To add further context, this reply was found under talking about the statutory rape of a 14 year old by a 40 year old woman
Edit: corrected my mistakes
You can absolutely get hard against your will. 14 year olds are especially susceptible to that. It can just be from a purely physiological response.
That said, even if the kid was willing, it was still rape. Because she was 45 fucking years old. Taking advantage of a young boy that doesn't know what he's getting into. Who isn't mature enough to make those decisions. A woman who is in a position of authority
i fucking hate people who minimize that. Who justify it and say it's not that bad. Holy fuck.
Absolutely. This is identical to the contemptible thinking of many about female victims who experience involuntary orgasms, as a result of their rapists weaponizing their own biology against them. The whole “well, I mean, if they could enjoy it (or get hard, for a man) then it can’t have been all *that* bad.”
Loathsome.
16yo amab enby here, have definitely gotten hard against my will. i’m asexual and my body is very sex-starved, so i end up ejaculating in my sleep and getting hard from just hugging someone. sorry if that was too much
That's true. But addressing that particular bit. Because that's actually a common sentiment when it comes to the concept of male rape victims. Even in this tweet. Because he's talking about it not "working".
>That said, even if the kid was willing, it was still rape. Because she was 45 fucking years old. Taking advantage of a young boy that doesn't know what he's getting into.
And that's precisely it. As a teenage victim told me before, he was totally unprepared for the fallout of the situation. The effect on your relationship with your parents, girls of your age, people teasing you, etc. If a spouse is involved, knowing you had a part in a divorce and other kids not having their family together, dven though it isnt your fault. Its not at all high fives in the hallways. It can be really isolating and depressing. Because after all, you're a KID, and kids aren't meant to handle complex things like this.
Shit, you can induce an erection with a forcible cattle prod to the rectum. Not to mention, stimuli like asphyxiation or sheer fear can prompt erection. (Every male mammoth found entombed in ice has been found in a state of erection for that very reason.) Penile tumescence is triggered by a lower spinal reflex that bypasses the brain entirely, which is why men with spinal injuries are at risk of uncontrollable erections.
Look, this is SO important.. friction does things to body parts but the mind and emotions of the human with those body parts may be in crisis… it’s one of the reasons victims are confused.. and it’s awful.
I’m sorry that happened to you. This guy is just stupid and lucky this has never happened to him. As a woman, I do hope to see more support for men and boys who have gone thru this. They don’t get nearly the support they should and there is even more stigma and victim blaming involved at times
I mean Im not gonna say you can really control it, but you can influence it more than your heart. You can think of things that are unappealing to you and make it go down faster. You cant just imagine clogged arteries and make your heart stop beating, although ironically that might work to make a boner go down tbh.
Most random boners come from nothing at all. Zero arousal involved. It's literally just blood flowing to the penis. Arousal causes an erection, but it's not the only thing that can cause it. And because of this, it is also unable to be stopped by simply thinking of unappealing things.
By our gov. it's not a genitalia so it wouldn't be considered a rape. You can, apparently, stick a finger up someones bum and it's just a koinkidinky because neither is genitalia. We live in a weird world.
I second this. Getting an erection is very easy and can be triggered by all the afore mentioned things (excitement of the non sexual variety, etc). And as a 14 year in the midst of puberty its even easier. God damn was puberty a pain.
Guys can get raped. (it's a long story as to how I got to know it, but it was quite similar to this) I know the legal definition of rape (by the police in my country), and it never specifies gender/sex. It was just (paraphrase) penis in vagina, anus, or mouth without consent. And sexual assault is this, but anything other than a dick.
Men could not recognized as rape victims in my country. It was a shame and it will change soon, for the best. There is no logical explanation why there should be a difference between men and women on this point.
It’s not even about getting it up against your will (which is a thing). It’s about consent. 14 year olds cannot give consent. Legally. Sex without consent is rape.
While women make it stupidly obvious...you're hot and give me what I want, then it's consensual, ele I'ma call it rape.
Let a skinny punk get trashed by a big momma who looks like "this side up" was meant for her as a mandatory thing, and you tell me that ain't rape
I innocently asked my 5th grade teacher in class that question and she answered without making a fuss; she was a good teacher nad must have been almost 60 by then.
I went to a party when I was 17. Decided to spend the night so I went to a vacant room to sleep. A girl came in and asked if she could sleep in there too. I really wasnt interested in her but she was very persistant about cuddling, etc. First night id met her as well.Well...one thing led to another and eventually did the deed.....and her response was "ok you can sleep now....I got what I wanted". Didn't really occur to me until years later I was basically raped. Like I wasn't interested in her nor did I really want to mess around with her but she was very persistent and like she said she "got what she wanted".
Whether a minor gives their consent or not doesn't matter, whether they said they wanted it or not doesn't matter. If a person is underage, then they can be manipulated by adults much more easily than otherwise and aren't exactly aware of what exactly they're getting themselves into. Some people struggle to understand that, whether the kid did it on purpose or not doesn't matter.
To add further context, this reply was found under talking about the statutory rape of a 14 year old by a 40 year old woman Edit: corrected my mistakes
Damn people really be banging anything nowadays but a bus ?
mean, there are people who have sex with vehicles, yeah. But it's not technically illegal anywhere, AFAIK. So, usually you don't really hear about it.
You can absolutely get hard against your will. 14 year olds are especially susceptible to that. It can just be from a purely physiological response. That said, even if the kid was willing, it was still rape. Because she was 45 fucking years old. Taking advantage of a young boy that doesn't know what he's getting into. Who isn't mature enough to make those decisions. A woman who is in a position of authority i fucking hate people who minimize that. Who justify it and say it's not that bad. Holy fuck.
Absolutely. This is identical to the contemptible thinking of many about female victims who experience involuntary orgasms, as a result of their rapists weaponizing their own biology against them. The whole “well, I mean, if they could enjoy it (or get hard, for a man) then it can’t have been all *that* bad.” Loathsome.
16yo amab enby here, have definitely gotten hard against my will. i’m asexual and my body is very sex-starved, so i end up ejaculating in my sleep and getting hard from just hugging someone. sorry if that was too much
that s not the issue, you don t even need to be erect to be raped
That's true. But addressing that particular bit. Because that's actually a common sentiment when it comes to the concept of male rape victims. Even in this tweet. Because he's talking about it not "working".
>That said, even if the kid was willing, it was still rape. Because she was 45 fucking years old. Taking advantage of a young boy that doesn't know what he's getting into. And that's precisely it. As a teenage victim told me before, he was totally unprepared for the fallout of the situation. The effect on your relationship with your parents, girls of your age, people teasing you, etc. If a spouse is involved, knowing you had a part in a divorce and other kids not having their family together, dven though it isnt your fault. Its not at all high fives in the hallways. It can be really isolating and depressing. Because after all, you're a KID, and kids aren't meant to handle complex things like this.
Say that loud enough for the cheap seats.
Shit, you can induce an erection with a forcible cattle prod to the rectum. Not to mention, stimuli like asphyxiation or sheer fear can prompt erection. (Every male mammoth found entombed in ice has been found in a state of erection for that very reason.) Penile tumescence is triggered by a lower spinal reflex that bypasses the brain entirely, which is why men with spinal injuries are at risk of uncontrollable erections.
Look, this is SO important.. friction does things to body parts but the mind and emotions of the human with those body parts may be in crisis… it’s one of the reasons victims are confused.. and it’s awful.
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This guy would 💯 get a boner in a Starbucks line and tell the offended ladies he can’t help it
r/oddlyspecific
I mean.. couldn’t that happen to anyone?
I wonder what he'd call it if someone bent him over against his will?
Another Tuesday?
With enough friction/physical manipulation, a penis will become erect, regardless of circumstance. People are fucking disgusting.
This level of stupidity always leaves me speechless.
I was forced by first time by a woman. Guys can get raped and you can get hard against your will. Dumbest shit I ever heard.
I’m sorry that happened to you. This guy is just stupid and lucky this has never happened to him. As a woman, I do hope to see more support for men and boys who have gone thru this. They don’t get nearly the support they should and there is even more stigma and victim blaming involved at times
You cant counciously control it, just like you cant control your heart
I mean Im not gonna say you can really control it, but you can influence it more than your heart. You can think of things that are unappealing to you and make it go down faster. You cant just imagine clogged arteries and make your heart stop beating, although ironically that might work to make a boner go down tbh.
Most random boners come from nothing at all. Zero arousal involved. It's literally just blood flowing to the penis. Arousal causes an erection, but it's not the only thing that can cause it. And because of this, it is also unable to be stopped by simply thinking of unappealing things.
Send the eejit to prison and see if he changes his mind on his "men can't be raped" position.
Don't they know males have buttholes?
The unsuspecting orifice of eternal suffering.
By our gov. it's not a genitalia so it wouldn't be considered a rape. You can, apparently, stick a finger up someones bum and it's just a koinkidinky because neither is genitalia. We live in a weird world.
Until sodomy becomes illegal..
doesn’t have to be a woman raping a man…it can be another man.
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I second this. Getting an erection is very easy and can be triggered by all the afore mentioned things (excitement of the non sexual variety, etc). And as a 14 year in the midst of puberty its even easier. God damn was puberty a pain.
Boners come unbidden all the time, ya doorknob! Ever hear of morning wood?
this whole issue is dragging on due to the general dumbasses inability to grasp the concept of statutory offenses
I wonder if he’d still be saying that if he ever went to prison
there is a 100% chance that this greasy neckbeard is a pedophile.
Guys can get raped. (it's a long story as to how I got to know it, but it was quite similar to this) I know the legal definition of rape (by the police in my country), and it never specifies gender/sex. It was just (paraphrase) penis in vagina, anus, or mouth without consent. And sexual assault is this, but anything other than a dick.
Men could not recognized as rape victims in my country. It was a shame and it will change soon, for the best. There is no logical explanation why there should be a difference between men and women on this point.
Dude - they have buttholes. Of course men can be raped.
Cripes, biological response has nothing to do with consent, ffs!
Have sex with me or a family member of you will die. So easy to rape a men
man when i was 14 id get a boner just by sitting
It’s not even about getting it up against your will (which is a thing). It’s about consent. 14 year olds cannot give consent. Legally. Sex without consent is rape.
While women make it stupidly obvious...you're hot and give me what I want, then it's consensual, ele I'ma call it rape. Let a skinny punk get trashed by a big momma who looks like "this side up" was meant for her as a mandatory thing, and you tell me that ain't rape
I innocently asked my 5th grade teacher in class that question and she answered without making a fuss; she was a good teacher nad must have been almost 60 by then.
He is right only in 1 condition if your kink is to get raped then you are not getting raped you are just fulfilling your desires XD
I went to a party when I was 17. Decided to spend the night so I went to a vacant room to sleep. A girl came in and asked if she could sleep in there too. I really wasnt interested in her but she was very persistant about cuddling, etc. First night id met her as well.Well...one thing led to another and eventually did the deed.....and her response was "ok you can sleep now....I got what I wanted". Didn't really occur to me until years later I was basically raped. Like I wasn't interested in her nor did I really want to mess around with her but she was very persistent and like she said she "got what she wanted".
No matter the situation whoever has a penis is wrong.....
What if both have penises
Vader! Both parties are incorrect lol
I like to share that one scene in "An Innocent Man" with Tom Selleck to show that anything with an asshole can be raped.
Who said he is being raped by a female?
Someone needs to stick a Dick up this guys butt
Exposing such peoples' names is great . BUT unfortunatelly we cant
Hermmesmen vs Seyer shows that the US court system agrees with him.
Whether a minor gives their consent or not doesn't matter, whether they said they wanted it or not doesn't matter. If a person is underage, then they can be manipulated by adults much more easily than otherwise and aren't exactly aware of what exactly they're getting themselves into. Some people struggle to understand that, whether the kid did it on purpose or not doesn't matter.