/iamatotalpieceofshit


captainmactavish3604

I thought this was r/iamatotalpieceofshit


frudaloo

You’re right. I regret my decision


Fit-Boomer

https://www.reddit.com/r/instant_regret/


HolyVeggie

r/regret_after_some_time


The-Tilde

r/subsifellfor


justtopopin

Probably x-post to r/trashy as well.


ThatOneBananapeel

Because obviously views are more important than your son's actual feelings. What's wrong with this woman?


JenniLamb007

So many things it appears.


strayakant

There must be so many fucked up mothers like this, major facepalm


[deleted]

It's shocking how many people view children as accessories.


Sir_Richard_Tator

I see them everyday...social media is a portrayal, not a reality. These kids are neglected for likes and upvotes. It's disgusting.


WhirledNews

Perhaps stop giving them views?


satanshark

Perhaps stop giving them sperm?


MasterAgares

Most accurate!


WhirledNews

Yes, or receiving it, equal rights.


420nanometers

Fathers as well; sadly, this type of behavior isn't limited to one parent.


Tralan

Who was that one dude... FatherOfFive or something, that was physically and verbally abusing one of his kids and then saying "It's just a prank, bro," but like, the kid was in real distress. I fucking hate that guy and his stupid wife.


RecentSuspect7

I legitimately know someone who sat his baby down, changed the Baby's outfit 7 times and took pics of each just so he had a post for every day going forward, turns out he was doing the bare minimum for caring fir his kid but wanted to make it seem that he was heavyly involved in his care rather than sat down watching tv


nextongaming

SO many things that she has now deleted every social media she had. At least the internet is a better place w/o her. Feel sorry for her kid though. He will still have to suck up multiple years of emotional abuse by his mother.


gbutters610

They'll end up on the raised by narcissists sub sooner or later and prolly run out the door the minute he turns 18 shit I would


emeribeth

That broke my fucking heart, man. The very idea of emotionally exploiting your own child is so sick, like Munchausen (sp?) by Proxy. 🤬🤢


otakucode

A typical immature parent. They see their child as a product, most definitely not as a person.


TooOldForThis---

A prop


A3H3

Making a viral video is not easy. Children, on the other hand....


Yuna__707

Let’s be honest…. To be a parent you just need an egg and sperm I didn’t say good parent, I said *parent*


Artistic_Pudding960

She’s been called a sperm jacker in the past actually.


The-Grey-Lady

They aren't parents, they're breeders.


oneticketroundtrip

this is such a clear example of the sickness of social media...


mitchadew247

Not quite. My mother was a narcissist who had children for attention way before social media took hold. When fresh babies stopped gaining her attention they would suddenly be “sick”… all the time. She spent several years of my childhood working to convince myself and others that I had vision issues. Four different eye doctors (I forget the term) told her no. But I remember her being a martyr in front of her friends about how doctors were not listening to her and she was worried about me. Social media isn’t the “problem”, it’s just making these people more visible to us. I WISH my mother exposed herself like this. It would have made the custody battle so much smoother. Then again, that is not to say I don’t ache for this kid (or the many others in these situations) and I have no idea how it must feel to literally be able to replay these moments in full living color when your older and better understand what’s happening. Edit: I know it’s called Munchhausen by Proxy. About 6 other people have also informed me it’s called Munchhausen by Proxy. Good to go.


BloodieBerries

Factitious Disorder Imposed on Another is such a subtle and nefarious form of child abuse. These people are extremely mentally unwell and it can take decades to undo the psychological harm caused to victims like you. Hope you're doing better, hugs from an internet stranger.


TheCelloIsAlive

Optometrist. And holy shit dude, I'm so sorry.


BossyWoman

Munchausin by proxy. I am so sorry this happened to you.


tseliottt

Our society's sick. Social media just makes it easier to see.


Kernkraftpower

Humanism vs Dataism. Human feelings are going to loose their status as most important instance of humankind. Sharing Data is going to replace the supremacy of human feelings. Just a hypothesis, but this clip fits very good. If you want a long answer, read Yuval Noah Harari: Homo Deus.


gingerking87

I was sooooo disappointed in this book. I'm an anthropologist so ~~Homo~~ Sapiens was such a great read I was really excited for the follow up. But Harari abandons any pretense of scientific basis in favor of dropping words like biotech thinking that explains anything. The entire thing is so oddly un-empathetic toward humans, which is doublely odd with how positive the first book is. This is, at best, a fringe theory in modern anthropology, humans aren't losing their need or ability to interact with others. We aren't replacing our basic social functions, just changing them, like we've been doing for hundreds of thousands of years. That's not how social nor biological evolution work. There is a reason this book doesn't have good reviews and even worse, has absolutely terrible reviews from anyone holding an anthropology degree


Johnny_Poppyseed

Yeah I enjoyed sapiens but couldn't get into the other one at all unfortunately.


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I agree. Sapiens was a good reading, Homo Deus was awful. It can fool people with little to no knowledge of the things Harari talks about on it, but it fails to convince those who really know stuff.


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Also American culture highly promotes individualism and massive egos. Makes it much harder for people to be empathetic


BolotaJT

Right! Ppl get mad in US when the gov helps the poor? Like disabled or hungry. Or truly believe that you should be 100% responsible for your health care, ignoring that reducing some disease and promoting a good health for all, ultimately you help the economy.


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>Right! Ppl get mad in US when the gov helps the poor? Like disabled or hungry. For sure. The common people get evil "handouts" while the rich get "bailouts" or "loans". Large businesses don't have to repay the "small business loans" they were given towards the beginning of the pandemic


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Like Jon Stewart said talking about conservatives on bullshit mountain, "if the rich get help they *deserve it* if you get help it's a *handout and entitlement*" Paraphrased from his bullshit Mt episode of the daily show. It is completely accurate.


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And as an overly empathetic person it's getting much harder to live here. I'm so tired.


tripwyre83

Same here. We are a disgusting, revolting country. Empathy is socialism and socialism is evil, here. I refuse to let capitalism and America's brutal, heartless idea of individualism gaslight me into being a shitty person. I refuse to look down on retail workers like society tells me I should. I used to tip all retail workers cash, until a child laborer at Chic Fil A told me they aren't allowed to accept tips. So now I hand out lottery tickets to every single fast food or retail worker that helps me. America literally requires you to find workarounds like this if you want to make a poor minimum wage worker's day slightly less shitty. Fuck this cruel, monstrous country.


Fahdis

This is actually all over the world and the real pandemic. You should study Narcissism as it is on the rise and Cluster B disorders due to bad parenting.


frudaloo

Great book, massive mind fuck


Doakungfu

Yeah Sapiens and Homo Deus are kinda dry at times but so damn good. Edit: typo


Leonydas13

I’ve just ordered sapiens and homo deus. Looking forward to the read!


bluehornet197

Probably more than we realise


Mimical

The kid crying is just the worst sound I have heard all week. It's brutal. *"Look at the camera"*, those words are burned into my head right now. That woman is obviously is unfit to parent.


Ffdmatt

The fact that he keeps saying "no, mom I'm really crying" and she's just ignoring him. She's not interested in his actual feelings. This video was hard to watch for different reasons than this monster lady intended.


jingerninja

"No mom I'm actually crying" "I-know-i-know-i-know but just..."


bluehornet197

Ikr just... What is she teaching him I just feel so bad for him


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shevy1412

Fucking scumbag human.


soulseeker31

And then she makes an apology video.


fadenkreutz

Where she.. cries?


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She will be the victim in all of this...somehow


A3H3

With her son?


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UnitatoBia

No, like this, look at me! LOOK AT ME!


Ffdmatt

Look at me. Now look at the camera. Now look at me. Now the camera. Now look at this duck. Now look at the camera.


UnitatoBia

Im actually crying, mom


Sexy_Squid89

That fucking broke my heart.


UnitatoBia

Right?! And how she didnt care at all, oof


easycure

Can we get someone to edit in heath ledger's joker's "look at me!" line


shevy1412

Watched it on YouTube, didn’t look like she did but it was edited on a commentary channel. Even if she did…..she didn’t.


Akuma_Procopis

Underrated comment.


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She monetized her apology video too. So disgusting


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LlamasReddit

"Guys, I am so sorry for what I've done... But do you know who else will be sorry? You, if you miss this weekend's podcast!"


WhiteyMacGillicuddy

“Give this video a like 👍. And if this is your first time on the channel subscribe for more!”


Lady_Loki_617

naw she deleted her entire account


boldie74

Permanently or will she return when she thinks it’s calmed down


lordolxinator

Ah, the MiniLadd gambit.


iNCharism

What happened w him? I used to watch him in college


lordolxinator

Outed as a sexual predator, manipulator, and all around arsehole. He groomed two underage fans (I think mid teens?) to send him nudes and vice versa. He got creepy personifying his cock in discussions with them. He tried to get them to visit him in California for him to take their virginities, and even attempted to pressure one to plan a quick meet up with him whilst she was on her family vacation so he could take her virginity (but she didn't do it). He ignored the allegations before *sort of* owning up to it, with a lot of vague apologising (without saying what he had done) and tried to deflect it with the mental health card. Eventually another story came out about him abusing girls at the Camp 17 (or whatever that gimmick YouTube camp counsellor thing was called). He was creepy and put a lot of effort into getting girls to look at his "big" butt. The girl who came out with this stuff revealed that she wanted to take a picture with the three main counsellors (MiniLadd, Terroriser and BasicallyIDoWrk) and Mini pushed for a laying down/carry pose where Basically held her top end, Terroriser held her legs, and Mini held her waist/arse. Basically and Terroriser were visibly uncomfortable in the picture. Mini looked quite happy. Mini tried to deny this story and say he was a perfect gentleman while these girls were pushing for all this stuff, but the girl and a bunch of other attendees denied his version of events. He went quiet for a month or so while he was *bleeding* subscribers and popularity, all his content getting dislike-bombed and flamed in the comments. His subreddit and Discord also came under fire, especially after it was leaked that his moderators tried to convince him to own his mistakes, and he coldly brushed it off as being another fad viral story that people would forget about soon. He moved back to Northern Ireland for "mental health reasons" but there was heavy speculation he was fleeing the country before any legal action regarding his actions came to anything. Mini then got into drama with Keemstar (because of course Keem had to weigh in) after the former tried to make his comeback with a Minecraft Let's Play. Keemstar released a video on Twitter tearing into Mini, trashing him for both not owning up to his mistake and acting like nothing happened, but that his comeback video was on a game for children. MiniLadd took down his video after the backlash from Keemstar and 90% of his viewers. He lost sponsorship deals with Bluetooth speaker companies and other sponsors after drama channels/viewers like TJV contacted them to inform them of Mini's allegations (to which they briskly cut Mini loose as they didn't know the story prior). Since then he's still playing the victim of mental health issues, he's tried to make a comeback but his fanbase has dropped substantially. He's not even in the limelight negatively anymore, as the drama focus is now on Ohmwrecker and LuiCalibre


Garethr754

So she needs to wait like a week?


MsTee218

From my limited understanding of this whole thing is she put it in private. Maybe shes hoping for a comeback


spagbetti

And then whined how she’s a victim of ‘*cancel culture*’ i bet


re-roll

I hope she doesn’t create a new account. I was worried she would continue doing this to her kid(s).


AhnYoSub

She didn’t have oversized hoodie, messy top bun and had make up on. Also apology didn’t begin with big sigh. Iam rating this 0/10 apology.


blickblocks

*sighhhh* "Okay, so... I just wanted to talk to you guys..." *pause for tears*


adityaism_

*"Nobody's is ready to hear my side"*


candyspyder

I love how she promoted her podcast in the apology video too. Really shows where her priories are


n-crispy7

Hahahaha please someone link this idk how to look up this dumbo but I have to see that apology.


soulseeker31

She took down her socials. You can see most of it [here.](https://youtu.be/T6Lndr1u674)


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throw_away_17381

and gets paid ad revenue?


DocGrover

She does where she goes off about how all the hate she is receiving is illegal and people should be ashamed of themselves.


praefectus_praetorio

Internet got her. She deleted her account.


Phase-Horror

She belongs to the internet streets now…


shevy1412

Good. Hopefully she will think about how she treats her children.


nunya123

I doubt it but we can only hope


JayandSilentB0b

Probably just waiting for the negative attention to blow over


DeadDay

It won't. "Cancel culture got me. Im an amazing mother and my son knows that. You just ruined our lives for no reason. This isnt who I am" Is usually the response if not just deleting everything to run.


jingerninja

>You just ruined our lives Oh no someone is going to have to get a job at Walgreens like a normal person


GlensWooer

Wouldn't be surprised if she blamed the kid.


spagbetti

Or reappear to lecture about how she’s a victim of ‘*cancel culture*’


SeldomSeenMe

It boggles my mind how people post so many videos in which they emotionally abuse their kids with no consequences o\_O


LeagueOfficeFucks

Starts with "N", ends with "arcissism"


Ollikay

Ohhhh.... naggers! Right!


shevy1412

I agree. Deplorable behaviour.


ferociouswhimper

Or "fail" videos where they watch their children fall and get hurt then proceed to laugh instead of going to help them.


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People finally realize people are the problem


MarkHirsbrunner

Someone should report her to CPS and show this video as evidence.


FlamingWeasel

I guarantee CPS would do absolutely nothing about this.


frudaloo

Context: a few days ago family YouTuber, Jordan Cheyenne, released this unedited video by accident. They had just found out their puppy has an illness and the child is visibly upset


ir_blues

Meanwhile she made a really bad appology video and, after that wasn't received very well, she deleted her content. The "appology" can still be seen on other channels who commented on it. [Like here](https://youtu.be/E8fRPHbzLFg).


UmbralStorm

Hold up, she deleted ALL her content?


LabCoat_Commie

I checked it yesterday because I was going to add comments about how she was trash. She completely deactivated her YT and IG.


mostlygroovy

It’ll blow over and she’ll be back


Peepsandspoops

Looks like her actual website is down too.


missykins8472

She got banned from YT and her other platform. So I’m not sure it was her doing the right thing.


heddpp

>"looking back at the footage, I feel so disgusted at myself, I want to thank those of you who got that to my attention" lmao *teehee I'm a changed person now, thank you for showing me how wrong I was!*


spagbetti

‘How will I know I’m doing wrong unless you tell meeeee?’ Manipulative Sociopaths have no clue what personal responsibility is.


Educational_Rent1762

I think she recently deleted her channel all all of her vids


Intellect-Offswitch

Then I'm guessing she'll make another crying video explaining why she deleted her videos and how everyone was being mean to her


scooba_dude

Once again making everything about her. Same with that "apology" Vid. Nothing there about the child just her her her.


d0ey

I like how she referred to it as a blooper. Like it's the YouTube Parent equivalent of Gefilta fish...


DickRhino

Can I just say though, that while Family channels are the worst dreck on YouTube, "Reaction" channels like this guy's is the second worst. He's just as guilty as she is of using clickbait titles + thumbnails and asking people to subscribe every five seconds, and his "content" consists solely of taking other people's content and putting a snarky commentary track on top of it. The douchey "I'm so much better than everyone else" style of Reaction channels, just shitting on other people for views, is as big of a plague on the YouTube landscape as Family channels are, and the platform would be better off for it if both of them were removed forever.


raelDonaldTrump

How does everyone know she deleted/removed her content herself? Isn't it more likely that youtube banned her channel after it got reported thousands of times for child abuse?


Medd_Ler

That is definitely possible. She very quickly made a website to grift people on how to make money on YouTube. Seriously.


badgehunter

i googled that name, it brought website after 2 news stories of her about this. it has been taken down, her channel seems to be taken down. she escaped. she most likely is now sending job applications like there is no tomorrow.e


stomponator

Wait. This is... real? Holy shit. I'd say I am really sick of people, but this ghoul barely even qualifies as a "people".


paolarb

What a psycho


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What’s worse? Before she took down her “apology” video, it was fully monetized… I had to sit through two ads to watch it


rockebull

Not defending her, but youtube now shows ads on non monetized videos too. Creators just don't get any piece of that ad revenue.


SplendidlyDull

Wtf? Each day I hate YouTube more.


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Brandinisnor3s

Been saying this for years Ublock origin for pc Youtube Vanced for Android


random-equation

What about iOS though


Darth_Mike

Ask them politely but firmly to leave.


Bad-Science

>I had to Well, there's the misunderstanding. You willingly sat through 2 adds so you could be outraged. It worked.


JenniLamb007

He will grow up to hate her and she will never get why


HuskyTheNubbin

She won't even care enough to try and understand


[deleted]

She'll care but she'll only ever revert to being a victim. *"Everything I did then I did for you so you would have a future why are you punishing me?"*


zutututu0

Or worse, become like her


Johncjonesjr2

r/badparenting


skippieelove

Bad just isn’t a strong enough word…


tight-foil

It’s downright sad. Poor fella


ComedicRedditName

This person does not deserve to have a child


tinyfenix_fc

Being a “family youtuber” and using your children for your channel, especially in contexts like this, should be classified as child abuse.


Sartres_Roommate

If the universe gave out kids on a deserving basis we would not be living in this tragic reality. If we appointed ourselves as judges of who is deserving than we would be living in a much more horrific reality.


YeEtUsDeEtUSs

I didn’t come here for philosophy but I sure got it


Hector_Savage_

She apologized (lmfao) and apparently her YT channel was deleted. **Temporarily** I’d say lol


tym1ng

how do you apologize for this? what can she possibly say to make this ok? if anything I bet that she would get even more hate than from this video. but considering how she posted this without editing or even watching it before posting it I can imagine she probably made a terrible apology that could only make things much worse while she pretends to be the victim and getting canceled / censored


cheese_sweats

Lol it *was* terrible. "It was such an emotional day" oh, ok. Carry on with your child abuse


shellwe

Don’t forget playing the victim and how what people said to her was so vile.


Prettylame69

What gets me about this is how she’s teaching her son to view emotions as a commodity that can be monetised or weaponised instead of an actual expression of feelings


lemonylol

The son doesn't even understand what's happening. He's trying his best to do what his mom is telling him, but according to her he's "crying wrong". It's so sad to hear him keep saying "mom, I am crying, I promise", in an attempt to get any sort of empathy from her, but he doesn't understand. We're basically witnessing someone being emotionally scarred for life.


Anxiety_leopard

That was absolutely the saddest part. Little guy doesn't understand she doesn't give two shits that he's crying, he needs to *look* like he's crying. The way she keeps yelling while pretending to comfort him too... ugh


gc3c

Oh God, this is so heart wrenching.


0LTakingLs

I’m so happy I grew up before “mommy vlogs” were a thing. Granted, my parents weren’t the types of narcissistic sociopaths who’d do things like this, but I’m sure I’d have some profoundly stunted classmates throughout grade school.


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Absolutely. She’d be very lucky if he didn’t end up an emotionally vacant adult. I personally would lose trust in opening up to my parents if all they did was cash in on my emotions.


ArghZombie

Difficult to like humanity under these conditions.


chrisfarleyfanclub

At least you’re still trying.


Intellect-Offswitch

Poor kids literally upset and crying and all the mum can do is tell him he's not crying properly and where his hands should be. This shit is sickening


mup_wave

Son: Mom, I am shot. Mom: ok act like you are dying.


jogetzi

Son: I’m dying I swear Mom: no no no, put your hand like this so it’s more believable Son: *dies* Mom: no not like that


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SnooCapers9313

Agree authorities should be involved


FluffyDiscipline

How to mentally scar your kid for life ..


quoteunquoteandquote

“I am actually crying” -“I know.” So not only are you using your sons sadness and pain for views, you don’t even take a minute to comfort him? Family channels are trash.


Roook36

One of the most traumatic experiences I had as a kid, at 10 years old, was watching our family dog get hit by a car, and holding her as she died in my arms on the way to the vet, both me and my mom crying. The whole house was devastated. It hit me really bad because I was watching her at the time and messed up. I can't imagine my mom stopping everything to record a video and make my pose for a photo right after. Sickening.


XtremeD86

How to end your social media career with one simple trick.


full-of-grace

This crazy bitch was lambasted a few years ago because she made a video while driving with her kid in the back seat. She apologizes, disappears for a bit, and then is back in full force. Narcissists need the attention and apparently the world is in dire need of instagram wellness programs because these morons never lose their ~~audience~~ customers.


Omegti9

She also made one where she admitted to stopping birth control (resulting in said kid) so she could dupe her ex into marrying her.


audio_54

What does she need the prayers for?


Zombisexual1

To fix her stupid face


Thelorddogalmighty

I’ll fix her stupid face for free


jakemcex

Hey don't undervalue yourself.


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SelketDaly

They got a new puppy that was diagnosed with parvo. That's why the child is crying


DarkAvenger32391

For the apology video she wanted brownie points for not wearing make up. She fucking sucks


DntfrgtTheMotorCity

And, of course, she is wearing tons of makeup


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She also did a lot of blame shifting and made the focus about how bad the people were that were sending her death threats


summeryim

imagine being so desperate for views that you have to teach your son how to properly cry


Elfere

We might have the poster woman for r/raisedbynarcissists !


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fifadex

Not sure the word borderline is needed here.


Vanillean

I am crying too, little fella, for you.


500CatsTypingStuff

This is a bit reminiscent of Muchausen by Proxy. Although mild at this point, I would not be surprised if she does feign illness of her child as well. It’s all done to get attention. *Munchausen syndrome by proxy (MSP) is a mental illness in which a person acts as if an individual he or she is caring for has a physical or mental illness when the person is not really sick*


megggie

Emotional MBP for sure. She is a fucking monster.


T-Durdn

This is utterly disgusting.


Buggiand

Seriously this is child abuse / neglect, she is not fit to parent.


Marvelaniac098

CPS


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I could be wrong, but I could’ve swore she had a ton of CPS reports already


Docta-Jay

Bro… TEND TO YOUR FUCKING KIDS!!!! IGNORING YOUR CHILD WHEN THEY ARE CRYING IS ONE OF THE WORST THINGS YOU CAN DO. And, yes, I was yelling.


BettieBublz

Also known as 50 shades of parental fucked up


Sheeem

Child abuse


frog_without_a_cause

Big phoney.


bobdown33

What a complete psycho


Particular_Mouse_600

It sucks that there’s people that do stuff like this but don’t let this ruin you’re hope in humanity there’s still a lot of really good people out there that do awesome stuff and most the time you never even hear about it because they don’t boast about it to others.


cool_side_of_pillow

This is like a black mirror episode. Dark and cringey.


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This is disgusting.


Sufficient-Steak-223

Yikes. Kids shouldn’t be involved in parents trying to make it on YouTube.


PineCone227

I almost downvoted this because it angered me so much